If you gotta question if she likes you, that’s your sign right there!

That list was 100% on point!!! Reciprocation when you first meet someone is huge!! If she doesn't have a desire to match your energy, move on!!

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Move on!

@GILLIONS500

Ай бұрын

Big faaaaaxs g stop wasting your energy

Funny thing is these signs start to show right before a break up as well.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

For real!

@halfnorfolk5310

4 ай бұрын

Truth! Had this happen to me when I was younger and I dropped her before she even had a chance to drop me. “Know when to hold em, know when to fold em, know when to walk away, know when to run!” 🎼 🎵 😂

@h0llyw00dhoward7

4 ай бұрын

@@halfnorfolk5310 Kenny Rodgers was teaching life lessons when people thought he was singing about cards lol

@Fsojack

4 ай бұрын

@@h0llyw00dhoward7😂😂 me too just found that out today

Next vid. Signs a women doesn't like you but need to get her rent paid. Sign 1: She make herself more available around your payday. Sign 2: She real friendly, but asks to borrow money etc..... To all my OG's if they don't like you. The hell with 'em. Blend with the honies that do.

@lesliehall1613

18 күн бұрын

These points work well for women also.Thwy are spot on!!

Another hot tip! Mixed signals or hot and cold doesnt make the cut! Move on from mixed signals brothers. Most of us older gents know this but the young guys linger on mixed signals too long. And also dont take things too personally. It really isnt you sometimes, its something their going thru. Dont read into it and wonder why. Just move on

@Deephouse_Gent66

4 ай бұрын

@davidlapointe4710 - Great point about mixed signals. One of my guys once said, "Treat mixed signals as a 'NO' and move on."

@davidlapointe4710

4 ай бұрын

@@Deephouse_Gent66 anything other than a yes is a no! Is what i tell my friends 😂

If you are watching this video there is a 95.5% chance that she doesn't like you

I've learnt in life to come to except that not everybody will like me and i have to be comfortable with that. There is someone for everyone take care of yourself first and everything will fall into place

We have a saying in Spanish that goes "el interés tiene pies" is something like "if someone is interested in something he/she will pursue it". If a woman is into you there will be clear signs, if not, move on.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

agreed!

If she says “I’m really busy,” that means she’s really busy thinking of ways to get away from you 😜.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

most likely!

@Barber747

Ай бұрын

LOL! I've been there once. Thankfully for me it doesn't happen often 😂😂😂

Another physical barrier I’ve noticed is her looking at her mobile phone 📱 when she’s with you. 🤔

The most obvious sign is "I don't like you like that" 😂😂

@bencole9565

4 ай бұрын

Crazy hot matrix. We men can be a 5 but rich and we get 10d 😂

On point O.G. can you do a video on when a woman is just using you. Some of my friends need that one. Thanks 🙏🏾 and salute

@freeman37

4 ай бұрын

I have been there myself 😂😰

@CmUncleDre

4 ай бұрын

"I appreciate everything you do for me" 😂

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Yes I can!

@Marsquest-rq8kp

4 ай бұрын

@cliftonsledge962 That would be a good topic!

@deltahomicide9300

4 ай бұрын

Had this happen to me but from a female friend. Took years to see it and finally 👻

Thanks for the shoutout! Much appreciate this video, as well as many others. One thing I learned from last year is that "No message is a message." Again another solid video with excellent points.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Good point!

@Barber747

Ай бұрын

Metaphorically, yes, but literally, no. So I have to disagree.

@brandonbennett4615

Ай бұрын

@@Barber747 To each it's own, I acknowledge and respect your opinion, but I wish that you explained to rationale in why disagree.

@Barber747

Ай бұрын

@@brandonbennett4615 it's self-explanatory my dude. Think about it

@Barber747

Ай бұрын

@@brandonbennett4615 "No message is a message" In a metaphorical sense, it's true. But in a literal sense it's not. You get no message from person B, in which absolutely literally nothing exists.

I operate on my basis they don't like me. Makes it easier

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

lol!

Thanks for the reminders Jeff.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

no problem!

On point Jeff! Salute 🫡

Spot on list 👌🏾‼️

Very informative. Thanks again, Jeff. Salute.

When she says "you're too short" after the date.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

well...

@halfnorfolk5310

4 ай бұрын

After a “free meal” they do get emboldened!😂

@mateaukalua4426

3 ай бұрын

Stop buying food for them.

Women sense a lack of confidence the way dogs and other animals sense fear. If you are not sure of yourself, you better believe that she knows.......

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

indeed!

@mateaukalua4426

3 ай бұрын

I had a ton of confidence when I was younger 😂. Sometimes they simply don't care.

@arzell

11 күн бұрын

One of the things I've been doing to combat my lack of confidence is to ask myself and really analyze WHY I feel so insecure?? What chain of events in my life brought me to that state of mind?? What is it I'm afraid of, what is it I'm afraid she'll do if I let my hair down and 100 percent be myself?? Then I try to challenge those fears. I still have a way to go down this path, but I've found this to be quite helpful over the years!

Respect and Salute OG !!! Another great content

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Respect!

You hit these... On point

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Effort… when a woman’s feeling you, she will make an effort. Women break their rules for men who they are feeling. These women are paying for their own flight to go see some dude on the other side of the world but she gives you excuses and can’t take a 30 minute ride or Uber to come see you or meet up she’s just not feeling you bro. Move on‼️

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Effort!

@Barber747

Ай бұрын

The thing is, they need to act like they're interested if they truly are and not just pretend...especially when it comes to unreasonable ghosting, which I hate a lot. But that's another topic for another day.

Great tips OG. I have to say I agree AND disagree with some of these. Reason being, some people (especially nowadays) are shy or socially awkward and though they may like someone or be interested in building a deeper connection, they may not have the social capacity to do so, hence some of these signs may exist as a form of protection or barrier to not seem awkward. Overall though, I agree.

@Barber747

Ай бұрын

Great point. It's not about you necessarily, but the other person may not be used to being around people like that. It happens from time to time.

Right on time. My dad told me all these. A good refresher OG

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Thanks!

I think it's imperative to know when a woman likes you, loses interest in you and when she is just using you for attention. Men have to not have eyes for just one woman, there are lots of options out there.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

discernment!

Great helpful tips!

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Thanks!

Respect for this subject ty Jeff

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Respect!

Great tips O.G.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Appreciate it!

Dope vid Og

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Thanks!

Great info video and I enjoyed it and have a blessed day

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Thank you! You too!

@michaelbullock8011

4 ай бұрын

You welcome keep up the good work and thank you very much GOD BLESS 🙏

Ayeeeee thxs og

If you feel doubt or uncertainty for any reason, move on…. that’s all the signs you need.

Great Vid Unc Salute 🫡

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Awesome video

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Thanks!

Finally a Style O.G. subject that I am an expert on.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Ha!

@richk320

4 ай бұрын

😂😂😂😂

@rossellwells1910

4 ай бұрын

It’s all true, some women like using you as a way to attract other men. I agree if you are the one always texting and never getting a reply. Abort. Nobody is that busy to not at least reply back. Means your not worth her or his immediate attention. Plus, we all have friends we’ve seen like someone and would do everything to attract the other person. Heck even my ex-girlfriend I could tell when she was cheating on me. She always found time to talk with me regardless of time or what she was doing. When she stop doing it and I noticed her on phone with others smiling. Red flag. Then taking pictures of herself and not doing it for me. When I called her phone was busy and she didn’t switchover. So I knew she was giving someone else the attention. I learned hard way, but if I can give you guys simple things to look for then I’m glad to share. Good hunting.

Hmmm great points there!!

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Glad you think so!

@ernestcarter7073

4 ай бұрын

@@TheStyleOG yes indeed 👊🏾💪🏾

Love you and love your vlogs ❤️

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Appreciate you!

I agree with all of your points, brother.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

I absolutely agree with all of these points. 👍Men shouldn't have to badger women to go on dates, yet, tons of men still do it.

Just starting in Georgia, inventory is coming in now, tables, chairs and pop ups to start

Saaalluuute, my Style OG...you've done it agaun, sir. Keep up the grind to help us Men...

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Big up!

😂 True Statement Brother 😊 I feel this is true for men also.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

No doubt

Great video Jeff. Many of us gentlemen have good intentions that some women don’t see or don’t even pay attention to.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Thanks Melvin!

4:25 I've always said this, short or delayed responses are clear signs of a lack of interest. Take any woman's celebrity crush do you think they would ignore them or wait no matter how "busy" they were?

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Indeed!

@Marsquest-rq8kp

4 ай бұрын

@PremierAutoMan86 You’re correct, they ABSOLUTELY would not!

@righteousmasculine

4 ай бұрын

When you meet a girl definitely ask her questions and and peep how long she take to text and does she compliment me. And things like that

Amazing advice!! We need more dating content (well, I do anyway 🙈😂)

Yes, those are some great points. Although I hit a home run but due to the age gap her interest level started to decline.

Spot on 💯

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

💯

All these points were dead on.

I think you nailed them all...

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

When you notice the signs that she is not interested in you, say nothing and leave.

THXS OG

Yes your on point

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

He was spot on with these signs.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

appreciate the feedback!

But they like that money 💰 tho 😂

@ericrobinson1789

4 ай бұрын

That they like! More so love it.

@o751106

4 ай бұрын

And gifts lol

@skinnyminnieog

4 ай бұрын

more like LOVE❤😂

@freeman37

4 ай бұрын

No money, no honey.

@darkknight2229

4 ай бұрын

Get your money up then date. Anything else is a set up to fail.

OG is making a masterpiece Let him cook !!!

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Returned friend Jason Burke here, thank you Bro amazing content

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Thanks for the visit!

My personal stance on this is that you gotta make sure you play your cards right to increase the chances of her being interested in you. If she does any or all of these things you mentioned in the video, then most likely she ain't into you like that. And if she's single, that's not your loss, but hers. She's the one who missed out on a great guy.

Big Cuzco, you stay coming through with them gifts, however that jacket is fire. What pants and shoes are you sporting with it? I am on that jacket my guy

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

got on sweatpants. often times shorts when I film. lmao

@np_management1931

3 ай бұрын

@@TheStyleOG much respect, got you lol. What would you suggest ?

Another sign is her asking you lots of questions while avoiding answering anything personal or deeper. If the dynamic changes when YOU ask the questions regardless what kind of relationship you’re in… You may be part of a huge manipulation of your time, or likely just another somebody in her mix. A lot of men find out five or ten years into a relationship that their wives don’t like them. If you check 8-9/10 boxes she doesn’t have to like you to with you.

Yes very true on all points and if any of these signs are seen just move on in life.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

yup!

So if there's a closed door between us whenever we talk, I should take that as a sign, huh? JUST KIDDING!! I enjoy your videos, bruh! Even though we all come to the dating world with our own individual experiences and advice, I've found yours to be the most ubiquitous in terms of capturing 'common' experiences that most men can relate to, and I always get something out of listening to you. BTW, I've never known a woman to NOT accept a compliment, even if she's accepting it thru that closed door I mentioned. PS... Nice sport coat, O.G.!

Im married now, 24 years and going. But this advice would have saved me some sorrows in my early teenage years. Lol. Spot on video, thanks boss.

@fb1473

4 ай бұрын

I share these with my son

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

appreciate that!

Harsh but true😭😭😭🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Truth!

Man! I need a shout out!!

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

i got you!

all great information for us the women wont tell us at all lol good luck out there fellas

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Hey OG, can we get a post about wellness for men in their 40’s? Things like nutrition, exercise, health, mental health, etc. Thanks OG!

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

I like the idea!

Bruh' your spot on

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Love that blazer brother...

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

appreciate it!

Salute

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Beyond facts, straight up gospel.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Keep the vids coming from a seasoned vet

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

will do!

Dope video, I was wondering if you could do a video on if a woman just only wants a man around to do stuff for her, basically using the man

@righteousmasculine

4 ай бұрын

This is self explanatory tho you’ll know when she using you. Ask her to do something for you better yet if she don’t willingly do it cancel her

Our feet will always be facing you when we are interested as well.

'Solid'

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Agreed

i dunno… when she throws up the pony tail… its game onn 😂😂😂

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

in the right situation...

Big small or medium signs,that is ok.I move on as if I never met her.

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

as you should

All Trues

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

Today, my MO is to give a chick the same energy she gives me. If she texts back short, or doesn't text back at all, then I'll respond in kind. Or if she says "let me think about it", "we'll see", or "I'll let you know", my response is "no problem hon, take all the time you need," and move on, I don't attempt to check back in, I don't follow up, no "hey is everything ok," none of that. And if she hits you back, wonderful. If she doesn't, it's all good. Also, I tell guys to think about all the chicks who liked you, but YOU didn't like. Remember all the things you did to push her away? That's what she's doing to you broham. Rejection goes both ways. Sometimes you'll dish it out; other times you'll have to take it. But it's all good tho 😉

Vital

If u bring uo anything physical or sexual to her snd shes like im not that time of girl or she on some lets wait a while janet Jackson type mess, then she dont like u like that. Respect style og.👏🏽

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

respect!

@jahrules8674

Ай бұрын

I've learned to never bring up the topic of sex unless she brings it up.....I mean don't compliment her physical appearance (breast, a$$) even

One point I can raise is, when there're remarks with personal attacks lacking any objectivity from the woman. Occasionally leading to character bashing and a little application of harassment-strategy on the man. 😐

I know all these signs

💯

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Salute!

What if she constantly talks to you about her exs?

fucking spot on.

Guys another few signs 1. She pulls away from your hug. 2. She doesn't even smile at you when you smile at her. 3. She seems bored, uninterested and annoyed with you around. 4. (Goes with 3) She immediately becomes unhappy or annoyed when you show up.

@Deephouse_Gent66

4 ай бұрын

That "boredom" is a HUGE one. At this point in life, I know how to spot it and avoid it, but as a younger man, I did not. Boredom is definitely one of my red flags.

@Barber747

Ай бұрын

If that's the case, she may have her own problems whether it has anything to do with you or not. Especially if you did nothing to warrant it.

If she files a restraining order against you then this is also a clear sign of disinterest…….sometimes.

If you’re doing all the calling …abort. So true

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Abort!

Does she yell, "EWW GET AWAY"? That is another small but crucial sign that she might not be feeling you, brother😅

All these clues are like when you marry them 😊

Travel overseas and you don’t have these black women issues. I left the matrix over 15 years ago.

😂😂now that's some insight there. Lol... my bro.. you just to dang intelligent lol lol you hit a home run here!!! " she's probably not feeling you, my guy"😂😂 Move on, my brother➡️➡️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️abort... abort..😅😅 salute bro❤

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

Ha!

I have another one, when you're texting a woman something that is important to you, and all she responds with is a "lol awwwwwww," that means it is time to focus on yourself, king.

Question….if you ask her to be your gf & she says we will talk about it soon, is that basically another way of saying no? lol let alone our conversations are always very dry, meaning I do most of the talking & her answers are always short, for example: yep to almost everything lol I think it’s pretty obvious…….

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

she's saying no

@ricklee6704

4 ай бұрын

@@TheStyleOGthat’s what I thought lol just wanted to confirm, thank you, brother much appreciated 🙏

6:54

@issazeele1707

2 ай бұрын

She smiles have conversations with me and offer to spark loud with me. However, she's always on the move knowing I'm tryna smash at my crib. We're neighbors lol, I think it's friend zone

This one stings the nostrils 😮

@TheStyleOG

4 ай бұрын

you guys come to me for the truth! appreciate the super chat

@AltonGermain

4 ай бұрын

@@TheStyleOG Amen O.G.

Another sign a woman don’t like she looks at you funny!!!

Body language is🗝️ if you can read it you wil be good