3 Reasons Why God May Be Keeping You Single

Desiring to have a Godly marriage is a blessing. And yet when we find ourselves in the season of singleness for longer than we desire, we can start to question God and his plans for our lives. Enjoy this convo that will hopefully bring some biblical perspective.
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  • @ashantiksmithtv
    @ashantiksmithtv

    Amen! The part where you said “God you’re enough for me!” Like truly that’s confirmation for me!! & that’s the sole reason I believe I’m still single because that’s where God is trying to get me to!

  • @fixer1140
    @fixer1140

    If singleness is God's boot camp for me, then He wants me to be a Navy Seal. I have struggled with this for so long that I came to the point where I simply gave up, women look at me like a clown with leper. The difficult part is when family and friends start asking me how come I'm alone, I have to fake a smile and say "who knows?", but deep down it's like rubbing salt and ghost pepper to the wound 😔

  • @MateMilinkovic-yy3zm
    @MateMilinkovic-yy3zm

    I have no idea where I stand with God. I asked Jesus to save me and give me his holy spirit when I was young not sure the age. I was baptized immersion as a teen . I had a desire not to sin against him anymore but found it really hard and got discouraged and so I gave up and started habitually sinning with porn. The bible says those who habitually sin have never seen him or known him so I guess I was not saved when I asked God to save me many times in my life previously. If he did not save me when I asked him to earlier on in my life when I really meant it than I find it hard to trust him now. Thought he said whoever believes and calls upon his name will be saved. I am a wreck as I think of predestination and now assume I am not chosen afterall only a few are chosen. Please pray for me if you feel led.

  • @user-pl2xv3qn3t
    @user-pl2xv3qn3t

    I've heard single isn't the worst. I heard being married to the wrong person is far worse. Many of the worlds greatest people lived extraordinary lives single.

  • @Lavi_407
    @Lavi_407

    Not everyone is meant to be married…and that’s okay😊Don’t be lonely though. Get involved in your community (or move lol) and create a tribe that will make sure you’re loved and cared for🙏🏽❤

  • @selohcin
    @selohcin

    Nick is a young man, so I can forgive his ignorance, but let's be honest with ourselves: The reason the US divorce rate is so high is because of no-fault divorce laws and biased family courts. The divorce rate wouldn't be half as high as it is if we had fair laws and unbiased courts.

  • @JaketheJust
    @JaketheJust

    Whatever it is that women want, I do not have it. I’ve either been rejected, I couldn’t provide the life they wanted and as soon as I showed interest in them when they showed interest in me first, they repelled me like a bug. The closest I ever had achieving having a girlfriend, there was too large of an age gap between us, but thankfully we parted on good terms. It led me to lustful thoughts and actions but I realized I may have been rejected by others, I am never rejected from God. So I fled from lust. I decided to focus on building myself and my faith in God, to be better than who I was. I may not find a wife to share His glory, I would like that, but I will still do what I must to embrace my faith in Jesus. God bless.

  • @user-qo1wq7vt7t
    @user-qo1wq7vt7t

    nope I don't believe in this I have waited for 3 years prayed fasted cried rejected all ungodly Women then I got into relationship with a woman who believes in Him I got so many dreams and confirmations recently she eneded the relationship without any soild reasons and there are only few Godly people left now so Idk

  • @delighted9062
    @delighted9062

    I heard a quote that "If God is keeping you single, he's saving you for someone special" so...I don't know who this special someone is but...please send him down. I'm 21 and...I don't wanna be lonely anymore...

  • @franksmith7419
    @franksmith7419

    Everybody is different. You have no idea what God wants Nick.

  • @madkabal
    @madkabal

    I'm here to tell you all, if it don't do it by 40. it will be too late. I am 40. Every woman assumes I have kids, many women have asked me when they could meet my wife, that I do not have. And every time I tell them I don't have kids, that I never married, its always met with a "oh I see.' while they physically distance themselves from me and quickly try to leave the conversation in the same way you would when you suddenly find out that the person you are talking to is a creepy weirdo. Ive even had my doctor say "YOU NEVER STARTED A FAMILY!?" In a shocked way. If you are in your 30s. There is almost no time left. If you want to get married. Do it now.

  • @lanerussell7958
    @lanerussell7958

    I don't know, and I no longer care. I've found that singleness is not as scary or as bad as I thought it would be. It hurts a little, but not as much as it used to. The day I found the courage to give up, it was such a relief. It had been so exhausting to be consistently looking for a home in each new face I saw, wondering despite myself, "will

  • @user-vu9do6bh3b
    @user-vu9do6bh3b

    Been single my whole life, this makes it make sense, instead of chasing a relationship god wants me to chase a relationship with him❤️

  • @mr.dennis5503
    @mr.dennis5503

    Divorced; and frankly, there's nobody (so far) out here who is worth marrying. The world is full of disloyal, disrespectful, dishonest, dysfunctional people, and, unless The Lord wills otherwise for my life, I'd rather go it alone!

  • @tickedoffnow
    @tickedoffnow

    I'm saving myself for marriage

  • @KaimaVixen
    @KaimaVixen

    This has really effected me emotionally and spiritually. When in the word God says it’s night right for man to be alone, and you seek God and ask for companionship. What happens when it doesn’t come and your find yourself single your entire adult life, despite your best efforts. You see others who find relationships easily, non believers, or people don’t even pray and it falls in their lap. The loneliness of being undesired and not chooses in heartbreaking.

  • @kevindavis4709
    @kevindavis4709

    As a 38 year old single man never been married or been on a date. I hope I find a wife before I get older so I can enjoy life. Not saying wouldn’t wanna wait till I’m in my late 40’s but I’ll love my parents see me find somebody before they go home be with the lord.

  • @Lindah787
    @Lindah787

    My singleness only few years to 40s I have learnt alot and it makes me come too closer to Christ and continue waiting in his time ,thank you alot for sharing you gain my subscription because of this wonderful encouragement.

  • @pointlesskid7779
    @pointlesskid7779

    So much understanding from the wisdom of GOD. Thank you for delivering this message.

  • @Griffin4455
    @Griffin4455

    Ive confessed with my mouth Jesus is lord and Savior and believe he rose from the dead, but if i don't get married I'm just gonna wait for life to be over or just hope the rapture comes, because I hate loneliness, and i don't feel like doing this without someone (i know I have jesus but God said its not good for man to be alone)