Fumi I’m not even a lady but these tips are helpful for everyone, including men. Having good manners is very important from both parties and I thank you for this video! Much love 💙😁

@rowdybliss

Жыл бұрын

I find it very hot when men have impeccable manners. It shows courtesy and self-awareness.

@dawnwagnerprincesslgunab6476

Жыл бұрын

Absolutely Andrew!

@chinecheremgenevieve8595

Жыл бұрын

Yea , I am fumi sister tho , we are Nigerians

@venniestacey7839

Жыл бұрын

Andrew thanks for appreciating

@user-hv5vx6bn2j

10 ай бұрын

🎉( -д-)pmm

Being a lady, is never out of style.

@rita4missions

Жыл бұрын

I was raised to be a Lady, good manners are essentials. My mother even sent me, when I was a teenager, to spend some time during the summer with a very sweet and 'proper Lady". She added to the list of me to learn how to behave like a real Lady. God bless you beautiful Lady.❤️

😂😂😂 Some ladies need to watch this in the morning everyday before stepping out the door. 👜

@zephyrrrrrrrrrrr

Жыл бұрын

I’m telling you😂😂😂

@cynthiaedwards3716

Жыл бұрын

Amen!!!!!!!😃😃😃

@DUCKYRICHY

Жыл бұрын

I agree.

@esikeogheneodudu7567

Жыл бұрын

Lol..

@oladepoitunu3067

Жыл бұрын

I am one of them 😅

Eat before you leave but don’t say you ate before you left lol . Don’t eat something that will make your stomach hurt

1] Self Respect (Self Love) 2] Lateness (Never show up late) 3] Shouting and Being Too Loud 4] Don't Loose Your Composure in Public(No Fighting) 5] Being Drunk in Public (You Look careless & You Open up yourself to danger) 6] Rinsing your mouth with your drink after a meal (Don't Pick your nose, or picking your teeth at a table) 7) Try To Use appropriate terms (Where's the powder room, instead of screaming toilet) 8] Don't Pick your nose or teeth at the table 9] Close your legs under the table 10] Banging Your itchy hair in public

@isebi7592

Жыл бұрын

Thanks

@TheBlaqueLilly

Жыл бұрын

Thank you for this I've worked hard on #2 but I have always apologized for running late

@hopereachbeauty

Жыл бұрын

@@isebi7592 uwc

@hopereachbeauty

Жыл бұрын

@@TheBlaqueLilly Me Too, I'm constantly working on that as well

@bethkibe2210

Жыл бұрын

Number 7nooooooò

Mother always taught me to eat at home before going out to friends house, a relative, or on a date. It is because you don’t want to look too hungry, to eager.

One thing that is a pet peeve with me but is normalised nowadays - sitting at a table with someone for dinner but spending most of the time on your phone. My sister did that to me once and when I got tired of it I called her out. She was most upset and stalked off - but I felt like she was being rude to me because she could barely hold a conversation, she was on the phone so much. In my opinion if you are out with people you should be present in the moment, at least for the most part. Everyone checks their socials and takes pics, but people nowadays take it to the extreme of bad manners.

@dricirufiona2650

Жыл бұрын

Exactly

@cynthiakhubayi9949

Жыл бұрын

Am with you there most pleople take there phone every were this days and don't put them no silence in a meeingt,at church,at a feneral and at dinner no a table your phone. I leave at home or with someone to answer my calls or to take the massage so l can give the pleople am with for that time full attention and enjoy what is happening at that time

@diananyawanda1950

Жыл бұрын

So true.

@ladyc9188

Жыл бұрын

It’s called addiction.

@nightperuser

Жыл бұрын

My pet hate too!

Fumi's sarcastic laugh makes this video even more hilarious.😁😁

The feminine deportment, how to sit, walk and stand deserves a whole video of its own. With your modeling background am pretty sure you can teach us a thing or two about posture

@kikistevens3264

Жыл бұрын

Please my posture is the worst and I am 5'9

As a young woman raised by women who just didn’t know, I myself became one. Thank you for teaching me the proper way to excel in life👑💕

@isntlifebetter

Жыл бұрын

Same Im learning and im almost 40

@chiomachinonso3666

Жыл бұрын

How do I correct the wrong i mpression of coming late I have built- in the heart of some people

@AntoinetteChanel

Жыл бұрын

@@chiomachinonso3666show up on time consistently

It's early in the video, but thank you for mentioning how blatantly rude it is to be late for an appointment. I personally know someone who is always late. This made me look at their overall character towards others. It isn't good.

@tolu_lovelyo6990

Жыл бұрын

I am with you on this. I cannot stand lateness.

@ckl5590

Жыл бұрын

It is shocking to me how many people have no respect for other people’s time.

@ari333

Жыл бұрын

@@ckl5590 If you watch them you will notice an overall false sense of self entitlement.

I live by this and I am teaching my kids to do the same. I never leave home with an empty stomach. Be it to a party, wedding or any gathering❤️

@cynthiakhubayi9949

Жыл бұрын

This is an African thing ,we don't go anywhere with out eating at home,before we go out for church we cook and eat or any gathering so that when they didn't serve in time or little anything you are full already

Dear Fumi, this is wonderful work for the thousands of your daughters here. Please continue this line of content. We appreciate you!

@angieoliver7342

Жыл бұрын

R lol li

@doreenonekalit9888

Жыл бұрын

I have shared. It is invaluable

@esikeogheneodudu7567

Жыл бұрын

@@doreenonekalit9888 To be very honest.

This information was priceless. You never know who is watching, possibly the person who will interview you for that job! Great tips, thank you sister!

Fumi I cannot STAND lateness. I totally agreed lack of respect. I attended a wedding rehearsal dinner, the time say 6pm tell me why the married couple showed up at 8:45pm, I told my mom if you were not with me I would have gotten into an Uber and left. Fumi I could have been at another dinner hanging with friends I have not seen in a long time. I was soooo made. EDIT: oh by the way the couple did not even apologize for their lateness.

@ngozioflagos

Жыл бұрын

Lol

@alicegathu1217

Жыл бұрын

Thank you

My sister. I just love you. Such a pity some of these reality stars don't practice these etiquette.💜🇯🇲

You can’t imagine the effect u have on many girls who actually needed this guidance ❤️❤️

Lateness is my problem. From today onwards, I am resolved to showing up 30 mins before time anywhere Thank you Auntie Fumi Much love from Ghana🥰

Am a mid 70s baby & so glad we did our teenage drama before cameras & social media 😁 These days a minute of uncouth behavior & 📸 it becomes a permanent reminder to the public! 😳

@daphnesmith5159

Жыл бұрын

I agreed

Fumi, I’m 52 but when I was 16 I was a Barbizon model student. Besides teaching us how to be a model the curriculum included etiquette. Implemented it always throughout my life. Every thing you discussed. ⭐️💃🏻

@carsandrajones7596

Жыл бұрын

SHOW US HOW TO WALK IN HEELS AND HOW TO PUT ON LASHES. PLEASE.

@margaretgray4170

Жыл бұрын

I went to Barbizon way back in the day!

The volcano!!😹 I used to have a problem with being late but as I’ve gotten older, have really made an effort to change this & it’s gotten a lot better. This video really drove that in for me. Love you!💟 And another bad manner is looking at your phone too much while in company, or not letting someone finish their sentence before starting yours… SO rude!

Glad to have come accross your channel!! Haven't met a more humble, happy, empowering, uplifting lady like you. I'm infact running short of superlatives for you! Thank you so much for being there for us! Much love to you 🤍✨

@DUCKYRICHY

Жыл бұрын

Welcome to FUMINATION, Sunmaiya Shamim. She's our wonderful internet Big Mummy

Aunty Fumi, you have no idea how much this means to me.. not just as a lady but as a mother. I am currently watching this with my 12 year old daughter, 10 year old niece and 10 year old son. These children need this learning.

Lawd have mercy ❤️ This is so lacked now in society. This should be a full master class ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@sherileenlambert2784

Жыл бұрын

I couldn't agree more. The sad thing is that when a person shows good manners, they tend to stand out as extraordinary. In actual fact good manners in not a big deal, but so many people are lacking in that area. Quite sad actually.

@MindRegulatorMusic

Жыл бұрын

I agree.

I hate it when people are late and they don't even pick up the phone to notify you. I always leave.

I had to save this to my list of faves. I'm working on polishing myself up as i'm turning 30 soon. This is perfect. Thank you aunty

A man of quality will recognize a woman of class it’s how one dresses ,walks , and speaks and keeps her home and car if it’s clean she is clean . You are definitely the real deal not a fake I am 64 and have been to many high scale functions such as luncheons , parties , proms,and dinner parties. I took etiquette classes ,table setting , cooking, ballet tap and modern jazz , the first impressions is the last impression , I wish I saw more young ladies with class these days. You are a treasure trove of vital information these young ladies need desperately thank you Fumi!!!!!🌷🙏🏽🌷

Looking beautiful from head to toe Auntie!!! OMG I have broken 3 of the 10 rules of etiquette. I’ll be writing these on my bathroom mirror so that I do not forget when I leave the house.

Hello Auntie Fumi! I was crying because some of the most “cultured” people have no clue about etiquette. One of the worst things is seeing a lady cut a piece of meat as if they were sawing wood. The other thing is not saying excuse me while passing others. Thank you for keeping it real helping us ladies on our toes and polished! (No pun intended) You are the best!!!

@oladepoitunu3067

Жыл бұрын

🤣

Fumi, as a mature member of the Fumi Nation, I agree 100% with you, and more so now than ever. Everyone has a phone and can record your actions at any time.

1. Self respect self love 2 Arriving late 3. Shouting and laughing loud 4. Don't loose your composure in public. 5. Been drunk in public. 6. Use magic words e. g. Excuse me 7. Close your legs. 8. Don't scratch your head. 9. Look pleasant and dress pleasant. 10. Eat at home before going out for the dinner

Hello Fumi! Thank you so so much for yet an insightful video! You mentioned having a safety pin on you at all times while you are out. Could you perhaps make a video addressing the items a woman should never leave the house without, like an emergency kit perhaps, please? Could you show us how you organize your bag, please? Much love from Paris!

@diananyawanda1950

Жыл бұрын

I second this. Thanks

Damn, I feel like I compromised most of my twenties over plates of food 😂😂😜

Aunty Fumi, we learned a lot of these from home; but sometimes, companies from Varsity, or work, kinda influence people to change. For me, my dating my husband INSTILLED punctuality in me. Oh yes! He left me one day when I was late, and I was horrified. My told me, that I deserved it. Then, she'd relieve me from my house chores to make it early to my dates. My father's family is loud, and I'm STILL working on my voice. I'm very conscious of it, so it's a work in progress. What I ABSOLUTELY ABHOR is foul language, expletives: they just don't make sense, and most are demeaning to women. Thank you SO MUCH FOR reiterating these values again. 🙏🙏

I am 58 and I have always eaten before going out especially to weddings and parties mostly because I often do not like to food offered. I am very hot on basic manners, it's really not difficult. I will only wait max' 15 minutes after that I leave! My time is precious. Do not take my consideration and kindness to make a fool out of me. Raise your voice at me and you'll see the back of my head because it's my cue to leave! When you started banging your head, I lost - laugh out loud! Thank you Miss Fumi, fabulous!

😆😆😆😆😆😆 the rinsing of the mouth with drink, 😆😆😆the picking of teeth😆😆😆😂 Oh my! 😂 You have such sense of humor even as you share very important tips on outdoor manners. Love you ma'am.💜❤️

Feminine class indeed,thanx lots Fumi,blessed to be part of the FumiNation..

Great tips! God bless you. When I first saw a female bang her hair because it was itching , I thought she was freaking insane. She just happen to be the cashier at a grocery store. Good hygiene and manners is important for both men and women and knowing that some habits is best left at home with the person and the savior. Pushing your chair in is so important . It drives me crazy to walk in any establishment and see the chair's scattered. We all are a work in progress, none of us are perfect. Thanks for these wonderful videos.

@rehemaogada1570

Жыл бұрын

I'm the type who leaves chairs scattered in a hotel but my man never told me that. I feel so ashamed

Even in my 50s, this is very informative. I am guilty of quite a few of these in my years, but will be more aware of my actions from now on. What a lovely lady to set it straight, not only for the younger ladies. Never too late! Thank you!

Thank you Fumi! You’re literally my social media mom!

Beautiful Sister. Your complexion is giving life. Great content as usual. Self value is at the core of it all my sister.

This was awesome! Thank you and keep them coming please!

Absolutely loved this💕

Loved this , thanks Fumi

Love this video. Was waiting for it.

Fumi I agree with everything you have said & I must admit I am a true curser! While I feel there is a time and place for cursing I have enough respect to not do it in places that it should not be done or around certain people! I do my work in private, no one will ever be able to say they heard me cursing someone out!

Yes, Auntie Fumi! Keep these videos coming.

Thank you, FUMI! I’m 50 and many of these I was fortunate to learned as a young girl in Charm School. Despite what we see on social media these are so on target for today. All the BEST ❤!!!

This content is greatly needed , I appreciate you taking the time to share . Everything you said was on point. Thank you Fumi

You are so right FUMI table manners are so important ,picked up a few tips to pass on to our daughter. Looking gorgeous as always. One of my pet hates is some poeple still snap their fingers for service, I find this extremly rude. enjoyed the video. x

Fabulous Fumi! Love the hair ❤️

Totally love it, totally totally I'm here for it💕

Fumi, this is much needed and Thank God I haven't seen or heard many of these things while at dinner.

Fumi! You hit it right on the nail! Much love and support always! 🤍

Fumi, this was a fabulous episode! Very funny and very educational 😂💓 Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!

Ahhh I remember Charm School that my aunties attended. You learned all of that and they passed it to he women in the family. LOVE YOU FUMI!!!

Lovely content as usual Thanks so much for sharing

Fumi's dropping gems! 💎

Lovely look, Fumi 😍and thanks for the etiquette lessons!

You are glowing Fumi!! Thank you for sharing your light✨✨✨

What a wonderful episode... thanks Fumi!!! 💖 The volcano comment... just epic!!! 🤣

Love love love the hair!!! 🥰💃🏻

Love fumi's honesty

You are the polished Aunt that many were not fortunate to have. Thank you💋 classy lady.

Just pumped into your channel, already liked it because every bit adds value to anyone who's ready to learn and change

This is so true. I love this, very good info.

Thank you so much mama 💓💓❤️💓❤️ . . This is raw gold!!

Awesome 👍, Love you for all you're doing. Thank you so much for always educating us.

Always on point, aunty fumi with the looks, you look stunning as always

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i have died with laughter this episode was so fun and educateive! thank you aunty fumi

Thank You for this info, quite vital!

Great points Fumi 💯

Love it 🥰 these are the things my mom taught me!

Awesome tips 👑Queen Fumi! ….and I’ve never heard it referred to as a volcano 🌋😂

Great tips Fumi, thank you

❤ thanks for the helpful advises Fumi... love you much❤

just found your channel and I am in love! you are absolutely a mama bear!! I appreciate your existence

waw!!! thanks so much for this auntie Fumi!!!

Awesome Fumi, awesome!! Thank you🤩

Thanks so much Fumi.. So much value 👏

I thoroughly enjoyed this video. Thank you for sharing!

🙏Thank you Fumi!! Good Manners are everything 🙏💕

Thank you so much Mommy. I am really learning alot❤❤❤❤❤💞

Awesome Fumi Thank You!!!

You are so funny, Fums. I am glad I was taught well..so up my alley

I just love your mannerisms and the general classy queen energy you bring.

Thank you for these tips/reminders. The one about lateness resonates with me

I ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS!!!!!!!!!!

I always love your energy and confidence. You give me a reason to smile 😁 and learn at the same time

Thank you sooo much!I love these tips!! You made it entertaining.🥰❤️🔥💯💯😂

I love you Fumi. Thanks a bunch for these etiquettes

You are so funny 😂😂 I’m so guilty of the second one I never thought about it. When I see my friends I’m excited and tend to laugh loud. Thank you for this video

@getupwithzandim2673

Жыл бұрын

😅😅😅😅me too Tracey

Loving the hair aunty Fumi, you look gorgeous.

Fumi, I love this blog. Thank you so much for sharing this. Blessings

Great tips Fumi, even men can use them.

❤❤❤❤❤ Loving before watching!!! Fumination 😘💕💕💕

Honey you spoke on all the things that women should know. Yes have what you need in your purse as well

Aunty Funmi, thank you for talking about this list.I feel so convicted didn’t really know I have been acting I’ll mannered at times 😩😩

Loved this video and yes arriving on time is a form of respect. And please do a video on dress code for going out in public. Thank you

Oh wow!!! This is so educative Fumi! Thanks so much. I hope that the next episode isn't going to take longer like this. Please