I quietly walked away from a toxic relative; never 'explained or complained'; one of the better decisions I have made.

@jaideepbanerjee2457

2 ай бұрын

👍

@michaelarenee6853

2 ай бұрын

Resonates

@ilmasaavedra3954

Ай бұрын

Great accion ❤

@marsha7330

Ай бұрын

That’s what I’m going to have to do….and STAY gone.

@dardallas7465

Ай бұрын

The hardest thing I’ve had to do but also the best thing I’ve done.

11 things to delete: -Narcissist "friends" and "family". -Social media. -The news, media and newspapers. Only for direct dangers or calamities in the neighbourhood or in town. -Political conversations. Everybody has a right to have their own opinion. Everybody also have a right to remain silent about it. There are better things to talk about. -Drugs and alcohol. -Hoarding and clutter. -Negative self talk. -Junkfood. -Too much coffee and sugar. -Road rage. -Using a phone outside and in traffic; leave it at home. Turn it off. Nobody is important.

@fayebradford3197

2 ай бұрын

Confirmation!😊

@danakaleb4882

2 ай бұрын

thanks!

@livefromtheground7274

2 ай бұрын

Confirming

@DrPrepper13

2 ай бұрын

Thank you!

@creolelady5264

2 ай бұрын

True …. God put everything in the garden it was perfect our food our shelter our medicine if need be . Man made all these materialistic world we don’t need . Nature in it self is healing. Sunlight heals depression. Rain heals insomnia…… we don’t need there drugs.

Yes I been silently leaving people alone one by one

@tammyfitzgerald5336

Ай бұрын

🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤

@rosanajackson4668

Ай бұрын

Good ❤❤

@judymoxley944

Ай бұрын

Hahaha! Me, too! I feel great now!

No one can argue with your silence. Be slow to speak and quick to listen.

@doreenmclean7335

Ай бұрын

Thank you for these wise words I appreciate you r counsel thanks alot

I do want to change. I need to learn to be quiet. I am surrounded by narcissists. I need to trust the Lord fully.

@user-rc2xs5ti2w

2 ай бұрын

In the MBTI my type of personality has the cognitive function of Thinking Extrovert as the auxiliar function. The extrovert thinking thinks out loud. To not repress a natural function of yours try to give trainings and talk a lot this way. It decompresses your need to express yourself verbally.

@patriciamurphy6559

2 ай бұрын

Yes, what they say to you, about you, has nothing to do with you. ❤

@keiththornton1978

2 ай бұрын

You and me both Staying focused on my goals helps

@shanep.9442

2 ай бұрын

Good plan. Keep quiet & pray. Let us know how that goes for ya.

@user-ct9jw6re7w

Ай бұрын

Well said! I hope you doing your best! Much love!

Thank you. I made many mistakes by trusting peope so much

@larrymaxwell8565

22 күн бұрын

I think of the trust I've found in myself by trusting ,even quietly 😊

@Robylazarus

16 күн бұрын

Same here, blindly trusted others and finally learnt it the hard way.

Silence is golden.❤

@ken-roka

Ай бұрын

The stoic life is 😂 and I enjoy the changes that have been occuring in my life ❤

@dennismclaurin1487

11 күн бұрын

Jesus was silent when he was accused of many things ( Mat.27:12)

It’s best to maintain. Boundaries. &. Keep. Quiet. Be thankful &. Love self🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

@alierem4266

2 ай бұрын

Keep your candle protected, humble in success of anything. Keep your views thoughtful of others who are not as fortunate as self in achieved success. Costs nothing to be guiding and encouraging others who could not see possibilities (for better life under own steam.)

There is no need to explain your self to others... Period.

@MsAnpi

2 ай бұрын

Something I need to apply to myself thank you for this

@rochcarothers-ts3jx

2 ай бұрын

No,if your actions impact them,you are:)

@Discipleovtruth23

Ай бұрын

​@@MsAnpiHello.. 👋

@MsAnpi

Ай бұрын

@@Discipleovtruth23 hi 🙂👋

@Discipleovtruth23

Ай бұрын

@@MsAnpi You're gorgeous! 👌🏾🔥

My biggest disappointment and grief is my daughter. But I can not do anything but to still support her and protect her. silently

@Juanita-nx9lm

Ай бұрын

There but for the grace of God go I. Yes God makes us do certain things for our children, no matter what.

@bmoore8888

Ай бұрын

I have a similar situation!

@kimhinton4271

Ай бұрын

Yes, me too. Question? When dealing with our children in these matters, do you think the same principles apply?

@gn6037

18 күн бұрын

😢

@janesantoni9773

14 күн бұрын

Understand this.

I was always taught that sharing everything was noble. Many years and many heartbreaks later, I now know better

@michellejoy6752

Ай бұрын

As a child I was taught that it is tasteless, and unrefined to discuss personal matters with anyone who is not a family member.

@Juanita-nx9lm

Ай бұрын

It's never too late, but when you discover that you don't have to share, you will find out that nobody else shares with you. Don't give anything.

@PertNearFedUp-bj1tx

Ай бұрын

I know it. I certainly listened to them. Not anymore. Because I have no one I want around me to talk to or listen to, but God & my cats🌹😁

@michellejoy6752

Ай бұрын

@@PertNearFedUp-bj1tx now you’re talking, God and cats are as good as it gets if I do say so myself. ;-)

"Do not judge a person's life by the success he's achieved, judge it by the hardships he's endured." - Marcus Aurelius

@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L

2 ай бұрын

SALUTE 🫡

@acewelddive

2 ай бұрын

​@@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-LExcellent

@user-om9hh5ig4k

2 ай бұрын

💯

@henryiloba6203

2 ай бұрын

I love this, so factual

@user-gd4nk1sm2j

2 ай бұрын

Great quote❤

Leaving toxic environments silently without voicing complaints, drama, and faults of others. I like this wisdom.

I express my gratitude for what I have every morning and make me feel wonderful.

Sometimes silence is the best way you can be and ask God to reveal the hearts of those for you and those against keeping prayer and keep moving the needle forward ask God to direct you to the right people spiritually and in business. don’t compare just keep in your own lane God will make a way where there is no way. God is faithful 🙏🏻

@bcog-cv5el

2 ай бұрын

I talk to God

@lostinspace699

22 күн бұрын

@@bcog-cv5el i played in a rock band with him ,,,,

Put the focus on yourself rather than others. Find out what you love in life, and create that life for yourself. You are stronger than you think.

We must ensure that our goals and decisions are according to God's will and Word

@patriciasuarez738

2 ай бұрын

God's will is not of put up with bully, disrespect and abuse.... it's so simple...

We cannot control everything, but we can control our own will😍

@davidbuckwitz5408

2 ай бұрын

But our prisons say otherwise.

@judydunlop1964

2 ай бұрын

Perhaps this confirms the point made about choice or will badly applied​@@davidbuckwitz5408

Im learning to be silent in most situations im in. And this lets me know im on the right path..many thanks

You are nothing without God. Everything is grounded in love and Grace. With God

@Neema150

Ай бұрын

Who is god?

@JayB934txs

Ай бұрын

I don’t understand why god is suddenly being mentioned in these videos. The first 20 I watched made no mention of religion. Then I start seeing references to god or the creator sprinkled in. Unfortunate

@deberson54

23 күн бұрын

Without God, I have nothing!

@lostinspace699

22 күн бұрын

@@deberson54 keep it to your self , don't tell eny one again ,,,,

"Reject your sense of injury and the injury itself disappears." - Marcus Aurelius

@margyeoman3564

2 ай бұрын

Amen on that one.

I THANK God that I Moved from a toxic relationship another state so healing my self 🙏

I need a change because I have been on a descutive path and I’m grateful for the opportunity to have a good life despite my circumstances

Taking a better path and fighting odds i have met daily through prayer

I am so excited for changing my life and being able to make a difference in this world and God is my best friend to do so much for me 😍💕 In Christ Jesus name Amen! 😍❤️

Truely enlightening l wish these values were drummed into us from our youth, though it’s not too late to start now !😊

@weaverjsnw

2 ай бұрын

I agree whole heartedly. If we all could learn these concepts at an early age as a foundation for life this could have very profound effects on the whole human race. We all need this wisdom to break free of the negativity holding us back from our true potential. The way we currently live is not leading us to a good future. The example we show our children isnt teaching them anything useful in life. Our society is broken. I feel this way of thinking is a good place to start. Then when enough people get it maybe we can start evolving again twards what we are meant to be....

@lydiaramafoko8745

Ай бұрын

As a grown up I realize that some of today's children do not listen or take advices from older people seriously and it breaks my heart bcos they regret it only when parents are gone and have to face their lives alone and now they are adults who have messed up their lives.Some do not also really fear God as they do what they like.

It took a minute to understand my thoughts and ways that I handled things under stress: But! With the prayers and faith in believing in my father Yahweh he Delivered me and I am so thankful because if I knew what I know now it would have never happened, but I think my father Yahweh for seeing me through it for me walking in faith

The only change I've ever experienced is through God

@fikirmulugeta7604

2 ай бұрын

I agree 100%

@tuesday409

2 ай бұрын

Amen

@user-xm7lw9vo2r

22 күн бұрын

Amen

I follow three rules: 1] go to work 2] dont hurt anybody 3]silence is golden Considering i like to sing all day whilst i think about my problems because id rather not bother spreadin issues and rather deal with my own bs, this video definitely helped

Perfect. Be yourself and be discrete

I am truly looking for a change in my life.

This enlightenment has come at a crucial time in my life,which is helping me deal with a difficult situation, thankyou

The stoic lectures have helped me to deal with my emotional vulnerability and my anger. I remind myself to focus on how I respond to events, so empowering. Thankyou

Your heart is just like a delicate egg once you drop it it’s hard to put back together💕

@erikaunterberger5184

2 ай бұрын

This is so true !!😕

TRULY LIFE LESSONS THANK YOU* FOR THE WISDOM

Marcus Aurelius was completely right ☝

Im always seeking positive change in my life & for those who are no longer in my life , This is a rewarding journey .

I appreciate stoic philosophy. Yet silence can also be used to ice people out, to sulk, to be unwilling to learn or risk open and honest discussion that provides clarity to a situation and complete relationships respectfully.

I agree with eliminating toxic people in your life but when a serious issue has been brought up concerning your family members it’s important to address with your family involved what allegation was 6:59 said in order to clear the incorrect assumption. I also think you sometimes need clarity from a trusted person on a situation when you have been manipulated and gaslight your perspective can put you in doubt

@StoicKing101

2 ай бұрын

Your insight on handling toxic situations, especially within family dynamics, @user-ok8mr6qz7h, is invaluable. Addressing serious issues and seeking clarity to overcome manipulation is indeed crucial. How do you navigate these conversations to ensure understanding and healing, while also protecting your mental well-being?

This video is incredibly powerful! It provides valuable insights on the things we should quietly eliminate from our lives for better peace and happiness. Truly inspiring! 👌🌈😊

Am ready for a change thank you this information I was doing it all wrong. Amen God be with me.

Shalom,Shalom 🕊️

I have been taught this subject several times over a few months. I was hearing I talk too much. Reinforcement is helping me in a significant character builder.

I choose peace over drama and working on myself

I have a woman in my life who is full of hate and anger. I'm leaving her behind, because nobody is amune to that. It's a matter of time when it becomes your turn.

@alierem4266

2 ай бұрын

Leave and do not turn around to even look. Disconnect, so u can connect with another more suited to yr life.

@ev.adelemandagie4589

Ай бұрын

Love conquers sin. Pray for God to bring the right people in our path of life. And discard the wrong people.

@freedomforever1962

Ай бұрын

🍃 Make a plan according to what is presented here. Because..... announcing could cause road-blocks to getting away. 🙏🏼❤️🙌🏼

@sherwinseamons7889

Ай бұрын

When you share you believe the person may have solutions. Sometimes they do. Sometimes they don't. Realize hurt is caused by you caring about the person who is hurting you. Only after realizing the hurting you are feeling is not part of a relationship you may think it is. The relationship is all one sided. Remove this person from your life even if the person is family. Be true to yourself.

Ready to continue

Actions speak louder then words. No pain no gain. Impossible to reach perfection. We learn forever ⏱️🥰☘️💐🍀🍁🈵🍵🏳️

I am desperate for change and I pray continually JESUS HELP ME

Practicing empathy and cultivating the circle of people to journey with has been the toughest challenge. Likely those walking away from me have acted out of self-preservation. Learning life lessons at this stage is a series of challenges I pray to be able to complete. Thank you for the reminder. And thank God for everything else.

Yes, I welcome change, in fact I believe I can count on it. ❤ I love this kind of challenge, versus what needed change. It’s not any person I don’t like, it can be their behavior, which I can remove myself from their mean or selfish and abusive behaviors, then be thankful for it.

I really needed to hear these wise words today. I am an over thinker and an over sharer. I am going to try hard to follow this wise advice. Thank you very much.❤

Marcus Aurelius was completely right 👍 silence is golden they say its true warriors say nothing' thank you for this❤

@dannymeyer3256

2 ай бұрын

When remain silent when facing obvious tyranny we bring harm to the family we love. My daughter was told don’t discuss politics or religion in the workplace.

I love your series. It is helping me with talking negatively about myself to myself. I am glad I found you. Thanks.

New year new mindset I'm ready now 2024❤🙏🙌

Thank you for helping my brother Ivan?please get him to trust you GOD,both Ivan and Gavin need to change their life style.amen

Great advice, thank you so much 💯

I’m am ready for positive change in my life

I'm hearing just what I need at the moment. Thank you 🙏🏾

@WayOfWisdom1

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for listening

1:00pm It's a reality that is too extraordinary to negate; I was feeling like I'm all that and a bag of chips after telling my creepy landlord things I've held inside for over a DECADE! I just got off the soapbox and was made to watch this video. Now I know how I only lowered myself to his level of awfulness. I realize now that I too am just as capable of having the assholeness of which I shall never ever ever want to be. It's those rare occasions when I think I'm so right; but I'm so wrong 😔

I agree and needed to hear the first point!

Pick your friends, dont let them pick you, if you dont want your enemys to know, dont tell your friends

I don't participate in other people's gossip or their relationship woes as it's none of my concern and that I look at them when they're forcing the issue and simply state " if you can't leave drama at the door, then please don't speak to me or leave" and this usually accomplishes exactly what I want ...their exit out of my life and that nipping it in the bud has always saved me a lot of grief

Yes, am looking forward to change.❤

In the process of change for my final stage of life. I want to transition into heaven at the highest level possible in this world. Its definitely not worldly standards

I am always avoiding media walls that publish negative content and am exposing myself all the time to growth driven material like your book i am listening to right now

@alierem4266

2 ай бұрын

Media in majority, of any kind ride on profits. Money directs its' plans in orogramming with profit margin in focus. Afterall, how much of which news will effect an individual's daily life? News saturation is such that they are climbing on top of each other, now even individuals are collecting news singularly and get so many 'hits'.

GRATEFUL everything is CHANGE

Awesome,silence silence is a builder.

I am most definitely looking for a change

Thank you Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you for this message..

SO LET BE. I AM SO GRATEFUL FOR THESE LESSONS. 🎉

I am learning and the more I learn the more I grow thank you.

Tqvm. Indeed great video. Just subscribed & shared.

THANK YOU FOR THESE WORDS OF TRUTH & WISDOM💯💜💙🩷

Silence is one of the greatest tools we have control of.

Solid Gold! Bravo 👏🏼

I accept the lesson and accept he change required. In me ❤😊❤

Silence relieved pains.

Omg this was an eye opener for me and realized how I need to make changes in my life!

Yes,avoid gossips,specially story without evidences.

Surrendering everything to God(Yeshua) and applying His principles to my daily life has been my go to way. He has never failed me

"Cultivate Gratitude" that is a good one

Thank you Stoic

Great video. A honest reminder of how to enjoy my journey!

Thank you for sharing this lifetime wisdoms which we can truly apply in our daily lives..

I'm in need of positive change. And change is growing

Gratitude is all that I have!

Thank you for the powerful clip ...it's like I needed to hear

I love all these powerful suggestions of self discovery and living better!!

@StoicKing101

2 ай бұрын

Your enthusiasm for self-discovery and improvement is truly infectious, @octaviasmith3068 It's wonderful to see such positivity towards growth and living better Which of these powerful suggestions resonated with you the most, and how do you plan to incorporate them into your journey toward a better self?

@carolmyers952

2 ай бұрын

Excellent advice

Som zo Slovenska, anglický rozumiem, no nehovorím v nej bez chýb. Kto bude chcieť vedieť, čo vyjadrujem, zadá možnosť preložiť do jazyka . . . Celým srdcom ďakujem. Život = dlhá cesta poznania a učenia sa. 🌞🙂🔥❤️

GOOD ONE KERP CALM

Thank you so much, how I wish I encountered this wisdom earlier, however it is not too late to learn🙏🙏

THE LAW OF DETACHMENT .... SALUTE 🫡

I really need to change for betterment of my self. Thanks for wisdom 🙏

Some times it’s hard to do because keeping things to yourself it causes heart problems.

Just relax.. Enjoy.. Blessing s.. 💞

Praise GOD the Lord's will...

Making changes Ty Jesus

I absolutely love this channel. I learn so much. Thank you ❤

Enjoying this! Very helpful lessons in life. Thank you!

Thank you very much friend. What you have released contains many pieces of wisdom that strongly help everyone. I am captivated by those and would like to incorporate them into my life from now on