Enjoy this throwback Thursday video! Just in case you’re new or you missed it. It’s a few years old but the information is still worth it’s weight in gold.

@KnightGeneral

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks, Kev!

@tiphanydevilliers480

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you.

@dn-cp6sh

2 жыл бұрын

I miss the intro music!

@MalikaEsdelle

2 жыл бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽

@traceylennon1204

2 жыл бұрын

Yes it is Sir!! 🥇🥇🥇

Don’t deal with men who give you anxiety a man should make you feel comfortable and safe❤️

@ms.mtruth6169

2 жыл бұрын

🤗

@reesespieces450

2 жыл бұрын

Needed that 👍🏽🙏🏽❤❤

@ntokotom147

2 жыл бұрын

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

@traceylennon1204

2 жыл бұрын

Umm Zahra Very,VERY sound advice!!

@DatDyme980

2 жыл бұрын

MILLION DOLLAR ANSWER! ✨💯👌🏾

Do not invite strangers to your home on the first date. And don't accept invites to a stranger's house for the first date. Folks are too crazy out here.

@SonjaElizabethTeal

2 жыл бұрын

Amen!

@pfair774

2 жыл бұрын

I told my cousin this advice because she always has men come to her house or go over there's who she doesn't know from dating apps and she went off on me. One of the guys was actually crazy cuz he picked her up and they went to his city and she spent the night and got drunk and woke up to him trying to have sex with her while she was out. As much as I hate going out or being in public around a lot of people, I try to anyway to stick to my standards.

@sjay19babybaybay93

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Very True!

Celibacy makes things more clear

@christinewarren8134

2 жыл бұрын

This!

@someonespecial581

2 жыл бұрын

I am telling you

@gilliankingston8259

2 жыл бұрын

True, but it should be from choice not out of fear of encountering a man like this.

@opharahanglin9624

2 жыл бұрын

@@gilliankingston8259 that's why we stop. Fear. I'm okay with that.

@JvNelsonn

2 жыл бұрын

Girl!

When you know you have value , these red flags are instantly recognized! And a quick block .

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

@JvNelsonn

2 жыл бұрын

Yes ma'am! Peep game and move tf on.

@ImWORTHITINC

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly right Gf!!

@PreciousPeach910

2 жыл бұрын

I’m the block queen 👑 😂

@bree3258

2 жыл бұрын

Yes! Be blocked and be blessed!

A woman who is secure in herself and has honor and respect for herself is the best remedy for predatory men. When she is grounded in the truth and has healthy boundaries players don’t stand a chance. Thanks to Kev for educating, helping and encouraging woman.

@reesespieces450

2 жыл бұрын

Those traits are like bait to men tho I swear. Some guys they see your truths and boundaries and it's almost like a challenge to them to try and remove them/ break you down! Lol. Scary stuff! 😨

@profmj7630

2 жыл бұрын

Yes ma'am

@How.Dare.You.

2 жыл бұрын

Very rare kind of women

@jesssoreal

Жыл бұрын

TRUTH!

@spiritualqueen3423

8 ай бұрын

I learned that having boundaries is really protecting ourselves, and if someone doesn’t respect them then they have ill attention be cautious!! ⚠️ I rather be single, and wait to be in a relationship then to be stuck and taken advantage of by a man that doesn’t even love me. 😢

This video is on point. Especially downplaying your beauty. In my younger days I was with this guy for about 3 years and everytime we got into an argument he would say, "Dont nobody want you, who would want you." Or don't nobody want your skinny ass with that scar on your face." Then when we finally broke up. I ran into him a few years later. And he said this to me. "Damn girl you are still fine as hell." You look good. That is when I actually realized he was intentionally trying to screw up my self esteem. From that point on If a guy said anything negative about me even as a joke I would cut him off quick. Because sometimes it starts as a joke.

@WholeGrownWoman

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes that's a prelude to physical abuse. Glad you dodged that bullet.

@isla24bonita

2 жыл бұрын

Good for you! That happened to me as well. After second date I dumped his shitty old ass.

@Poodle_Gun

5 ай бұрын

"You can't do any better, and you also bore me in bed. I'm getting really tired of making the most of it."

@dianaverano7878

3 ай бұрын

If i hear those insults, i walk out and never to talk to me again. Ever. Those are boundaries

Kev is exactly right at the end. These guys aren’t looking to work hard to get you to lay on your back. These types of guys are looking for you to make up for all the distance they put in between you and them in order to validate their egos. Think about that next time you run into a low effort man, and how just how much he must value you as a person; which is very little. If he DID value you, he’d at least be honest and let you make a choice by telling you what he wants. If you feel pressure, you’re likely being played for a fool.

@sososanchez3512

2 жыл бұрын

@Jacob Yes.. He tell you & let you make the decision if you wanna play that part...

@bebois2529

2 жыл бұрын

Yep agree. I think feeling pressurised is a key indicator that your boundaries are not being honoured…that then gives opportunity for one to speak up the next step is to see how much attention and care or lack thereof they pay…

@FairyDragon9

2 жыл бұрын

FACTS‼️

@vhayashi7369

2 жыл бұрын

Yep! I figured that out over a year ago and staying single!!!! It's all BS and games...

@crystalbluewire3339

2 жыл бұрын

Right on !

I will also add: Talking about an ex, or about any other woman. It is usually made with the intention to create a kind of insecurity that you are not attractive enough for a guy. I remember once, when I was dating someone, he told me that one of his female friends, was the most attractive woman in our martial arts class. I had joined this group 1 month ago at that time and the other girl and the dude had known each other for a couple of years. I told him, that if that was the case, he should bring her to a date and not me. Later I understood that they were in some kind of friends with benefits arrangement, so it was a nice choice of mine to never start something with him or give him more of my time.

@leesteal4458

2 жыл бұрын

You're correct.

@BeatrizMatias

2 жыл бұрын

You are so very right 👏🏽👏🏽

@gilliankingston8259

2 жыл бұрын

Sad if you were attracted to him but the most sensible option because if he thinks "friends with benefits" is a good idea/acceptable it's a relationship going nowhere; whatever age he may be he's too young/not mature enough.🌹

@rosemarie5489

2 жыл бұрын

@@gilliankingston8259 Yes, I think it was the best option to let him go. He was 30 at that time, I was 23. Maybe he thought that I was easily manipulated because I was much younger 😅.In addition I was very attracted towards him,I even thought I was in love with him. It was heartbreaking to let him go, but still, I am convinced it was the best for both of us.

@gilliankingston8259

2 жыл бұрын

@@rosemarie5489 You're right, older men will very often make a bee-line for younger women because they assume they will be easier to manipulate because of their age - that doesn't say anything good about men who would be prepared to act like this.🌹

1. Limited phone talks . 2. Refuse to be emotionally connected or be vulnerable , doesn't listen to your problems , detached emotionally. 3. Run over your boundaries but stick tight to theirs . 4. Don't respond to calls or texts fast enough . This makes you accept his challenge. 5. Refuse to wine and dine you to prep you for minimal effort . 6. Focused sexually. 7. They down play how attracted to you they are even when they are attracted to u ,to keep you wondering if you'll ever be enough . 8. Light put downs 9. Act hot and cold on purpose . Hot sexually , cold emotionally. 10. Leave as soon as they have sex with you .

@ka8155

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you. Just blocked and deleted an ex boyfriend who has all those traits. Boy be gone!

@iamaleo247

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the bullet points! 💯🎯🎯🎯

@anxioverted7501

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you ❤️

@A-list

2 жыл бұрын

Funny I've done most of the above I am a female 😆

@loganross4774

2 жыл бұрын

Thank you

Take this seriously! This list are all characteristics of narcissists. Don't fall victim to narcissistic abuse

@Rose-ez2fm

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly! It is the worst type of abuse ever.

@SanctifiedLady

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely is!! Simply put! Monsters among us

@KFMServices

Жыл бұрын

So true! Please stay away from a narcissist 😢

This honestly makes me want to cry…why do people play all these games it’s so exhausting…life is too short. Don’t let a bad behaviour of one or 2 stop you from believing in love. It’s really tough out there. I think online dating is the devils playground.

@mhharley

2 жыл бұрын

💯💯👍🏽👍🏽

@thartsoe1

2 жыл бұрын

So sad Really.. why play games ??

@knowlegeispower.bym.f816

2 жыл бұрын

Dating in general, u have to pay attention, n protect urself.

@brittneysilver2351

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it's exhausting because if I have to play games to counter someone else's game play I'm no better than them. The good news is that if there are game players there are real ones who are authentic. Just be authentic and you will likely attract the same in due time.

Man this really hit home and made me sad. My ex was like this and I dumped him once I realised it. Never compliments, emotionally detached, never responding to text messages on time, never supporting me emotionally, no effort to connect or get to know me, downplaying his attraction to me. Slightly putting me down, little digs here and there. He clearly was trying to eat away at my confidence and it worked for a short period of time until I remembered who the fuck I was. I dumped him and blocked his ass and never looked back. He got sex once but after that I was out! Better late than never as far as I'm concerned.

Oof. 8:05 “Some of y’all are disgusted right now. I am too. …..I’m disgusted that IT WORKS!” ~Kev Hick Mic drop…he’s absolutely correct

My ex has all the 10 signs you talked about. I laughed at all of them. Even I was disgusted with myself cuz I held on to him for 4 years. Thank God I found myself. I'm good now. Thanks to you.😌

Self confidence, knowing your worth and not settling.. will eliminate all of that!!🙌🏽🙌🏽

@zelmahenry7300

2 жыл бұрын

Amen sis

@zxcccccc1

2 жыл бұрын

This is for people who aren't there, many women have been abused from childhood and grew up in foster care and are learning to love and value themselves.

@anna-kayecampbell1232

2 жыл бұрын

Eliminate *

@lolenawest3416

2 жыл бұрын

@@anna-kayecampbell1232 Wow! I didn’t even pay attention to that. Thank you for correcting me lol

@sisterselah5075

2 жыл бұрын

Most women in my experience say they won't settle but what they really mean is the man needs to be the woman and not them. Wanting a man to be effeminate is not the answer. Romance is bullshit. Truth, trust, and a strong, kind, take charge man who works and let's a woman be soft, feminine (not feminist), and a nurturer. I cannot understand why a woman dies not want to be kept by the RIGHT man.

"He may look like a foot..." 😂😂😂 Great points! Thanks for the video!

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

Forf :) They dont respond to calls or texts promptly or even at all. It makes you work harder ..makes you more willing to cross your own boundaries to get his attention...they take full advantage

"He may look like a foot" 🤣🤣🤣 Ladies if you don't love and respect yourself a guy will not love or respect you. Work on loving and validating yourself before seeking a relationship Don't take bull. Know your boundaries, know your value as a human being. When you love, respect and value yourself you become selective about only allowing a quality people into your life. You should NEVER beg for anyone's time or attention. If you do, that's how much they value you, not at all. People will treat you how YOU allow them to treat you. Guys will tell you what they want and what they're about from the first conversation. Women LISTEN! Don't try to reinterpret what he said. If he's vague, he doesn't want to be with you seriously. If he doesn't talk about being serious and wanting stability he is not looking for that. Next watch his actions, If he says one thing but does the opposite , it's time for you to go home, alone. Don't be thirsty, it's better to be alone and at peace. If you can't be at peace when you're alone, you have a lot of internal work to do on yourself.

@paiged6362

2 жыл бұрын

I agree with you 120% But there ARE cases, like mine, where it wasn't just toxicity or player vibes, but narcissism. That love bombing is SO for real. I met him at 37. Had confidence, self-esteem, independent, a traveler, great job, no kids....3 dogs, hell i even had a little pep in my step lol. I admit and accept my part. But when a persons ENTIRE plan is to lie, gaslight, steal, cheat, crush and just, try to leave you as empty and broken and suicidal as possible, and we arent familiar with that, at all....we never see it coming. I know NOW. But my God did it cost me.

@craftsentic1899

Жыл бұрын

Omgggggg dealing with this now!! I think I might be getting played by a forest Whitaker lookalike!!

@laken1804

9 ай бұрын

🦶🦶👣. And smell like a foot binding gone wrong.

Kev. You make me feel powerful. It's like when a group of people are plotting on ruining you while they're around you. Problem is that they speak a language you don't understand. Kev you are the translator that saves our lives.👏

@jannasterling4153

2 жыл бұрын

Great 👍 comment, I agree with you 💯 you are exactly right.

@sky22aje14

2 жыл бұрын

Ditto

@guacgirl

2 жыл бұрын

Exactly this. Alot of mistakes we.are making is because we dont understand our enemy's mindset. He is giving us clarity so we have a fighting chance.

Sad days we live in nobody knows how to date anymore or take people out on dates feel like some people just got so lazy that they only just invite you to their house and that’s it. You gotta watch out for many red flags and it’s like who has time for this anymore

@oneblessedladyallsbrook1057

2 жыл бұрын

Well said 👏

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

@LeileeBaker805

2 жыл бұрын

Crazy lazy strategies

@merinajalaya740

2 жыл бұрын

I think it's more so that so many women haven't required for them to do anything for the cat and even the ones with standards lower depending on the attraction or desperation. They will tell the guy they don't have sex on the first date but with the same guy they end up having sex with him on the first date. Sometimes they'll lose respect for you not because you gave it up so easily but the fact that you broke your boundaries for them. They low key want you to stick to your guns. Let your yes mean yes and no mean no. Also it's like working at a hard job that pays extremely well. If your job allows you to just sit around and do nothing and still get paid the same amount as before for a while. When it's time to work hard again for the same money it can become problem because you're use to getting it without jumping through hoops. And the reason why you have to watch for red flags is because we all in general will look for the most easiest route to accomplishing a goal that will benefit us in the long run. Men are great at reading us and shape shifting to what they know we want. But shape shifters always show some sign or another that they aren't really what they look and seem like. So you don't get trick by the bait you have to pay attention. Everyone is trying to get over on someone or something for a better quality of life.

@SharlenesJourney

2 жыл бұрын

Rinagade 💯💯💯

Pfft smh I'm so easily manipulated it makes me sick. Kev, thank you so much for helping me prevent & protect myself from further manipulation. You're protecting our vulnerable, endearing, beautiful,& loving feminine energies and I am forever grateful for your advice in these videos!!!🙏

At this point in my life, theres a few things I know to be true. People make time for what they truly want. They value what they view as special and valuable. They sacrifice and make sure you know your place in their lives is only a place you can hold. Alot of this video is 💯 I'm jus saddened it took a few decades flattened tires and busted heads to get here!

Lord! I experienced every single bit of this 2 years ago. Been trying to heal/grow from it ever since. God bless you for all you do. Silent supporter but I had to say that. You are SPOT on! Thank you.

@Deezy381

2 жыл бұрын

What are you doing to grow and heal from this.

My father was super manipulative to my mom. So was my brother. I adviced him at a young age to be a lawyer cause he'd be able to free anyone with his persuasiveness. My body is physically repulsed by manipulation and it causes me lots of anxiety, fear and anger. Manipulation is literally traumatic to me because of my childhood. I'm learning how to not be afraid of it, know my power and to not use it myself because i am capable of doing it better than any man i know. In the end i think I'm most afraid of myself being manipulative in a relationship rather than my partner. Anyway glad you're exposing these men, Kev

@sybersandy

2 жыл бұрын

Same here.

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

@lovely1641

2 жыл бұрын

Ugh. Same. It's so disturbing when you see ppl do it with a straight face and look at you like you're crazy. Like, that's a level of crazy mastery I hope I never reach. You can continue being manipulative but I'm pretty sure I'm gonna stick the same 'no' I said a minute ago. Say your little gaslighting speech and move on sir

@janey_oge8865

2 жыл бұрын

We are in the same boat...it is well😫

@TanEbear

2 жыл бұрын

@@janey_oge8865 yeah, no fun. I'm pushing and putting the mental health work in...i wish you the best on your journey.

"You can't F your way into a cold heart." Wow Kev, another zinger.

*As a man, I hope women learn from this and only pursue the good, honest, true men.*

Sadly have experienced all of these and several in multiple men. Took a while to clock the behavior and demand higher expectations. I was easily manipulated because of unhealed childhood trauma. In fact if ever approached now with this BS it's a hard pass because I am numb from all of the previous jokers. It's substance, respect, quality or nothing at all. I wish I could tag these beasts so all women would know from the gate, this not the one, move accordingly girlfriend. Thank you for sharing!! 🙏🏽❤

@SharlenesJourney

2 жыл бұрын

Omg Yesss they prey on women who are empathy and who have unsealed trauma cause they know that they can manipulate and act one one way and then totally change and become fake and do less for you smh these kind of people are so evil

@tukessahousen4983

2 жыл бұрын

This spot on ! Experience recently, the chipping away at confidence was so real ! Glad I for the heads up ! Blessings !

@crystalbluewire3339

2 жыл бұрын

Throw in the up down bitch look and wave your hand buh- bye. I hope that did not offend you. You are 100% right.

I wouldn’t have thought this type of malicious men exist if it wasn’t because of my own experience with one of them

@someonespecial581

2 жыл бұрын

Unless a man is madly in love with you, they are often predatory

@swiftkarma4436

2 жыл бұрын

@@someonespecial581 it's true and sick

@someonespecial581

2 жыл бұрын

@@swiftkarma4436 Hmmm

Good job. To put it simply, if the man doesnt worship the ground you walk on, find one who does. You want a man who ruins your lipstick, not your mascara.

Amen! This is awesome. Never settle for any mistreatment period. You are loved and valued by God.

@ibstayfly

2 жыл бұрын

Periodt Gods property

Block em ladies

Hunni I was sitting at my desk at work when he said "He may look like a foot." I about hollered 😭😊 Keep hope alive!! Nothing but truth telling.

So many times you are dead on. This is one of them. I’ve definitely seen most or all of this list, and left. Due to channels like yours, I’m much more educated in these things.

I had an old @$$ dude try ALL of these with me. Then had the nerve to be mad & surprised when he got ghosted!

@SonjaElizabethTeal

2 жыл бұрын

The audacity of you not accepting his b*llshit! How DARE you? (insert heavy sarcasm here) 😅😅😅😅😅

@TheNisiu

2 жыл бұрын

@@SonjaElizabethTeal right!!! 🤣🤣🤣

@roseinharlem8152

2 жыл бұрын

Those older men are the worst. Acting like that looking how they be looking.

Wow this is confirmation. I had a guy I just had one convo with say I wanna meet in person no real convo on the phone, says he dont make plans, and was disrespectful with cursing at me. Like I dont know you sir!

Know your self worth ladies

I must commend you on this and all of your other videos. Being married over 30 years, I can concur on every piece of advice you give. I have shared this channel with my daughter and nieces, somehow a male perspective goes over better than what “Mama and Auntie” tries to tell them💜

@floydwhite1338

2 жыл бұрын

Smart mother and wife. I plan on doing the same. As well as continuing to relay our family principles, in a loving and encouraging way, which starts with me and my wife's testimony of courtship.

@Naallaa

2 жыл бұрын

He is awesome 👌

@illusionist1244

2 жыл бұрын

i wish my mom would do this when i were younger

@traceylennon1204

2 жыл бұрын

AMEN🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

my first love had almost everything on the list. some guys are just natural. thank you, the video is very informative

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

I've been abandoned and rejected by my family, friends and husband all my life... Spent most of my childhood alone. I'm an INFJ too... So anyone threatening abandonment, please leave! Doesn't bother me at all! I LOVE my PEACE and freedom from Narcissist abuse and NEVER accepting bullshit or abuse from anyone again! I will be alone forever before I accept or settle for bullshit! I laugh when people play games and threaten to leave. I have some amazing friends I treasure and my kids. I have a friend who has had the life from Hell and guys try to talk to her about nonsense and she tells them to leave and says "Don't stop and keep on going!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I think Kev just gave up the Playbook, Ladies! WoW! Thank you, Brother!⚘

I must admit I appreciate hearing these points even though sometimes its damn obvious to see, but when you are an emotional species as a woman all you hoping for is just a stable and loving relationship, men knows what we want as a woman and they play on our vulnerability.!!!

So glad he used the word “converse” instead of “conversate” 😂

@someonesomewhere9254

2 жыл бұрын

What's the difference ? I'm not a native speaker

@leesteal4458

2 жыл бұрын

How dare you?! Kev is smart. Why do you think he would do that? Is it because he is Black?

@User-uw7uw

2 жыл бұрын

@@leesteal4458 the commenter is literally black. Are you okay?

@leesteal4458

2 жыл бұрын

@@User-uw7uw It doesn't matter if she is Black. Are you okay? Aren't you aware of the fact that some Black people put down, underestimate and disrespect each other because they do not value their worth? Why would she think that a consistently articulate man such as he, would use a word that simply does not exist?

@jenniferwalden6862

2 жыл бұрын

@@leesteal4458 exactly. And so what if he would've said conversate instead of converse. The point is whether or not you understood the message.

I've been listening to your advice for a while and I'm so thankful for it. It took awhile for me to catch on but I finally dodging bullets and leaving manipulative man where's where they at! I require more and I will remain celibate until I find the right one‼️ thanks Kevin, you like the big brother I never had

I've never seen your videos, but clicked and watched this today. Glad I did. You are so articulate, how you bring light on why men with bad intentions do what they do and how it relates to you. Breaking it down giving the reason as to why they do things like lightly insulting you to create insecurity therefor creating the need in women to "make up" for what the man has made them believe is a lacking in themselves. I've never heard it broken down that way, very helpful. Coming from a woman, keep doing what your doing.

This video is speaking nothing but facts! I wasted most of my 20's attracting these types of men. If I had watched this video while I was in those situations I wouldn't have received this well. I would have made excuses and stayed in denial while collecting the small breadcrumbs I was receiving. The old me would have said "well hes showing 9 out of 10 of these signs so he must be different" oor "my man is just busy" ooor my favourite "maybe if I stick around he'll change with time" lol. I can laugh about it now but I cried many tears over these men. Ladies, make sure your self esteem is up and you are confident in yourself and truly happy with yourself. If you truly know and love yourself, these types of men will have no chance because you will know that you are worth way more than this type of treatment.

Never tell a guy you love them first always make sure there the ones who say it to you first

I just love his videos. He’s funny and straightforward. Thank you Kevin for caring!! 🥰🥰

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

It’s not just about knowing your value or worth. It’s about ending generational curses. You can’t do better if you don’t know better. These actions might be normal if that’s all a person knows, so it’s not that a woman doesn’t know her “value” or “worth”.

@candacecasey5634

2 жыл бұрын

Sometimes it is just because they perceive you as being more vulnerable than you actually are. You know nothing about someones self esteem unless you know them. Unfortunately they can be very persistent so you have to be " stubborn" when establishing boundaries.

"He may look like a foot." That's too funny.

Yes what Kev said demand more....I can guarantee if you make them wait longer than six weeks most will move on when they are not up to any good

This guy pursued me for 4 months. I ignored him. Spoke only when he spoke to me. He asked for my number. I said no. He asked everyday he saw me for weeks. I became flattered. So I finally gave it to him for being consistent. He’s never called, just text. He’s displayed 4 of the red flags in this video. He won’t ask me out because he said he’s waiting on me. I told him, “I guess you’ll be waiting”. We haven’t talked since. I’m wondering now if this is the 5th red flag he’s displaying which is the pull away method? Thank you Kev, cause I was gonna say something. But, now I’m just gonna let this one go. He’s cut off.

Listen I didn’t realize all of this until today. I grew up shelter and met my fiancé and he is all 10 in this list. He lied, cheated, etc, etc. everything. I have never been this heart broken in my life. This guy hit everything so far and I feel like crying my eyes out

@shirleysaint-remy7115

2 жыл бұрын

My love, if this is so, carefully and safely remove yourself from the relationship. All narcissists behave this way. It’s all about control. I was told what you see is magnified 10x when married. I had the same experience, nearly got engaged, but cut the relationship fast. His fiery, demonic reaction of breaking it off solidified that I dodged a bullet and lifetime of regrets. Please, please, please. Don’t go forward with the engagement. He won’t change. And even if he begs you back, don’t be fooled again. Like children, women like stability and safety. If he can’t provide that emotionally, physically and financially, LEAVE.

@anjuliquesvlog6935

5 ай бұрын

@@shirleysaint-remy7115 We broke, I moved out. Making more money. Met someone else who has a career going for himself. We both are working together to merge our lifestyles and build a family. Life has been good, you live and you learn. The ex has been calling and calling 😂😂😂 apologizing, telling me how changed he has been. Mind you he’s blocked but u get voice messages.

Yes indeed, what’s the big rush take your time ladies and gentlemen find out what they’re hiding 🙈 if he’s a good person you will definitely find out in time .

If a guy is acting flaky and doesn't respond to my texts I delete his number and keep it moving✌

Effortlessly reinforcing real shit with humor! Dope videos. 🙏🏾

Yes Keep coming with the videos 💯

Grateful for this!

So true, thank you. 💛

Damn!! This ish is right on point!!! Thank you, Kev!

So spot on , you're good!

Ladies this information is all FACTS ....USE IT TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE! GOD BLESS YOU KEVIN.

Very awesome throwback 👏 thank you Kev

Kevin, thank you immensely for protecting women from players by describing their game playing tactics, so they can easily be identified by women and avoided. Your wife must be very proud of you for protecting women from players. God must also be very grateful to you for protecting his daughters. I am certain that God blesses you for all your work. I am very grateful to you and appreciate your help as always. May God bless you Kevin.

Amazing video...it's right on point

You give the best advice that I've ever received and Thank You so much!

Love your videos! Great advice and straight to the point ! Thank you!

Love the video. Awesome content and very easy to understand. Thank you for breaking down game 101!

Thank you Kev!! Always on point. 🦋🦋

One guy tried to make fun of my height. I’m very short. Like I’m ashamed of being short. I’m not. That was his hang up not mine! Or was it for manipulation? I thought so.

@sybersandy

2 жыл бұрын

Here one date held my face with both hands, looked at me and told me he d liked my.. ears :))))).

after the whole Dababy & Danileigh debacle. I needed a refresher thanks Kev

@mayaj2354

2 жыл бұрын

I assume you haven't seen zac stacy video yet? You're gonna need to read a bible after seeing that 😩 tf is wrong with men these days.. smh

@scooby1970m

2 жыл бұрын

@@mayaj2354 just horrible. Almost unbelievable 🥺

@Pursuepeace0715

2 жыл бұрын

@@mayaj2354you are right I needed the bible after watching that. I saw the Zac stacy video recently and I was at a loss for words!! He almost killed that girl and throwing her around infront his baby like that againstthe TV and the baby'sbouncy toy. The ex girlfriend said the police didn't believe her so she risked her life getting him on video. We need to be careful out there and the first sign of problems we need to leave. the first time he put his hand on her she should have ended things.

Ooooweee. Had 2 listen twice. Great stuff!!!!!!

Love these Throwbacks ❤️

Great video. Much love ladies knowledge is power!

Oh my Kev its all so tru!!!! Love your advice ❤.

Another good one from you, Kev!

Great watch! I'm glad I got to see this video

Love your videos thank you for this ❤

Thank you for this invaluable advice, Kevin!! After 28 years of marriage and divorce, a woman is out of touch with how single men think.... and what they'll do to get their way🙏💖🌈He actually did "open up" emotionally to trap me, said I'm the only one he's felt connected to....

Love your channel! Thank you!❤

Yesss please, this is definitely a MUST WATCH!!! Thank you!

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

Very insightful..wish I knew these signs sooner. Thanks for enlightening us Kev!

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.....

What Kevin really meant is.... RUUUUNNNN.

@SonjaElizabethTeal

2 жыл бұрын

ROFLMAO!!!

Thank you for this reminder!! Whew, Lord!!

Thanks for the advice. I'll admit I was a little triggered when he said "I'm disgusted it actually works". But after some thought I realized why. It's not that women are dumb or gullible. It's because we have been conditioned to aspire to having love and relationships. We even desire them more than men. Just as men have been conditioned to aspire to having money and wealth and they generally desire it even more than women. Both men and women seek validation from these things respectively and are often desperate to have them. Just the way many women fall victim to players is the same way many men fall victim to get-rich-quick-schemes. There are many cases of it in my country. I think the first step to being immune to playboy tricks is to first knock down love from that pedestal in your mind. I'm not saying you should abandon love. I'm saying you shouldn't make it a priority. There is so much more to life than to be actively seeking love or worse begging for it. Focus on other parts of your life, physically, emotionally, financially. Be well rounded. And this might sound cheesy but love will find you at the right time. I know it's easier said than done cos even in the media and movies there are many stories of women actively seeking love and finding it and having cute endings. All that gets embedded in our subconscious and make us want it more and even become desperate for it. I would advice weaning yourself from that kind of content till you get your priorities straight. Cos think about it. You can't be scammed for something you're not crazy about.

Brilliant information ❣❣❣

With all those guys doing that stuff, I think I’ll validate my own self.

@lizh1970

11 ай бұрын

Lol , yes your better doing it yourself x

Wow. U are the best. I had a dude do all these to me before 1 dude at that. Worst situations hip I’d ever got myself in, was a complete mess. I left months ago. Still healing myself. I’ll never forget his mon came over she 68-70 years and she’s still looking good. We had relations earlier that day, and when he walks in he’s like mom you fly. I’m like yea you look nice. He told her mom your hair sharp, your outfit nice and look at your purse and u got your shoes matching. And look at your nails blah blah blah blah blah and I mean he went on and on. In all he had said about 20/30 things to compliment her while never saying 1 thing about me. I don’t compete with no man mom and I’m glad he praise her but you can say all that to her u can acknowledge me too even if u had said girl u look good too, he said nothing I felt terrible inside. That was really a trying time for me. I know any real decent man would’ve included me at the least if they were truly interested in me.

Whew lawd! Dating is toooo much these days. 😥 This was a great reminder though on how we need to carry ourselves ladies. Thanks Kev. 🤗

@sophiadavid498

2 жыл бұрын

±2348101867472⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up......

Another great video with much needed brotherly advice.

The big brother we always needed. God is going to bless you with a Queen my brother 🤴🏽💯

Thx. 4 this video. I really appreciated it

WELL SPOKEN KEV🙌👍

Thanks, Kev.

I wish I heard this messages years ago 🤦🏾‍♀️ but I’m glad I’m in a receptive mind set these days, and this message is a gem within this healing journey I’m on 🙏🏾

Thank you You are a light in a very dark world. I appreciate your frankness. You are saying all the things a good father should. Blessings

Very helpful!!!

You are so bright and honest!!!! Thank you for restoring my faith in humanity! The timing of this is mind blowing! Thank~You

Thanks Kev!!!

Thank you so much Kev