Are there any other signs of fake nice people that we missed?

@kellygreen3622

5 жыл бұрын

You, are fake, too!

@judibooher7796

5 жыл бұрын

@FAILED BRAINWASHER EmilyFox you are smart, don't lose your intuition 👍

@kidaniels8199

5 жыл бұрын

Aim the cut off thing I'm glad you mentioned it Asbergerz do this,all the time. ....but it is,for different reasons....its a, cueing issue. Happens to me all the time....even on the phone,with operators. We both start speaking at the same time. But when some others do it I notice it is a intentional control tactic yes? It derails me Escalates,me And feels oppressive when done from a controlling perspective. This took me 4 ever to figure it out btw So....i have a cueing issue... And so.etimes have to watch speaking over people...but if you know me you know it is a curing issue. It took me 4 years to firmly say.... Do not speak over me Stop interrupting me I would really appreciate it if you would let me finish You just did it again your intentionally interrupting me escalating me when I just asked you to stop doing that It takes,a lot of courage Often a narc will interrupt and,say "can I talk now" and your in the middle making your point and poor you get derailed. I had to learn rapid fire techniques like stating no ...let me finish...dont talk over me.... And say it several times until they stop and they do... Then when I'm finished (unfortunately you can see that an a sbergers trait is in fact being long winded....and repeating yourself -yuke), they speak and I listen deeply and carefully. You know what...my favorite people to speak with are foreigners. These things don't seem to manifest as often...they can have a wider vocabulary.... I find sincerity as well. Course it depends on the country they are from lol Other signs of fake people....aum watch out for the mean streak How about this thought....statistical analysis of fake people in job genres Actors Doctors Law Enforcement😎😉😀 Lawyers Sales Politics Environmentalists Scientists Body builders Carpenters Artists (must be fake , bizarre does not count) Choreographers Writers Hairdressers Muse.i.shuns😎😉 The list goes on lol How would we measure this..... Maybe brainy dose can informally sir.vey? Be on the vanguard I say...do something different from the status quo

@kidaniels8199

5 жыл бұрын

Scary pic btw...i keep looking at the deadpan face....yikes

@rebeccaliew2247

5 жыл бұрын

From a personal experience with a 'fake nice person'…Fake nice people have potential to be good at manipulation. If they cannot get what they want from you, they don’t leave you alone or bailed out on you - they can resort to blackmail. You either submit to their ill-will demands or walk out on them.

People with high anxiety who are trying to work on socializing can sometimes come off as insincere when really it is them working through their issues.

@Nati4Truth

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly..and looking for approval is sign of low self esteem, or inability to say no.. it doesn't mean that those,people are fake. They try to find themselves and be comfortable with who they really are.. I'm talking about myself..but as u see, u can also relate to this.It's just not that black or white..

@ygstan777

5 жыл бұрын

No Name exactly

@davinthetoothgamer4872

5 жыл бұрын

Thats me

@arande3

5 жыл бұрын

Super true. However, people still react based on what they perceive.

@topazfire974

5 жыл бұрын

@@davinthetoothgamer4872 me too

People who gossip horribly about others to you, gossip horribly about you to others. Period.

@JayJay-zw6eb

5 жыл бұрын

Omg you are so full of shit so you mean to tell me you never spoke badly horribly about nobody give me a fucking break you are a narcissist cuz you fucking lying right now

@yourmomgee1618

5 жыл бұрын

Dude right

@mariamariscal5616

5 жыл бұрын

Christian Schuyler Scott true👍

@erinplourde-bragg9557

5 жыл бұрын

truth. Ive always said that.

@barbarahenderson4736

5 жыл бұрын

That's why? They never get anywhere, in life , so busy diging ditches.

One of the worst feelings in the world is when you finally discover that someone you thought was kind and compassionate is dead fake.

@vivhiggins5656

2 жыл бұрын

How true,

@joshuapearson2217

2 жыл бұрын

They notice when you become aware. They’ll put in a little effort to continue the facade, but when they realize you know for certain, they get mad.

@mochamp4353

2 жыл бұрын

Tbg noel

@carynmartin6053

2 жыл бұрын

@@joshuapearson2217 exactly. Like a true narcissist, manipulative all the time

@elpanderohabanero2915

2 жыл бұрын

yea, you will grow out of this naivity

Avoid is the key word. No confrontation, no giving lessons , no anger. Just avoid.

@elenal2012

2 ай бұрын

Just get up and leave. No explaining, no complaining, no discussion. Just run!!

They act all nice and sweet when its just the two of you.... but when other people are around they ignore you

@LuciasJourney

5 жыл бұрын

FACTS

@layzer6421

5 жыл бұрын

That should be added to the video!

@phantomprince8275

5 жыл бұрын

So true

@bonniebunbuns630

5 жыл бұрын

They ignore you or they're just plain out rude to you

@pantino21

5 жыл бұрын

Truee so true. My ex bestfriend is like that to me.

The worst is when it's your family that are fake but you grew up thinking they were genuine.

@spirituallifecoachinginsti7207

5 жыл бұрын

MY FAMILY IS ALL FULL OF THEMSELVES....THE WORST CHURCH GOING FAKE-SNAKES.....!!! RUNNNNNNNNN.

@SusanBrooklyn

5 жыл бұрын

@@spirituallifecoachinginsti7207They sound very self absorbed.

@godzillafart6531

5 жыл бұрын

Yes thats very sad just found it out when im 14.. im 15 btw

@SusanBrooklyn

5 жыл бұрын

@@godzillafart6531 I hadnt any idea at 14, so consider yourself very blessed. My advice is to become self sufficient. Don't depend on anyone. Get great grades in school so you can have a career you enjoy and earn good money. Good luck!

@tez_foe4382

5 жыл бұрын

@@SusanBrooklyn , I Agree

This is why I’m so proud to be a introvert. Too many fake people out there these days it’s hard to trust someone.

@jeremyk4276

Жыл бұрын

Haha respect.!. same specie here. Life is good that way

@zoebedford7230

Жыл бұрын

I trust animals more than humans. If someone said to me "who do you trust in life?' (People) nobody would come to mind, but if they said to me "which of your animals do you trust?" Without hesitation I would say - "there's Sekani, Bibs, Bijingo, Storm etc" because they have never betrayed me in any way and love me unconditionally 😍🥰💜💙💚

@BC-vt2nv

Жыл бұрын

Same!

@triocha233

Жыл бұрын

@@zoebedford7230 big facts bro !! Animals are Animals… whereas Humans are much more dangerous

@zoebedford7230

Жыл бұрын

@@triocha233 Unfortunately I'm all too aware of that fact, but I believe that if more people had felt the blissful feeling of love, then maybe, just maybe life wouldn't be quite as bad as it is today.

I had a “friend” recently that started showing their true colors. I do not engage anymore, and decline invites involving them. Protecting my peace ✌🏼

@kylerobbins8047

Жыл бұрын

Good for you and I wish the best for you I'm on the same side of the fence as you these kind of people should definitely be avoided praises to you

@longjohnny

Жыл бұрын

Plot twist: You're mentally ill.

@Lin00able

Жыл бұрын

@@kylerobbins8047 Help others to wise up, no gossip, just experience knowledge. I'm happy you are out of their game, it always gets worse.

@Lin00able

Жыл бұрын

The disillusionment is harsh.

@Faithajonay

4 ай бұрын

If they werent a "friend" .... what "were" they to you

"A friend to everyone...is a friend to no one." I cant remember where I heard this quote but there is alot truth to it.

@user-hj6cu4fp4e

3 жыл бұрын

Shakespeare

@sofiaelectra5014

3 жыл бұрын

This is literally my “friend” she looks kind to everyone but she’s really toxic and talks behind everyone’s back

@user-hj6cu4fp4e

3 жыл бұрын

@@sofiaelectra5014 bcz just by showing kindness off she can come closer to people and know their secrets and spread gossips and can use people😈

@user-hj6cu4fp4e

3 жыл бұрын

@@sofiaelectra5014 maintain a distance from such people bcz they will spoil your image🙏

@JohnPierre-lz6vb

3 жыл бұрын

@@sofiaelectra5014 Fake people are so lonely cause they hate themselves that they want to be loved by others without loving them. They are the loneliest poeple in the world. Their problem not mine.

I'm in my 50's now and as i get older i don't pay attention to other people whether they are fake or not, i mind my own business most of the time because life is damn short and i just wanna live it.

@doctorvsh

5 жыл бұрын

Best comment

@yenyvargas3896

5 жыл бұрын

Im 33 im the same way they ignore me i do too

@TAWSNM

5 жыл бұрын

It's safer that way, but it's also how we may be shutting the door to opportunity. Sounds sad and potentially lonely.

@RobertaJLong

5 жыл бұрын

👍👍👍

@tez_foe4382

5 жыл бұрын

@@TAWSNM , Especially Social Networking

I used to hang around a group of people who were mostly fake. Since I have dropped them all as friends I realized how toxic they were. I don't miss them at all. Thanks for showing this video, everyone should watch it!

@AyyyQ

Жыл бұрын

Same

@magnificentmuttley154

Жыл бұрын

*My favorites:* *#4:* Continually wanting your attention/ validation Because their life story & any narrative they give of it is fiction, they check you with phrases like "Do you believe me" & "Dont you agree." Typically this constant prodding gives away their insecurity. Consequently as you their "new friend" get to know them & this pretentious game of theirs, naturally you stop giving them this attention they always crave. This makes them even more insecure than before. Although not every "pretender" who fictionalizes their life story is a narcissus, nonetheless *this is the ultimate weapon against narcissuses!* *#6:* They dont pay attention to what you have to say They want to be the center of attention, esp when alone with you. Although they can be masterful at draining all the attention (& mental energy) from you that they can, you will find their attention is always on something or someone else when its your turn to speak *#7:* Never trust a gossiper! Anyone who criticizes & attacks someone to you behind their back will do the very same thing to you, when youre back is turned

@zzkkkrjjeeeii

Жыл бұрын

Same here

@thegrey8643

Жыл бұрын

Dont look back and dont let remembering them creep up on you. Just move on with life like they never were.

Another sign of fake nice people. Someone attacks you and the jerk just stands there and tries to be nice to your attacker instead of stand up for you.

Not going to even lie, this made me realize how sometimes I can be fake myself. I really need to fix this..

@aimeejane_writings

5 жыл бұрын

Rob E. oof me on a couple of the points

@lorizline3457

5 жыл бұрын

Takes alot of courage to say that! 💙💙💙💙💙😘

@minaku9655

5 жыл бұрын

me too

@fereshteha8501

5 жыл бұрын

Same

@88SJoe88

5 жыл бұрын

I think it applies to all of us in different proportions, like when we were hurt by being true to people.

People generally don't like me, because I'm genuine, and speak my mind.

@kamilmusalat

5 жыл бұрын

Amy Shakalis I think most people are so insecure about themselves that they don’t like real people, they are scared that somehow you may show they’re insecurities even if you don’t, but the simple fact that they think you could makes them uncomfortable......

@nervotica7991

5 жыл бұрын

Dizziemiss Lizzie - you sound like a real German. I LOVE their direct honesty.

@winnerofgorillazgottalent1710

5 жыл бұрын

Yes, you're probably right. You seem genuinely antagonistic. Lets be friends.

@halcioncocaine2096

5 жыл бұрын

Try to be subtle,it's called cunning,are you capable of it or not✔

@idoitforfun6153

5 жыл бұрын

Most people like me because I'm outgoing and love to compliment people, but I have also had friendships that dissolved because I'm weird and socially awkward at times.

I don’t encounter many “fake nice” people these days. Everyone seems to be pretty “genuinely mean”. 😂

I learned so much…those who interrupt conversations…. Those who ignore while a person is talking….. those who tell the same stories over and over… everything surrounds them. After this video I believe there is a connection with narcissism in fake people

You never know them until you say 'NO'. Just say no and they'll unveil their real self.

@iAlwaysSpeakTheTruth

4 жыл бұрын

christ code I can relate to this so many times 😂😂😂

@garychrome1027

4 жыл бұрын

No

@spacelyman9482

4 жыл бұрын

Very, Very, true.

@MY-cv2xr

4 жыл бұрын

I did it a few months ago with this girl and damn... she really became another person with me

@bkh5648

4 жыл бұрын

Say no for a reaction. Hmmm. Doesn’t sound like any kind of friend to me.

Fake nice people talk behind your back.

@4you2grow75

5 жыл бұрын

*loved your comment👌 and your channel, too*

@ahmedandalous2878

5 жыл бұрын

😊😉😎👍🏿😶🤐

@happychampion3096

5 жыл бұрын

Yes ,a lot.The good thing about that is congratulation you've got a fan club.

@TheSgedioxide

5 жыл бұрын

When you hate someone you only hate them for what you see similar traits you have and not because they are different because you cannot hate what is unknown to you. They are behind your back for a reason.

@hoasam372

5 жыл бұрын

They're the worst people's to keep as a company.

That’s why I am a lone wolf. I trust nobody but myself. The points discussed in this video reminded me of someone I knew. Full of himself, total show off, needs validation all the time, says he is happy for you but behind, criticises you, I could go on. Their only friends are people who are fake just like them. Likes attract likes.

I have a lot of narcissistic people around me, I just keep my distance.

A dirty secret is, at some point we're all fake...especially if you've ever worked a retail job. There you're paid to be nice to people.

@69LOLIN

5 жыл бұрын

I agree...but that is a type of job, not a friendship or relationship. This is for people who have a certain bond!. Just my thought!

@NetiNeti-gm5bz

5 жыл бұрын

No. Some people genuinely love to be nice to people as it helps them become spiritual. You guys are the ones that this video is pointing out if we're all being completely honest

@catherha1

5 жыл бұрын

And some people genuinely like customer service

@anitacarter8060

5 жыл бұрын

James Davenport .... I agree!!!!

@RazorM97

5 жыл бұрын

it's all a prank, the camera is over there

Another sign is when you tell them good news and they say, "must be nice," rather than congratulating you.

@leighclement9850

5 жыл бұрын

then you must have wanted to take "us all" out to lunch...was the latest.

@houseofmatrix6174

5 жыл бұрын

JustChels this so real when they say good for you

@isobelndoro

5 жыл бұрын

Spot on...

@laurahendrickson2271

4 жыл бұрын

Yeah those people just straight up Dicks

@reneecatagnus2344

4 жыл бұрын

How I hate that! Just be nice, not envious, right?

The worst thing is when u discover somebody’s true colors

@drebugsita

Жыл бұрын

Worst but its also a blessing, as long as you accept that reality

@GRAFFITI_TAG_TEN.

Жыл бұрын

@4Frmcf: Right on ! ! ! 10 03 2023

@GRAFFITI_TAG_TEN.

Жыл бұрын

@@drebugsita Very true. 10 03 2023

@sparklelight86

Жыл бұрын

Noo it is the best, now you know. It hurts at the beginning, but your better of without that person

@msdecemberloveangel8236

Жыл бұрын

Correct not the worst the best. Red flags were probably flying all around you and you never noticed.

True friends are like diamonds, precious and rare, fake friends are like autumn leaves, found everywhere...

Thank you. Another one I noticed is that fake people are extremely impressed with rich people and are nice to rich people but are rude to waiters and waitresses. Just AWFUL

@zippyblessed839

5 жыл бұрын

True

@JAEJourneyAroundEurope

3 жыл бұрын

My niece 😳

@zolbayargranger217

Жыл бұрын

Those people drive me nuts!

If someone talks about others negatively to you, they're talking negatively about you to others

@shirleywong9428

4 жыл бұрын

of course do to others as they do to u

@dharkadira8047

4 жыл бұрын

100%...

@alessadolan5718

4 жыл бұрын

Indeed.. basically all my friends.

@Pheladi.M

4 жыл бұрын

1000% accurate. What they say about others to you, is what they will say about you to others in your absence

@anthonysalazar3900

4 жыл бұрын

In some cases that true. It's a sad state of affair when a person talk shit about others are you and thinks they are just all the time and not to mention that person is spritely dead black hearted you get the picture right.

So many people only bother when they have motives. And one of my aunts always used to say to me " if you ever want to meet liars and hypocrites go to church because there's plenty of them there" and I realize she was absolutely right.

@annemarienguyen6395

2 жыл бұрын

I am far from perfect I go to church because I need God and the community to help me to become a better person each day. It takes time to be transformed and be the best version of ourselves. For some it takes a lifetim, but God is patience and God is love.

@chrispoleson6118

Жыл бұрын

The thing that really annoys me is when you tell people you're a compulsive liar & they don't believe you.😂

@Faithajonay

4 ай бұрын

Kanye west - real friends...

@unapologeticella4540

12 күн бұрын

It's true💯

you can literally feel them at the first time you meet them and when you know how to notice these kinds of traits, sometimes it's still hard to avoid them

When you hear women boasting about what terrific mums they are, it means they are not. My mum always said that when you know you are a good mama, you don't have to shout it to the whole world.

@oraford9365

4 жыл бұрын

True

@craig3714

4 жыл бұрын

Jacqueline Green yup and maintenance man always bragging about how they are always trying to help and they are always acting like their job is so hard .

@TierraLynn

3 жыл бұрын

My mom was so shitty but will post us on FB as if she loves us but didn’t even raise us and chose a man instead.

@shellbell8062

3 жыл бұрын

Same with what a good person they are. That one makes alarm bells ring. Who needs to keep telling everyone what a good person they are?

@houseofmatrix6174

3 жыл бұрын

@@TierraLynn that’s bogus

This made me realized Why my friends circle are getting smaller. But hey quality over quantity.

@toxic9695

4 жыл бұрын

True

@msrain1235

3 жыл бұрын

That's definitely more important!

@satishg5538

3 жыл бұрын

I just have 2 or 3 people going on now

@carriedillmann4455

2 жыл бұрын

YES!!!

@carriedillmann4455

2 жыл бұрын

My Neighbor !!!!!!!’

Ah yes. This describes narcissism on a new level. Abusers do all of these things. Abusers will always turn the conversation back around to themselves. We learn to recognize it and move on.

@Lin00able

Жыл бұрын

ACCEPTION; covert narcissist-different game.

Most of these describe a toxic narcissist. Don’t just avoid them, RUN!

Someone once told me she liked me because I was “real.” That’s one of the nicest things anyone’s ever said to me.

@jeniwatkins3297

5 жыл бұрын

That is great!

@roryluvcat9081

5 жыл бұрын

I want a person to say that to me too

@smileybubbles9894

5 жыл бұрын

Twice now ....since I moved to Chicago, I've been told "with Pete ,what-you-see-is-what-you-get " and that's a great thing!

@princess1peach

5 жыл бұрын

Are u guys friends now

@williamizm3745

5 жыл бұрын

Plot twist: she lied.

That's why i don't have many friends. Because most people are fake. Edit: Thank you everyone for over 2k likes.

@gentlegee1976

5 жыл бұрын

Sadly John, I also find the same to be very true.

@dukadarodear2176

5 жыл бұрын

I used to think like that too. But then I realised that there were 50 or 60 fakes out there and only 3 genuine humans - me, myself and I.

@johntziannis359

5 жыл бұрын

@@gentlegee1976 I only have 3 friends that are true friends.

@johntziannis359

5 жыл бұрын

@@dukadarodear2176 That's funny.

@NCarolinaTarheelgal

5 жыл бұрын

+John Tziannis Don't feel bad or rained on simply because I am the same exact way you are concerning making and having a whole lot of friends. Most people know are made up to be nothing but fake and phony..... So why bother with those kinda folks.. Personally I see no need if they're not a totally true friend to begin with....

I'm a people watcher. When I see a person bust out with loud laughter then instantly shut it off like a light switch, this people are phony.

I hate when you're talking to someone and they can't wait to break in to talk about themselves or one up your story.

@ellejane7910

Жыл бұрын

My brother the “millionaire pilot”.

@curtismcavoy4488

Жыл бұрын

i love one uppers...sometimes i intentionally make up stories to see how they will one up it...me and a close friend at work will think of a story together and on lunch wait for him to show up at the smoke spot then one of us will tell it and both just grin waiting for....well this one time yada yada yada and we will laugh about it...been doing it for a couple weeks now and he hasnt caught on yet.....

Time tells u exactly who they are. I have met one too many.

@paulsawczyc5019

5 жыл бұрын

I never test people because time is the best test.

@pumpkingirl4229

5 жыл бұрын

I've dropped so called " Good Friends" for Fakeness, I couldn't say anything without them having done it " Better" . I am much Happier now. 👍😆

@Papawill13

5 жыл бұрын

To be fair, Time Proves all Things....

@deborah6809

5 жыл бұрын

Agreed 😊

@EroticStudMuffin

5 жыл бұрын

Same.

Trust your own instincts... if they make y'feel crazy, there's a good chance yer dealin' with a narc.

@sineadcampbell5147

4 жыл бұрын

A narcotics officer?? Get rid of them quick smart anyways.

@rarajean7431

4 жыл бұрын

Narcissists.

@SherCC

4 жыл бұрын

Agree, you usually can tell if someone coming to you is faked

@happhantom7353

4 жыл бұрын

Sheryl Z yep i just broke up with narc who faked their personality for a few months so i would like them back. feels bad to know u got played

@gmatinky3965

4 жыл бұрын

FACTS ✔💯💯

It is so important, especially at this time in the world, that we stop judging & criticising each other & accept who each of us is. If we don't like who someone is, & have reason not to, move on & leave them alone.

Regarding status and power, I always maintain, as an example: If they are nice to you but horrible to the waiter, chances are, they are not a nice person.

This is why I’m a loner.. introvert gang. 😂

@zarulzz1596

4 жыл бұрын

Same tho :)))

@KxngxBadger

4 жыл бұрын

Jamal T word copy that

@oimangtaloh4174

4 жыл бұрын

Same here

@lordsith952

4 жыл бұрын

SAME

@justanothersherlockian7058

4 жыл бұрын

YES! THANK YOU!✊

Fake nice people will be jealous of your success and good fortune.

@faywickens

5 жыл бұрын

Green eyed fake monsters

@Nati4Truth

5 жыл бұрын

So true.. unfortunately she is my best friend. But, whenever I get job or anything "better" than her, or even going to concert, she would envy me all the time. I'm seriously fed up with this, she is never truly happy for me...

@pourladentelle

5 жыл бұрын

@@Nati4Truth I knew a girl like that I thought was a friend. Eventually I learnt she hated me with all her soul and just kept around me to steal whatever good thing that came to me; a boyfriend, another friend, an opportunity; attention. U name it! She often turned people against me and let a guy drug my drink. My stories about her are many and tedious. I got away from her eventually, but I literally had to disconnect from anyone that knew her. She was addicted to treating me like sh#t!!! I never knew demons existed until running into people like her. They're evil; they do things deliberately to hurt you and they are proud of it and will continue until you cut them off!!! It's a sick game they play and you'll lose a lot if you continue with them. And in the worse case you can lose your life!!!

@pourladentelle

5 жыл бұрын

@Ainka Ryanit took me 20yrs.....it's sad, shocking and horrifying. Because after cutting them off they still continue to defame u to people....!!! Good luck on your journey...Hopefully it's no longer a mystery on what a good person looks, sounds and feels like!!

@SonuSharma-ch9mh

5 жыл бұрын

@@Nati4Truth lol I finally detached myself from one today !!

We must be able to recognize the genuinely nice people and the ones that pretend to be nice. There fake ones are the majority.

My feeling guides me here. People whose reacting overly nice for a certain purpose can actually be easily spotted. When your mind are using logics and reasons to justify what you've experienced, your gut will always pulls you back in a certain way that tells you this is not going well. It's not only about romantic relationship, friendship also applies here. In general, you should be careful to the people entering your inner circle; don't let them sabotage your life.

@Lin00able

Жыл бұрын

If they make it in, their game becomes apparent, let them go by whatever means not triggering a reaction of revenge or recrimination. Make it appear it's in their best interest. Smear campaigns are normal for them when they feel the need to payback. Or worse

Anti social people we're sometimes mistaken as fake people

@gbk4491

5 жыл бұрын

Elizaica Swan real shit

@roxyhaynes1839

5 жыл бұрын

Elizaica Swan very true

@miakka9298

5 жыл бұрын

Relate

@darkquaddy3342

5 жыл бұрын

Anti social are often the mos treal, unless they sociopaths lol

@shankaroonxxxx1480

5 жыл бұрын

Wordddd

They act nice to your face then talk bad about you behind your back.

@yhwhsaves3816

4 жыл бұрын

yess my "friends" do that

@cici_kpop_dance

4 жыл бұрын

@@yhwhsaves3816 Sadly, me too

@troytruong8246

3 жыл бұрын

Well, that depends. If you are a bad person, they tell people you are a bad person. What is wrong with that? It is wrong when a person tells lies about you to others. I warned my friends about my former roommate/good friend on how he scammed me of $80k in a business investment. 3 years later, 2 of my friends got scammed by the same guy. Yah. Thats what they get for not trusting my credibility.

@troytruong8246

3 жыл бұрын

Not everyone is bad for talking negatively about people. Some speak the truth and they just want to warn you about bad people. Yall must be stupid to think everybody is bad when they talk shit about others.

@LoveMusic-dv4sl

3 жыл бұрын

@@troytruong8246Yes, if your warning your friend or anyone because they did something inappropriate like scam you, or let's say for example stole from you then yeah you should warn them. But if you have friends or know people that are talking very bad behind your back for no reason/doing things behind your back that they shouldn't be doing then it is negative. That's the point of the post.

I think I would prolly know what a FAKE FRIEND is when I see one... One person whom I thought at first was my 'best buddy' that I knew and associated with for at least 15+ years in a row, turned out to be the FAKEST loser you could ever meet in your life. I took really good care of his father in his last remaining months prior to his death; brought him lotsa food, clothes, and even gave him money, looked after his needs, ect. Basically all of the things that a true friend might do if your family was ever in need of help and support. After his father passed away, I even helped pay for his funeral. Then came the time when MY OWN dad died, this two-faced sonofabitch totally went 180 and kept away from me, he NEVER said a single word of condolence, nor did he even give me as much as a phone call. This was at least 2 years ago, and he still hasn't showed me that he ever cared! 15+ years of being friends together, and he acts like he NEVER even knew me! 🙄

@missamazing2477

Жыл бұрын

Relate to this

@kailanyoder4899

Жыл бұрын

Awe. It's on their conscience. Their dad probably thought you were better than their own child.

@ingridlooze3839

5 ай бұрын

That someone can be so cold and cruel to a good friend.This is a crime.

@OtomoTenzi

5 ай бұрын

@@ingridlooze3839 Exactly, bro... It's been over 2 years already, and I still have NOT heard any word from him. I took good care of his dad in his last dying days and treated him just like FAMILY. 15+ of friendship, and it's like as if he NEVER even knew me at all! 😞

@OtomoTenzi

5 ай бұрын

@@kailanyoder4899 I agree, cuz his dad was always very happy to be around me. Although he couldn't really talk much due to his illness, he was still able to let me know that I was a 'good son'. Not so much with HIM, cuz I think he just neglected him all the time and failed to even care for him; like basic needs and stuff. This worthless punk doesn't even care for his own goddamn parents. From that day on, I somehow knew that I could always tell a FAKE friend from like MILES away. 🤨

I have had some fake friends in my life. It hurts. But I have had to work on myself for my own good because of not realizing. Thanks for this video. I am not a hater just don’t like how people treat me sometimes. I have been used. I have had people or boyfriends that I thought were real but weren’t. Its sad. I have a wonderful husband and good friends though I am still an kind of a introvert when it comes to making friends because of having the rug pulled out from underneath me so many times.😢😢😢. I have seen it happen in the work place.

@Karsyn_Marie

Жыл бұрын

Same

I prefer animals over people to be honest 😂🤷‍♀️

@kellyedwards8435

4 жыл бұрын

Me too

@dontknowwhatname5353

4 жыл бұрын

same lol

@goldpharaoh6976

4 жыл бұрын

I dont

@sd02

4 жыл бұрын

123 T same honestly sometimes I wish I was my favourite animal (Jaguar) coz I hate being human! sometimes

@vintce6019

4 жыл бұрын

The more I learn about people the more I love my dog

Narcissistic behavior! They are users & abusers. Avoid these psychos at all costs! Run don't walk!

@e.theresebradley5966

5 жыл бұрын

Donnie Luc Ahhhh. Im running..

@halcioncocaine2096

5 жыл бұрын

@@e.theresebradley5966 You have to learn to walk before you run fool✔

@bookmouse770

5 жыл бұрын

I was thinking the same thing! Narcissists

@stephaniebeeboo2793

5 жыл бұрын

yep I met plenty of those narcissistic assholes

@DanielZhaoDeng

5 жыл бұрын

I mean, they are people too. They just need mental help.

I've met way to many fake people. And it really hits them hard when you call them a fake to their face. I prefer someone who puts no sugar coating on it to a person who piles it on.

One point resonated with me, I bail on people and plans we make 🙁, But I bail because of the fake traits they have shown me and I just don’t want to be around those people anymore. I don’t think this makes me a bad person, I’m just trying to protect myself.

@Lin00able

Жыл бұрын

Don't make plans unless you want to be there. The first lie is to yourself, second, you lie to them. Lying is a pattern you do not want to practice. You can become confused about what's true for you or others lying to you.

@sweetchestnut

Жыл бұрын

@@Lin00able The person who made the comment you're responding to, may have made plans with them "before" they discovered what they are really all about 🤔

That's the reason why i am antisocial. You just describe 90 to 95% of people. Thank you for making this video.

@dianedizayee2439

5 жыл бұрын

Edward Wilson Rather than being antisocial, you may be an introvert, which is someone who needs to be alone to regenerate. Which is totally normal.

@edwardwilson9555

5 жыл бұрын

@@dianedizayee2439 on the contrary I know that i am extrovert. But i just gave out on people.

@WhiteAngelLovesEarth

5 жыл бұрын

@@edwardwilson9555 I used to be an extrovert, after many years I became an introvert (or so I thought) and then I stopped socializing. And now I have to recreate myself lol

@edwardwilson9555

5 жыл бұрын

@@oushiseer3895 asocial or antisocial. Both words mean the same.

@CatCreatures

5 жыл бұрын

@@edwardwilson9555 No they don't. An antisocial person is someone who likes to harm others. An asocial person simply doesn't like to socialize with people.

quiet/inteoverted people are the best people to be friends with and usually last a lifetime

@scannaunderscore1

4 жыл бұрын

Definitely

@dundee7631

4 жыл бұрын

I can confirm

@scannaunderscore1

4 жыл бұрын

@Chantel’s Way hot momma

@ianholmes3761

4 жыл бұрын

Brilliant spot on that's me all over.

@AriesArtist8

4 жыл бұрын

I had one a of those friends..one never took responsibility for their behavior and used the "shy card "

I found that people who do nice things for you early on in the supposed "friendship" are only doing it to score brownie point with you. Accepting their kindness and generosity at this point and they will usually expect something in return like as if you owe them something for their kind, albeit, suspect gesture in the beginning.

@Amaryllis-4U

Жыл бұрын

Sometimes they are just people pleasers due to poor family dynamics

I watched this video to learn how to identify bad people but found I accidentally do some of these things. I'm not perfect and picked up a lot of bad habits watching my parents. This helps both ways; treat people the way you want to be treated, right!

That's why I appreciate laid-back people. They don't want anything from you. They simply smile; then say hello and bye. Edit: Ah so many thumbs up. That is very kind of you all. I love each and every last one of you 😊

@doright6461

5 жыл бұрын

Good point

@skysmindgarden

5 жыл бұрын

Ha, I'm like that.

@KarinKishimei

5 жыл бұрын

I appreciate laid-back more than fake nice that tries to make me feel bad just for their gain.

@kerryfoster1

5 жыл бұрын

My daughter says I am so laid back I might fall over!

@valeriem100

5 жыл бұрын

Doesn't not exist.... In human relationship one won't say "hi" and "bye" to everyone.

I used to have a good amount of friends. In the end, they came out fake. Now, it's me, myself, and I. But I know in the near future, I will have better friends ❤

@gloriagraz910

5 жыл бұрын

Same here. :)

@Lovely_Diva

5 жыл бұрын

I went through that same situation. I had no friends for 4 years. I now have a few new genuine friends!!!!

@Paris-cz2nj

5 жыл бұрын

@@Lovely_Diva Good for you! I'm glad you have better friends now 😊😊

@Lovely_Diva

5 жыл бұрын

@@Paris-cz2nj Thanks...It was a lonely timeframe in my life. But those 4 years were worth it. It gave me a chance to heal and learn. I took time to really get to know the friends I have now to see who they really were. And it was worth it!!!

@Paris-cz2nj

5 жыл бұрын

@@Lovely_Diva I'm glad. I'll be praying for you 🙏🏼 Wishing you the best in your life 💘

As a kid, my mom would be yipping at me and my sister, and then bump into someone she knew on the street with that automobile fake smile and great day we're having voice. Then show us off, all proud. I recognized that even when I was not much older than a toddler.

Great observations, Thank you. Cutting toxic people out of your life gives clean air to breathe.

Everyone has been fake at one time or another. Its recognizing our behavior and learning to be genuine is what make us a better person.

@SerErryk

2 жыл бұрын

There's a difference between having displayed this behavior a handful of times and using it as a model to live by.

@marieboels759

Жыл бұрын

I agree. I believe that most people are capable of evolving from behaving in a fake way to being more authentic

@a.westenholz4032

Жыл бұрын

I think to a certain degree a level social "fakeness" is necessary to get by. We can't always be our true selves, expressing our honest thoughts and feelings, without regard for situational context. In a professional setting we wear a professional mask that isn't entirely "real", and in a university classroom setting we might wear a polite social mask. How real we get depends on the situation. I think the difference with fake people is that they never stop trying to fake it, even in situations where most of us would, and they are faking more than what is normal. They are not merely wearing a professional mask or a social polite mask, but one about their very character. Most of us still stay true to ourselves even when restraining ourselves out of professionalism or politeness from expressing certain thoughts or opinions. We don't try to convince others that we are a completely different type of person.

@gemz2894

8 ай бұрын

Nah

Fake nice ppl are selfish and self centered but create an image of sharing and caring, considerate ppl.

@200991602

5 жыл бұрын

They want other people around to make themselves look popular. And they always want something from you.

@Paris-cz2nj

5 жыл бұрын

I had an ex-best friend like that. Thank God I cut her off.

@meekbiscuit7769

5 жыл бұрын

@@Paris-cz2nj I had an ex-friend like that, a guy tho. I didn't realize until he suddenly didn't talk to me for long time. I try to talk to him in private but he just blame me for something I didn't even do n try to stab me with a knife. Wat a bitch. Later, he tells everyone that I try to kill him... Everyone believes him cause he's a 'nice' guy

@Paris-cz2nj

5 жыл бұрын

@AlbShadoW SO MUCH BETTER. FREEDOM! Me, as well as my life, is more at peace now. Thank God 🙏🏼

@Paris-cz2nj

5 жыл бұрын

@@meekbiscuit7769 I'm so sorry for what person put you through. Karma will bite their ass.

I'm nearly 50, I've got no family, and a handful of friends. I've done so much for my friends, and there kids for years, and I dont/didn't mind. I never hear from them unless they need something. They tell me what they think I want to hear. Like, Your the only person I can rely on. Your my best friend. Etc. Over the years my friends have had many parties. I never get invited. I normally get calls at 2am asking if I can take people home due to being drunk and having no money for a Taxi. I did and have mentioned this. Then on 3 occasions, 1 getting dressed for a Christmas dinner at my friend's house. 10 before I was due to leave I got a tx saying . The turkey was off so they are going to give dinner a miss. Then I later found out 2 of her other friends turned up for dinner and a drink. In the same week we were both moving flats. I said I can help her move as I have a car and she doesn't drive. And 3 days after I was moving and we agreed she would help me. I helped her move it took 3 days. 3 bedroom flat. I was moving into a 1 bedroom flat. I didn't hear from her for 2 months. And when I saw her she said she lost her phone. When we'll I learn to walk away. I moan about it but when my friends call I am the first to offer help cos I want to help. If they offer 100% they never end up helping me etc. Why do I allow it. ???

I can see people’s expression just in their eyes when I talk to them and I know what they are.

U know ur with someone fake. When u feel like ur always walking on thin ice. Fake ppl will always judge u for everything.

@sandyjoseph72

5 жыл бұрын

Yep!

@Gabriel27360

5 жыл бұрын

chris gonzales Preach

@akwkoskqlleld6391

5 жыл бұрын

Well I disagree, because I am very judgemental not because I am fake but I want my friends to know what I have a problem with, because they are my real friends.

@virtuouslyvee5191

5 жыл бұрын

chris gonzales BINGO! 👌🏽

I worked with a guy who I never had a problem with, we didn't hang out or really say much to each other. But one day in the breakroom he sat next to me with a big smile😁(which never happen before) & said we should hang out sometimes. Which took me by surprise. Well, to make long story short he wanted to borrow $500. I asked him, why didn't you ask your friends or family member's? He said, he didn't want to bother them. I decline to lend him the money & he treated me like I've done him wrong. Never spoken to me since, but didn't speak to me anyway. So what else was new?😛

@Jilli8310

5 жыл бұрын

That is messed uuuuup!! I really hope you never talk to him again. I have a friend who only texts me when he needs money, that kinda pisses me off. He missed the bus on that anyhow, I stopped lending money to friends ages ago. Not because of being paid back or anything, I do it with the thought of never getting it back, I just got tired of being called only for money all the time! Your co-worker must be a real piece of work!

@Babsza

5 жыл бұрын

Good for you ! Who needs THAT LOSER ? !!!

@nunyabizwack343

5 жыл бұрын

I had a co-worker try to get me to co-sign a new car for her😂 no way was I that stupid. if you co sign then you are on the hook to make the payments or you can be sued for it and it goes on your credit report if any payments are missed. basically she could stop payment and I would be the one the car financier would go after and then i would have to go to court to get the car away from her. people please NEVER ever co-sign a loan for anyone, not even your kids.

@NetiNeti-gm5bz

5 жыл бұрын

Lmao. The opportunist Narc

@timelessmusicfamilymusic9175

5 жыл бұрын

@@nunyabizwack343 I also had friends & neighbors wanting to use my credit cards. I just tell them, do I have stupid written all over forehead?😨

When the person brings out the worst in you and you started to become someone your not. Go along just to get along is a bad way to have a friendship.

One sign I've leant to be wary of are those who smile too much/too broadly. While for some people it is genuine, for others they are just using their smile as a psychological tool to get people to lower their guard, trust them and warm to them more easily. Meanwhile they are busy working out how to get what they want from the interaction before they turn their fake smile off and do the discard.

Try putting up boundaries with people and then it’ll reveal that you were only an asset to them . It’d it’s not mutual , it’s an opportunity.

@XxmelxX94

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah I’ve done that. And it turned into that person getting mad and then talking about you behind your back.

@wifi0verhoez855

2 жыл бұрын

@@XxmelxX94 so true especially if its a girl friend

@Lin00able

Жыл бұрын

That's true, fakes fall.

@nusramunini9650

7 ай бұрын

​@@Lin00ablelately I have set boundaries and my friends are more bothered 😅

They try to twist facts and will never admit they are wrong

They can’t hide it from me because I can feel their vibe and know they are faking.

Video was informative and reaffirmed info. had learned about growing up in a toxic family with a narcissistic father and mother with bpd and histrionic personality disorder.

One of the things I do is stay the hell away from people who act like they're glad to see me, when they don't even know who the hell I am.

@thatssofetch6788

3 жыл бұрын

Like, if someone you don’t know from Adam, comes running up to you at target - looking excited or people you have met before like once or twice

@stephaniejordan9066

3 жыл бұрын

👍

@Cindy-dd3jm

3 жыл бұрын

Isn't that something.......it doesn't even make sense. Big red flag flying for sure! Also, don't forget the ones that come on real strong only to fizzle our a couple weeks later. It's synthetic for sure.

@Billiard-cp1my

2 жыл бұрын

That is a sad reality, but gushy people are usually popular for some reason. Only a few people can see that they are as shallow as a kid's paddling pool.

Another trait of them is that they are only nice to you when other people are around.

@presidentd.j.tantrump1209

5 жыл бұрын

misspinkpunkykat - True. This is a common trait among abusive partners. They are hideous behind closed doors but everyone they know thinks they are the nicest guy or lady.

@tranquility9325

5 жыл бұрын

I cant stand that. I knew this one broad did that to me when we were alone she was my "friend." When she was with her friends, she had no clue who I was. So once I took note of that, she tried to hug me at a football game and I backed away from her. I don't have time for stupidness.

@jengrenko

5 жыл бұрын

Yes! Like only on social media where others observe the interaction! In real life, you're of no consequence to them and totally ignored.

This video is an eye opening..thanks for sharing 👊

As I'm an empath I can see through the bullshit of people who are being false.

@abbied

Жыл бұрын

Right

That's why I'm a lone wolf.

@user-lf8vq8re4g

4 жыл бұрын

Yea dude thats the best way nowdays for real

@globalsetdarkpool8276

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly bro

@flamestrikenightfire4784

3 жыл бұрын

Lone wolf here too only with multiple arrows pierced on my back

@justsomeguywithoutamustach7813

3 жыл бұрын

Im an extrovert I cheer on people

@jtoland2333

3 жыл бұрын

Yep. I have many aquaintences, but only a few people get to be my friend. If you're in my circle, it's because you earned it.

Its hard to find genuinely nice people.

@monkey-trial...6578

5 жыл бұрын

No kidding! But here’s a way to tell. Go see a comedy show. Comedians seldom lie because the truth is hilarious and lying wont get them very far in their career!

@generalyousif3640

5 жыл бұрын

Xoxo Audrey & Mimi People call me nice but I always think it just me acting respectful And ppl tend to call me 2 soft so idk 😐

@kloforiafoxy2702

5 жыл бұрын

I most certainly agree. Sadly I often find myself now a days distancing myself away from people because of how they just don't really care about anything. At least I know I'm not the only person who feels like this.

@vicious-pi3rd

5 жыл бұрын

Got that right!

@argosatori

5 жыл бұрын

@@monkey-trial...6578 yeah see someone like stanhope....man broke my funny fuse!

Very thorough and accurate. I wish I knew these things 20+ years ago but better to know eventually than stay stuck around bad people without understanding.

A great lesson to learn. Thanks for the advice. 😎👍💯

I guess I am a fake person too 😪. I need to work on myself. But the most fake person is the one who never admit they have some of these flaws in their personality.

@fereshteha8501

5 жыл бұрын

True

@imwhatyoucallathinker4382

5 жыл бұрын

Well said

@issainlopez2420

5 жыл бұрын

💯💯

@bonniekonjevich7574

4 жыл бұрын

And sometimes they are part of one's family when it's time to know relating-effectively tools while maintaining a balanced emotional reaction.

@Krututu13

4 жыл бұрын

Respect

NEVER waste your REAL on the FAKE! 💯

@shawnwerts900

5 жыл бұрын

Your rite elisbatha stricklean

@Jackgritty28

5 жыл бұрын

Fake it till you make it✔💲

@Atua_o_ahi_mana

4 жыл бұрын

Soooo! True don't waste your Time & Efforts

@Jackgritty28

4 жыл бұрын

@@Atua_o_ahi_mana Is that aimed at me? ,or is it people in general?

@Atua_o_ahi_mana

4 жыл бұрын

@@Jackgritty28 Aimed at People in General themselves buddy; I wouldn't continue as soon as we learn = Who takes advantage of you, seriously l had that experience 3 - 5 time's

It's a lot of people in LA are like this. Number 10 is one of my pet peeves and I usually call out folks on it nowadays

Wow… this video is spot on. It’s timely as well. Jesus, I appreciate coming into this material today. Keep doing these material ❤❤❤

Anyone who tries to reduce your self confidence is definitely not a good friend.

@MarieN8959

Жыл бұрын

How about a friend who just last month told me not to change my car when I wanted to because I felt its due and the mileage is high, she said hers too is like that in fact that everyone else ' car is like that so I don't need to buy another one , then this month she suddenly went and got a car ! Is that a hood friend?

@Lin00able

Жыл бұрын

YEP

They're also big on playing the victim!!!!

@j.briseno-valderaz.9204

5 жыл бұрын

I know what you mean . I have some neighbors that are like that. And this lady blame's all on other people. It's never her fault. She's always, always the victim. And she'll say that no one can say anything bad about her. When sometimes she's in the wrong.

@laurahendrickson2271

4 жыл бұрын

Well sometimes people really are victims And their not playing Only someone who hurts people would say something like that Another sign of a fake person making everyone else look bad except you

@mountainview7971

4 жыл бұрын

Yes they do.

Best advice here it is: watch carefully, listen when u are around new friends or people that show interest in u and just treat them like they treat u 😊

I made it a new year's resolution to break off with a fake "friend", she only ever contacted me as a last resort, for example going to a concert when nobody else will and then went at a concert or a shopping trip she spent the entire time on her phone. She asked me to be godmother to her kid but dropped me before the day and didn't even tell me, during the photographs I never got asked to be in the photos. I think this was my last straw. It does mean I now only have 1 friend, but it's better to have 1 good friend rather than a load of fake ones.

Watch out for someone saying, "I miss you" if it seems out of place, not based in reality, or comes from someone you're not that close to. It could mean... "I miss dominating you, I miss you always feeding my ego, I miss sucking up your time, I miss you being accessible, why are you no longer doing all of this, because I'm so empty and need external validation at the time."

@charlottewhite4451

5 жыл бұрын

justlookalittledeeper k , agreed yes

@justlookalittledeeper9953

5 жыл бұрын

Yup, she saw you as someone she could use at her own convenience while she was stirring it up in your social circle, and to hell with your feelings.

@Bonniebelle_00__

5 жыл бұрын

Is something really wrong with that though

@justlookalittledeeper9953

5 жыл бұрын

@@Bonniebelle_00__ It depends on the context. If the person has a history of strange or toxic behaviour, then hearing "I miss you" is not good.

@swes9598

5 жыл бұрын

Definitely. It sometimes means"I miss (being entertained by, thinking negative of, belittling, knowing business that belongs to) you."

Fake person or REAL narcissist?

@BrainyDose

5 жыл бұрын

Pretty much!

@ahmedandalous2878

5 жыл бұрын

😂😊😚☺🤗

@sunshine2049

5 жыл бұрын

Moses Emmet 🤣🤣🤣🤣

@syscoby226

5 жыл бұрын

Moses Emmet my x

@ssmith543

5 жыл бұрын

Exactly!

These friends of mine are always claiming I’m such a good friend to them only when They received goods or services They have requested from me. But mainly, they will treat me like acquaintances and not interested in getting the I know me and be my friend. I calm them users.

This is describing me. I want to be nice to people try to but i don't care about any of them or anything they say. If I'm genuine i come across as impatient and rude. If i tell people how i really feel most would never talk to me, which is fine with me but that isn't cool with family

As a victim of constant bullying since elementary... All of these, are clear signals that helped me open my eyes. Thank you for helping me realize that it's good to know the difference. Thank you so much.

@falsehoodbasher7240

2 жыл бұрын

damn. so sorry. are you ok?

@ayameyxii8887

2 жыл бұрын

Same here, I do NOT trust not even my own family anymore. Even my mother and it's HURTING me ,alot. She choosing my 50 year old brother that did NOTHING with his life. He DJ still at parties, In my I that's a hoody not a career That's MAMA'S BOY and on top of that his shack up wife is his Sugar Mama. INCREDIBLE !!!!

@comradeleppi2000

2 жыл бұрын

@@ayameyxii8887 🥺 i hope you are okay. Just don't mind them. Live your life happily and healthy

@ayameyxii8887

2 жыл бұрын

@@comradeleppi2000 ...Thank you, I will do that . It's that no family bond . To much to explain. God bless...☮️❤️💡😎👍

People in general. Even the ones who appear chill turn out to be backstabbers. A kind person shows their sincerity when they think no one is watching.

@nye1122

2 жыл бұрын

is it normal to be irritated when someone is watching you...like they react that its my first time to go out....i dont like people watching me btw cause i have this atittude of introvert thingy that mind your own business and you shoudnt over react with what im doing....its very annoying and unormal..especially to the people who were new in town like geez is it your first time?all of my old neighbors are just fine and not loud and fake...and they will think why i didnt go out..tsss isnt obvious?...why there are people like this i cant understand every move i make seriously even taking a dog into a bath?

I enjoyed listening,thank you! I have worked as a Counsellor and Therapist for decades, getting to know humans through practice. Yes, this video is spot on.

And that's why I'm a loner. No matter how hard I try I always end up with fake people and whenever I say to them we should hang out,they go oh I'm busy. Others they'd fly off the handle for no apparant reason.

It’s best not to ever have a drink w coworkers/Friends (frenemies) you don’t trust. Listen to your gut. If fake people ask to spend time w you, you can be sure it is because they want information from you or something from you. They are manipulative users. Beware!! Also if they consistently take forever to answer your phone calls or texts, you can be 100% sure your relationship is unimportant and very low priority, contrary to what they tell you. With “friends” like this, who needs enemies?

@Lovely_Diva

5 жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!! I keep my distance from coworkers. No matter how nice they are.

@halcioncocaine2096

5 жыл бұрын

@@Lovely_Diva I hope your right✔

@halcioncocaine2096

5 жыл бұрын

@Person Unknown Are you sure about that✔

@Lovely_Diva

5 жыл бұрын

@@halcioncocaine2096 I know from personal experience. Some coworkers hate when they see that you're doing better. I had one so called friend/coworker who was hating on my relationship. And another from a different job trying to make me look incompetent because she was trying to get a promotion...but she never did.

@NastySasquatch

5 жыл бұрын

Yep fell for this trap at my last job.

I cut off everyone at this point. I’m just done with them. I’d rather someone who is vocal about their sadness or things that annoy them than the fake happy person who tries to stuff everything under the rug.

@Decopainterandtea

5 жыл бұрын

Some people are just very private. Or perhaps actually depressed and can't "go there"

@Killer553

5 жыл бұрын

Lol then come to me. I will tell you more sad and pessimistic shit in one day than you have heard through your entire life.

@joemarchand8313

5 жыл бұрын

Lighten up, killer.

@Killer553

5 жыл бұрын

@@joemarchand8313 Maybe when the summer comes. I love the sunshine so it will be a lot easier.

@myungwol3124

5 жыл бұрын

im the stuff everything under the rug cuz i gt manipulated all the time whenever i show my emotions even the slightest bit .... and p.s they have evil intentions n i know it dats y im juz playing along wif them tryna manipulate me cuz im bored n if anythings becomes serious i have multiple alibis n the strength to cut them off like a thread dat juz break

Would rather be around a fake nice person than a mean person with a million different sob stories and excuses for their behavior