When your boss has this disorder, the workplace turmoil is the worst.

@Sagatta32

3 жыл бұрын

Feel ya. We have a new boss. He is the most chill dude u can find. Slow temperament just like myself. He does it his way. I also strive for such originality, it is part of who I am.

@nimb1333

3 жыл бұрын

oh yes, I know it.

@johnboy6594

2 жыл бұрын

I know it well.

@AnnieGrace777

Жыл бұрын

Also when the 'favourite female' is allowed to get away with everything because she sleeps with him.

Got rid of a narcissist.once i heal got involved with another one.have no contact with either one.they are the worst people.happily single dont want another realtionship ever.

@victorialevy431

4 жыл бұрын

Same here. Next one could be an extreme, even worse narcissist with even better love bombing skills. Include great sex and it will go downhill fast.

@XxxX-wx3er

3 жыл бұрын

Tina Davis - all men are narcissist. The only good men in the world end up with female narcissist. The only relationships in the world are a power in balance. Male narcs get the good women and female narcs get the good men. And that’s 90% of relationships.

@victorialevy431

3 жыл бұрын

I never want to be with anyone ever again in life except my kids and grandkids and their mates. Two divorces and widowed once. Damn, I'm tired, burnt out, discouraged and disgusted. All three cheaters. The hell with all men.

This describes my dad, his parents and my moms mother. Thank the Lord my mom is am empath like me. Do not become what you come from, unless it’s good ofc.

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

May, Of Earth ❤️

@infringedblue

4 жыл бұрын

Your mother (and yourelf) must be incredibly resilient to have not gone over the edge in that kind of environment.

This describes my mother perfectly... It's hard when it's family, how are you supposed to walk away from your narcissistic mother when all she's got left is you?

@officialbismah

3 жыл бұрын

Its so hard when its family,i just ignored my narc aunt today it was hard but I pulled through I told my mum but im scared she will tell her sister about the things ive said about her behind her back and loose my mothers trust :( ,But I guess you have to do the silent treatment and the grey rock method.Where you emotionally disconnect and become boring towards your mother.Or in another case Dont argue because narc will never hear your side of the story they dont care just simply shrud it of and act very very brain dead .Dont even bother being nice to her when she is nice.Just simply if she hurts your feelings tell her I want an apology for what you said and leave the room,Dont communicate and dont be in the same room as her

@roberth4395

2 жыл бұрын

@@officialbismah women do not keep secrets. The first thing they do once you are away is to call one of their girlfiends and tell them your secret. There is 99.99% that she told her what you said and now you are fcked.

@roberth4395

2 жыл бұрын

Maybe you are the only person she's got is because she is a monster(narc). You cannot cure these demons. Stay in low contact and be nice to her, narcs love to exclude their kids from their will to get the last narc supply when they die.

@damo9961

2 жыл бұрын

Easily. Just do it. You have no one to blame but yourself for continuing to tolerate her abuse.

@sherika1977

Жыл бұрын

nabilaA I know it’s 2years later. I pray you have found somewhere to put this. I’m currently going through this myself. I’m not all my mother has, but she’s toxic. I’m at the point where I don’t want to communicate with her at all. She’s 62, trapped in a 18 year old mindset.🤦🏾‍♀️

My ex fiancé , thank god I dodged a bullet with that . Wow

@provethioaltum3276

4 жыл бұрын

I feel im a narcissist

@seancoonery2559

4 жыл бұрын

Explain

@mjonez973

4 жыл бұрын

Same its sad though I feel bad for her

@ksportjacket

4 жыл бұрын

Thank the lord you didnt do that..ouch there is much to work thru, it can be painful for sure 👍

@eagleeye2300

3 жыл бұрын

Beware of the next one.

Another sign is that they’re are the first to acuse others as narcissists

@Biogeology

3 жыл бұрын

They tell everyone before they introduce you that you are a bad person I've been told my ex said I was crazy ... I was violent ... I was a liar ... It's funny really because my exes friends discovered the truth ... it was the complete opposite! And now they are my friends and dislike my ex for the way I was used and abused especially financially ... still struggling to pay off debts incurred by my ex ... My business gone and life left in tatters but I realised that all my exes took advantage one way or another three x over ten years relationships later ... after 42 years of pleasing others I'm completely alone and learning to love myself... It's their loss ! Like other people damaged by sociopaths ... I doubt i will ever let another person get close to me ever again !

@coreyanderson1457

2 жыл бұрын

Well, sometimes it's just a person doesn't understand what it actually is. The word gets tossed around a lot.

@coreyanderson1457

2 жыл бұрын

@@Biogeology That's sad. Im sorry, it's not fair. I know I feel like I am a narc magnet. I see other women and how they eventually meet a guy who's good. And I feel like I got left behind.

@aehrmartinez7062

2 жыл бұрын

You accused them because you see the pattern in them,

1: superior & self important 2: fantasies of power, wealth, success 3: special & unique 4: need excessive admiration 5: sense of entitlement 6: exploitative behaviors 7: lack of empathy 8: jealousy 9: arrogant & haughty & attention seeking 10: cant handle criticism 5 or more positives= N.P.D.

Yup that's my ex,this is such an annoying an irritating disorder,they really are the worst form of human life that there is,such weak little cowards inside,they just wanna keep running away from reality,

That first one.... Putting in NO WORK, and thinking they are important in that field. Lol that shit cracks me up all the time.

OMG! I swear I'm in this kind of relationship right now. It's the worst!!! It eats at my soul and the only reason I'm still here is because of our children. Don't know how much longer this is going to last.

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Danet Aguilar I am so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself. Sounds like you deserve so much better than what you are having to deal with. I wishing you future strength and courage to do what is best for your life.

@ladennayoung2939

4 жыл бұрын

Do you and your children a favor by leaving. That is only going to make it worse for your children. Being abused and/or seeing you being abused is not beneficial to them at all. Ask God to help you to leave, and have the finances you need to provide for you all. I pray many blessings over you in Jesus name. Be free.

@maevenibhuachalla3631

4 жыл бұрын

Hello, I am the child of a narcissist. I know from your message that you love your children.. and you think you are doing the best for them by sticking around. But I wish my mom had walked away, all my siblings are damaged because we were raised by a narcissist. One of my siblings has now turned into a narcissist.

@ladennayoung2939

3 жыл бұрын

Don't live that lie/excuse any longer. You are NOT doing yourself or your children any favors by staying. Get out in Jesus name. Save yourself.

@ladennayoung2939

3 жыл бұрын

@@maevenibhuachalla3631 God bless you and yours. I plead the blood of Jesus over you and your family in Jesus name. I bind the generational curses on mother side. In Jesus name. I pray and say. Amen and Amen.

No wonder am struggling so much in this relationship 😭💔💔

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Sharon Mtai It can be a very difficult to be in a relationship with a narcissistic individual. One of their tactics is to make one feel that anything that goes wrong is always the other persons’ fault. When in all actuality, the narcissist’s behaviors, such as gaslighting, create the majority of the issues in relationships. They love to make people question reality. It is very sad for the individuals who truly have love for them.Once you realize what you are dealing with, it is one step to peace and recovery from such an abusive relationship.

@mermaidmoney2794

4 жыл бұрын

Get out before you get destroyed!!

@raydanielz9408

4 жыл бұрын

@@medmadeez9159 well put med, I so wish many people could realize that this type of people exist so they can stay clear of them, not to go through what I have been through, before that morning when I was doing a research on my wife's behavior and by God's grace, came across the Quora website that eventually saved my life and sanity. 🙏

@provethioaltum3276

4 жыл бұрын

@@medmadeez9159 interesting

@santiagoguerrero6500

3 жыл бұрын

@Rinah Reen all of them

I’m guessing the 59 dislikes for this video are from 59 narcissists. One thing I have found with them is that they refuse to see the truth about themselves no matter what and will downplay anything that they do that is in any way hurtful. So a narcissist would probably watch this and say this is certainly not me but I don’t see what the big deal is anyway.

@nagashimalite

Жыл бұрын

I heard somewhere, that narcissist actually like telling others, that they have NPD... Idk, maybe it wasn't true

Hiya, and wow I can't believe how concise you were with this video. It was completely understandable and thorough. I have listened to about 50 videos this is the first one I could adhere to completely. Thank you kindly.

@medmadeez9159

2 жыл бұрын

Awe! Thank you for commenting such this. I appreciate it!!

very in a nutshell and concise , well put, to the point !!

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Rachel Craig 😊❤️

Great video!! I see this in my practice allll the time.

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

drwanderlust Thank you!!

Excellent video. Thanks for sharing

Educational, thank you!

Omg... this only scratches the surface.

Excellent video!!

Thank you this was very informative

Jealous.. cannot support without personal gain. This is what I have noticed about my friend among other things. He is in a way smart, looks good but it's like he's attatched, has no one to talk to except me, feels lonely. I tell him enrich your inner world but he seems too possessive and again, 'lazy' as explained earlier in the vid. All 5 signs seems to fit for him as described. What I do like about him however is that he is in a way open about some of his weaknesses and I am that savior that is gonna fix!! It is stupid but I am almost automatically drawn to those who are in some way dysfunctional. I don't know why. Could be that they have more time to spare or just seem interesting/off in some way and I seek that uniqueness/problem solving.

My ex. Thank God he is out of my life and has been for a while. He is real narcissistic person. So sad

@PhoenixtheII

3 жыл бұрын

Why thank another narcissist?

I always wonder why certain mental health issues are more catered to than others. Be more caring for people. They need help as well

This is my brother! I have to go along with his narcissistic behavior just to keep piece in the family!!

@GreekRedpiller

3 жыл бұрын

Tell him to go fuck himself,my younger brother split up our family because he wants to control everyone and everything,he brags all the time for being a superb artist and turned my other brothers against me and my mother,fuck this little lazy arrogant shit.Try to keep the peace in your mind and stay away from such people.Take no shit from anyone,even if it's family.

This is the best explanation I've yet to come across. Describes one of my family members to a"T". Thank you for creating this video!

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Mee Mee 𝐓hank you! I am sorry that you have to deal with family members that are like this. It’s an extremely tough thing to deal with on a regular basis.

@MeeMee-gz5vp

4 жыл бұрын

@@medmadeez9159 Yes it is tough, especially when you've been raised by them. As a child, their narcissistic ways did a bit of damage, but at least now I know (thanks to you!!) what's going on. You are a life saver :)

@sadiestoltzfus9798

3 жыл бұрын

What do you do when you have a narcissistic sister/brother? My problem is both. I don't know if it's me or what. My brother just told me he never want's too soo or hear from me again. Because I refused to take care of something that is his responsibility. He has done this many times. When confronted he turns it on me.

Thank you nice song too :)

Girl u nail it.

Thanks girl. I’ve been in love with him for 10 years. Seeing each other On and off for 6 years and he’s finally giving me the silent treatment after all the other bull shit I’ve been dealing with all these years. I always knew he was a narcissist. I just had to confirm the characteristics. Thank You.

@AGENT-dl2lu

2 жыл бұрын

Damn along time you wasted

@funkchurches

2 жыл бұрын

He may have some of those traits. You understanding him gives you power to affect him positively. Describing the situation truthfully will give him a chance to accept the truth.

Cutting several cords of firewood each week, and splitting it too---loading it into a pick up truck, unloading it and stacking it for a customer, over a 12 month time frame usually cures people of this. If they complain, take away the log splitter and give them an ax. If they still complain, take away the pick up and give them a wheel barrow. If they still complain, take away the chain saw and give them a hammer and chisel. If they still complain, you can't help someone who don't wanna improve. say a prayer for them and send them on their way. William Wadsworh Longacres

Admiration is so big at least what I'm dealing with!!!!!!

Oh ya, you just described our grandson an to a lesser degree our daughter, his momma to a T.. we are raising him until mom gets her life in order... good video..thank-you

Thank you.

You forgot the bad HYGIENE. Some narcissists refuses to shower at times😂

@likeitseasy7413

3 жыл бұрын

What u on about lol

@theredditreadout

2 жыл бұрын

That’s just lazy chief

@pattysirju1355

2 жыл бұрын

My husband rarely showers even when I tell him.

@doreensmith8209

2 жыл бұрын

Loool

spot on 👍

My understanding is that all psychopaths are narcissists, but not all narcissists are psychopaths. I met a psychopath on Tinder without realizing I am an empath that became codependent after years of abuse. The psychopath almost killed me. Please stay off of dating apps.

@IndigoRoses7

3 жыл бұрын

And Facebook. I've met three different narcissistic horrible men that approached me on Facebook. Sounds dumb to start talking to people on there anyway, and it is. Three horrible people in a row makes me never want to date again, sadly.

@scottsprojects658

3 жыл бұрын

@@IndigoRoses7 I'm in the same place with dating. I'm genuinely scared to date ever again. A girl did just randomly start messaging me aggressively on Facebook and I never met her in person. I don't know how she got on my friends list and she asked me for my snapchat at some point. She then blew that up and it got to be too much for me to handle. I ghosted her because I didn't know what to do and then she asked me if she did something wrong and I had to say I need to focus on my health and she finally left me alone.

I do the three strikes your out because I have to let the person I’m date know that I’m not going to put up with this. My zodiac is cancer and I will tolerate it 100 times if I don’t limit myself on the drama and non sense. So it’s more of a reminder to me that they only get 3 chances not 300 smh!

It took me 12 years to learn about my spouse to be diagnosed with NPD and even I have some of this category, I have a small baby I'm worried that she might get impacted with our every day fights.

I think I have this disorder, this whole video just describes me... Earlier I demean my cousin and my mom by being a 'smartass', I also get easily irritated and most of the time it is too late for me to realize what I did to others. I feel terrible, I hate myself so much.

@medmadeez9159

2 жыл бұрын

You know -the fact that you are self aware of what needs to change is actually a major step and very mature. There is light and darkness in us all. I heard someone once say-it’s not always about finding what makes you happy-instead it’s more important to find what gives you peace.

@damo9961

2 жыл бұрын

A narc would not feel bad. So you're pretty safe.

@choccocker

Жыл бұрын

Please dont hate yourself, it will only make you feel worse. You deserve to love yourself just like anyone else, even if you think you have NPD. Hope you'll feel better. There are perhaps a lot of people that can relate.

@crystalkadletc1944

Жыл бұрын

Alot of people have narcissistic traits, but do not have NPD. My best advice is to seek therapy. The fact that you feel empathy and see those traits in yourself tells me you do not have NPD, but have some traits. :)

Thanks for making this video about my dad! Err, umm, I mean, about NPD 😁🤪

This is my husband..all signs.

@camillemae4781

4 жыл бұрын

Get out of the relationship before it gets worse, my ex fiance made me feel like shit, it was the worst relationship.

Superb👏🏻👏🏻👍👍💕💕

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Arm's Learning Network thank you!

@armsdamascusgrillhouse

4 жыл бұрын

Med Made EZ wc dear💕💕

I am fairly analytical of human behaviour. Consciously present and aware I believe. An interest of mine for sure. I honestly see all these qualities to a certain degree in everyone including myself. I assert that very little in life is truely black and white. Our language and communication would suggest otherwise. But it is a challenge when these tendencies are near the red end of the spectrum.

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

NZ reggae absolutely agree!! That is where providers come in to the picture. I can have a patient test + for something or fit the guidelines but they don’t necessarily get a dx. We always say treat the person not the test-same goes with guideline criteria. This is why google will never replace a provider (even as much as some may think so)

I am suffering because my Grandmother,She an epitome of narcissistic personality. We treat her nicely but she keeps finding faults in our actions. The silent treatment is real,she doesn't talk to us if we try to talk and make a conversation she says something hurtful which makes each one of member in our family sad. My mom is feels sad each time,she tries to have a good conversation with her. My grandmother is a person filled with negative energy, envoy, jealousy. She constantly want to be entitled to every small task she does, like turning off lights when not in use .

@medmadeez9159

3 жыл бұрын

I am sorry to hear this.

I found this video to be very helpful. Thank you for posting it.

@medmadeez9159

3 жыл бұрын

Mandie Mortem ❤️

The narcs I've known never seemed to have fantasies of unlimited power, but two were very wierd about a perfect partner. They also like attention in a way that is different than most people. Also they see people as their servers. Like, for money (one was, or is, like this), or take from others but don't give any love in return. Really self enitled, and very little genuine empathy, or no empathy. They like to bully in the devalue phase, which is the main portion of any relationship with a narc. They can be quiet or socially draining, depending on if they're grandiose or covert (vulnerable) type. Some seem "reserved ". But, they all are difficult.

Silent treatment..breadcrumbing..keeping secrets..Im done with his bullshit

Its strange how much ive researched n i still seem to attract these monsters..

@officialbismah

3 жыл бұрын

Its been one day and Ive avoided my narc aunt.Its so hard but We have to change out own behaviour so we can not attract a narc.I needed to stop being nice and stop doing anything for them and acting brain dead

@victorialevy431

3 жыл бұрын

Until you can see them for who they are don't get involved with anyone. That's the safest, easiest way to avoid these idiots. I'm doing that now. I've been a widow since May 3, 2020 and every man I've spoke to is one.

OMG I said he was special he said I know I am special. I said where did you learn teasing, he said I am unique in my family over and over. I was entitled to food and to women to wear no clothes. Minute relationship stops allowing them to manipulate, no use for the person no value. Only see things from their perspective and say what they really feel and does not seem to understand that it may hurt feelings.

so true

Damn, you just described my girlfriend to a tee. She has ALL these characteristics.

My SIL has 11 out of 12 of these traits 😭. It’s horrible to be around her for very long.

@uca1748

4 жыл бұрын

Vanessa Awada it’s the worst...:(

@it-ke9od

2 жыл бұрын

Oh wow she must be lovely

Now I know

The problem is that neither society nor the health care system do anything about it. They are not labeled as dangerous or a threat. However, great person like scapegoats when they becomes sick with depression, they would be labeled as a threat to society, they can not be trusted, they give them medication that furthers their depression, and they feel trapped.

@medmadeez9159

3 жыл бұрын

linda swartoff I think you recognize an important point about mental health care. It is often put to the side. Ultimately it is (mental health) often the leading factor that goes un-addressed. But it is also the exact factor that often contributes to things like compliance. Mental health is so under studied, diagnosed, treated. Under treated mental health issues often goes along with many of the problems we have in society.

An ex husband and ex boyfriend so happy to be through with the both of them. I left the both of them in the wind they didn't get a chance to leave me I ran away first.

People like this are suffering, they’re evil but I still feel sorry for them

@medmadeez9159

2 жыл бұрын

You have empathy- and that is a wonderful characteristic to have. The world needs more people like you.

This is the family member that robs all the inheritance

I met three sagittarius in my life one female and two males all have these qualities. That may be a consequence but no offence i feel these people are prone to have NPD. No matter what u do they never love u, they never appreciate you, always asking for more in return of nothing plus all the qualities explained in the video... i found them like chameleon.. they trap u by becoming u and when u r completely in then only they show their true colours. Thats my experience with all of the three saggis. And i am a fool to get trapped every time believing they may be right, so hurt myself more.

@ST-yc7uj

4 жыл бұрын

I feel scorpios like that

@nonimaseko8742

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a Sag and I'm offended

@zenithstar11

4 жыл бұрын

@@nonimaseko8742 😊i m sorry if u r hurt... i didnt mean that... just shared my experience and another mention is of my friend who recently had a similar bad experience with a saggi... no offence 🤷‍♀️

@nonimaseko8742

4 жыл бұрын

@@zenithstar11 no problem i hear you, i guess u met the bad ones😉

@samhardy6319

3 жыл бұрын

Balls.

Omgosh - so in the money

What should I do if my 4 years elder brother is having narcissistic personality disorder (and he doesn't know it)? I am asking it now because I have to stay and share my room with him for this Lockdown period of 21 days. I have survived the first 10 days, but I don't know if I'll survive the next. Please help.

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Shreyank Patel I don’t know the detail or circumstances of your situation-but I would recommend seeking help from another individuals whether it is a parent or other. Sharing your concerns is very important. You should never have to fear for your safety. If there is some immediate danger to your physical safety you may need to call the police. Please reach out to others in your life and express your concerns and need for help! I wish you well❤️

@reymysterio7412

4 жыл бұрын

Be straight up with him it takes em by surprise. Tell em when he’s being mean and hurting your feelings. And instead of just straight criticism tell him that you can be mean sometimes too or whatever he’s doing. When you call them out you have to make sure that they don’t feel like it’s only them.

I think my fourteen-year-old sister might have NPD, or some level of narcissism. She is selfish, spoiled, dislikes me, has to have her way, complains to our mom when she doesn't, always wants sleepovers with friends and fashion or hair stuff from stores, can't really take no for an answer, doesn't seem to care about my feelings, says I'm dramatic when I express anxiety or anger (the latter caused by her usually), and says mean things about me. She won't let me eat around her because of her FU**ING sensitive ears (people with sensitive ears are so selfish), doesn't really do much to make things easier for our mom, disrespected my limited ability to understand information (I have a learning disability), is sarcastic, tells me to shut up and not bother her and her friends, and flips out at me a lot. Is she narcissistic, or just plain selfish and hormonal?

@Bmalenke

Жыл бұрын

She’s 14, this is normal. If these do not subside when she matures, then there may be a problem. I wouldnt be too alarmed that a 14 yr old is acting like a total brat!

@johnrainsman6650

Жыл бұрын

@@Bmalenke 16 now, and still kind of selfish and manipulative against my mom

Its true dat he wants to be praised always

I try to not be narcissistic but at the end of the it turns out that way

@AGENT-dl2lu

2 жыл бұрын

Seek help

My piece of shit ex. I was gaslighted, emotionally abused, controlled, pressured and discarded almost everyday. I have so much anger and resentment, please wish me luck guys as I start the painful road of healing.

@medmadeez9159

3 жыл бұрын

Amber Frias Im so sorry to here that you went through this. You are going to be stronger than ever Amber!! I promise! Be kind to yourself and remember that you come first!!

I beleive i am a narcissist i also beleive im damaging my current relationship. I have all these traits except. jealousy i dont do that. ..do i need help?? But i do realize in my head that i may have this disorder😔

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Provethio Altum I would definitely seek out professional help.

@provethioaltum3276

4 жыл бұрын

@@medmadeez9159 idk if i can im not crazy ive just been through a lot of women. Since im a nice guy and im hamdsome ive been around. Hence perhaps over time i got damaged here and there

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

People often resort to defense mechanisms to protect themselves.... and they end up hurting themselves and others. You can have narcissistic traits but that doesn’t always indicate you have this disorder. Either way, getting professional help is a good thing. Therapy is also good. It is important that you are able to acknowledge within yourself that you might have a problem. You are doing that. That takes a lot of courage to admit that. That is a very important and powerful start.

@provethioaltum3276

4 жыл бұрын

@@medmadeez9159 never had thought of that. Perhaps your right it makes so much sense defense mechanism..and certain traits doesn't necesarily mean you have that disorder.. I suppose its easy to make all sorts of assumptions about yourself without actually knowing the truth.

@provethioaltum3276

4 жыл бұрын

@@medmadeez9159 thank you

One I felt that he mentally abuse nd mke atmosphere that he is getting abusing by me

This perfectly describes me 😂

@starguardian1229

2 жыл бұрын

😅

Wow

Superior to others...power driven....admiration...entitlement .....profit exploitation....lack of empathy....jealous...not happy for others...bully

I have everything you stated at 0:40 i think i need to see a therapist

The DSM V is old. Now it’s the DSM VI-R

INFJ/ENFJ types are often targeted by narcissists, especially 20 something ENFJ women they are the main target of narcissistic ENTP men 10+ years olders.

@libs5382

2 жыл бұрын

Wow I am an ENFJ and grew up in a narcissistic household and attracted narcissistic friends. It changed me now I am healing. Thank you for this x

I know how that.is!!!

Isn’t everyone special or unique? Cause I think everyone is, an if that makes me a narcissist then so be it!

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Amanda Anguish Hi Amanda! I think so too. I think what DSM 5 criteria means by that is almost like- “I am smarter, prettier, funnier better than everyone else” complex. I agree with you we should all feel like we are special. Narcissists also feel that the rules should not have to apply to them, that they are entitled (that kinda “special”)

@ladennayoung2939

4 жыл бұрын

You sound like a narcissist because you sound angry or bitter about what is being said. When there is absolutely no reason to respond in that manner.

I think I am narcissistic how can I cure

Like the content but the background music is bugging. Especially for someone suffering from ADHD it“ s unnecessary and disturbing.

@ladennayoung2939

4 жыл бұрын

I didn't really hear any music.

This sounds so much like my partner. She says I said things when I never. She says things then said never said that. Never likes anyone I get to know. Can anyone relate to this please Can you help. Advise Please and thank you.

@tonyaquilina7709

3 жыл бұрын

Is this a narcissist

@myvideos4utube

3 жыл бұрын

I experience this as well. I listening to RC Blake's Jr on KZread. He has some awesome teachings

I knew alot of people .

My ex has two checks by every sign....

My boyfriend has all those, he controls everything. I give my checks to him to take care of us and if he gets mad cause I'm not giving him his total way with everything he wants then he wont get me any cigarettes. That's just one example. He often says fuck your feelings. He constantly belittles me. I cry all the time. I wish to god that I would have only dated nerds, the actual nice guys. Any advice??????

@medmadeez9159

3 жыл бұрын

I am sorry you have to go through that.

@shoshanasadeh1266

2 жыл бұрын

My Dear, I married a Nerd with a NPD. He pretended to be the laid-back, mature, intellectual! Right after marriage and a child, I encountered domestic violence, abuse, my property destroyed, or stolen. Then the character assassination, stalking. If we knew the prototype for the Great Husband, we would marry him. I don't cry over him, I thank God that man was Exposed and gone. I am Free, alone and that's okay. Living my Best Life.

N when I'm not feeling well r I don't have money he jumps away

@victorialevy431

3 жыл бұрын

As I told my late husband narc, there is no reward for bad behavior. I left after five years married, with what I had, ( he had no income) and split. He died May 3, 2020 of a drug overdose at 39 years old. Our marriage was beyond bad. RIP Sam.

Am living with a narcissist right now sometimes i feel like i want to die i wish there was a better way as am homeless the treatment is terrible he would make me feel so bad

@medmadeez9159

2 жыл бұрын

I hope things get better. I am sorry to hear this

Run and don't go back

I am suffering from all these. How do I change this. Its tiring

@Emmanuel-xr3pt

4 жыл бұрын

Go get professional help, that is the only way.

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

Dalz I agree with the comment about getting professional help. Acknowledging that you may have a problem is a very big step. And that takes a lot of social intelligence, so I commend you. Most narcissist are never able to do that because their entire world would fall apart. Many people have narcissistic traits, but do not necessarily have the actual personality disorder. Evaluation is ideal.We can all change something in our lives; recognizing and wanting to change are huge steps to becoming better humans.

@isabelleisidro8832

4 жыл бұрын

Hi. I've never had professional help, but going no contact has helped me so far. Change your phone number. Delete all of your social media accounts. Take a break from social media because it is what keeps us from moving on. And lastly but not the least, talk to someone.

@KutthroatDre

4 жыл бұрын

Dalz stop being a dickhead and youl be ok

@nabilahridzuwan4343

4 жыл бұрын

Just to make you feel a bit better, if you recognise your own traits from all these it means you're not entirely narcissistic. you may display these signs due to underlying issues such as low self esteem, anxiety about something or past experiences. Please seek professional advise, they will help u figure it out, take ur time and be that great person you're meant to be.

.....I thought everyone was special and unique :(

@medmadeez9159

3 жыл бұрын

Saffron Sugar We are each unique and special. With narcisstic individuals they take this to another level. They believe that no one else can do what they can do. They feel that they are better than others. I don’t know about you-but I don’t want to be that kinda of “special”.

Like Lord Farquad?

I remember that I man called me up. He told me that he wanted to shoot himself in the head because he didn’t have much sex in college. I hung up on in. I called the police. I was interested in helping. Or was he manipulating me. People seemed to get pissed off with me if I show confidence.

@laurieberry4814

3 жыл бұрын

I mean blackmailed.

I really wonder if I have that. I mean we are told to end toxic (and obsolete) relationships, if we want to be people with a healthy self-esteem. What's wrong about trying and succeeding? I sometimes do get jealous if someone else gets a positive comment (but I have learned that it is 'not healthy' from all sorts of angles to have these jealous thoughts. So I have them more rarely, and when I have them I hide them - obviously, otherwise people can blame me of being a narcissist (witch, anyone else sees a parallel ?!). I can listen to others, I can see their point -if they have a valid one. The problem: 'narcissism' is ubiquitous, everyone has their opinion and it becomes hard to keep on talking to those who are too weak at self-reflection to see how they are wrong ... The word and concept of narcissism does not help. It's just another vice to blame, hurt and sentence people ...

@medmadeez9159

3 жыл бұрын

Maria Giangiulio I do recommend seeing a psychiatrist if you are truly concerned.This is a personality disorder. Most people do display a few of these characteristics here and there. We are humans; we like to protect ourselves. Whereas a personality disorder is a “deeply ingrained pattern of behaviour of a specified kind that deviates markedly from the norms of generally accepted behavior, typically apparent by the time of adolescence, and causing long-term difficulties in personal relationships or in functioning in society:“ (oxford dictionary). Think of it this way; It’s kinda like, if you have cough and shortness of breath-it doesn’t always indicate that you have pneumonia. There is CHF, asthma, bronchitis, etc...Just because you carry some of those signs/symptoms of a narcissist, doesn’t mean that is the actual diagnosis. There can be other diagnosis, underlying causes, lifestyle factors that can contribute to your responses. This is why a psychiatrist can truly help guide you to determine if you have this disorder or another (or various). And also what you can do about it.

Sad to say, I knew someone who have 11 out of 12 signs of NPD. Very toxic person to be with.

Cannot tolerate crit. Your Krit is considered abuse

I have 8 out of 12 of these. Do i have a serious problem?

@nabilahridzuwan4343

4 жыл бұрын

If they were able to recognise and reflect on they own undesirable behaviours then theyre not narcissist. It means they have healthy self esteem, as long as they don't abuse people out of your own self righteousness.

@AGAwesome1

4 жыл бұрын

habrah nabilah Narcissists are not automatically abusers. Stop being so narrow minds.

@AGAwesome1

4 жыл бұрын

possibly, but you should talk to a therapist about it. Self diagnosing is never good, but this video can help you recognize the symptoms to consult a psychiatrist

I have a few of these traits,I think I'm gonna get evaluated,I'm scared

My husband

I had a relationship with narscist

Idk if I meant a narcissist before

He wanted to drive a farrari🏎️

Why is this me hahahahah

Nevermind 50%

I'm confused. I'm in a relationship thinking maybe this is my problem but as I listen to this though I can honestly see I have some of those traits but the problem is I find myself reacting to how I am being treated and when I try to share my feelings to seek being understood it's like so what who cares. How can I be a narcissist if my behavior is a reaction based upon how I feel? I try to give love but when it's not given in return I feel liked I am being used so I separate myself to preserve my sanity.

@medmadeez9159

4 жыл бұрын

In all of medicine we have “guidelines”, manuals, scales, tools, etc...to help with diagnosis. Every situation is different, every person is different. Part of being a health care provider is being able to read between the lines and interpret a person’s behaviors, signs, symptoms. Sometimes someone presents just like they have one disease/disorder and we actually find that it’s somethings else. We always say don’t treat the test, treat the person. Same goes with guidelines. This video alone should not serve as a way to diagnose yourself. This is simply “textbook” information from DSM-5 manual. This is why seeing a therapist or psychiatrist is so important so that they can help you find the answers/treatment you need.

How do I send this to my ex 💀

@shaunaweldon5025

3 жыл бұрын

Lmao 🤣

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