1. Listen without interrupting. 2. Avoid belittling him. 3. Affirm verbally for his work. 4. Support his goals and aspirations. 5. Take care of your appearance. 6. Prioritise sex in marriage. 7. Yeild to his leadership. 8. Give him space. 9. Stay loyal. 10. Do things together. 11. Support his family. 12. Don't gossip about your marriage with others. 13. Don't be closed with divorced woman or single woman.

@lidiapop1480

Ай бұрын

11 it când be a problem, doesn't the Bible say that men will leave their mama and papa and be one with his wife?

@virginiechristinemangaonan3012

Ай бұрын

Thanks alot

@swiftbites5468

21 күн бұрын

And what if he is his parents boy.. only concerned about them.. In that case all these have to followed by a wife..

@nongozuurika207

16 күн бұрын

👍 for this video.. worth listening to it. Everything said makes sense ❤❤❤

@nobodyknowsanything705

2 күн бұрын

Women also need these same treatments.. These rules actually work both ways.. Maybe you should say this is a mutual thing

I have been married for 37 years. We were friends before we got married, and that friendship stayed. That is a very important part of a good relationship between a married couple. The understanding and talking things through without fighting. ...we kept that bright and happy friendship. That is also made possible because both of us serve God.

I am not yet a wife, but I believe God is shaping me into the bride He wants for His special and specific son. ❤✝️🙏 I want to prepare in this season of waiting for when that time comes. I was not raised with a godly marriage, so I want to have time for these biblical ideas and truths to take root in my mind and let God teach me what I'm lacking. Thank you for this! 🙏❤️

@nadinedominique414

3 ай бұрын

Amen! Same for me sister 🙏🤍

@giuliamelo5539

3 ай бұрын

Same ❤

@catnun9892

3 ай бұрын

I am praying that there are three mothers in law "to be" out there, who are on their knees praying for you three ladies. Keep the oil in your lamps for when the bridegroom comes! One of my biggest blessings in life is my daughter in law. She radiates the joy of the Lord, has gently led our son back into fellowship, and she herself was not raised in a Christian home. Her quiet, gentle spirit is powerful.

@leticiaperez95

3 ай бұрын

I would recommend saving this video as well & watching it when married so you wont forget to apply it. Its easy to listen but challenging to actually be in the spot. (Just a tip) 🙂

@rajibarakat2049

3 ай бұрын

Likewise!

This video called me out. Thank you for the gentle reminder ✝️ As someone who is married to a man that’s not saved, I find it very difficult at times. But I will continue to show the grace and love of God to my husband by my actions 🙏🏼

@kirbot

3 ай бұрын

Your husband won’t listen to you. I’m calling it now. Learn to love him for what he is rather than risking your marriage over a magic book written 2000 years ago. He, nor I needs to be “saved” and I much rather go to hell in your eyes than giving in to the lies of the church.

@jaimegomez7785

3 ай бұрын

@@kirbotthat’s sad you rather go to hell. Then to believe in the word of god. You’re in this video for a reason , you’ll understand soon.

@user-jg9ef3pn9i

3 ай бұрын

Same here we both need alot of prayer

@cynalecm

3 ай бұрын

Unfortunately not all husbands earn all of the above the pastor said! However it'd be wonderful and great if All husbands earned and deserved it , The world 🌎 would be a much better place! Afterall the Men are supposed to be the leaders so they should Lead with all that integrity and the women will surely follow 😉

@CrystalAlbright-qd1bf

3 ай бұрын

Same here. Continue to love and give grace. As my counselor reminds me, I am to serve my husband as though I am serving Christ.

I’m not married, but I’m hoping in God it happens. So I’m listening to this and learning in preparation to who God is bringing my way. Videos like this are rare, thank you for allowing God to use you.

Found this and love the definition!!!! The phrase translated as “help meet” comes from two Hebrew words, ezer and kenegdo. Ezer means “help,” but in a distinct way. In English, a “helper” is sometimes thought of as someone in a low position, but ezer describes strength. It suggests that the individual has power to rescue others.

@fanellenana2320

3 ай бұрын

Thanks

This was terrific and to the point. Sorry it was not longer. As a woman we get too attracted to the world’s way of a woman’s role, because it’s always in our face. Women have power in a marriage, but must use it with wisdom. Thank you Pastor.

@kirbot

3 ай бұрын

Do not fall victim to the lies that woman are lesser in a marriage. Marriage should be an equal relationship in which neither party has more power over the other.

@moniembob

3 ай бұрын

​@@kirbot submitting to your husband isn't a degrading position.

@ulunjimhango949

3 ай бұрын

​@@kirbotBe careful you may be manipulating the Word of God

Thankyou! Heading up to 37 years married and still learning! But God's ways are the best and honest biblical encouragement like this is rare! So appreciate it😊

Thank you I pray all separated and divorced couples see this video. Aswell as married couple and single persons waiting on the Lord for a husband or wife.

I'm not a wife; I'm not even a woman. But I'm certain that this message is perfect for helping any man find that perfect Daughter of God! Will listen to the husbands' video later

I love love how you better explained submission by comparing it to the yield sign on the road. It really helped me understand this concept without the negative connotation that is usually attached to this concept.

Wisdom is profitable to direct. Thank you Pastor Vlad for this wisdom.

Thank you for this !! Both men and women Need to respect each other. When a Women feels deeply loved and cherished it would be quite easy to respect her husband…. And i understand men need space when overwhelmed, with that women also need to be verbally reassured by the men that he will step away for a moment and return because he loves his wife. Constant validation and affirmation we women need….

I love the end point! I’ve been married for 15 years and I’ve never been told that. I do see the wisdom in it. Now, I surround myself with married women, who are primarily pastors wives…and I have mostly mentors that also act as friends (it’s not all by choice, but sometimes God protects and preserves us by keeping us in small circles). Women, that is such sound advice. I honestly had to ask myself, “do I do those things for my husband?” And found myself convicted on some of them. It also doesn’t matter what you face in your marriage or what he does against you, while you are married you are accountable for how you honor the Lord as you honor your husband. Thank you for this video!

For me the most difficult part is "don't interrupt him when talking" sooooo hard not to but working on it.

Thank you so much ,I was in fasting and prayer today the Lord was showing me how I should work on improving in area of submission to my hubby .Here I just click on KZread and your video pop first .Praise our God

@gracesitutunamukolo4219

2 ай бұрын

Awesome I've been married for 22yrs now and my husband works soo hard,I haven encouraged to give him space which I do but thought it was too much..I have learnt from all the 12 ways God bless you..

Thank you Pastor Vlad for sharing and a reminder for married women to respect their husbands as was it is from the WOG.

I am a believer and have been for over 12 years now I've been married for 13 years. I understand completely what God's will is in marriage most of the time. It's just hard when someone isn't seeking the Lord the way you are. But I completely understand all that you have said. Being unequally yoked

So thankful for your teaching! I needed 25 years ago and still today. Many blessings to you and your family!

So grateful for this channel, God bless you Pastor Vlad.

Love this pastor’s preaching/teaching.

WOW!!!!! Loved this. Thank you pastor.

Thank you Pastor Vlad for sharing this. I've been praying about this kind of content♥

Thank you for this! It's Edifying ❤

Excellent teaching Pastor Vlad.🔥

My married friends never speak highly about their husbands. I get needing to vent, but they genuinely think their husbands are trash. Told my husband i dont wanna spend any more time with them. Also, these friends are actually married to my husband's brothers and cousins, so they're family too.

@bunny_0288

Күн бұрын

There is a group of women in my Bible study who do this sort of thing. At first, they tried to befriend me. While we were talking, I gushed about how wonderful my husband is and how thankful I am for him. How we had gone through a hard time, but he was just so incredible through it. And they actually said they were shocked by how positive I was and admitted that they usually get together and "vent." They ended up not inviting me to hang out with them, again. It hurt my feelings at the time, and I was sad because I was hoping I was making new friends. I have since heard that they badmouth their husbands all the time and gossip about everyone behind their backs. I now feel like the Lord protected me from their negative influence. I also feel kind of glad that they realized I wouldn't fit in their group because I behave differently. I'm still kind towards them when I see them, and I hope they will learn and grow and that the Holy Spirit helps them to overcome these behaviors.

The trailer and Kia illustrations hit me hard. Rules of the road!! Thank you!

Very helpful specifics! Thanks, Pastor Vlad!

How insightful. As someone who's engaged (wedding in 4 months), this has really helped me evaluate myself in how I can be the best partner to my husband. Thank you, Pastor Vlad, I always take notes on your videos 🙌🙏

@ladennayoung2939

3 ай бұрын

Congrats. I pray that the Lord bless you all's union IN JESUS' NAME. AMEN.

Thankyou pst.Vlad, most of the points ive heard you mentioned was about the tongue...may God help us tame our tongue😊

Great, been blessed listening to you share God's word.

Much needed this was awesome. I saved this video to keep me reminded this was most helpful 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 Holy Spirit was showing me things that I need to stop doing that’s bothering my husband 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Thank you pastor GodBless

Thank You Pastor

What a blessing to get this reminder! Thanks so very much!

Loved the clip. Thank you for the wonderful advice ❤

Dude, praise the Lord... I have been wondering how to show respect for probably a month now. I asked several people, but no one seemed to know. Showing love always seemed pretty straightforward to me (especially once you understand the 5 love languages), but respect...? That was a whole other ballgame that I felt I understood very little. Thank you for making this video! It's just what I needed!

@gretchensteward4078

2 ай бұрын

Agree! You might also find this widely taught bestselling Christian book helpful, Love and Respect

@tobyjones8783

2 ай бұрын

@@gretchensteward4078 Thank you! Will check it out!

This was a good reminder, thank you Pastor Vlad

Very helpful! Thank you!

Love this!! Thanks for these reminders

Hello Vlad, a couple of little things that make a big difference: - when he leaves to work, and when he comes home, give him a warm greeting/hug. It means all the world for him. - if you want something, ask politely “could you please”. Don’t bark imperatives (do this do that).

Using the analogy of the unity of the Trinity was pretty powerful.

Thank you Pastor vlad

Wow.... Best sermon ❤

Lovely Pastor Vlad! Keep sharing the biblical truth! 📖🕊️✝️ I deeply honor, respect, and cherish my husband ♥️! He loves it when I join him in his hobbies. He enjoys board games, although I find them a bit challenging. Still, I help by putting sleeves on cards or organizing game pieces. I’ll ask about these games and he’s wonderful how enthusiastic he gets ☺️! Every other Friday evening, he has board game nights with friends, and I bake homemade treats for them 🍰 . Showing genuine interest in your husband's hobbies is crucial, as it allows you to bond together! 💕

@MisertheWizer

3 ай бұрын

Where are these women like you? They're like dinosaurs and non existent

Thanks so much for these wise teachings👍👍👍

Excellent! Thank you❤

Thank you for teaching that, he said some things that I never heard of so thank you. And God bless you.

Thank you for this. I'm 5 years into my marriage and really needed this reminder. You got another subscriber!

Thank you and God bless!

Thank you for this❤

Love this!!

Thank you #12 is a huge one

Thanks Pastor this was so informative ❤❤❤

You have provided excellent points. Thank you!

Thank you

This is very good 🙏🏽

I think am in my final season of waiting for my husband so am grateful for this. I get to learn this early

I am a wife and I pray that God grant me this burning desire of being submissive to my husband 🙏

@MisertheWizer

3 ай бұрын

If this I'd the heart of women on this channel vlad should start a dating app like dang

Thank you!

This video is helpful. I don’t feel belittled or like I’m being accused of evil when addressing how and what it looks like to respect my husband. I felt taught not ridiculed. Thank you!

You can be a submissive wife and still be a boss on the job 🎉❤. God is so good 🙏

Thank you for this video 🙏

Thank you! This was very helpful.

Thank you! 😊 ❤

So very good!!! Be blessed!!!🕊🤍

This is a masterpiece ❤❤❤very powerful teaching

Always a blessing you hear from you 🙏🏻 ✨️

Today i needed this message . Thank you lord . Correct time God directed me to see this . Because yest only I had a clash with my hus. Keep me in prayer to let go my ego .

Excellent counselor. Very practical and helpful.

Love this thank you Vlad x

All these can be applied to men for mutual respect. For instance, a man can submit his ego to a wife’s wisdom .

@imaneassi

3 ай бұрын

A man shouldn't put his ego, himself first since Jesus never did.A man isn't supposed to bring you down, hold you back instead of supporting your dreams and goals since Jesus never did to us.A man isn't supposed to cheat since Jesus never did,...should I go on?

I loved 😍 it ...thank you pastor

Thank you 🙏🏾

Beautifully said! 🎉

Great advice

Definitely great points backed with Bible verses. Thanks for sharing

I appreciate your wisdom season with grace.

Loved the video! I have known loneliness in marriage waiting for my husband to wake up- "It takes two to tango, it takes two to have a marriage"- yeah, me and Jesus!

@ORSkie

3 ай бұрын

Yes, thank God Jesus is our ultimate, faithful, trustworthy husband!

Thanks alot pastor and may Godbless you

Thank you 😊

Very edifying

Nice. Thanks for sharing

Thank you ❤

Wow thanks! In not married yet, but I pray that when I am about to marry, this video would pop up again🥰 It is completely new to me that what men need first is respect, and then love. Or is it that they feel loved when they get the respect that's due to them?

Tq so much for this it's like God show me something tq so much praise the lord Amen

Love everything about this video and couldn’t agree more

Thank you so much for this beneficial information, Amen and amen and amen.

Thank you Pastor it’s help me alot❤

Thank you so much 👍

Thank you sir I'm grateful for your thoughts

Thank you. So good❤ God bless you.

Thanks alot!!!

What a building sermon this is!! ❤God bless you and your ministry

Thanks for sharing. This info helps me understand my husband and how I can respect him. ❤

Excellent ❤

Thank you so much. I'm personally blessed. ❤. I have issues in dealing with my hubby, your tips helped me alot...

God's word works!!! Amen Pastor Vlad, God bless you🙏

I have learnt a lot as a wife Thank You Jesus Christ.

Really great and practical advice. Also very scriptural