For me: No tattoos, no macho chicks, no ghetto talking, no woman who says "wife me up."

@harrymills2770

5 ай бұрын

... as if giving half your life to them is a manicure or an accessory.

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

​@@harrymills2770huh?

@SweatyFatGuy

5 ай бұрын

Neither of my ex wives had any of that, the second was a 21 year old virgin who was amazing for 8 years... then she thought she could do better. That was ten years ago, now she is 41, alone, unwanted, and miserable having just lost her job with the township. I'm 54 and have completely lost interest in women because the ones close to my age are only single because of poor choices/judgement, and the young ones are all kinds of messed up. Rebuilding rusty old muscle cars is vastly more rewarding, and infinitely less expensive.

@1439315

5 ай бұрын

World Without Men by Aaron Clarey i read in its entirety; you should also; great read.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

For me, I don't have tats, I'm not macho, don't ghetto talk, and would never say "wife me up." Also I've always avoided guys who call women "chicks."

Wearing a nose ring is like having a clinically insane certificate in your forehead.

@harrymills2770

5 ай бұрын

That's a bit extreme, but it does tell you she's not wife material.

@timtheenchanter340

5 ай бұрын

AMEN!!

@nocomment1212

5 ай бұрын

It's like wearing a straight jacket.

@underthedrone2735

5 ай бұрын

Some bulls and hogs have nose rings. That should tell us all we need to know. If a human wears one, it might mean they identify as one of the animals that also have them.

@theartfu1d0dger

5 ай бұрын

nose ring...nah, septum ring yes; tons of tattoos not a great look

Nose ring is a definite nope.

@meinking22

5 ай бұрын

Definitely. Hit it and then run.

@Mordenperson

5 ай бұрын

tattoos are a definite nope, the nose ring can be removed with little effort.

@klausschwabshubris

5 ай бұрын

@@meinking22 I’d hit that for sure, she is cute. Just never found nose adornments attractive. Lol

@Starswake

5 ай бұрын

Hanging booger

@paulthiessen6444

5 ай бұрын

@@Mordenpersonbut you can’t change the attitude that thought it was a good idea in the first place.

Anytime my daughters brought up getting a tattoo, I just asked them “how do you think that would look on grandma?”

@AndrewGrey22

5 ай бұрын

Lol

@brianh2287

5 ай бұрын

Smart

@SweatyFatGuy

5 ай бұрын

My ex wife allowed my 14 year old daughter to get tattoos. Now she is 26 and can't find a man. Yes, best interest of the child when someone steps out, mistreats her husband and the kids, doing everything wrong, and she gets rewarded for screwing up the lives of the kids.

@bretthutcheson5710

5 ай бұрын

Here’s another good question when it comes up: What about the way you were naturally created do you find so unattractive that you feel the need to brand it with graphics?

@violetangelflame1

5 ай бұрын

That brings a bad bad bad picture to ones mind. Good question for your kids!!!! I'll pass that on to my friend who are parents!!!!

It’s the nose ring and tats and she says “wife me up”.

@DovidM

5 ай бұрын

She’s probably loud and crass, and she certainly whines a lot.

As a grandma, who just lost my sweetheart to leukemia last March, I say to all the girls, and guys too, don't pretend to be something you're not just to snag a guy or gal. Because once you're married, it all hangs out and then people feel like they've been duped. I mean, please clean yourself up and look nice, but make sure it's a level you can maintain after you're married. And seriously, think about how people will react to all the tats and piercings BEFORE you get them! Some people find them extremely offensive. At any rate, it's probably best to not go overboard on any permanent changes. I want to say, be yourself, but remember that it takes two. You BOTH still have to make an effort to please your spouse if you don't want him or her looking elsewhere. Relationships are work. If you're a narcissist (only concerned with your own needs and never with other people's needs) like the second girl, stay single. You don't deserve a relationship.

@andyjones7121

5 ай бұрын

Sorry about your husband. Great advice! I try to make my wife happy every day.

@underthedrone2735

5 ай бұрын

Tats are permanent. At least piercing just leave a little divot when the hardware is removed.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

@@underthedrone2735 Very true. A piercing is still permanent, but less visible... unless it's gauged.

@SweatyFatGuy

5 ай бұрын

Sorry about your husband its sad to have someone linger on after the other, but at least life is better now than 100 years ago. Its not men leaving women anymore, its women leaving men, and blaming men for all the problems, including her stepping out. The incentives for men to NOT divorce are massive, but the incentives for women to divorce good men are also massive. She benefits greatly from leaving, she gets access to another man's resources while still getting paid from the previous one. Women have no incentive to stick around anymore. Society encourages them to leave good men, telling the women they can do better and deserve the best. Now we have all these 35 and younger ones who think they are going to keep that 6'4" millionaire who works out 4 days a week, but they can't get him to commit. So they all share him, and they all share the infections that come with that. The reality is not like it was over 40 years ago. Reality is exactly what I just wrote here.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

@@andyjones7121 That's awesome! And hopefully she does the same for you. It's a balance of give and receive.

I would have no problem ignoring that second girl all morning, every morning. If first girl had her own truck, I might friend zone her until I found the "one". Once I found the "one", I would continue to ignore girl number 2 and ghost the first girl out of respect for the "one". Context- I found the "one" 35 years ago. She took care of me and I took care of her until death did us part three years ago (cancer). I honor her still by being the best father and grandfather that I can be. No regrets!

My husband and I have been together for nearly 3 decades. He says that he knew he wanted to marry me on our first date when I ordered a meal instead of salad and water! 😂

@koreanelvis

5 ай бұрын

As a man who is married too (for ALMOST 11 years), I would shake his hand and say: You married correctly!! My wife ordered a Spaghetti dinner; and she’s tiny!! God bless you!!

@tylerskiss

5 ай бұрын

A fit woman with a healthy appetite is key. If you date a salad eater, she is destined to expand immediately after the initial courting period has passed.

@yeti112

5 ай бұрын

Your husband sounds like a smart man.

@simonb4689

5 ай бұрын

Married for 15 years here, together 20. First date we went to a pizza place after work and she ate more than half the pie by herself and she is tiny. I knew she was a catch

@semperfeze9754

5 ай бұрын

When I hear "vegetarian", the date is over.

This message is needed for our young women.

@SweatyFatGuy

5 ай бұрын

Yeah, but they are beyond help and won't be watching this channel anyway. They think they are smarter than they actually are.

@fredflintstone8048

5 ай бұрын

Needed for certain, understood and Heeded? Doubtful.

@bryanw5983

5 ай бұрын

When I was a teenager, say from about 15 up, I would have killed for this kind of direct advice. I remember talking to my friends about dating, Girls, etc and realized pretty quick they didn’t have a clue either. My oldest sister, at the time, was no help (she would be later), but my older sister did help to some extent. My parents gave me practical advice (open the door for her, you have to buy a corsage, etc) but little else. Considering the bombardment our kids are getting today, the ones with functioning neurons will recognize this for the value it is - if you can keep their attention for more than 5 minutes.

It's all the Tattoos and Hog Nose Ring for me.

I can't help it. Every time I see a nose ring I think of a farm animal.

@couch4330

5 ай бұрын

Watch a lot of 1940s farm cartoons? I grew up rural and don't think I've ever seen a ring on a farm animal.

@TheGoldenCapstone

5 ай бұрын

​@@couch4330So you've never seen cartoons from the 90's eh? You're probably 16. Just take a seat.

@couch4330

5 ай бұрын

@@TheGoldenCapstone 🤦 yeah, cartoons trump real life. As if that's the point, bud. Man. And as if that's the conclusion you came to with literally zero evidence. That's not my age, it's your IQ. Peace out.

Men want Malena trump not Michelle Obama

@waderich9904

3 ай бұрын

You mean Michael Obama?

@stewarttomkinson3356

3 ай бұрын

@@waderich9904 big mike

Gave up dating over 15 years ago. It was just one looney after another, trying to destroy my life/reputation, or cheated. Don't have the patience for all that drama and the snooty little "Valley girls". One word of advice I would offer singles; get your personal affairs in order at home before trying to bring someone home. Both of you will be MUCH happier. If you try to hide a bunch of baggage in the closet, it will eventually come out.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

That's what I'm trying to get sorted out. I'm 56, and though I'd probably check the right boxes on the surface for a lot men (no tats, slim, feminine, cook, bake, etc), my last relationship shattered my confidence when he cheated. I know I'd be a sitting duck, probably for the wrong type until I get that back. Still trying to figure out how to do that. Best of luck for you too.

There’s old black & white PSA vids from the 40’s-70’s regarding being well groomed. Those need to make a comeback.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

My goodness. Those would never be allowed to come back. That would be racist, or white privilege, or some nonsense now. People are instead taught that fat is healthy, slobby is trendy, and that ripped up jeans (and anything else now) are designer jeans. I'm frankly shocked that last horrible trend has lasted as long as it has.

@Sher7061

2 ай бұрын

Bring back Etiquette class.

@saintejeannedarc9460

2 ай бұрын

@@Sher7061 That would be a great idea. A hot topic on another forum is how women dress in gyms (or rather how little they do dress now). Dress codes would be a great thing to bring back too. There's just no standards anymore.

@Sher7061

2 ай бұрын

@@saintejeannedarc9460 I agree. The gym dress clothing is now standard street clothing. I cannot stand it.

You are right. She definitely wants the attention and reassurance.

Tip 1: keep the bodycount in the low single digits.

@TwitX2007

5 ай бұрын

This applies to the men as well I hope

@wjdyr6261

5 ай бұрын

​@TwitX2007 yes. Men who whore around are just as bad.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

@@TwitX2007 It absolutely should! Better yet - 0 body count. A REAL woman who has saved herself doesn't like the thought of being with a guy who has been around. Yuck!!

@waderich9904

3 ай бұрын

0 - 1 lifetime score preferably both men and women

I'm happy to hear that second girl already has cats. At least she won't be alone for the rest of her life.

HAHAHAHA! The one girl literally says "I have my cat and that's nice". She's foreshadowing her future and she doesn't even know it! Future cat lady yo!

Their past choices become more apparent with the passing of each guy they find an excuse to dump. And yes their out of the world expectations are eating away at their personalities 🤨

Her problem is she comes across as someone who wants to be a competitor not someone who wants to cooperate with a man.

@harrymills2770

5 ай бұрын

I don't get that impression of her. $he just seems a bit rudderless with the face metal.

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

She comes across as a needy whiner.

I've known a lot of people who like their morning-alone time. They just get up before everybody else. What's sad about the 2nd one is that she has this caricature of what men are like. We don't need a pep talk every morning, but we do need reminders of why we teamed-up in the first place, and that means being pleasant to the one person you picked, over all others in the world, to share your bed and home. Maybe she has daddy issues or shacked up with a jack-ass. Or maybe she's just so self-centered, she can't get over herself.

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

Um.... That's a nice speech, but it's irrelevant.

@tylerskiss

5 ай бұрын

The morning routine is just the first hurdle you’d encounter every day with that second girl. Just look at how she’s willing to present herself on video for people to see. She’s a “zero effort from me, you do all the work” kind of bitter garbage that would make any man miserable.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

@@ThatOne77 You sound like girl #2. Lol!

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

e2477 Whatever you say

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

e2477 Um.... My comment had nothing to do with either of the women.

That is calles Hoeflation; The concept of men having to work 20x harder than their grandfathers did for women 20x worse than what their grandmothers were.

10:22 This is why she will be living ALONE with CATS for the rest of her lonely life!

One of the best aspects of this channel is Mr. Reagan’s consistency. Several years ago in a different video he explained the last true form of discrimination is based on a persons physical appearance. We all must do our best to be physically fit, not be overweight and well groomed. It was stated again in today’s video. I also want to suggest everyone see the 2011 movie “What’s your number “. Starring Anna Faris

14:56 There is the crux. It's the attitude/mentality/compatibility, not the tats or even the nose ring. I don't like a nose ring, but I could live with that FAR easier than incompatibility in world view. The nose ring just an outward symbol of internal ideals.

Lower your expectations. Be a good person. Try to see the good in others. Half of people are under average. Consider settling. Somebody settles. Thats how it happens.

Perhaps you should do a video on why two people, such as yourself, divorced so quickly. Was it the culture difference or the stress of both of you having high profiled jobs etc.

16:19 you just described Prince Charles and Princess Diana who for whatever reason never wanted her in the first place, making Diana's life miserable

Whatever you do, don't end up with a woman who is still in the matrix.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

In other words, not woke?

@NotSureStill

5 ай бұрын

There are many heads on the hydra.

"Those weird black girl nails" LOL!!!! ain't that the truth.

@nancyharris7715

5 ай бұрын

How you can do any housework with those claws on is beyond me!!!

@MrTimdtoolman1

5 ай бұрын

@@nancyharris7715 LOL!!!! They aren't doing much house work if I had to guess

@nancyharris7715

5 ай бұрын

@@MrTimdtoolman1 probably all them children 😏

Starting 2024 by learning how to get a spouse… wild!

To add to your tomboy-ish take, about a year ago I left my business casual cube job and went to operations where I have to visit construction crews in the field. I’m required to wear a hard hat, work boots, Ariat is now the brand of choice. My husband has started purchasing me more dresses to wear and the whole dressing down for running errands isn’t much of an option. I appreciate him for this-he’s a guy.

Here in Africa we do the nose ring thing, BUT only on difficult to handel Bulls. Not for women! Allways wanted to know what it looks like if she has influenza with a runny nose- Gross!

@Starswake

5 ай бұрын

Ha 😅 yes or just allergies.

@Leon-Servant-of-Christ

5 ай бұрын

Lol

@harrymills2770

5 ай бұрын

The advantage of a nose ring is you LOOk like you have snot running out your nose, even when you don't.

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

Handle

@gotdangedcommiesitellyahwa6298

5 ай бұрын

It really becomes a mess if that thing gets snagged on something and rips out. Then they're missing a chunk of cartilage for the rest of their lives.

Oh my goodness, you're so right on all points. All these attributes are taught by traditional Roman Catholicism, btw, (for both sexes, married, single, clergy... one must strive for virtue & purity)

I automatically walk away from any woman who would say something like: "wife me up"

Meet at Church. Means you should go, not just for chicks, but knowing God and His will for your life will save you so much heart ache. So important to have same values. Besides money, this is huge. Been married 25 years, and my marriage is awesome. She loves me and Jesus, that makes it work. I love her and Jesus, we live a miraculous life, so good.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

So much truth there. Still, finding someone at church won't guarantee good character, since we are all sinners, but it's a good start. Congrats on your excellent situation, fren. :)

When a woman makes a video to convince the world how happy she is ALONE WITH HER CAT....😂

I think this video is pretty much describing the plot to a bunch of movies, such as "Mischief" that came out in the 80's. It's always the same plot: An average guy lusts after the most popular girl in school, somehow succeeds in getting her, but then realizes that he actually likes some nerdy girl better, so he breaks uo with the hot chick, and lives happily ever after with the nerdy girl (who always wears glasses).

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

She always wears glasses and looks nerdy at the beginning. Then when the nerdy girl gets the guy, she gets a makeover. She suddenly become hot, loses the glasses and get a better wardrobe.

@the_mowron

5 ай бұрын

@@saintejeannedarc9460 I should have mentioned that this is also the plot to a bunch of country music songs (ex: Garth Brooks: I thank God for unanswered prayers) with a revenge variant where the singer never got the girl but is now a big star (ex: Toby Keith, How do you like me now?)

As a man, I 100% agree with this.

I’m almost 32 years old. No tattoos, no piercings, and a virgin because I am a Christian who believes in no s*x before marriage. I was always of the attitude that I would probably never get married, but if I did, I would be a homemaker only, raising any children I and my future husband have, homeschooling them exclusively. I am surrounded by a much more loving Christian group than I was in years past. I pray one of the Christian men in my church group decides to pursue me. I pray for it every day. Too bad the secular children I went to school with bullied me into believing I was not worthy of marriage. I know I am, for the Lord Jesus Christ laid it on my heart that I am. I just have to find the right man to marry!

@whatthefrerejacques

5 ай бұрын

My main girlfriend from high school has remained good friends with me and my wife (the girlfriend after her.) She didn't get married until 34 and she just asked us for prayer for her 7th pregnancy! We're so excited for her and pleased that God didn't leave such a worthy woman unmarried and childless. To get to that point she had to: Move to Ireland Live in Calcutta serving the poor Join a convent Leave her convent Move to California (gross) Move to Minnesota. Consider leaving your church and splitting your time at another church. Increase the pool of potential fellas. If you don't wear makeup, find your best feature and highlight it with makeup. Don't use a pet as a balm for loneliness. Cat ladies are a cliche for a reason. Let loneliness keep hurting. You are valuable and beautiful and good. But you could be more.

@gotdangedcommiesitellyahwa6298

5 ай бұрын

Keep the faith. Things like virtue, modesty and faithfulness are very attractive traits which are increasingly difficult to come by. You will find the right person, at the right time.

@andyjones7121

5 ай бұрын

I hate hearing this. A virgin over 30? You're an extremely rare catch! Have confidence, smile, and try to be outgoing. You got this!

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

@vixenrevitup I hope your nickname for yourself is not descriptive. If it is, no guy of character, especially a Christian, wants a woman he has to compete with or for. Just a little tip from Granny.

@LuannKeller

5 ай бұрын

I know many men looking.

That second girl is so cringe. And for someone talking so poorly about men, she doesn’t look like she has much to be desired about her! 😂

High value? What does that even mean???? You need to find the person that completes you. I’ve been married for 27 years. My wife (even in her youth) would not have been “high value” on looks. Looking back, I’m so happy we got married because we are right for each other.

@wjdyr6261

5 ай бұрын

High value has little do with physical beauty. It had everything to do with purity, virtue, or at least a very low body count, ability to nurture children and loyalty and cook. Low maintenance

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

Paul, we'll-put. You worded that the exact way I would have.

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

​@@wjdyr6261um..... That was his point. Did it fly over your head?

@artmccartan4911

5 ай бұрын

A pro-planned parenthood person is a hard noooooooooo

@SweatyFatGuy

5 ай бұрын

Nobody completes me, I am a competent, capable, accomplished man. The way it has to go with me is: I lead, she follows. Since far too many of them want to run my life, I am content to avoid them entirely. Two ex wives who thought they could do better (and found out they couldn't) is enough.

Loud and head strong is a non-starter. Men like women that let them lead in the relationship. Have mutual respect for each other.

Can take out the nose ring but the hideous tattoos are there to stay. She has definitely limited her options.

High body count is a big no no for me along with being a slob. I keep my home in perfect order.

@gotdangedcommiesitellyahwa6298

5 ай бұрын

Yeah if someone doesn't take care of themselves, it's a red flag that they probably won't take care of their partner either.

“Wife me up?” She needs to upgrade her vocabulary.

"Wife me up". Oh yeah. That nose ring shows she will be a good mother.

30:00 the problem with a girl who’s too clean is they’ll often constantly rag on you if you’re not.

High value has little do with physical beauty. It had everything to do with purity, virtue or at least a very low body count, ability to nurture children, loyalty and can cook. Low maintenance also

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

For women AND men!!

@hensmom6473

5 ай бұрын

@@joyfulnoise2477 Agree 💯🙌 No respectable woman wants a man who has slept around with a lot of other women. It goes both ways.

Thank you Chris, for your efforts getting us the honest news and culture. Appreciate you.

@MrReaganUSA

5 ай бұрын

Thank you so much Lisa.

@DEVOPS_R_US

4 ай бұрын

@@MrReaganUSA - Your giving spousal advice. Are you married or in a long term relationship yourself? I recall Valeria the Russian (smart move I did the same).

I work for a company run & almost entirely staffed by Eastern European immigrants, and all the men are fit & masculine, AND EVERY WOMAN IS BEAUTIFUL.

What it comes down to is not whether an individual guy likes muscles, or tattoos, or piercings, or a girl who likes to “bro down”, It’s about what the majority of men prefer. Targeting the largest swath of your audience, is what’s going to yield the best chance of the outcome that you want And the majority of men prefer women who don’t act like men. Non-promiscuous, feminine, nurturing, and to a degree less successful. Of course, the individual you’re dealing with at any given time, may have additional preferences, or may not care about one of the things mentioned above, but for the most part staying within those lines gives a woman the best chance at marrying a man that she respects, which is really The optimal outcome.

The truth. Well said, Mr. Reagan.

The first girl has beautiful brown eyes. She should ditch the nose ring and put on a nice summer dress consintrate on eye contact. She will do fine.

Men who can cook WELL is another attractive attribute.

@gotdangedcommiesitellyahwa6298

5 ай бұрын

You'd think more singles would want to learn how to cook, for themselves and the reason you mentioned. It's also cheaper and healthier than fast food.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

In my experience, it's still on the rare side. I was always the one who can cook well, and bake, and make bread. That's ok, I don't mind having the attributes of traditional woman. As long as the man has traditional, handyman and gentleman qualities to compliment mine. I'm pretty happy if they can just cook nominally. Then they are willing to be the sous chef, and can learn a few things.

If you are a good cook the men will be breaking down the door, if they like your food you wont be able to get rid of them.

Nose rings are for livestock.

Money isn't as important as most think. People use to live in shacks with 5 kids, but there was food on the tables and a roof over their heads. Anything above that, is gravy. Just like a women's looks isn't as important as personality, as long as she's not obese, because that means she's got self control problems.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

Totally agreed.

Tats and a bone in your nose? I’ll pass..

Nose ring is for clowns 🤡

She is a beautiful girl, but I agree it is likely that she wants a top 1 percenter. So to mingle in that arena you need to meet the requirements of what they are looking for.

Tomboys are okay too. They are general down to earth, low maintenance and useful in a clutch.

@hensmom6473

5 ай бұрын

I was raised on a working farm, showed horses, helped haul hay, clean stalls and other farm work. Also was on my high school tennis team. A female can be a tomboy, feminine and still a lady with class.

@HermitagePrepper

5 ай бұрын

@@hensmom6473 agreed

I have a problem with what is considered a high value man. It seems that the only way to be one is by making lots of money, i disagree. Most men don't make a ton of money but are very good men nonetheless. Morals and treating people well seem to no longer count as much.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

Yes, I think "high value" is an imprecise term. I like the terms "quality' or " good character" much better. And I think morals and kindness count much more than people may realize.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

Morals, loyalty, fidelity, and being willing to treat woman like a lady, as well as loving God, trump the high salary any day. I just care that a man has work ethic, not really what he makes.

Do we have to get our nails done? As long as they’re clean and filed. I like to be more natural with less makeup.

@AG-uu3do

5 ай бұрын

I don’t know, I feel like you should be the best you can be without using wigs, extreme makeup, etc. At the end of the day it comes off. I think keeping fit in mind, body and spirit is tops. Staying healthy, exercise, hygiene, education, work ethic, kindness, helping others, being a leader and light are far more appealing for both men and women.

@gotdangedcommiesitellyahwa6298

5 ай бұрын

I tend to agree. Always been more attracted to the ladies who try to keep things like that simple. Not a slob, obviously. Too much makeup and pushup bras strike me as false advertisement.

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

In my book, a girl who needs tons of make-up, and her hair and nails done regularly is high maintenance. My hubby would have passed on by.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

I seen long threads of men say they largely don't like makeup and many of them really hate fake nails. I don't think men need women to have their nails all done up. Seems to be if it's tasteful it's alright. If it's really fake and garish, then it's a turn off. Like Mr. Reagan said, if they look like the black girl nails (I call them tranny nailes), then it's a big turn off.

@waderich9904

3 ай бұрын

Men like natural women. Just look clean. Minimal makeup is perfect. Just a tiny bit. Most men aren’t gonna care about painted nails or cute dresses, they just want you to be clean, healthy, kind, supportive, and respect both yourself and the man hopefully.

My mistake was thinking that a wife and husband would want to build a life together. Get married, have a few kids, buy a house to raise them in but I was wrong. A woman wants to get married to a guy who already has those things so she can enjoy the luxury the husband provides, not build it up with him and after building myself up for a third time after two divorces I have zero interest in getting married for a third time to lose it for yet another divorce

@joyfulnoise2477

5 ай бұрын

Those were not quality women. Not sure where/how you found them. You will usually find quality women in churches, but never in bars.

@chrisbrass8930

5 ай бұрын

@@joyfulnoise2477 first one I met at work, we were both commercial truck drivers and I gave her her road test for employment. The second was a blind date that I was set up on after being assured she was "a good Christian girl". I should have seen the red flags from both, but alas I didn't. After two attempts, I now realize that I come with too much baggage and even if I did find that special one, I'm hesitant to subject someone that I love to the damaged goods that I offer, I think that's part of the problem with the second marriage and I've dated a few "damaged goods, so to speak" since the second divorce, including a few girls I met at church

I normally hate dating advice videos and Mr. Reagan is probably the only KZreadr I’d actually watch giving it. I made a lot of mistakes with men in my youth and now I’m a single Mom, I’m covered in tattoos, and I’m single. I have to give a shit about my career because I have to support two kids. I’ve been single for over two years and I’ve effectively given up entirely on dating. If the alternative is wearing dresses, fake smiling and enforcing a constant self awareness that enhances desirability then I’d rather be alone. Love your content Chris. ❤

Women want the sixes, Six feet tall Six figure income Six pack abs They want Chad and Tyrone, everyone else is in the friend zone

@smelltheglove2038

5 ай бұрын

Nah, you just gotta have game. I only make like 50k, and have no issues. I am 6’0 and weigh 165. I’m 42 too.

@stanleyshannon4408

5 ай бұрын

​@smelltheglove2038 how many biological children have you fathered?

@smelltheglove2038

5 ай бұрын

@@stanleyshannon4408 just one. He lives with me full time. His mother and I are divorced. I was faithful throughout. She got a new job and went woke. Good riddance. She’s recently realized her mistakes, seeing me happy as hell, but I’m not interested.

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

​@@smelltheglove2038So it's a game. Ok.

@couch4330

5 ай бұрын

​@@smelltheglove2038I'd be more concerned with 50k at 42 than getting a woman using game. 🤷

Sorry to hear about Valeria. I enjoyed the podcasts. I am still waiting on The Swamp.

Joie de rue, douleur de maison. That's the term you're looking for to describe the grumpy girl you dated.

Women often judge men by whether they have a fault their father doesn’t have or a good character trait their father does have. If their father controlled their temper, and didn’t swear a lot, then they’ll think twice about marrying someone who starts cursing when something goes wrong. For me, someone who allows daily frustrations to anger them is immature, and I don’t want to be around them.

Guys that make the kind of money the first girl want isn't looking for a business owner wife. He wants someone that can do want they cant. Like stay home and raise the kids,

@ThatOne77

5 ай бұрын

Really. That's what all wealthy guys want. Hmmmm. Ok.

@jaredj2842

5 ай бұрын

@@ThatOne77 I was making a statement about what disqualifies her from being chosen. It's not all about being a good cook and willing to clean the house and raise their kids. He is looking for someone to fill the gaps he isn't able to though.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

@@jaredj2842 Fair enough. Men should have to apologize for wanting a trad wife, as long as they are willing to be a trad husband.

@jaredj2842

5 ай бұрын

@@saintejeannedarc9460 I would say most men are willing to be a trad husband but are not able to. Making enough money to support an entire family is out of reach for most men.

Not every girl likes flowers....i think its the "surprise factor" "something extra" that girls like the most. I think they are a waste of money myself, but i love it when i find a love note from husband that he secretly snuck into my purse for me to find later ❤❤❤. Or somtimes its my favorite candy that he will put in the sun glass compartment of my car. Anything surprising that lets me know he's thinking about me 😍. Major points if its something i mentioned and was listening and got it. 💖

If you want any person no matter how high the value of them are first you have to not put them on a pedestal and pretend like you're playing hard to get and don't care

Historically, there were 2 pools of women -the women single men slept with & -the women men married. Men used to know the difference, and refusing to marry girls who'd "been around," helped keep marrying girls on the right path.

@Sangreaalstube

5 ай бұрын

LOL! What about the 2 pools of men? Forget about that, did we? Men never knew the difference, and that's sad, and why some of us women are spinsters.

@nocomment1212

5 ай бұрын

@@Sangreaalstube It's too bad that you misunderstand these things, but unimportant, because Civilizations are built by men, not women. Women always follow the men. Only weak men follow women. So, if you were capable of understanding my point, you would've understood that men failing to know the difference is precisely the problem. Now, ideally, men would value their own virtue as much as a woman's, but that only works when men actually value virtue, which too few currently do.

@Sangreaalstube

5 ай бұрын

It is a shame that you do not understand the difference between leading/following and walking with. Apparently you are one of the men that do not actually value virtue, but instead flaunt your ignorance of real partnership, which you are no doubt incapable of. I feel sorry for you. @@nocomment1212

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

@@nocomment1212 Double standards make a low value man too. You sound entitled, and it's no more attractive on a man than it is on a woman.

Woman care about looks, but a really intelligent, open minded, well groomed, gentlemen with integrity can start to look really good. LOL

When I was stationed in Kyrgyzstan, we couldn’t believe how beautiful the women were. Always put together. It was clear who the Americans were and the male G.I.’s were wife-ing them up quick!

@hz3917

4 ай бұрын

Steppe girls are something else

Happy New Year and Good Health

Mr. Reagan is jumping into the manosphere

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

I'm not hearing that. He's quite a gentleman and still likes women. The manosphere guys are bitter, brutal and generally despise women to their core.

I married a high value man (hot career, good looks, charming personality, and the late model sports car didn't hurt, lol). I was at best a five and he was a ten. How did I pull this off? Everything Mr. Reagan said. We went on an accidental date and had an amazing time just talking and laughing. Within 3 weeks we were living together. Every day he came home to a neat, clean apartment with supper on the stove. I did his laundry and organized his closets. We went where he wanted, did what he wanted, and chilled when he wanted. That was 45 years ago and we've had a great relationship for all of it. Ask not what your man can do for you, ask what you can do for HIM!

What great advice! Thank you, Mr. Reagan. I only have one idea to offer: Girls, don't "go steady!" Play the field. Find the man who suits you. I wish I had learned this at a young age. What good is being a desirable woman to an undesirable man, just because "he loves you?" What is love? All in all, great video.

Happy New Year, Mr. Reagan ❤

Happy New Year!!

I had to laugh at how nose ring macho girl took a drink from the can in mid sentence and then stopped and stared at the can for a couple of seconds... SQURRIL!!

I worked with several woman on a farm. All of them would have been great to be involved with. However, I cut myself while working ans was bleeding (wasn't that much). When they saw, all of them turned and ran and were almost screaming with fear. I would rather have a woman that can stand the sight of blood knowing that they would help rather than run. The woman you started this video looks like a woman that could handle her self and someone that would be worth helping be anything she wanted to be.

@saintejeannedarc9460

5 ай бұрын

That is so bizarre that farmhand type women would bale, just because you cut yourself. I'm no farmhand or tomboy type. Definitely more feminine, willowy and domestic. If you cut yourself though, the only place I'm running is for the bandaids, peroxide and some damp paper towels, to compress and stop the initial blood flow. Sheesh, that's rough bud. Woman have to help the menfolk out.

It's not just doing laundry, it's the acts of service love language, when my fiance does things like that, like making me a nice home-cooked meal it's one the biggest things that convinced me to propose to her.

Great take on this subject. They always say to each their own, but you need to stand out to have a chance

Excellent and to the point. Common sense basics. If you desire someone above 'basic' be above that. Learn + discern authentically. Happy New Year 🎉

My wife wanted to go get corn dogs on our first date. I knew I was hooked. I married her 3 months later...... That was over 25 years ago. Basically you just want to find someone who will put up with your stuff. :)

This comment section is almost as good as the video.

No one will want me at my age and with all my heath issues, so i guess I'm just screwed

What women need to also learn is HOW TO HOLD ON TO THE MAN THEY WANT. They want a man but don't know how to keep a man. They change every other day. A man does not what 10 different women in one woman. Women need to stay consistent and not change personalities every day or every other day. I don't want to hear the excuse WELL OUR HORMONES ARE CONSTANTLY CHANGING. Men have hormones as well ladies!!!! Stop using excuses for everything you do. Don't try to change me. Don't try to take away all the things I like to do. Don't try to take away all my family and friends!!!

Love it you said the smile more line 😂😂

Septum piercing is a huge red flag

Thanks!

Great video Chris! Hopefully some people will actually listen and understand this concept. Thanks 🙏 again

The nose ring and the "wife meeee uppppp" talk is the biggest turn offs ever in a woman!

29:17 what? Did I miss something? No more Valeria?

The best dating advice I’ve ever heard is “Be the person who you’re looking for is looking for.” If you want a decent, polite person, be the person who a decent polite person wants.

If I was young and single, I would have no problem dating her. She seems pretty cool to me. Great personality, keeps herself in shape, nice attitude, introspective and of course very attractive. She's a catch for young single man in my opinion.

Very good video!!!!