106 Year Old Woman interview-Nancy
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Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Nancy, a 106 year old woman who grew up in Chicago.
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Nancy is my Godmother and my mother's Aunt. She is an absolute treasure to everyone in our family. She is the breath in the lungs of our family. She is the light in every room she walks into. I have been watching Mark for a very long time and once I saw that he had begun to interview everyday people with remarkable stories vs. just those on skid row, I knew I had to connect Mark with my Godmother. My intent was to have her testimony documented for our family to cherish long after she is gone, and for her story to reach a large audience so she could possibly have a positive impact on anyone else's life. I have read every single comment so far to this video and I am blown away by the outpouring of love from this community who found as much value in her as we do. Thank you all for your kind words and thank you Mark for taking the time to go see her and for creating this valuable memento for us to cherish. UPDATE 5/13: I spoke to her for close to 3 hours today and it was the highlight of my day. She shared many more stories and answered many more questions, best of all I got to read her MANY comments that were left for her here and she was overwhelmed with gratitude, she couldn't believe all the kind words. She didn't understand in the beginning why anyone would want to hear about her life but after listening to the comments and me explaining how different parts of her life resonated with so many other people's lives she understands and is honored she had the opportunity to share. ❤️
@carrierae1065
17 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing her ❤
@SoftWhiteUnderbelly
17 күн бұрын
Thank you Ashley and Carmaine for sharing Nancy with us.
@Tinker_LV426
17 күн бұрын
I would love to hear more of her stories. I hope she can come back on the show. I would also love to see pictures of her when she was young.
@penelopecreighton-ward1856
17 күн бұрын
She’s extraordinary. Her big beating heart shines through. Her life of hardship and challenge sounded excruciating, and exhausting. I personally love how direct she is. She obviously had to fight her way through life until she met Carmie. She speaks of remaining positive yet her life would sink most people. Would love to know where she finds resilience. Obviously living for her family is a big part of that, but even before she met Carmie and having the one daughter she was a fighter.
@ireneguarascio4693
17 күн бұрын
She is a treasure! What a fabulous testimony to cherish!
✍🏻 go dancing ✍🏻 Be honest, your word is your bond ✍🏻 Pick the right man ✍🏻 Don't be too generous ✍🏻 Save half of what you make ✍🏻Fight fight fight Thanks Nancy 🤗
@joesailor938
17 күн бұрын
Easy peazy huh
@MizzShanny315
17 күн бұрын
Words from a wise woman who's lived a full life and then some. ❤
@jercasgav
17 күн бұрын
Her list is great! And I LOVE that she added dancing, that is a unique one!
@deigamohamed707
17 күн бұрын
❤️👏🏾👏🏾
@aysiarogina5741
17 күн бұрын
I'm 21 and haven't danced with someone since 6th grade. Was drinkin with my sister last night and one of our country songs came on. I reached for her hand and she was super confused, she grabbed it and we started swing dancin. It was all just ingrained muscle memory from 6th grade😂but it was so fun, we were both laughin and hollerin. Really is so refreshing for the soul
mark, please consider doing a whole series on those 100+. They are treasures that need saving, and sharing.
@liquidgold40oz
3 күн бұрын
👍🏼
@cch9680
2 күн бұрын
A great idea, especially as we are coming upnto the 80th Anniversary of D Day. A big thing in the UK, where anyone who survived that day would be in their late 90s! There are a handful in the UK, maybe even more in the US? Would be great to hear from them! ❤
@guitardoug12
Күн бұрын
I totally agree with you. I am much more interested in those who have lived full lives. So much wisdom to share.
@motomom99
Күн бұрын
yes I 💯 agree, we can learn so much from them. Nancy is definitely a diamond in the rough & proves, that even with so much brutal pain and heartache through life, we can survive & live a long life.
@herbgreen3599
18 сағат бұрын
Keep dancing Nancy
It's heart wrenching that things that happened to her almost a century ago still make her cry. Bless this woman, what a treasure.
My father is 103 and still lives on his own. Bless her. I would love it if you interviewed him. WWII Vet. 94th infantry.
@gaspaq9672
17 күн бұрын
What the heck what’s the trick ?
@thematriarchy2075
17 күн бұрын
Please, sent Mark a short video to introduce him, and Mark might interview him! Info is in the "about" section in the description box
@erikmclennan3934
17 күн бұрын
That would be cool!
@liljoe5139
17 күн бұрын
It would be great for the younger generation. If they pay attention they might learn something
@cbf1995
17 күн бұрын
Interview this man Mark!
Mark, I echo the petition of many commenters here, please interview more elderly treasures like Nancy. They are a vital and needed link to the past. In this fast-paced, technological, make your own facts and history world, the younger generation is losing ties to the past. Everything is here and now with no connection to what came before. We've become amnesiacs with no recollection or notion that there was life before. Listening to the testimony of people like Nancy, who lived true adversity and overcame; who remembers decades of history, who has lived and experienced so much, is valuable education.
@sueziq2649
17 күн бұрын
This should be pinned! 🙏🏼
@janedoe1146
17 күн бұрын
Agree 100%, so many immigrant stories Americans don't know...maybe they'll be more humble knowing how they got here.
@angelawheelock8900
17 күн бұрын
Mark, this is a new calling. If our young people need anything they need to understand what it means to be American. Our history, our way of life. Thank you!!!
@CeeCeeG
16 күн бұрын
They have a lot of wisdom to share. We need this in the world. 🩵🌸
@TheUrantia001
16 күн бұрын
no different from when you are born memory wiped....the past is either a lie....or one persons perspective...we are a species with amnesia by "design"., as you are in a human farm....not a planet..and when you need to quell any rebellion memory wiping works charm..rather than rely on he says ,she says bs, try critical thinking..
I will never complain about my life again. I'm so glad Mark did this interview. Younger people say that life was easier back when. This proves it wasn't a cake walk for people like Nancy. Thank goodness for her light and love.
This woman is 106 years old. Looking at some of these comments, some of you need to respect your elders. THIS IS HER STORY! We are blessed to hear it! ❤
99.9% of us will never make it to her age and she for a 106 still beautiful.
@insane__professional
17 күн бұрын
That's what people say, right?
@jesseray6340
17 күн бұрын
@@insane__professional what else are you going to say?
@BenWinder108
17 күн бұрын
@@jesseray6340it’s possibly her last year. She’s like rose on titanic the old version
@dhodges1911
17 күн бұрын
She's beautiful regardless of her age 🤷🏽♂️
@markoembarko9045
17 күн бұрын
I take care of a 94 year old man who always tells me he hopes that I live to his age, but the reality is I probably won't. It's sweet though. Like Nancy, his parents immigrated from Italy too.
I am in nursing at a hospital in Sun City, Arizona. Our patient demographic is 50’s-90’s. THIS LADY IS PHYSICALLY AND MENTALLY PHENOMENAL
@SummerRaeFL
16 күн бұрын
⭐️❤️💕 My grandma is 103 & great aunt 101 with fantastic life stories; extreme wealth vs poverty. They’re still close friends & mentally coherent too. Please interview both together, Mark.🙏😊
@goldengnome1951
16 күн бұрын
seriously! Sharp as a tack. HOW ON EARTH! I can barely remember last week.
@Kate-it7cn
16 күн бұрын
My Dad who grew up around the time of the depression tells a similar story. English and French. They had 9 children and his father worked in a mill. Spent the paycheck at bars. Somehow ALL of his sibs and he did very well for themselves! Maybe poverty and hardship is a huge impetus to do better because it’s THAT painful.
@whoswhowho4872
16 күн бұрын
@JoyNoelle......I agree.
@coryclark8986
15 күн бұрын
100 percent
Ms. Nancy is the perfect example of the fountain of youth...can you imagine what she has endured in her 106 years. Ms. Nancy has a phenomenal story. 😮😔Thank you Mark for her interview. ❤
@ThePolypam
8 күн бұрын
She told us yes, no need to imagine.
Thank you for this. We really need to give our seniors more credit.
The trauma women of her generation took in silence is devastating. Thank you for posting her story. She’s amazing!
@thematriarchy2075
17 күн бұрын
And many women in this world are still forced to take.
@FloydofOz
15 күн бұрын
It was all around then. The men went to Europe or the pacific. Her dad sounds like a total scumbag.
@Evolution_10_X
15 күн бұрын
What forced trauma? Its called life! You zoomers think every little bad moment in life is "trauma" i guarantee this woman would never describe her life as what you just said. Also men since the beginning of time had to fight in wars, do all the hard labor jobs, has to provide, protect, and feed your family. The fact you contribute this lone woman's story to all women's stories of back then is pretty sick.
@thematriarchy2075
15 күн бұрын
@@Evolution_10_X Typical, to make this about men and a competition.
@ma1102
15 күн бұрын
@@Evolution_10_Xi mean… i think we all know women had to adapt to what rights they had throughout history. i’m the first generation woman in my family who’s got options which is wild cause it’s 2024. i don’t have to marry, have children, i can work or travel or do jack shit nothing! i’d starve if i chose that, but hey. that’s a super recent development for women unfortunately. and many are still controlled even in the states whether that’s financially or otherwise.
When she started crying about her mother I just wanted to hug her I felt her pain 🫂
@terrytownsend5583
17 күн бұрын
Eyeroll
@ggnini8907
17 күн бұрын
@@terrytownsend5583 Jackass have some compassion for her she’s been through it you damn troll
@jennifercallens9872
17 күн бұрын
So powerful, especially with women’s access to healthcare being limited in the US.
@danyi6119
17 күн бұрын
@@jennifercallens9872th
@zudemaster
17 күн бұрын
@@jennifercallens9872 Don't try to compare that nonsense with what people went through back then 😒. It is nowhere near the same.
Do y'all realize her mom died 90 years ago, she still weeps for her, to the point where she doesn’t like to talk about it??!! That's true Love of her mother!! I'm not so convinced that time heals all wounds anymore.
@MoonBeamLight
22 сағат бұрын
Anyone who thinks time heals the wounds of loss and grief has never truly lost anyone they truly love. Time absolutely never heals the pain and wounds of loss.
@lightisgood5023
12 сағат бұрын
@@MoonBeamLightYou are right, it just seems to become more tolerable. How I wish I could talk to those that have passed away.
Thank you for sharing the hard parts about your mom. Sounds like so many overlooked her during life. The way you spoke about her brought her so much dignity. And now, millions are witnessing her pain (and yours), and I have nothing but respect for you both.
Man, she's seen some shit in her life, honestly shes still so well spoken for her age. This generation has so much to pass down.
@TheScotian82
17 күн бұрын
"Has" so much to pass down? *Had. Good sir, they are referred to as "The Silent Generation" for a reason. Exactly because of the fact they DIDNT speak up, they(largely) allowed their children and their society to fall in to complete degeneracy. Meanwhile, society supported and paid for nearly the entire second half of their lives. While they sat silent. No offense to this lady personally, but I think they collectively handed us over to hell. Nevermind having "so much to pass down"
@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
17 күн бұрын
People used to care about how they communicated.
@Elena-rt9yu
17 күн бұрын
She is very cognitively intact, she also looks pretty strong for her age, bless your heart!
@genem3785
17 күн бұрын
She was an infant when the Armistice was signed that ended World War One, just to think about how different things are now and what she has lived through is unreal.
@alwaysbetruetoyou
17 күн бұрын
What is her age suppose to sound like?
I like listening to Old People talk. So much knowledge is passed on.
@insane__professional
17 күн бұрын
True that ❤
@leneo1731
17 күн бұрын
Me, too! I so wish I had grandparents. Or someone elderly who just wanted to sit down and talk about their life.
@nikkihayes9236
17 күн бұрын
YESSSS, me too!💯🥰💖
@nikkihayes9236
17 күн бұрын
@leneo1731 I understand. I lost my Grandparents in '93 and '94.❤
@jennifercallens9872
17 күн бұрын
I agree
This reminded me to go hang out with my grandma cause I can listen to her talk about her life for hours. We need to cherish our elderly more 😢
@tinabennett1985
7 күн бұрын
Yes we do because they are our history ❤
My grandmother was born in 1916. She made it to 97 years old which I’m thankful for.
@traceyleeherrera5247
3 күн бұрын
my grandmother was also born in 1916, unfortunately we lost her long ago 💔 but I am so happy for you that you got to share your life with your grandmother & probably have many cherished memories ❤️
@kristi1786
42 минут бұрын
My great-grandmother was born in 1907 she passed away at 96 in 2003. I was 16 then I was very blessed to have had her in my life she was the best.😊
As the 54 year old grandson of a 99 year old Italian American grandmother, I can attest to the fact that these people don’t die. They just get smaller and smaller until they vanish.
@nancalvert2468
17 күн бұрын
LOL - It is so true!!
@wildflower7321
15 күн бұрын
😅
@cocolee9528
14 күн бұрын
So true! My Italian grandma is about to turn 100 in February! She sounds just like Nancy.
@Dhruv_Dogra
8 күн бұрын
😊
@user-zf8bb4sv7i
4 күн бұрын
I love your comment! From now on that’s the way I’m thinking of it ❤️
The Greatest Generation right here, folks. This is what "tough as nails" looks like. What a beautiful lady! Bless her. ❤
@kalevala29
7 күн бұрын
Yes, but a lot of men were very abusive and extremely misogynistic. My grandmother used to hide my mother and her brothers when he came home really drunk. And he would belittle my grandmother a lot, even if he was just trying to be funny, making fun of what she had made for dinner. He knew that it hurt her feelings. She put up with it because almost all the other women of her generation did the same. But I will say I adored him when I was growing up.
@susaneloranta6929
5 күн бұрын
Absolutely 👍 best generation.
my great grandmother was born in 1930, turning 94 this june. she has a great memory and loves to share her life stories to anyone who will listen, and i would love for her to have an opportunity to be interviewed!
My mother is 95 and originally Japanese (now U.S.citizen) - survived the bombing of Tokyo and helped build airplanes while a teenager/student for the other side. My dad was stationed in MacArthur’s HQ during the occupation and they met 10 years later and witnessed the rapid change in Japan after the war.
My grandmother is 104 and still has all of her cognitive functioning. She is truly incredible. These interviews with our elders are so necessary. A beautiful and impressive woman.
@thematriarchy2075
13 күн бұрын
Mark would love to interview her, i am sure. Is she in the US? Check the description box for info on how to be considerd for an interview. ❤
@myrtlekitty
10 күн бұрын
Even if Mark can’t get to her, maybe someone local to her can do so.
@katdujka4760
9 күн бұрын
I agree. I miss listening to my grandma.
Mark this is refreshing. Interviewing drug addicts, alcoholics, pimps and prostitutes is played out.
@user-rk4jx4zc5d
17 күн бұрын
I totally agree. My Mother-in-law always said, "If you can't say something good, don't say anything." Of course, she lived in a bubble, not going outside her environment. As for me, on the outside it looks like I've had it good, but I've suffered badly. However, God gave mental illness. So be it.
@adamgroszkiewicz814
17 күн бұрын
For better or worse, the exposure those videos get is what built the audience for Mark to get stuff like this and The Whitaker's to a wider audience. And frankly there are incredible people in some of those interviews....thinking of Jungle Boy specifically.
@NC.Chris.
17 күн бұрын
Patrick part 1 and 2. There’s been a lot of gems in those.
@Ida_Clare
17 күн бұрын
Everyone has a story. We can learn from their stories ❤
@KelseeDrizzy
17 күн бұрын
i mean those videos usually get the most views
What a beautiful Woman; my heart bled for her at times, but when she talked about her second husband and dancing, she lit up. Please, I'd love to hear more from wise, elders. Nancy, I'll never forget you, you're a doll. 🥰
Holy cow.. I can't believe you're interviewing a person who was born 4yrs after world War 1... let that sink in. Insane. What a gem..
OK moms who started bawling when she was so genuinely thankful for being able to breastfeed her baby for 18 months this woman is a warrior
@user-tv6es5fp4e
17 күн бұрын
You don't breastfeed a kid for 18 months, that's way too old to be sucking a tit. Kids can drink from a cup at 1 year old
@getin3949
17 күн бұрын
She complains way too much. My mom went through the same era and never brings up anything bad but has told us kids about it when we ask. This woman can't find a single thing to be thankful for, I find it difficult to keep listening to her complain and complain. Yes, her life was hard, so were literally millions of others going through the same thing in this timeframe. Jeez, enough already.
@generallyspeaking850
17 күн бұрын
@@getin3949when she said her regret was being too good to people my mouth fell open. You can’t take it with you and giving from your heart with no regrets is better than being resentful that you gave or helped at all. She should be thankful that she could help whether she wanted to or not. Not just monetarily either. Giving of yourself is priceless. And to have a child late in life so you wouldn’t be 106 and all alone… surely that’s not why she had a child in her mid thirties? I’ve never had kids and I’m going to be all alone. I’ve never wanted to have someone be responsible for me that’s what nursing homes are for. Good nursing homes. I like being alone and with my dogs. I dang sure don’t want nor hope to live to be a hundred. But that’s just me.
@rudyiraheta80
17 күн бұрын
@joannabreaks435 type 43 months
@joannabreaks435
17 күн бұрын
@@rudyiraheta80 you're my hero too ❤️
She has such a good memory at 106. I’m 62 and can’t remember what I did this year. Wow! Blessed
@joycehester9106
13 күн бұрын
@@TessE777 thanks. I hope I remember what you said and claim this too!
@abrupt_oliver
12 күн бұрын
Make effort to improve your memory, it's hard work but possible.
@joycehester9106
12 күн бұрын
@@abrupt_oliver any ideas
@joycehester9106
12 күн бұрын
@@abrupt_oliver my dad is 92yrs old. Memory sharp as a tack. He brings up memories from my past that I couldn’t remember😒
@kyleallen1858
11 күн бұрын
Fuck she could be our president since our current one has dementia
I love that you got her a chair with a back. I'd never sit on a stool and talk for more than 5 minutes
I’m the oldest of 7, moved out at 18 from an abusive step father, living alone with my baby boy and I just sent a package over to my brother in Australia so he wouldn’t be lonesome on his bday. This hit home. ❤
@patriciapitt4228
8 күн бұрын
I'm in Nth Qld Aus. I'm sure your Brother would find a good friend to say hello to! Certainly hope So 🎉Chow ***
These elderly people are teaching us so much…please Mark! More of these wise people!!
@Cletus1987
15 күн бұрын
Yes!
@empressbabylovee4285
14 күн бұрын
Yes!
@cyndicombs1419
14 күн бұрын
Yes! We need to hear them.
@lmkk9118
14 күн бұрын
Yes! The Greatest Generation is almost gone and their life stories need to be captured!
@survivorship4290
14 күн бұрын
Yes, Please!!
Her birthday is April 10, 1918 😍 wow Nancy, you are a true gem!
@jennieguardian7094
17 күн бұрын
ARIES QUEEN
@insane__professional
17 күн бұрын
Always starsigns being thrown around.
@pleasantsville
17 күн бұрын
@@insane__professionalwho cares?
@insane__professional
17 күн бұрын
@@pleasantsville exactly
@devontolly1596
17 күн бұрын
Oh the things she has seen. Absolutely amazing
There is nothing like hearing the stories of the elderly. It takes you back in time ⏲️❤❤❤❤
@alejastoic
10 сағат бұрын
You mean to those horrible times? Cause everything that happened to her is pretty disturbing.
As a Chicagoan i just love hearing the old Chicago accent in these amazing stories. What an amazing woman❤️
Marc I would welcome a whole series of thoughts and wisdom from our elders.
@keeping_youaccountable1
16 күн бұрын
I second that ☝️ love the old folks ❤❤❤
@dearlylovedbyhim
16 күн бұрын
Yes! I always gravitate towards the elderly when I’m out shopping and I almost always strike up conversations. I have heard some fascinating stories.
@kimdougay6374
16 күн бұрын
🌟🌟🌟
@haleymitchellgodwin8456
14 күн бұрын
My dream job right there! & everyone should write down some of these shared thoughts from our elders!
@Irispia97
12 күн бұрын
Yes please Mark!!! Our elders mean so much to our lives.
Probably my favorite interview I’ve watched so far. Loved miss Nancy ❤️ my grandmother was born in 1912 and could tell some stories that’s for sure. Women had it rough in those days.
Mark, I appreciate your style of interviewing. You let your guests talk and you seldom ask questions. Most interviewers can't do that! Their constant talking and interrupting ruins the interview. Your style is refreshing. Thank you!
Aside from her amazing age, her memory still being intact is awesome!
@brandiva96
17 күн бұрын
Her memory is better than mine and I'm 46!!! She remembers dates that is amazing!
@MCF1943
15 күн бұрын
You are right! She even remembered what she bought for her brother to put in that box! This is amazing!
@lindamatus4429
13 күн бұрын
She probably stays away from doctors😒
It's so sad how even as we age, we are haunted by the cruelties of our lives. We may rise above them, but they are still there hurting somewhere. What a dear woman. Thank you for bringing her in Mark, for this insightful interview.❤
@erinallen6349
17 күн бұрын
What does not kill you only makes you stronger. When the going gets tough the tough get going. No hill for a stepper….💚🇮🇪🦾
@schumannbeing
17 күн бұрын
I know that's part of the life experience but you're right, it's so hard to see. I'm glad at least some of us see it but ever since I was little I've always wished that people would be kinder to one another and help each other more. Life itself isn't hard, it's this fake reality we have been living in for hundreds of years where we have to work ourselves to death to survive because we can't figure out a way to help each other thrive. For every problem we solve and everything we improve we create so many more problems.
@jercasgav
17 күн бұрын
It is totally true! Some wounds never heal fully. Or they do heal, but they leave a scar that aches at times for the rest of your life. Here are two great quotes that I love from two of my favorite books. The first is from "The Lord of the Rings", and the second is from "The Five People You Meet In Heaven" (when the main character first dies). 1- Lord of the Rings: "Alas! there are some wounds that cannot be wholly cured,’ said Gandalf. ‘I fear it may be so with mine,’ said Frodo. ‘There is no real going back. Though I may come to the Shire, it will not seem the same; for I shall not be the same. I am wounded with knife, sting, and tooth, and a long burden. Where shall I find rest?’ 2- The Five People You Meet In Heaven: "He felt no pain from his death. All he felt was lightness and calm, as if every hurt he had ever suffered had been washed away."
@naelyneurkopfen9741
17 күн бұрын
That's a choice.
@generallyspeaking850
17 күн бұрын
@@jercasgav Beautiful comment. Ty for sharing. Loved both quotes. ❤❤
In Florida I use to ask all of my 100+ year old patients what their favorite memories were. And I always got a beautiful answer. One woman told me about how her family member made her a dress for thanksgiving as a little girl, and the pride she felt walking into dinner. Another cried talking about seeing the young men taking the train off to war as she was being held in her father’s arms. Waving at them and seeing her father upset. Any chance you get, ask your older family and friends to share a story. It will be more rewarding than any TikTok you could come across…
I love the older crowd. This woman is certainly a treasure. I hope the world keeps making more of her. I can sit there and listen to her all day. Her voice reminds me of my grandmother.
My granny passed away two weeks ago she was 103. I asked her how she felt at this age. She said she wouldn’t recommend it.
@lynnehuff7059
17 күн бұрын
Cute!
@kathydavenport4422
17 күн бұрын
@@lynnehuff7059 that’s my granny for ya.
@JeffMTX
16 күн бұрын
My dad said many times “getting old is not for the weak”
@justyne8627
16 күн бұрын
@@JeffMTX Mine too!
@TRuru.
16 күн бұрын
My Gma said “getting old wouldn’t be so bad if it didn’t hurt so much.”
This is a testament to the effect of childhood trauma. This sweet lady is still overcome with grief about things that happened to her 90 years ago. She has great strength. There is a lot of truth to the old saying "Men suffer, while women endure". I was glad to read her God-daughters comment about what a treasure she is to their family.
@Pureimagination200
16 күн бұрын
My mother had a horrible childhood in Poland and then the war broke out and she never saw them again and came to America and married my dad who was abusive to her. She still cried for her family her whole life. She missed them so much it physically hurt. Her whole life was awful. I hope she is with her family now in heaven
@vivlagabster
14 күн бұрын
@@Pureimagination200I hope she is too idk if you believe in prayer but I’ll be praying for your mom!!
@Kenlydford
14 күн бұрын
@@vivlagabster unfortunately not a lot of people here do.
@Pureimagination200
8 күн бұрын
@@vivlagabster thank you but she passed away 10 years ago. She’s with her long lost family now
@ronkledonkanusmoncher564
4 күн бұрын
@@Pureimagination200people like your mother may have suffered in life but she has her eternal peace now, and regardless of circumstances she allowed for you to be alive by having you. I hope your own life is filled with less suffering and more happiness than your mother’s was, and you make her proud.
I'm so glad you reached out to Mark so that the world could hear true old time stories, just so people realize what the world is like and how it was, and how it is now.
Maan, such an awesome story. I actually teared up when she started talking about 2nd husband. She's as sharp as a tack! God bless her. My mom never got the good 2nd husband. But she did enjoy her kids.
This one made me cry. I’m a 43 yr old man bawling over this BEAUTIFUL STORY BY THIS BEAUTIFUL AMAZING SOUL.
@SummerRaeFL
16 күн бұрын
⭐️❤️💕 My grandma is 103 & great aunt 101 with fantastic life stories; wealth vs poverty. They’re close friends. Please interview together, Mark.🙏😊
@stephs143
15 күн бұрын
@@SummerRaeFL I pray he gets this interview
@GodFirst701
13 күн бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Love It!🥰
I love this! Please interview more older people like her, she’s full of life and a good story teller, what a memory she has. I love listening to older people they have so much to say all valuable.
@angelhouston3638
17 күн бұрын
For sure I think mark is on to something, the old with wisdom and the much needed help within.
@MaryWeingardt
17 күн бұрын
Yes, agreed! These people are rare Gems! Most really persevered through hard times,live without complaining & not giving up. I would 100% rather listen to our oldest than the people of today. I can't understand the entitlement thinking, angry, violent, drug addicted people of today. I do pray for them and this world now because it is spiritually corrupt. And we all need need community, prayer and blessings❤
@ddittmar64
17 күн бұрын
Totally agree!
@deboramccallum3987
15 күн бұрын
Too bad US doesn't care of the elderly other countries do
Yes more elderly interviews. This is gold. Bless you Nancy. You are easy to love.
This is just the best interview yet. I smiled, laughed, cried.... i just love her.
Born 1918 still going strong 2024 - WONDERFUL❤❤❤
Mark the more she talks, the more I would like to hear. Please have her back.
I’ve watched hundreds of SWU videos - this is my ALL TIME favourite. We should all seek out to capture the stories and wisdom of this generation as they are a generation like non other. I love her advice: words are cheap, but the actions that come from it is what really counts.
People in tears on social media about getting PTSD from being misgendered should watch this video
@dianetersigni7359
14 күн бұрын
👏👏👏
@user-li7lt4xq2t
14 күн бұрын
You never know a person's struggle until you're in their skin and walk in their shoes.
@ny_njtrailrunnert926
13 күн бұрын
@@user-li7lt4xq2t this woman tells a story of not even even having shoes to walk in. That’s her starting point. The things people are crying about today are pretty incredible. It’s a luxury and a privilege to complain about some of the things that you’re hearing today.
@lindamatus4429
13 күн бұрын
@@user-li7lt4xq2t I think you missed the point……
@DVD927
13 күн бұрын
Emotional pain is emotional pain
My Dad passed away 10 yrs ago at 101. Since his passing I have not been around anyone of his generation. Nearly all of them are gone. Her manner of speech, and expressions took me back to feeling like I was around my parents again. Nancy is wonderful, thank you so much for sharing.
@GodFirst701
13 күн бұрын
❤️
@daviebaggins
10 күн бұрын
I have a friend who just turned 101. What a generation! The worlds falling apart as they go.
I love this! I see a lot of people are commenting about their elderly family members. My aunt Stella will be 102 in December. She was the oldest of 8. The daughter of Greek immigrants. I spent some time with her at Christmas. She has absolutely no cognitive issues. And I wish I could have spoken to her for hours because she has so many stories like Nancy that I would love to have chronicled. Her sister, my Aunt Mary will be 100 in July. Only 3 of the 8 have passed. I think these are great stories!
We want to see more centennials! To hear about the old ways, including old remedies, please. Also any conspiracies, or political controversies that we might not be aware of today. Some truth would be nice to hear. I loved this interview so much, Mark. Thank you.
I can't remember what I did last week, she's 70 years older than me, but remembers her childhood. Phenomenal lady 💚
@1Whipperin
17 күн бұрын
It may be fiction. I would love to hear her father's side of the story.
@sunshine3914
17 күн бұрын
@@1WhipperinHer story was par for the course up until mid 1980s. Nothing unusual about it. There were enough witnesses to my grandfather’s & great-uncle’s lives, to know that they were lazy… until it came to trying to impress.
@1Whipperin
17 күн бұрын
@@sunshine3914 Men are no good, lazy bums for most of history.
@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
17 күн бұрын
@@1WhipperinWhat is wrong with you? Are you just an attention- seeking troll?
@1Whipperin
17 күн бұрын
@@aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 Nothing wrong with me. I am slightly skeptical rather than totally gullible. Why do you judge me as an attention seeking troll?
I unexpectedly started crying when she talked about how good her second husband was
@sunshine3914
17 күн бұрын
I’ve known older widows who will speak of how loving & wonderful their deceased husbands were, when, in fact, they had been anything but. IDK if it’s in comparison of former loves or their dads or just wishful thinking of what they had hoped. My former bf came to visit right after lockdown & we stopped in shops we used to frequent in the 80s, all women shop keeps now widowed - all painted these wonderful pictures of men who were known to be very abusive.
@IISocratesII
17 күн бұрын
@@sunshine3914 Well she isn't one of them considering she had no good words to say about her first husband, who is also dead. Not sure why you would imply the possibility that she's lying.
@jenrich111
15 күн бұрын
yes and her gratefulness for 2nd husband never beating her and then learned to dance together so romantic winning the waltz at Arthur Murray's Dance studio
@flashgordon6510
14 күн бұрын
I'm so glad she found a wonderful man!
@vivlagabster
14 күн бұрын
@@sunshine3914well aren’t you a ray of sunshine
So many years have passed since her mother died and she kept her promise to take care of her family. 💜
You've done many wonderful interviews but this is to me among your best. I'm deeply moved and need to ponder over everything Nancy shared with you and us. Bless Carmine for loving her well.
I could listen to her for another 106 years. What an amazing life.
Wow beyond words....she is so sharp. I hope you will do more of these. So much to learn from the elderly.
I don't think I have the words to express how sweet this is to me. How rare and how dear.
What a tremendous treasure Nancy is!! Such a horrific, hard life when she was a child to young adult especially!! A lot of people would have been broken with everything she saw and experienced. For Nancy, it made her very strong, determined, so smart, resilient and very independent. It instilled in her a responsibility raising and caring for her younger siblings, being their mama. Family is very important to her. Even now, she tries to teach her young great- greats how to save money but also to enjoy a portion of what they earn. Love that she still loves to dance and have parties and family coming together! I’m glad her second husband realized what a very special woman she was!!🥰🦋🌹😘❤️💕🇨🇦
My beloved Gimma was born in April 1911 and passed peacefully at home in March 2018, just a few weeks shy of her 107th birthday. I miss her every day. 💞
@user-fc7pr5yc8c
17 күн бұрын
What a wonderful lady ❤
@jewelsbarbie
16 күн бұрын
Wow, what an amazing, long life she lived! I can’t imagine how many beautiful memories you have with her. May she rest in love and peace. 🥺❤️
@ashleycassler7607
16 күн бұрын
My great GMA was born in 1911, im 33, she passed when I was like 12.. it's truly a priceless gift to have my my memories with her and be able to pass on her wisdom to my own kids 😭 🙏🏼❤
@edwinaking715
14 күн бұрын
Aww that’s amazing as well!
My grandmother was born in 1918. We lost her a few years ago. I'm 68 now but granny told us stories of her life. Those memories are so precious to me.Miss Nancy, you have a generous and loving heart. Your life is a testament of your strength and honor. God bless you and your daughter.❤
@tullythebully5539
17 күн бұрын
Let's get your likes to 106!
@therealrobbdee672
17 күн бұрын
Sorry for Your Loss! Keep those stories and memories! Spread them to the younger generation! It's important to know and remember where and who we come from
@bluize567
17 күн бұрын
@@therealrobbdee672 You're so right..the younger ones in our family need to know where they came from. I'm the oldest child of granny's oldest son. Dad is gone, most of his 9 siblings are also. I've been writing things down in a journal; surprisingly many of the younger grandkids didn't know their grandparents. Nieces, nephews, great grands and great-great grands always want to read it and browse through the old family pictures. That makes me so happy to see their excitement 😊
I remember my great-grandmother, who was born in 1920, telling me a story about how she had to go to the welfare office because she could not feed her family (no thanks to her alcoholic and abusive husband, whom she rarely mentioned). It took a lot for her to ask for help, only to be met by a very rude worker who asked, "Well, you have grass in your yard don't you?". My grandma got no help that day.. aside from an already known recipe for grass soup. After this experience, she got a job at a bank in downtown Pittsburgh which she took the bus to and from every single day, without missing even one, for 40 years straight! Such an amazing and strong woman she was.. ❤
Your channel's best interview ever. Can you do part 2 next year? I love this wonderful Italian great grandma
There is zero filter and tons of experience. She is a national treasure.
I wish sometimes in these interviews we could see photographs of their lives with their family etc. I would have loved to have seen her husband and children
@jjkatz
15 күн бұрын
Yes I would have loved seeing a photo of her when she was younger.
Her memory is phenomenal and she absolutely does not look 106 years old. More like 75 maybe. Bless you beautiful!
@sookie4195
14 күн бұрын
I’m 75 and so are my friends. She looks around 85-90. Still better than 106.
We need more of Ms Nancy!! I could sit with her all day every day and listen to her stories. She is truly a remarkable woman!! And such a beautiful person inside and out. Thank you for sharing your life with us, Ms. Nancy ❤
It’s incredible she is still in possession of all her faculties. A great storyteller and full head of beautiful curly hair. Thank you Nancy for sharing your life story with us.
I am 48 and when i was 8 years old i remember talking to my great grand mother who was born in..1896...just thinking about it make me feel like the richest man on earth.
@blueskyeranch6495
17 күн бұрын
You are the richest man in the world ❤️ I got my great grandmother in my life until I was 35. She was only 52 when I was born. Can you believe that??? haha my grandmother was only 36 when I was born. She got to know my granddaughters before she passed 5 years ago (so those were her Great greats. I’m now 55 and have 5 of my own grandchildren. The oldest being 17. They all have their great grandmother (my mother) around who is only 74 now. I think my mom will see her great great grands for sure. We are so blessed. I know people who never met their grandparents.
@5DNRG
16 күн бұрын
My grandmother was born also in 1896...and lived to 104. She was, and still is, amazing and my role model...almost lived in 3 centuries!
@nyc94
16 күн бұрын
@@blueskyeranch6495 God bless you all 🙏
@nyc94
16 күн бұрын
@@5DNRG thats amazing to know we interacted with peoples who lived trough the 19 century !
@tammylewis9324
13 күн бұрын
My grandmother was three when she moved to Kty… in a covered wagon.
Best story I’ve heard yet!
My grandfather would have been 106 this year. Born the same year as this lovely lady, 1918. He past away when he was 101. I got to spend a lot time with him shortly before and hear some of his stories. He was a passionate sailer and carpenter here in Michigan, he even ice-boated at 100 years old. He had a reason to live, so he kept on living! He just couldn't find the purpose anymore when my grandma died and was basically waiting to die he told me. Broke my heart and I can't imagine the amount of heart break he must of felt. There is a lot to learn from centenarians. Thanks Nancy for sharing your story and for sharing this video, Mark.
You can't even listen to a 100+ year old person without hearing about abuse and poverty 😢 Lovely woman. God, bless her. Thank you, Mark❤
@1Whipperin
17 күн бұрын
I would love to hear her father's side of the story.
@booshank2327
17 күн бұрын
Why I always laugh and dismiss people talking about their genetic legacy and the importance of honouring their lineage with kids. Such a naive world view. I always say "do you realise how much rape is in your family tree?", your life isn't the latest iteration of some grand benevolent epic.
@paisleyhunter
17 күн бұрын
@@1WhipperinI lived in Italy for 3 years. That's a true Italian way of life. Good or bad.
@liivikasaarman995
17 күн бұрын
Not every 100+ years old had so hard life. Check out Jeanne Louise Calment, who had documented lifespan of 122 years and 164 days, the world's oldest verified person. Jeanne had good life from childhood till old age. Some of her blood relatives had long lifespan as well. Jeanne married Fernand Nicolas Calment at the age of 21. Fernand was heir to a drapery business and the couple moved into a spacious apartment above the family store. Jeanne had servants and never had to work; she led a leisurely lifestyle within the upper society of Arles, pursuing hobbies such as fencing, cycling, tennis, swimming, rollerskating, playing the piano, and making music with friends. In the summer, the couple would stay at Uriage for mountaineering on the glacier. They also went hunting for rabbits and wild boars in the hills of Provence. Jeanne never mentioned abuse and powerty. Actually, she was quite happy and humourous.
@sunshine3914
17 күн бұрын
@@liivikasaarman995Which is exactly why she outlived everyone.
My dad is 105 yo he born 1918 in October still walking talking laughing, he came back to Peru 10 years ago, so wise man ❤
@jewelsbarbie
16 күн бұрын
Amazing! God bless you and your wonderful dad. ❤🙏
THIS WOMAN IS SO PHENOMENAL, REMINDS ME OF MY GRANDMA. SHE IS SO STRONG AND RESILIENT.
Every time I click on this channel, I think “Wow this is the most fascinating interview Mark Laita has done!” This time though I think it’s a correct call. Absolutely outstanding work!!!
Listening to old people talk is one of the most valuable things you can do with your time. I used to listen to my grandmother's stories endlessly before she passed away this year. She was a wealth of knowledge and listening to her made you realize how easy we have it now! She was not afraid to speak her mind just like Nancy. God bless her. Miss you baba.
Do more of these interviews. This lady is amazing. To live this long with all that stress is just unbelievable. I'm just in awe.
@zippsushi
5 күн бұрын
Agreed
I sought therapy after losing my mother who was 91. Could have lived much longer if she had extra help. Physically could climb mountains but dementia/Alzheimer’s was the issue. This woman is very sharp. Unfortunately I sounded the alarm to family and they said I’m blocking you and deleting messages then 10 days later mom was dead. Alone the youngest of 5 children I said goodbye to my mother who the funeral home provided a borrowed casket and plastic hospital gown plus the decency of a bath to have an hour to say goodbye. My siblings didn’t want the bother of a service. Mom was bathed but dressed in a plastic hospital gown because nothing she owned didn’t smell. I cried at her borrowed casket and sang to her. Mom paid for singing lessons. After an hour was up mom was taken for cremation. I’m the one who wanted her ashes. I was handed a plastic box. Mom went from being in a plastic hospital gown to her ashes in a plastic box. I bought her a proper urn Beautiful and engraved price was no concern and I gave my mom her own memorial service as she requested while alive and once again it was just me and the few friends. I’m traumatized by not just the loss itself but how my siblings didn’t show proper respect. Therapy helps but it won’t take away the trauma that will stay forever. Mom was wonderful a person that would work her hands to the bone to give her kids all she could. I have a memorial bench I paid for in her honor at her favorite other place than home Tappen Beach where we spent every summer. Mom is not forgotten and never will be forgotten by me.💔💔💔
@magamutts5726
8 сағат бұрын
What a beautiful daughter you are Joanne, I'm sure your mom was and is still very proud of you. Dwell on the good memories, leave the rest behind. Many blessings to you and Mom in heaven.
Wow what a queen, lived through soooo many changes. She is more coherent than most politicians.
What a life, what a woman ,cannot believe she is 106. What a horrible life her mother had and also what Nancy had to endure as a child. She should write a book. Wish her lots more healthy time in front of her. Awesome.
My mother is on her way to her 101st birthday in November. I cherish every minute with her. She’s still very lucid and conversational.
@deboramccallum3987
15 күн бұрын
Let her talk..listen..absorb
@kpopcrazy4764
15 күн бұрын
Omg, scorpio gang?
@GodFirst701
13 күн бұрын
🥰❤️
What an amazing woman. ❤ She should have written a book. Her family must be so blessed.
I have been a CNA for 18 years been working in the medical field since I was only 17 years old . I used to get into so much trouble at work because I loved to listen to the stories from the elderly I got told I would spend to much time with just one patient but , I didn’t care I wanted to hear the stories . They were very interesting to me . Nancy is a very smart women what she said struck a nerve in me I have always lived by what she said honesty and words don’t mean anything it’s the action that does . This may sound strange but , whenever I meet someone for the first time I always pay attention to there actions and just sit back and watch and see how they act . But , if they ever tell me a lie I always doubt anything that comes out of there mouth again . And trust well to me that is broken to but , I can forgive you and try and rebuild a relationship with you . But , if you do it a second time then usually by then I am done . But , I have a big heart too and always willing to help someone that’s what gets me hurt everytime though . Much love and blessings from Texas
I’m a 3rd generation 100% Italian. This is my most favorite interview out of them all. This is my family’s similar story. My grandfather was just like her father. I lost my mom 3 years ago, but this lovely woman made me remember all the stories i heard and lived. Thank you so much for sharing your story. I am in tears
@justyne8627
16 күн бұрын
My Nonno died at 90 in the 70's. His mom died delivering her 14th chld. He always said, to kill your wife legally, keep getting her pregnant. He'd cry when he talked about her and her beautiful hair. He only had my mom. Accident, I believe. But they loved her much
I do understand why Mark interviews the homeless, drunks, addicts....He shows us they are human. Someone's child, parent, loved one. So many people dismiss those who are poor or intellectually disabled. This interview was a little bit different. She led a difficult life. She made the best of everything she was handed. Awesome lady. Thank you Mark.
My mom has passed away 6 years ago and my brothers and sisters no longer talk or get together most of all don’t even like each other. I miss my mom so much. I love you mom.
I hope you will do more interviews with Nancy. She is one of the best so far and could teach a thing or two to our current generations. Listening to our elders speak is such a joy and life lesson all in one! Nancy is truly a treasure!
Sobbing when she explained her heart was beating for her daughter. HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY, NANCY 💓
My Gma is 100 on last August 8th. The 11th child of 13. I am compiling all her stories. Dust bowl, the Depression, picking cotton, soda jerk during WW II. The stories of our elders are so mind blowing. I feel so lucky to hear their stories.
@LaTesaDonelson
11 күн бұрын
I am happy to hear you have a heart to collect your family history and treasures while grandma is around.
@beadingbusily
9 күн бұрын
I appreciate that you respect your elders and the past. There's hope for the future.
@TonyaHale316
9 күн бұрын
You should do an interview with her and post it to KZread… and share it with us here under your comment 💕
@hikerx9366
5 күн бұрын
If you ever write a book let me know I will purchase a copy.
@vearthwindfire5802
5 күн бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Nancy has an incredible memory for a person of 106. Being married to an Italian whose parents came from Italy I understand her dying need to keep her family together no matter what. Listening to her say that she is "the glue" and that she knows when she dies,the family will fall apart describes exactly what happened when my Husband's Mother passed away 3 yrs ago. The entire family fragmented and cannot be salvaged. Nancy is a real treasure. May she live to 200!
My grandma was 102 when she passed. She and I had a special bond. I still cry. I hear her voice say “Don’t cry Mel” She would say that every time I had to go home or leaving after being in AZ visiting her. The stories of her younger life and about my Bampa and great grandma who were her parents. She would cook Swedish dishes and pastries. Her Toll house chocolate chip were the best and she and I would bake together via telephone. I miss her so much even as I turn 60 and still attempt to make Swedish coffee bread and her Toll House cookies. 1:15:43 1:15:43
i love the mix of chicago and italian accents that come through when she talks. incredible interview
@herroic
10 күн бұрын
Cheecagoh!
@chetyoubetya8565
10 күн бұрын
She has no Italian accent
The suffering she endure in the beginning but I’m happy she met Carmi who showed her what it’s like to be treated well.
@PS-qn4oz
10 күн бұрын
Don't we all just adore Carmi now? Thank heavens for him.