3 Strangers Discuss Life With Cerebral Palsy | Beneath the Surface | SELF

We asked three strangers with cerebral palsy to open up about their experiences. From mutual fears to shared hopes for the future, these individuals bond as they discuss what it's like to live with CP.
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  • @TheKrashley93
    @TheKrashley935 жыл бұрын

    I'm 25, I have cp, I've been married for 6 years, have 2 little girls, graduated college, & have a job. I had the same fears of being alone forever but anything is possible 😊

  • @nestorprado7839

    @nestorprado7839

    5 жыл бұрын

    Thank you, we have a 3yr old daughter with mild cp and are constantly worried about her future. Thanks for sharing

  • @faithgarcia7638

    @faithgarcia7638

    5 жыл бұрын

    I have CP and yeah, it's a huge fear. Thank you for sharing!

  • @societiessmartidiots

    @societiessmartidiots

    5 жыл бұрын

    I also have CP

  • @christiannavarro3519

    @christiannavarro3519

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ashley Cheyenne does your partner have cp?

  • @brooklyncares4447

    @brooklyncares4447

    4 жыл бұрын

    Ashley Cheyenne why would anyone ask if her partner has CP? My husband doesn’t have any disabilities, is 6 feet tall, very strong and hard working.

  • @tsraikage
    @tsraikage2 жыл бұрын

    this man saying "people think im dumb because i cant speak" shuttered all my stereotypes. ill never look people with severe cp the same way. bless you people

  • @gaelprovan671

    @gaelprovan671

    2 жыл бұрын

    I say to people that I'm like a perfectly good computer in a moderately damaged box. My intelligence is intact even if my body sometimes has a mind of its own!

  • @tirididjdjwieidiw1138

    @tirididjdjwieidiw1138

    Жыл бұрын

    @@gaelprovan671 L

  • @OtoMagaldadze

    @OtoMagaldadze

    8 ай бұрын

    @@gaelprovan671 Bless you! Wish you all the best!

  • @dizzydrake4433
    @dizzydrake44334 жыл бұрын

    I realized that one person has mild cerebral palsy, one has moderate cerebral palsy, and one has severe cerebral palsy.

  • @shadowperson9600

    @shadowperson9600

    3 жыл бұрын

    Can u explain the difference plz

  • @humda9086

    @humda9086

    3 жыл бұрын

    it’s basically the levels of cerebral palsey. Mild is not too severe. It affects the person the least compared to the other levels. It can be assumed that the women in the right has mild because she can speak very well and only needs crutches to move. Moderate is when the disability is more affecting to the body but not as much as severe. The women in the wheelchair most likely has moderate because her speech is slight impaired while she also needs a wheelchair to live. Lastly, the man has severe cerebral palsey because his speech is very impaired and he is very limited in his movement. Severe cerebral palsey affects the person who has it the most compared to moderate and mild. Hope this helps!

  • @moore2115

    @moore2115

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have cerebral palsy it doesn’t affect me I can run walk talk clear

  • @tommysk8r94

    @tommysk8r94

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@moore2115 that means you have super mild cerebral palsey lol

  • @Alisalikescake

    @Alisalikescake

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@humda9086 hey 😊please look into the GMFCS scale i think that will help !

  • @ollietunley7707
    @ollietunley77075 жыл бұрын

    I’m 16 and I have cp. this video means so much to me. It makes me happy to know other people understand. I just got Botox and went through 5 weeks of casting. My casts are not working anymore. For the second time my legs had spasms and I can barley walk right now. I know it will pass but it scares me. My goal is to be able to do sports and guitar. Ik I won’t be as good as people without it but I’m going to prove to them that I can do it.

  • @mermazing1672

    @mermazing1672

    5 жыл бұрын

    NOT SPASMS!!! I had surgery to work on my legs for CP, and I had spasms the first night and I was crying and screaming ITS LEVEL 10 ALRIGHT!!!

  • @ilikeswords5877

    @ilikeswords5877

    5 жыл бұрын

    I also have cp and trying to play the guitar. It's hard, but I will get there. I have seen a guy play guitar who only has one arm and he has inspired me a lot (btw his name is Tony Memmel).

  • @elijahvanorder4256

    @elijahvanorder4256

    5 жыл бұрын

    Ollie Tunley hey man, you can do sports absolutely I fully believe in you and I’m sure your family does as well. I only have mild CP but you’re gonna do great. Even if you’re not the best just try your hardest and you’re gonna be amazing!

  • @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Do you have any daily challenges? If yes, which and how do you overcome them?

  • @nabilion

    @nabilion

    3 жыл бұрын

    When you start playing sports and the guitar please upload some videos! You can do it!

  • @sherrijoshua1613
    @sherrijoshua16135 жыл бұрын

    I have spastic diplegic cerebral palsy. This conversation touched my heart. I understand the fear of loneliness. God bless you 3! ❤️

  • @laurahelgerson6175

    @laurahelgerson6175

    4 жыл бұрын

    So do i

  • @c-rad2419

    @c-rad2419

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have the same type of CP. It's comforting to know I'm not alone in my fears

  • @cpwarriorsam337

    @cpwarriorsam337

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes, i agree

  • @kelviannaepperson3677

    @kelviannaepperson3677

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too

  • @kingbaylister

    @kingbaylister

    3 жыл бұрын

    So do is this is exactly the same for me.

  • @andrewjames5964
    @andrewjames59643 жыл бұрын

    I have very mild cp where I've never had braces or anything but my right foot doesn't have great flexibility people always ask me if I sprained my ankle. I always thought if I talked about my cp it was disrespectful to the others who had more severe cases. Ive recently started watching these videos and I'm blown away by the support. Ive also dealt with the same struggles internally and by others. and I just wanted to let everyone here know that you guys are amazing and strong and you motivate me.

  • @TheWoundedWarrior

    @TheWoundedWarrior

    2 жыл бұрын

    You and me both, I'm so mild I just diagnosed myself at 35! More the fatigue, constant pain, poor co-ordination etc. I'm absolutely certain I am right and went through many issues as a child. I am wheelchair shopping but I look at others with it and it's almost a 'Why can't mine be worse so it could of been detected earlier'.

  • @teddydork

    @teddydork

    2 жыл бұрын

    Well, its not disrespectful. You got community and support. If people said to me that it was disrespectful to talk about my cp, well i guess thatll be the last time id be talking with that person.

  • @basicindiebro

    @basicindiebro

    Жыл бұрын

    I have mild cerebral palsy and everyone tells me no I don’t and then when I injure myself or break things they judge me

  • @minilatinname

    @minilatinname

    Жыл бұрын

    @@TheWoundedWarrior I understand wanting to have a community of support. I just wanted to let you know that while we’re here for support, it’s really not something that can or should be self-diagnosed. There are disorders out there that mimic those of CP but are progressive/ degenerative. I urge you to see a doctor if you are able. I would hate to see and harm come to you because of a self-imposed misdiagnosis.

  • @viciousreasoning504

    @viciousreasoning504

    Жыл бұрын

    Same! Im dealing with mild cp but experiencing severe pain… no one believes me because its so mild though

  • @ashleymartin705
    @ashleymartin7054 жыл бұрын

    Have CP also, though very mildly, it hasn't stopped me achieving what was thought of as impossible, its only made me more determined. Full credit to those three for this video, we should be proud :)

  • @thefray123

    @thefray123

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same! Thanks for sharing! :)

  • @brooklyncares4447
    @brooklyncares44474 жыл бұрын

    I love y’all. I have CP and I have been married almost 10 years and have 4 beautiful healthy children. I totally understand everything you discussed. I have never found anyone willing to hire me bc once they see me walk they assume I’m not intelligent. I think the disability act serves no purpose for us. Also I don’t receive any government assistance. Please believe me when I say love, marriage, kids it’s all possible. I have been so blessed in that area of life

  • @robertrider4526

    @robertrider4526

    3 жыл бұрын

    Agreed, the disability act is there to serve normal people that have become mildly or moderately disabled, not for people that are truly disabled.

  • @colleengibson4934
    @colleengibson49345 жыл бұрын

    I am 52 and have spastic diplegia CP. I am married and have a 13 year old son. Sounds good but it hasn't been easy. I am an identical twin and she died 16 days after birth. So I have always felt alone and different. People are not nice and it doesn't matter how old you get. I find positive people and hang around them to tune out all the negativity as best I can.

  • @rajaealangovan7859

    @rajaealangovan7859

    Жыл бұрын

    Jesus is with you

  • @rajaealangovan7859

    @rajaealangovan7859

    Жыл бұрын

    Jesus is with you

  • @itsyaboimat2393
    @itsyaboimat23933 жыл бұрын

    I'm 26 and have mild left side spastic Cerebral Palsy I grew up being told no about a lot of things especially when it came to military service/ public service, well come age 16 and one of my buddies who was on my local fire department invited me to a monthly meeting and the rest is history I've been a firefighter since then I'm now working on becoming a full time Firefighter/EMT for a city in the state that I live in.

  • @TessLynnW

    @TessLynnW

    2 жыл бұрын

    I completely understand the fight to do what everyone else does. I was right there with you. I turn 52 in June and have to say, be careful how hard you push yourself. Our bodies are different. Our gaits are different. Our skeletal systems are different. Remember to take breaks periodically even if no one else is. Proper energy conservation is important. My body is completely different now at 51 than it was at 21, 31, or 41. Listen to your body more than society. In the future you'll be glad that you did.

  • @NicoleSvenson51
    @NicoleSvenson515 жыл бұрын

    I am 26 and I have Hemiplegic Cerebral Palsy the left side of my body is affected, I was diagnosed at 16 months old. My parents were told that I would not be able to walk, run, ride a bike or play sports (but I am able to do all of those things). When I was younger I did have surgery at Dupont Hospital, followed by years of PT. I am able to walk, but I have a "limp". I have provided doctors wrong and continue to prove them wrong. This video really hits home for me.

  • @mariie2652

    @mariie2652

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here. I can drive. I go to university. Plan on being a PA. Not gonna lie, it gets a little overwhelming when you can wear certain shoes others can or get stared at. But I just keeping and doing thing.

  • @rocaunit

    @rocaunit

    3 жыл бұрын

    at what age did you start walking?

  • @thefray123

    @thefray123

    3 жыл бұрын

    26 here as well. I also have a limp, but have never needed surgery or even crutches. I only needed a brace during my first 4 years or so. My CP affects the right side of my body, but I feel so fortunate to be able to do everything the way I would like to. I’ve always felt a connection with people I see with CP. They have always been so kind to me and I would love to learn more about it. Thanks so much for sharing!!

  • @bridgettmayberry1383

    @bridgettmayberry1383

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@mariie2652 same

  • @bridgettmayberry1383

    @bridgettmayberry1383

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@thefray123 same here

  • @EdelweissM_TheJourney
    @EdelweissM_TheJourney5 жыл бұрын

    I have survived life...still coping with my CP and I am grateful for my father for his love and encouragement! I am a single mom of a wonderful 21-year-old college senior!

  • @gull_s
    @gull_s3 жыл бұрын

    I have an 8 year old niece with (severe) CP and seeing you three gives me hope. I hope my niece will be able to speak one day so she can express herself better

  • @jeff7764

    @jeff7764

    2 жыл бұрын

    I have a nephew with moderate to severe CP who is 13 yrs old and his father passed away last year who he adored dearly. He still doesn’t understand where his dad is. My wife and I take him almost every weekend or every other. Our love for him is unexplainable 🥰

  • @gaelprovan671

    @gaelprovan671

    2 жыл бұрын

    Bless her! Even if your niece cannot speak she can ALREADY communicate. It's just a matter of learning what her communication looks like and means. There are also communication aids aplenty and simplified sign languages like Makaton that the whole family can learn 👍

  • @kewlkarl1
    @kewlkarl16 жыл бұрын

    I have spastic CP too and this is a VERY important topic that we all need to talk more about!!! Because we can all use are brians and work with each other to plan for the future in finding work, love and a family :)

  • @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Do you have any daily challenges? If yes, which and how do you overcome them?

  • @machupichu5201

    @machupichu5201

    Жыл бұрын

    i hope you found friends

  • @bexfillmore4316
    @bexfillmore43163 жыл бұрын

    I also have CP. I’m was diagnosed at 3 and I’m 26 now. I use a walker to get around and also have a scooter and wheelchair for long distances. My favorite motto is. “my ability is greater than my disability.” ❤️

  • @thecarpentershow8507

    @thecarpentershow8507

    3 жыл бұрын

    what kind of scooter?

  • @gaelprovan671

    @gaelprovan671

    2 жыл бұрын

    LOVE that motto!

  • @lunamagic6035
    @lunamagic60353 жыл бұрын

    I'm a mother of a 2 year old with cp and this made me cry 😢 in a good way because these people are amazing!

  • @kocpharlymjones173

    @kocpharlymjones173

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too my daughter was just diagnosed it affects her right side she has a mild case I'm so scared for her but happy she made it

  • @willg8718
    @willg87185 жыл бұрын

    Wow watching this video and reading the comments really lets me know I’m not alone. I have CP as well and growing up in the environment that i live in is very rough and i feel like people won’t understand where I’m coming from.

  • @kelviannaepperson3677

    @kelviannaepperson3677

    3 жыл бұрын

    I have a hard time talking about my pain because people excuse it and sometimes say it cuz I don't do anything I do try but I can't be active the way everyone else is. Dancing is the only thing that I can do that makes me feel normal. They don't know about feeling half paralyzed and like a icicles in the winter. Or how bad I feel when I can't see. They don't know and don't care to effectively listen

  • @chinyererachel

    @chinyererachel

    Жыл бұрын

    🤗

  • @cpwarriorsam337
    @cpwarriorsam3373 жыл бұрын

    My son is a CP warrior with seizure disorder. He is 4 yrs old now. Thanks for the inspiration.

  • @amylouise9853
    @amylouise98535 жыл бұрын

    I don't know anyone with CP but with a grandfather with very severe Parkinson's I have so much compassion for the gentleman feeling that people presume because he can't articulate his thoughts that the thoughts aren't there. This is why we always need to give people time even if it's difficult to communicate.

  • @chinyererachel

    @chinyererachel

    Жыл бұрын

    I am 35 and I have Parkinson's disease and I fully understand.

  • @jeff7764
    @jeff77642 жыл бұрын

    My nephew has pretty severe CP and his father passed away last year. He still doesn’t understand why he can’t see his dad. My wife and I take him a few times a month and our love for him is unexplainable 🥰 he’s the sweetest thing you’d ever meet in this lifetime.

  • @ZacELover10
    @ZacELover106 жыл бұрын

    I Also Have Cerebral Palsy And I Get This In So Many Ways You Don't Even Know. ❤ I Was Told I Wouldnt Walk I Had A Walker Then Crutches And I Went Through Cereal Casting Physical therapy And Leg Braces When I Was Younger & Had Surgery I Still Have Leg Braces I Have A Hard Time Walking & Other Things But I Just Tell Myself I Can Do Anything Maybe Not The Same Way But I Can And So Can All Of You Don't Forget That❤❤

  • @asahems9867

    @asahems9867

    6 жыл бұрын

    I have cerebral palsy and use a walker

  • @ZacELover10

    @ZacELover10

    6 жыл бұрын

    asa hems I Used To. Even With A Walker You Can Do Anything! :)

  • @leatherface7712

    @leatherface7712

    6 жыл бұрын

    Well there ever be a cure

  • @dirtydan179

    @dirtydan179

    5 жыл бұрын

    I was told I would've had to have surgery on my right leg when I was younger, Now I can walk like everyone else!

  • @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Do you have any daily challenges? If yes, which and how do you overcome them?

  • @03Man11
    @03Man114 жыл бұрын

    Wow, the young lady in the middle is such an inspiration. I love her take on life.

  • @adifflifeb4145
    @adifflifeb41455 жыл бұрын

    I too have cerebral palsy & a fear of mine is being alone & not finding love. Hopefully some one will come along.

  • @cialocylia8909

    @cialocylia8909

    3 жыл бұрын

    i'm sure that they will we all deserve to be loved and u are not an exception for that stay strong 💓

  • @kelviannaepperson3677

    @kelviannaepperson3677

    3 жыл бұрын

    Me too and I want to have children but I don't want them to struggle like I do cuz premature babies run in my family but I'm the only one with cp

  • @toastlover8182

    @toastlover8182

    3 жыл бұрын

    Don’t worry you will fine someone!😊❤️

  • @christopherandersson5082

    @christopherandersson5082

    3 жыл бұрын

    People find love despite what they fear

  • @ChrisChesterJr

    @ChrisChesterJr

    Жыл бұрын

    I know what you mean I was premature and have CP. My son was premature and he has problems developmentally in my opinion he is worse off than I am. But my daughter is perfectly normal it is what it is you will love them just the same it's a blessing no matter what so just go for it and try not to think about that too much

  • @synthianovia
    @synthianovia2 жыл бұрын

    I appreciate this conversation. I’m sorry to everyone thats been treated poorly for something you can’t control.

  • @robertrider4526
    @robertrider45264 жыл бұрын

    I have cerebral palsy I can tell you it hasn't been easy, I have my own house, truck, dog and okay financially but doesn't seem to make much difference in the love department . I gotta tell you your fears of loneliness are well founded, I have been alone most of my life and I don't see that changing anytime soon. But in my experience women with cerebral palsy have much easier time finding love than the guys so all is not lost. I wish I had better news.

  • @mercygracedaniels236

    @mercygracedaniels236

    2 жыл бұрын

    Hi Robert Rider. Never lose hope on love. If you don't mind, can I be your friend?

  • @societiessmartidiots
    @societiessmartidiots5 жыл бұрын

    This is my life. I love these three.

  • @Houseofanubissecond
    @Houseofanubissecond6 жыл бұрын

    so proud of their stories, wow, changed my view about many things! sending love to them

  • @xoapril466
    @xoapril4662 жыл бұрын

    So much genuine perspective shared in this brief conversation. I was diagnosed at age 5 with Spastic Diplegia Cerebral Palsy and can definitely relate to some of the topics they discussed. Thank you Self Magazine for giving us a platform 💚

  • @user-vs1uj4os4o
    @user-vs1uj4os4o6 жыл бұрын

    A type of physical condition is able to be overcome by people’s efforts in daily lives and in technology development. However, it is the discriminative mindset shared in mainstream culture set the biggest obstacle for people with different bodies.

  • @gemmal2271

    @gemmal2271

    6 жыл бұрын

    Exactly!

  • @gaelprovan671

    @gaelprovan671

    2 жыл бұрын

    Agree. Ignorance is the greatest disability of all!

  • @angelartamesia2
    @angelartamesia23 жыл бұрын

    I'm 16 and I have mild, moderate? cerebral palsy on my left arm and leg. I'm a candidate of surgery, so I'm preparing for that. I can walk, talk, think, and be a normal teen. I have full intelligence, smarter than some of my classmates and I'm going to AP classes (only thing that holds me back is timed essays lol). We're not delicate and we're not dumb.

  • @SmooviesSpot
    @SmooviesSpot2 жыл бұрын

    Peace, I am 52 years old. I have cerebral palsy. This is an inspirational video. People with disabilities are the most underrepresented people on earth. To see everyone with varying degrees of cerebral palsy interacting is BEAUTIFUL. We are CAPABLE of GREAT THINGS! This video is PROOF of that #FACT!! 🌹👑👑👑❤️👍🏽📌

  • @kyledahlke7443
    @kyledahlke7443 Жыл бұрын

    I am 57. Have diplegic cp. I have a wife 3 beautiful children and 4 grandchildren. I have had 25 surgeries. Told I would never walk. I became a teacher, basketball coach and athletic director. Played 1 year of college baseball. I am blessed.

  • @melissawilliams6635
    @melissawilliams66355 жыл бұрын

    I have very special friends who have cp, few are deaf. I love them very much

  • @ultra4349
    @ultra43492 жыл бұрын

    I'm 30 and have cerebral palsy I still feel I will be alone but Im so glade this video is out here makes me feel like I'm not the only one dealing with this feeling

  • @ChrisChesterJr

    @ChrisChesterJr

    Жыл бұрын

    Don't feel that way I have CP wore braces on both legs most of my life..I'm married with 2 kids..there is someone out there for you just make sure you get out into the world and I promise you will meet them one day soon

  • @hendog24
    @hendog245 жыл бұрын

    Alright story time everyone, I was born only 1lb and 13oz and 3 months premature and had to be put into an incubator and the NICU to keep me breathing and alive while I continued to fully grow, I was in the hospital for 3 months I was hooked up to many machines and wires doctors didn’t know if I would survive as time passed other people in the NICU passed while I was still there improving my survival percentages I had 5 life threatening surgeries each one as critical as the last and due to a brain bleed on the right side I have hemiplegia Cerebral palsy which means my left side is weaker than my right side, at the age of 3 years old I finally took my first steps on my own without any help. Growing up my parents didn’t treat me as special they raised me like any other kid my age, I had many friends growing up and they didn’t care about my disability at all which I’m truly grateful for as I kid I had of dream of playing in the NHL like any other kid who liked Hockey but I couldn’t skate and plus my balance wasn’t great, so since the NHL was out of the question I turned to sled Hockey which is like stand up hockey with a couple modifications but still fast paced and competitive and I truly enjoy it, since I couldn’t play for my high school sports teams in the 7th and 8th grade I was a modified baseball manager which I loved doing then I quit until my senior year were I was the varsity hockey manager and that was the best year of my high school experience and I truly regret not doing it from my freshman to junior year, the hockey team welcomed me with open arms and considered me as part of the team, we won states that year and that was a great feeling now my name will be in the school gym forever, and all season long I was setting up a sled hockey game between my own hockey team and my varsity team, that was the only time I got to suit up in my school colors and play along side my teammates, they all enjoyed it and were excited about it. At my local church I’m in a youth group who helps to do confirmation retreat for 10th graders and I’ve been telling my life story since my junior year of high school and look forward to doing it, on my last day of high school I got up in front of my 250+ classmates who I graduated with and told them my story the response I wasn’t expecting as people were touched by my speech. On my graduation day I was mentioned by my superintendent but I didn’t catch what he was saying because I wasn’t paying attention, now I’m 19 and in my second year of college and still doing my speech in front of 10th graders and I’m possibly going to write a book about my life in the summer, just remember GOD has a plan for me and he also does for everyone else or we wouldn’t be alive

  • @kelviannaepperson3677

    @kelviannaepperson3677

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was born 2lbs also 3 months premature. I waddle growing up everyone would complain about how slow I am and it'd get to me one time when I was in college I tried to walk fast and my achilleses locked up and I was stuck in excruciating pain and I didn't have anyone's number to call I'll never do that again. I have strabismus and I had 6 surgeries and the last one I remember I thought that it would help me see better that's why I got it but it only help a little and it took you voluntary movement. I was scared cuz I used to not see my eyes in the mirror in the morning. I'm 25 now and my glasses broke I've been without them for 7 months and I feel bad when I can't see people's faces. In school I took regular classes gym was my worst subject I was always behind everyone it's weird but sometimes when I ran I couldn't feel my feet on the ground. And my legs shake when I run and I never was able to climb that rope I'd just be holding on but I could get anywhere one teacher I think she gave me a lower grade on purpose. I wouldn't try to run up and throw in dodge ball. In elementary I played tee ball I could only use the tee. I would look at people and wonder why I didn't have calves like them why I couldnt I walk like them. Now I'm older and I feel more pain not that the pain ever went away I just wonder how long I can keep enduring it. I was a student ambassador and I got the perseverance award and that was very fitting I had gone up the Eiffel tower and they let me go at my pace and I had got new shoes that I wore for a whole day and tho I was slower than everyone else I didn't fall behind too much which was something I was worried about before. I have a hard time sleeping with the paralyzing pain at night and cramps in my feet and legs. Its hard to talk to people I supposed to be close to cuz they excuse it saying that it's cuz I don't do anything well I can't be activse the same way others are and dancing is the only thing that I can do that makes me feel normal. They don't ubderstand how constant it is

  • @Lohengrin1850
    @Lohengrin18505 жыл бұрын

    I am in my 20s and have spastic diplegia. Some days are really tough but my friends and my lovely fiancee support me! I loved this video.

  • @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Do you have any daily challenges? If yes, which and how do you overcome them?

  • @smelb84
    @smelb843 жыл бұрын

    The middle speaker has a lot to teach us. Profoundly understanding of others ignorance, that they might need to be taught, they fear what they don't know. You're a gem. Thanks for sharing. I will do better at listening and understanding.

  • @littlebabyhasan5871
    @littlebabyhasan5871 Жыл бұрын

    This brought me to tears because of how amazing and special you all are. Thank you for being the strong and determined people you are!

  • @hblackburn5580
    @hblackburn55803 жыл бұрын

    I'm dating a man who has cp, and I honestly never knew there were different levels of it. I knew there were different types, but having dating him, it's open my eyes to see that there are different severities of it. I honestly thought a lot were either crutches bound or wheelchair bound, and that's obviously not the case. But it does break my heart knowing people who have this fear being alone, as somebody who's on the autistic spectrum, sometimes I feel the same way.

  • @realchelseabear
    @realchelseabear Жыл бұрын

    As someone also living with Cerebral Palsy, I just love this raw conversation. It's so relatable for me and I hope to see more of this. Thank you for sharing

  • @107uptown
    @107uptown4 жыл бұрын

    I thank you three for sharing your stories. Much love to you! Edit: and thank you to the comment section as well for sharing your stories as well!

  • @trudybear
    @trudybear4 жыл бұрын

    Great video! I have cp that effects my right side. Growing up wasn’t always easy, used to go to a lot of doctors appointments and I remember I get teased for being different. I’m almost 30. Idk what to really say I’m so glad I came across this video, its amazing. I’m actually learning a lot by these videos cuz I never knew it was being a talked about..

  • @gemini6682
    @gemini66824 жыл бұрын

    You all are role models and thank you for sharing your stories❤!

  • @gloriashaba3967
    @gloriashaba39673 ай бұрын

    My daughter was diagnosed at 3 months and we took her to rehab and nutrition, she would not gain weight and started sitting at 8 months. She is 2 now 2 my other children are supportive we excersise her every day. She loves kicking at a ball so her brother plays soccer with her. She has her own way of moving around the house and she's also very naughty. We all love her

  • @katrinao6941
    @katrinao69413 жыл бұрын

    You, guys, are amazing! Stay strong and prove the whole world wrong about the perception of people with cerebral palsy!

  • @firehousefilmco.7025
    @firehousefilmco.70253 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for this, I am humbled by their strength. Sending love ❤️

  • @cpstrong6529
    @cpstrong65294 жыл бұрын

    I have CP as well that affects my legs mostly,I have a blended family and blessed beyond belief. I totally get this..I've had many of these same fears.Hope everyone has a great day and as always Be #CPSTRONG!!!

  • @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Do you have any daily challenges? If yes, which and how do you overcome them?

  • @xanhinojosa2904
    @xanhinojosa29042 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this video. People who live with disabilities are so immensely resilient. I've recently made a friend with mild cerebral palsy and I want to understand her better so I'm doing research on this topic :)

  • @trabaduris1
    @trabaduris14 жыл бұрын

    What a fantastic video. 3 beautiful people right there.

  • @faithgermage8583
    @faithgermage85833 жыл бұрын

    You guys are so strong and don't let the trolls break your spirit or attitude ♥️♥️

  • @jp3mcpherson
    @jp3mcpherson2 жыл бұрын

    My niece has CP and I find solace in these videos. Thank you for relieving my concerns. 💥

  • @EVDOsmurf
    @EVDOsmurf2 жыл бұрын

    This is amazing! You three proved to the world that not everything doctors say is definitive and nothing is impossible. Bless you all, and never give up no matter how tough things get in life. We all go through struggles, and just because someone can walk, talk, etc… doesn’t mean their others struggles aren’t hard (mental, psychological, depression, etc…).

  • @anneanne9009

    @anneanne9009

    Жыл бұрын

    In realistic terms though, society is what it is and CP is brain damage and more likely associated with developemental delay etc. The struggle is different. Most people, despite how we think we are, really don't have the patience to listen to somebody who is difficult to understand, Asl any immigrant. It really isn't the same at all.

  • @Baldisbasics-z4x
    @Baldisbasics-z4x3 жыл бұрын

    My six year old has moderate CP. She can walk on her own although she is unable to speak more than one sentence and has seizures (she also had Hydrocephalus). My biggest fear is to not being able to take care of her the rest of her life or dying before knowing she would be ok on her own. I just hope her two brothers will take the lead once mom and I depart this world. I would die a happy man to know she will be ok.

  • @kroel85

    @kroel85

    3 ай бұрын

    Somewhat similar story for the smallest of my three boys. His and our future is what scares me, if only someone could guarantee a silverlining to the story.

  • @pabloamericano4930
    @pabloamericano49303 жыл бұрын

    May God bless all three of these beautiful people❤️

  • @echastee
    @echastee2 жыл бұрын

    I love you guys. Thank you for sharing your perspectives here. You are all amazing. ❤️

  • @patriciamartinez139
    @patriciamartinez1392 жыл бұрын

    I’m 30, I have cp too, I’ve been married for 8 years we have two little boys. I graduated college mayor computer science . Anything is possible never give up

  • @donovanbryant1874
    @donovanbryant18743 жыл бұрын

    I like how finally someone recognizes the cat 3s I struggle to find people around my impairment

  • @lucieriopel1642
    @lucieriopel1642 Жыл бұрын

    These beautiful young people are so courageous and inspiring!

  • @beats5701
    @beats57012 жыл бұрын

    I have cp too! Mine is very minor and pretty invisible except for a harsh ish limp, so seeing someone with pretty invisible cp being represented is rlly cool to me !!

  • @PAUL-uk1le
    @PAUL-uk1le2 жыл бұрын

    Bless you three keep crushing it.

  • @chinyererachel
    @chinyererachel Жыл бұрын

    I have Young onset Parkinson's disease, I'm in my mid 30's and I understand it when you say people look at people with disability as if they are dumb. I also have a 4years old nephew with CP and seeing you 3 speak about CP gives me hope for him.

  • @joshuaherrera1712
    @joshuaherrera17123 жыл бұрын

    My brother Artie has CP, he is 34 years old, and he is an amazing and warm hearted man 👨 ❤

  • @swan1098
    @swan10982 жыл бұрын

    In Middle School I made great friends with a Lady who had CP. I was curious to what was going on and considering I was an outcast in a way I found comfort and ease with people with disabilities. There smart and actually have feelings.I could only wish them the best. It’s been almost 15 years. Since I met her and my feelings have not changed. There’s not enough love for people with disabilities. Once you become friends with then I pull realize there the best. ❤️

  • @beazy7751
    @beazy77512 жыл бұрын

    You guys are real heroes

  • @manoslara9967
    @manoslara99674 жыл бұрын

    I have spastic quadriplegia thank you for sharing your stories it gives people like me hope it keeps me motivated to keep pushing on with the ups and downs of dealing with cerebral palsy Most of my days are awesome I don’t mind people staring at me because people Is Just apprehensive to come up to me to ask what’s my story Loneliness sucks But don’t give up because there is someone out there for everyone

  • @Amber-ee3nf
    @Amber-ee3nf2 жыл бұрын

    I love u guys I also live with cerebral pasly....good luck to everyone God bless u go out there and turn your life into a blessing for him too.

  • @nellynells4272
    @nellynells42723 жыл бұрын

    Ok I just balled my eyes out.. I’m thinking of you 3!

  • @joannejones6003
    @joannejones60036 жыл бұрын

    That was a very informative and heartwarming video

  • @Includingme123
    @Includingme123 Жыл бұрын

    💖 Thank you for sharing!

  • @stayblessed7393
    @stayblessed73935 жыл бұрын

    God bless yous all 😊

  • @BrandonHirsch
    @BrandonHirsch3 жыл бұрын

    I'm 21 and I have cerebral palsy, too. I have mild CP like the girl in the blue. But I don't walk with crutches.

  • @gregorybivens7988
    @gregorybivens79883 жыл бұрын

    I have cp and have limp that effects my whole left side eye left arm,left leg and ankle ,deal with pain every day since birth I'm 53 it's hard to deal with but you can do it

  • @juniorbauelos580
    @juniorbauelos5805 жыл бұрын

    Being Alone iz something I am scared for too because I do my self have cerebral palsy on my right side of my head to feet , Toes . And it does effect me in most ways 🗣🙏 Love this Wish I could speak out also 😭👀

  • @leslieann9943
    @leslieann99435 жыл бұрын

    You all ROCK.

  • @mikerichards6841
    @mikerichards68413 жыл бұрын

    Wow I have cp and was told the same won’t be able to walk or talk but I do it yes it’s challenging I have a speech problem and lisp and I have balance issues as well as depression and anxiety and this made me feel better about myself

  • @BrazilianRoll
    @BrazilianRoll3 жыл бұрын

    Very touching. ❤️

  • @gaelprovan671
    @gaelprovan6712 жыл бұрын

    I have CP and am in my 40s and am very happily married. You can absolutely have your own family if you have CP!

  • @KaylaPearlCPNinja
    @KaylaPearlCPNinja4 жыл бұрын

    I have spastic hemiplegia cerebral palsy on my left side of my body and I’ve also been diagnosed with ADHD, anxiety, and dysthymia. I struggle with social skills and executive functioning skills because of how my brain hemorrhage affects me. I’ve had grown up with social isolation and it’s still a painful struggle for me to this day as I am a college student in my early 20’s.

  • @nevermyboy6298
    @nevermyboy6298 Жыл бұрын

    Girl in the middle is so connected & smart 💯

  • @rollindebbie457
    @rollindebbie4575 жыл бұрын

    So much I can relate

  • @sierrasaleste

    @sierrasaleste

    5 жыл бұрын

    Rollin Debbie same I have cp I was basically born with it.

  • @Bun_Can_Do_It
    @Bun_Can_Do_ItАй бұрын

    I'm 49 and I have athetoid cerebral palsy. I have an adult son, which I raised on my since he was 8. He is busy living his life now and we're not so close anymore. I've only ever had 3 relationships and I am currently single. Because of my mental health struggles, my biggest fear is being and dying alone.

  • @74SNIKT
    @74SNIKT Жыл бұрын

    Even though I do not have CP, I had friends who did. That is why I never judge a book by it's cover. Also, enjoyed the video.

  • @kevinandmelindaberg
    @kevinandmelindaberg7 ай бұрын

    You guys can all get married despite disability. My husband has severe cp with a speech problem and we’ve been married for 21 years and now have 2 adult children. The possibility of having a family is totally possible. We had one child biologically, the other is adopted.

  • @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage
    @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage4 жыл бұрын

    i have CP i’ll be 25 this october i walk independently like normal legs my legs get intense when i see stairs i don’t stutter i talk normally i can do a lot of things i can think sometimes i can’t solve, i want someone to be there with me sometimes i get lonely my mom said i can’t have children my family said i don’t need a boyfriend i want friends that understand my CP but i don’t have friends... i’m still sad about it

  • @urmelauxdemeisfischer3183

    @urmelauxdemeisfischer3183

    3 жыл бұрын

    You can have Children, - why not? Stay strong and be yourself. Best wishes to you.. 😉

  • @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage

    @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@urmelauxdemeisfischer3183 exactly that. i’m not giving my hopes up ☺️

  • @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage

    @SpongeB00b_is_a_savage

    3 жыл бұрын

    @Northstar thanks 😁❤️

  • @zazkoshari4654
    @zazkoshari46542 жыл бұрын

    keep fighting you guys i love you all so much

  • @leslieyoung6518
    @leslieyoung65185 жыл бұрын

    Hellooo everybody let me introduced myself to yall my name is Mr Leslie L Young iam 46 years old n iam disabled n i have celebra palsy n i from tampa bay florida n chicago

  • @chadsmith1348
    @chadsmith13485 жыл бұрын

    Dear God may we all be able to learn from these beautiful people..none of us would pay for these disabled bodies but we should all long for these souls.. we should all long for this wisdom! #GODSPEOPLE

  • @nathanielgleave7069
    @nathanielgleave70694 жыл бұрын

    I have CP as well, great video!

  • @isabellarivera8009
    @isabellarivera80095 жыл бұрын

    Sending love ❤️

  • @sulaykaj7386
    @sulaykaj73862 жыл бұрын

    Definitely gained a new perspective, amazing video

  • @Bas2thesem
    @Bas2thesem3 жыл бұрын

    Life is so unfair. Pray and hoping the next lifetime for these three will be healthy ,happy ,wealthy for them and nothing but joy and pleasure.

  • @verolly31
    @verolly316 жыл бұрын

    Ahhhhww I feel for them!!

  • @alfredbonnabel7022
    @alfredbonnabel70223 жыл бұрын

    THEY ARE MY HEROS. ♥️💙♥️

  • @Swing_soliloquy7
    @Swing_soliloquy73 жыл бұрын

    25 with CP use aids when needed but felt this so hard.

  • @melissaberriosrivera4290
    @melissaberriosrivera42904 жыл бұрын

    I relate a lot with these three people because I have this disability and it's hard dealing with the loneliness that we feel inside. I've been really thinking about making videos telling my story. And try to connect with people that are going through the same struggles. But I have been really shy about starting my own channel.

  • @rachekmcghee165

    @rachekmcghee165

    3 жыл бұрын

    I think it would be a great idea to share your story!

  • @andrewcomments5812
    @andrewcomments58124 жыл бұрын

    Good people!

  • @c-rad2419
    @c-rad24196 жыл бұрын

    I fear always being alone as well. I'm almost 37 and not getting any younger and my brother and friends all have families of there own. Having said that if the if that's the way it has to be that's life I guess

  • @olgachafeeva2828

    @olgachafeeva2828

    5 жыл бұрын

    I've CP too. I only have my mom in this world. when she goes, I don't know what I'm gonna do. But like you said, if that's the way it will be - that's the way it will be.

  • @robertrider4526

    @robertrider4526

    4 жыл бұрын

    Same here, I just turned 40 this year, and everybody has families now, and here I am saying WTF do you want me to do. No one calls or emails I just don't seem to count, and the older you get the worse it gets. But I still try anyways hoping things will turn around.

  • @elgekok560

    @elgekok560

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@olgachafeeva2828 oh my god you're beautiful thought

  • @kelviannaepperson3677
    @kelviannaepperson36776 жыл бұрын

    I think the same I am 23 also with mild cp

  • @krestainwatsonjr.

    @krestainwatsonjr.

    4 жыл бұрын

    im 23 with mild CP as well

  • @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    @mahbubamirzayeva7446

    4 жыл бұрын

    Hi, Do you have any daily challenges? If yes, which and how do you overcome them?

  • @kelviannaepperson3677

    @kelviannaepperson3677

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@mahbubamirzayeva7446 I have pain everyday all the time I always have to be aware of my body because the pain could be in any place.

  • @daniellebarry4593
    @daniellebarry45932 жыл бұрын

    A lot of times when people first meet me, people assume there’s something cognitively wrong with me because cp effected my speech. Im not worried about being alone and lonely later on in life. Since I’m never getting married. I am worried about finances, later on in life though.

  • @glenngarrison5672
    @glenngarrison56722 жыл бұрын

    I have cerebral palsy but I believe that everybody should go ahead live their life. It might be harder for some of us but