Please pray for me.... that God would give me wisdom and courage.

@theresefournier3269

2 жыл бұрын

Done! May you be filled with His perfect peace, love and wisdom! Now and forever my sister!

@callonthenameofjesus1459

2 жыл бұрын

May you also be obedient to God so you can have the wisdom due to us all. Amen

@jolenemedina4637

2 жыл бұрын

I will pray 🙏 for your wisdom and courage 💜

@swissb64

2 жыл бұрын

Back when I was leaving the ex narcissist, I asked God to give me a dream so that I would know for sure that I was making the right decision. I had a dream that night. It was extremely clear and it was very painful but it was all I needed because the money also came to get out.

@LorileiSuesHonestReviews

2 жыл бұрын

🙏

You’re right when you say that God is so faithful and he will never leave you nor for sake you

@ShaneenMegji

2 жыл бұрын

Amen. God bless you. 🙏🏽

Death by 1000 cuts is so accurate. But they are more like paper cuts because others don’t notice

This is a first! Great video from a Christian perspective. It's true. God uses all things for our good and His glory for those who are called according to His purposes. I have (for the most part) recovered emotionally, but the consequences of the narc abuse are still with me. I am beginning to experience the spiritual benefits, seeing how God used it as a tool tool to strip things from my life and make me more usable for His kingdom. Praise Jesus! You are a beautiful woman of God, . . .thank you for making these videos. They breathe hope!

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

I'm so glad my videos have been helpful for you, and thanks for sharing you journey. I pray the Lord would bring complete healing, deliverance and freedom from the narc abuse you went through, and bring many blessings your way. 🙏🏽😊🕊

@tvaughan711

2 жыл бұрын

Amen 🙏🏾

Your so right. I am such an activist who doesn’t care what people think of me anymore.

@ShaneenMegji

2 жыл бұрын

Amen! 🙏🏽

Hi Shaneen, I’m going through the aftermath of toxic relationship where a majority of feelings I felt was - confusion, lack of peace, anxiety, and a lot of self-doubt. I didn’t have peace going into the relationship and didn’t until it ended. I am reflecting on the relationship and how fear of abandonment/feeling of loneliness triggered my anxious attachment, and I had a hard time letting go even though it didn’t make logical sense to stay. I’m really glad God broke the cycle of toxicity and some abusive elements of the relationship. He revealed to me the lies I was believing - that I will be alone, and He is healing me, slowly but surely in this season. I am also naturally a very empathetic person, but God is teaching me to build stronger boundaries and trust in Him alone. I appreciate your contents so much. Not a lot of people can speak to this topic with so much biblical wisdom. Thank you for your work ❤

I have been using this quote as long as I can remember and even my 1st narc could recite it from hearing me say it so much. “A gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials.” - Lucius Annaeus Seneca The gem is you. The friction is the narc. After the friction builds high enough, you either break (soul death) or shine (dark night of the soul, breaking away from the narc, healing). That’s all my narc was…friction. And there’s so much more to the story obviously, but I wanted to pass that quote along. Just be careful, as I got scooped up by narc 2 so fast. Better at love bombing…very addictive. But I was also better at laying down boundaries real time too. Life is beautiful, God’s plan is brilliance, using evil against itself and to shine God’s gems before collecting them up.

This is TRUTH! Sometimes people don't understand me when I say, *"Narcissistic abuse was a blessing, it produced gold in my life."* But I could only say that after I forgave and moved on. Life became rich when I was no longer tethered by the anger. In fact that anger was exchanged for pity. And being aware that the narcissist sought to devour my life, I wouldn't engage them again, but I do pity them. To imagine being so broken that you have to run from yourself and God, is sad.

Timely podcast. I was beginning to sink under the weight of doubt and confusion about having left a covert narcissist husband.

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

I’m so glad the video was helpful. 🤗Praise God. And May He fill you with His peace that surpasses all understanding. 🕊🙏🏽

Thank you so much for this. Especially how one can grow and shake off that terrible insecurity that comes with narcissistic abuse. I feel safe with a Christian perspective and not merely a worldly therapist.

Totally! Thank you for telling the truth! I used to be a much worse, selfish person, who didn’t care much about consequences, thought manipulating people and shifting blame is fun and liberating and I’ve done some pretty horrible stuff although I have the psychological make up of an empath. Encountering narcissists cured me of all my bad behaviours, it literally made me allergic to all those traits and brought me much closer to God! Thank you, Heavenly Father for saving me and putting me on the road of righteousness!

@iamthestorm1004

Жыл бұрын

Praise be to God sweet sister for the Holy Spirit to touch your heart and for these narcissistic traits to flee from your being God is so good and may He continue to bless you with the peace that surpasses all understanding!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

@goshi132

Жыл бұрын

@irenageorgieva8011, Thanks for being so honest and bold. God bless your soul.

It's like they stick a straw in you and drain you dry of yourself in an attempt to make you a dependent on them to define who you are.

Everything you said is true!!! Thank you Women of God!!!!! God, has trained me through this process! I filed for my divorce and your videos helped me through this trying time and I have grown so much! I didn't like it but, my testimony is so awesome! I would love to share my experience with you and others! Everything totally is said, is 100% God bless you so very much!!! Thanks for bringing God's purpose in this!!! It will be over this December 2021 in California.

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

Wow I’m so glad my videos have been helpful. 🤗. Praise God! May He guide you and fill you with his peace in this trying season. ❤️🕊

@LittleTaiChiMermaid

3 жыл бұрын

It should be over for me in November 2021. God bless you sister as we wade through a divorce and court system.

@TeresaGarcia-qt3oz

2 жыл бұрын

God bless you and hope your future is bright.. my divorce is over June 2022

I was afraid of being alone, even though I had been on my own paying bills, before I met him. I was also trauma bonded and thought I was in love. Almost one year after he finally discarded me (after 27 years of marriage), I found I’m just fine on my own, and I’m not at all lonely. Further, I have noticed life is so much easier without him. He really did make life difficult, and exploited my energy, time, and love to best serve him and him alone.

I absolutely love you and your channel! I so needed a CHRISTIAN perspective on all this narcissistic abuse stuff! The scripture references you have cited have helped immensely! It is so hard to find counselors that know about narc abuse. I also need advice on proceeding with divorce and no contact. Life is MISERABLE with narc!! You have a faithful subscriber here! Prayers for your continued success!!

@ShaneenMegji

2 жыл бұрын

Aw…thank you. I’m so glad the video helped. ❤️

27 years. It changed who i was. Very insecure. I see now how insidious he is. I went through all of it. I separated my life from his now. He was telling my own family and his that I was the liar. They believed him.

Shaneen, you made me cry bc everything you said is true. Singing my life with your words! I encourage everyone to trust God either for the first time or by drawing closer to the God they know will not hurt them. Be strong in the Lord! Much love Shaneen!

1. Forces you to hate the traits of a narcissist . 2. Growing in Compassion (9:02) . forces you to have a deeper understanding toward people. 3. Eradicate the sin of idolatry. Psalm 61:1. You can make the narcissist like a God, don’t put all of your trust in man.( 10:03 ) causes you to clean your relationship 4. Can transform a shy man pleasing empathetic person to someone who is vocal & a activist . They want to deliver others & help them in the same position. ( 11:26 ) 5. Faces you to force your worse fears ever. (12:18 ) 6. (14:56 ) you discover that you actually can access new dimensions of God that you never knew before. Psalm 1:1-3 use this opportunity to become lack a tree that goes deeply in Gods word, becoming rooted and barring good fruit. 7. Grows you out of naivety, you learn how to not trust people. (16:13 ) not to make you a cynical or skeptical person. People who accept what people say without testing it or having blind obedience . Prov 14:15. It’s about still keeping your heart open to the right people God has for you while being discerning and removing the wrong people. Be like a mesh screen not a brick door. 8. Can help you with your strengths. You discover that narcissist tries to keep you small and that you are no good , Prov 18:21. (19:43) when you have someone saying defeating words over you it’s like enduring physical abuse even though the abuse may be emotional . The negative words are like curses being spoken over you and the words are like witchcraft or occult . The narcissists words keep you oppressed like in a prison. The narcissist words cause you to be self sabotaging. 9. (22:13 ) Helping you to become a more authentic person. Psalm 51:6 . Narcissists are about lies and deceptions. They are always wearing a mask but when you discover it it challenges you not to wear a mask yourself but to be transparent and authentic. 10. (24:11 ) When you process it well and heal from your wounds God gives you authority from the same area and you can help others struggle with the same thing. - Romans 8:37 , God doesn’t want you to survive it but to thrive from it.

This video has changed my perspective on how I view my relationship with God and the narcissist in my life. My time with the narcissist has felt more like a punishment than an opportunity for growth, your words are very encouraging and I appreciate hearing them. Thank you!

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

Teresa, it's my pleasure. I'm so glad my video was helpful. Many blessings 🙏🏽🌺

@irenageorgieva8011

2 жыл бұрын

I view my interactions with narcs as a fast forward button for my spiritual development. I used to view them as easy targets for exploitation before I got saved, then I saw them as a challenge I can benefit from if I do the right things in Jesus. Now I’m no contact and I have a feeling God is preparing me to rid me of any toxicity in my life and myself for good!

@theresefournier3269

2 жыл бұрын

@@irenageorgieva8011 Wise and lovely intelligence!

Words of death! Like a billion slashes. I used to say physical abuse is easier as others can see and are not blinded by his saccharin sweet charm. This talk was so healing.

Only very recently that I realized I have been married to a narcissist since 2010. Am thankful to God that He has been with me to keep my sanity. Please pray for me as I prepare to leave. We are co-parenting our 4-year old daughter who loves her daddy. May God help me get out of this abusive relationship that I have endured for over a decade.

God really did make me a better person out of it all…… He still is …..

Thank you so much Sister. I am just waiting on God to get me out of my relationship with my narcissistic husband

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

May God guide you and fill you with His peace and wisdom 🙏🏽🕊❤️

Thank you for this video. I've recently discovered something very creepy. When I am sleeping, my husband says very nasty things about me in my sleep and calls me names. Sometimes these words cause me to have nightmares. I am 100% sure that what I am facing is a spiritual battle. When I wake up, I feel exhausted and unworthy. His name calling hurts.

@theresefournier3269

2 жыл бұрын

Ephesians 6: 12?

@lisacurtis8162

2 жыл бұрын

Oh my goodness, is he trying to subliminally implant discouraging thoughts in your mind? That's wired. Im sorry you are going through that, that's crazy. Crazy is one of the words my husband calls me.

@faithhigher622

2 жыл бұрын

Fast and pray for your marriage ❤️

I pray for God to use this nightmare of a marriage to a narcissist for my good! Thank you, thank you, and thank you so much for this video. I needed to hear this. 🙏 Amen!

Wow you brought tears to my eyes. I recently found your you tube channel and I am so glad I did. You are so Inspiring and Loving in the way you speak in your videos. I am healing from a Toxic relationship I was in with a Narcissist for 5yrs. Glory be to God who saved me. I have surrendered my life and heart to him.🙏❤

This blessed and helped me so much! I love how Scripture is all throughout your talks! God bless you!

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

Thank you! I'm so glad it was helpful! 😊 God bless you too 🙏🏽🕊

@theresefournier3269

2 жыл бұрын

That's truly fabulously fantastic and i love it. I heard many. Out of all of them, the multitude of them, she, because of incorporating the Word of G-d, is also my favourite. Praise Abba above! and bless you all! beautiful people!

I’ve stopped relationships, and only have relationship with Lord Jesus, the most anti narcissist ever! We are bridegroom of Him. Praise only Him!

@ShaneenMegji

2 жыл бұрын

Yes, I love that-- Jesus being the most anti narcissist ever! 💯

Hi Shaneen, you have helped me an awful lot in my recovery in living with a narcissist. Thank you so much. God bless you !😊🙏

Thank you so much Shaneen! The spirit of Christ spoke through you to my heart. You are blessed and you do a wonderful work in the Name of Jesus Christ to serve the hurted and restore them in His Name! May He reward you abundantly!

Thank you sister! I needed this! Fear of finding housing and providing for my children is what has been holding me back.

😮‍💨 I've been drug threw the mud for years. Talk bad about. Lied on, cheated on. Everything a narcissist can do to a person I've been threw it. Child support and all. I try my best to Honore God's union. But this woman makes it so hard. The smallest compliment from another woman makes my heart warm. Or as simple as a helping hand. Years ago some man walked up on me out of knw where and told me that the woman in my life is not for me. I didn want to believe him at first but years later I'm starting to believe that was God tryna talk to me 🤔

WOW. SHANEEN YOU DID GOOD WITH THIS ONE very healing

Thank you Shaneen for this perspective. When you come to think of it. If life was always a bed of roses, we would find it a lot harder to grow our character but we do need to make the move to detach ourselves from the Narcissist, once we recognise them. As you say " Toxicity is not my destiny" Many thanks for your help. Oliver

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

You're so welcome. Bless you 🙏🏽

This was ALL so right in regard to my life! I had no idea how blind I had been for decades, “idolizing” my narcissistic husband who had no loyalty for me, and who I was of such so little value to. I thank God for the revelation of my addiction!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

In the book by John O'Donohue ("Benedictus"), there's a part of a blessing regarding past abuse that hugely hit home for me: "You were schooling my heart in compassion". That is so true.

God DID make ways for me when there were no ways. Regarding helping us have more compassion and empathy, I had too much empathy. I was the fixer who, if I could interrupt or short-circuit anyone's suffering, I did. Now I know that suffering is an exquisite tool of God sometimes, and it isn't always to be interrupted by well-meaning people. Pain isn't fatal--neither mine nor anyone else's.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart ❤! You are so right,and you perfectly elaborated how a narcissist operates! The Lord is my my shepard and HE will always take care of me! I am going through that process right now,and your video,especially the biblical point of view is what I needed to hear!I know there's a big "storm" in front of me...even beyond my comprehension, but my Lord is taking care of me and HE will give me strength to survive this storm and tap into the purpose HE chose for me!I am so grateful that the Lord put you on my path right after I prayed for help and answers about what and how to handle my narcissistic abuser!As a Christian and a believer...reborn and saved,this is exactly what the Lord wanted me to hear! God bless you ,and may the Lord ,Jesus Christ, always be with you! Thank you,Sheenan,God sent you to me and all of us who need help and healing! Be blessed, in Jesus mighty name I pray Amen ❤

I love your videos that you back it up with the Holy Bible. I am in a challenging relationship but I have decided to stay as I would like to believe that I am strong & that God will do justice to the toxic people in my life. The relationship affects my self esteem I know but I try to get as much help as I can & from watching videos like yours. Circumstances are such that it's unpractical to leave.

@tracymartin8721

Жыл бұрын

We can’t always leave rest in Christ and know he has a plan

This is a beautiful video. I've learned that I don't need a lot of friends, because I have the one who will never leave me. Thank u for helping so many ppl around the world. You're doing a great work helping the world to heal!!!

And thats exactly it forces me to hate the lack of empathy and all

Although I am on the other side now, it's so refreshing to hear. It's a reminder of what God has gotten me through. And now relay to others that they are not alone. I just love the scriptures you use throughout your video. :)

Thank you precious sister in Christ. I found you today and i am so happy because you tell the Bible in your presentation. Be blessed for your wonderful work.

Sort of past realization of this. I've been learning about this the last year. Didnt know much about narcissism in the beginning. I'm slowing researching and changing myself because I feel like I've been taking up these traits from being in this kind of relationship. I want to leave but it is hard and I was just said to my friend this morning maybe God will bless me leaving more than staying in a marriage that is not bringing him glory. At least my husband can't take away my faith that God has made grow.

I am a 25 year veteran of a narcissistic marriage and your videos have given me some perspective but it is very difficult.

I’m left with only Jesus as my friend after narcissist abuse my family is gone.

Yea I have fibromialgia and fully believe it's a result of narcissist abuse. Am really trying to heal.

@ShaneenMegji

Жыл бұрын

I pray for a complete and swift healing in Jesus' name. 🙏🏽💕

Everything you have said is true and I have been experiencing pretty much everything you said. I deal with my narc husband by focusing on trusting God and obeying his commandments. Whatever happens in my future is in God's hands. Thank you so much for a very encouraging and uplifting video! God bless you!!

Shaneen, I really appreciate you. Your a lovely and loving person. I’m grateful for you, your video teachings, and your faith. 💝🙏✨

I treasure your words and am in awe of your wisdom. My heart is heavy and eyes wet… but I’m holding on. I’m so glad you’ve found a calling here on this platform!

In this video you describe in detail the abuse I experienced for years in a religious system that became increasingly toxic. You continue to remove the confusion I struggled with for so long because I just couldn't figure out what was out of order. Thank you Shaneen! It's like you were going through the same experience I was. I am forever grateful and thank God for you!

Glad to hear this issue from Biblical perspective. What I need most is Him

They also are the lesson of continuous forgiveness. My ex and I have 4 children. Our youngest is now 18 and graduated high school. But the last 9 years I have had to co-parent with him which doesn’t happen with narcissist. They try to under-parent you. I have had to learn how to be in a place (and still am in this place since we have 4 children) where I have continually have had to let go of things to God and forgive my ex. That hasn’t always been easy. But it does help me to be forgiving with others because I have so much practice with him.

Very profound. I have so much respect for you and all the suffering that you've gone through. Thanks for being strong, compassionate and courageous!

@ShaneenMegji

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you for your kind words Clifford. God bless you! 🙏🏽😊

@petrastepinac39

Жыл бұрын

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Amen Shaneen. At first, I thought I would never heal, however Father God's plans remains a mystery. I have met the most wonderful softly spoken Christian lady and I am actually feeling uncomfortable with the kindness I am experiencing with her, but I know that Father God is in control and that she's the person He wants me to be with. God Bless you for this channel and for all your followers hang in there. I am a better person after the narc abuse I experienced and much wiser to future narcs wanting to abuse me. Thank you once again Shaneen.

this was excellent!!! Thank you so very much!!!

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

Laura Lee, you're so welcome. 😊

My gosh you are telling my story. Especially the fear of being older and havent worked in years and years. And definitely not rich. It is so scary.especially with the narcissist person has tore my self imagine down

I just want to say God 100% through you right in my vision everything you have talked about in this video is pinpoint accurate. May God bless you in so many ways. God is amazing I love him. Thank you for your videos.❤❤❤

@ShaneenMegji

8 ай бұрын

You are so welcome! God bless you too! 🙏🏽💕

I love every single sentence in your message here. God will heal all of our wounds. He keeps His promises.

my dear shaneen i see how many peoples sell their souls and i understand how much your job will be hard

You are truly amazing.....others have helped but not as completely as you are doing now. Thank you and bless you on your journey.

@ShaneenMegji

2 жыл бұрын

Aw...thank you. 🥰 Bless you too. 🙏🏽💕

Thank you so much for sharing. I just said Amen over and over and over again while I was listening to the video

Thank you shaneen for another eye opening message. There are so many scholars and experts out there on Ypu tube doing pod cast and talks. All very very good. few of them are my favourite I understand they and I can relate all the things they say. Your energy is different because you have religious and spiritual connections when you explain the behaviour of toxic people. And I like that you include god and his teachings incorporated in your teachings. Makes all sense. I put god in middle in everything I do . That way I am going on right path. It’s just that I found it so late that narcissism is in my home in my life and polluting me slowly. But I am out not by my will but it happened. Thank you

Cultivating a deeper root growing relationship with God causes us to see more clearly and separate the two faces of narcissism, and become a narcissist resister. Your words touched me a lot. Blessings 🙌

I so appreciate your videos, providing God's word to navigate this horrific ordeal.

Teaches how to create and maintain boundaries, especially when you are blessed to be out of that relationship!

Thank you so much for these reassuring words. I fall asleep the last couple of weeks listening to Proverbs. But your videos based on God's truth have given me the extra edge of knowing I'm not alone in this process.

Shaneen:....I appreciate the depth of your knowledge so much! we have an associate pastor who is the textbook definition of a full blown Narcissist. drives me crazy crazy and the Senior Pastor seems reluctant to discipline him. very sad, now probably have to leave church and this angry bully. on the bright side, I have learned so much about this personality, so will recognize it easily in the future. thanks again for just telling the whole truth and bouncing it across to Scripture. Blessings! dennis

Ut is happening to me now, it's so weird that I can't even talk to someone about it. Roman 8:28. God is in control. Be still, and HE shall fight for you. ( but please: be still!!)

I absolutely love your channel ! Thank you for giving advice from a Christian and biblical perspective. You have actually given me a great biblical guidance on how to navigate getting through a toxic marriage. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏾❤️

Sick of being abused

I love myself DESPITE my narc husband. I win.

Please consider doing a video on putting on the whole armor of God and contrast it to the armor of darkness which is narcissism. Love this video how you revealed the manifold wisdom of God. Walking through the fire of narcissism is never easy but it forces us to grow up and to mature our faith. So glad I found your channel. God bless!

@ShaneenMegji

2 жыл бұрын

That is a great suggestion! Yes, the fire of narcissism 🔥🔥 does really force us to grow and mature if we allow it. I like how you coined the term "fire of narcissism." Bless you! 🙏🏽🕊

@cleancut39

2 жыл бұрын

@@ShaneenMegji thanks for your kind words.

@CPRforYourFaithMinistries

Жыл бұрын

@@ShaneenMegji I agree with this suggestion! No doubt, that is why my counselor dropped me and so many counselors don't know how to deal with it, and why we are left completely drained, broken, depressed, and even sickly, when it is all over. Your videos on the demonic forces behind it makes it all clear! It is demonic...BUT GOD!!!!! 2 Cor. 10:3-5...This battle cannot be fought with earthly weapons! But your videos hit the nail on the head and drive it home through the healing truth of God's Word. Thanks again for your work! May we all find healing in Christ, and follow your faithful example.

I'm learning so much from these videos. Thanks Shaneen

@ShaneenMegji

3 жыл бұрын

My pleasure! 🤗

#4-yes!

Very true 🙏🏾❤️

I love your spiritual wisdom

Thanks for this 😌

Great video!!

Great advice 🙏🙏🙏💚🙏😘

Very helpful. Thank you❤🙏🏻

What a beautiful video! Thank you!

You're awesome. Thanks for sharing!

Love your perspective! Very positive! Thank you!

great video

So spot on. Thank you Shaneen for the insight

Thank you! This is so insightful and hopeful!

Such a blessing!! I love this!! Thank you!!!

Amen Amen & Amen 😊 Thank you.

Thank you so much I needed this today 💗

Once again, Spot on!! Love your Chanel!! God Bless!!

11 - Just stand there and take it ,or they'll call the cops on you ..

This was so very good and helpful ❤

I love every word in your message. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

Please add the part of a covert narcissist that pretends to this. Sometimes it isn’t the words they speak out loud, as it is the way they silently treat you with out word. Sometime the victims will make a person yell out the same language as a narcissist does just so they the narcissist or covet narcissist can hear them shout out to stop

I feel a 100% understood...

Thank you for the truth on this matter.

Awesome message! I love it.Thank you for doing what you are doing.

Thank you so much Shaneen. 😂

Wonderful and life breathing! Thank you