So what are the mistakes you made in your twenties that you learnt from..lessons that you learnt!!!.also do share subjects that you would like to be discussed here...pls leave your thoughts ❤️

@AKHIAKKU

4 жыл бұрын

Still in twenties mam..so still counting 😋

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

@@AKHIAKKU good ...so can start counting already😀

@sujas6259

4 жыл бұрын

Hi Dhanya.. in my 20’s I was a bit more brave and confident.. Now in my 30’s I feel I am overthinking and anxious.. What I learned is that there are a lot of things which get solved by itself.. we don’t have to find out solutions for each and every problem.. letting things go is the best thing we can do..

@sharikathejus6920

4 жыл бұрын

Pls discuss about domestic violence.. its quite important as it could help suffering women out there

@dr.lakshmimenon7477

4 жыл бұрын

ur FAN.....I wish I had known the value of being happy....lead a stress free life with inner peace.....and mainly about being healthy and doing excercise

We want our HAPPINESS PROJECT back👍

@varunraj9762

4 жыл бұрын

👍

23 and starting from zero....needed this

I am 31 unmarried jobless and all my friends are married with or without jobs...but comparing doesnt work.. everybody has their own share of difficulties and happiness..i have my own pace and am positive

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Am so glad that you could find your own path

@Ash-ct8ph

4 жыл бұрын

Well you know what ...good things come to those who wait ..I just hope you are patient enough :) ..cheers

@LawMalayalam

3 жыл бұрын

I am 36 unmarried

@jayashreeshreedharan7853

2 жыл бұрын

It's always good to marry late better than marrying a wrong❌ person now you are more matured and more happier than becoming a frustrated marrying a wrong mismatch partner

i needed to hear this so badly. I'm in late 20s feeling stuck in life and career going nowhere .I hope I get a direction soon

@jenna23967

3 жыл бұрын

Soon you will..💕

ഞാൻ കരുതിയത് ഇത് എനിക്ക് മാത്രം ഉണ്ടാകുന്ന പ്രശ്നങ്ങൾ ആണെന്നാണ് video കണ്ടപ്പോ ആ തോന്നൽ മാറി ഒരു relif vannapole thnx chechi 😍

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Am so glad

I approve to all the points you said. I was constantly comparing me to other people and always felt discouraged. I came to a realization that when you compare youself to others , you restrict yourself.

Hi Dhanya, Beautiful talk which I could relate to. Thank you so much.

Really... I'm in 2020 with 20. fresher morever... Everything you said in this video make me so sense.. Thank you..

Well said! Expectations hurts..! ❤️

👍Good one Dhanya.. Sharing this now

It's so nice you talked about this , I'm starting to relate many of these points 🙌

Great points!. Not all, but some or many were applicable for me too. The key learning I took from your thoughts is "life has to offer different things for different people." !

Happy to hearing 😊♥️

Loved the 5th one

Summary 1. Stop worrying, start living - 0:39 2. Don't try so hard to fit in and don't try too hard to be different; just try hard to be you - 0:55 3. Slow down and enjoy life- 1:34 4. Happiness is found when you stop comparing yourself to other people- 2:13 5. I am not in this world to live up to your expectations and you are not in this world to live up to mine- 3:42 6. Do not save what is left after spending but spend what is left after saving - 4:29 7. If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a new Hello - 5:25 8. Settling is the art of taking the easy way out - 6:08 9. Communication is only effective when we do it in a way that is meaningful to the recipients, but not ourselves- 7:23 10. Chemistry is not the same as compatibility - 8:32 BONUS TIP - Do your duty without getting attached to the results 😇❤️PEACE❤️😇

@athirak914

4 жыл бұрын

Aww.... thanks for saving my time❤️😭

@rajkirancm4882

4 жыл бұрын

5 Bruce Lee

@taznimsageer7904

4 жыл бұрын

Kudos👏

@ameendv6186

4 жыл бұрын

You’ve reduced her views 🤨

@sayishkr

4 жыл бұрын

@@athirak914 laziness at its peak

Ty for this video...we needed this.....good work dhanya

Thank you Chechi, especially for that bonus tip. 😊 🍀

I love the honesty of this video - it just feels so natural. Pure Gold of an Advice.

Heck I'm 31 years old and I need this advice.

Very helpful 🙏🏻 🙏🏻 "spread love"♥️♥️

Worth it ..everyone should watch this🔥

Automatically clicked on that Like button within the first 5 secs..😊

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

That's amazing...am so glad..thank you..pls do share and support

@anaghadevi6727

4 жыл бұрын

Akhil vm , Correct😃

@sanoobt5097

4 жыл бұрын

Metoo

@nithyavb8914

4 жыл бұрын

Me too..

@salmaanver9972

4 жыл бұрын

Me too 🥰

Slowed down my swipe speed and found this. Glad 🙏🏼❤️

Well said! 👍

Good one...keep doing more videos

Keep the style of talking. You always thts great.

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

I just love the way you present the topic to us. Very useful. Expecting more vedios like this....thanks alot for the wonderful message.

Love how well rounded this video was. Kudos, Dhanya ❤️

I have the same painting that you have on the wall. Such a good video and message! :)

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much..do share the video if you like it

A very good advice to the youngsters. I will certainly share your views with my grandchildren. Thanks

Nice 👍. Almost a flasback of my past.

Point #4 and 5 is applicable even after 20.. thanks for that

Thank you chachi I'm in 24 and feeling worry about job . Im Facing pressured situation im sure this video is really helpfull to everyone .💕

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

I really hope so..

Thanku for sharing ur thoughts ma'am, that was truly inspiring. I always look forward to your videos❤️

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Am so glad ❤️

Superb thoughts mam...keep sharing.

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much.pls do share with your friends

thanku so much.... jst loved it❤️

Good, well said You're one of my favorite lady with genuine character...

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for your support

Good one Dhanya 👍

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks

Your words are really influencive ..I realize that it ivolved from a hard work.. hats off...

Wow. That was a really inspiring video. I could relate to every point. I am 27, married and jobless. I resigned my previous job due to personal reasons. I have regretted that decision since then. I keep pressurizing and blaming myself for my current situation. The things you mentioned are really consoling.

Beautifully said ♥🌸

Thank you for this ❤️

How can anyone not like your videos.. You are such an inspiration.. God bless you 🙏

What makes you different from others is that you make your points clear elegantly at the same time gracefully.

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much...pls do share with your friends and family

Loads of positivity! Each one was a golden lesson. Thankyou so much

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much

fantastic and very apt, I passed 20s but can relate to many things you told, good work

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Am so glad that you are able to relate...thank you

Such a beautifull message....in this world of competition and comparison it's beautiful to hear such calm words from someone...thank you mam ... Lots of love❣️

Nice. We all want thru this.

You're so inspiring, Dhanya Chechy.. 😍😍🤗

Thank you. I needed this 😇❤️

Loved the bonus point very much. It's a huge mistake done in 20s. Was a very good video

Good one Mam❣❣ One of your die heart fan😍😍

This info may take years to come to know.. thanks for sharing

Thankyou maam. These 10 things make a lot of sense. Will keep these in mind. just entered 20s and its already hard, worse than teenage. But its enjoyable too with a new found freedom and wider opportunities.

Thank you so much for the video

Ok... That was sumthin worth watching 😍✌️

Ma'am eagerly waiting for your next valuable video

i really needed this today dhanya maam....thank u so much for this and keep on doing what u do❤️

Slow down& living in the present...wow

Hello ma'am, do you know how good it is to listen to you.. It's just like getting some wonderful thoughts to make our lives more better and blissful.. Thanks a lot and looking for more from you..

I always excited after watching your videos, it became an inspiration for me

very well said mam, each point u spoke of is really noteworthy. keep posting more such videos...

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Will do my best..thank you

And the thing is when u admit ur mistakes that had in ur life it wonders me how u overcome those nd fulfil ur goal.

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Long story :)

Wowww! The way you talk😍😍😍😍..I am addicted to ur style of talkng ..

I cried bitterly, when my friends got placed,me who was studying medicine was nowhere at that time,but later my father gave a talk like this. That changed my outlook towards life. Thank you mam keep inspiring us♥️

@vishnujayan3621

4 жыл бұрын

😊

Great inspiration for others Dhanya

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much..pls do share and support

I'm in my 20's. Thank u ma'am for ur words. You are one of the best women.

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks for your kind words...keep going ❤️

I really need this right now❤️

Good video chechy....keep going....

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much.pls do share with your friends

👏👏👍👍 Fantastic. What you discussed in your videos is exactly correct. Your perception about life is amazing. If you don' t mind please post another video in much more depth on the same topic....and once more your video was very nice..... .. I hope you will post similar videos at earliest... stay safe... take care...

Hi Dhanya, I totally align with your thoughts here..I have had my fair bit of struggle in the rat race, and wish I knew these earlier..but looking back am happy where I am..it is the best to learn from failures..so in one way I am glad I didn’t get these in a capsule, rather learnt it from my own experience..thank you for sharing these tips!!

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks for writing in.i am glad that you could relate to it

Really I watch your videos to catch up the new words . I like the way you present.

This is today's morning vibe for me..I can relate to each and every point u said.and yeah..some obviously to be followed in entire life too.. Happy to hear from you. Smiles love hugs from heart ❤️

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Am so glad that this vdo resonates with you ❤️

Hearing you is one of my happiness❣️

Haii danya🎻🎻🎻my favorite program ❤️❤️❤️❤️..... Happiness project & adiyettan 's.. Library of happiness 👍

ur FAN.....I wish I had known the value of being happy....lead a stress free life with inner peace.....and mainly about being healthy and doing excercise

Sathyam parayallo maam..njn innale anu videos kandath ....appol thanne subscribum cheythu..atrak useful anenn thoni..munp njn kandirunu happiness projectil appo thott sraddichu enth bangi aya samsarikkanenn...pinne innale anu videos kandath....oru pad useful anu videos ..keep going maam😍

Most needed One👏😇🤗 Inspired 🤗👏 ThankYou ma’am😇

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Am glad that you liked it

❤️ from a girl who just stepped into her twenties!

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Hehe...am glad that you could relate

Thanx for sharing ur experiences ma'am....this is what I actually needed.....a good mentor to guide us through their life lessons.....Hats off!!!!!And love u a lot....😘😘😘😘

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Loads of love to you too❤️

Thank you ma'am sharing mistake of 20's happened bcz I m in the stage 20's..I especially agree to the statement of pressure of marriage✨✨🥰🥰

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

I hope that you have strength to lead the life you dream of

Love you Mam....May God bless you!!!

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you..❤️

Simple but humble speech

Thank you mam for sharing the ideas ❤️I am in second half and could relate all. Life seems really meaning after I chose to not compared, not to rush and not to settle down soon. Waiting for next video.❤️

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Thanks you agree.there is no need to rush through life :)

Dhanya I came to know about you while searching KZread I happened to c Ur happiness project in Kappa TV. I watched almost all. It was really beautiful .U anchored it very well.. I HV no words to describe Ur way of presentation Ur proficiency in language...it's so nice to listen to you .you are actually a source of positive energy fr me who is in my fortys.love you dhanya❤️❤️

I think what you worked through the 20's and 30's.. make U the present U.

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Yes it is true...thank you..pls do share and support

I am 16 now and this was Like taking lessons for the future.

@ajayvarghese1019

4 жыл бұрын

Good for you buddy!!!!!!

Thoughtful life lessons, applicable to all age groups.. 👏👏👏. Thank you

@iamwithdhanyavarma

3 жыл бұрын

Am glad that you liked it.pls do share and support

Thank you Dhanya for sharing your ideas. 💐🙏👌👍👏

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thank you

Thanks for sharing.

Awesome words. You are such an amazing person and always come up with fabulous contents. Hats off ma'am 🤗🤗🤗

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Am so glad that you liked the video...❤️

Great Content Mam😍😍Thankyou somuch

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Thanks a lot.do share with your friends and family

I am in my 20 s. Marriage karyam paranjth is somewhat perfect. Parents polum vicharikunath,I should get married soon ennan. But am preparing for some serious exams, I am only 23,i have got so many things to do.. So many dreams. I am not even financially independent. The only thing that gives me peace is, corona ayond ipo kalyanm onum set avulla😅. Athan aake ulla kachithurumb.kalynm enna vakkinod thanne ipo oru pediyan.Kalyanm modakkitanelm njn nte swapnagal nediyeduthathin sheshm matre oru "settled" life lekk pokullu.✌Thankyou dhanya maam.

@ananhedonic5689

4 жыл бұрын

Same story here😊

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Yes it is tough to withstand the pressure..but keep going strong..love

@general123ist

4 жыл бұрын

99%people think the same lol

@gaanasree7042

3 жыл бұрын

Same situation going onnnn

@farsanasidqredmaple2737

3 жыл бұрын

Just 23 Married Baby is 10 month old now.. I jst dont knw wot to do nxt.. Want to study further.. want to work.. More than that i need tym to live as i used to be.. i dnt read anymore.. i dont paint anymore.. i dont do crafts anymore.. All i do is house work, take care of baby.. do well with inlaws😔

HI DHANYA JI, You said it.... Life have different things to offer... The majority of INDIAN population linguistic socially, economically & educationally.... You are emphasising about you & your kind.... YOU never came across catastrophic struggling lives which many amidst us.....

Pursuit of happyness...❣️

All those 10 things 👌👌👌👌 Withstanding all those pressures are really harder mam .. And those words about communication is pakka.. Lots of love Thank you. Keep going. Take care 🥰🥰

Mam... I am on my 20...and i known about so many facts that i was done as mistakes.. Thanku a lot mam for this message☺️

Yet another insightful video Madam , we are expecting more frequent ones .

@iamwithdhanyavarma

4 жыл бұрын

Will try my best to be more regular.. thanks for your support ❤️

Its the perfect time for me. I am just stepped into the twenties. And After watching this. I have to do so much work on myself. But now I am feeling much better . Thankyou