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@theoddesey512

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@blackmirror5643

Жыл бұрын

Dre Try to look always at the lens don’t look at the flip screen ur talk will be more 1 to 1, i noticed ur eyes going alot upward i think that is ur camera flip screen try to remove it u will be forced to look only at the lens and u will see the difference ur self, wish u the best

@Kamal_AL-Hinai

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate your content so much

@mariotrasvina2407

Жыл бұрын

Would like to face time you brotha

@theoddesey512

Жыл бұрын

@mario trasvina sure man

You’ll know the girl is toxic if you’re happier imagining yourself without her

@ellabella7071

Жыл бұрын

Maybe your toxic?

@RussianNationalist

Жыл бұрын

@@ellabella7071 she

@samuelroskelley2413

Жыл бұрын

Might just be that you aren’t right for each other.

@nansifyanimations

Жыл бұрын

Exactly.

@GlobeofBeauty

4 ай бұрын

That's why I'm divorced. Best decision I made

I'm 17 never had a girlfriend, never kissed a girl. But, I had lots of opportunities to have a girlfriend, one girl in particular would not leave alone she would ask me for my number and all kinds of crazy crap and would not take no for an answer. The reason I don't have a girl is bc I'm waiting for the right one..... thanks Dre your videos helped me out alot.

@blueocean811

Жыл бұрын

What the hell? As a girl this is so disturbing thats literally straight up harassment. Don’t be shy to get vocal only because she is a girl she can’t do whatever crosses her mind!! And brother as your senior good for you because trust me I am in there too waiting for the one. Why would I waste my all "first" to someone who will not stay.

@cliffchampion5501

Жыл бұрын

Man that is extremely smart. To be 17 with this much sense is amazing. Besides that you should be planning to build yourself first so that you can increase that probability. Man I wish I was 17 with this outlook you will save yourself a lot of valuable time. Most females at 16,17 to even 30 are very much behind as far as maturity. You are wise beyond your years. Just make sure you make each year you get older worthwhile as far as growing.

@navajas9668

Жыл бұрын

It's true you can save yourself a lot of mistakes and useless money spent on girls that aren't worth it or even that good looking

@navajas9668

Жыл бұрын

Too many 17 year old guys are OBSESSED WITH getting girls, that's simp energy, as a man you should chase your dreams, and watch the girls come, not ignore your goals and just chase girls randomly

@Kamal_AL-Hinai

Жыл бұрын

What a beast ❤

Remember, you can't expect a great woman, unless YOU are a GREAT MAN

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

💯

@generalcarbone6211

Жыл бұрын

💯

@nansifyanimations

Жыл бұрын

Truly. You gotta better yourself before finding the right ones.

@EPHZAM

2 ай бұрын

Yup

As a Christian, this definitely speaks to me. I’m still in highschool, above-average looking, and I’ve never been in a relationship. Your words really spoke to me bro. This has been what I needed. Thanks man 🙏

@goodbug53

Жыл бұрын

we love our father!

@Fit4C

Жыл бұрын

Jesus loves you alot trust in His death 4 salvation and be saved from eternal hell

@goodbug53

Жыл бұрын

@@Fit4C yes brother amazing i absilutly love finding other brothers in christ i was just defending god in another comment section this is the evedince i used we found noahs ark to the cubic meter in exact dimensions and we found wooden boxes on the indent of noahs ark and the ark wass in the exact place the bible says it ended we also found fallen soliders in the middle of the sea that moses split in two and we found the egytpion soldiers right in the middle of that and that solders are the same as in the bible we also foind a tribe that was thought to be made up but we found it and it had miriculs of god like it is stated in the old testamite( the tribe was in the bible but people didnt think it exiested until they found a multiduete of unexplanaible miracules and eveindce) God bless bro amen(sry about the spelling):)

@TicTacEnjoyer

Жыл бұрын

​@@goodbug53are you orthodox?

@MakingMenAcademy

Жыл бұрын

Yeah man!

I agree, opposites attract is one of the most bs rumors spread

@johnvonmartin7501

Жыл бұрын

opposite attracts toxicity & divorcement lol.

@devileg6438

Жыл бұрын

Magnets : 👁👄👁

@aurorawidow7351

Жыл бұрын

I mean if both sides are feminine it ain't working though. You still need bipolar attraction to keep interest up after years.

@yashpatel402

Жыл бұрын

@Aurorawidow it's not about masculinity or femininity. That's about social circle, moral/political views, similarities etc. Basically compatibility.

@aurorawidow7351

Жыл бұрын

@@yashpatel402 ah okay, sorry, i may have misunderstood the comments point, thank you for explaining

I was talking with this girl that I met and I told her I had a couple of businesses and she said “wtf?” I texted her what and she said why do u have 3 businesses? Relax and have some fun and don’t tell me 3 businesses are fun. Then I asked her if she liked to party and she said “yesss” and I knew what type of girl she was

@KUTOU-qi7jo

Жыл бұрын

😎👌

@faided1234

Жыл бұрын

Cap 🧢🧢🧢

@DanTraa

Жыл бұрын

dude judged a person just because they like to go to parties 💀

@Kamal_AL-Hinai

Жыл бұрын

Stay away bro

@UnderworldUnderworld-lv8eq

Жыл бұрын

Straight genius

Great vid, Dre. It's important for guys to know what to look for and avoid. Being selective is the secret sauce to a stable relationship!

Thanks bro. Sometimes stepping back and getting a 3rd person pov and hearing someone else say things that you've been preaching helps the state of mind. Appreciate you brother

Love is not looking at each other, its both of you looking in the same direction -Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

Man, you hit the nail on the head! Thanks for covering this! Such vital information!

I dated a girl about a year back, and I ignored a lot of red flags. I was too infatuated with the idea of dating someone, that I was willing to ignore things that I knew were big problems. We're both Christians, but she had different standards than me. I wasn't comfortable with swearing, but she didn't see a problem. She preferred a very different style of church to me. How she treated people, was like your 4th point. These things I put off worrying about just so I could be dating. But God taught me that a fun personality (because I loved being around her, and still sometimes miss it) is nothing if your values are different. Now, I look first for what values a woman holds. Does she believe what I believe? Still looking for my Proverbs 31, but now I'm actually looking for her and not someone else.

@Tanknuggets217

Жыл бұрын

Bro, I dated a Christian girl who cursed and I avoided all her red flags because I too caught up with the happiness of having a girlfriend

This video resonated with my experience so much, everything you said and mentioned made so much sense. TY!

Loved the video. To your point about not judging, that's something many people (even Christians) dont understand. It's about making a false judgement against someone. We must judge a righteous judgement against someone for our own physical,mental and spiritual safety. If you notice that someone's actions are shady and may severely impact you, you're gonna judge that person in the sense that you must seperate yourself from them. Or you can also judge someone to be upright and honest based on the facts.

It's so wholesome how this guy always sneak a nice compliment about his girl in every video I've seen. His girl,if you're reading this,trust me this guy loves you so much. It's so refreshing to see in a sea full of guys trying to give as less as possible compliments and nice words about their girls. God bless you both!

I realised my crush is a walking red flag.. damn that hurts

@ceebee312

Жыл бұрын

Your not alone

@arpadteleki3894

Жыл бұрын

@@ceebee312 thanks

@AyaneSoto

Жыл бұрын

Don't worry too much, for her you could be a huge red flag too. Maybe you're the perfect couple if you think that way ☺️

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

Oh boy, all my crushes had red flags as well. It feels like every girl you look around, you'll find at least 2-3...

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

@@AyaneSoto In the "opposite universe", your comment would make sense...

Exactly the video that I needed rn, I was ignoring red flags and excused it cz of her past but it´ll never be better so much appreciated bro pls keep making this high quality authentic content king 👑

Thank You, this information is vital to me as a young man. May Yah bless you Big Bro 🙏🏾

DRE! YOU ARE AWESOME! I'VE NEEDED YOUR MESSAGE SO BAD!! I'VE LIVED EVERYTHING IN THIS MESSAGE! SHE LEFT ME 4 MONTHS AGO. I'VE BEEN WITH HER FOR 11 YEARS & MARRIED FOR 4YRS. YOU JUST DESCRIBED MY LIFE. IT HAS BEEN A LITTLE TOUGH ON ME, BUT MY FOCUS IS ON CHRIST ALONE! THANK YOU BRO!

Agreed with you on these 12 points !

@DreDrexler Thanks for the amazing content. I appreciate your candidness and wisdom. God bless you.

Great vid Dre. I know it's a sensitive topic but would love to see a more in depth video about your journey with Christ and christian values in general. I recently converted to Catholicism and it was done a total 180 on my life as far as being a man and what I look for in a woman now. Keep up the good work and God Bless you bro

You nailed it with the proverbs! God Bless you Dre! liked the video from start to the end 👏🏼👏🏼

Beautiful video, bro. I highly appreciate it!

I can't remember what I expected when I clicked on this video, but whatever that was; you exceeded all my expectations! Great video!!! ✨️🏆💯

Very good advice, no complaints at all, may God bless you brother

Being 17 and lifelong single, this was an eye-opener. Thank you Mr. Dre!

@estrelaazul460

Жыл бұрын

"Lifelong single"

@vinlennox7658

Жыл бұрын

17. Lifelong. You're only a kid yet man. No guy really mature until hes next to 30. Guess you dont really know that until after

@himeshsinghshishodiya

Жыл бұрын

@@vinlennox7658 The thing is I chose that word "lifelong" due to some other reason. Anyway, I do agree with you but seeing literally everyone around you being in a relationship (and for most it's not even their first time), it makes you really anxious and desperate which may lead you into some toxic/unhealthy relationship. Hedonism is also a factor.

@vinlennox7658

Жыл бұрын

@@himeshsinghshishodiya I haven't been lifelong single. Though most relationships I ve been in, i ve been in a hurry end them. When I was 20 the internet was not heard of. By the time I was 30 it was almost as omnipresent as it is now. It became so much easier to hit up on the face of it BUT miles more difficult to have REAL relationships. I dunno if you're from Western country, so much is gone wrong in our whole culture, all is smoke and mirrors. And there and guys that never had fathers or worse by far girls that didnt; or worse still a weak father figure. I ll give you a piece of advice. And I swear on it. If I know anything at all I know this; DO judge the book by the cover; secondly if she doesnt not get on with her father. . RUN

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! "lifelong" at 17! LMAO, you are just a kid. This isn't to make you feel less and to put you down but relax....

I really needed too hear this man! Thank you 🙏

A good video to listen while in the gym😊

This is pure gold bro. thanks for this wisdom 🙏

Very clear and concise, thank you.

Dre my man you are doing a great job. Thank you

You are probably younger than me or the same as my age, but you are much much wiser , thank you from my heart 😊 for your words . They are life changing.

great video brother, keep up the good Lords work

ey bro I appreciate the knowledge you are sharing with us.I would love to watch a video by you talking about red flags in guys just for little awareness for us,you know?to make sure we are right on track and not developing toxic traits.

As a Muslim guy. A lot of my values are similar to the ones taught in the bible. But seldom do I see content-creators/influencers who embrace them with pride. I love watching your videos. Be proud of yourself ;)

@888ssss

Жыл бұрын

thats because there are many prophets but only one master.

@thisisthebadplace2596

4 ай бұрын

You should try out being Christian, it’s life changing, and who knows maybe you’ll become a true believer:))

💯💯keep it up bro i love the consistincy!

There was this girl I used to really like and we talked for a while but it just never worked, I’ve been starting to realize it was a blessing because all of these red flags fit her

Agree. Wish I knew these things earlier. Learned the hard way years ago...

Just discovered you after a mental and emotional part of my life.. not relationship related but God related.. 20 yearsold but feeling like I've done nothing for my soul. Glad I found your channel, someone closer to this generation and time we are in.

Great video! Thank you so much!

NGl god hit Dre with the biggest "You thought" ever known to man, good stuff man, I appreciate your work bro

I'm 39 and I've been in 20 relationships. So, actually, gotta work on that past thing myself. I was never a 1 night stand type of person. It's just been difficult to keep the relationships going longterm, but the longest was 3 years.

home i dint expect you to pullout proverbs but AM PROUD OF YOU HOMEIE

Amen Broatha!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

Similar values and beliefs are the MAIN traits of healthy relationships, but they don't necessarily need to always have the same tastes in everything. That's where "Opposites Attract" play out.

I’ve been single since Jan of 2022. I started dating around May of 2022. It’s almost been a year and I have not met 1 girl that meets my standards. It takes time to find a quality girl.

@godismysavior6428

Жыл бұрын

I’ve been single since march of 2022. Have been struggling on working on myself so I’m not ready to date

Been in a relationship for 8 years and the last thing I want to is getting married. As I recognize that I might be avoidant on the attachment style, I do feel that my partner has few of the red flags that you mentioned which only consolidates what I think and makes my fears bigger that they should be. After 8 years, I should already know if I want to spend the rest of my life with somebody.

@justah00manbean46

Жыл бұрын

Then break up. It makes no sense to waste your or your partners time like that

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

Not knowing if you want to spend the rest of your life with her after 8 years is probably all you need to know. Make sure or stop wasting both yours and her time. Good luck my friend!

Much love Dre🤟

Thanks, you helped me figure out some stuff.

I agree with a lot you said in this video, however I'd also like to add some things. I live in Eastern Europe, my girlfriend also does, and let's just say that our families are simply miserable. The "typical" East European (Hungarian) people who always complain about even the smallest things, and are basically unable to live a life without some sort of addiction, and evefy time we try to help (I'm very into fitness, diet and her as well, while she's also very spiritual and loves self improvement) they simply disregard every one of our words, because it's easier for them to stay in their comfort zone. It's infuriating, since it goes on in most East European families, and if someone is more weak minded it can easily kill their ambition towards life, when literally everyone around them tries to bring them down. All in all I just wanted to say that if a girl has a miserable, depressed family with divorced parents, a failure of a father and an overly disrespectful mother, I think wanting to break out of that is actually a good thing but to some might come off as a red flag if she's assertive and draws boundaries with people who don't do anything but cloud the ambition and spread negativity, whether it be friends or family.

@soulflame5635

Жыл бұрын

Listen Evo, Gretings from Poland. Same situation here - solution - cut all negative ppl. No matter if they are blood or not - their presence will waste Your life. Leave, build Your own life alone then look for valued Men - strong - martial arts - company owners. Strong stoic - rebels of society Who dont follow toxic metality. I cleaned my life from bad ppl - its empty with 1-2 real kind trust worthy ppl - but I can train work earn and grow. Its hard but at least I got no Snakes..toxic ppl in my life. Im here if You need to speak to lead better life as Man.

Enjoyed your video. You are one of the very few dating coaches who advises from a Christian perspective. Much appreciated!

Most of these actually describe my SO and Ive been praying and having serious doubts.

I'm not a dude or religious but I agree with all these points bc having someone supportive and communicating with one another is very important

Very very very informative video Thanks

You speak facts bro God bless you bro

Great video. I was blessed to meet my wife almost 17 years ago and marry her almost 14 years ago. I will say that even though your relationship sounds healthy and is realistic, it also sounds like you are newlyweds with some of the things you say. I mean, I brag about my wife both as a wife and as a mother too, but I think being married for a short time with no kids is definitely different from over a decade with 3 of them. Regardless, it sounds like you two have a long and happy marriage ahead of you. 😊

True words from a wise man.

Hey Dre, nice Video again. I just want to point out that the lamp in the background with red light is a bit too distracting for me. I can only speak for myself but maybe try to change the color to a mellow orange or something that may be a little more soothing. Just from the consumer side of view.

But it's so hard choosing the right when you've loved the person.

@LeonEdwardsAesthetic

Жыл бұрын

What about turn off ?

@silkroad1201

Жыл бұрын

Don't listen to this trash. Follow your heart my friend

Thank you Dre god bless you

Thank you bro

13. She has an Onlyfans Awesome vids & the faith in it is very uplifting.

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

I wouldn't mind her having onlyfans if she kept/invested the money and if it was solo content.

@pedrodesu

Жыл бұрын

​@@godnyx117bro you're tripping

What my dad taught me is that. You can love and hate their friends/family, you can love and she can blame you for everything but it’s okay bcuz ur in love. You find real love when you find peace.

Love ya bro ❤

21:32 there are basically two types of women: the ones who understood that more often than not an “I’m sorry”, doesn’t have to be sincere, just look like so and it is easy for them, makes the man refrain from the situation in the next 3 to 5 seconds and get back to whatever they were doing but there are also the women who just see the problem at her partner been angry at then so they escalate, double down. If the man is wise he would just stop the interaction right there and then and reconsider her.

This is a whole lot of nonsense. All you have to do to find a good girl is stop grouping them into categories and learn to see them as individuals. Find a girl who you connect with and make her your best friend. She'll love you forever and you'll be happy. Simple

@nansifyanimations

Жыл бұрын

This person right here. Spoke the most and biggest facts ever 👏👏

One day Dre gonna put 1hr long vid and I still watch without hesitation as it becoming more good day by day Really enjoying every second not gonna lie Keep up the work big brother I really feel blessed that I founded you Love from India 🇮🇳🇮🇳

@rout4446

Жыл бұрын

Also from India vro

Hey man I just wanted to say that you helped me alot thank yoi

@theoddesey512

Жыл бұрын

You

This was the best one yet. All solid facts

10/10 absolutely agree. One point, I do think women can exercise social awareness and safe judgement, many times I’m thankful for my girl warning me about people not having my best interests in mind. We keep each other safe. But that totally doesn’t mean she should look down on or be rude towards others. But honesty and constructive criticism is one of the best things you can find in a woman - you might not always find she’s speaking super highly of absolutely every single person you come across, but that can be beneficial to you and her. As a man, like the video says, this skill is more inherent to us as “protector” figures, especially in the context of physical and material safety and security. Good, intelligent women can be extremely adept at scouting out opportunities to increase social and emotional security, where a man may not be so inclined. God made us different, and the same skill can be useful to a couple or family in different contexts.

You young guys it hard these days. Prayers.

I love when you talk about the creator

This is great advice! Good balance between advice and bible verses as well.

17 and never kissed a girl was terrifying? I'm 23 and waiting still

It's kind of weird that you can spot mental illness in some people. It's like some people are drawn to a lifestyle and they portrayed themselves based on how they feel on the inside

Dude I'm 23 and still haven't had a girlfriend nor kissed one. I'm more nervous than ever.

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

Don't worry I'm turning 22 in 9 days and about the same. I'm not nervous tho, I'm actually getting better and better and I'm having more fun with my life!

My ex would always ask me why I’m thanking him or to stop thanking him…. I hope he heals.

Also: Proverbs 21:9 It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.

Yo I just asked a girl out for the first time in 3 years I’ve been avoiding dates for so long since my last ex I really hope this one works out because we have 80% of things in common

Its crazy to think that all God wants is a good and abundant life for us but our own desires and lustful thoughts get in the way of that plan

You can tell they're both so fully in love at 15:29 by the way they act to each other. If nobody taught me this I wouldn't know how to appreciate people and how to be appreciated.

This video just made me feel more lonely😭💀

i'm 15 and never had a girl but i should really thank you for saving my butt since you are smart and you using bibles and also saying other things like looking out the friends and family is like a huge thank you i'm just happy that you thought me something

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

Bro, you 15 and 17 year old dudes saying that you never had a GF or that you were "lifelong" single or things like that, just relax. You are just kids, lol! At 15, I was having the time of my life playing Halo 5 and wrecking n00bs! I started caring about dating at 17 and I really hope I had started much later. Just don't worry about it and have fun with your life! Most girls don't deserve it these days (as for most guys) so you are not missing anything interesting. Just have fun with your life and the right one will come!

@platano_mamahuevo

Жыл бұрын

@@godnyx117 im saying that i don't have one yet im not begging to have one or asking for one im just thanking him for saving me from who to have or not to have i

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

@@platano_mamahuevo I never said or implied that you "wished". I just pointed out something that looks weird from my POV. Of course, your life is only yours and you are free to choose to do whatever you want. Good luck in whatever you do buddy!

Sharing same vision... I think I'm a priority, and she thinks I'm a priority 👍🏻

30 minutes of phone a day. Guess this video is all i got LOL

I cannot speak. I've watched a ton of Christian* KZread channels, but wow, all of them had some mistakes in them(which is okay). You shocked me; what he is saying is entirely accurate. I'm a 27-year-old orthodox Christian with a wife and one child (by all of this, I mean that I have the same type of experience he does), and he is entirely accurate.

I think a lot of the Red flags can be named: Ego Thx vor content!

Pov u know ur an NF fan when the map analogy comes in, u see him and do the di caprio thing

Bro plz add Arabic subtitles to ur videos, thanks love ur work🖤🖤😎

The Toxic Land analogy was great. My now exs dad was an alcoholic who pushed my ex girl to get a tattoo at 19 and wanted ger to get more. Her mom was a manipulative single mother feminist. Im not even getting into the step parents lol. Her family kept pushing her into the breakup. I was the best thing that happened to her but they said she shouldnt settle down at her young age(20/21)

@mateynine4230

Жыл бұрын

Terrible... (for her) But luckily you're no longer involved with that. I hope you'll get to associate with better women in the future 🙏

@islandofdoctormoreau

Жыл бұрын

@@mateynine4230 i hope so to and same for you if you arent already

If shes got tattoos, shes no good for you. If shes got colorful hair, shes beyond repair

@silkroad1201

Жыл бұрын

Bullshit

@filipvujkovic9779

Жыл бұрын

not necessarily, but I get where you come from

@AnonymousApexio

Жыл бұрын

@Dalton Black Bro... The hymen can get broken by just doing sport... It does not mean virginity.

@godnyx117

Жыл бұрын

@@AnonymousApexio Yeah, sucks.... Also, there is other doors one could have entered. So, you can never truly know that she's a virgin.

@lukethekuya

Жыл бұрын

REAL

After living for years unhappy, seriously depressed, abusing drugs, dating girls that I hated being with, etc. I found my wife. We instantly clicked, we have everything in common, she's my best friend, we have a beautiful family, we found God together... We're inseparable best friends that love loving with each other and love sharing our lives with each other l, and we love loving God with each other. Just thought I'd share that I agree with you there.

Love how you bring in scripture in your videos , God bless you in Jesus name !

When I visited my twin sister for her bachelorette party (held at a church) with her church and teacher friends I texted my ex to update him (he didn’t want to go) he was scouted I even reached out to update him, he essentially said don’t bother him cuz he was mad I went at all…. I had my moments but he restricted me so much for 7 years I never want another relationship. I couldn’t have a girls night out, I couldn’t even hang with my sisters without him checking in on me, tracking the miles on my car, happening to be home on “lunch” any time I told him I’m going out. I encouraged him to hang with his guy friend and decomposes and he never did so by extension I couldn’t hang with my girlfriends. I trusted him and he after 7 years never returned that even tho I never gave him a reason not to trust me. He adjusts upset when I mentioned how the last girl made it hard for me to not resent him.

A girl sayed that she liked me. I thought about giving in because that's the first time ever someone said that they liked me. Yeah she did snus, maybe vaped even idk and all that. Not trying to even try to mess with that.

@ILikeBolas

Жыл бұрын

smart guy

Hi bro!

Unapologetic and slow to forgive is the WORST.

Wish I knew this advice 10 years ago.. better late than never I guess.

For me sir it's about her spirit and what she got in her heart, I'm looking for one who is faithfull to god and knows the scripture, I'm only 20 right now and I feel like I'm the only one who thinks that way in my age but good thing I've been reborn and now I see what you mean they everywhere low quality women with these kinda traits got to be careful who i end up with, lonesome road for now.