3 reasons why you are NOT disciplined in your 20s! + how to fix it before it's too late! *realistic*

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Hi guys, thank you so much for watching. In today's video I share the three main reasons why you find it hard to disciplined especially in your 20s or stay committed to a project/goal. I also share some tips that help me get through my daily tasks and motivate me to keep at it till the end. Hope you enjoy and find this video helpful!
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  • @kamsinnamani
    @kamsinnamani3 жыл бұрын

    Hi guys! Thank you for watching and hope you find these tips helpful

  • @oluwadaraeke5216

    @oluwadaraeke5216

    3 жыл бұрын

    Great video yet again Kamsi, yes they were very helpful

  • @Nay0mii_
    @Nay0mii_3 жыл бұрын

    ‘not every opportunity is a blessing, some opportunities are distractions’ -Kamsi spittin’ 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    🙈🤍🤍

  • @Janederryo

    @Janederryo

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s true naaa

  • @Caleisia
    @Caleisia3 жыл бұрын

    Sitting here trying to force myself to do work and be productive. This must be a sign 🙌🏾

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    So happy to hear that🤍🤍

  • @ebrubaanita

    @ebrubaanita

    3 жыл бұрын

    Same here. This is a big sign.

  • @Miss_Akesi
    @Miss_Akesi3 жыл бұрын

    I hope we are all able to stay disciplined in our 20s to achieve greatness in our lives ❤️😩🙏

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen❣️

  • @ebrubaanita

    @ebrubaanita

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amen

  • @dquiroz1999
    @dquiroz19993 жыл бұрын

    “For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline.” 2 Timothy 1:7

  • @zifeepuechi3593
    @zifeepuechi35933 жыл бұрын

    I totally agree with this first point as to not having a why. When I decided to properly start saving money (got my first job at 17) and waking up early, it was sooooo hard cuz I had no reason to. Even though I had a job my parents still gave me money and I also had no goal to save for until I decided to fund my first car instead of my parents. Immediately, I decided this, I had thousands in my account. And as for waking up early, Immediately I got into uni and was able to select my own schedule, I made all my classes to start from 12noon or later. My school was 10 mins away from my house so I usually woke up by 10 or 11am. Until I then again decided to wake up at least by 9 and when I woke up by 9, I would snooze my alarm cuz I didn't have class till 1pm or 2. Till I started actually doing things like my assignments or go grocery shopping in the morning so I have an actual reason to wake earlier.

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Amazing! Such practical examples🤎

  • @nzeakograce1813

    @nzeakograce1813

    3 жыл бұрын

    You chose your classes? Wow Please which uni did you go to?

  • @zifeepuechi3593

    @zifeepuechi3593

    3 жыл бұрын

    I live in California USA so we get to choose or schedule of classes@@nzeakograce1813

  • @loisfrempong9109
    @loisfrempong91093 жыл бұрын

    Great tips 👍 but I would also like to add that, If you're depressed or going through alot mentally, you may not be able accomplish your goals so seek help/therapy if you have to.🙏🏾❤️❤️

  • @thesugaraunty
    @thesugaraunty3 жыл бұрын

    discipline is so hard,standing up everyday to work when you are sad and going through it is so hard,realized I’m an adult adult this week,I was like I’m going through this life thing but see me getting up to go to work😭😂

  • @sharonreuben5740

    @sharonreuben5740

    3 жыл бұрын

    I was telling my colleagues the other day that on that particular day if I was a kid I would have left bed crying. Its only that I'm an adult and literally nobody but myself can force me out of bed in the morning

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Honestly it’s one of the worst feelings ever whew

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Honestly it’s one of the worst feelings ever whew

  • @wowso4

    @wowso4

    3 жыл бұрын

    So true, but after you go to work and get out of that bed. You feel so proud of yourself! And know your strong and you got this!

  • @JustUchey
    @JustUchey3 жыл бұрын

    I was just complaining as to how indisciplined I'm. This came at the right time

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Glad to hear that❣️

  • @kelechinelson8907
    @kelechinelson89073 жыл бұрын

    I'm becoming addicted to your contents. I'm turning 25 this year and I lost my job due to covid last year. It's been really tough but discipline has helped me. I've been trying to put my energy into little things while actively looking for a job. All the goals I achieve everyday encourage me in these difficult times. Thank you for this. It's perfect timing.

  • @adelineoparah
    @adelineoparah3 жыл бұрын

    This discipline of a thing is a big struggle. I read No excuses by Brian Tracy. That book is a life changer

  • @akhiromegodiva9683

    @akhiromegodiva9683

    3 жыл бұрын

    No lies. The best book ever!!!!!

  • @wowso4

    @wowso4

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks for book recommendation, I will make sure to read it. 😊

  • @adelineoparah

    @adelineoparah

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@wowso4 You're welcome 👍

  • @chimdichime
    @chimdichime3 жыл бұрын

    Why, deadline, want it bad enough, true true true. These are the things I tell myself. I also think avoid distraction, because me for instance, there are some ppl that will say, don't worry you'll get to it, don't stress yourself. I be like " yeah sure" but I still go ahead and work because I have deadlines and a why. If I didn't I would listen to the distractions. I loved this video. Wonderful 👏

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Omg exactly 🤍🤍

  • @adrianal4609
    @adrianal46093 жыл бұрын

    Yes .I’m unemployed student and looking for a job but in this free time I’m literally tryna discipline myself and be organised ! It’s important because I never knew this was a weakness ! I’m setting targets and goals and. I know these skills will be needed when employed ! Discipline urself guys ❤️

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    It will be needed at every point in life tbh💕

  • @amikahs
    @amikahs3 жыл бұрын

    Discipline is necessary for growth. 👏🏾 Great video.

  • @callmezay9898
    @callmezay98982 жыл бұрын

    Reasons -> Solutions 1. You dont have a Why -> Create your Why (your reason for doing it) 2. You have no deadline -> Set a deadline to your Why (a date/a time) 3. You don't want it bad enough -> Do your own research, make the sacrifices, don't be deterred by road blocks and get it done no matter what

  • @kissruanime2304
    @kissruanime23043 жыл бұрын

    Kamsi be dropping dead ass facts as usual 👏👏👏

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks boo❣️

  • @ChisomUtazi
    @ChisomUtazi3 жыл бұрын

    You don't have "Why" omg this is so true!! When there are punishments and consequences discipline flows immediately

  • @LauretOssai
    @LauretOssai3 жыл бұрын

    Marking my attendance here for today 🤗

  • @YemiAyodeji
    @YemiAyodeji3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely! If you have no motivation, you will constantly feel lazy to achieve what you want. I love that, if you want it so bad, you will make room for them to avoid unnecessary distractions. These are the issues I discuss on my channel as well. Great video, 20's is a time for leveling up👏👏😘

  • @BreeNwanze
    @BreeNwanze3 жыл бұрын

    Really quaintly tips Having a deadline is actually good am glad I found out I am actually disciplined atleast here on youtube 🙈😅😅😅😅

  • @Grandykat
    @Grandykat3 жыл бұрын

    Okay sis really came for my NECK with this one! Much needed will definitely be implementing the tips thank you girl! Happy I found your channel xx

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    🥺 You’re welcome 🤎🤍

  • @nazokoli8
    @nazokoli83 жыл бұрын

    Why Deadline for my why And want it bad enough.

  • @fluffy6664
    @fluffy66643 жыл бұрын

    congrats on 24k 🥳💕💕

  • @tunmisedavid9746
    @tunmisedavid97463 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for this❤️

  • @goodie9555
    @goodie95553 жыл бұрын

    Yaaaaay💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽 we love a series🤗🤗

  • @oyindas.1512
    @oyindas.15123 жыл бұрын

    Love that you’re making it into a series 😍

  • @hubemutesi5181
    @hubemutesi51813 жыл бұрын

    Love these tips 🤌🏾🤌🏾

  • @marianmomoh9890
    @marianmomoh98903 жыл бұрын

    I needed this video today

  • @Therealbubuu
    @Therealbubuu3 жыл бұрын

    VERY HELPFUL. THANK YOU.

  • @valsandravlogs
    @valsandravlogs3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much for this video Kamsi

  • @jumokebabatope
    @jumokebabatope3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @ElizasO
    @ElizasO3 жыл бұрын

    So glad I found your channel seriously !!!

  • @I_amFavour
    @I_amFavour3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you kamsi ❤️

  • @IniMc
    @IniMc3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youuuu Kamsi! 🤍 Needed this!

  • @wowso4
    @wowso43 жыл бұрын

    This was a great video, I hope you get more subscribers you deserve it all the best to you darl! 😊😘

  • @sesonanyokana8938
    @sesonanyokana89383 жыл бұрын

    I loved that pep talk at the end, it really helped

  • @NusrahMagaji
    @NusrahMagaji3 жыл бұрын

    Love to see it 🤎🤎🤎

  • @AuthenticSugar
    @AuthenticSugar3 жыл бұрын

    oo this really made me reflect. good stuff!

  • @Eyiitayo
    @Eyiitayo3 жыл бұрын

    Okayyyyyyyyy, the consistency. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ToriaOkezie
    @ToriaOkezie3 жыл бұрын

    Notification gang!! Here for the video♥️🔥🙌🏼

  • @nickydaley345
    @nickydaley3453 жыл бұрын

    This really motivated me, loving your videos! I can see you hitting 100k by the end of the year.

  • @dimitriunfiltered
    @dimitriunfiltered3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this always love your tips♥️🙌🏽

  • @FAYVURE
    @FAYVURE3 жыл бұрын

    This was helpful...kudos!

  • @achiaaowusuansah9053
    @achiaaowusuansah90533 жыл бұрын

    This was very much needed dear

  • @ayobami_ajayi
    @ayobami_ajayi3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for these points Kamsi.

  • @ogechiezeamama703
    @ogechiezeamama703 Жыл бұрын

    Brilliant. Thanks

  • @preciousoluwapelumi7064
    @preciousoluwapelumi70643 жыл бұрын

    Jumped right to KZread when I got the notification 😍❤️

  • @adenekaninioluwa221
    @adenekaninioluwa2213 жыл бұрын

    Watching these videos I'm sure I know certain things I would do in my 20's Thank you so much Kamsi🤎🤎

  • @Elo_oboba
    @Elo_oboba3 жыл бұрын

    It’s the consistency for me ❤️😍 ... Well done🎊

  • @lundimvayo4753
    @lundimvayo47533 жыл бұрын

    You absolutely amazing😍... Thank you so much. 💕

  • @pinktastezobodrinkery2105
    @pinktastezobodrinkery21053 жыл бұрын

    Thanks so much Kamsi,this is so inspiring

  • @teboho8339
    @teboho83392 жыл бұрын

    I had to come back to this!!👏

  • @veeky__
    @veeky__3 жыл бұрын

    Loved this video. Learnt A lot

  • @honourfelix7351
    @honourfelix73513 жыл бұрын

    Just found your channel. Love love love your content.

  • @nimisha3474
    @nimisha34743 жыл бұрын

    Such great tips, needed a little reminder to myself, thank you for this❤️🙏🏽

  • @adaolisamba323
    @adaolisamba3233 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for the tips😊 The third one hit hard... You don't want it bad enough

  • @confidenceezeh
    @confidenceezeh3 жыл бұрын

    I needed to see this for the longest of time been postponing what I need to do with my life and business .

  • @ogooachu
    @ogooachu3 жыл бұрын

    Girl you're going places

  • @LaraGideon
    @LaraGideon3 жыл бұрын

    Your energy makes me soooo happy and thank you for sharing such helpful advice! 🥰💗

  • @phumeowakazulu
    @phumeowakazulu3 жыл бұрын

    Been binge watching your vlogs the whole weekend, I’m obsessed . Love from ❤️🇿🇦

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youu 🥰🙈

  • @abigaledarkwa348
    @abigaledarkwa3483 жыл бұрын

    new subbie! really like you and this video and the level up in your 20s was really really good and helpful .definetley need to make some changes

  • @chiomaawoji9431
    @chiomaawoji94313 жыл бұрын

    Thank you for sharing this. You’re Godsent.

  • @bewithzimye5406
    @bewithzimye54063 жыл бұрын

    I’m really struggling of late, thanks for this video, great timing.. hopefully I will begin to change my ways 😩

  • @banyinagbo6904
    @banyinagbo69043 жыл бұрын

    You’re soo amazing..thank you soo much The value in listening to you is 100

  • @akifahm6624
    @akifahm66243 жыл бұрын

    these are really really good tips that i haven't heard before, thank you so much. also wanted to say, i hope you dont put too much pressure on yourself for views and subscribers. you're doing so so well just being yourself and i already know you're going to be hugely successful sooner than later

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome and I try not to lol🤎

  • @maryokaformedia
    @maryokaformedia Жыл бұрын

    Very very informative 👌 thank you 👍

  • @IMETGODSHEBLACK
    @IMETGODSHEBLACK3 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been trying to do better for myself and my future careers and so this video came just in time! Appreciate the advice, definitely much needed 🤎

  • @roxalanab1365
    @roxalanab13653 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this video !! I just realised that it's actually the discipline I struggle with the most !! Gonna work on that in the future

  • @tseoteri
    @tseoteri3 жыл бұрын

    Just wanted to say that you’re such an inspiration and your videos have helped me out in some areas of my life I didn’t think needed to be helped. So, thank you so much 🥺❤️

  • @munachi...
    @munachi...2 жыл бұрын

    It's your consistency for me😍😍

  • @Janederryo
    @Janederryo3 жыл бұрын

    I love the background babe ...🥺😍 I really need this video.

  • @ladylovebunker6344
    @ladylovebunker63442 жыл бұрын

    I’ve been looking for your channel for a while now. I literally love you, you once gave great advice about overthinking that stuck with me

  • @abbiekalya
    @abbiekalya3 жыл бұрын

    I love this girl!! I here for all of this!!!❤

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youu 🥺🤎

  • @valsandravlogs
    @valsandravlogs3 жыл бұрын

    Congratulations on 24k boo🥳,more to come

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youu and amen 🤍

  • @nenyenwa23
    @nenyenwa233 жыл бұрын

    I be liking these videos in the first one minute❤ Come through with the wisdom Sensei🥰🤎

  • @theemmavianana
    @theemmavianana3 жыл бұрын

    This video was for me. I just like the fact that watching this made me more goal oriented

  • @MissPrisyBaby
    @MissPrisyBaby3 жыл бұрын

    Notification gang. Loving your content Kamsi!!!! I get inspired for my channel💕

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank youu 🤍🤍

  • @thefeyikemiamoo6894
    @thefeyikemiamoo68943 жыл бұрын

    We all need a little tough love every now and then. Really happy I watched this. Now it's time to put all of these tips into action.

  • @OnyinyeXhi
    @OnyinyeXhi3 жыл бұрын

    Great content .You look beautiful .the background is lovely as well

  • @thatfimigirl
    @thatfimigirl3 жыл бұрын

    Some "opportunities" are distractions! Yasssssss... Totally agree👌👌👌

  • @bewithzimye5406
    @bewithzimye54063 жыл бұрын

    More motivational videos pls ? 👀 like once a month

  • @blessingchinedum5072

    @blessingchinedum5072

    3 жыл бұрын

    Yes please 😁

  • @Ogonn.a
    @Ogonn.a3 жыл бұрын

    These steps🙌🏾 It really couldn’t have been said better. Nice one girl✌🏾

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks hun 🤍

  • @TegaSalubi
    @TegaSalubi3 жыл бұрын

    Hey Kamsi! its Tega... met you on Saturday (Metaphor) This was a really really nice video. Your points were amazing! Well Done!

  • @_immaculata
    @_immaculata2 жыл бұрын

    Tough Love. Just what I need. Thank you so much. The 20's series is such a get up and do better series. I so much love it. This video ❤️

  • @gabbyelochi
    @gabbyelochi3 жыл бұрын

    Absolutely love your content! New subscriber here from the US...KEEP IT UP

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youu ❣️

  • @NnekaOlisa
    @NnekaOlisa3 жыл бұрын

    This came at the right time Kamsi Thank you

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome hun ❣️

  • @TomiTomato
    @TomiTomato3 жыл бұрын

    I love how straightforward you are honestly. And I completely agree with everything you said 👌🏾 well done!

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thanks hun 🤎🤎

  • @princessyoryor
    @princessyoryor3 жыл бұрын

    These steps are so practical, loving this 20s series Kamsi! Thank you☺️❤️

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    You’re welcome...happy you love them🤍

  • @madumerekelechi9667
    @madumerekelechi96673 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much for this...this is really helpful..I wish I knew this in my early 20’s

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    It’s never too late 🤎

  • @moyoaina370
    @moyoaina3703 жыл бұрын

    This video spoke to my soul. Currently working on something I never imagined I could ever been involved in. I've started really strong and now that I'm able to complete it, I just see fear making me unwilling and demotivated to carry on and working with gross indiscipline. Thank you sm for sharing this. You're a star!

  • @mariamkanyiti2256
    @mariamkanyiti22562 жыл бұрын

    Great videos good job

  • @eladebidaniella
    @eladebidaniella3 жыл бұрын

    Thank you Kamsi 😘 Love how you’re switching up backgrounds. This view is beautiful ☺️🤎

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you love🤎

  • @juneobrien5016
    @juneobrien50163 жыл бұрын

    Loved this :') Made me be more conscious about my relationship to reality

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww glad to hear this❣️

  • @allthingssemirat5314
    @allthingssemirat53143 жыл бұрын

    Girl you are always speaking the truth! and I love your perspective on these type of topics!! Keep on giving us biko 👏🏾👏🏾🤍

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank youu 🙈🤎

  • @perpetuatom6173
    @perpetuatom61733 жыл бұрын

    Thanks kamsi

  • @_justOnyie
    @_justOnyie3 жыл бұрын

    This video is honestly a prayer answered, I feel like I’ve got the answers to all my worries. Thanks Kamsi ♥️

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Wow so happy to hear that🥺🤍

  • @folamioluwasegun9271
    @folamioluwasegun92713 жыл бұрын

    Can I just say I loveeeee your backdrop ♥️✨✨

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Thank youu 🙈🤍

  • @charityjoytv4718
    @charityjoytv47183 жыл бұрын

    All the tips are really amazing dear am also a new KZreadr I will definitely put this tips in practice. You will definitely grow here on KZread and outside KZread. You will always succeed in everything you do dear. I have been watching your videos for long now but have never commented but am doing it today and also subscribing. Always remain bless dear.

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Aww thank you so much🥺🤎

  • @Themosunmoluwa
    @Themosunmoluwa3 жыл бұрын

    I solely agree to your first reason “ NO WHY” it happens to me so much So I try to be discipline and look forward to do something in the morning or look forward to a particular goal

  • @otiamuzie1182
    @otiamuzie11823 жыл бұрын

    Ooooouuuuuu!!!! I see you sporting the sleek bun girl 💕 Totally hit the points head on; I totally recommend anyone working on their discipline to read “Atomic Habits by James Clear”. It’s a game changer.

  • @kamsinnamani

    @kamsinnamani

    3 жыл бұрын

    Ouu thanks for the plug b💕

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