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@silverhawkins4620

5 жыл бұрын

Hey sorry if this offends you but when you were describing you penis as a bent straw. It reminded me of family guy season16 ep19 when Peter is trying to back a boat into a lake. It'll give you a good laugh. Much love, stay happy.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

@vapor man you've been researching it? Well lve been actually living it so l think l know my experience much better, thank you!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

@vapor man yes it was originally for that purpose, but then was successfully used for trans men in gender affirmation surgery. The technique has come a very long way since that time and is now highly successful giving many trans people like myself, the ability to feel comfortable in our own skin at last and happy.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

@vapor man Of course surgery isnt comfortable. But the end result is worthwhile for the pain and discomfort. I am at the end of my surgical journey and am very happy now. And, I pee fine thank you! I can aim my stream like any man and dont piss on the floor at all! May I suggest that you listen to the actual people who are having this surgery rather than your research!

@kellilee7433

3 жыл бұрын

Mr finn. In a respectful manner i wanted to ask if you like men or women?

"I've never owned a penis until recently" 😂😂 lol I love your humor

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you! You have to laugh really! It's the only way forward!!!

@kalebmiles9183

5 жыл бұрын

True that! I'm glad you are recovering well😊

when you were talking about the pure panic and dysphoria moment you had you were with Chris was heartbreaking to hear, but at the same time, i think you did a good job explaining that internal mindset. even though my dysphoria impacts me differently than your dysphoria impacts you (in part because i am ace), i really resonated with the way you described the panic and ensuing shutdown. glad to hear you’re okay and that Chris was able to be there for you so well. :) happy three months.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Its an awful feeling isnt it, such a shock too! Thanks my friend

@blackmaggit2294

5 жыл бұрын

I agree. This is the first time I've heard someone describe dysphoria in this way that I really relate to and it makes me feel a lot better. The feeling that you can't talk about your negative thoughts because they'll make the other person think those things too is so relatable and horrible

you've opened my eyes to the joys of phalloplasty, i had a lot of misconceptions about it in the past but you've educated me so much on it. thank you. you're also a lovely person and i just wanted to hug you when you were telling that story of the recent dysphoric experience. your partner sounds very nice and supportive, you two are lucky to have each other in your lives. 💜

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

This makes me very happy!

Your arm is healing so well! Thank you for being so open with us 💙

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

I've been blessed with good healing. And thank you for watching and sharing this journey with me!

@kalebmiles9183

5 жыл бұрын

I'm thankful that you are allowing me to be on this journey with you!😊💙

I really appreciate you sharing your story of extreme dysphoria in bed. I’ve had that experience several times in different degrees and although i was fortunate enough to have an understanding partner at the time, the feelings and stream of thoughts and phrases going through myself scared the absolute shit out of me. i’m so relieved to know i’m not alone and i don’t need to be scared of myself.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Bless you my friend. Its understandable really isnt it? When we are being intimate, we are at our most vulnerable and it will take a number of years to overcome our old image of ourselves. Thank goodness for understanding partners!

As ever thanks so much for your honesty, I'm really glad you had someone so supportive there for you in that moment you needed them the most. You'll get there - best of luck for when it happens!

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Goodness, so am I! Im lucky to have such a wonderful man! Thanks my friend

I'm so happy you have such a supportive partner. The way your face lights up when you talk about him is just gorgeous ❤️

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thats so sweet! Yes, I have totally fallen for the big ball of fur!

i have heard how much problem u gone through for stage 2 so hearing this update just made me so happy! ❤ thanks for the video!

Hi Finn, although I'm not trans, I'm a 'one off' with a prosthetic nut following testicular cancer. I'm not sure if it's the same sort of implant, but just to reassure you, mine was incredibly uncomfortable for a good year or so and was riding quite high, and sometimes had to sleep with half a duvet stuffed in between my legs to stop in from feeling crushed. But then it just seemed to soften and I'm nowhere near as conscious of it now, even though it's still fixed high. I'm not sure if I've made friends with my implant but we mutually share the same body. haha!

@LeoCurtis

5 жыл бұрын

Just scrolling through the comments and saw yours. I just wanna say that the way you worded it made me smile. I'm glad it's working out for you, man.

@hallwnby

5 жыл бұрын

They are the same type of implant btw

@SugarCubesMiki

5 жыл бұрын

I think it is actually same or very similar at least

@parallel4

5 жыл бұрын

It is the same type of implant, yeah!

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Ah this is good to know, thank you!

You are an incredible man finn your videos help so much I’m starting T soon as watching you helps alot, all the best finn ❤️

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Im so glad to hear that, thank you, here's to your exciting future!

You are one of the bravest people I know and I want you to know you are supported and loved! You’re so honest to talk about your dysphoric moment, and your silly, and your un-dropped ball, and about your supportive boy friend...thank you SO much for your honesty and know that I’m supporting you all the way from San Diego, CA, USA! Mwah!!

I just absolutely adore you Finn!! So glad that it was smoother sailing this time around!! So happy for you!! 💜

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you. That means the world!

Thank You Brother for sharing!!! I am really glad you can talk to Chris about anything & he helps you so much!!! Much Love!!

I live for these updates. It helps calm my anxiety about going for bottom surgery some time in the future. I'm happy for you!

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Im very glad to help, and thank you!

I love your channel ! All the details are actually helpful, to know what to expect and all that, thank you so much ! Sending love !

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

You are so kind, always love to hear such positive feedback, thank you so much!

So good to see you. I always look forward to your videos. Is so amazing to watch your lives ups and downs with a sense of humor, but get informative. 💕🐑 PS love your close ups to the camera 😁💕

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you, that is such a lovely compliment! I try to keep it light as well as informative, i am glad that comes across!

@efrainjones

5 жыл бұрын

FinnTheInfinncible I’m a 54 #OAB(old as bitch) 😁 I was so happy for you when you told us about your boyfriend. I been married twice, first one big mistake the second one my soulmate. One thing I have learned COMMUNICATION,RESPECT AND TRUST. Very important in a relationship. I notice that every time you talk about him you lite up. I love that about you. So,trust in you and on him. 💕

You take your time with it Finn, in the end it will go right and I'm sure it will feel amazing!

Great video as always Finn! Loved the puns 🤣❤️

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you my friend!

Thank you for your honesty you are a tremendously brave and amazing man 😊

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that incredible kindness!

It is so nice to hear how Chris was supportive in that moment. That's how it should be.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much my friend, you will indeed have the same experience, its wonderful becoming yourself!

Oh Christ my headphones fell out and I didn’t realise!!! I’m on the bus 😳😳😳😳

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Oh my friend, that is so funny! Im sorry...cant help but laugh!!!!

@aboon7809

5 жыл бұрын

It was around the ‘baggy urithra’

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Oh no!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Omg, I could cry. You're so amazing. You & Chris are wonderful. I adore you two so much. You guys remind me of my wife & myself. Beautiful. 💙❤

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

You are so incredibly sweet! Thank you!

Tough video to for you to make, I'm sure. Just want to say you are adorable as always. The way you explain things and talk about these very private bits of your life is always so articulate. I'm so sorry you had that experience but I am very very happy to hear how Chris handled it. He sounds so sweet. You guys are so adorable together.

Finn I am so happy you have Chris to love you through this life! You are amazing and deserve that love. You are a beautiful human being and a man. 😊♥️♥️♥️

Thank you so much for sharing your story Finn! I am so glad Chris is such a sweetie.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing it with me!

Hello Finn Lots of love and wishing you hours of enjoyment with your dinga ling!!

Practice, practice, practice! It’ll be just fine once you get the hang of it, sweetie. Love you, Finn❣️

I have a feeling you will soon be able to get your “soldier” into the “battlefield” soon....keep trying 😜👊🏽

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

I am persistent.........😉😉😉

Kinda breaks my heart you had to go through that, but Chris sounds like a WONDERFUL partner :) I just had you in my "suggested" section, and this was the first video I viewed of you, I am happy you make these videos, I am FTM as well, just had top revision surgery, debating anything lower surgery. I like to hear things like this so I can get an idea of what to expect from any of my choices. Take care of your penis! hehe Be gentle with it and give it time to heal! :)

Thanks for sharing so honestly.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching!

Hi Finn, new subscriber here, loved the video, & thank you for for being so open. Much like you I always think being lighthearted is the way to get through (as I'm sure you will) I had my grs (amab btw) in April this year, & yes, post transition dysphoria can be shocking, & quite blindsiding. Like you I'm very lucky to have a wonderfully understanding partner. You'll get there when it's right I'm sure. Em ☺

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Hello hello! Welcome to our lovely FinnFam! If you've not found it already, there is loads more info and stuff over on finlaygames.com :) Congrats to you on your surgery too. Yes, it was surprisingly shocking and I was not expecting post-transition dysphoria at all! I'm so glad you have a supportive partner too., thank goodness for them right!

Thank you for this vid. Ive been wondering about this kind of thing for a while. U have a new subscriber today. 😎 and being a 44 yr old virgin is awesome.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Oh hello hello and welcome to the FinnFam!! So sorry I am only just replying to this! And...I am no longer a virgin 🙃😍😘🙃😍

Thank you for teaching us. I'm a cis female and whilst I haven't had any of these issues, i have numerous others. I love learning about people in the hope that if any one i ever know is struggling i can be supportive. People like you are amazing for sharing your stories, i hope as people learn more that they become more accepting xx

Finn is so adorable! So down to earth, unpretentious and so "guy next door"! What a likable guy!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

You are so kind, thank you!

Amazing video. You're such an open person as it is, and you've come so far even more so with people in your inner circle as far as letting people in and seeing even more of who you are as a person. Even what appears like 'irrational feelings' are extremely valid too, because they're just part of the process of growing in to ourselves. You can really tell that Chris knows this process like the back of his hand, and you can tell that you love yourself enough to have chosen such a loving and supportive person as a partner. He really has a lot of respect for you too, you can tell from his videos with you. One of the unique things about your relationship is that Chris doesn't need to break down necessarily what it means to be transgender in order to be there for you at the core of things, because he loves you, which is what you said, and is so true. I'm sure that same thing can be said of you, when it comes to cis related things and if he is in a tough spot. You just know that you love him and will be there for him. I'm so proud of the strides you've taken. You are inspiring and a genuine Teacher of how it is to live authentically. You're videos give me hope for a better world where there is more understanding between people xxx

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Its been really refreshing to meet someone for whom being trans is irrelevant. Its helped my confidence and self-belief to grow hugely. Thank you for being so lovely :)

Apart from the wonderful raw serious open digalog enthralling me and you being so lovely i did happen to notice a certain Lamb holding somthing i belive is a Condom ;) made me giggle ! p.s. so happy you are in such a supportive place xx

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Well spotted! He's always up to something naughty when lm not looking!!!

10, 20, 30, 40, 50 and more years from now...looking forward to see how all this goes...

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Yay! I look forward to sharing how it goes!!

Thank you so much for sharing the experience you had with Chris. I can only imagine how it'd feel in that situation. I've had my sister tell me before I transitioned that I'd "never be a real man" that I "would just be a mutilated woman" and that hurtful sentence has stuck through my entire transition whenever I am dysphoric. I worry I will get flashbacks to that day or all the days where sex went terribly wrong due to dysphoria, if I ever had anything not go quite the way I expected, like similar to what you experienced.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

I had similar said to me, that I would never find a partner, would never be accepted, etc. These do stick in our heads and take a while to go. On the whole, I rarely get these thoughts now and this experience with Chris was a shock as it really was a return to some seriously dysphoric days. Still, as uncomfortable as it was, at the same time, I didn't actually believe the thoughts, so yes it was awful but equally, helped me to see that I have come so far. A few years ago that would have sent me running for a bottle of wine or a razor blade. I think it's important to do things with someone you trust, I trust Chris completely and so I was safe when this happened. In fact it brought us closer.

Everything in life takes time 👍

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Yes it absolutely does!!

I hear wedding bells! Seriously, you are made for each other, hope you achieve success next time 😜

sad u felt like that with him but like everyone else,i'm happy he was there for u and i'm happy u grew stronger from it ?sort of? ❤ at least u know now how your body work a little more. 🌸

Peeny time! Peeny time! Yaaaay! 😂 I'm so glad everything's going well, man. I'm really sorry about the dysphoric episode, but I know you'll get there soon ♥️

Hey Finn, where abouts do you live? I’m visiting Europe in 3 weeks and would love to meet you!!

This is why I want my "first time" to be with someone I'm in a loving relationship. I need that trust and support. But getting there feels so impossible.

The good news is you’re not going through anything (well besides the transition and what comes with that, pun not intended;) ) that a new couple or a bunch of virgin kids go through when they have sex for the first time. (I blacked out the first time with my husband because I was so terrified I was not living up to his expectations) Like you said it just takes patience and learning about your body and your partners. You totally got this and you’re so fortunate you are experiencing these things with a loving partner and not as a confused teen with a slew of immature and insecure partners. I don’t think any of us would do that over again! Lol Good luck sweetie, lots of love your way! 🖤

"Phallo-tastic" Iconic!

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

:) :) :) :)

Not to be personal. But I’m considering this surgery and I was wondering if you think that first attempt would have been easier with a woman? My girlfriend is pretty understanding. Also, again not to be too personal but how long (in your opinion) before you can receive oral. And do you think it would be something to look forward to or is it not all too great given the circumstances?

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

I've already had oral, before the implant was fitted and after and it's amazing! And yes, vaginal sex may well be easier than anal sex as the anus tends to be a tighter entrance! It's all about learning, and having an understanding partner is vital

I really appreciate your openness. Ur a trans hero!;D

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

How lovely are you!! Thank you so much!

Does it drop size when the pump is fitted as it gets more circumference?

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 ай бұрын

No I didn't find that at all. If anything it felt bigger and fuller even when flaccid as the device filled the cavity whereas there was nothing there before this making it feel and look longer and thicker

@ryanedwards3576

3 ай бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible thanks finn

Damn you have such a nice voice.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Well how kind! Thank you!!

Finn you're just adorable. How tall are you for us vertically challenged Chaps? 😆

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Aw bless ya! I'm 5 ft 4. Just about!

you remind me of the adoring fan from oblivion

Did you get this done via the NHS?

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Yes l did my friend

@ajaxthearcticfox5862

5 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible That's really nice and reassuring to hear! I'm hoping to get it done myself in the future! :)

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

We are lucky in the UK that our NHS coverage recognises our need for surgery. The waiting list is long but you will get there!

@ajaxthearcticfox5862

5 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible Yeah definitely! I'm so glad that we have the NHS, it really is a blessing to us. Thanks so much for the replies by the way!

Babe ! Practice makes perfect. It's the same with two virgin people having sex, one doesn't know exactly what to do or how to do it ( I know dysphoria makes it more more difficult). But practice will make it fine :)

This happens even to cis man I have seen it in AV so, you´re basically just a ordinary man 💞 .

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Absolutely!

mohhh the end :(

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Never fear! Its only the end of my medical transition. There is still lots of other parts of the journey to share. I am not going anywhere!

Im born in a male body identified as a girl who needs a full transition to be a gay man