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the first sign that you're married to the wrong person is if you're looking at this video wondering if you're married to the wrong person.

I am soo married to the wrong person and it’s killing me, but I cannot get out at the moment. Its inevitable one day we will divorce. I’m soo tired

How about a partner who stonewall's you.. doesn't show ANY type of love or affection towards you ..you feel lonely..unloved... unwanted and disrespected

This hit home! I realized after 17 years of marriage that I really don’t like my husband. He’s very high-strung & easily frustrated. It’s like walking in eggshells everyday being around him. I’m not perfect but we definitely have different personalities and now that I’m in my 40’s, I prefer more calmness in my life. My husband isn’t calm. I feel constantly disrespected and under appreciated. He may feel the same because I’ve started giving up. My husband has some wonderful qualities, but his negative side is starting to outweigh the positive. Ugh. I love him but I don’t like him.

I always recommend divorce.. nothing worse than feeling married to yourself or the wrong person.. it’s bad for your health

What if you are the one always trying, loving and communicating, but they just don't care?

Just don't get married, live your life and enjoy it without any obligation

To avoid all of this drama don't get married.

I don’t believe anyone is wrong from a person....

This is why in my heart I Romanticize about marriage, but in my head I refuse to marry based on emotion. I definitely don’t believe infidelity is the only reason to get divorced. I feel like if you’re unhappy and you’ve realized that you’re loving someone else to the detriment of your own mental health and self love you should end it.

10 Signs

You don't reccomend divorce unless he cheats on you??

I left a bad relationship. Not compatible. I am happier now.

1.They misunderstand you

There are worse things than Infidelity like emotional abuse, shutting down from your partner completely. It's time to move on before you go into the cheating loop.

I am divorced and I'm so happy. It's the best thing I have ever done. They were wrong for me. Everyone knew and saw apart from me - big sign!!

I agree with what you brought up, except infidelity being the only reason for divorce. Abuse either physical, psychological or a narcissist is dangerous, and can cause a lifetime of trauma, PTSD, suicide attempts (I lost a friend recently from suicide because of years of narcissist abuse from her spouse). Abuse should be added to this list no bruises or broken bones needed to show abuse. I agree wholeheartedly with the rest of the list however.

Once he or she makes you feel like you are roommates, then that is time you need to get out!

This is some of the best advice I’ve heard so far. Marriage really takes patience and good communication. However that requires a level of self-awareness that many of us don’t have. I cannot explain my mission, vision or purpose to my spouse if I don’t know or understand it