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@Alex-jd2yx

2 жыл бұрын

Random but are you a gay male now?

human bodies are the coolest things. its insane how nerves work

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree with that!

@gage3180

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so stupid I read that as "human boobies are the coolest things"

@liminalitea1929

3 жыл бұрын

@@gage3180 the sound that came out of my mouth from reading this Was unholy This made me cackle

You’re the only person I’ve ever found to cover this properly!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you! It needs to be openly talked about l feel. I want people to have the info l didnt have! Theres more info and more detail on my blog if it helps finlaygames.com

It sounds like surgery has come a really long way since my ex-husband transitioned (starting in 1999). I was with him through the whole thing and beyond (12 years). Back then, a neophallus felt more like an arm... they hadn’t done all these nerve studies. I’m so glad we’ve come along way from there. I’ve heard there is a “myth” that there is no real sexual sensation, but it wasn’t a myth back then.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Yes it has come a very long way since the early days but unfortunately its reputation hasn't. But this is changing now l think as more trans people are talking about their experiences. I will be forever grateful to trans men like your husband who were early pioneers of this incredible surgery

@jaymefunny7424

2 жыл бұрын

It's still feels like an arm because it is arm skin sewn to a viagina.

@brotchenkorner3944

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaymefunny7424 Well, yes and no. The arm feels like an arm because of different layers of skin, fat, bone and tendons. Firstly, there is no bone in the Neo-phallus and also the skin is wrapped in a way that has a different structural density than an arm. For the person itself, it feels like a combination of the clitoral nerves giving off an erotic sensation and and the sensitive skin of the arm providing the rest. It is very much unlike an arm, since there is just no association with an arm anymore. Also- it is connected to the base of the pelvis, where dicks usually are. It’s also where the clitoral nerve starts.

@jaymefunny7424

2 жыл бұрын

@@brotchenkorner3944 it's an arm skin rolled up. No matter how many ways you slice it or dice it it's a peice of an arm and will never be a penis. Only a mentally ill delusional person would convince themselves otherwise.

@GucciStinkbug

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaymefunny7424 you could've just said you're transphobic from the beginning

You've already heard this a million times, but holy crap thank you for being so open. It's truly so helpful to know what the *actual* experience with bottom surgery is instead of just all the technical surgery stuff!!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

I never get sick of hearing it! I am really pleased these are so helpful, Im hoping the book Im writing will help even more! Always feel free to message should you need any help. You can reach me easily over on finlaygames.com

It's so amazing that you're actually able to feel sensation from using your 'bits'. Those surgeons are talented

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Its incredible isnt it! Thanks for watching!

@jaymefunny7424

2 жыл бұрын

Yes its incredible that the overwhelmingly majority loose sexual funtion after genitail mutilation surgery.

@cruc1fye

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaymefunny7424 Man why do ya gotta go and waste your energy like that? Being hateful literally benefits nobody. What's the point? Live and let live, for fuck's sake, it's so much easier.

Newly discovered trans guy here who's just figuring things out and this was very helpful thank you so much for this!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

So glad to hear this was helpful! Welcome to the most amazing journey! If you need any more resources or support, pop over to my website finlaygames.com

I am not nor have i ever wanted to be male but i do love to learn about these type of things (especially being considered pansexual) and i left this video feeling extremely informed

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Very pleased to hear that and glad to help!

@theresac.d.9878

2 жыл бұрын

Cis, straight female here. I agree!

I don’t know how I ended up on this video - but this was fascinating to watch!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Well hello hello! I love it when people stumble upon me at random, lovely to have you here, glad you enjoyed the video, stick around for more! :)

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Hey Perez! Saw your lovely face on the news last night and that made me remember this comment! I have now published my lower surgery memoir and it is due out in April, it might fascinate you even more! More details and an exclusive reading here finlaygames.com/my-books/

I know this is very personal stuff. I'm not trans, but the cure for ignorance is always knowledge. So thank you for sharing I learned a lot.

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

Absolutely it is! I always hope that everyone, trans or not, will get something from my content, so thank you!

I'm still a baby trans who's been terrified of transitioning/phalloplasty in particular, but I came across this somehow and I just feel so much better about my options and what the future will be like :)

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

I can understand those fears. Remember, there is no rush, take your time to work out what you need. The more time you take, the more certain of your decisions you will be. I am glad this video was helpful. If I can be of any further help or you need some more resources, do pop over to my website finlaygames.com/welcome/

@jaymefunny7424

2 жыл бұрын

You weren't born in the wrong body. You're perfect the way you are. You are valid just the way you are and if youre in distress try therapy to work it out.

@user-um3wj1fw2u

2 жыл бұрын

@@jaymefunny7424 I don't need therapy for being trans, thanks.

@jaymefunny7424

2 жыл бұрын

Your fear is justified. Yes a future of incontinence, bladder infections, kiddney infection, possible sepsis and countless surgeries to repair the mutiluation to fix something that wasnt broken. Any woman or girl who wants to cut off parts of their arm, have it rolled up to a tube and sewn on to their vagina so they can pee standing up NEEDS therapy. These Doctors see desperate mentally unwell people and take advantage, offer experimental sugeries and collect payday after payday. And adults showed know better.

@jaymefunny7424

2 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible its creepy when ADULTS solicit on the internet to people who are very possilbly UNDERANGE.

Thank you so much, you are the only person I could find who has addressed this topic and it's really put my mind at ease. The sensation is something i was really scared of, but this makes me feel a lot better. Im very thankful to know all the gorey details.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that lovely feedback! I'm very glad to help. I have additional resources over on my website if it helps! finlaygames.com/category/gender-transition/

I got recommended to your videos by someone on the r/FTM subreddit. I just wanted to say that, as a trans guy looking to get lower surgery in the future, these videos have been *extremely* helpful to me. Thank you so much for posting them. I’m glad you feel confident enough to share such a personal part of your life with us. Good luck with the rest of your journey!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

I only just saw this comment, thank goodness I found your email! Thanks for the kind feedback, It makes my day to know I help. Its not easy to be this transparent, but it is necessary I think, I want people to have access to more info than I had when I started this journey. Have you set up the subreddit yet?

Thank you so much, Finn, for making these videos, especially for making these kinds of ones that are really personal, because even as a trans guy who knows most things already I learn so much from you that I've never heard anyone else talk about and this sort of information is invaluable to me

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for the appreciation my friend, its not easy to talk about but knowing that it is helpful, makes feeling a bit vulnerable, very worthwhile!

Hey Finn, I talked to you last year. I've had 4 surgeries so far. I'm all hooked up bro! Most humbling & wonderful experience of my life. Waited 52 years for my wanker and I love him!! I really appreciate your videos. I needed to hear that I need to heal and be patient. Your a kind soul to share your experience so openly. I thank you for that. Keep well my friend.

@FinnTheInfinncible

Жыл бұрын

Ah my friend this makes me absolutely over the moon for you lm thrilled! I'm so glad to have been able to help along the way, what an honour!

Thank you for sharing this very personal aspect of your journey. Always graceful and eloquent.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

That's such a lovely way to describe me, thank you so much!

I just had to stop watching another KZread video to watch this, I love your content. I haven’t watched the video yet but I know it’s gonna be goooooood

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Ah bless you! Thank you so much, enjoy, lol!

What a Finntastic informative video!! Much love and respect to you and Fur Fur. :)

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you my dear friend! Much love to you too, from us both!

This has got to be the best informative talk about Phalloplasty ever screened done in such a friendly common sense way you are a gem .Thank-you for explaining this procedure. It is also the fact that you are enjoying your amazing creation to fuller enjoyment is great to hear! Best wishes X.

So happy that you chose to share your story. Your courage has been phenomenal. I know nothing about your style of life. I truly enjoyed your story, and respect you tremendously. I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE YOUR SHIRT!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

What an absolutely lovely comment, thank you so much!

thank you so much for being so open about this. im in the process of coming out to my family and starting my transition and this is something that ive been very stressed out about for a long time. i have massive bottom dysphoria but i had no real information about how phalloplasty works so your videos have helped me out immensely. thank you thank you thank you

Thank you, thank you, thank you! Amazing video. Absolutely spot-on about having to put the work in to come to terms with our situations, too. Thank you for sharing

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

I'm glad you agree! Its essential that this is understood as it makes for a much smoother transition l think! Thanks my friend

Thank you for making these videos and talking about how it’s more than surgery to get to healing. I hope one day I get where you are. You’re such a wonderful and open person and I’ve buried myself so far in the closet I don’t know how to get out. Seeing how far you’ve come gives me some much needed hope. -Nico

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Bless you buddy, its little steps, that is how we get anywhere, on any journey and out of any closet. Much strength to you.

Thank you so much for this video, I live in the UK and it’s so comforting how amazing the surgeons are. Love your videos, they really help me. All the best ❤️

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Very glad to help my friend, all the very best to you too!

Wow, you are so articulate about such a personal subject. I'm just in awe of your openness but we really need people like you who are brave enough to talk about this. I'm so impressed by your honesty. I hope you are getting on well in your life 🖤

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

What a lovely thing to say! Thank you so much. Its been really important to me to create honest content on this tricky topic, my mission is to create the kind of content I wished I'd had access to. Thank you for your kind words and for watching, life is good thank you!

I really appreciate your honesty Finn. You are helping people more than you may think. I'm so glad I came upon your videos!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Bless you! Im glad you did too! Welcome to the FinnFam!

This is so informative, I randomly came across it and have never seen another video actually going into detail of the tactile effects of phalloplasty.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Very glad it was helpful, I have made it my mission to create the kinds of content II wish Id had access to at the start of my phalloplasty. I have more phallo content on my blog if it helps? finlaygames.com/category/gender-and-sexuality/

Thank you for sharing such personal and important information.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the appreciation :)

Hey, I’d just like to thank you for making this video, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a better video on phalloplasty and I really appreciate this information from a more experienced trans man. As a person who is between considering metoidioplasty or phalloplasty this has been incredibly helpful

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

My pleasure! Very glad it was helpful. Deciding is not easy, just take your time.

Fantastic video! Thanks so much for being so open with something so personal!

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the appreciation!

Thanks for this, my partner asked about sensation the other evening.. and I couldnt tell her.. so im glad I found your video 😍

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Very glad to help!

Thank you for being so honest! I have learnt a lot from this video and it has started to completely change my personal view of phallo as a surgery, I am surprised at how much I didn't know or got wrong.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

There are so many myths out there, I was put off by them in the beginning until I discovered the truth. Very glad to have helped and I hope my other phallo info helps you too.

Found this so interesting and informative. My mate has had top surgery many years ago but only this year had a hysterectomy. His next major step is bottom surgery and this video has certainly given me an insight on what he's going to go through. Thanks for posting 😊

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

I am very glad it helped and thanks for watching!

Thanks for being willing to share this information. It’s very helpful.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for the appreciation, means the world!

Thank you so much for making these videos. It's helped me ALOT. You're amazing. Love your vibes.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

What a lovely compliment, thank you so much! Im always so glad to hear that my content helps.

What a fantastic video and what a great guy you seem to be! Phalloplasty isn't very talked about so I loved listening to this firsthand experience. Thank you!!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

What a lovely comment! Thank you so much. And yes, it is really hard to find first hand accounts of phalloplasty, which is why I share so openly, here on my chanel, and in my blogs and upcoming book! You can find more info and resources here if it helps finlaygames.com/welcome/

thanks for getting directly to the point and not sugar coating everything!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

My pleasure! Thanks for watching!

This was insanely charming and informative! Thank you!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

How kind! Thank you so much!

This might just be the only video that actually answered a lot of my questions! Thank you!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Very glad to hear that! I have a ton of phallo resources over on my website too if it helps! finlaygames.com

Thank you! I am going in for RFF on Monday morning, and you answered a lot of my questions! You're awesome!

@Elbaz8

5 жыл бұрын

Congratulations and may everything go well for you.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Ah I am so glad to help! All the very best of luck to you my friend!

Thank you so much for your information! I've been wavering about bottom surgeries and what I want for myself to be happy and content with who I am. You've given me great info to consider!!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

I am verry glad to help, this is why I share so openly, we need clear information in order to make the best decision.

Definitely the best informative video I’ve seen , on this subject thus far !!

@FinnTheInfinncible

Жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thank you once again for sharing such a personal, intimate experience with us. I have enjoyed watching you though your journey.

@Elbaz8

5 жыл бұрын

Same.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

And I am very grateful to you for sharing this journey with me!

I so intensely appreciate this video, and it does help me a lot to hear your experiences. I think the thing I worry about most is going through the beginning stages of bottom surgery, because I read other transmasc folks talking about how *long* the healing takes...... And while being that careful and caring to my healing body for that long seems like a small cost comparatively to a lifetime of not feeling quite right; frankly, the idea of not having literally any erotic sensation available to my body in any way for over a year had made me disheartened. The idea that I'd be able to at least use my native anatomy for the period between no sensation and new sensation in a phalloplasty is very helpful to me; and hearing about the not necessarily linear changes in sensation is SO informative and helpful. Thank you so much for posting this, Finn. You're a great help to the community.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for such a lovely comment. Yes, l had the same worries, not only about losing sensation permanently but also about how long between stages ld have anatomy that didnt function. I was relieved to find that l could immediately still use my old equipment while l waited for sensation in my new penis to grow. I am so glad to be able to pass this info on!

Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for this. This is the number one thing I have been worried about, but it seems like it’s so rarely addressed!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Very glad you found this helpful, it isnt an easy thinh to talk about, but it is so vital. There is more phallo and trans related stuff over on my website if its helpful finlaygames.com

Adored This video Finn, you learn something new every day! I've certainly Learned a lot from you're video today, it is a well thought out and worded video for sure. Love to you and Fur Fur and Lamby.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Bless you buddy, l am so glad it helps. The blog l am creating will hopefully really help too, to map out sensation over the last 4 years. Thanks for such lovely words

bless you for all the useful information you provide it really helps a lot of people

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much !

Hiya finn, great to see u again. I love learning from you, you explain everything so so well. Hope you have had a great day, also hope Chris is feeling a bit better x lots of love xxxx

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Hello lovely! Thank you so much! Chris is doing better thank you, sending hugs xx

My dear Finn I’m happy really happy for you!!!! You are a hope for who is at the biginning of the process. Your willpower has awarded you. Now live your life totally and joyfully!!! 👍😉😘

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Bless your heart, thank you so much!

Love how mature you handle this, this should be talked about more! It's important to know about this stuff, whether you're trans yourself or are with a trans person. It shouldn't be awkward or uncomfortable to talk about. Great video!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

I absolutely agree, and its especially needed for those of us in relationship types/identites that are rarely seen and talked about. Thank you for such lovely feedback!

Great video. There's not a lot of videos like this. Thanks so much. I have my phallo consult in January so trying to get as much info as possible

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching and for your kind appreciation! I have made it my mission to create the kinds of content I wished Id had access too. My phallo memoir comes out in April 2021, Im hoping that will helpmany people like you! I have lots more info over on my webiste too if its helpful finlaygames.com/welcome/

Very informative and open. Thank you and well done l!

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thank you for that explanation about how the sensation works, very interesting indeed. I hope to get the surgery one day.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Very glad that it helps and I hope your time comes soon!

I have been waiting for so many years for getting the information, that I feel now it´s too late. Thank you so, so much to talk so openly. I am so happy, you are living the life I might have. Wish you all the best.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

My dear friend it is never too late, age and number has nothing to do with happiness and persuing dreams goals and wishes. I've seen people transition as old as their 80's!

@BJKage

3 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible Really? Thank you for the words of support, I´ll think about it. But I have already been doing lots of thinking already, like what´s important to me. Sure I would like to get me some cute boyfriend, but the truth is. I am autistic on top of everything, the nerd behind computer and I do not really like to to deal with people face to face. I´ve always acted more like a man, than a woman and now I even look like one with simple haircut. The way my hair grows, how my hairs grow all over my body, no boobs, the way I dress and always did. I do have a daughter and two grandsons and they call me Sofu(grandpa in Japanese). Also I live in the really tight community, the people I told totally were not surprised.-You never acted like a woman. It makes sense. and this one is good. So you now going to date girls? -No I am not going to change anything. And my daughter asked if she is supposed to call me pops, that was odd. I have realized that my friends never took me as a woman (I am a member of a historic fencing group), there was a dude that came one day and said that he is going to seduce me anyway and the whole group, me including, laughed so hard it shook the floor. It was a long sleepless night, but I have came to terms with myself. I will always be me and since I really enjoy my solitary life with friends outside my flat, my sanctuary, I am good the way I am. Also I have really good psychiatrist and very good pills. Still I believe you are doing great job for people like us, talking about your story as openly as you are.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

There is never one right path, other than the path that is right for us! I'm glad you have made peace with yourself and found your way forward, that's wonderful to hear!

thank you for this! i'm turning legal soon and started researching into more things as i know my transition journey is going to develop soon as i work my way through adulthood. i've been reading and watching videos on these topics so i know when it comes time i will know what surgeries i'll want. by far the most helpful video ive seen so far!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so very much for that lovely comment! You are very wise to be doing lots of research, being well prepared is key in this journey! I am wishing you all the best, pop over to my website anytime for more resouces or to massge me if you need anything finlaygames.com

You have such fabulous energy!!!! Luv you. Such great info!!!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Ah thank you!

Im late to watch this video, but what a great video!!! Very informative and hopeful for folks looking to have surgery or are going thru the feels of what they currently have post operatively.

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much my friend, thats wonderful feedback! I have also written a book, an indepth memoir and guide of the decision making, surgery process and coming to know my changed body. Its available everywhere you buy books, and I also sell signed copies on my Ko-fi friends of Finn page! ko-fi.com/finlaygames/shop

Thank you for making this video!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind appreciation!

Thanks for the openness and honesty Finn....You Rock Bro!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for the kind appreciation!

It’s wonderful to hear things have gone so well for you 🥰🙏 Thank you for sharing your journey!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your kind words!

@karenmacphee9186

4 жыл бұрын

FinnTheInfinncible absolute pleasure 🤗

I'm a gay trans man as well and your videos have been helping me with my dysphoria tonight, thank you so much! I'm hoping to get phallo as soon as I can afford it or get insurance to cover it and hearing your experiences makes me feel so comfortable and excited.

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

Ah your comment just made my day! I am so glad my vieo helped!

@Amcc38383

7 ай бұрын

That's so sad. You can still like things men like without denying your womanhood.

I needed this to feel better about my surgery choices. Thank you! I may go through with it!

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

Very glad this video helped thanks for letting me know! I have also written a phalloplasty memoir which goes into much more detail about the decision making process, the surgery and the recovery, more info about that here finlaygames.com/my-books/

I was so curious about this, thanksss

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Glad to help! More phallo resources over on my website finlaygames.com

Your videos are so helpful 😄

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

I am so glad you think so, thank you so much!

Hi! New subscriber here! Absolutely fascinating video. Isn't it amazing what our bodies can do?! I look forward to seeing more of your content. 😊

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Yay! Welcome to the FinnFam! Yes, bodies are awesome! I look forward to seeing you around the community, and, if you want to see my other written content, here is my blog -----> finlaygames.com

Thank you Finn. I think this such an important subject too discuss.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

I agree with you! Not easy to talk about, but vital I feel! Thanks for watching !

Very informative, thank you! 😊

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Glad it helped, thanks for letting me know!

Just found your videos and I'm so at home here. You're amazing and share my personality.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Oh that's a lovely thing to say! That makes me so happy! Welcome to the FinnFam! I look forward to seeing you around the comment section! I have a blog too if you fancy having a look and getting more of me! finlaygames.com

I love your videos you’re such a cool and funny person 😎 it’s also great that you’re so open and honest about mental health and about your transition. Congratulations on becoming the real you and building such a fabulous and happy life ☺️

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

What an absolutely lovely comment. Thanks so much for that!

@jennya2439

5 жыл бұрын

You’re very welcome ☺️I’ve been watching your videos for a while now from afar in Aus but haven’t gotten around to making a comment yet lol. I loved your Glastonbury vlogs and I love how open you are! I haven’t been able to watch your vids on your Mum yet though cause I’m still getting over the loss of both of my parents over the last 2 years 😢. I’m a straight, middle aged cis woman lol but just relate to warm, open, caring people ☺️

Gosh. I hope you're a counselor or working with medical doctors, because your descriptions are so thorough and thoughtful. They would truly help someone walk through the woods of this transition. I simply came here because of listening to a man who didn't have a successful surgery and now is considering having his useless phallus removed. He has no regrets about transitioning, but his phalloplasty did not work (2006 operations may have something to do with it's non success). It's good to hear the operation is more successful. I wish you all the best. I hope someone is paying you to support FTM men considering this operation. You would be helpful.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

What a lovely compliment, thank you! I am , as we speak developing a freelance content creation business, which will bring in some much needed cash I love doing what I do, helping others, but I also need to make a living! I have a Ko-fi page, where kind people donate when Ive helped them with something. Im also writing my memoirs, for self/traditional publishing. I will always do KZread, I always want people to be able to access resources, regardless of income, but the plan is to have other revenue streams support me. I am so sorry to hear about your friend. I cannot even begin to imagine how devastating that must be for him. Will he re try do you think?

@aplicqu8761

4 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible This is not a personal friend. It's someone I saw on youtube also. I've never heard the medical transition explained in such detail. It is a leap of faith for the client on the part of the surgeon's skill, and a leap of hope.. Whew... I would encourage you to consult with the medical people who transitioned you to see if they have counselor staff they know who might work with on to explain transition. Since you UNDERWENT it, you have firsthand knowledge that is invaluable. This video is your resume. You could be in charge of a support group and get paid for that work under the supervision of a therapist. If you're interested in doing such work, you might want to get certified or degreed There are paths to either. It won't be easy to get all these ducks in a row, but your skills are far above average. You might want to partner with a MTF person with similar skills and experience. Much larger group to counsel with. It's up to what you feel comfortable doing: in person paid work or less personal video work. There is a market for both. For less affluent people, the video support might be all they can afford. For more affluent people who aren't shy, in person work might be the extra support they need to make it through. Heavens, you could be a counselor for people who think or may be ready for transition. Not just medical. But living as the oppposite gender. Again, firsthand experience from a counselor is unique. Dunno if any of this applies or interests you. I think you have a gift. Happy trails.

It’s definitely interesting to hear how they can do stuff like this. I’m glad you’re happy and doing well ❤

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 ай бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thank you for this. It is taking a bit of fear away for me.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

I'm very glad to hear that!

Wow your arm looks great!

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much!

Thank you so much for making these videos and sharing such private information. Sexual health is so important!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Yes it is! Thank you for your appreciation!

Thank yo SO MUCH for this video!!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your appreciation!

great video and advice xx

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for that lovely feedback!

Thank you so so much for this! I’m a closeted trans boy and this covered so much of what i’ve been anxious about!!

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

I am very glad this helped, thanks for watching!

Really interesting stuff. Isn't the nervous system bizarre? I mean it tells you what you feel whether there's "evidence" of the cause or not. Really makes you question what defines what is real.

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

Very true! Its certainly made me scratch my head in wonder a fair few times!

This was really interesting, thank you

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

i am questioning a lot, and i have been watching all kinds of videos about transitioning in general but so far you have been the best at teaching. although i'm still trying to figure myself out, i hope soon enough i can understand it all. thank you!

@FinnTheInfinncible

Жыл бұрын

This is such lovely feedback thank you! Watching lots of vids, reading lots of blogs, talking to folks, writing down thought's, these can all really be helpful in figuring things out. Take your time and I promise it'll all make sense! I have lost more information on my website too if it helps finlaygames.com

@YoonminLife

Жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible thank you so much! i'll definitely be sure to check it out! once again, thank you so much for your help in this community. bless you!

@FinnTheInfinncible

Жыл бұрын

@@YoonminLife you are so kind. I'm here because of the kindness of others, so now I pay it forward 💜

Thank you so so so much for being so open about this. It's hard to find information on trans folks experiences in text form in a quick google search, and it's even more difficult to actually visualise what they're talking about considering how many medical terms gotta be used. The hand gestures and casual explanation really go a long way to help me understand just what this stuff means. Idk if I'll ever even get a surgery like this, I'm fairly indecisive and kind of wanna have both bits if that makes any sense? But it's so comforting to know that there is indeed sensation

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Yes, the lack of information makes this surgery so much more difficult doesnt it? And what we really need is first hand information, from folks who have been through it. Keeping both bits is possible, and does indeed make sense. Did you know that I have just had my phalloplasty memoir published? finlaygames.com/my-books/

Oh my goodness! You have seriously got me covered. I have watched your videos since I was a young and now, as expected, I am a trans man 😂 Your videos are great and so so so informative. Also, I had to do an art project about Glastonbury Festival!!! And then your videos popped up for that too!!! AHH thank you 🙏🏼❤️

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Haha love this so much!!!!! Thanks so much for your kind words, lovely to have you as part of the FinnFam! How was the Glastonbury project?

@baileygoodwin8456

4 жыл бұрын

FinnTheInfinncible so sorry!! Didn’t see your reply! And basically I got a merit so far but I need to add one little thing to make it a distinction piece of work!! So very well. Thank you so much! 😁

Well done the most concise and easy to understand explanation of this delicate subject and friendly to ,what a gem you are for people who are trying to understand this procedure,keep going so proud you are from the U.K please take care in these uncertain times.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Bless your heart, what a lovely comment, thank you so much!

@SarahJones-wy5us

4 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible You are so very welcome (subscribed!) Bye the way just for fun I am bi!! xx

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

@@SarahJones-wy5us ah yay!!! Welcome to our FinnFam! Its lovely to have you here!!!

@SarahJones-wy5us

4 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible Thank-you for the welcome.

You are such a beautiful human being, you have probably helped so many people with your video. Myself personally just wanted to understand more about this topic, a gay man myself I have a lot of love and respect for our trans community and this really helped me understand even more.

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Hello my friend, thank you so much for such lovely comments! I'm very glad the video helps, I just like to make the type of content I wish I'd had access to, and to know it changes minds and hearts about trans people makes me very happy, thank you!

I cannot imagine having to deal with these kinds of issues. Much respect to those going through the process.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kindness, it is indeed a tough journey, but I am very grateful for all that it has taught me, and for the life I have today!

Thank you for sharing.

THANK YOU! You are the first person I've seen to actually talk about this, which this question has been the one I've been most concerned about. I haven't started transitioning at all yet, but in the future, I want to be on T and get top, but I was concerned about bottom surgery. Specifically the sensation parts, but this made me feel much more at eased! So thank you so much!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your lovely comment, makes me very happy to recive messages like yours! These are not the easiest videos to make, so knowing they are appreciated means the world. Phalloplasty is improving greatly and now outcomes are consistantly good, including sensation. If you would like any more info, I have a ton of blogs and resources to compliment these videos on my website finlaygames.com/phalloplasty-sensation-progress/

@lefthandersrule9419

3 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible Thank you so much! People like you are changing the world!

@lefthandersrule9419

2 жыл бұрын

@@FinnTheInfinncible Hey! I know it's been a long time since we had this talk, and you probably won't even see this message due to how old this video is, but I wanted to share with you that I'm on T now. Tomorrow I'll be doing my second shot. I just wanted to say thank you again. The older generations of trans people have made it easier for young trans folk such as myself to gain access towards life saving steps. We wouldn't be where we are without people like you, openly sharing your experiences for others to learn. So even though I'm just a stranger on the internet, I want to thank you, sincerely, from the bottom of my heart; thank you for being you.

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

@@lefthandersrule9419 oh buddy just found this message and it made my heart swell! Congrats on starting T! How incredible to see you take such a huge leap forward in your journey! We are all here because of people before us, paying it forward gives me much pleasure and joy!

Thank you for this ❤️

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

I can identify with this, This gives me hope! Thank you!

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

I am very glad! Thank you for letting me know!

Hey Finn, It's Krischen. Sorry it's been a while. I hope you are doing well brother. I will catch up soon hopefully!! Thank You For The Info!!! Stay Safe!!! 👍😎😁

@FinnTheInfinncible

4 жыл бұрын

Hello my friend! Hope you are staying safe!

I only figured out I was trans last year, I've been anxious about surgeries and medical treatment but this video actually really helped me clear some things that are very important to me up, thank you

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

I am very glad this video helped! I hope things are going well and you are gradually making sense of this journey!

Thanks for the info.

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

This was extremely helpful!! Thank you for sharing such a personal experience with the rest of your Trans bros!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

What a lovely comment, thank you so much!

Baby Trans man here, this is so incredibly helpful, my bottom dysphoria has been becoming intense since starting transitioning but i was too afraid of Phallo because there are hardly any in depth experiences out there. This seriously helped, and also made me certain that i am gonna get it in the near future hopefully :)

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Hello and welcome! Thanks you for your lovely comment, I am so glad this video helped, this is exactly why I make these very frank videos, to help people overcome fear and make the best decisions for themselves. I am very glad to help and you can access more info and resources on my website here finlaygames.com/welcome/

Im FTM, and Im pretty sure I dont want bottom surgery, but I really enjoy watching these types of videos to keep the option open :P I really appreciate it!

I’ve been out for 10 years, on hormones for two, and I’ve always been intimidated by the idea of phallo. I didn’t want it at all at first because I was still somewhat attached to what I have now out of familiarity but your videos not only helped me realize that phallo is exactly what I want, but also helped me finally accept that I’m gay? Idk how those two things correlate but I’m grateful I found your content and that you’re so open. This is exactly the type of info I was looking for, and your personality just makes it that much more digestible.

Medical science is incredible.

@FinnTheInfinncible

Жыл бұрын

It really is!

Just coming across this - but it's exactly what I needed to hear :) I have had stage 1 for a couple of years now and am trying to push forward onto stage 2 and 3. Getting the v-nectomy has been terrifying me because I have not been able to just get off through stimulation of my penis. There are some spots that I use to make things easier while doing direct stimulation to my OEM bits. I've recently begun to realize that I need to have the v-nectomy so knowing that things change even after 2 years is really helpful!

@FinnTheInfinncible

2 жыл бұрын

OEM bits! LOVE the use of that! Very glad this video was helpful. I struggled with the V choices too, I was so afraid Id lose the ability to feel good and orgasm etc. I talk about this a LOT more in tmy Phallolasty memoir you can find that here 👉finlaygames.com/my-books/ And if its helpful, I made a bideo about my own vaginectomy process, decision making, fears etc 👉 kzread.info/dash/bejne/lJaMlcGYfcuTZ9o.html

would u say that you feel happier after surgery? do you feel more comfortable now compared to before? loved the video! super informative!

@FinnTheInfinncible

3 жыл бұрын

Oh absolutely yes! I did not know that it was possible o feel this comfortable in my own skin! Not sure if you saw this video but I talk about having finished the entire journey and how I feel! kzread.info/dash/bejne/f4mM1ZOxqJueYag.html

that's so useful for so many people. Love you Finn

@FinnTheInfinncible

5 жыл бұрын

I am very glad, and thank you! Love you too!