042: Signs of Spiritual Abuse & Beginning Recovery with Dr. Diane Langberg
This week we’re discussing the dynamics of spiritual abuse,
how to notice the signs of when it’s happening,
how spiritual abuse can be subtle and confusing in the moment,
and why it’s vital that we can’t let these destructive characteristics slip under the rug no matter how much status or charisma a person may have because victims matter too.
Healthy communities are ruled by faith and support with allowance for autonomy versus fear, control and forms of gaslighting.
And we’re clarifying all of this today.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this so I invite you to tune in and let us know your thoughts on social media!
Diane Langberg, Ph.D. is globally recognized for her 47 years of clinical work with trauma victims. She has trained caregivers and church leaders on six continents on how to recognize and respond to trauma and the abuse of power in a healing way. Her most recent book is Redeeming Power: Understanding Authority and Abuse in the Church (Brazos).
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Years ago I suffered spiritual abuse. I learned a lot by that experience. I still attend church, not that church but I now know the difference between abusive, controlling leadership and true Biblical leadership. My heart and my soul is set on God's word and I have confidence that the Holy Spirit will continue to lead me into truth. I recognize those red flags early on now and respond accordingly. I will not tolerate those abusive behaviors any longer.
It takes time to understand and heal from spiritual abuse, this was a game changer moment in this video. Abusive leadership often cause you to leave feeling misunderstood and condemned, and it takes time to renew yourself in relationship with God and ready again to rejoin and find your place in a church. Take your time to find a church where each person's relationship with God is more important than 'church' as an institution. Thank you for a good discussion.
just LOVE DR LANGBERG
I would love to be student of dr Langberg here in Croatia europe, we need it desparetly
Gracias, me sucedió a mí y 2 veces ya no me congrego en ningún lugar , tengo tanto miedo , ya no puedo confiar en personas espirituales, solo estoy trabajando mi relación con Dios poco a poco, pero el tema del abuso espiritual debe ser expuesto por todos los medios posibles, es Real está pasando ! Gracias !
This is very helpful. Thank you!!
Keep up the good work Diane.
This was a great interview. You asked some great questions that revealed a lot. Thanks for this!
Thanks Brittney. You have NO idea how this podcast has brought me healing. My wounds are raw. But this gives me clarity.
Thank you for sharing this interview. Such needed topic to discuss!
@BrittneyMoses
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for tuning in Amy! This is definitely a conversation I want to expound on more. I agree that it’s a much needed topic ❤️
Great message ladies!!! 🥰
So good thanks for discussing about spiritual abuse
Thank you.
Thank you 🙏
@BrittneyMoses
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for tuning in!
My story!
I so love the Lord and want to be part of a church, but am afraid of the wolves I constantly encounter when I go there. I'm not sure how to respond to wolves!?! Leave??? I'm running out of options. There are either false teachers, wolvish people and leaders, or there is alot of heavy shepherding calling us to come UNDER their authority. Church has become a scary place.
@lonefaolan6042
4 күн бұрын
I am afraid to go to church as well.
Could this apply to a Christian choir director as well as a Pastor?
@KJ-lb4tj
Жыл бұрын
Of course
@Maxandshe
4 ай бұрын
To anyone in any kind of authority or power position can abuse and control those beneath, bosses at work, police, spousal abuse.
@AndreaElizabeth100
4 ай бұрын
@@MaxandsheThank you so much for your reply. This actually happened to me in a gospel choir I used to belong to. It still affects me what the young male Christian choir director did not just to me but others too. I'm now thankfully away from that choir and that whole bad environment. I'm now part of a really nice choir. God bless.
My Christian mother took me to a movie when I was 9 that showed me the rapture and my suffering in he'll so I would fall in line and obey her better and that was one of the smaller ones. Accidentally married a narc and didn't escape before I died internally. The church was there to support him. Guess setting leg traps for your wife is acceptable, just lie. I no longer care about helping anyone. If they are chained in a basement, it must be so they can learn a lesson.
Great background music where can I find it?
I can never not be born again, so God has me as His own, but how can I be part of abusive institutions!!!
Most do that. Most pastors do that.
Happened to me. I'll be telling my story to the world.
Have you read the new book, Under Authority, by Kimalee Finelli? It’s about a young girl being raised in an authoritarian Baptist church and the effects it had on her family and finding forgiveness and liberty. You will laugh and cry with them!
@BrittneyMoses
7 ай бұрын
Wow no I haven’t but this sounds like a good read. Thank you for sharing!
U mean Robbie Robbins
This music is distracting
My church made me full of fear and self hatred. Thank God l left but the experience caused me to leave Christianity completely. I now reject the bible and the Christian God totally. It's really sad that these things happen to so many people. Would have been nice to have a belief system to fall back on in times of stress.
@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you had to experience that. You didn't deserve it 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@PqV72MT4
2 жыл бұрын
@@stopstalkingmeitsstressful3644 thank you.
@KJ-lb4tj
Жыл бұрын
No you don't, or you wouldn't be on here. Your mad, your hurt, your searching... And you're asking for a faith.
@mirelapuscas7952
11 ай бұрын
May God bless you and keep you! May His face shine upon you and grant you peace!
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