10 Signs You’re Falling in Love (even if you don’t think so)

Falling in love is a wonderful feeling. You start to have physical symptoms and attraction towards that special someone. Your hormones, oxytocin, dopamine, and neurotransmitter start to go off in your body. They start to always be in your thoughts, you can't stop smiling, they become your priority, and even start exploring new things! Here are some signs you're falling in love
We also made a video on the difference between love and infatuation: • True Love VS Crush (In... :
Writer: Ananya Sawarkar
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Voice Over: Amanda Silvera ( / amandasilvera )
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References;
Kristin Salaky (September 13, 2017). 11 scientific signs that you’re falling in love. Retrievedfrom:
www.insider.com/scientific-signs-youre-falling-in-love-2017-9
Stephanie L. King May 17, 2021). Not Sure If You’re Falling in Love? Here’s Exactly How to Know. Retrieved from:
www.oprahdaily.com/life/relationships-love/a29267937/how-to-know-falling-in-love/
Serena Coady (February 9, 2021). 22 Signs You’re Falling in Love, According to Therapists. Retrieved from:
www.glamour.com/story/falling-in-love-signs

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go Жыл бұрын

    What signs do you show when you fall in love?

  • @tomthompson6447

    @tomthompson6447

    Жыл бұрын

    Nervousness

  • @Laniya.

    @Laniya.

    Жыл бұрын

    Admiring everything he does

  • @juliechu9654

    @juliechu9654

    Жыл бұрын

    Being incredibly more joyfull and less sad with the said person

  • @smil3s958

    @smil3s958

    Жыл бұрын

    feeling the constant need to hug them and have them with me

  • @A55a551n

    @A55a551n

    Жыл бұрын

    The first sign only

  • @Mel-anie27
    @Mel-anie27 Жыл бұрын

    this is accurate but it hurts when you fall in love with the wrong person and who doesn't feel the same way as you

  • @Wonderland1865

    @Wonderland1865

    Жыл бұрын

    Been on both sides of the coin!

  • @sammysambread

    @sammysambread

    Жыл бұрын

    Ikr

  • @sanjanicole

    @sanjanicole

    Жыл бұрын

    What if you fall for someone who doesn't feel like that for anyone? For someone who can't love

  • @fly8668

    @fly8668

    Жыл бұрын

    Same

  • @Crimson19977

    @Crimson19977

    Жыл бұрын

    How do you stop loving that wrong person?

  • @tarairaa3245
    @tarairaa3245 Жыл бұрын

    “You can’t stop smiling” oh NOO. I’m smiling all the time when I think about her oh my godd. You got me

  • @micahsartori135

    @micahsartori135

    Жыл бұрын

    fax

  • @laniebugg

    @laniebugg

    Жыл бұрын

    I love that ❤❤❤❤

  • @joshman8714

    @joshman8714

    Жыл бұрын

    HAHAHA

  • @lancetheking7524

    @lancetheking7524

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dhirajkalidien4599 go confess silly

  • @lancetheking7524

    @lancetheking7524

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dhirajkalidien4599 how that go

  • @L0velyEla
    @L0velyEla Жыл бұрын

    “The more you smile, the more you become happier” Me: 🙂

  • @lbozo9513
    @lbozo9513 Жыл бұрын

    Remember a lot of these could also be mistaken for platonic love. You could feel these things for your best friend that you're really close with or someone you're beginning to grow a good friendship with. It can be hard to tell the difference so watch out

  • @bellahu5331

    @bellahu5331

    Жыл бұрын

    True. I go through a lot of these when I first become friends with someone, or when I make a close friend. It’s not always romantic to think about someone else, people!

  • @yuna.xo1

    @yuna.xo1

    11 ай бұрын

    this happened with mee

  • @r_t1609

    @r_t1609

    10 ай бұрын

    This is literally happening to me help 💀💀💀

  • @user-qi6iy7xf1z

    @user-qi6iy7xf1z

    7 ай бұрын

    how can I be sure that it's platonic? 😅

  • @lbozo9513

    @lbozo9513

    6 ай бұрын

    @@user-qi6iy7xf1z ig you never really know until you two talk about it 🤷‍♀️

  • @gathor_
    @gathor_ Жыл бұрын

    I'm 100% in love

  • @Subzero48xb

    @Subzero48xb

    Жыл бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @Coskis_

    @Coskis_

    Жыл бұрын

    UwU

  • @aryrox

    @aryrox

    Жыл бұрын

    With this channel :b

  • @we5436

    @we5436

    Жыл бұрын

    His/her name?

  • @sethschettle

    @sethschettle

    Жыл бұрын

    Same😇

  • @raquelribeiro8225
    @raquelribeiro8225 Жыл бұрын

    I was 3 years without falling in love. This year, it happened again. It took me a few months to see it, but when I finally realized that I was falling in love someday at 3am, I couldn’t stop smiling, my cheeks automatically turned red and I felt so good with myself. Love is difficult, but the feeling is great while it lasts! ❤

  • @user-im5ri6yr4x

    @user-im5ri6yr4x

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh my god same. 2019 was the last time i fell in love. And now it happened again with someone. The feeling is great but it’s kinda wasting my time

  • @elliotthefennekin6506

    @elliotthefennekin6506

    Жыл бұрын

    I given up on love after my previous rejection. I thought it would happen but it's just further proof that maybe a love life was never meant to be. I just know I'm too late for it and just time to live my life in a depressing single/divorced guy apartment

  • @37_tranhoangtuan73

    @37_tranhoangtuan73

    Жыл бұрын

    mmmm

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy to hear that you after many years, you come to found someone who makes you feel this way.

  • @wx84

    @wx84

    Жыл бұрын

    @@elliotthefennekin6506 Don’t worry it’s never too late to fall in love even if you don’t think so if you actually want a real relationship just be patient and try to get rid of that negative attitude

  • @quotes.to.inspire
    @quotes.to.inspire Жыл бұрын

    - It's hard to stop thinking about her. - Openness - Get on the priority list - Find something interesting in her - Start paying attention to appearance - Trait adjustment - Friends started saying her name in front of me on purpose - Feel when with him there will be a pleasant future - Often smile even laugh (when imagining) - Also feel happy for the happiness of others All of the above I have to admit that, I went through all of those phases. And it is very strong in my memory to this day. ❤ Do friends also experience the same thing as me?

  • @ayushipanwar5834

    @ayushipanwar5834

    11 ай бұрын

    No 😢

  • @tabbylove86

    @tabbylove86

    9 ай бұрын

    I don't want to experience these things.i am just so frustrated that I would falI in Love with an extremely interoverted guy.i don't want that.

  • @mr.milktea00

    @mr.milktea00

    9 ай бұрын

    I too have a checkmark in each box next to these signs and I'm not ashamed to admit it. Not one bit. I love that woman so much

  • @icysnow57cold64

    @icysnow57cold64

    7 ай бұрын

    I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Men and women think very differently from each other. I heard that lesbian relationships are healthier because they understand each other. If both partners understand each other, they won’t want to break up with each other. I also heard that women have higher rates of depression when married (in straight relationships). There is a very small percent of women that are happy in heterosexual relationships. So it's very hard for men and women to bond with each other and have a strong bond with each other. Both men and women think differently, behave differently, react in a different way. The more similar two people are, the easier it is to relate and understand each other, resulting in a better, more fulfilling connection. I also read somewhere that even with the divorce rates what they are, most heterosexual marriages that don't end in divorce are still unhappy, and can absolutely relate to experiencing significantly more depression while married than while single.

  • @PyramidTom

    @PyramidTom

    2 ай бұрын

    @@icysnow57cold64 The same way, by shared interest, hobbies, moral values, faith, similar upbringing. A lot fo thing can make people feel conected to others.

  • @maalik5280
    @maalik5280 Жыл бұрын

    It’s all love for them until they tell you “I only see you as a friend”

  • @jannahnusrat2917
    @jannahnusrat2917 Жыл бұрын

    ▪︎TIMESTAMPS ▪︎ 1. 0:37 You often find yourself thinking about them 2. 1:07 Your suddenly open to exploring new things 3. 1:40 They have made their way to your priority list 4. 2:12 You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive 5. 2:47 They boost your self-image 6. 3:14 Their traits become your traits 7. 3:50 Your friends are noticing 8. 4:14 You feel positive about the future 9. 4:44 You cant stop smiling 10. 5:18 You feel more love for others

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you for adding the timestamps!

  • @Laniya.

    @Laniya.

    Жыл бұрын

    Hii

  • @khalilahd.

    @khalilahd.

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you ❤

  • @thewierdragonbaby4843

    @thewierdragonbaby4843

    Жыл бұрын

    Someone I don't know if I like fits about 3 of these (definitely 1, halfish 2, halfish 5, halfish 9 and halfish 10)

  • @user-xf7pc3xn6d

    @user-xf7pc3xn6d

    Жыл бұрын

    Oh shi, I think I was in love with someone

  • @amyhoover9
    @amyhoover9 Жыл бұрын

    8 years of being together with my boyfriend and I still go through these phases sometimes.... What's really weird though is the amount of times I remember experiencing that 6th point. I don't remember being stubborn or ambitious prior to meeting him... A lot of what I do or experience (whether the traits are good or not) just feels natural to me now, and I don't even question it sometimes 😄

  • @the1stwatcher

    @the1stwatcher

    Жыл бұрын

    get married girlll he's a keeper!

  • @shrutisawant4802

    @shrutisawant4802

    11 ай бұрын

    ,, ,

  • @amyhoover9

    @amyhoover9

    11 ай бұрын

    @@the1stwatcher We're not together anymore.... we're also not speaking or keeping any open lines of contact. I made a decision to put myself first over him because there were certain qualities he had that just didn't mesh well with what I wanted from the relationship. I don't want to be married to someone who would continuously make me feel less confident in myself simply because he can't handle having serious discussions.

  • @SC_575

    @SC_575

    10 ай бұрын

    ​@@amyhoover9oh noo

  • @the1stwatcher

    @the1stwatcher

    10 ай бұрын

    @@amyhoover9 oofff. apologies from my end, i didn't know.

  • @hope_1374
    @hope_1374 Жыл бұрын

    So I’ve known this guy for 3 years, we started dating nearly a year and a half ago. I’m scared of love, but I’m deeply attached to this guy. He makes me a better me, and supports me. Thank you for the video

  • @ROffan

    @ROffan

    Жыл бұрын

    i am in same position but with a girl known her for 3 years we like start hanging out these past 4 month alot. Same as you im scared of love. so i just look at her as friend from now on and want to see her happy with or without me doesnt matter as loong she is happy.

  • @hope_1374

    @hope_1374

    Жыл бұрын

    @@ROffan that is definitely true. As long as you are happy, that’s what matters. Remember, don’t always put others first, yk?

  • @silverletter4551

    @silverletter4551

    Жыл бұрын

    your love is a mental illness

  • @cleverclovercreates3249

    @cleverclovercreates3249

    11 ай бұрын

    What are you scared of in love exactly? Is it the commitment? Or the fear it won’t be returned the same way?

  • @hope_1374

    @hope_1374

    11 ай бұрын

    @@cleverclovercreates3249 Everything about it.

  • @2ndsnake899
    @2ndsnake899 Жыл бұрын

    11. You start taking care of yourself more.

  • @mubrek236
    @mubrek236 Жыл бұрын

    It's when you can't imagine your own dreams and plans without them in it

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Yes that is a sign too! You want to involve them in every aspect of your life

  • @kieranismyfav
    @kieranismyfav Жыл бұрын

    I didn’t know I loved him until a year later, finally noticing it wasn’t normal to constantly think of someone 24/7 and about his life, worrying about him because of his family, and always thinking of whatever he tells me. And everytime I talked with him I felt so happy, I was so excited inside. He’s got a girlfriend though… so yeah. I don’t want to interfere with his relationship with her so I’ve just kind of stopped talking with him, because I’m afraid I’ll do something to ruin our friendship. I’ve never told him I loved him, not even till this day, basically two years later.

  • @elenabusarova9933

    @elenabusarova9933

    8 ай бұрын

    Maybe you should

  • @priyaparul11

    @priyaparul11

    7 ай бұрын

    It's okay to feel for someone and realise it later than what was needed. It's sometimes not easy to understand ourselves given that there are hundreds of things going around you. Be aligned with yourself and God, I am sure everything will happen for the best.❤

  • @masterclash9959
    @masterclash99599 ай бұрын

    I think a great tell is when you’re talking with that person and you don’t want the moment to end. Even when you have to (awkwardly) leave for something, there’s always the lingering feeling of “Is there any way I can extend our time together?”

  • @Penaldogslayer
    @Penaldogslayer Жыл бұрын

    Forget about 10 Things my brothers, The person you think about while clicking this video Is the person you love. Period.

  • @Something.Go0fy

    @Something.Go0fy

    Жыл бұрын

    Shit, you caught me.

  • @mintuy_4152

    @mintuy_4152

    11 ай бұрын

    r/angryupvote

  • @cg-ax2768

    @cg-ax2768

    11 ай бұрын

    Yep, and she's aromantic. I'm at that point where I'm just getting bored of falling in love. It just brings me problems and overall sadness.

  • @cheto_unknown

    @cheto_unknown

    11 ай бұрын

    dammit, you got me there

  • @RepoNMusic-_-

    @RepoNMusic-_-

    10 ай бұрын

    Damn you got me there lmao

  • @siya___7776
    @siya___7776 Жыл бұрын

    I have never been in love before but watching this I was smiling the entire video because this is exactly how I feel about her.

  • @PokidotGamer898

    @PokidotGamer898

    Жыл бұрын

    I’ve never been in love either, so I wouldn’t know anything about loving someone when it comes to romantically. I get a crush and love very confused, because sometimes they feel very similar, butterflies.

  • @siya___7776

    @siya___7776

    Жыл бұрын

    @@PokidotGamer898 I know how it is for me love is something deep that's why I wouldn't just tell anyone I love them crushes from my experience are just us romanticizing the person we have a crush on. It was before I met my girl I had a crush but when I found out my crushes personality I saw I have to be think with my mind not my heart.

  • @PokidotGamer898

    @PokidotGamer898

    Жыл бұрын

    @@siya___7776 that might be the same with me. For some reason, and idk why, I love my parents to death I do, but I sometimes struggle to say the words “I love you.” The “love” word gets stuck and can’t come out, but I know they know I love them because I show it in my actions. I do say I love you too when they say it to me but I think I’m order for me to say it first, I would have to really love someone. I guess when I say “I love you” I feel like I’m confessing I actually like someone. Because it’s rare for me to say “I love you” first. I see people say it to their parents so easily and I think, “Gosh, they make it look so easy.”

  • @siya___7776

    @siya___7776

    Жыл бұрын

    @@PokidotGamer898 I hope it gets better for you as time progresses I understand how you feel I'm usually a reserved person who doesn't express emotions I'm starting to learn how to express myself take some time it will become easier as time passes but dont force it Goodluck

  • @PokidotGamer898

    @PokidotGamer898

    Жыл бұрын

    @@siya___7776 thx

  • @Snowcone_aka_foolbit
    @Snowcone_aka_foolbit Жыл бұрын

    I like wording it as trying new things cause it doesn't sound like I'm just changing myself for someone. It just means I genuinely care about the persons interest and wanna open up for them. People refusing to look into something for there partner or even just friends is a red flag tbh

  • @nandinipriyadarshinijana7032
    @nandinipriyadarshinijana7032 Жыл бұрын

    This is true for me. Earlier I used to think I have an aversion to fashion, but after knowing him I realised I have always watched fashion shows since my childhood. I have started loving my own body and giving time to my various interests and hobbies. Most importantly I have become much more helpful and grateful in my life. He's now a big part of my life

  • @corncorn9367
    @corncorn9367 Жыл бұрын

    No one's talking about Kaichou wa Maid-sama but yes I came here because of that 😂 Nice art!

  • @miki3582

    @miki3582

    Жыл бұрын

    Bro I’ve been looking for a comment to see if anyone noticed but I didn’t find anything 😭 but yeah same I’m also here for maid sama

  • @yajnasenibhattacharya6789

    @yajnasenibhattacharya6789

    Жыл бұрын

    Me too 🤣🤣 The important thing is maid sama.

  • @andreeastoica1999

    @andreeastoica1999

    Жыл бұрын

    I have noticed that too😂

  • @mrpenis3625

    @mrpenis3625

    Жыл бұрын

    I watched like 3 or 4 episodes a year ago-

  • @hiiyoriin

    @hiiyoriin

    Жыл бұрын

    literally clicked on the video just cause of the thumbnail haha, misaki and usui

  • @meiliquadrospereira9797
    @meiliquadrospereira9797 Жыл бұрын

    This reinforces a lot the mutual feelings that my girlfriend and I have, I couldn't stop smiling throughout the whole video. today is our 3 month anniversary hihihihihihihi

  • @r3b3cc4m4r

    @r3b3cc4m4r

    Жыл бұрын

    awh thats so sweet

  • @divya_sancheti04

    @divya_sancheti04

    Жыл бұрын

    Happy 3 months tgt 🥰 wish u guys happiness tgt :)

  • @coolstar7819

    @coolstar7819

    Жыл бұрын

    Awww

  • @cupcaketv5673

    @cupcaketv5673

    Жыл бұрын

  • @meiliquadrospereira9797

    @meiliquadrospereira9797

    Жыл бұрын

    @@divya_sancheti04 thank uuu ♡

  • @kawaiimarea
    @kawaiimarea9 ай бұрын

    I’m Autistic so if I’m bending my rules and routines for you, you BETTER know that I adore you

  • @gnomearts
    @gnomearts Жыл бұрын

    This is sooo helpful! I always question myself or try to "snap myself out" of liking someone. I can never tell if they like me back tho

  • @sy34434
    @sy34434 Жыл бұрын

    I hope everyone reading this finds genuine love and have their feelings reciprocated!

  • @silverletter4551

    @silverletter4551

    Жыл бұрын

    Love doesn't exist

  • @Laniya.
    @Laniya. Жыл бұрын

    I hope to fall in love one day, but I enjoy being single. :)

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Being single is great, that way you can learn more about your wants and needs. What are you looking forward to when falling in love?

  • @Laniya.

    @Laniya.

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go I hope we can both be bonded together and know each others wants and needs. I am waiting for marriage and I hope that day can be the most memorable moment of my life. 🙏🏽

  • @Je11keng

    @Je11keng

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Laniya. I wish you the best!

  • @MrPonytron
    @MrPonytron Жыл бұрын

    This is exactly how I feel about my crush and I don't think I'll ever stop feeling this way

  • @mercifulbakugou4457
    @mercifulbakugou4457 Жыл бұрын

    Bruh I love how relaxing your voice is!!

  • @conejitorosada2326
    @conejitorosada2326 Жыл бұрын

    Falling in love is so special and so much fun. As much as it hurts to have your feelings reciprocated, but I find that feeling just as lovely as it's highs as it means that I truly cared about them and that it means we could be something else than lovers, and It gives me the time and space to recollect myself to be in a spot where we both feel the happiest

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    That's true. When you find someone who reciprocates those feelings, it's like being in heaven.

  • @frenchrevenge6406

    @frenchrevenge6406

    Жыл бұрын

    For me it's a nightmare that ruins my days, when I get a crush on someone I just can't stop those annoying feelings. And before anyone tells me "Woah, why are you so harsh?", its bc I'm not straight, and I live in a very close minded country. 99% of the time my "loved" ones are str8 and don't even care for my existence, while the other see me as nothing more than a friend. And I can never tell my feelings to anyone, either bc I'll be made fun of by them and my minimal reputation gets destroyed due to rumors, or they'll just avoid and ignore me at all cost. This time, however, it's different. I'm VERY sure he's also gay, but he doesn't care for me at all, nor has even tried becoming friends, and that fact is destroying me from the inside.

  • @conejitorosada2326

    @conejitorosada2326

    Жыл бұрын

    @@frenchrevenge6406 I can very much understand that as I also live in a very close minded country, while my country doesn't actively discriminate against Queer people, they do see us as merely "Entertainment" and not actual people that are deserving of the same rights unless you're rich and famous enough. I've had a couple of close friends that gets a crush on me, and it utterly crushes me that I can't reciprocate their feelings as Eros is cruel like that. All I can do is let them down slowly and just hope our friendship lasts, even though I know it won't. I don't know your life or your experience, but I hope that you'll eventually find someone that'll care and love you the way you deserve!

  • @mch5

    @mch5

    Жыл бұрын

    I absolutely agree! Even though most of the time I don't find my feelings reciprocated, i like to think that at least I was able to see the beauty on the other person, i was able to care about them, and that is conforting for me in some way. I wish more people could see falling on love in that way, a way that gives more credit to the one who's feeling in love

  • @gforce97

    @gforce97

    Жыл бұрын

    i could never possibly settle for something else other than lovers if i had my feelings not reciprocated

  • @monkpool
    @monkpool Жыл бұрын

    I just never thought I could actually love someone like that

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Love happens in a mystery way! Are you falling in love with someone?

  • @monkpool

    @monkpool

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go yes and it’s like God made a woman just for me.

  • @monster_gman.
    @monster_gman.2 ай бұрын

    never had a crush, never had fallen in love, i am going strong🗣🔥

  • @Quackin24-7

    @Quackin24-7

    2 ай бұрын

    If you don't know about the term already, you are probably aro-ace. Aro-ace stands for people who are aromantic, (little to no romantic attraction to people) and asexual, (little to none sexual attraction to others)

  • @blackberryskies4919
    @blackberryskies4919 Жыл бұрын

    I remember watching 5 minutes of this video back when I was in denial. It’s hilarious watching it and seeing how oblivious I was now that we’re together

  • @lunawarahere
    @lunawarahere Жыл бұрын

    THE MAID SAMA THUMBNAIL!!!

  • @elizabethrose644
    @elizabethrose644 Жыл бұрын

    i fell in love when i was 12. even at that age i was surprised how similar it was to its portrayal in movies and stories. constant giddiness just because they exist and having them on your mind 24/7. finding a way to make every little thing you do about them. losing control of your emotions while being fully aware of it and feeling like an idiot. it really is like a drug. i miss that feeling.

  • @toegrippr

    @toegrippr

    Жыл бұрын

    same.

  • @struggler8532

    @struggler8532

    Жыл бұрын

    It's the same chemical process as certain drugs and then some.

  • @mestiez1532

    @mestiez1532

    Жыл бұрын

    ​@@struggler8532 nice berserk pfp:)

  • @struggler8532

    @struggler8532

    Жыл бұрын

    @@mestiez1532 thanks bro I live by the "struggle" ideology everyday. Peace.

  • @rainmusic549

    @rainmusic549

    Жыл бұрын

    I have like two voices in my head one effected by love but the other literally doesn’t care

  • @Noahs-io2bk
    @Noahs-io2bk Жыл бұрын

    okay, this explains a lot. i didn't know why for the longest time but i had this one one girl where as soon as i got to know her everything just felt empty when i wasn't around her, i never really knew why but this explains a whole lot, i can relate to at least half of the signs on there

  • @mauryposa
    @mauryposa2 ай бұрын

    Scored a 10/10 so it confirms what I’ve known this past 2 months…but recently hit an obstacle with my partner because of emotional triggers that I have from betrayal trauma in me due to my previous relationship. Healing is not done in a month or year it seems but a constant vigil for it never fully erased but can be addressed in a positive healthy way when you notice it.

  • @camillex5916
    @camillex5916 Жыл бұрын

    „You feel more love for others“? When one of my friends fell in love one year ago, she seemed to forget me at the same time. We‘re even not at the same level of friendship today as before this boy… Hard, as I‘m actually in love with HER…

  • @iamgroot02

    @iamgroot02

    Жыл бұрын

    I know how this feels…

  • @lancetheking7524

    @lancetheking7524

    Жыл бұрын

    Loving a lovers lover, oh pain shall strike you in the worst way possible

  • @nonctm777

    @nonctm777

    Жыл бұрын

    It is normal to disagree with some points when you already have your own experiences that say otherwise...

  • @jesse01509
    @jesse01509 Жыл бұрын

    1. You often find yourself thinking about them 2. You‘re suddenly open to exploring new things 3. They‘ve made their way to your priority list 4. You suddenly find their quirks extremely attractive 5. They boost your self-image 6. Their traits become your traits 7. Your friends are noticing 8. You feel positive about the future 9. You can’t stop laughing 10. You feel more love for others Make sure to watch the whole video still!

  • @TacoRenders
    @TacoRenders Жыл бұрын

    im falling in love with the narrator

  • @maxnt235
    @maxnt235 Жыл бұрын

    I don't certainly have a crush on anyone and these videos don't really apply to me, but your voice is so calming and I love watching these videos!

  • @star-pop
    @star-pop Жыл бұрын

    “you just know” that doesn’t help 😭 people need to stop saying that - person who doesn’t know how romantic love feels like

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Sometimes it's just the feeling that's why it's hard to explain! How do you know if you are in love with someone?

  • @star-pop

    @star-pop

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go i’m not sure, i’ve never had a crush before but lately i’ve been feeling more open and caring to someone, and that’s never happened before. it’s like i want to be near them all the time, and they’re the reason i’m excited to go to school now 💕

  • @sunset4079

    @sunset4079

    Жыл бұрын

    Tbh it feels like something stupid but you really know or realize after 2 weeks that you are in love

  • @sarahkinsella5733

    @sarahkinsella5733

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go ur, done fool

  • @Quackin24-7

    @Quackin24-7

    2 ай бұрын

    ​@@star-popIf you are watching videos to see if you like them, look forward to seeing them at school etc. Then you probably like them. Something I ask myself is often, would I enjoy holding their hand in a romantic way, would I enjoy being with them in a romantic way, do I want to cherish them romantically and be cherished by them?

  • @steph769
    @steph769 Жыл бұрын

    I am a simple Woman, I see Misaki and Takumi in the thumbnail, I click.

  • @snakeau7175

    @snakeau7175

    Жыл бұрын

    US, I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT.

  • @pinky_swirlz

    @pinky_swirlz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@snakeau7175 SAMEE

  • @unusual10production58

    @unusual10production58

    Жыл бұрын

    same but I am a boy....my crush loved this anime...so I have to watched it

  • @pinky_swirlz

    @pinky_swirlz

    Жыл бұрын

    @@unusual10production58 thats so cute 😭

  • @corene6421

    @corene6421

    Жыл бұрын

    I THOUGHT IT WAS JUST ME

  • @CornBros.
    @CornBros. Жыл бұрын

    I can't stop thinking about her please tell me I'm not the only one who thinks about someone constantly

  • @asmitadatta3655
    @asmitadatta3655 Жыл бұрын

    I love the fact you kept misaki and takumi for your thumbnail.

  • @THANATOS-PRIME
    @THANATOS-PRIME Жыл бұрын

    I have been working on my mental health and self-love so I can feel something around the corner. Thanks for the help!

  • @dorkarama3135

    @dorkarama3135

    Жыл бұрын

    Be careful with all that self-love.

  • @imnotangryimlonely9930

    @imnotangryimlonely9930

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dorkarama3135 why be careful, if I may ask?

  • @THANATOS-PRIME

    @THANATOS-PRIME

    Жыл бұрын

    @@dorkarama3135 Trust me I don’t have an ego.

  • @dorkarama3135

    @dorkarama3135

    Жыл бұрын

    @@THANATOS-PRIME I was joking (I was talking about the other kind of self-love). All the best.

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    That's good! What are you doing to work on your self love?

  • @where_is_Jeffreys_hair_
    @where_is_Jeffreys_hair_ Жыл бұрын

    so I like this short kid since we were in third grade, and I lost contact of him when we were in 6th grade, but even tho we haven't met or heard from each other for three years now I stilm have these slight feelings for him. Until one day, I was walking around with my bff when she pointed at one handsome guy and told me he's her cousin and he's super handsome and the fact that he has the same name as him made me wonder why he looked so familiar. As I kept on seeing him walking around our school campus, I decided to show my friend my childhood crush's photos and that's where she started screaming as hell. IT TURNS OUT THAT HE WAS MY (NEW)BFF'S COUSIN. I nearly died that time because I never expected things like this to happen, and as days pass by, I started to grow my feelings for him especially on the day where I had a blind dance with him. It's this smile of his that makes me smile and often gives me butterflies and I started to notice that I was slowly falling for him, even tho he no longer remembers me💀 . But it still makes me really happy that after waiting for three years, I finally got to meet him again, and this time he's taller than me.

  • @nezuko_chan5684
    @nezuko_chan5684 Жыл бұрын

    I love how you choose usui and misaki for the thumbnail 😘

  • @zacharyharwell351
    @zacharyharwell351 Жыл бұрын

    I appreciate the thumbnail art so much, you have no idea. I was so surprised to see that reference on Psych2Go lol

  • @zainebhidoussi1498
    @zainebhidoussi1498 Жыл бұрын

    as an anime fan ..i appreciate the cute fanart of misaki and usui at the thumbnail

  • @ToothFairy473
    @ToothFairy473 Жыл бұрын

    Cant believe after almost all my life, I felt love? I didn’t realize I was falling in love until i started thinking about her a lot.

  • @silverletter4551

    @silverletter4551

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm sorry to hear about your future suffering.

  • @TheRevolutionaryMan4614
    @TheRevolutionaryMan4614 Жыл бұрын

    I think people rely too much on feelings to determine whether they are in love, but feelings are so fickle, they are like a flame, as bright as it can burn, it can also be extinguished pretty fast. I think falling in love at its most basic foundation is a choice, it must be a choice.

  • @rosalindhoffman6175
    @rosalindhoffman6175 Жыл бұрын

    Hey, this video is great, but I think there is such a broad definition of love and attraction; a note at the beginning saying that this explanation is geared toward general attraction and that this can be seen in any type of relationship could really help a few misconceptions in popular culture regarding relationship hierarchy and the overall misinformation about the different attractions and how they function. Again, this video is great, but the “your friends noticing” section in particular could warrant a note. I may not speak for the whole aspec community, but the broad implication that every person is gonna feel like falling in love this this…can really hurt people. Much love though, when I saw the title I was so worried, but it doesn’t fall into any hurtful traps I have seen so many times, and that in itself is quite and accomplishment: this is well-researched and well-put :)

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. Жыл бұрын

    Oof this is definitely me when I’m in love. I get so giddy and so positive. No better feeling ❤

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    I love that feeling! Your heart flutters and you feel like you are floating on clouds haha, it's such a beautiful feeling to experience

  • @user-gq3le7gj5i
    @user-gq3le7gj5i Жыл бұрын

    This actually arrived exactly the moment I started having all those signs...!!!

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Psych2go is reading your mind! Are you smiling ear to ear being in love?

  • @user-gq3le7gj5i

    @user-gq3le7gj5i

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go I suppose so😁

  • @ceekay3143

    @ceekay3143

    Жыл бұрын

    Same :) First love as a Highly Sensitive Person, so there's a lot of big feelings there. My Discover Weekly playlist decided to give me allll love songs too, so it's hard not to notice

  • @mimiumib-f-f-9522
    @mimiumib-f-f-95228 ай бұрын

    Looking at this when it’s too late

  • @thedarkaster1809
    @thedarkaster1809 Жыл бұрын

    Thumbnail is absolutely maid sama ✨

  • @rocksinsprite318
    @rocksinsprite318 Жыл бұрын

    Well I think I’ve fallen out of love with him now, but I was definitely in love. Everything about him made me smile. Even his “quirks”. He never returned my feeling buts it’s nice to know that it wasn’t just a little crush. I still love him, but in a different way now. How fitting 🥰

  • @hellodontmindme9792

    @hellodontmindme9792

    Жыл бұрын

    omg how?? I also want to move on cuz he calls me his lil sister☠

  • @livvyfun1650

    @livvyfun1650

    Жыл бұрын

    That's sooo cute im currently sort of in the process of falling out of love

  • @andreafajardo8427

    @andreafajardo8427

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hellodontmindme9792lollll. Sorry I don’t mean to laugh at you 😅

  • @hellodontmindme9792

    @hellodontmindme9792

    Жыл бұрын

    @@andreafajardo8427 that's fine, i find it quite silly and stupid💀

  • @andreafajardo8427

    @andreafajardo8427

    Жыл бұрын

    @@hellodontmindme9792 did you move one from him?

  • @saraannette8212
    @saraannette8212 Жыл бұрын

    Seeing this makes me happy for my big sis, she’s in love!!! ❤❤

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    That is great! I'm so happy for your big sis too, what about yourself? Are you in love or experienced in before?

  • @saraannette8212

    @saraannette8212

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go I have but sadly it fizzled out during COVID. I still talk to him occasionally tho

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    @@saraannette8212 Sorry to hear that, but sometimes old sparks might die. But that doesn't mean you won't get to meet someone new who gives you even greater feelings.

  • @omlan_editx
    @omlan_editx Жыл бұрын

    i dont think that i have to see this full video i already know i love her

  • @stacia2016
    @stacia20164 ай бұрын

    The last one is so accurate. I always get way more cuddly with my family when im in a relationship.

  • @DarkFabled14731
    @DarkFabled14731 Жыл бұрын

    I don't know if I've ever truly fallen in love with anyone, but I can say I love the thumbnail! I just wish the show could pick up where it left off on that cliffhanger

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    At least you fell in love with the thumbnail! ;)

  • @thesnomenianprince2588
    @thesnomenianprince2588 Жыл бұрын

    I have to say how much I appreciate this channel Only a few months ago I was watching you guys to find a partner in my life Nowadays, I watch you all in order to keep this fresh relationship strong You all are so amazing and I hope you keep this channel up for many more people to see

  • @lizard7779
    @lizard7779 Жыл бұрын

    I feel as though I can't self improve without someone loving me back.

  • @zoranabanana
    @zoranabanana Жыл бұрын

    Love to me is knowing and accepting somebody completely and fully flaws and all and still loving them. Learning forgiveness. Wanting nothing more but their happiness and to see them succeed and grow. Not trying to change them in any way, shape or form

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    That was very well spoken. You nailed it when it comes to love. When you love someone it’s about giving and wanting the best for the person.. most importantly accepting them for who they truly are

  • @A55a551n
    @A55a551n Жыл бұрын

    Timestamps 1). You often find yourself thinking about them 0:37 2). You're suddenly open to exploring new things 1:09 3). They're made their way to your priority list 1:40 4). You suddenly find their quirky extremely attractive 2:13 5). They boost your self-image 2:47 6). Their traits become your traits 3:13 7). Your friends are noticing 3:49 8). You feel positive about the future 4:14 9). You can't stop smiling 4:44 10). You feel more love for others 5:17 Hope this helps you out. 💙💙💙💙💙

  • @sopaesapos
    @sopaesapos Жыл бұрын

    loOOved the thumbnail

  • @JefimijaStosic
    @JefimijaStosic Жыл бұрын

    Yes! The Maid Sama thumbnail!

  • @yourspace3877
    @yourspace3877 Жыл бұрын

    I thought love was painful but your channel makes me feel that love is indeed something very beautiful. Love always stood as a hurtful and painful thing for me but after seeing how beautiful it is, it makes me question that if I am spending my time on the right person or not. Because usually the people I date hurts me a lot. And now I don't think love need to be painful or depressing. It's a feeling of happiness and joy!

  • @k4rim799
    @k4rim799 Жыл бұрын

    If someone popped through your mind, then you are probably in love.

  • @leodraken1014

    @leodraken1014

    Жыл бұрын

    Yeah… maybe I’m in love after all😊

  • @leeledyke

    @leeledyke

    Жыл бұрын

    @@roofogato I mean, she was based on a real person I guess?

  • @MisterMuffinut

    @MisterMuffinut

    Жыл бұрын

    @@roofogato Wow. Don't blame you 💀

  • @Justanyone_
    @Justanyone_8 ай бұрын

    Underrated channel frfr

  • @MaxGamer07wastaken
    @MaxGamer07wastaken Жыл бұрын

    I saw this video a while back and began noticing these signs towards someone, and only then did I realize I had a crush on them. Already being friends, I knew she and I had many things in common. I admitted my feelings to her, and I was when she said she felt the same way. We had known each other for a long time, and knowing she felt the same way I did was great. I already have problems with avoiding intimacy, so while this may seem like a small step, it's a huge leap for me. We are now progressing in a relationship. And I'll say, I don't know how I lived the way I did before. Without love. I already knew my family members too well, and most of them were honestly annoying to deal with. Especially things like obnoxious little siblings and overly strict parents. But to feel love like THIS, I might as well class love as a basic human need. Or a drug that our brains can make themselves. Who knows? All I know is that I finally love someone.

  • @raafiaqureshi2435
    @raafiaqureshi2435 Жыл бұрын

    When you realize you in love but he doesn’t feel the same way 😢

  • @Dallinhas

    @Dallinhas

    Жыл бұрын

    It hurts... a lot 😔

  • @silverletter4551

    @silverletter4551

    Жыл бұрын

    Boo hoo. You can find someone else tomorrow. A new person to deceive.

  • @pinkishhaven5158
    @pinkishhaven5158 Жыл бұрын

    Huh...then I guess I was never in love all along. Just felt shallow attraction and went into flights of fancy of the ideal relationship backed up by what ifs supported by what I knew about the person and how that can apply to the possibilities of a serious relationship. As I'm glad many of the folks here are realizing they're in love, I'm gonna be with the rare few who realized the opposite. But a new perspective is always welcome.

  • @Lazy_Jelly

    @Lazy_Jelly

    Жыл бұрын

    I'm one of those who feel the same as you are.

  • @Cookie_Comment

    @Cookie_Comment

    Жыл бұрын

    it’s very humanizing to read that in the end, we’re all still growing and changing :/ ❤️

  • @roronoazoro3634

    @roronoazoro3634

    Жыл бұрын

    I like your mentality 😇of thinking that a new perspective is always welcome. Many people lack this and hence decides to only hear & stick to their perspective & shuns other right away.

  • @Stephanie_gotosleep
    @Stephanie_gotosleep Жыл бұрын

    This helped me so much - thank you

  • @jamielockhart4192
    @jamielockhart4192 Жыл бұрын

    Oh she's both the biggest pain in my backside and yet the pain I couldn't do without me and her royally joke at each other and I'm noticing she's getting way better at it and I love that

  • @Sonofgod384
    @Sonofgod384 Жыл бұрын

    When I see her I blush get shy can’t stop smiling oh lord plus she finds her way into my mind and I’m changing myself in major ways ❤😊

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    That is cute! Heart flutters, rosy cheeks, you have been bitten by the love bug

  • @Sonofgod384

    @Sonofgod384

    Жыл бұрын

    @@Psych2go I believe so 🌹❤️

  • @divya_sancheti04

    @divya_sancheti04

    Жыл бұрын

    That's so cute 😀

  • @Sonofgod384

    @Sonofgod384

    Жыл бұрын

    @@divya_sancheti04 ❤️💯🙏

  • @Sonofgod384

    @Sonofgod384

    Жыл бұрын

    And I still feel that way and I’m still working on myself it’s a journey for sure but I’m very proud of myself and if you want too attract better you first gotta do better ❤️💪🙏💯🌹

  • @greensoul2697
    @greensoul2697 Жыл бұрын

    I think i am falling for a friendship, is not the romantic love. I couldn't understand how could i love that dude so much, but he's a great friend. Love is love, it doesn't need to be romantic 💙

  • @hp2546

    @hp2546

    Жыл бұрын

    That would mean hiding your feelings and never acting upon love to begin with. I mean for starters, there is a possibility that you are demisexual. Everything you described makes you demisexual because it is someone you know the longest. Think about this. You 2 never became a couple but stayed being friends. You aren't falling in love with any other random stranger. There are tons of people who can fall in love but never act upon them. Not everybody gets into any romantic relationship despite falling in love. There are some who just admire from afar. You are a good example of admiring your friendship from afar. I can give an example. I began to pick up love feelings from my next door neighbor back in March 2020 however, I never build a single bond with her. I only watched miles away when she picks up her amazon package. I don't talk to her. I stay distant.

  • @Cynthia-ns7bv

    @Cynthia-ns7bv

    Жыл бұрын

    This :DD platonic love so valid

  • @CactusCowboyDan
    @CactusCowboyDan9 ай бұрын

    Well, I can’t tick any boxes on this list for anyone I’ve ever met in life.

  • @sunlakestar2549
    @sunlakestar2549 Жыл бұрын

    There's this person I've been talking with and even now it's all the same. It's not just a little crush anymore either, i know this. I feel genuine love and care about them, they've made me feel someway that nobody else has made me feel before.

  • @3O3Skyax
    @3O3Skyax Жыл бұрын

    CONGRATULATION FOR 10M SUBSCRIBERS!!! You literally opened my mind with those videos. Thank you so much ❣️❣️❣️

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you so much! Hope you stick around when we hit 11 mil!

  • @3O3Skyax

    @3O3Skyax

    Жыл бұрын

    Obviously!

  • @Vhan_ink
    @Vhan_ink Жыл бұрын

    As a cptsd surviver, falling in love can be hard and even harder when it gets real and you choose to go for a relationship. Insecurities, normal anxiety that is confused with traumatic, fear of abandonment, among other things that do not allow me to fully focus on being in love. Sometimes it even makes me question my feelings and intentions, but today I am happy to say that I am very much in love with my boyfriend. Thanks for and the extra help that keeps me grounded

  • @ABUsBestJamacianFriend
    @ABUsBestJamacianFriend Жыл бұрын

    10signs that you are alone

  • @Yuta_18.

    @Yuta_18.

    2 ай бұрын

    F*ck

  • @yanderesedits
    @yanderesedits Жыл бұрын

    if anyone wants to know what love feels like, its like that spark of joy you feel when you’re excited for tomorrow. except, it’s happening right now.

  • @alysonramos7981
    @alysonramos7981 Жыл бұрын

    When your in love but have to shove those emotions away because they don't reciprocate. So painful

  • @UserUser-ss6tn
    @UserUser-ss6tn Жыл бұрын

    This is actually true. I spent the last 3 years just staring at him and not even talking to him. I remember the first time we spoke and everything else. But...he dated one of my friends in the first year. They broke up a while later. Then in the lockdown I couldn't even see him for an year,but I couldn't stop thinking about him. In our final year,I told my best friends that I liked him and it was all fine, I even wanted to confess him about my feelings. But one my friends started dating him without even telling me again!! I felt completely devastated. I stayed strong and tried to get over him. Then on my birthday,he texted me!! Like I couldn't even believe it. Clearly I wasn't over him. Then he broke up. We only texted but never interacted in college. I told my friend that we've been texting a lot lately and she didn't care. And he moved away to a different city. He calls me atleast once a week and texts everyday and I don't even initiate the conversation. I don't know if he likes me or not but I really love him

  • @ThePakhiLife

    @ThePakhiLife

    Жыл бұрын

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Your love story is so emotional! I think he loves you too, I'm sure he will return your feelings

  • @f1reflam3

    @f1reflam3

    Жыл бұрын

    Ik I'm late but you really gotta tell him, it's very likely he likes you

  • @TheGoddamnBacon

    @TheGoddamnBacon

    Жыл бұрын

    Be active. How has being passive all this time worked out for you?

  • @silverletter4551

    @silverletter4551

    Жыл бұрын

    An insipid delusion. Nothing more.

  • @violet9530
    @violet95308 ай бұрын

    I might be bi.

  • @noah7876
    @noah78768 ай бұрын

    I didn't fall in love but I really love your calm voice

  • @tigerx36
    @tigerx36 Жыл бұрын

    After seeing her for the first time in so long, all the memories of being an awkward mess around her came flooding back. It only took one hug and her joking about falling into my arms that I knew. I'm still thinking about her, maybe one or two people have noticed, the only reason we were both smiling so much is we were just having fun.

  • @sammjaisais7135
    @sammjaisais7135 Жыл бұрын

    You won my like just because you put Misaki and Takumi for the thumbnail. I love it. I love them.

  • @longredroad4249
    @longredroad4249 Жыл бұрын

    good video, and these are vert good things to know, so if I see these issues in myself or others I will know when to back out. the wining move is not to paly

  • @Kingz_Edit
    @Kingz_Edit Жыл бұрын

    OH MY DAYS IM IN LOVE I just noticed! Like 9 of these things are literally me!

  • @ClaraCB5
    @ClaraCB5 Жыл бұрын

    I fell in love while going through heaps of trauma, dealing with ptsd and depression. Sadly a lot of these things do not apply to me... But I'm grateful for where we are now, almost 2 years later, and I couldn't be happier about my relationship!

  • @_FixingBroken_

    @_FixingBroken_

    Жыл бұрын

    You are so blessed.. depression is so hard , i know.. i wish you'll be fine soon.

  • @skyomi
    @skyomi Жыл бұрын

    I havent never fallen in love before and I still havent found feeling romantic attraction to anyone, which is why I researched into aromantic and asexual sexualities. But i wish everyone is happy and healthy being whoever they are and with :)

  • @NicolasJzjdf
    @NicolasJzjdf8 ай бұрын

    i watched this because i dont know if i ever actually fell in love. i still dont know but good to know all this

  • @matthewboshoff8043
    @matthewboshoff8043 Жыл бұрын

    I show way too many of these symptoms, but I'm too young and unsure of my own feelings to call it love right now. I'll just say I'm extremely fond of her

  • @Ridwan_Ali2
    @Ridwan_Ali2 Жыл бұрын

    Never been in love but it’s special thing like the world is just between you too

  • @kosmosnkrazy980
    @kosmosnkrazy980 Жыл бұрын

    Always great to have more in depth clarification into the love topic. Thanks, Psy! You do awesome work

  • @Psych2go

    @Psych2go

    Жыл бұрын

    Thank you! Do you have a follow up topic you would like us to tackle?

  • @mynameisstolen
    @mynameisstolen Жыл бұрын

    im in love with the thumbnail

  • @loganadair3075
    @loganadair307512 күн бұрын

    think I just learned that I love myself. took a while but it was worth the wait

  • @themaskedpuppy2303
    @themaskedpuppy2303 Жыл бұрын

    all throught this video i have had a huge smile as i am knowing that boy i keep thinking about isnt just a thought and yes nearly all of them are connecting with me