10 things people in England say when they argue

Fighting language: I will teach you slang and British English phrases that people use when arguing or fighting with each other. Most of the examples in this lesson are the kind of English spoken by working class people that you may hear for example on a television talk show. You may also hear some of these phrases in films that feature Cockney gangster characters. Many of these expressions might not make sense to you if you don't already know the meaning, so it's useful to learn the expressions and their meaning. This video will even be useful to North American English speakers who want to understand British shows and writing better. Now go watch the video... you're doing my head in!
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TRANSCRIPT
Hi, everyone. In this lesson we're going to look at things that people say when they're arguing; expressions that actually don't mean a lot; they just show that we're annoyed with someone - and these are all British English phrases; and specifically, I would say I've heard many Londoners say. So, this is the kind of... When things get heated and you're having a big fight, we might hear these expressions.
Let's start with: "Having a laugh". So, if you're having an argument with someone, you'd say this when you're in a situation, like an employee shows up for work two hours late. Let's say you work in a really busy store; or even better, you work in a pub. And you can't go home until the other person comes, and you don't hear from them; they don't call or anything. You don't know if they're coming or not coming. Then two hours later, in they come and you say: "You're having a laugh!" That means: "Where have you been? Are you joking? I've been waiting here and waiting to go, and now you just come in." And it has one... One cross, there, because depending on how I say it with the tone, that shows how strong it is. With... "A laugh" is like a joke; it's not as strong as these other examples, which mean something similar.
So, in the next example, here: "You're taking the piss! You are taking the piss!" If I say that to you, you've done something really awful. Let's say, for some stupid reason, I let you borrow my car for the weekend. You were going... You were going somewhere with your girlfriend; you're my friend - I let you borrow my car. But you didn't bring the car back nicely - oh, no. When you brought the car back, the tire was flat; it was all dirty - you don't know where they've taken your car to; and worst of all, inside the car there's all these empty condom wrappers and all this empty alcohol in the back. You just... "What have you done? You took my car and you do this to me. You are taking the piss!"
Next we've got: "Taking liberties". So, let me think of an example for this one. This could be, like, you've got a KZread channel and some other teacher comes along and just starts... Just starts copying you, basically. Then: "You are taking liberties! You know you are taking liberties by doing that. You are. You're copying. You're taking liberties."
Next one: "You're doing my head in! Can you just stop? Can...? Can you just stop? Stop talking on and on; you're doing my head in." When someone is "doing your head in", it's too much noise; it's too much speaking; they're going on and on and on; you don't want to listen; you feel stressed. "You're doing my head in!" Just: "I'm feeling emotional now; you're doing my head in."
Next is: "You're out of order! You're out of order!" Someone would say: "You're out of order" when they would... Oh, yeah. You're having a... This is when things get serious, right? Perhaps you're out in a pub. Things are getting really heated, and it looks like a fight's... Maybe a fight's going to start, and someone pushes you. They actually push you or they get in your face, and they're like... They're like this in your face. You then say: "You're out of order! You pushed me. You got in my face. You're out of order!" So, "out of order"... When something's in order, it's tidy and good and nice, and the way it should be. When something's out of order, it's gone way too far; it's way too far.
Okay, so now we can take: "Taking the piss" and "Taking liberties" and put them into nouns. So, we can call people: "piss-takers". "You're a piss-taker. You're an absolute piss-taker." If someone's a piss-taker, they're always taking liberties, pushing a bit, asking for a bit too much, not doing exactly what they say they're going to do; this person, you don't want to deal with them because everything they do is not what they say. […]

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  • @slodkijacus
    @slodkijacus5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jade. This is really useful. I learned English in Canada and, when I came to the UK, everybody was taking the piss ! At first I thought Brits were having some kind of problem with urinating

  • @jchow5966
    @jchow59662 жыл бұрын

    These lessons are very helpful for Americans who are planning to work or have an extended stay in the UK. Thank you!!!

  • @danielpalagyi9307
    @danielpalagyi93075 жыл бұрын

    You forgot to mention the best british insult from Snatch: "Save your breath to cool your porridge." :D

  • @AndresRamirez-bs7kh

    @AndresRamirez-bs7kh

    3 жыл бұрын

    What is “porridge” ? 😅

  • @yeetbagmcgee9376

    @yeetbagmcgee9376

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@AndresRamirez-bs7kh oatmeal

  • @bhagwandas9151

    @bhagwandas9151

    3 жыл бұрын

    What does it mean save your breath to cool your porridge .

  • @yeetbagmcgee9376

    @yeetbagmcgee9376

    3 жыл бұрын

    @@bhagwandas9151 the argument is meaningless so you're better off saving it for something important like making food edible

  • @sbor2020

    @sbor2020

    2 жыл бұрын

    @@bhagwandas9151 Mind your own business! Better to be concerned with your own issues than interfere in mine.

  • @albertopassannante
    @albertopassannante5 жыл бұрын

    Somewhat atypical lesson but extremely useful. Well done.

  • @D.C.1
    @D.C.15 жыл бұрын

    I'm a teacher and I find your lessons very useful. Great job! ❤

  • @ajab2012
    @ajab20125 жыл бұрын

    Great Lesson Jade Thanks

  • @fernandobautista3200
    @fernandobautista32005 жыл бұрын

    You are great! thanks a lot.

  • @omahaguy717
    @omahaguy7175 жыл бұрын

    I love the way you teach .

  • @user-rl2qf4vo1d
    @user-rl2qf4vo1d5 жыл бұрын

    Jade, you always teach us something useful and interesting. Thanks!

  • @khybermomand4061
    @khybermomand40615 жыл бұрын

    You're one of my best teacher! Thank you!

  • @eazel7
    @eazel75 жыл бұрын

    Thank you very much for all these videos!

  • @drnaz2939
    @drnaz29395 жыл бұрын

    Really great lesson and very useful..

  • @ChadRosas
    @ChadRosas5 жыл бұрын

    Oh my Fav Teacher. I just love her lessons!!

  • @tangotang02
    @tangotang025 жыл бұрын

    very good lesson, thanks

  • @daverd6434
    @daverd64345 жыл бұрын

    thank you very much teacher Jade ... you are the best !

  • @yongluo1873
    @yongluo18735 жыл бұрын

    thank you teacher

  • @tonysroomchat4827
    @tonysroomchat48275 жыл бұрын

    Jade, you're such a funny teacher. I love it.. seriously!!

  • @kronprinz5licurgo470
    @kronprinz5licurgo4705 жыл бұрын

    I love you Jade. You're the best teacher ever. Saludos from Perú

  • @HarryTchong
    @HarryTchong5 жыл бұрын

    Great job. Thanks.

  • @tomiit6579
    @tomiit65795 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Jade, really its informative talk

  • @john67ac
    @john67ac4 жыл бұрын

    Jade. You're teaching a lot in a funny way!!! superb...

  • @josetijerino5198
    @josetijerino51985 жыл бұрын

    love your videos!! nice to see you again

  • @walter251L
    @walter251L5 жыл бұрын

    Excelente lección.

  • @marvwatkins7029
    @marvwatkins70292 жыл бұрын

    Mind you, if the viewer doesn't know English, what good is this so-called lesson?

  • @SBakechtyasser
    @SBakechtyasser5 жыл бұрын

    Awesome ... very good lesson

  • @rsynk
    @rsynk5 жыл бұрын

    I love this lesson ))))

  • @scooternutmick
    @scooternutmick5 жыл бұрын

    Really fun video. Well done.

  • @liliemad8982
    @liliemad89825 жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much ♡♡ I like your lessons ♡♡♡

  • @yahyahamoud5226
    @yahyahamoud52265 жыл бұрын

    thanks you so much

  • @mrugeshvaghela5383
    @mrugeshvaghela53835 жыл бұрын

    I can use few of them with my british client.. nice stuff Jade.

  • @Jbmc65
    @Jbmc65 Жыл бұрын

    In Canada we say instead of “You’re doing my head in” we say “You’re giving me a headache” “Now piss off”

  • @D.Z.7
    @D.Z.75 жыл бұрын

    Great as ever

  • @Reckoner1985
    @Reckoner19855 жыл бұрын

    "get over it the done is done" you make my day

  • @dls1970
    @dls19705 жыл бұрын

    Some of these words sound more light fighting language, especially pre-fight depending on the opponent's current mood.

  • @reconnect3342
    @reconnect33425 жыл бұрын

    Thanks

  • @rothnich
    @rothnich5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks Cher

  • @AndriiSitalo
    @AndriiSitalo5 жыл бұрын

    It is a very interesting lesson.

  • @umarawan506
    @umarawan5065 жыл бұрын

    Great Teacher

  • @fblua
    @fblua4 жыл бұрын

    *Tiene los ojos más increíble del mundo! Son azules con un toque de turquesa!*

  • @georgeferguson9587
    @georgeferguson95875 жыл бұрын

    Video is great, Jade!

  • @bibishow8825
    @bibishow88255 жыл бұрын

    Cool cheers 👍

  • @AvantHarde
    @AvantHarde2 жыл бұрын

    there is one more actually: I used to go to the pub in Surrey Quays and there was a fight there every evening, my fav sentence: ‘I’m ready fo’ ya!’ Proper Cockney lot was on it all the time.

  • @magedo7023
    @magedo70235 жыл бұрын

    super great

  • @EvilArtsLV
    @EvilArtsLV5 жыл бұрын

    Hi teacher! Can you make a video of how to correctly use "due" in the sentence? Thank you.

  • @fringnamdio7294
    @fringnamdio72945 жыл бұрын

    You're my favourite teacher.

  • @gustavomiguel4119
    @gustavomiguel41192 жыл бұрын

    Tes ...learning iin very very funny way... Congrats from Argentina!!!!

  • @lyricsuniverse815
    @lyricsuniverse8155 жыл бұрын

    I am really looking forward to use these!! Even if I do not have to. :33

  • @RinoDo
    @RinoDo5 жыл бұрын

    Love your accent.

  • @sudeshnaghatak8602
    @sudeshnaghatak86025 жыл бұрын

    Hey Jade I am from India and I have just started watching your videos..❤ Thumbs up for your efforts

  • @AKIJPN
    @AKIJPN5 жыл бұрын

    deepest lesson I've ever had

  • @marcosaraiva9205
    @marcosaraiva92054 жыл бұрын

    Hi Jade, well 10 words plus 1 the last before the fight begins! There always the one to many that comes out from someone mouth.

  • @aparecidoferreiravais321
    @aparecidoferreiravais3215 жыл бұрын

    Hi Jade how are you doing I love your videos the are very excellent and important to me thanks a lot and have a great weekend my beautiful teacher

  • @sierrafoxtrotgolf1891
    @sierrafoxtrotgolf18915 жыл бұрын

    I love your voice.

  • @magyarbondi
    @magyarbondi5 жыл бұрын

    Great video as always. "At the end of the day..." = when a chav is trying to sound like a PhD. Also, to sound super-chav, finish the same sentence with the super-intelligent tail question, "You know what I mean?"

  • @johnwayne9880
    @johnwayne98805 жыл бұрын

    Best

  • @hernanduarte9904
    @hernanduarte99045 жыл бұрын

    Your accent is so nice Jade

  • @MuhannadGhazal
    @MuhannadGhazal5 жыл бұрын

    that's awesome , i really enjoy your videos , i really laughed at the " believe me , on my mother's life , i didnt put that condoms in your car " haha

  • @tonyrela1493
    @tonyrela14935 жыл бұрын

    Jade, love you 👄 Thanks so much for this very useful lesson 👄

  • @jimanhwang5988
    @jimanhwang59885 жыл бұрын

    Oh my angel..

  • @Ohmingpal
    @Ohmingpal4 жыл бұрын

    You are simply adorable!

  • @Franciscoluche
    @Franciscoluche5 жыл бұрын

    Thanks dear Jade! 🤗🌸 BTW, it's funny because my wife's name is Jade too, 😅 but in Vietnamese 🇻🇳 (Ngọc! 😍👍). Have a nice weekend 😊

  • @alaaaldein7911
    @alaaaldein79115 жыл бұрын

    I like you teacher

  • @jedsaeh5143
    @jedsaeh51435 жыл бұрын

    BRAVO ZULU

  • @BirBey-ik1wj
    @BirBey-ik1wj5 жыл бұрын

    Great , make please , nativ spekind linking words Contractions , pronunciation sentences ,,pleasee

  • @monstersince
    @monstersince5 жыл бұрын

    take your time.

  • @irey1978
    @irey19785 жыл бұрын

    Condom wrappers sounds like a mighty fun time. 😍😍🤗

  • @AJ5
    @AJ55 жыл бұрын

    This is so funny hahahahaha

  • @Rodrigo-bv7uv
    @Rodrigo-bv7uv4 жыл бұрын

    7:35 hey this was so funny Lol

  • @hamzakhalid5006
    @hamzakhalid50065 жыл бұрын

    Great work respect from pakistan

  • @kennedyibezim5662
    @kennedyibezim56625 жыл бұрын

    I always enjoy your teaching pls could i have your emain

  • @orrydevacaciones9337
    @orrydevacaciones93375 жыл бұрын

    Looks like you had bear fun at the beach mate

  • @kevyelyod1211
    @kevyelyod12114 жыл бұрын

    What about, “I’ll be back!”

  • @Aladinsane77
    @Aladinsane774 жыл бұрын

    Condom wrappers and all this empty alcohol in the back😂😂😂😂 That's because she is fabulous and unique✌😎

  • @reptoidcommand1060
    @reptoidcommand10605 жыл бұрын

    Ohhh ...Jaahhyyyd !!! Whooo kerrrs about the sumptuous English language when an adorable tart such as yuuu .. majestically articulates. Why....... you could be explaining the recipe for plain old boiled cabbage and I would be enthralled...you could be scientifically describing glacial flow at a glacial pace and my attention would be undivided. A Julia Child's bit would be a smash hit !! Huhhh......OK.....You are a professional after all ......so I guess I should extend a proper gratitude for the education... shall I say... THANK YOU GODDESS OF PLANET BRITAINNIA !!! MY ENGLISH HAS IMPROVED MARKEDLY !!

  • @necdetcivkin5968
    @necdetcivkin59685 жыл бұрын

    Hello Jada, you have a very good teacher and I wanted to ask you if you teach skype lessons.Necdet

  • @Tabaraka562
    @Tabaraka5625 жыл бұрын

    In my country we say on my mother’s head or on my father’s head. This does not mean one is sincere. Thank you for the lesson...

  • @professional3455
    @professional34555 жыл бұрын

    hey.madam, how are you doing? Thanks for helping us. please, what does mean with due acknowledgement and as far as the future is concerned .please thanks.

  • @thechaozhao
    @thechaozhao5 жыл бұрын

    "out of order" in Australia means machine does not work

  • @mushvigrehimli861
    @mushvigrehimli8615 жыл бұрын

    You are my dream Jade😍😘

  • @MAJEDEN
    @MAJEDEN5 жыл бұрын

    2:43 i thought that the brits loves the teas but she is ignoring it 😼😼

  • @CamcorderSteve
    @CamcorderSteve5 жыл бұрын

    If somebody stopped me going home for two hours, I don't think I would be saying that you're having a laugh!! I would be saying something like 'how dare you turn up at this time I've had it with you and eff off'!!

  • @happyman8938
    @happyman89385 жыл бұрын

    I goddamn adore the british accent

  • @alir7197
    @alir71974 жыл бұрын

    jade your hair stryle is very beautiful

  • @richardcheatham9490
    @richardcheatham94902 жыл бұрын

    Curious here. Do the English corrupt, as many Americans do, the perfecting logical "I could not (couldn't) care less" to "I could care less"? Or is only in America that this verbal laziness takes place?

  • @mariaritalri6655
    @mariaritalri66555 жыл бұрын

    I like you a lot, Jade

  • @iniohos2
    @iniohos25 жыл бұрын

    Jade is so beautiful! I am in love!

  • @TheQuiQuestion

    @TheQuiQuestion

    4 жыл бұрын

    She somehow got seriously hot during the last couple of years. Rare that a woman gets better looking as she gets older.

  • @jfilm7466
    @jfilm74665 жыл бұрын

    Do you do this course in Arabic?

  • @HomeSickAlienJayman
    @HomeSickAlienJayman5 жыл бұрын

    You do a very good Catherine Tate impression and im not pullin ya plonker

  • @redmoon555
    @redmoon5555 жыл бұрын

    Are your eyes real?

  • @Emersongunsrose
    @Emersongunsrose5 жыл бұрын

    This is the British way to insult someone

  • @yunseyoung5224
    @yunseyoung52245 жыл бұрын

    Is there a someone who did that to you? ;")

  • @Yonok2009
    @Yonok20092 жыл бұрын

    Get over it - done and dusted

  • @CoorgExplorer
    @CoorgExplorer5 жыл бұрын

    🕸🕸🕸🕸🕸

  • @burakaysezer3110
    @burakaysezer31102 жыл бұрын

    4:13 you mustn't spell the " r " sound if it is at the end of a word!!!! Order ❎ Orda ✅

  • @ex-kommunist
    @ex-kommunist4 жыл бұрын

    I hope people around you are just nice, so you don't need that words

  • @Reckoner1985
    @Reckoner19855 жыл бұрын

    Sorry I translate thinking in my native lenguage

  • @user-ko4wk6vp2z
    @user-ko4wk6vp2z5 жыл бұрын

    The British accent harder for understanding than American. Maybe it seems to me .

  • @TheGoalieMonkey
    @TheGoalieMonkey2 жыл бұрын

    Feel like there’s a story behind the condoms in the car.

  • @asparadog
    @asparadog5 жыл бұрын

    You're missing three words starting with F, S and C...

  • @josvn8275
    @josvn82755 жыл бұрын

    You look so different now.