I hate that I have to parent myself as an adult. That i have to validate myself with touch to feel loved. That i have to look up ways to stand up for myself and that it had to be this way... I'm so tired of it and wasn't ready to enter the real world with so many childhood wounds. Not only that I'm the only one that really gets it.. communicating these wounds with others they count it off as insignificant

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

@talitabotana6992

Жыл бұрын

If you wanna someone to Talk to I'll be more than happy. I am going through the same and think people like us could feel more understood and cared for if we can call talk about it and share our experiences between us. Send you a hug from Spain ❣️

@MakaylaCole123

Жыл бұрын

Wow I feel the same way. I hate that I have to do all this work as an adult because I wasn't loved properly.

@aubriellemorgan

Жыл бұрын

Same here 😔

@SofiUk0319

Жыл бұрын

I love your words, they hit me particularly hard today.. it will never be right that it is now up to us to change and move forward. I can't stand hearing just those words sometimes, because the depth of the pain is beyond than well you need to just move forward now . Thank you and God bless ❤️

I get resentful as a kid i got abused and as an adult i have to work 10 times harder than others just to get to where they are-the gift that just keeps on giving.

@trysmarter1014

2 жыл бұрын

I get that way, but then I look at the little ones- I SEE the little ones, how half sized, adorable, and vulnerable they are- I think of what I went through at their age- I can't imagine them going through what I went through. I think of what they've been spared from, and I'm grateful, so (expletive deleted) grateful. Our efforts to correct our dysfunctional childhood programing will ripple onwards into the future and change the outcomes for generations to come, if we're lucky.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

@HindustaniQueen

2 жыл бұрын

🙏 Thank you for creating this content to help heal the collective 🌠

@chesterini

Жыл бұрын

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@chesterini

Жыл бұрын

@@trysmarter1014 ookk@@999887))?8888809

I cried almost the entire video. I thought I was over it. I'm not mad at my mom, but the damage it caused was huge. Just venting....

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

You may want to explore this with a professional counselor. You can find other therapists via Psychology Today search: allceus.com/Psychology_Today_Therapist_Search If you are interested in Virtual EMDR therapy: allceus.com/Virtual_EMDR Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

@kosovir

2 жыл бұрын

oh please, stop it.

@talitabotana6992

Жыл бұрын

@@kosovir ?

@CynthiaSchoenbauer

Жыл бұрын

This is sooo good. When you cry because you're recognizing what and who was not there for you, you are touching the child. You can do a lot in that place to make up for what you did not get! I am in the same situation and when I pay attention, there is someone inside who breathes a sigh and says "thank you, finally!"

@toby7582

Жыл бұрын

It took me about 9 minute to break. I've been homeless on and off for about 30 years thanks in no part to coming from an abusive family.

I experienced severe physical abuse along with neglect...my childhood was a traumatic nightmare...I forgave my parents yet at 61 still have PTSD and can get triggered when I see a child or animal neglected....it's a gut wrenching surge of emotions for me!!

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

@gwortman3515

Жыл бұрын

@@DocSnipes your videos really help me to better understand the root causes of why I turned out to be who I am and measures to take to better understand and heal myself. The healing process for me never stops.

@julieannmaloney7187

9 ай бұрын

Me too

@ceterisparibus8966

6 ай бұрын

​@@gwortman3515 You have a lot more work to do, it looks like. I wish you well.

@gothope5915

14 күн бұрын

Keep healing, imagine if you were as unaware as you used to be. I'm encouraged that at 61 you are still moving forward.

I’m 41 and am just realizing what it is that’s been my issue/s all my life, I thought I had a personality disorder or just emotionally detached, but the more I listen about CEN, this explains a lot about my entire life!

@DocSnipes

4 ай бұрын

I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video

When I imagine my kids being treated like I was makes me irate. How could adults care so little and screaming is not problem solving. Thanks for letting me vent. Love y'all

@WackadoodleMalarkey

2 жыл бұрын

Nothing but anything boils my blood faster than optics looking like parents dumping their own shortfalls on their children. I hear ya bud

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

@kosovir

2 жыл бұрын

you're not showing compassion. you're not better than anyone else, you're blind.

@Exodus26.13Pi

2 жыл бұрын

@@kosovir I always ask for forgiveness and love them. I still would ring their necks.

@KimJilene

6 ай бұрын

Screaming is not problem solving - PREACH 🙌🏾 Too many of us were subject to this kind of explosive parenting on the regular. Now we have to pick up the pieces of this damaging type of communication and re-teach ourselves how to communicate effectively. It is hard work but we can get there 🦾

I am in therapy and been workimg on this for a year now but every now and then there are days were the resentment gets back to me and makes so sad. At least now I allow myself to feel the pain, cry a bit and move on little by little. But it takes a lot of my energy not to want to abandon myself.

I needed this, a lot. I very much appreciate this. I am almost 29, better late than never, and want to stop the cycle. Thank you

@yasmino6387

2 жыл бұрын

Always said this. Better late than never.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

@CynthiaSchoenbauer

Жыл бұрын

Almost 67 and much better late than never. A lot of years of pain can be turned around. It's what we came here to do anyway... so might as well do it while we are here.

@liadhainsmith

Жыл бұрын

@Babs Kaz

@harrydijkshoorn6399

Ай бұрын

29 is young to be aware of this. Well done!

Thank you, I feel very blessed to have gotten the opportunity to see this video. 🙏 💝

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

Thank you. This was exactly what I googled not too long ago, "how to overcome childhood emotional neglect"

I am age 63 now, still affected by childhood neglect and family who never gets together, we left each other alone all these years. The only time the six of us (kids) got together after we left home was when my mother died in 2017. Never again. This was very good, thank you, but it triggers up a lot of yucky feelings even to this day.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome. I am sorry the video triggered unpleasant memories and I appreciate you watching it. What did you find most useful from it?

Thank you Dr S! The damage of parental neglect and abuse is life altering n extremely difficult to heal from. It requires daily discipline n a recovery team. Ur lucky if uve survived the physical. The damage is beyond bruises n stitches that eventually heal. Parents should be held accountable in criminal Court. I grew up w repulsive conditions while these people smile to The world that look like pillars in the community.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

I truly appreciate you watching!

What can I say....Neglected, sexually abused by a stranger, physically abused and beaten up regularly, emotionally blackmailed by my mother and invalidated by my father. A psychologist dream. After many KZread videos, I am just starting to make sense of my childhood experience and where I am today. They say what doesn't break you down makes you stronger, not sure about that, but better to be aware of how and who we are, than wondering in the emotional world without a clue. Yes it is very painful, especially for someone that was born with very high expectation from himself (Capricorn). If I can take one single advise from this wonderful video as the most important, is assertiveness and been able to communicate our emotions and needs openly. Yes it will be a hit and miss with people reaction, but it will be great for my self-esteem.

@DocSnipes

6 ай бұрын

I am sorry your childhood was so traumatic and I appreciate you watching the video and sharing

@KimJilene

6 ай бұрын

Your comment really resonated with me. My heart goes out to you for all the awful experiences you have been through. You are a survivor and a fighter and I don’t know you but I am sending positive vibes out to you and I am ROOTING FOR YOU. We can get through the pain and anguish and be stronger and better for it. It is part of our story and our journey to being the wonderful people we are destined to be. ❤😊

@lucianogiudice8569

6 ай бұрын

@@KimJilene Thank you Kim, if it can be of any help trough out my research for help, I found that mindfulness and meditation does wonders, I belive I have a borderline personality disorder and CBT therapy can also help a lot, other tools are familiarising with the concept of Sadow (Carl Jung) and Sadowork, and try to get rid of addictions. I hope you find some pace on your life and get back you self estime. Love L

@harrydijkshoorn6399

Ай бұрын

Bless you.

I was a child from divorced parents. My mother had to bring up 3 kids. She worked 12 hours a day and also on Saturdays. We were alone. A lot. And than she became depression and panic attacks, as the middle child ( I was the elder of 2 daughters), I had to take care of my younger sister, of my mother. I was 12! We were not allowed to say no, my mom wanted me to read her mind … i love her but that was not funny and easy. As an adult I also have 3 kids, but I am a stay at home mom ( I think I try to heal my wounds this way), but I also get depression and panic attacks. I am now in therapy. I hope a find my way and a fulfilling relationship.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you watching. Other videos that might help can be found at: kzread.infosearch?query=innerchild and kzread.infosearch?query=CPTSD

I’m so glad to have come across this video, it’s extremely validating. I have definitely been abandoning myself, and it’s time to take care of me. Thank you 💕

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it? Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzread.infosearch?query=innerchild

Thank you so much. 🙏 You really understand our pain. You've pointed out things I need to continually work on to be a better person. I know I'll battle with the trauma for the rest of my life, but now I have the tools to accept it and grow.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

So glad my videos are helpful to you. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

I didn’t even accept I was neglected until my 40’s when I had my first child. My emotional dependence on my mother was so powerful that I was unable to see it. The consequences for me is the inability to maintain enduring relationships 😞

@DocSnipes

10 ай бұрын

I am so sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video. Here is the video on healing the wounded inner child: kzread.info/dash/bejne/e39-stapkbG2YqQ.htmlsi=_nP_R6ZZbp94XGrc

Thanks for this video. I am now married to someone that is just like my mom. Invalidates feelings, etc. understanding that this happening as it did when I was a child, gives me a very different perspective. I know now I have to find my nurturing parent in myself. It’s really hard, but this helps.

@DocSnipes

10 ай бұрын

Sorry to hear that. I appreciate you watching the video

When I feel my inner child coming to the surface, I take a mental health day and I listen to a playlist with some of the most comforting songs I've ever heard. The second verse really speaks to me. "Troubled little angel Inconsistent, flying blind most of the time Don't know who to be, yeah Always rearranging the Wreckage of her life Ever holding tight To the hope that she'll be free"

@DocSnipes

2 ай бұрын

Awww. I love that. Thank you for watching the video and for sharing

Thank you so much for this presentation, it is extremely helpful. Can you do a video for adult survivors overcoming childhood neglect, as parents, to parent their children in a healthy way, opposite from childhood neglect? Thank you again, your words are powerful and bring awareness.

Doc Snipes, this training is awesome. Excellent examples and use of real life situations!

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

@esthermangula4731

2 жыл бұрын

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@esthermangula4731

2 жыл бұрын

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She is so great. I wish I had heard this years ago. Thank youy so much for putting the time into this.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Very welcome. Thanks for watching.

That is really interesting. I have talked with a therapist quite a lot and have done mental health programs, but I feel like still learned something from watching this. One thing that clicked for me watching this is realizing how I never felt like I had any help, like no one cared about me. And that has made me feel like I can't have any assurance that things will work out for me. I was even getting to the point of thinking that it's a good thing that no one cares about me because then I could learn to look after myself. I have learned that it's important to be responsible for myself, but I still have those feelings that I would never get any help if I needed it, and that can create anxiety for me and paralyze me sometimes into shutting down and avoiding problems. But I think that is really extreme thinking I picked up from my parents who have their own mental health problems. I think that if I became sick or needed help with something for some reason, that there would be someone available to help me to get through it. I would do the same for someone I cared about, so there should be someone who cares about me like that. That paralyzing anxiety I've had since childhood I think also made me believe that I am incapable of looking after myself and that I couldn't become a responsible self regulating adult. But that really was just an unhealthy mindset I learned from my parents. At every step of taking better care of myself and being more responsible I am always surprised that things just work out, as if it were some sort of miracle, rather than an outcome that is supposed to be the norm.

@DocSnipes

9 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching and for sharing

@KimJilene

6 ай бұрын

Loved your comment. I have become fiercely independent too because I learned from a young age that I could not count on my parents due to their inconsistent behaviour. Despite not relying on anyone, I never really took care of myself and because a people pleaser to help everyone else. I made myself small to appease my parents growing up and I continued to do that in adulthood. I am now learning to stand up for myself and advocate for myself so I can live more authentically for me.

Thank you for sharing this knowledge. Learning about childhood emotional neglect from a tiktok video felt revelatory...I'm trying to learn all I can about its impacts and ways to overcome it now so I can stop feeling so bad all the time, and I appreciate that you put this out here to help others on the same journey.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. What strategies will you use first to overcome childhood neglect? Here are some videos on the inner child: kzread.infosearch?query=innerchild

“There are indeed stewards whose own contradictory nature causes them to treat the children entrusted to them in so unreasonable a fashion that the children’s illness would appear to be unavoidable.” Carl Jung, The Theory of Psychoanalysis

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

On the spot addressing such complex issue on a short span of time.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

THANK YOU DR SNIPES, I'M SAVING THIS ON ALL MY PLAYLIST

At 66 I often wonder why my mom told my dad, “we have ignored her long enough” (used my name) in front of me when I was 8. Nothing changed. It’s mind numbing.

@DocSnipes

Ай бұрын

I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video

Thank you so much for this video. It makes me aware that it's time to heal my inner child.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

thank you from the bottom of my soul !!! took notes and will work on every bit of information

what i find particularly difficult as an adult is not feeling "Allowed" to have what i want. Therapists and gurus tell me all i have to do is ask, to receive but i have trouble conceptualizing the ideal. For exam[e, she would encourage singing cus she liked singing in the car, but when i was a 4 YO, asking for Piano lessons, i wasn't allowed. Years later I'm an excellent singer but i flunked piano lab in music school, Another time she bought me some darts, i got really good at it. because i felt i had permission. I want my childhood back, but i see it clearly now, it was the Roman Catholic church, (in my families case), and i cant blame them although i did for years...

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for watching. I am sorry you feel that way. Some videos that might help can be found at: kzread.infosearch?query=innercritic Please let me know if these help. Thank you!

Thank you for your great videos Mrs. Snipes- this one may help me hopefully.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

Self medication is helpful. I feel normal. Mom and dad never gave advice. Mom knew I discarded her when I was 8 years old and just went with it. I was at a friend's bday party and it clicked, "I've never had a party and don't matter" Don't need anyone or anything. When I make a decision it is absolute.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

I am so sorry about that and I am grateful and I appreciate you being here, watching videos. What tips will you use first to overcome childhood neglect?

You have a lot of ‘feels’ regarding this topic❤️👶Thank you for sharing & advocating.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching!

Thanks for the road map, I have needed it for so long. Now finding the route in my own way

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Glad I could help. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

Thank you for this healing and informative message.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome. Thanks for watching.

I am very grateful for youtube and doctors like you for making these videos. They are very healing. Thank you for the work you do.

@DocSnipes

5 ай бұрын

You’re most welcome. Thank you for watching the video

Thank you! 🙏🏻It has helped me to notice some steps that I had not followed yet to get the healing I need.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

I can't thank you enough for this. So clear and validating.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching.

This is such a great training! Thank you!

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome

Excellent presentation! Thank you so much!

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome. I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most helpful from it?

Great information Doc Snipes thank you 🙌🏻☀️

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome

Thank you so much for this video. It is extremely helpful.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

You're very welcome!

Bless you Dr Dawn thank you!!!

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome. Thanks for watching.

Thank you for this video it makes me feel like it’s not my fault that I feel like this sometimes

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome. Thanks for watching.

thank you so much for this! you are a lifesaver, literally

@DocSnipes

4 ай бұрын

You are so welcome!

Thank you so much for this great information.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

wow this was extremly helpful

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Wonderful. Thanks for watching.

Thank you for this clear presentation about how to overcome emotional neglect. ❤

@DocSnipes

3 ай бұрын

You’re most welcome. Thanks for watching

I'm impressed. You are a very knowledgeable therapist. Subscribed.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Welcome aboard!

this is gold

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. What strategy will you use first to overcome childhood neglect? Here are the videos on the inner child you might be interested in: kzread.infosearch?query=innerchild

S o glad I just found this am writing down notes,this is sohelpful.

Thank you for this video . After much searching I found you. I couldn’t believe that this is not talked about more in depth by others. I have been on a healing journey for over 25 years. I still struggle with the impact of not being physically and emotionally protected. When you finally said the words “ physically safety “ I was relieved. I experience poverty, neglect in every possible form and shape and although I understand that my mother was traumatized herself, but forgiving our parents doesn’t help to resolve the anguish and bodily terror that I feel when confronting the world and “ adults matters” as in some areas I feel incapacitated / not capable / damaged/ missing the “ how to.” I took many notes, so that I can actually do some of the exercises you mentioned on this video - for example , I love to journal so I will journal about my needs back then, the grieve of what never was and my most pressing issue -the physical safety I didn’t get. Please make more videos on how can we create safety as adults ?!!! Thank you!

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

You’re so welcome. I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video. What did you find most useful from it? Here are the videos on safety: kzread.infosearch?query=safety

@bpassion4fashion581

Жыл бұрын

@@DocSnipes what I found most useful was to put name to the many things that remain in the “ invisible world “. Terms such as “ lack of physical safety “ and “ the child’s safety need “ that was huge for me to hear, as no one has ever acknowledged how traumatizing fending for y that can be when being so young and vulnerable . Other things like the parent “ not being physically available.” That went straight to my heart bc my mom was never around for no apparent reason. She didn’t drank , nor was an addict of any kind , but now that I know better and studied psychology myself , I know she was disassociated all the time. At this point is not about blaming , but putting name to the invisible wounds so I can continue the process of healing. How could anyone grieve if there is no name for what happened ?! Since your video , I have done some inner work with the help of my journal and the extra chair and I now have hope that I can shake up and release the energy of terror in my body. I’ll tell you this , yesterday was the first time I was able to see my terrified little girl as separate from the adult me . I still don’t know what am I going to do to provide her with safety bc my fantasy was that a man would give me that. Needless to say, I haven’t been that lucky ! But seeing her for the first time helped with the flow of communication between the two parts of the psych. Thank you 🙏 please make more videos like this for childhood neglected children . It is the wound no one can’t see !

This is really good stuff

This is a very important video.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Ty

Thank you for helping others w your content.

@DocSnipes

7 ай бұрын

You’re most welcome. Thank you for watching

Just found Channel and subscribed

Hawa sabata Ahab. Thank you for ur lessons ur erudition & dispelling of mentality has been a delight to acquire.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

Thank you so much

@DocSnipes

6 ай бұрын

You're most welcome

The best moments of my life are going to sleep at night, when my husband cuddles me and i feel safe and warm. Something I didn't have before him. Everything else in being alive sucks or, like, okay. If I could just lie down forever with or even without him, just being asleep, I would be so happy.

@DocSnipes

Ай бұрын

Thanks for watching the video and for sharing

Thankyou so much for this video. I developed BPD, and this information and suggestions are very useful to me. Thanks.

@DocSnipes

10 ай бұрын

You're very welcome! Thank you for watching the video. Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzread.infosearch?query=BPD Helpful videos can also be found at: kzread.infosearch?query=DBT

Thanks

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the tip!!

This video is very helpful. The bright side I've been in worse situations and came out like a Phoenix. I understand my Mom was under a tremendous amount of pressure and abuse from my psycho narcissistic "dad". She was literally up against impossible odds dealing the equivalent of a colicky infant that was supposed to be her spouse. She was just as much a victim as her children, I forgave her long ago. FF > I'm stuck with two siblings who just can't get it together. One unemployed for more than 3 years and the other is underemployed. I realize the pony is dead. I'm just standing in a field of shit.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video. What tips will you use first to overcome childhood neglect? Have you seen the videos on ACES? kzread.infosearch?query=aces

lord have mercy!!! i thought i had issues! and i do! but...my God!!!!!!!!!! THIS could have been me!!!! and now i've met the male me and hearing this woman talk about THIS PAIN is just...breaking my heart!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! i may as well just allow myself to cry though i am VERY GRATEFUL for this BEGINNING to my understanding of this pain!

@DocSnipes

7 ай бұрын

Thank you for watching the video and for sharing

@Doc Snipes - what about the effect of trauma on the brain development? How does childhood neglect affect the development of the brain? Can childhood development impair the ability to even seek help? Assertiveness is huge for me. The moment someone gets abusive, I have to stop.

Thank you so much! I'll be watching this video a lot to help me heal as it is dense and has a lot of really great information.

You are a smart woman

@DocSnipes

7 ай бұрын

Thank you. I appreciate you watching the video

Rising my self since 8 I didn't know any of this and can relate so much

@DocSnipes

Ай бұрын

I am sorry about that. Thanks for watching

How the hell did you know everything about me and my childhood?

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

I appreciate you watching

Detachment is my superpower.

@DocSnipes

2 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching and for sharing

Hi Doc Snipes!

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

HI

I see your point however when it comes to neglect it's how that makes a child feel rather than what the parent do or doesn't do.If the parent does his best , sometomes that's still leaves the child feeling neglected regardless the other circumstances.Similarly with trauma both children can go through the same experience and one will be affected differently than the other so I would say its an internal state of the child that can be the most accurate of childhood neglect issues rather than anything else. Similarly there is an aspect of false memories so it's hard to say whether the neglect was voluntary or involuntary action

@DocSnipes

6 ай бұрын

Thanks for watching the video and for sharing

Thanks for the videos! Is inner child healing evidence-based? I would like to use this with clients.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

There is no evidence based treatment for inner child work. Thanks for watching.

Danke!

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks so much for the tip!

V good sister

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

Cool

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Ty

On point

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Ty

I want to reprogram myself , but perhaps thats where " Honor your Parents " comes in and I hesitate, I have explored the neglect , realize parents arent perfect, and have forgiven their imperfections...but still dealing with the first 7 years+ program of the past...

@DocSnipes

5 ай бұрын

I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching the video

I must have just missed the live 🤦‍♀️ oh well - next time 😅🤞

@jameslove9696

2 жыл бұрын

Same here catching up now though lol

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Catch me next time. :)

@jameslove9696

2 жыл бұрын

@@DocSnipes absolutely!!! You are awesome and the world needs more of you!!! Xoxo

15:45

My goodness, the prototype of my parents

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching. Other videos that might help can be found at: kzread.infosearch?query=neglect

I don't need to lye in a pile of manuer to know it stinks lol

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.

@justinheer9098

2 жыл бұрын

I love your stuff I stumbled onto the codependency stuff , it's been very helpful your soothing and the other pages offered info but were way to bent on narcissists . You cover a wider range with a more helpful doable approach .

How can I replace messages that are so ingrained that they're a central part of my identity?

@littlewillowlinda

Жыл бұрын

Subconscious work

Rageaholism becomes some of us due to thy topic thou art discussing Madame Director Snipes. This ISM needs to be addressed and how to properly navigate one's self through it as a recovery process?

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

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@moonshineonme75013

2 жыл бұрын

Thank 🙏🏼 You.

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Welcome

I have no idea what a good caregiver is & that's kind of scary. I don't know anyone who has had a good parent.

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

@wakinglife7065

10 ай бұрын

I just tried drawing with my non dominant hand of my dream parents. The attributes I wish they had such as respectful, helpful send me to school with lunch etc. apparently if you do this with your non dominant hand it starts rewiring the brain. I have only just did this but it did help me figure out what I needed and what I need. Starting to journal as I’m just overcoming addiction. This is a hard road. My parents specifically my father set me up to fail. I drew him and all the truths I wanted to tell him. Hope you recover and get your needs met

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@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

They way to do it is to not fall into the victimhood mindset as many do for the rest of their lives. Something I told my own subscribers this week. As I see this daily as a healthcare provider. People who are destroyed adults because they couldn't outrun a terrible childhood. Too many times this becomes the excuse to give up. The reason someone won't try. "Because this (fill in the blank) happened to me." Now understand I am not discounting terrible childhoods. I had one as well. What I am saying is that the world doesn't care. It is totally indifferent. It may owe you but good luck trying to collect. The only way to collect your due is to go out and seek it, pursue it and take it back from the universe. The stories of great triumph are rarely without great adversity--ever notice that? Most will lie down to bad circumstances. But those who get up and fight back will insure that their story is a great one. Hope this helps someone out there---keep being great---Charles.

@julietcrowson3503

2 жыл бұрын

Hello Charles I think you have valid points but something missing from the assumption that someone get up and fight is that they have the energy to fight. Some people don't have any more energy to fight, because they've had too many traumas and are exhausted, or they're too old to want to fight for a life of yet more drudgery day after day. I think it's important to recognise that sometim s people are so exhausted that they can no longer think properly any more, so can't open their post to pay bills, can't deal with complex situations any more and just want some peace. 'Giving up' is sometimes the route to painlessness and not really giving in to victimhood... Whistleblowers are badly treated and their adversaries would have the wb neutralised, they're not in victimhood but are actual victims of narcs.... Tired now so hope this makes sense.. 🙏🙂⭐✝️☯️🌼✌️🕉️☮️⛪💫🫂☁️✨🌟😴

@DocSnipes

2 жыл бұрын

Thanks for watching.

@charleshurstreinvention3959

2 жыл бұрын

@@DocSnipes Good stuff

I think neglect is a type of abuse

@DocSnipes

Жыл бұрын

Yes, it is. Thanks for watching the video. What did you find most useful from it? Other videos you might be interested in can be found at kzread.infosearch?query=innerchild

Hehehe I hugged and kissed myself, then did the dishes then high fived myself

Dr. Snipes, thank you for an insightful and compassionate discussion. I hadn't realized the full impact of childhood trauma and neglect that disrupted much of my adult life. I'm happy to BE learning self-compassion as I reconcile health challenges and rewiring unhealthy misconception s. Definitely a subscriber now! 🥲

@DocSnipes

9 ай бұрын

Thank you so much for subscribing. I am sorry you’ve experienced childhood trauma. Here are the videos on the inner child: kzread.infosearch?query=innerchild