It must have been very difficult for you to do this video. I appreciate your honesty and for your forthrightness in talking about this situation

Talking about keeping it real! I marvel how you can talk about your weight issues honestly and openly. You do not ignore it or hide it. You are just real about it. You covered everything a non fluffy person was probably thinking while you were listing the challenges. Yet again, you have tackled a topic that many would not dare to speak on. It’s your gift to us and I am one of the many that sure appreciate it.

@ibrockinrobin67

8 ай бұрын

Seriously Tony, Big T, you are the best. And thank you for telling those who think we can just "lose weight" easily the way it is.

@erinbell7224

8 ай бұрын

I came here to say this! I love how open you are, Tony :-)

@janetwheeler7690

8 ай бұрын

Yes on all these. I use a mobility scooter. I also book a hanidcap accesdible room. Much better bsthroom. Down side is that there are limited number of rooms per ship.

@JackieCanessa

8 ай бұрын

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@JackieCanessa

8 ай бұрын

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I’m a big gal and I when I planned my Alaskan cruise, I knew there would be a lot of walking. I had booked many months in advance so I was able to get myself in a better condition with 10-15 minute walks and swimming. By the time of the cruise, i was ready for it. The walking was not nearly as hard as it would have been if I didn’t prepare myself and I kinda wished I had planned more physically challenging excursions. I had signed up for light activities thinking that I might not be able to do anything more strenuous. When I came home, I found that I lost a little bit of weight and decided that I want to continue bettering my health, so I decided to do the 30 min walk for 30 days and take up biking. Being big doesn’t mean you have to suffer, i recommend everyone to do some light activity routinely before a big trip, it makes everything so much easier.

@ibrockinrobin67

8 ай бұрын

That's great! Good for you. I didn't do that and I was ok with the walking, BUT I agree with you. Even if you don't like any weight walking daily, you would strengthen you leg muscles making all the cruise and port walking less strenuous. Thanks for the tip and encouragement.😊

@fluffytail6355

8 ай бұрын

Alaskan cruise next year is my goal for getting into better shape. There’s a lot of walking and it scares me!

@susancook1448

8 ай бұрын

@@fluffytail6355I was worried about it too being very out of shape. But our excursions were only mildly strenuous and it was fine

@bigm980

8 ай бұрын

Good keep at it! If you can do 30 days you can make it a habit and watch the pounds start to melt! It feels so good, and you deserve it!

@jeanmulqueeney6319

8 ай бұрын

A great plan. I've been doing that for a few months now for our Far East cruise in December. It's a really good motivational tool. X

Once again, thank you Tony & Co. for telling it like it is, for everyone, not just a few. The Cruising Community encompasses many types of people. 🚢

Before I lost weight, I'd go to the MDR on the first day before dinner & ask for an armless chair. They were more than happy to help. As of Thursday, I'm down from 405 to 275 with my Intermittent Fasting! 😊 You've got this Tony!!

@SlavGuns

8 ай бұрын

Congrats on the success! Keep at it! It is 95% diet not exercise.

@mAdCapper

8 ай бұрын

Grats! I am down 15 on my journey in 6 weeks :) Intermittent fasting works so well once you've developed the habit

@karyndewit193

8 ай бұрын

Good for you!

@joelgossett9484

8 ай бұрын

Had to ask for armless chair in MDR on HA ships. By the end of the cruise, they usually swapped it out as I was walking to the table.

@EjaBe23

8 ай бұрын

Congratulations upon your weight loss! WOW!

I was 315 lbs (5 feet, 3 inches.) I suffered a heart attack, 2 strokes. I lost some weight but surely not enough. Let me tell you what made me look at this weight loss situation seriously. I was sitting in church and noticed that my thighs had busted through my gray jeans. Thankfully, it was the inside seams. That was the event that made me say, "That's It." I've lost 125 lbs... size 26 to 16. I'm still working on it but when I go on a cruise I eat what I want... then it's back to business. It's a slow process but I'm determined one day to get to that size 12. By the way, I'm perfectly fine, truly blessed by God's miracles. Thanks for your honesty... took a lot of courage to share. I have to admit the bathroom had me rolling! 😂

@Cyndee527

8 ай бұрын

KZread Dr. Ovadia M.D. Dr. Ken Berry M.D. ketiovore or carnivore.

I lived 15 years as a plus size woman, which brings additional challenges, but I empathize with your topic. Good for you Tony to share this information and the difficulties others may not understand nor face. People and facilities can be brutal to those who do not fit the “normal” configuration and standards built to accommodate people. Great video and thanks for sharing.

Your closing to this vid is powerful and is an excellent point: live your life, work on overcoming limitations, and stay encouraged. I have recently began cruising as of October 2022, since then, I’ve gone on 5 cruises. Each cruise is motivation for me to keep losing weight and working on myself. Last year, I started at 315lbs. Currently at 260lbs. My goal for my bday cruise next month is 250lbs. This video gives me an added push and helps keep me focused. Thanks for sharing this video and thank you for the encouragement 🙏🏾

@ibrockinrobin67

8 ай бұрын

Congrats on your success! I too find it motivating. AND I actually find that I dont gain weight on cruises. I think the better MDR food (and smaller portions that actually are enough to keep me satiated) and all the walking make a difference. Maybe instead of a Love Boat cruise, someone should have a Biggest Loser Cruise. I would totally go. 😉

@annetteeve4637

8 ай бұрын

Congratulations on your weight loss.

@RedRoseSeptember22

8 ай бұрын

Congratulations!!! you've got this James ♥

@koransky1

8 ай бұрын

Well done, James!! I hope you get your birthday wish!!

@crescentmoonchild4031

7 ай бұрын

Good for you!

You actually changed my opinion about obese people. Increased my empathy. From here on out I won’t judge. This increased my empathy and compassion. It can’t be easy.

Thank you for your bravery ❤ If losing weight was easy none of us would be fat.

I know that cruising could be rough for heavyset people. My wife was a heavyset woman who had a bit of difficulties. We always cruised out of NYC. But, when we flew we sat next to each other and I lifted the armrest between us. By the way Tony, I once wore a size 42 portly suit. My wife was handicapped so sometimes I was able to get her a wheelchair. Other times she had a walker with a seat. Sometimes we had a table with a chair atone end and a bench at the other side. I sat on the bench and my wife sat in the chair. Tony, my late wife tried to lose weight many times. She didn't. Sometimes she ended up gaining weight. My wife often sat on the seat on her walker. One time on a Celebrity ship the shower door would not close with her in it. Sometimes we would shower together and I could clean those spots my wife couldn't reach. This is true. Glad I could carry some extra clothes for my wife in my carry on. I go to the gym. My wife didn't want to go. But, we used to walk around on the promenade deck. Even the ones that went entirely around the ship. People come in all shapes and sizes. Am subscribed and hit the like button.

@michelleridgway7452

8 ай бұрын

You sound like a wonderful and loving husband. I'm disabled too, and my husband is my rock. I hope you continue traveling.

@harlanabraham7772

8 ай бұрын

@@michelleridgway7452 Thank you for your kind words. I hope to continue traveling too. Unfortunately my beloved wife passed away.

@michelleridgway7452

8 ай бұрын

@harlanabraham7772 You still sound wonderful. I understood she passed away and that she was blessed to have you as her husband. I apologize if my present tense verbs were misused. You two sounded like a loving and special couple. I wish you all the best.

@bigshoesbigsmiles

7 ай бұрын

You sound like a loving, caring husband. I hope you can find some joy until you are reunited with your beloved wife.

@harlanabraham7772

7 ай бұрын

@@bigshoesbigsmiles Thank you very much.

As a large person looking to take my first cruise in over 20 years, I found this to be extremely insightful. I don't know what prompted you to select this subject, but thanks, lots.

As a fellow plus-sized person, thank you for this. We make adjustments to go through this life with the body we got and make the most. Thanks for the tips and your courage. ⚓️

@spaceace1006

8 ай бұрын

I'm not severely overweight, but I could really stand to lose about 20-25 pounds! I would love to get below the 200 mark. Of course, I weigh in at 220. I'm 5'11"

@therealmvp232

8 ай бұрын

Instead of making adjustments, loose the weight

@gianni1632

8 ай бұрын

Great video! Some great points. I've lived most of them but there were a few eye openers. I hope this sensitized a few of your followers to be more patient.

@stsfuzzybear4613

8 ай бұрын

@@therealmvp232I weighed under 100 lbs when I married. Very unhealthy. I didn’t gain weight until after I had to start using a wheelchair. It is very hard, when dealing with a body that doesn’t work properly, to lose weight. I tested how much food I could eat without gaining. 500 calories a day. No more. Problem: you can’t get enough nutrients to be healthy when eating only 500 calories a day. Try it. When I got my first chair it was only going to be for a short time. Go to the mall, walk the mall pushing my chair, sitting when about to crash, repeat. Needless to say it didn’t work. I did more damage to my legs than I lost weight. During the pandemic when I didn’t go anywhere I didn’t gain any weight. Read all the articles about the pandemic 50. Now what did I know that skinny people didn’t? My doctor was flabbergasted. His ‘healthy’ patients gained weight. Me? Not an ounce. Figure it out and win the Noble Prize. Tony when did your thyroid start growing? Maybe about 6 years ago? Malfunctioning thyroids can really screw with your weight. And growing can cause both under active and over active thyroids. And keep your body from using the ‘normal’ amount of hormone properly.

@tanittaclark9613

8 ай бұрын

@@therealmvp232don’t you think majorly plus size individuals have tried. It’s a daily battle. What a negative comment. Don’t shame the plus size community we deal with challenges everyday.

Tony I agree with you about the challenge of being morbidly obese. At 57 I reached 298 lbs. At 5'9 that was too much for my frame. After seventeen years and three back surgeries I slowly went down which took years not months to less than 190 lbs. Weight continues being an issue for me and the potential to gain excessive weight will always be there. So I understand and applaud you and others for tackling weight challenges. Happy cruising and God Bless!

@ibrockinrobin67

8 ай бұрын

That is amazing! I'm 55 and took my 1st cruise ladt year. At 5'3" & 260, I'm finding that the desire to cruise more and keep up with hubby, kids, & grands is becoming a good motivator. How did you finally do it and sick with it?

@raybrown6165

8 ай бұрын

I ended up doing it in stages. 1st plateau was 265, then 235, 210, 190 and finally 180. As a lifetime dieter I tried almost all the fads of the day! In the end I did it by crash dieting in phases. I would do 600-800 calories per day for a few months then eat naturally with premeasured meals until I get motivated again. Now I go up and then get my mojo back and attack it again. I took a while but finally I learned that dieting is a mental thing. If you are not mentally into it you will not succeed. All the fads in the world did not work for me and I suspect many others. Oh, wife and I went to two meals a day. One light morning and a a calculated (sometimes) second meal around 1-2 in the afternoon. We call it linner. So mentally get into it, premeasured food and eating twice a day. I guess because I was so overweight for 40 years I still feel overweight and it compels me to not let my weight get out of control. Our next cruise will be our 34th and started cruising when we were about your age. Good luck and happy cruising.@@ibrockinrobin67

@dcguenter

8 ай бұрын

@@raybrown6165 Similar story, weight, back, first operation at 32, doctors won't give me a 4th operation, take the smallest oxy available and haven't increased it in 24 years. Agree with pretty much everything you said, I did find that fasting one day a week really helped, not only on weight loss but teaching me will power. I simply challenged myself each time to increase the fasting by 1 hour, started at 12 hours and kept going from there. Only eat 2 meals a day, over the last few years, as I age (56 now), my back pain has increased to the point that I cannot eat later than 4pm or I can plan on a sleepless night of pain. Amazing how much a belly full of food can increase lower back pain! I still think it boils down to will power. I don't mean that to insult obese people, my 2 life long friends are both obese (as I once was). I do think that all these diets are bs, like you said it's a life long diet. To me, it was stopping one thing at a time, no more sodas, no more doritos, no more cookies, no more butterfingers, no more payday bars. You have to do it one thing at a time. I finally took my old suits to the Salvation Army, I used to put on the pants every so often and hold out the waist for motivation! Looking forward to my first cruise with my 13 year old daughter in December! Cheers and happy cruising!

I have had three knee replacements and as a result, I don’t have the normal range of motion, making it difficult to get up from some seats. I actually mentioned this to the captain on Mariner of the Seas last week. My complaint/suggestion was to have available higher chaise lounges at the pool, which I would be glad to pay extra for!

@Stephanie-we5ep

3 ай бұрын

Mobility issues (especially those unrelated to or compounded by weight!), are the worst! I've got RA and those chaise lounges are agony to deal with. I, too, would pay extra for taller ones.

@eileenammendolea1776

3 ай бұрын

My knees are my main problem too. It’s very difficult to stand or walk for extended periods of time so it does cause challenges and compromises I make when taking cruises and go on shore excursions, not to mention booking seats on flights with extra leg room. I empathize with you!

You have no idea how many people you have helped through this video. I know you focus on cruising, but many of these challenges apply to a variety of situations. Thank you for caring enough to share.

Wow. Tuff subject -- I've never seen anyone touch it, but you did it candidly and with respect and sensitivity. Bravo. PS. Thanks for addressing those wondering "why don't you just lose some weight question?" Like telling an alcoholic to just stop drinking...if it was so easy we'd live in a perfect world, free from any addictions.😢

Do not be afraid to get wheelchair assistance when needed while embarking or debarking or getting shuttled when needed. As a cancer patient and overweight female I watched my husband, Tony’s size (but older) struggle walking behind my wheelchair for many cruises until I finally convinced my husband to get one. He also has bad ankles from previous surgeries. Now our cruises at least start off easier. We can walk at our own pace once aboard the ship.Our wait staff handles the seating at dinner without problems ( so far) and on buses and planes I squeeze in with him. We take it as it comes and LOVE that Tony addresses this topic!!!❤❤❤

*i am fat and you can find me at the buffet - over and out!!!!!*

Another challenge: trying to reduce the size of suitcases. But the videos on 1 carry on bags, have a person size L or less. Plus size clothes are bigger and take up more space.

Thank you, Tony! My biggest challenges are keeping up with the pace of the other cruisers while 1) going up all the ramps to get on board the ship (“Is there something wrong with you?”) and 2) keeping up when walking along the pier to get back aboard the ship. One time, a woman who was observing my struggle actually flagged down a security man with a wheelchair!). It’s so hard to be unable to move quickly enough without holding up the entire group.😔

@readzalot

6 ай бұрын

If I can't walk the length of the pier, can I ask for a wheelchair? If I can't stand in line for a long time for check in, can I ask for a wheelchair?

@eileenammendolea1776

3 ай бұрын

That’s my problem now too. I have no cartilage in both my knees and I have to take steps one baby step at a time and I know people must be frustrated when they are stuck behind me.

As two people of size and short stature (200 and 240lbs), we used to travel Premium Econo when available, but those seats are less and less available. We often have 7 to 12-hour travel days, so comfort getting to and from is important. What we now do is fly what I call "Red-neck Premium Economy". I now book 3 Econo seats for two people - takes a bit of time on the phone with the airline, generally an hour, to arrange, but that added seat between the two of us makes the long trips more bearable. 3 Econo seats, booked with carefully chosen seats, and selecting/paying for them at the time of booking have made all the difference. 3 Econo seats often will be less than 2 Premium Econ as well - so we have won on both fronts.

There are so many reasons for being overweight, life is complicated, when you are open and honest it makes people think that wouldn’t normally. There is not enough kindness and understanding of others in this world. Thanks for sharing ❤

Thank you Tony for opening up this topic for discussion. I'd like to ask your patience for listening to my recent adventure in a port of call. Last year we were in Turkey at Ephesus. Incredible ruins. Our tour included the Terraced Houses which required an extreme amount of stairs (for me anyway). I was exhausted and couldn't have completed them without my husband pulling me up. I'm quite overweight but did not want to miss out. Between the heat and weight I was a mess. But I finished it and have the picture to prove it! That is my gold medal. We should be proud of ourselves for participating in these adventures. We may have some barriers but we do not have to miss out entirely. Keep cruising everyone. 😊

This was really information packed. In fact you should offer a copy to each cruise line so they could maybe address some of these issues. Good luck in your weight loss journey.

@ibrockinrobin67

8 ай бұрын

So true, especially since 40% of Americans are obese. Normally, I'd figure that they don't have to accommodate us, but if they do, they'd get even more of the plus size vacationers.

@PsychGirlRaven

8 ай бұрын

@@ibrockinrobin67but are 40% obese to the point that they would be affected? I’m considered “ obese” and were a size 12.

@kaydickey9239

8 ай бұрын

​@@PsychGirlRavenSo true. I'm considered obese and I was shocked to find that out. Same size as you.

Thank you Tony! I used to be obese and dealt with all of these. We are all humans!!! ♥️ I’m so glad I found a way out.

‘We’re still out here trying to be alive’ oh Tony, love you. 😅

Tony, I understand what you are going through! I used to weigh 380, and before my gastric bypass surgery, I was 280, and now 141 pounds. It is tough for heavy people as well as handicapped (I am 82 years old & now permanently on a walker, and have trouble with steps). Take care of yourself & keep up your good work!

Hi Tony, Thanks for bringing this Heavy subject up for discussion. My wife and I are also in the plus size club. We wanted to go on a 14 night RT P&O cruise from the UK this coming January . We were dreading flying to London round trip for the cruise. After a careful search on the web for an alternative to flying and shelling out tens of thousands for first class, I found a repositioning cruise from Miami to Southampton on the NCL Joy and returning 4 weeks later to Miami after it gets drydocked for upgrades in Europe. It was super cheap, like under 400 USD PP each way, far cheaper than flying economy . I believe they are doing this for a few of their ships in the future😁

@ibrockinrobin67

8 ай бұрын

That's awesome!! Plus you'll get to see England while it's dry docked. Enjoy!

@annepetry2340

8 ай бұрын

A great option for someone with the time to utilize the deal!

@GunnerHillTX

8 ай бұрын

Very cool! What will you do for the other two weeks?

@platon1963

7 ай бұрын

a14 night P & O cruise

@GunnerHillTX

7 ай бұрын

@@platon1963 Yup, I saw that. I was asking what you're doing for the other two weeks. :)

I am absolutely a plus sized cruiser. I’m 29 days out from my next cruise and I’m dieting like crazy to drop a few pounds to try and make the airplane, the shuttle busses, and all the other uncomfortable situations a little less uncomfortable

I had to comment, you made this so real!. I am not a plus size person and never thought of all the challenges. I am also awed in your honesty and frankness. you pulled no punches, you made no excuses you have my total R-E-S-P-E-C-T

For many of these reasons I’ve used as motivation to start a healthier lifestyle. I’m going with a group that needs to take a 7 mile hike and I don’t want to be the one left behind so I’ve been exercising and eating better as I’m determined to get healthier and take that hike.

@gdy2shus

8 ай бұрын

Love to hear it. What part of the hike are you most excited for? I'm excited for you in this journey, both health and your prize hike.

All I can say is thank you Tony! Your closing was so inspiring it made me cry. People need to realize that even though we are larger, we are people too and deserve to enjoy life.

My travel partner is plus sized with severe back issues, thank you for sharing the challenges. Some places are more inclusive than others.

@spaceace1006

8 ай бұрын

Back in 1990, I briefly dated a lovely Woman who stood 6'1" And weighed over 200lbs. She wasn't fat..she was just a big girl! I guess you could describe her as athletic. Too bad it didn't go anywhere. I really liked her!

@NiikkiiCakessTalks

8 ай бұрын

That's my issue. I'm overweight and I have back issues due to being in a car accident. The combination has made my mobility limited. However on NCL, any time I needed to get around the ship someone from the staff would come get me with a wheelchair and take me there. When done, they would come get me and take me back to my room. Not ideal, but it helped a lot.

Bless you, Tony, for this message. I have always wanted to take a cruise, but my husband is in the 5XL range and also 6'6". Size is always a challenge. I don't want to travel without him, but don't know if he is physically able to enjoy it. Besides being compassionate to those with physical limitations, you are very practical in letting us know what to expect. Thank you!

@ajvot71

8 ай бұрын

I’m similar in size, but other than a little inconvenience, I’ve never had any issues. All of the issues he mentions are the same issues that are everywhere.

@joywebster2678

8 ай бұрын

I'm 1 plus, but flying for work, I was last to board with all my hospital colleagues. I had the choice to take last seat or wait 24hrs for next flight. I took last seat. What pissed me off was all the giggles on board, the seat was window beside a 5 xl Physician. While he was awake he held himself up, and I was only over lapped a few inches. But as we took off he fell asleep, and he flowed like lava over me, until only my head showed. I was suffocating, and my colleagues thought this hilarious. I hit my call light, and asked stewards to wake him so I could breathe, and drink my soda. 6 hr flight I woke him 3 x. He said nothing. I was very sore by landing. There were tiny others who could have fit in the remaining half seat. Had I known, I would have stayed in the boring town 24more hrs on a weekend. It was inexcusable, he needed 2 seats. Ugh.

@DavidLLambertmobile

8 ай бұрын

My cousin is 6'05". He's not obese but tall. He's done a few 🚢.

@brendamichals4376

4 ай бұрын

As a plus size person, the hardest part is standing in the lines- I have purchased , faster to the fun or the key program and that helps with the lines- again , cost more but a big help!

Hi Tony. Yes, I'm a fluffy cruiser. The pools should all have an accesable entry. Ramp or stairs. A lot of people can't help being plus size because of medical conditions. It's not always easy when people say, just lose weight you'll be able to do more. If it was only that easy. As always thank you for all you do ❤

This is the first time I've ever commented to any you-tuber. I watched this video and probably nodded the entire time. I completely agreed with everything you said. I am under five feet tall and about 315lbs, with arthritic knees. I did not feel as if you were asking for sympathy - just pointing out facts. It would be nice if people without weight issues just understood how hard it can be for people of size. I sometimes feel like I get the side eye from people with that same "why don't you just lose weight" judgement. My husband and I love you and your videos. You always make us laugh while keeping us informed. We are not big cruisers - we've been on 2 and are scheduled on one of the hallmark cruises on NCL next November, but we watch you every day!! Keep it up and keep being you. Shout out to Ludicris.

This is why you are one of the top cruise vloggers. You cover it all!!! Very honest!!

My husband is a obese and has mobility issues. We really appreciated your talk on the difficulties of plus sz travelers. We’ve experienced all the challenges and are now requesting accessible everything we can. And about to purchase our own folding wheelchair. Very few are out there for over 350 lbs. capacity. We live in TX and hardly any service or mobility stores. Some rental places for events. 😢Very frustrating!!

This is literally the truest cruise video I’ve ever seen regarding plus size cruising. Thank you for being honest. From a plus size cruise queen.

thank you for brining these things up. This reminded me of a situation that happened a few years ago when I was traveling with a friend and on the plane she was seated next to me. However, after take off we were talking and it seemed to me that she wasn't comfortable and I asked her if she was, she said she was fine. it was a 4 hour flight and when we were getting out of our seats to get off the plane, she was having a really difficult time getting out of the seat. Long story short, teary eyed, she confided she was kind of frozen, her back froze up and she could barely move. That was due to the fact that her rump didn't fit in the seat from the start and she was sitting half side ways AND, the seat belt didn't even fit around her tummy. We were the last ones to get off the plane and she then felt comfortable without everyone looking at her, as she struggled to get out of the seat. She sat for 4 hours in great discomfort and unsafely. My heart sank when I learned this. She had a bad backache the rest of the trip! I never thought of her as overweight - yes, she was a little larger than me, wearing an 18/20 women's size, but surely not too big to fit in an airlines seat. Well, in fact, she was. We talked later and she said she was embarrassed to ask for a seatbelt extender because she did that once on a different flight, whispering her request to the flight attendant, who then loudly announced that she's be back with "a seat belt extender" - so that everyone around knew my friend needed one. She also confided that often times the restaurant we choose depended on the chairs they had. Now many things were making sense. We need businesses to automatically have available options for our larger sized fellow travelers and citizens. When booking tickets there should be an option for size related needs, just like dietary restrictions. And, they should not have to pay for a business class or first class seat - make some larger seat available in the rest of the plane. Our plus sized friends need to be comfortable and SAFE just like everyone else. Their money is just as green!

kudos to you tony, for constantly addressing this matter that 40% of the populous (4/10 are considered "obese") have to navigate! i hope having to address this on a regular basis doesn't bring more stress, but i'm glad someone is addressing how callus and "size-est" the general world is, when nearly half the populous isn't a "straight size". I myself have never exceeded 220lbs, but even at a size 14/16 the issues already exist - getting any bigger, it only gets worse.

Great episode Tony! As a 6'4" 320ib man I have gone through all of those challenges. But I still love cruising. Restaurant booths are my biggest challenge.

Thank you, Tony, for raising my sensitivity toward the challenges you face. So impressed that you sally forth. We all benefit from you pushing through. Bravo!

Thank you for your honesty. My sister is plus size and has mobility issues and everything you mentioned is true. Her worst problem was the high steps to getting into buses , whether it was the transfer to/from the airport or a tour.

I want to share my ah ha moment when it came to traveling and being overweight / obese. We were on a flight from Arizona to Florida. I was so surprised that I almost couldn't get the seatbelt across my body. My thighs we slightly hanging pass the seats edges. That was the moment (6 years ago) that I realized I had to do something about my weight and size. Our country does have a body weight problem. I honestly think that when a lot of people (myself included) stopped smoking they gained weight. It's inevitable. I am now considered overweight category, but I do agree with cruise bathrooms. Even though I am less than before weight wise, I find issue with it as well. Thanks for sharing!!

I have been a plus since I was a child. I finally swollowed my pride and use a cane when I am cruising. I am offered a wheelchair at the airport and in the terminal but the cane works fine. On my latest cruise on NCL, the seats in Cagneys were very uncomfortable. I appreciate chairs with no arms. Thanks for this real time challenge for all of us. Yes, I agree that it isnt always easy since I have extra health issues. Thanks for these tips. They are all so true.

Great info! I recently lost 35lbs I could not believe how I would haven been able to walk my Disneyland/Universal trip. I was so worried about ‘Will I fit?’ ‘Can I walk the VIP tour?’ It’s such a true worry that most don’t speak of. Thanks for bringing it to light 👍🏿

Thank you for this, Tony. Being a plus size woman, this all hits home for me. I have experienced so much of this in my cruise travels. I am always concerned if i will fit in the chair, or if i will be able to handle getting in and out of the tender, going ashore. These are all things I have to think about as well. I want to enjoy life just like everyone else. Until I get this extra weight off, I will be worrying about something on every cruise. Thank you for sharing and being open and addressing this.

I appreciate your honesty. I first started following you back when you were living in NC and you were doing a daily step challenge. You and your wife would do these weekly weigh-ins. It ain't easy, but that's such a good place to start. I just want to encourage you - I've come down 50 lbs since my highest in 2018 and I accomplished this with steady exercise, limited eating window (i.e., intermittent fasting), and a replacement of processed foods with veggies. None of it over night, just small changes over time that added up. We're about the same age. Reach out to me if you want a buddy or accountability partner.

Tony, as one of those overweight persons I'm right there with you. IF there were easy answers we'd all be skinny. Thanks for putting our problems out there. You are my hero.

@therealmvp232

8 ай бұрын

Eat better, less food and exercise.

@donnaf422

8 ай бұрын

@@therealmvp232 apparently you didn't read the part that said "if it were easy we'd all be skinny" People have challenges (medical and more) you have absolutely no idea about. Try kindness.

Thanks Tony! This is so relatable! I wish there was a resource for big cruisers that compares the various lines and their ships in terms of the fluffy friendliness. A future project for you, maybe?!

@jackieaudus9829

8 ай бұрын

Great idea 👏🏻💯

The swimming pool issues really upset me. Before I will book a cruise I need to be absolutely certain there are steps going into at least one of the pools on board. If I can’t go swimming while I’m cruising, I’m not going. There are lots of issues with only having a ladder to get out of a pool. The first time I came across this issue I was younger, even though I was already plus size, but I was recovering from a badly broken arm… and found myself unable to get out of the pool! I had to have two people help me out of the pool without pulling on my arm. So it probably isn’t just the overweight people who have a problem with using a pool ladder when there are no steps. Ridiculous for cruise ships not to have steps going into a pool.

@Lovesapuzzle

8 ай бұрын

I'd never considered that exiting a pool would be difficult (and dangerous) for some people. Pool stairs would accommodate everyone. I can see where some people would have trouble using a ladder.

@michelleridgway7452

8 ай бұрын

Most Royal Caribbean ships have one pool that has a pool lift for those with mobility issues. Just a heads up, you'll get LOTS of heads turning as it lifts you in and out of the pool.😮

@rebeccalyons1327

8 ай бұрын

Honestly often it’s just too crowded to get in the pool

@Kiara_Kat

8 ай бұрын

⁠​⁠@@michelleridgway7452 So does Princess. But quite honestly, that’s not the solution. Having mobility issues and being morbidly obese are two different things. The issues encountered are oftentimes the same, but the public perception is totally different. Navigating through life as a fat person can, and does, often lead to humiliating situations, but having a deck full of people stare at you while you’re being lifted out of a pool like some kind of beached whale - on PURPOSE, mind you - is NOT the answer. People aren’t even subtle about it…many feel that it’s perfectly fine to point, laugh, shake their heads, make comments and let their disgust hang out for the world to see. Fat shaming and discrimination is alive and well in 2023. No, it’s not getting better, it’s getting worse. And forcing people of size to use a pool lift just so they can swim and get some pain-free exercise is ludicrous. Pool lifts aren’t the answer, steps are.

Thank you for your candid approach to this subject. As a plus size woman I try to be prepared for anything that could take place while traveling. The swimming pool stair issue is a problem for the elderly as much as plus size. I have assisted many elderly folks who just don't have the strength to lift themselves up the ladder and hold on tightly to a wet rail. I know there might be a pool on the newer ships that have shallow stairs for a gradual entry and exit, but this is not guaranteed. Always appreciate your cheerful upbeat new presentation and honestly. See you on the Lido!

Thank you for being authentic and honest about the struggles of having extra weight. Our bodies are actually conditioned to retain our weight. When you try to restrict calories your body actually releases more hormones to make you even more hungry. This then makes you feel like you just can’t do it and you tend to gain even more weight. It has NOTHING to do with willpower. But weight shouldn’t limit anyone from going out and living!

I can totally sympathize with everyone who has these issues. I myself had a medical issue 20 years ago that has caused my weight to slowly creep up no matter what I do. While my husband is a big guy (6’4” & 290) has bad knees, can find some of these issues to be a challenge as well. We typically book business class seats on planes if the flight is longer than 2 hours, it just too much for his knees. (Tony, you should count your blessings for booking business class on your Australian flight) even some of the business class seats can be a challenge if you are a window seat. Excursion buses can be tour buses which tend to be higher up, read as more (steep) steps up and down. Those excursions description are so subjective to who is writing them, we have been on ones that were listed as moderate that I would have considered easy and others like Viking’s Mt. Florin’s hike that list it as 1500ft hike, but but does not mention that it is at least a 6% grade hike up. As far as packing goes, I try to book nonstop flights even if they are more because less chance of missing luggage but I also do 2 things as well - I will pack a carry on with a few outfits and shoes to get me through a few days and our checked bags we will split our clothing into the bags, just be sure to pack things that go together for outfits if you can. I have gone into the ships gift shops and have looked, wishing they carried clothing in bigger sizes. I mentioned to salesperson in the ship’ s shops that it too bad they do not carry things in bigger sizes, in hopes they mention the feedback from customers. Plus size people need to mention this on every cruise as well if we want this to change. And if your luggage does go missing, it may be hard to find your size of clothing nearby the ports, and if you do it may not be something you normally would have bought. Fortunately my husband and I are still of a size that fitting into armed chairs can sometimes be cozy. I do wish they would do away with the tub/shower combo, it does feel narrow for any person plus I always feel like there is a risk stepping into it. Here’s another little gem that plus size people will love, in Quebec City, we stayed at the Fairmont Le Chateau Frontenac, paid over $1k a night for the room (you only live once right?) and the space where the commode was, only 24” between the shower and vanity. How’s that for cozy? I think cars seats are at least that wide!😂😂😂

So glad to hear the La Lido Loca song again! It feels like a celebration every time I hear it! Makes you wanna dance! Awesome video!!

@susana7968

8 ай бұрын

It's the best!

Just got back from a Caribbean cruise. The heat and humidity for me was not fun. Walking on our stops was hard for me. Thank you for addressing this topic. Good luck to you and all of us battling the weightloss 🙏💙

Thank you for covering this! I feel I can "weigh-in" too. I am also a plus-size cruiser in the 400+ range. You spoke about folks who wonder why we don't lose weight, and it's not for lack of trying. I call myself a trampoline dieter. Every time I lose weight, it ends up bouncing back higher than it was when I started... Pre-embarkation: I agree with avaoiding flights. it is part of why I returned to cruising, living in South Florida, it meant less than a hour drive to the port and get onto the ship... But as I started to become more adventurous, I found that I went to other places. One great airline policy for large cruisers: Alaska airlines requires you to get an additional seat, and you have to do it on the phone with a customer service representative... The advantage? if the flight is not completely full (if there are any open seats besides your extra) they will refund the full price of the second fare. Embarkation: I do deal with mobility issues and can't stand or walk for long and tried to white knuckle it through boarding the last cruise, and by the time we reached the entry way onboard, I was begging the crewmember escorting us in to just for the love of god find me a place to sit down for just a moment. It was quite painful. Seating on the cruise: I agree with your assessment of the seating issues in the dining and entertainment venues. If you go back regularly to the same areas, they learned your preferences quickly even in a freestyle dining atmosphere like NCL. Glas that you did mention the balcony cabins, the chairs on the balcony are not useable by someone of large stature. and they don't have any replacements... One time I had a cabin steward who swiped an office chair with no arms from somewhere, and he just asked that I bring it back inside when not on the balcony. He got a big tip!

Thanks, Tony, for encouraging people of all sizes to enjoy life! You’re an inspiration!

Appreciate your content. May I also add that travelling with hidden disability is also challenging. So, fellow travellers- please be kind to all.

Wow, this was so good. It is nice to have it acknowledged. It is also nice to have so many people out there commenting about the fact that they relate. I have lifted a chair up trying to get out because I was stuck. My size does limit the things I do, so thank you for the encouragement. ❤👍

Tony, as 3-4X size Cruiser I have bypassed 95% of your forementioned problems by booking a handicapped cabin (plenty of room) and also booking handicapped accessible excursions as the transportation has oversized seating. The assigned dining for handicap also takes into consideration the possibility of size. I just needed to swallow my pride and accept that oversize is a handicap.

Thank you for this, great respect for your honesty. One would hope others would stop judging and just be a good human being.

Insightful! Your video should be mandatory for not only cruise companies, but all companies regardless of the industry. I’m sorry that you’ve dealt with the issue, and have tremendous respect for how you manage and educate others. From about a year ago, suddenly developed mobility issues. No fun. I can still move around…but it’s tiring. I’m sensitive to this subject. My physical therapist emphasizes CONFIDENCE…mind over matter. Happy sailings, Tony! Love your vlogs!!! PS - several US airports have a new program…I don’t recall the name of it. They recognize that impairments are not always noticeable to the eye, but they’ll offer a tag to let staff and security know if you have a challenge, and will be helpful…I first had the experience at Denver, but it’s being rolled out to other airports.

I hear you Tony. I am 6’3” and 500lbs and love cruising. Every one of your points is totally valid. I live In Philadelphia and only drive to cruise terminals in my area (NYC, NJ, Baltimore) which limits my available cruise options. I plan my cabin choice near either a public restroom or an elevator bank to get me to one. Re: MDR - I go to the head waiter on Day 1 and ask for a chair with no arms and it will be there for you the entire cruise. The other factor that I ask for is a table away from others or not too far from the entrance or not too far a walk, because trying to squeeze between tables while others are seated and eating is terribly awkward. As always, we love you and your videos. Keep them up.

@WilliamJones-bg2on

8 ай бұрын

@@johnmayerislovee thank you for your concern. Good advice. I’ll take that under advisement. It’s never been suggested before.

@beccacarrillo

8 ай бұрын

@@johnmayerislovee I commented on one of your other comment...but I'll do it hear too in case you missed it. If you're going to tell people to do it, you at least need to know how to spell it. It is "LOSE"...one "O", not two.

@oscarrussell728

8 ай бұрын

@WilliamJones-bg2on Keep cruising, getting out there and keep moving! Don’t let a person who has no understanding keep you from doing something you enjoy. Keep moving! Enjoy all the beauty of the ocean and new sights!

@oscarrussell728

8 ай бұрын

Great jobs Yo y!

You might look into lyft rides are a few dollars cheaper than uber. A front desk person showed me that. And I find that scheduling a last minute ride is cheapest. Waiting is usually 5-15 minute wait.

This was a great episode. Thanks for tackling it!

I was both overweight AND recovering from a total hip replacement when we cruised earlier this year. Issues I struggled with were I'm not "elderly" and didn't "look disabled" but had the mobility issues you point out in this video: long walks from the boat to shore, excursions that were categorized as "easy" with "opportunities to rest" but had little to no places to actually SIT DOWN and rest, challenges with stairs/getting on and off shuttles/low toilets with no grab bars in ports/excursions, etc. Thankfully, I have lost 45lbs and have regained my strength and stamina. I'm hoping to have an easier time getting around next time. Side note: there were NO "handicap accessible" cabins that accommodated a family of 4 on our NCL ship. Their solution: purchase a handicap accessible stateroom with an adjoining cabin for our elementary aged children. What a joke.

@Marvin-P

8 ай бұрын

Side note: not everyone can be accommodated! No joke.

@OldFartAndy

8 ай бұрын

The cruise lines who market and sail particularly out of US ports should consider increasing the amount of accessible staterooms in ship design.

@ibrockinrobin67

8 ай бұрын

As Tony was talking, I kept thinking of a gal we met a few months on an Alaskan cruise. Sweet gal. Fairly young. Only a little overweight. BUT she had a cane fur some permanent issue. It was her 1st cruise and she didn't book any excursions because she didn't know how she'd get around. She booked with a church group and it was 80 people planned by a travel agent. How no one helped her was beyond me. We saw her a few days later and she said she was having a great time because her room steward told her that she could call and someone would pick her up in a wheelchair to take her place on the ship. I have seen many larger people rent Scooters so they can get around. Luckily, i gangrene needed that, but it IS available if needed. And there are likely wide seat wheel chairs if needed too. Just added info. I hope this helps someone

How about a follow up video on which Cruise lines is better at accomodating plus sizes? Meal, blacont and entertainment seating, bathroom sizes, embarkation etc... You probably have useful info to share on this.

@MrGreenleaf82

Ай бұрын

100%, does that video exist now?

These are great points Tony. Thanks for raising my awareness.

I think this video is a great service to first time cruisers who may not know about some of these things. Sure, they understand the airplane seats, the bus seats, and the challenges of walking long distances but who would think about the size of the space to use a toilet in their cabin? I'm sorry so many people found it necessary to 'dislike' it or make nasty comments. Instead of being kind, they choose to be ignorant. That's sad. Keep up the great work, Tony!

You’re brave to be open and honest about this topic. Personally I am a thin guy but I sympathize with you and love your channel. Hang in there and stay healthy. ❤️

Tony, can't tell you how much I appreciate you, your content, and your outlook on life. Thank you for everything!

Another wonderful video, Tony! ...and much needed.

Thank you for enlightening us on the challenges! I am so sorry that you are not accommodated better. I am glad you are bringing these issues to light!!!

Love you Big T! Your delivery and humor keep me coming back video after video. ❤

I love how honest you always are Tony! Great for people to know what to expect going into something. Knowledge is power for sure. I may not have all of these challenges but I do because of extreme low back pain experience a lot of challenges when cruising. Not being able to sit comfortably either it be on a plane or waiting in lines it’s hard. Many of the “fun” things I can’t do because of pain and safety. So I get it truly. Thanks for sharing 😊

Really well done. Compassionate yet informative. You always do a great job.

Always appreciate your perspectives on a wide-range of cruise topics. Wishing you and Jenny B the best!!!

Well said Tony. We're proud of you.

Awesome for not letting it stop you!! Happy and safe travels!

Mine and my husband's first cruise is coming at the end of Sept 2024 (Breeze from Galveston). He is 6'4 & 300 lbs and many places (in general) don't accommodate his height, much less weight. I am 5'9 and 260 lbs, so double whammy! Thank you for this video, because I would hate to have not been prepared and it taint our enjoyment. Knowledge IS power and going in and knowing that we'll find obstacles will make them much easier to handle and prepare for!

Tony, great video it makes you realize how sometimes we may just be thinking about ourselves being uncomfortable and there’s others who are experiencing the same or worse. Thank you for talking about your struggles.

Tony, sharing all of your experiences is admirable. You are so understanding of some of the trade offs you have and willing to attempt every solution possible to make cruising work. Thanks for sharing your solutions to be helpful to many.

Thank you thank you thank you Tony! I absolutely appreciate this whole video, but especially your final message. Knowledge *is* power AND we shouldn’t miss out on life just cos we’re fat. So, thank you for the info and the encouragement. Love it 💜

Thank you Tony, finally answers I really needed. I appreciate your speaking of something that is hard to say without being judged. Keep up with the awesome content.

THANK YOU for your direct honesty! Much appreciated. You Approached this sensitive subject with grace and insight.

Tony I watch your videos faithfully. Your channel even convinced me to try a cruise! I'm going in December and have had some concerns about my size and mobility. This video was perfect, thank you so much for the no nonsense information. Now I know to wear my good sneakers for embarkation day. You're the best dude. ❤

Tony, thanks for your insights! I feel they could apply to anyone with a mobility issue,not just larger people. And, who is it for anyone judge someone else! The things you identified in your video, was insightful for those of us, without a disability etc. you informed us about all the issues that we could use in the future. Also, you allowed us to understand what the way other person, might be feeling, or thinking. Which may give someone the opportunity to help and not be so negative. It’s a big world out there, but KINDNESS, is the way forward. Safe travels to you and Jenny B!!!

Thank you for the insight into the challenges of plus size cruisers. We love your honesty and positive attitude that shines through on all your videos.

Thank you for this one! I have travelled with an older parent and these are things we had to address. It is a size, ability, concern. So thanks for brining this up!

As a fellow Plus Size Cruiser .. thank you for speaking up for us 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

We must also be aware that not everyone that is heavy is guilty of overeating. Medical conditions and medications can cause weight gain and weight retention. We shouldn’t judge without knowing the whole story.

@SuperHockeyQueen

8 ай бұрын

Yes! And I am one. Made it up to 400 lbs. I’d done everything including surgery. 3 years ago, a doctor finally decided to stop berating me about not eating correctly or exercising. She did DNA testing and found that I have a rare genetic condition. So rare there are approximately 1000 of us in the US. Now that the condition is being treated, I’m down to 275.

@KarynHill

8 ай бұрын

Two of my medications have weight gain as a side effect. It's a constant struggle.

@1marynewton

8 ай бұрын

Affixing blame for body weight seems not helpful to anyone. Live and let live is my motto but of course here I am. Ghrelin - a hormone that is your friend in weight loss. Life changing. Comes as a result of fasting.

@woofolliesmydog8628

8 ай бұрын

This point can be assessed at the buffet. I’ve seen the plates piled to refute what you state.

@KarynHill

8 ай бұрын

@@woofolliesmydog8628 "Not everyone."

As an average size person I appreciated your Plus Size travel input and information. In no way did I view it as you having a pity party--rather you were encouraging others to enjoy the cruise/travel life while understanding some inherent challenges. You do an outstanding job with your videos and I appreciate your content very much. With sincere gratitude, Teresa

Thank you for bringing back the original intro. My wife and I danced to it. Also thank you for your very insightful video’s. We enjoy getting our cruising!!! News from your channel.

Tony.. I applaud you putting this video out. I’m a 2XL. I have my challenges on some of the list. I can only wish the cruise lines would try and accommodate. There will always be larger cruisers. They/we deserve to enjoy our cruise too.

I’ve also noticed handicap accessible excursions are getting few and far between.

Well done Tony, you always enrich our lives. Thank you.

God bless you for your honesty and approaching this difficult subject. Thanks! You're a heckuva good guy!