LOVED THIS👏🏽 Traumatic experiences and childhood also blocks feminine energy because you’ve had to be strong and independent to SURVIVE (especially in black women) it then increases your masculine energy when all you want is to rest in your femininity 💕

@Y.Bergamot

2 жыл бұрын

Yes exactly 💯.

@GuidetteExpert

2 жыл бұрын

I mean the attitude is what blocks the feminine energy not really the trauma.

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

That is a great point you made! Thank you Lori. 💞🌷

@EmmaDivaOfficial

Жыл бұрын

Yessss...I was taught every day as a child negative things about men and how I must grow to be super independent. It's still a work in process to accept help from others. I am definitely too in my masculine energy, through learning, environment and circumstances, but I'm working on connecting with my feminine energy more :)

@amberv4223

Жыл бұрын

I am a childhood trauma survivor and recently discovered that despite being a girly girl I have been in my masculine energy.

I feel that many women feel that dressing and being feminine is for the male gaze. We have lost the sensibilities that we create beauty within and without. It is for US to express our creative energy.

@lilygreen4000

2 жыл бұрын

Totally agree! I went through a phase of believing this myself, and it was when I was also at the lowest point of my life. I love talking to and seeing comments like this from other feminine women! Xoxo.

@berrymilk123

2 жыл бұрын

They started to believe that when toxic feminists started saying Femininity was created by "males fantasy and patriarchy", which means it's evil and regressive, and if you're a feminine woman, you're part of the problem.

@LadyCamilleE

2 жыл бұрын

@@berrymilk123 exactly!! I Like lace and pretty things! Italian women get this.

@berrymilk123

2 жыл бұрын

@@LadyCamilleE What i find ironic is that they call feminine men "stunning and brave", but a feminine woman is problematic and even some people (misogynistic men and toxic feminist) see it as inferior. It's a shame because i believe we women are beautiful by nature, and when we are in tune with our femininity we can create and do incredible things. Femininity is powerful and far from inferior.

@LadyCamilleE

2 жыл бұрын

@@berrymilk123 💯 Women bring beauty to the world! To our homes, families, communities…. It’s in our nature to walk the beauty path as Native Americans call it. Walk in beauty, see in beauty, talk in beauty. Live in Beauty. Making us Beauty Full.

Only in my 64 yrs on this earth have I decided I love my body in the last year. I beat Covid! That was my defining time to appreciate my body.

@Wonderwoman79G

2 жыл бұрын

That is amazing that you beat Covid.

@sambailie4773

Жыл бұрын

I'm so glad Sharon. God bless you xx

@ilariamasullo3353

Жыл бұрын

Your body did a great job! Covid was no walk in the park

Yes- my feminine energy block started as a young girl- I went through sexual trauma and I’ve taken this dis ease to therapy I learned that my mind quickly understood I did not have control as a girl- so I began to admire masculine traits because I saw strength and control in it. It’s taken me a long time to embrace my femininity but better late than never I say. Connecting to my body is my current goal through meditation connecting to my feminine I feel like a newborn lol

I agree that it’s very important to have female friends but it’s so hard to find trustworthy female friends.

@koagyaru

2 жыл бұрын

very hard in now-a-days... 😓

@timbillalydia7716

Жыл бұрын

Very true…Never had a true friend…

@kekedream

10 ай бұрын

I agree, also so many women are obsessed with catering to their men and making their man their whole universe that its hard to create a bond and friendship with a woman like that. Even me and my sister are not as close as we could be because her man is her whole world- and he cheats on her! Its sad.

@Kashmir-lt4cx

4 ай бұрын

@chellyvino but think are male friends better?

When you said suppressing your emotions, I started crying. I'm really a lot more hurt than I thought I was...

@lifewithkashmeere

2 жыл бұрын

Same I always denied my hurt when it came to relationships but once I admitted to those emotions of being hurt I felt a lot better

@Talking_With_Gabrielle

6 ай бұрын

That first one drew me in as well, I was like welp there it is!

When I got divorced I had to step into my masculine energy to survive! I had be the Mom and Dad to three boys! I still love to wear dresses and earrings and bracelets! I like to get my hair done and sometimes my nails! I try to dress nice when I go shopping or I visit someone. I try to stay up to date with clothes. For seven years I did Zumba which was a great way to get in touch with your feminine side! I still feel invisible to most guys. Once in a while a guy will stop to chat for a brief moment. I enjoy it when a man opens the door for me it makes me feel special! I have a hard job and I have to wear a uniform all day so I take pleasure in wearing better clothes. I think I'm a work in progress and I have a ways to go! Every day is an adventure! I think with everyone's support and encouragement I will get there eventually ❣️ Wish me luck 🤞

@marieekblad629

2 жыл бұрын

I belive we need both ” masculine” anf ” femiinine” energy. You can have and need both.

@janetaguilar3048

2 жыл бұрын

Good mama you got this💗

@JuliaShalomJordan

2 жыл бұрын

Keep that great attitude. It’s all about you’re spirit being soft and kind…yet stay smart!💕

My feminine energy blocked since i was a child (5+ y.o) because i wanted to impress my mom (to the point i had gender dysphoria (i was very very much in toxic musculine energy) ) but in the end i resived nothing and here i am healing every wound

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing. And it’s beautiful that you are taking back your power and are healing. Take it step by step. 💞🌷

@NN-up3mq

2 жыл бұрын

Same here Itz. I was chasing my moms love and approval and neglected myself. I was also chasing everyone else's approval for some signs of value but it was always bread crumbs. Wish you the best on your new journey sending hugs!!

Growing up with two brothers, an older sister who was constantly working and being one of the home providers made me also develop and be comfortable with my masculine energy... I actually had to learn to be more femenine even when my mother actually hit me because I was so masculine she thought I was a lesbian 😂 Thank you for helping me out throughout this journey 🖤

It's hard to stay in your femininity if your survival is threatened. To start this journey one has to have financial security. Lucky ladies have financial security from parent straight to their marriage. That way they can practice naturally. But those of us that has to fend for ourselves would have to make money first then start their healing process towards becoming feminine

@karens1156

2 ай бұрын

So True 👍

My mom is in her masculine energy and i have to always do self talk to not follow in her steps. Also, being in an abusive relationship can push me out of my feminine energy as i mentally plan to escape and be strong on my own

Heavy on intuition being your guiding core! I’m 21 and trying to absorb all the advice you have to give 🥰❤️ love u big sis!

Yes my feminine energy is block bc I find myself taking care of everyone and i am more giving and I actually feel bad receiving gift and help from other.

Blocked negative self talk

@7:53 plus trauma overrides intuition, being in hypervigilant mode aka survival mode is also an intuition killer!

I naturally have a masculine polarity, my voice is strong and very active but I'm trying to empower my feminity. My husband is more feminine and he's also working in his masculinity.

Sometimes it's okay to hold back your true feelings, especially when you are with someone who careless, otherwise, we need to really be expressive. Thank you for sharing 🌹

@LateshaRenee

2 жыл бұрын

Yes boundaries! 🙌

@CatrinaZera

2 жыл бұрын

I love this however let me add the following. Express your true feelings through journaling; take a walk and talk to nature or God out loud; work out the feelings with a friend or counselor. Our feelings are a physical expression of the energies that we are, that we magnetize, that we emit, and/or that we transmit and transmute for the world. As women, we learn how to express our energy safely and freely to create and magnify beauty, joy, fun, peace and harmony etc consciously or we can create and magnify the not so beautiful etc. Be well !

I was very masculine which makes sense why I would attract feminine men no matter how well they tried to mask it. Being very independent and in survival mode was how I’ve always been, it was my limited belief. I had poor examples, poor environment, and sexual abuse which made me want to crawl into myself. I was a tomboy and tough. I thought tough was good, because I looked at the world as a bad place. I’ve done a lot of inner work and I now understand we are the creators of our own reality. I am so excited to continuously evolve and live in my divine feminine energy. It is such a blessing to be a woman. I am so happy to be me! I want to lead a life that inspires other woman and of course never stop growing. Wishing everyone an abundance of blessings and overflow of love. You got this! We are all Queens. Let’s be the change we want to see in the world and demonstrate what it is like to be a high value woman.

My feminine energy is definitively blocked :-( I recently got out of a five year relationship with a men and I'm 100% sure that I was the one with the "masculine energy" and he was the one with the feminine one. But not anymore! My next relationship has to be with someone who helps me embrace my feminine side.

you posted this at the right time, girl!!!!!!! thank you Urania💖💖

My husband has become very resistant to letting me be feminine. It’s a big problem. But we cannot compromise emotional wellness to make loved ones comfortable.

@JuliaShalomJordan

2 жыл бұрын

Oh man. 😟

@honeygirltru

2 жыл бұрын

No children? Leave immediately now. Don't waste anymore time.

@lydk2146

2 жыл бұрын

You should leave

@SinaAla

Жыл бұрын

What are his concerns? When one partner makes changes, sometimes the other partner has fears of being abandoned. Encourage him to be in his masculine; hopefully that will help

@kekedream

10 ай бұрын

He sounds like an insecure man, that's a no no! 👀

Girl I’ve been watching your videos since you started KZread and you’re glowing!! I can see your progress ❤️

I married a provider because I utilized my young age and beauty to get that. With that said, if a woman is ugly or poor or worse…. BOTH, she will have to struggle a LOT more to be feminine and be provided for and important. I think those of us that are feminine and never have things disrupt that fail to see that that in and of itself is such a huge privilege

Thank you . You are a joy to listen!

Good Morning I recently found your channel and love your videos they are so positive and inspiring….thank you 🙏🏽❤️

You are absolutely lovely- as always! You make Sundays even better :)

Best video I’ve heard all year! Thank you🤍

Urania, good morning, it is here in Arkansas! Another gem. I like it when someone reminds us to honour our feminity. Thank you. You are soft, you are gentle, you are pleasant and feminine!

Thank you Urania, I appreciate your advice so much.

My feminine energy was blocked before, but I am so happy it's back, that you for all your encouraging videos.

Your channel is a breath of fresh air. Thank you.❤️

Hi Urania, Thank you for taking the time to create this in depth video on blocked feminine energy. I love watching your videos because I want to learn how to beautifully flow and be in my beautiful feminine energy. I realized I attracted feminine men in the past due to not valuing myself and believing I am worthy. Now, I’m learning day by day how to dress, participate in self care and self love. I have stopped entertaining one sided friendships and romantic relationships. I value getting to know people more. I am learning how to set firm boundaries both professionally and personally. I’m feeling great. I love watching your videos because I feel like I’m on the right path😊❤🙏🏾🎉🥳👑🍾🙌🏾

Hi! I want to say thank you so much for your videos. I am going back to improving myself and increasing my feminine energy.

My feminine energy has been blocked for years. I had to step into my masculine when my now ex/husband decided to stop taking care of the family. I began neglecting myself to make sure my children were taken care of. Now 19 years later at 45 I’m trying to rediscover my femininity.

@Jaythecook

2 жыл бұрын

You can do it... 1 step at the time. Well done in taking care of your family. I'm proud of you

I love the way you talk. It's comforting 🥰

I love this video, you’re so elegant and well spoken. Thank you for sharing this wisdom

Great video as always💖💖💖

I love everything about this video. So on point.

Thank you so much for this video. I won’t lie, it was pretty tough to face the fact that I’ve been in my masculinity for awhile now and because of it, I’ve lost plenty of opportunity to grow. Since I found your channel, I’ve been learning to accept help, making self care a priority and trying to stay in a peaceful mindset even when I’m tested the most. I will practice this even more and love myself more along the way. Thank you 😊

Thank u for all yr wisdom and for sharing these. Xx

Urania, I feel like I am never able to have such insight, so thank you for yours. I didn't realize that I was so blocked, til now. 😊. Blessings.

This was great.. thank you

Ty for sharing really helpful god bless you lots love

Thank you for this fascinating video! I am definitely blocked in many areas and have some changes to make...feeling hopeful and inspired! Thank you and Be Well!

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

You will do great. 😊💕

Thank you so much for the tips I appreciate you

I definitely needed this video

Thank you for another insightful video. 💃💜

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

You are very welcome. 💞🤗

I enjoyed this ❤️

Thank you for the video 🌻 I appreciate how unique your advice is from other youtube copycats.

Thank you for these videos!!☀️❤💓👍

@Myfemmedaily

Жыл бұрын

You are very welcome 💕

Thank you love.

I am a beautiful, powerful, expression of feminine energy. 🍷🍇

I feel like I struggle a bit with receiving. However, I don’t struggle with the rest of the points you mentioned.

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for sharing! 💞

Love this topic and video! I think a big issue with successful women is that women before us have suppressed their femininity in order to be taken seriously. We have to break that stigma! Femininity is a beautiful and pivotal to the success of any woman to be truly whole

At different times of my life I have blocked my feminine energy but the worst was few years ago because of horrific depression. I still can’t believe how horrible it was, i wore buggy ugly jackets and scrubs everywhere everyday!

Thanks Urania

This video was an eye opener. I am the youngest of 4 children, I have 3 older brothers. I think that growing up around all men made me tap into my masculine energy by default most of the time. Recently been feeling stuck exactly as described, and been trying to figure out why. I believe this is the reason. Thank you

Yes, I have always struggled with my body image. To avoid bullying I had to behave in a hard way like carrying a man persona. But now I am getting more in tuned with my feminine power I am positive that my journey of femininity will bring me loads of amazing opportunities life has to offer me

@JuliaShalomJordan

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Amen!🙏🏻💞

Thank you💜💜💜💜

Hello & Happy Sunday , Urania 🤍☀️🎀🌸👒💐💗😊

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

Happy Sunday Maricel. 💕🌷

Hello dear Urania... It is all true. I feel that I have a feminine energy inside of me but the masculin energy is more dominant... For exercise I hate wearing dresses, floral dresses are a nightmare for me, but instead I take care of my appearance and I love love floral cups of tea 😏

You are so beautiful. With a quiet and gentle spirit❤️

Thanks for sharing

I had blocked my femenine energy, now im more happy 😍🙌🏼

Your videos are so calming and instructive and you are so beautiful too mach' Allah ❤❤

😂😂😂I have always been serious I think that blocked my femininity. Thank you

This feels like a beatdown 😂 but yeah beautifying my house is a point that applies to me…among others mentioned 😂

I can relate to a lot of what is in the video.

My feminine energy is blocked because when I get upset and I am having a confrontation with someone I find it difficult to maintain a calm state, I also find that I am always serious and never spontaneous.

I didn't know how important the safe care is.. From having skin care routine, watching what u eat-healthy eating habits. And looking beautiful. When you do this you feel very good. Start by having a simple skin routine, it feels good.

Greetings and Salutations. Yes I have not always been my best femenine self.

SAY IT LOUDER 🥺 i never express my feelings

My Feminine Energy was LOW Because I did not ask 4 help I did not set boundaries & I was to not allowing the man to show me what he would do for me....I took control to often...planning, making reservations, planning trips, essentially LEADING🤦🏽‍♀️

I love your videos so much ❤️

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

That is so kind. Thank you 💞🌷

@Jenny_Kings

2 жыл бұрын

@@Myfemmedaily you're welcome

Bring back my femenine energy back after my masculine mother bullying me through the years with my passive agressive father. I dont like the way they are the way they are nor tolerate bullying from others of how i express myself. What brings back my femeninity when it comes to hobbies is sewing next to continue my course on fashion design there are times doing intern work for my mentor while taking notes , observing hand craft , sourcing etc then try them bit by bit for hobbies and career . Actually while listening to this got the time to use floral applique 3ds to hand embroder a black dress as if it were a monochromatic boquette of flowers

this was so good again. 😇 Thank you for mentioning again all that points. I often forget all that, although I enjoy that. Can you give a special hint for women who are in an masculine job and have to wear uniform? I can also only underline the high importance of listening to the intuition... When I did not listen to it, in the past very awful things happened, which I had already seen coming. 😪

@halcyondays8945

2 жыл бұрын

I have seen women look feminine in masculine uniforms through excellent grooming. It’s amazing what natural makeup, a chic bun and stud earrings can do. Making sure your uniform is clean, wrinkle free and tidy looking is important. Clean shoes and well-groomed hands (polish not necessary) cap it all off.

@sabinekreuz

2 жыл бұрын

@@halcyondays8945Thank you!☺

@giainto5564

2 жыл бұрын

On point. I find this look very sexy (and I’m a woman lol). Trust me, you have a great advantage when you’re in a male dominated job. You get to meet and many men see you in your job. You get to choose from many men.

The reason my feminine energy is blocked is because I have a very feminine father. Don't get me wrong I appreciate him for whatever he has done for me but subtly his lack of masculinity affected me and mother so much. My mother became a control freak and I grew up in survival mode. He sometimes act as a teenage girl towards me (picking on me, talking down about me, fighting with me for the smallest matter). I came to the point that the heavenly father is the only father I'll rely on

I am curious, where you raised to be as feminine and graceful as you are? Listening to you calms my spirit but also awakens a need that I didn’t realize I had. I am consciously becoming a more graceful woman however, certain things are so deeply embedded that I wonder about the work it takes to actually overcome?

Beautiful ❤️

1st point is so much me ☹️ I am always shy to express my emotions and because my family members Laugh at me whenever I talk about my feelings 😢

Im on my way of becoming feminine and my fem energy is wounded and blocked because i have hard times fighting w/father who is an addict and i have to stand for myself and my mom and i remember even beating him bcz of being furious about his behaviour. So yes im on my recovery way, sisters

@constansambekenga252

2 жыл бұрын

Sorry for this, some of us are facing this....hope one day everything will be okay 🙏

@alexandrakuz218

2 жыл бұрын

@@constansambekenga252 Thank you dear for support ❤️

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

I’m so sorry. But I’m proud of you that you are taking back your power and are healing. I’m sending you so much love Alexandra. 💞🌷💞

@alexandrakuz218

2 жыл бұрын

@@Myfemmedaily I appreciate your support and kind words, dear Urania! And I believe that the mission you bring to this world pays off! Your impact to womens growth is extremely important, please dont stop it! Love you ❤️😭

My example: it took me until couple of recent years to understand that I was constantly sabotaging myself. Everyone would tell me that I am so feminine and all that, but for some reason my love relationships with men were always bad. It took me years to realise I was always acting in my masculine. I seek a Masculine man, but I would always feel like I only have "weaklings" around me, so I would purposefully test them by showing that even I could be more masculine than them, as a way to make them realize just how weak their masculine game was in my opinion (!). I thought it would make them step up their game. Oh stupid, stupid me. Then these men would be chased off and I would instead attract feminine, actual weak men. And THAT would make me even more angry and sour, making me think that there are just no masculine men at all. It was all ME, I was just scaring them off myself and putting myself on a radar for feminine men. And of course this closed cycle would repeat again and again, killing my internal femininity, as I would start to try and compensate for missing masculine partner by being both man and a woman in one. And I've done that since I was a teenager! (In addition I was very rigid and uncompromising in my relationships, as it was my way or highway, since childhood :( ) Well, jokes on me. Took me a couple of decades to understand where this was coming from, and all of that was me sabotaging myself. Late realisation, but at least it's acknowledged and I can work on undoing all those masculine and toxic layers I put upon myself. Thank you for your videos, Urania! Love your content, how softspoken and elegant you are and the simple background with flowers is such a minimalistic but classy touch. Please keep it up! ❤❤❤

@NN-up3mq

2 жыл бұрын

Wow I just realized this is what I have been doing. Thank you for sharing this.

@bleachgirl19carte91

2 жыл бұрын

I literally related to this so much✨! I have been working on my femininity myself, and still feel like I always have to be both because I don’t have a masculine man in my life. So I have to be the man that I need. I’m learning how to come out of that, any tips?🙏🏾

@WhiteFuryJade

2 жыл бұрын

@@bleachgirl19carte91 the only way I've experienced breaking out of it was accepting and even asking for help from men. Like when someone holds a door for you, picks up something you dropped etc - no need to be all "no need to, I got this". Accepting small help is baby steps but I think it's crucial in breaking the knee-jerk reaction to do all by yourself. And also trusting men surrounding you to do things by themselves. Micromanaging everything was also something I had to unlearn (still learning how to let go of all this control tbh). Other than that.. I think Urania and channels like hers actually cover the bases :) we just need to see where we ourselves act in our masculine and reverse these acts, but it is truly trough baby steps, otherwise one may get irritated and impatient too quick and jump back into the masculine 😅 long comment from my side, but anyway, I really wish you all the best on your journey! Love meeting more women on their healing feminine journey! ❤❤❤❤

@POPWITHELLE

Жыл бұрын

I totally relate to this. I have been called “boss” by men countless times that I’m finally realizing where it was all coming from. Proving that their masculine game was weak is something I struggle with and I hope my tone of voice and other aspects of me soften in this journey. Using endearments is a way I’m reminding myself to calm down in every conversation with a man. Thank you for sharing this!

In childhood I grew up as an unimportant child... Bullied in school ,had skin disorders untreated, could not express my emotion because nobody cared nobody even asked ,stuffed all my emotions inside from an early age,

Hey, love your videos. On my feminity journey but am struggling, I find it hard to restrain myself with the way I speak and my body language. Do you think it is best for me to not to consume masculine content, for example I love football and watching UFC and find myself after watching these acting more masculine. Also I find it difficult to find very masculine men and therefore will begin to wear the pants in the relationship and I will act how I want a man to act towards me.

Unfortunately life's disappointments made me block my feminine energy. Being in a stressful situation that I felt hopeless in made me neglect myself. It's when I'm at peace and most happy that I'd take the time to invest in my appearance and do some self-care. I'm slowly trying to get back to a good place again.

Do you have a video on how we end up with feminine men? Or anything of that topic?

Wow all of these describe me atm

I’m sick of people telling me femininity is an energy or a feeling. Femininity is being a woman, not feeling like one. You are a woman if you are a woman, you aren’t a woman if you are a man. That’s it. That’s how simple it is yet people don’t get it.

lately im been neglected these basic needs for myself. im struggling juggling, and im just exhausted at end of day & week. barely want to do anything. i just dont know how to break the cycle

My feminine energy is 100 blocked. I have major sexual trauma in my past and grew up in an abusive family, leading me to have no self esteem or self worth, despite knowing I have a beautiful face and am a high acheiving medical professional. My last partner wouldn’t commit to me “because he didn’t want a relationship” and then cut things off with me (we were casually dating) to get into a relationship with a girl who was a student and working as a server.

@Wonderwoman79G

2 жыл бұрын

I would advise that you seek therapy, if you have not already started.

@knowyourkismat

2 жыл бұрын

@@Wonderwoman79G I have tried a few therapists. In my experience, they have no idea how to actually help. They just want me to pay them to sit there and listen to me talk about all my problems. I have done that enough, I need to find some way to move forward now. They have no idea how to actually help me heal and move on

@giainto5564

2 жыл бұрын

Same! I have a feeling they just pretend to listen many times, they might even be making their grocery list or thinking about their own life when “listening” to you. What we need is real practical advice to implement, not just someone to “pretend listen”.

They is a point you mentioned about being aggressive. That’s true being aggressive is a man’s thing and women should be more soft and gentle. That’s what balances the masculine and feminine energy. Please do a video on feminine communication with men and being assertive without being aggressive

My energy has definitely been blocked 🥺

you’re the most beautiful woman ❤️

I definitely lost my feminine energy 😭

We need your makeup tutorial please.!!!!! Xoxo❤️

@Myfemmedaily

2 жыл бұрын

I will do one soon! 💞

@browngirl6011

2 жыл бұрын

@@Myfemmedaily please soon

I like the calm and elegant way like you are but I married a weak grown boy so my masculine energy is coming out like crazy. I have 3 sons so I end up doing all guy stuff with them, like camping, hiking because their dad doesn't.

I fund with certain men ,I'm being the masculine one, because they refuses or cant take the lead , I have to step in and take charge, when that happens I loose some amount of respect for them and I cant help but see them as feminine. And eventually I lose interest in them and start to resent them for not takeing the lead . And in the end I walk away not caring if they are hurt or not it makes me feel sick around them like something's wrong and out if control, I love being a woman and everything that comes with that role.When this is taken from me by a feminine man I'm lost in the relationship feel drowned heavey weighted and healed down playing a role I hate.

Working too hard in a career out of the home. Women's liberation has blocked our feminine side

Work in progress...🌴