I feel like 99% of the people who click on this are introverted.

@julianeajala2724

4 жыл бұрын

U find me qwp

@Domfusion

4 жыл бұрын

Dont call me out

@chefswag42

4 жыл бұрын

and i thought i was under the radar for once

@CarrieWalker

4 жыл бұрын

Erik Babonis I’m a very very extroverted person, but I just started dating someone who is quite introverted. This video was so, so eye opening

@CarrieWalker

4 жыл бұрын

Cupid I do my best never to assume anything or do any kind of accusing towards someone. I always try to learn as much as I can in order to treat someone right- in the way that they want to be treated. I think it’s amazing to get to know people for who they truly are, rather than forcing them into someone they’re not. This video provided me with a lot of information in order for me to look at this with a new light and reach a clearer understanding

As an introvert I feel like a different species and this is how other humans learn about us like on the discovery channel 😂

@drunkenchords3370

5 жыл бұрын

I wonder if the Netflix Documentary on Introverts is on it's way :D That's a surefire sign we're alien to the world!

@tabbycat6948

5 жыл бұрын

@@drunkenchords3370 😂😂

@polaroid.cameron

5 жыл бұрын

YESH IM NOT ALONE XD

@starboypluto

5 жыл бұрын

Honestlyyyy i felt this

@liliflwrs

5 жыл бұрын

honestly same!

Have you guys ever had this feeling like all of a sudden you become all moody for no reason and you want your own space and no attention from anyone and so you start shutting people out.. But then when the people around you notice that and when they ask you what's wrong, you become even more irritated and sometimes you wanna say, ' just don't mind me and do your own business! don't bother me, let me be in peace! ' Edited : Awww.... Thank you so much for stopping by even for a moment and replying back. Didn't expect so many likes and feedbacks.Really, it feels so nice and comforting to see all the replies and to know that there are people who actually understands and feel you. Hope you all are doing fine. :)

@metfanmetfan1477

4 жыл бұрын

I visble kid metallica loled

@urestruly

4 жыл бұрын

This is one of the signs that you have a depression.

@janelc1843

3 жыл бұрын

that's me, especially during quarentine when my family wouldn't leave me alone in my bedroom with myself only

@hitokiribattousai7703

3 жыл бұрын

As an introvert, this happens to me whenever I don't get enough ME time, I get very moody and just want everyone to leave me alone.

@rikimaruasuma3121

3 жыл бұрын

Yes me too!

“... because ‘better’ somehow translates to ‘extroversion’, which is pretty dehumanizing.” 👏🏼 👏🏼👏🏼

@mulluckbrot6569

3 жыл бұрын

This whole video feels like it says "introverts are better people and have an excuse to be an asshole."

@aarushikishore1417

2 жыл бұрын

@@mulluckbrot6569 introverts are not assholes so why do they need an excuse? you just see us as one. moreover the video did not once say that introverts are better people but finally is showing what they need

@charles1412

2 жыл бұрын

That and not wanting to feel like a project resonated with me on a deep level.

1. A relationship to begin with

@alexdsilva2478

6 жыл бұрын

Mr. Potatobadger 2. A REAL PERSON NOT FROM A FICTIONAL WORLD

@animeguyreviews

6 жыл бұрын

your right hand saves time and money

@LG-dr6kc

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah...

@crackedemerald4930

6 жыл бұрын

Some (damm lucky) introverts are incredibulously independent of someone else! I have never seen one... But it's humans, there always is one

@animeguyreviews

6 жыл бұрын

not as sad as possibly being arrested because she got drunk had sex with you left you or you broke up 5 years later you won't take her back so she accuses you of rape and because she was drunk she couldn't consent so you're guilty

The main issue with being an introvert in an extroverted world, especially in 2017 is that not only is the expectation for you to be extroverted, but also extroverts don't have the time or patience to get to know you in the first place.. Everything is so fast paced, and if you can't conform or be open immediately, you're cast aside.. Yet extroverts complain that nobody will take the time to understand them, yet they don't take the time to understand us..

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it's not one way for sure. Hopefully, this video will be a 4:43 min way for an extrovert to understand better the needs of introverts. We might make one for extroverts as well. So if you're an extrovert watching this, feel free to send us in your needs!

@judesoria9891

6 жыл бұрын

interesting i never thought of it that way, makes sense

@somepeoplearesooostupid.4933

6 жыл бұрын

I agree.

@key-chan5563

6 жыл бұрын

My main issue with the school right now. Thank you for reflecting my thoughts in this comment.

@user-ki5qo6hm8r

6 жыл бұрын

There's also this issue where people will take the time to know you, they will be understanding and you'll be opened up to them but then they'll just push you aside and hang out with other extroverts leaving you alone again.

1. meaningful conversation 2. less stimulation environments 3. take it slow 4. be understanding 5. provide mental support (play the best friend role) 6. read between the lines 7. Respect their space 8. spend quality time together (it's crucial) 9. Fully accept them (assure them you love them for who they are) 10. don't assume Couldn't agree to it more!! ♥️💯

@vanisharma3216

3 жыл бұрын

@Prlhad Maid yess

@idol7833

Жыл бұрын

This is exactly what I need I just realized that I'm introvert too.

I have an introvert boyfriend and he doesn't wanna talk to me rn, so i decided to watch this kind of educational videos to understand him more. ❤️ It helps alot. Thanks.

@poojashivaani3628

2 жыл бұрын

Please understand him.. Its very hard for us introverts if even our partners dont understand us 🥺

@clarelapitan9540

2 жыл бұрын

Same here!

@clarelapitan9540

2 жыл бұрын

This helps me alot ♥️

@caseyleann7

2 жыл бұрын

I have an introverted husband. Been together for 10 years. I’ve been doing it all wrong. Idk how he has tolerated me this long.

@nikitasabre1216

2 жыл бұрын

Same here :)

Being an introvert I completely agree with these things. We introverts can have unstopable conversation with the person we are comfortable with and the one who don't judges us.

@nefelovamon

5 жыл бұрын

You are totally right! I used to date a very shy and introvert girl and after we both felt comfortable with each other we could talk for hours every time while walking. And there was never any judging either. It felt great to understand and be understood.

@rizzamermal4177

5 жыл бұрын

very true

@balazskungazda3805

5 жыл бұрын

@@nefelovamon It's not my business, but can I ask why did you stop dating?

@nefelovamon

5 жыл бұрын

​@@balazskungazda3805 She had a fear of commitment and not enough feelings, so she wanted to stop. But she came back a few months later. We are a couple now :)

@balazskungazda3805

5 жыл бұрын

@@nefelovamon Thanks for your answer! Glad to hear that! I wish you all the best! :-)

I'm an introvert and humans ask me "Why are you so quiet and why don't you go out in public?" like tf

@quibble

6 жыл бұрын

That actually happened to me today.... *yay*

@penchartier2223

6 жыл бұрын

I bet your cat says stay in

@mikemarks6136

6 жыл бұрын

Grandmaツ literally everyone I know acts like I'm crazy or there's something wrong with me just because im not as social as them or I don't think like an extrovert all my relationships we're like that except one

@Mayuzawa3

6 жыл бұрын

Behold fellow humans, I suspect this post was written by an alien.

@roniqke9814

6 жыл бұрын

Grandmaツ yeah people ask me why i’m so quiet in class sometimes. I just can’t get myself to tell them i’m an introvert or judt a quiet person. Once i told someone and they just had this weird expression on their face.

"Everyone dating or in a relationship with an introvert should see this video." -From an introvert

@dianagyimah3607

4 жыл бұрын

I agree totally, at this point of time my relationship is crushing down cuz my bf doesn't understand me a bit, I wish he could see this video for him to know me well since I can't explain better

@XxOrangesoda2610xX

4 жыл бұрын

@@dianagyimah3607 show him the video

@urestruly

4 жыл бұрын

@@dianagyimah3607 oh geez that's bullshit. He doesn't even know that he's lucky to have a introvert girlfriend.

@dianagyimah3607

4 жыл бұрын

@@urestruly I guess am unlucky when it comes to love

@urestruly

4 жыл бұрын

@@dianagyimah3607 don't say that, sooner or later you will meet the right person, just wait hehe, like me I'm waiting for almost 2 years, and till now i don't have a boyfriend hahaha

My introverted bf never shared what he expected. Which caused many fights. Even guys don't seem to be open about what they want. So, I started playing couple quiz games like "Lovify" with him. Where I can guess what he wants, and if I'm wrong, I now know exactly what he wants from me. It was a fun and easy way for us to get closer ❤

i’m an introvert and this is true

@dominicsanders2608

6 жыл бұрын

Ryan Smith wtf you're everywhere

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

Introverts unite! :)

@nixmd8266

6 жыл бұрын

Dominic Sanders i agree lol

@user-em4lz3zw2m

6 жыл бұрын

Ryan Smith I can SO agree The thing is that I'm SUPER introvert but I do like to tale every now and then

@JustinMakesVideos

6 жыл бұрын

Ryan Smith you're a narcissist

I find there is a shortage of people who can hold a meaningful conversation nowadays.

@openshores4288

6 жыл бұрын

yah, they only like to talk about other person's business especially lovelife...

@sozl5494

5 жыл бұрын

People talk so much about celebrities and their drama, leads to nothing but I guess that's entertaining to them

@slothmilly9012

5 жыл бұрын

Sadly, true.

@votemefordictator4910

5 жыл бұрын

So many people talk about politics meaninglessly, in a way to just push their point forward rather than allow for a reconsidering of their standpoint. It's conversation, but is fruitless.

@brickbuilderx2316

5 жыл бұрын

‍ ‍ that has happened to me plenty of times as well, I understand exactly how you feel. There have been a few girls who apparently had crushes on me, but the one that asked me to prom got a nasty rejection (I said “I’ll inject botulinum toxin before I go out with ANYONE” notice I said “anyone” not “you” is specific). From that I was kinda humiliated in from of the class by her and people were talking about me in other classes. So I don’t like the idea of being in a relationship right now.

Indeed i'm an introvert and my lover is an extrovert. I am thankful he is very caring and understandinh towards me. He would tell me to not listen his friend's tease as I am very overwhelmed by it a lot and told them to be quiet. He is always there for me. Buys me food and easily catches up what i'm feeling or what's happening inside my mind. He is extrovert but he tries to be an introvert when we are together. He's kind of popular in school when it comes to friends .. mine was in academics. Whenever we have a free time, he would always stay close to me and pat my head if I'm alright. He would put up a gentle smile when I look at him. Eveytime when school hours ends, he would carry my bag and get me to the bus station. Even in lunch time, he would carry my bag and knows that he cant stare at me while im eating since i would be embarrassed so he would look away until I finished eating my lunch. By entering again the classroom, he would let me sit beside him while he massages my hands and kisses them from time to time.. kind of like making it his hobby. He would also put his head on my shoulder. To some, he is like a badboy kind of vibe, but inside he's very angelic. He may be a naughty boy but when it is me. He would always consider me as his priority and would always value my words. I never thought I would have such a man! 😊😄 He's every girl's dreams' type however he is mine anyway. 😜😅 To my beloved Dave❤

@kallmekoko6277

3 жыл бұрын

Haha sounds like a Netflix movie

@lenascharnreitner2739

3 жыл бұрын

Sounds really sweet!^^ Don‘t forget to be there for him too :)

@AniGal

3 жыл бұрын

So, how did your extroverted boyfiiee started your conversation back then when you're an introverted? I have a crush and I think she's introverted.Don't know what to do

@ondongkarylle1637

3 жыл бұрын

@@AniGal Well we we're classmates since at the 8th grade, doesn't like him that much at that time cuz he was very naughty.. but then he made efforts on the 10th grade, his friend was also an admirer of mine so he was hesitating..in the end, he surprised me with flowers and done a lot of sincere things.. he would approach me first even tho he was very awkwarded while i silently laughed at him.. i think u should really invest in trust, time and efforts..do small simple things.. not act that grand, just simple.. we tend to like simple but memorable stuffs .. be genuine too, if ur extroverted then be extroverted.. but u have to be gentle when it comes to her, dont be noisy as we get really upset by noise 😁😂.. anyways .. be genuine when u put your hearts out to her.

@AniGal

3 жыл бұрын

@@ondongkarylle1637 Aww, that love story of yours was beautiful and cute at the same time. Looks like I'm limited to do some stuff 'coz you know, we're still in quarantine. Anyways, thank you! I really appreciate it! Stay strong for the both of you!

I *cried* watching this video. I'm an introvert, and now I understood that it's the extroverted world that's not understanding me, and I *was* trying to express myself in all the ways I could.

@raqu7066

2 жыл бұрын

Same with me. The first step for me was to accept that I am introverted

@indiadelon8771

Жыл бұрын

Same it's so hard , this is probably why my relationship didn't work out

@user-mp1wg4ut5x

11 ай бұрын

Everything will be fine.... Just love ur self n don't let ur self feel down..... I am also an introvert u don't always have to try making ppl understand whoever understands let them n those who don't ignore it okieee 🥰❤

I'm an introvert and I mostly realise it, when I'm in a room and people are arriving. The more people are there, the more uncomfortable I get.

@johanna3275

3 жыл бұрын

same i don‘t like going to birthday parties too or having my own.

@aldous3985

3 жыл бұрын

Same here

@hitokiribattousai7703

3 жыл бұрын

Same bro, same

@Thestr8noodle

3 жыл бұрын

Same.

@marcoaryo1043

3 жыл бұрын

(Y) Same

I cried watching this, I’ve never felt so understood

@nonami_066xswqoqowiwl

4 жыл бұрын

ʕ⁎̯͡⁎ʔ༄

@serendipity5838

4 жыл бұрын

Yeessz!!! Compelling

@MsHSpring

4 жыл бұрын

Poor you.. 😕

@Krakyy

4 жыл бұрын

Same

@jcizzlepiano

4 жыл бұрын

RIGHT

Im an Extroverted guy Who's inlove with an Introvert, its all thanks to Psychtogo that i learned how to Understand an Introvert. Now we're together

@ladysophia7469

2 жыл бұрын

Sanaol

dude i'm introverted, and i was like damn this is literally me. i thought about it and realized my girlfriend has been fulfilling all of this... damn she's a good ass girlfriend. it's like she prob watched this video before

@kailynsmith5083

3 жыл бұрын

hello my bf is an introvert, any tips for how i can start a meaningful convo with him? or how i can ask him what he wants, he only wants to do but i want but i want to do what he wants bc we never do what he wants...

People mistake us as loners. We value relationship with people with whom we can have deep meaningful conversation . We want to be with people infront of whom we can open up without being judged. We can be the most talkative people with people we are comfortable with . And the pleasure we get being left alone with our thoughts...wish you extoverts could feel it.

@adrianjx6012

6 жыл бұрын

monsur habib i feel you as a fellow introvert.

@pamelabacker2420

6 жыл бұрын

monsur habib We want to be judged fairly, by being given a fair chance.

@SoMooLand1nine7

5 жыл бұрын

monsur habib PRAISE!

@nel3552

5 жыл бұрын

Relatable

@rosemarryheartundertaledel5581

5 жыл бұрын

Im a Introvert Its hard for me to easily open up to a new place with new people but when I find someone that is kind I can get a little more talkative heheh.......~ I dont understand why Extrotverts think we're Emos T^T

11. Text memes. This method of communication lets them know you're thinking about them and as a bonus does not require lengthy communication from your introvert.

@starzoJ

6 жыл бұрын

Memes do nothing :l plus dear meme liker this is NOWHERE near memes

@Spritebutt

6 жыл бұрын

this is so true HAHAHAHA

@youraveragehunter3905

6 жыл бұрын

dkc YESSSSSS

@Review4YouCom

6 жыл бұрын

Youre sooooo damn right... whenever a girl tags me in really nice quality memes I instantly fall in love with her...

@tariw9741

6 жыл бұрын

Yes i stan

I'm an introvert and so is my husband, I appreciate and love him so much for being patient and understanding ❤

The best thing is when you make friends with another introvert and u can spend time with them without feeling completely exhausted

This video knew what I wanted in a relationship before I did. Edit: Thanks for the likes

@ramram_1904

6 жыл бұрын

Help So true.

@NeyoSteel

6 жыл бұрын

And this is exactly why i broke up with my gf :p

@firefly245

6 жыл бұрын

Same

@orangelo4579

6 жыл бұрын

Help same tho

@jameswilson4992

6 жыл бұрын

Help same

Nah bro, sometimes I am incapable of expressing my thoughts. I don't know how to say what I am trying to say, and then when I do say it I end up saying what I wasn't thinking. I hope this makes some kind of sense

@lukejap11

5 жыл бұрын

I relate spiritually to this man. It always comes out wrong and I end up feeling even more misunderstood after.

@mistphantom3962

5 жыл бұрын

I do the same thing, it can be extremely frustrating because people either think I mean something I don't or I don't make any sense. It's especially hard expressing emotions towards people you care about because it's like you almost panic if you're unsure what to expect

@digimonkaiser2313

4 жыл бұрын

I get that yeah. I want to open up, but u just can't I have so many things I want to say, but I don't have anyone I feel comfortable opening up to.

@amritaborah9169

4 жыл бұрын

I totally understand your situation . Just recently I had been through this same thing . I was talking with my boyfriend and something came up , I didn't know what to say and ended up saying something really stupid and something that I didn't mean to and that resulted in a big fight . My mouth and my mind never gets along , I guess .

@vesan4793

4 жыл бұрын

It does make sense to me.... It's something I end up doing most of the time..... And then I regret it later.....

I wish everyone would watch this. Being an introvert, this is exactly what I want in a relationship.

I'm a little more extraverted than introverted and introverts seem to naturally gravitate towards me. I always could understand them since we share a lot of traits but at the end of the day, this gave me a whole lot more insight in like the relationship aspect (since I work a little differently in that area) Thanks for sharing 💕

I'm an introvert and damn, this is all so true

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

Happy to hear!

@cloudsbelow9285

6 жыл бұрын

Hybrid Person heck yea

Yeah I am Introvert. It is hard for me to get into relationships. In fact, I never even dated a guy before and I am almost 25 years old. Never Dated. Never been in a sexual relationship.I haven't found the right person and It's been pretty hard lately. It gets to the point when I see my older sister who is engaged, my mom who is now with her childhood sweetheart and with pressure , especially from my other family members (Puerto Rican ) I at times feel like giving up. This video does speak true to what I want in a partner and then some but I just feel at times it is impossible.

@renoldojeffrey4653

6 жыл бұрын

HerDark Majesty I would wait until you find the right person and make efforts to start a relation ship. Don't feel forced to do so, though!

@crackedemerald4930

6 жыл бұрын

HerDark Majesty dood, relationships are an awful lot like wine or cheese or a good wall, it takes time to be good, it may take long, but when it comes... It's the best thing ever

@lochlann45

6 жыл бұрын

HerDark Majesty I myself am 20 and have only been in 1 true relationship (which was sexual). She was on the plates of both personality traits, very quiet and loathed in alone time, but was very much so a party animal. Maybe partially because she's 18, and her introverted tendancies maybe linked to her depression. At the end I think she wanted to 'be one' with her extrovert side to move past the hurt of her past and move on with herself in life (hence why she broke up with me). We did alot of solely couple things with not so much going out and stuff like that which may have contributed. I can't change who I am, introvert in and out. But I did found love after 20 years, 1st girlfriend, 1st love etc. The wait is agonising. But if you remain yourself and open up to meeting new people, regardless of personality style, it might help in bettering you and finding that person. Note: I can't get along with pure extroverts, they need some introvert in them. Maybe that's what you desire and need? :)

@classicgamer8713

6 жыл бұрын

You just gotta wait ^^ they will come around eventually, even if it doesn’t seem rather soon

@tigerx36

6 жыл бұрын

HerDark Majesty I feel pretty much tne same. I'm 28 and never had a date *or* girlfriend. I'm trying to find the right person for me, but may need to widen the search. I haven't given up.

I've never dated my whole life and I'm wondering how a (restrained) introvert could start a relationship. Couples usually like to make phone/video calls, come to gatherings, going out often and doing small things together. Well I don't. In relationships, communication is the key. When you feel moody or tired, your partner will asks or even demands you to tell them what the problem is. If it's me, that makes me more irritated when I just want to be with just me, myself, and I.

@raqu7066

2 жыл бұрын

I can relate 100%

@peacejoy3629

2 жыл бұрын

Yeah... An introvert like us can understand and love will be easy and safe with them

@davidcsik9761

2 жыл бұрын

I am an introvert. How to start a relationship? I have no idea. Every day I think about one of my colleague, who is very kind to me, but I do not know how to ask her out. I'm waiting for Sadies, but I know it will not happen. So I have to make a leap of faith.

@MegaChriz

Жыл бұрын

@@davidcsik9761 start small. Ask her to have lunch together. Or take a walk outside during breaks. Talk about interests. Try to find a common interest of what you could do together. For example: attend a (creative) workshop together. Don’t focus too much on the relationship goal. Become good friends first (though don’t hesitate to flirt if you feel like it).

@davidcsik9761

Жыл бұрын

@@MegaChriz we had a drink and I asked her, but unfortunately she has a boyfriend. It's broken my heart.

My SO is a huge introvert. Listening to these tips just fills my heart with joy. I feel as if i've approached her the right way. I really love her and do not want her to change for me. She's perfect the way she is. Took me a bit of time to read her body language and understand her on a deeper and personal level. But now that I can read her emotions, I've started getting closer and closer to her. I've never been more grateful to have such a loving and caring partner by my side. Only downside is that she isn't as passionate and direct as I am when it comes to showing affection. But I've told her that I she doesn't need to tell me. That I know that she cares about me and loves me, by looking into her eyes or facial expressions

As a full-on introvert, I can confirm that this video is very VERY accurate 😊

@firecrackerbaby3364

4 жыл бұрын

How do you know a introvert man's display of affection? I'm an extrovert. I'm dating a introvert man. We've seen each other for two mos now, but I'm the only one who is verbal about how they feel. He doesn't even like for me to buy gifts which I still do as it is deserving for him. I have noticed it seems as though he goes out of his way, but I'm not sure if that's just being a polite person or if that is him liking me. In a sense I'm confused pertaining how to tell his feelings.

@YorktownUSA

4 жыл бұрын

@@firecrackerbaby3364 Speaking as an introvert, I believe him going out of his way is a sign he likes you. I hate going the extra mile for anyone, unless I'm particularly fond of, or loyal to, them.

@Vireca

4 жыл бұрын

@@firecrackerbaby3364 think about that extra mile he goes with you is extra time he likes to spend with you. I don't do that with anyone

@petra_cici5016

4 жыл бұрын

I totally agree ... I also will borrow your "full-on Introvert" - I hope that's ok with you ..

@renzsalvador9700

4 жыл бұрын

Treasure that extra mile, that he can do for you. And make sure give him time to recharge after going that extra mile, if he distances, do something alone, or even do nothing alone. That is his time recharging, dont confuse it as he doesnt want to be with you. If he will see you respecting and accepting and understanding he will open up to you eventually. Especially he is a man, we dont usually tell other people our problem and thoughts, much more for an introvert man, dont lose patience asking him "you can tell me everything but no pressure i will listen."

I'm an introvert and I feel like if more people knew this things would be less awkward for both sides

@soupertlh2674

5 жыл бұрын

It'd also be less awkward if introverts decided to get to know our needs too (just saying...)

@yazzyxx

4 жыл бұрын

@@soupertlh2674 I agree with you. I am an introvert, but the problem is... we tend to shy away from talking... we try to get to know a person first. we take time to gain trust. I understand where you're coming from though!

@rishidas9731

4 жыл бұрын

That's the problem in 2019's hyperfast society, where most don't give another thought about is introverts

This is so accurate,being an intovert can be quite challenging so we need a partner who'll value and love us for who we are.

I'm introvert in a relationship & this describes me, perfectly.

10. Don’t assume. Amen.

@ALZMC

6 жыл бұрын

Crimson Dragath ikr amen indeed

@RamRevivo

6 жыл бұрын

Yes

Introvert : **bottles their emotions** Extrovert : **watches this video** **breaks the bottle**

@Amghannam

4 жыл бұрын

Introvert to Extrovert: Repair the bottle or I fkin kick your ass.

@Amghannam

4 жыл бұрын

@@wolframxx5580 no man, it's not sad, some things i just want to keep to myself and not share..

@chosen573

4 жыл бұрын

AKshay Raut extrovert are rude and reckless most of the Time ..

@yibengcj7913

4 жыл бұрын

@@chosen573 well, almost all the extrovert person I know have rude personality... Sometyms pushy but they made a good friend tht give u positive energy.

@lolxd5412

4 жыл бұрын

Amghannam Hahahahahhahaha well said. But the bottle is plastic. It can’t be broken🙃 So you don’t have to use your energy in kicking the guy’s ass

Dating an introvert, it's like hell. Always feel like I said/did something wrong, I have a tendency to be really high energy and I think this video helped me realize what I am doing.

After a conversation with someone last night, i let them know I really like spending time alone, I need it to refill my cup, to work on myself, to love on myself and to rest. Now it all makes sense. I honestly prefer my own company over anyone else's. That were a little offended, but I hope over time they'll accept me as I am. I just would prefer to be alone ALOT OF THE TIMES

This may as well have been "the 10 things missing from all my past relationships" 😂 great video, I'll definitely sending this to the next person I date

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

For sure! This can apply to all relationship context, but more so for introverts. And sounds like a good plan ;)

@spyderpig991

6 жыл бұрын

Minty Bliss DAN *Starts tearing up thinking about today's new video*

@dlinkelburro8740

6 жыл бұрын

Prob shouldn't do that

@IzayoiArwena

6 жыл бұрын

Minty Bliss yes same here. These are things i crave for

@filipkaraivanov5575

6 жыл бұрын

A dated an extrovert and she did the exact opposite steps

Whenever I try talking to someone it's like brain stops functioning and all I say is "um um" and I look stupid.

@gezv06v

6 жыл бұрын

natasha kalebwe you are not alone. I do this but can't help it. It's actually annoying cos i just can't think about what to say! My brain is silly but I've come to accept that it's just the way I am. Taken along time to come to that though as I spent a lot of time thinking I'm not "normal" 🤯

@slothmilly9012

5 жыл бұрын

Same! I always rehearse the words in my brain a billion times but still start with "um..." *Facepalm*

@vinmag3556

5 жыл бұрын

I feel it lol introvert life headass

@gabrielhan5995

5 жыл бұрын

Same omg

@nandiniparte1228

5 жыл бұрын

Okay, that's so relatable!

Any introverts watching in 2021?? Oh only me... OK !

@danishfarhan2064

4 жыл бұрын

Yes

@lyssy6044

4 жыл бұрын

Here I am

@kryptokall2667

4 жыл бұрын

yeaaah

@melon7514

4 жыл бұрын

Yee

@blumoon4228

4 жыл бұрын

we always come back!

As an introvert and dating an ambivert (maybe), I've to say these are some of the basic and very apt observations. I do have grown a lot from anxious introvert towards opening up more and my work requires so but it always is helpful knowing yourself better than jumping to help others. Thanks for this channel. Keep it going

As a guy with an introverted girlfriend I found this very helpful. She likes to distance herself and take time to think which I mistake as her being upset. I greatly appreciate knowing that she could just be taking it slow and trying to collect more information.

@jisuuunnggghannn5899

5 жыл бұрын

How is your relationship now?

@jonathanblair5920

5 жыл бұрын

as an introvert married to an extrovert, it took a very long time for her to understand what my alone time meant, lol. if i may make a recommendation, something that helped us. if she is off alone, make a small effort to show you're still thinking about her while she is recharging. and i do mean small, lol. just stopping and asking if she's thirsty or wants a snack can open up an opportunity to help her brainstorm. and if she doesn't need anything, remind her that you're still there if she does. it lets her know you are still putting in the effort and that can make a huge difference in how things play out.

@fbeqbfqb

5 жыл бұрын

@@jonathanblair5920 thanks for your experience!

@RsbrryBeret

5 жыл бұрын

Kudos to you Logan for taking the time to understand her.

@Anintora

5 жыл бұрын

Go get 'er buddy, wouldn't want to disappoint her if I were you since I am an introvert myself and I know all too well how terrible it is to have a lover who doesn't understand your personality

Exclusively Dating this introverted girl right now and it’s soo interesting that I get a “playbook” in how to ingratiate myself with her. Unique thing about this playbook video is that It all demands authenticity and sincerity in my behavior and thinking, Which I appreciate because that’s what I want to be, as opposed to being misunderstood. This video is making me also realize how wonderfully patient she is in allowing me to adjust to her, as she’s adjusted to me. I “lean extrovert” but now I’m seeing that I definitely need to be more conscious in the nuances of this sort of relationship. Thanks for the video.

Really good video, needed this. My bf is introverted but I simply forget and when watching this it explains his reactions and the way he is at certain times. I’m learning to love the little things as an extrovert dating an introvert. Always learning the little ways that he shows love and expresses his feelings.

I think introverts are interesting people, most of my close friends are, I don't think they need to be more "extroverted," my wife is the most introvert person i know, she often saying things like " sorry dear, I'm not really good at communicating," "sorry that I'm too shy," or "sorry that I'm boring" (in contrast that people keep telling me I talk too much and like to butt in on every conversation I think interesting), but the fact is I don't see any problem regarding her not talking as much as I do (thanks God that she isn't), I always think that she is so interesting even when she is not saying anything, I mostly talk about ideas and opinions but most people will soon not paying enough attention when I try to talk a bit deeper, but not the case with her, she remembers details more than I do, although she get frustrated a lil bit easier lol, well I don't know about other ppl, but I could not ask for better partner

@Suart8

6 жыл бұрын

Justinus K Novarianto this is so warming to read. God bless you both :)

1. Hold meaningful conversation 2. Less stimulating environments 3. Take it slow 4. Be understanding 5. Provide mental support 6. Read between the lines 7. Respect their space 8. Spend quality time together 9. Fully accept them 10. Don't assume

@2011hib

4 жыл бұрын

acs ver 👍

@Arkivalry

4 жыл бұрын

Check everything for me! I already do this, even before this vid

@lizzborges3203

4 жыл бұрын

1-Yes, 2- Yeesssss......10- Yes, please !! 😔😔😔

@HawkinaBox

4 жыл бұрын

I AGREE!!! YES!! FINALLY SOMEONE GETS ME!!! :D

@That_Guy_Jordiii

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you!

Me and bf are going through a extremely tough time right now and watching this literally just helped me learned the man I thought I knew these last two years. Needless to say I will definitely be talking notes from this

Totally been there in terms of dating my ex-girlfriend who was what I remembered an kind of a extrovert up to an extent. I am naturally an introvert not gonna lie but when I was dating my ex-girlfriend, at first I thought she was understanding that I needed space from time to time. However let's just say that she interpreted that as me not wanting to spend time with her. It became a point where sometimes she would guilt trip me and on top of that even when I spent time with her, I would feel emotionally exhausted after spending time with her. That's why I had to break up with her and started to focus on myself before I am ready to date a new girl that will be understanding let alone love me for who I am.

as an introvert other introverts attract me, but because I am an introvert I cant talk to them and they wont so it's gonna take forever to find my introverted love lol

@Botandarun

6 жыл бұрын

It happens more than you think, introverts meeting each other! I'm introvert and in a couple with an introvert, and it's perfect! We're on the same beat, we want the same things, we understand each other. I think an extrovert would totally exaust me. But my introvert is like an oasis of calm and safety in a stressful, overwhelming world :) You're wise to be attracted to other introverts, as they would very likely suit you! It will happen for you too :)

@fallcones1

6 жыл бұрын

Jule Sparkle the struggle is real :D

@katrinaharvey9952

6 жыл бұрын

I agree I find the people who interest me are introverts because I know they will not want to spend every second of the say with me.

@lekydesigns

5 жыл бұрын

well, we're in the same situation... and i think we are not the lasts xD

@thefirstone94

5 жыл бұрын

I know that feeling that why i make sport so i can even talk to other people. Sport make me more cofident.

Recently I asked a girl to be my girlfriend ( I'm an introvert ) and it was really hard for me... She refused. 2 months later at her b day party she and her friends and I were talking and suddenly they started talking about " how men should act towards women " and she happily said what she liked in a man not caring about the fact I was there... She described exactly the opposite of me. Since then I quit trying, I can't make someone like me, I must invest in who likes me the way I already am.

@temegron6695

6 жыл бұрын

Man, that sucks. But at least you had the courage to ask her... I didn't have it...

@icup5206

6 жыл бұрын

Alexander Patrick Don't bother with women in the first place bro, it's just a Hassel that's unnecessary. I suggest you look up MGTOW, it's helped me see the truth in women. Cheers

@RobinAJs

6 жыл бұрын

I like quiet dudes.. and I’m an introverted girl lol

@anomalousentity1289

6 жыл бұрын

I asked a girl to the homecoming dance once and she told me she'd think about it, then didn't mention it until I asked her until my last moment until seeing her till the dance and she said no because she wasn't going to the dance. I felt so heartbroken and then she showed up to the dance with my best friend. She made me wait until the last moment to tell me no by avoiding the situation and then went with my best friend. Still friends with both of them tho. Now every time I see her it's incredibly awkward.

@kitpaovm8537

6 жыл бұрын

Maybe she wanted to change you, which is no good

This video really help me to understand everything about my special amazing friend introvert. Thank you much for sharing. Now I know how to understand and support him anything. And I won't over thinking about his behavior from now on.

This video is so educational and helpful! I like a guy who is a major introvert and it is hard to understand him which is why I am watching these videos to try to understand him better. I am learning so much! Thanks a lot for these videos! They truly help!

My boyfriend is an introvert and I can say that it’s the best relationship I have ever had and I’m so happy with him. I feel incredibly lucky for having him in my life ❤️

@boonaikong4370

5 жыл бұрын

Melissa Beltran , but are you an introvert too?

@laxmimallik4746

5 жыл бұрын

Please Love Him More Cos Introverts Just Seek More Love

THE WORLD IS ACTUALLY LEAD BY INTROVERTS; extroverts are just more visible.

@kiwi9381

5 жыл бұрын

Preach

@tls5870

5 жыл бұрын

Because most of us are at home at any given time. The extroverted world out there is loud.

@MrDoom159

5 жыл бұрын

Stupidity is always more visible and immortal

@kyrie7759

5 жыл бұрын

@@MrDoom159 extravert does not equal to intelligence and vice versa, so comparing those two isn't fair.

@jflamingo26

5 жыл бұрын

This could be possible.

I have a introvert for a fiance, soon-to-be wife, and we have been seeing each other for almost four years. There have been some ups and downs mainly attributed to my not understanding how to best serve her and take care of her needs since I am an A type personality and an extrovert, some days it's a little difficult for me to get my head around things and this video was so awesome and empowering for me to understand her needs and how to best position myself to make her feel much more loved in our relationship.

just started dating a introverted lady i really like her too and offer her any kind of support and help she needs. im educating myself on videos like this to make sure im not overstepping any boundaries. this video nailed our relationship spot on. at first when she first began to pull away i was very concerned but i know now thats just how they can be especially when overscheduled and stressed.

Everyone talks about introverts like we’re animals or a thing

@projeckttea6969

6 жыл бұрын

.... kinda pisses me off with that.

@leelya6272

6 жыл бұрын

They kinda do but yet again we are more sensible and delicate that doesn't mean it's bad it just means we're different and Special

@lynncollins9715

6 жыл бұрын

It’s really hard, especially in comments on videos like this, to address all introverted people without coming across as not normal or understanding. It’s pretty difficult, we live in a world full of labels and stereotypes. So sometimes we address people as “LGBTQ are like this....” or “Republicans do this...” So we say, “Oh introverts do this....” it’s not that we mean to dehumanize you, it’s more like we might not fully comprehend how to address you, or we’re a little bit ignorant. It’s more like analyzing, even though we don’t go about it the best way.

@BlackStar-kt9ji

6 жыл бұрын

Alva Saari I know right?! It’s so frustrating!! we are persons 😡😡 we have feelings too

@edengallagher1044

6 жыл бұрын

Righttt

I have always been an introvert since my childhood and yes I agree with this video. Introverts are not accepted and recognised in this world because it's all about being an extrovert especially when applying for "That job" It's all about having a specific personality and competing with other big characters that we have to adopt a false personality in order to qualify or become successful! Us introverts have special, unique and interesting qualities but it's soo damn difficult for others to see that because some people do not take the time and patience to actually get to know that shy individual. They only see what is on the surface and not the person as a whole and deep down what they are very capable of doing! It's sad really.

@janicefoster7188

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Snaps Respectfully, I disagree that introverts aren't accepted. Plenty of admired and influential people are introverts, from artists to analysts. Maybe they are less likely to be recognised with Mexican waves, fame and packed stadiums, but that's not the type of appreciation I assume most introverts would like anyway.

@msbunny6671

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Snaps what upsets me is people actually frown upon introverts and act as tho introverts dont exist and everyone should just act like an extrovert because that is what society calls "Normal" they expect everyone to act and think the same. I hate it. that's why i avoid people and you know what i like it less peope less b.s.

@leelya6272

6 жыл бұрын

I'm also an introvert but actually the world used to think that extroverts were always better workers but now have noticed that introverts can be better because they don't waste as much time socializing :)

@Casey_Ezaziel

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Snaps my boss still doesn't know I'm an introvert. Aced thed job interview talk to clients on really empathetic personal levels. But that's only my work face. gone so far that the company needs me or everything falls appart. But doesn't understand that I don't do company parties, events etc. I'm much happier with my cat at home :)

@JessicabelliciMa1

6 жыл бұрын

Jenny Snaps fuck so true im currently to find a new job and i have to put so damn efforts to be dynami amd comfortable not bc you are introvert that you can’t do the job

Love this! I’m tired of only seeing posts on helping introverts be more extroverted. Extroverts need to learn some things too. In my experience that would be to learn to just shut up and listen. TY for addressing extroverts…more graciously than me, I might add.

Oh wow, this is so much like my life.... thanks! So many people do all the "don't do/think" from this video in my life! Made me cry a bit... wow, someone i don't know, knows better than people i DO know!

My Gf is highly extroverted and i'm the reverse, i'm gonna show this to her in the hope she can learn more about me. Thanks Psych2Go

@shepardguardian2736

6 жыл бұрын

Azante tell us how it goes

@TruffleSeeker54

6 жыл бұрын

My boyfriend is highly extroverted and I don't know how he does it! One time I brought him with me when I went to register for classes at my college and I left him in the waiting room for an hour. When I came back he was exchanging Xbox gamertags with the guy sitting next to him. It can take me weeks before I ask someone sitting next to me in class if they want a piece of gum.

@viktoriaschmied6627

6 жыл бұрын

While I am an Introvert, I'm glad I'm not shy as well. I can't socialize too much, or I'll just get tired and unbearable. But talking to people is “fairly easy“, if you just stay polite/pleasant most people are satisfied. I just hardly ever get close and personal with someone. On the other hand I know quite a few extroverts, who while they considerably often have trouble getting into a conversation, at least what feels like instantly become best friends. Somehow I feel like it's kind of reversed in my/ my friends case(s) haha

@insan8ty

6 жыл бұрын

I'm really extroverted and my boyfriend is introverted. Using this video to learn more about him. Lol.

@cringemaster4195

6 жыл бұрын

Opposites truly do attract.

I'm an introvert and I can honestly relate. My mom and older brother are extroverts and my mom always tells me to go hang out with my friends more or go outside more or just stop sitting inside. But she just doesn't get it. We have had a few arguments about this. But I just need my alone time, I would rather read a great book than go and talk about the same stuff with my friends. Of course I go outside, just not that often. My dad is an introvert and I'm so glad he is, because I would go insane if I wouldn't know another introvert! And mostly all of my friends (don't have alot of those) are extroverts! Well, the rant is over!!!

@tigerx36

6 жыл бұрын

I feel like my family is made up of extroverts and I'm the only introvert. So I get what you mean. My aunt is the one who realises this. I still hang out with good friends from time to time, but I don't go out often. Even an old teacher I'm still in contact with understands and has been a helping hand.

@alisevaivade521

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, I get what you mean. Not trying to be mean, just saying facts, but my mom has issues with nerves. She can get annoyed and angry really quickly and that just adds up to the 'me staying home alot' argument. Sorry, for giving you all my problems, but I just wanna rant and tell someone. So... I kinda also have depression. I haven't been diagnosed by a doctor, because I sure as hell ain't telling my parents, but I have taken alot and ALOT of tests online. And all of them say that I have depression, so I'm just gonna assume I have atleast a little bit of depression. And the whole situation just breaks me. Being an introvert, having depression and to top it all of a mom that judges me for not going outside and just not being happy with me no matter what I do is hard. Oh and lets not forget I'm quite young. I have barely any friends, because they try to make plans with me and I sometimes just don't want to go, so after that happens most of the time, they drift away. All the pressure from school topping all of my problems off. And that just makes me wanna cut myself, but I'm too big of a softie to do anything (too deep, moving on).I just sometimes wish I would have someone to talk to. And I know my mom just wants the best for me (for me to go out and make friends, breath fresh air and have fun with others), but it really hurts me when she yells at me for being lazy and stuff. Oh, how could I forget, I'm also very emotional. So I just kinda always am in a dark place and all I'm asking for is happines! Great, I'm crying while writing this. So sorry again for pushing my problems to you, you can just ignore this. I just needed to let it all out!

@alisevaivade521

6 жыл бұрын

Oh God, I didn't expect that commet to be so long!!!

@tigerx36

6 жыл бұрын

AliceWonderland No, no, it's okay, really. My mom has her issues too, and over the years the three of us (me, Mom and aunt) have had to adjust our eating habits and are trying to help out the others. My aunt was the first one of us to go gluten free, then me, and Mom went let's say voluntarily. So now I'm anxious about eating with others since not many know I don't eat certain things. I may eat mostly raw, but meat isnt completely off the table. Mom also stresses out, but I try to help her through it, despite our many differences and the fact she also gets on my nerves. I have the worst allergies in my family and I'm the only one on the spectrum. I may not have the same conditions you have, but you seem really nice. Great, I'm getting shaky writing this. I haven't even told my friends about me being introverted, but the teacher I mentioned might already know. Now, I'm ranting almost...

@alisevaivade521

6 жыл бұрын

Quentin Ellis Well, you are learning from the best about ranting, so I expect some rezults, honey💁🏼😂 I actually know quite alot of people who always joke about people (vegetarians, vegans etc) about being really choosy (idk if that is a word, oh well) eaters, but I never really got their point. Like the person chooses what he (she etc) wants to eat and that is their buisness, not yours (the judgemental people). And I think you should embrace it and not care about other persons opinions. I think its amazing (at first I wrote amazongs, am so gonna use that instead of 'amazing' from now on) that you control what you eat. 'Caus we all know that there are alot, like alot of people who can't and they eat alot of unhealthy snacks and junk food. And if other people pick (judge) your eating choices, then they can mind their own damn buisness! Also thanks for reading that god damn long comment. You get a star sticker for that⭐️

🙏🏽 patience & respect - so important... & leave space 🙏🏽

WOW. Just.....WOW. FINALLY! Thank you for this video. Someone does get me. For as long as I can remember, I've always been misunderstood. Always been the odd one; the weird one (not that I mind being weird; normal is so overrated). The most painful for me has always been people assuming that: I don't like people or that I think they're beneath me; just because I don't really like hamging out with people much. Not realising that it's a natural tendency for me to be in my own world; that I do indeed love poeple. My point is: most of the points in this video can also be applied in any relationships involving introverts. What a great vid indeed. 👏👌

But most of all, as an introvert, trust and stability is what we seek the most....

@pierrebe4492

5 жыл бұрын

Yeah trust is definitely something we need time to build, but are craving for.

@randycoolbaugh1408

5 жыл бұрын

exactly... going for fifty y.o. …. still looking.

@juto8052

5 жыл бұрын

True

@michaelatelcy187

5 жыл бұрын

Factsss!

@ZacklFair

5 жыл бұрын

Trust broken once in a lifetime = Never Trust Again. Introvert life.

I've been dating an introvert for almost a year now. And somehow, intuitive, I do all those things mentioned in the video. And you're right. Ever since I became softer and more understanding towards my girlfriend, she kept showing more and more gratitude and love towards me. I wish all of you, introverts and others, meaningful life and a lot of love ♡

@winterdragon560

3 жыл бұрын

Waa you are an amazing bf , am an introvert and ma ex boyfriend was super extrovert, he used to force me to socialize more , when I ask him i wanna alone time, he used to laugh and say are u human , when I tell him I don't wanna anyone to know anything about our relationship he will get mad and say what is wrong with y , he used to called me cold, bossy , too much independent we use to fight but i used to ignore him , but i finally broke up with him god he was such an a** anyway good luck to you and your gf

@sad-boinguae2852

Жыл бұрын

I will do this from now on thankyou so much for this hope i have faith in our relationship if i knew she’s introvert in early stage i immediately adjust and study a lot of things for our good😊❤ communication still have time to make this happened i hope God will guide me as well again thank you for this wonderful words i will do this and making a lot of perseverance🙏

thank you 🤍🤍🤍 i really wants to keep this relationship work, he is an introvert and he is far away ... its really challenging for me to makes him feel comfort with me ...hopefully we can make it through 😇

Very helpful!! Tysm for making this, it really helped!

I'm an introvert and this is so true! This girl and I stopped talking and hanging out and I think it's because she thought I didn't like her. I did but it just takes time for me to show a lot of physical affection

@teehehe9476

6 жыл бұрын

TheMoldyPotato oh my God is this story of my life right there cause I had a crush on an introvert and I was the one who'd always talk and he just always seemed to reply with short answers and I stopped talking to him

@spudboy5059

6 жыл бұрын

Smart Geek I know it can be frustrating but if you are sure he likes you then keep trying! He will probably open up eventually!

@tiranito

6 жыл бұрын

lol this happened to me literally a week ago. I told her that we could complement each other. She understood and finally agreed.

@mikethegoo

6 жыл бұрын

TheMoldyPotato I try to give as much little hints as possible (like sitting near them even if there is someone I hate is there too or saying something nice about their clothes)

Me: *is scared of people and over analyzes what I'm going to say* My mom: go ask them for help or your grounded and I take your phone away

@Razatanx7

6 жыл бұрын

Alexis Avila The struggles.

@emikotagahushi941

6 жыл бұрын

Then people get frustrated because you aren’t making it easy and they don’t understand why you’re so hesitant and that just makes you more stressed. :(

Hey, Psych2Go! Thank you very muchhhh!! for all the videos you've made, especially this video. It literally describes me. I felt very understood and free to express my feelings because of this, and because of your videos. So, thank youuuuu veryyyyy much!!💜💜 Pleaseee, continue making videos. Best of luckkkk! We love y'allllll

1- Meaningful Conversation 2- Less stimulating environments (Small Gathering) 3- Take it slow 4- Be understanding (Bottled Up Emotions) 5- Provide mental support 6- Read between lines (Pay attenion what they say) 7- Respect their space 8- Spend QUALITY time together (Not every day) 9- fully accept them 10- Don't assume (Ask questions)

Sometimes when a woman is interested in me, in my brain start endless amounts of questions like "what does she want from me?", "Why me?" or "this can't be true, can it?".

@danishviking259

4 жыл бұрын

Agree xD

@danika9411

4 жыл бұрын

I'm dating an introvert. Just try to enjoy it as it is. Your heart decides who we love, so there is no answer to questions like that. Also sometimes opposites atract. And last but no least, every person is valuable and unique and deserving of love! Good luck with the dates!

@exbyte-dev

4 жыл бұрын

Exactly

@RicoLen1

4 жыл бұрын

That's not introverted, that's insecure. Of course many introverts ARE insecure, but it's important not to confuse the two.

@dn5868

4 жыл бұрын

Now that’s just being paranoid bro, why don’t you think you deserve a good girl? PS I know your comment is 5 months old, but this popped up in my recommendations today-stay safe!🤗

Dear future husband,....... Do what this video says.🙂

@justalpha9138

4 жыл бұрын

I'm a very shy guy XD

@realcartoongirl

4 жыл бұрын

@@justalpha9138 no ur not

@justalpha9138

4 жыл бұрын

@@realcartoongirl Yes I am. XD How can you say I'm not when you don't know me?

@realcartoongirl

4 жыл бұрын

@@justalpha9138 idk

@droidcommander9305

4 жыл бұрын

JustAlpha Arent we all?

I'm an introvert and if you meet me online you wouldn't probably guessed it because I talk a lot there because its not that exhausting for me, its a different story when it comes to personal interaction. Sometimes I'm with my friends and I'm just... There... I'm just in a corner reading😂. It was fun watching these kinds of videos because I really think that this will open the world's eyes to who we really are.

THIS IS SO TRUEEEEEE. I'd like if everyone could undrestand this! I feel people around me do understand how I am who I am, but they do it reactively.

I’m in introvert and my gf is also an introvert and the best way i’ve found for us to get closer is simply hugging or being close to each other for long periods of time. Although this could also be due to us both being super clingy, But who knows?

@snowcold5932

6 жыл бұрын

The sexy milk man Argh, thats pretty much my dream/main fantasy xD Little chance of that happening to me one day but maybe

@jaanaenkerro445

6 жыл бұрын

You're an introvert an your name is the sexy milk man.. 🙈🙈😂😂

@duckduck8889

6 жыл бұрын

Jaana EnKerro hell yeah.

@duckduck8889

6 жыл бұрын

Elliot Rodger we were original only friends for years, but then we found interest in each other romantically so we started dating.

@chantelinsertnamehere4513

6 жыл бұрын

Same, my bf and I are introverts too, and we are both super clingy and we love contact with each other

This video makes me feel like introverts are some species, and everyone is just trying to learn about us, because we aren't clear. WE ARE RARE SPECIES.

@Nokyyyyy

4 жыл бұрын

We are shiny humans

@crystalsnow7821

4 жыл бұрын

Ultra_Oof55 you are 💯 percent correct.

@ifrahjama2215

4 жыл бұрын

Yess

@wiktoriamadrzejewska9559

4 жыл бұрын

We are the mysterious species of mankind that the world still tries to understand XD

@dermanteloler3011

4 жыл бұрын

Yes 👍

OMFG as an introvert who has had nothing but problems with close relationships this is absolutely true. I wish I knew about this video before because it explains things in ways I haven't been able to articulate with other people about introversion. Thanks for the video!

I recently learned that I am a ambivert. Understanding that now has really helped me cope with my relationship with introverts and extroverts. I have always been attracted to extrovert women but have always had more meaningful relationships with introverts. The difficulty of falling dead center has always made it difficult to connect at every level. I find your short videos to be very accurate. Thank you for your content.

Dating an introvert is quite interesting to be honest. Compared to my boyfriend I am an extrovert. I was to one who started the relationship. By asking him out. He would have never and we were best friends. We are opposite. I love to go out and met new people. While by boyfriend rader stay home with me. Which is flattering but I am the type of person who needs to socialize. Be out and explore and he like to explore too. Just not with people which I find cute and frustrating. I love him though. I do try to push him to get out of his safe zone and he does the same for me. Makes me sit down and relax. It seems so simple. Yet it quite difficult for me. His actions have surprised me. Making him talk about his emotions is hard but we work on it every day. He talks with my friends and family. I also made him talk more with his own family. We are 2 years and 2 months now.

@boonaikong4370

5 жыл бұрын

Evelyn Serrano , he will appreciate your understanding although he might not say it out.

@dresdenwinterknight9553

5 жыл бұрын

Sorry you won't last

@soupertlh2674

5 жыл бұрын

@@dresdenwinterknight9553 Sorry but you dont know whether relationships will last or not.

@reenacasona5982

5 жыл бұрын

"Making him talk about his emotion is hard." It makes me laugh. Coz i can relate, i'm an introvert btw.

@nammyhorengekomrlotussutra6497

5 жыл бұрын

It sounds like you are really i love him 😉😊😁 that is so sweet ❤️ ❤️♥️..

Y'all just like exposing me

@Psych2go

6 жыл бұрын

Sorry!

@danteauditore39

6 жыл бұрын

Psych2Go it's okay! Great video as always!!!!

@SherYTF

6 жыл бұрын

Dante Auditore39 **internalizes the emotion**

@hellesylt9770

5 жыл бұрын

Dante Auditore39 what would happen if I loose an introvert? Would I get back

@bigbruhmento7731

4 жыл бұрын

ikr

I'd consider myself as an introvert, and everything that is mentioned in the video fits me 100%. Good job!

This video understands me so well in a world of feeling misunderstood.

Introvert? Relationship? …that won't be hard at all! (I'm an introvert)

@Mogara5

6 жыл бұрын

I sense the sarcasm in this. XD

@asgardianprotector6917

6 жыл бұрын

Said no one ever, I am an introvert so I relate to this

@GreatJobTy

6 жыл бұрын

Do you want more confidence? Better social skills? Tips to feel more comfortable? I make videos on all that! No, I'm not some scam life coach! *Just head to my channel*

@gonzalobazan6144

6 жыл бұрын

xD

@frenchfry7917

6 жыл бұрын

Spider Pig lol me to

Introverts unite! Now, I’m going home!

@jencgold

6 жыл бұрын

DeepForestRex lol lol lol lol

@anomalousentity1289

6 жыл бұрын

xD

@x6568tank

6 жыл бұрын

Accurate

@mousey_boi

6 жыл бұрын

DeepForestRex hi

@rosewood3pw844

6 жыл бұрын

hi .. *pokes*

This video is something that is applicable to both extroverts and introverts ... Every relationship need deeper understanding as well as some space ...🎀

@neilmorgan7051

11 ай бұрын

Makes sense but the sad reality is that you will get deep conversations mainly from introverts

I didn’t think anyone understood me!! I really like this video it’s describes me 💯% I’m having issues with being understood in relationships because of being a introvert!

It doesn't matter whether you're extraverted or introverted, I think we as humans should take the time to understand each other and be patient with one another to make those more meaningful connections. I could be speaking nonsense though. - shrug -

@sirdance-alotslayerofheret7597

6 жыл бұрын

The only nonsense that you mentioned would be that you assumed your idea as "nonsense" But sadly I have to say (prepare for memes).... Sounds good doesn't work. :/

@paulotaguba2831

6 жыл бұрын

No dear! It's not nonsense at all. I absolutely agree. All of us should have the factor of understanding all people in society whether introvert or extrovert we have quite unique traits and personalities but we should appreciate and support each other and respect one another with our own individuality and well-being

@pascaledixon

6 жыл бұрын

Agreed. Can't believe people are fighting over which side is better. Introvert and extrovert is just a personality. Most people share that which is not wrong. A person is a person. In a unique way.

@snowleapardsfuntime2064

6 жыл бұрын

Yur mom gay (jk I think you're right)

@RareRabbit365

6 жыл бұрын

We need patience

As I open my mouth and talk. All the people who know me will be like "wow he actually talking". Thing get harder for introvert

@killrbladz7989

4 жыл бұрын

Honestly, if a friend says it, they’re probably joking.

@RyotaMitarai

4 жыл бұрын

smile and laugh a little and continue talking. that's what i do and it works.

@pieonaamii1302

4 жыл бұрын

I tend to shut up when they notice me talking cause I felt really awkward, i felt like they're expecting me to say some great things

@kelvinwapanio6701

4 жыл бұрын

Jahahhahahahaha same

@manahilnayab7343

4 жыл бұрын

same it happens to me even in my school a teacher said when i asked her a question ....she was like "oh so you finally got a tongue "....it annoyed me so much :(

Introvert here. Most of what you say is spot on. Less sure of 9... I quite like the 'spotlight' if it is a lecturn or pulpit, where I can express a complex thought in a planned way to people that are actually interested and who won't interrupt. Also less sure about the 'quality time' thing with a partner. It can work really well, or really badly. Most of the time my wife talks the only voice I hear is the one in my head endlessly repeating "please God, make her shut up!". And when she suggests coffee and a chat, she may as well suggest coffee and using an electric drill on my knee caps. But then other days we will have a long animated conversation that we both enjoy.

I'm an introvert this is soooooo on 🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯gosh. Love it thank you.

Everytime I flirt it looks like I am having a seizure

@koebi_

6 жыл бұрын

ale Solís I’m glad I’m not the only one:)

@victoryeleblu7123

6 жыл бұрын

Hahaha! you are soo funny... thats nice...

@msbunny6671

6 жыл бұрын

I want that on a tshirt LMAO

@jsm530

6 жыл бұрын

That's really creepy and startling. Maybe work on it bit? Say you look pretty/handsome.

@cadensaunders2301

6 жыл бұрын

How do you have the everything to flirt with someone?

I'm a introvert and it's honestly really hard for me to imagine myself being in a relationship at all..I'm only 16 now but I rly don't see it happening

@bellagoth835

6 жыл бұрын

I'm already 22 and I'm having the same problem lol

@lizlemon8831

6 жыл бұрын

Don't worry. Is ok to be single. I've had a lot of relationships for an introvert (altough they only last a few months) and decided 2 years ago I'm out. I don't want to do it anymore and I've been so happy ever since. For me at least, relationships bring a lot of anxiety and paranoia and you are always either going into or gettig out of a conflict. Nah, I'm done. I'm so happy and calm and just having a great quality of life without relationships. If you guys find someone, that's awesome. If not, you really don't need it. Trust me.

@SickkAddiction

6 жыл бұрын

Im 16... I feel the same. I tried imagining it but the bubble never forms.

@Beast80001

6 жыл бұрын

cranberrywb100 I'm exactly the same

@aiste2250

6 жыл бұрын

Yeah, it's really weird, when all of those 13 years get into a relationship, and you don't... well, I'm happy being alone, no need that dramas tho

This actually helped me to better understand myself. 😌 I've never been in a relationship because I know I'm hard to understand. I don't call people often because I need time to clear my head before doing so. A relationship doesn't seem to fit me. I'm getting to know someone right now but at times I just don't want to talk but I don't how to tell him that without him feeling like I'm tryna pry him off of me or something.

My husband is an introvert and whatever you just explained in the video is absolutely true. I am facing lot of issues in understanding him. But I love him a lot and I can't live without him under any circumstances. Hence, I will change myself to make him happy. Thank you for this share.

Being an introvert makes me feel like I’m not human. Like I’m from another universe. I agree with all of these the things you said in the video. Thank you for making these types of videos.

@fewbanana63194

4 жыл бұрын

Hoshi's Wife I feel the same and I think all introverts feel the same, but we have to get through it. We live in an extrovert world and we have to adept. It’s sad but we can’t do anything about it.

@serialp2895

Жыл бұрын

Same for me. I feel like i wasn't born in the right world.