Actually for me friendship means nothing and it's just time pass and no it's not coming from a depressed person. Like what do you think when you hear "real friend" maybe you think they will always be at your side and blah blah blah but at the end of the day nobody actually cares about you. So take my advice and make friend just to have some fun not to be depressed when they leave you

@bidisha8017

Жыл бұрын

Yeah it is 100 % true

@mafuzamita8422

Жыл бұрын

@@bidisha8017 thanks. I have a question do you have any "real" friend? If you wanna answer you can and if not it's totally fine 😊

@avaparksaeron1515

Жыл бұрын

Literally I think the same.

@bidisha8017

Жыл бұрын

@@mafuzamita8422 Well, 2 weeks ago my bestie broke up with me.... and i wasn't feeling anything my mind was fully blank also my previous bestie also did the same thing but our relationship was 8 years.... and the one who broke up with me recently gave me a letter type thing on 26 th January by one classmate and it was written "hi, how are you? That day I reacted more than I should. I am sorry blahh blahh......" I just told her that I cant be bestfriends with you anymore but I can be friends with you if you want.... (I think dont mean that I am sure )I think that my guy friend is the real friend because that day he comforted me not like my friends who only cared about my bestie who easily shows her feelings,my friends don't understand that just because I don't show my feelings doesn't mean I am not hurt.... English is not my mother tongue if there is some problem then you can avoid it....😌😌 In life you can find true friend so be happy with it... not everybody has this type of bad luck.. ♥️♥️♥️♥️

@aesthetic__107

Жыл бұрын

Yup bro

I'm a teen and seeing this video made me realize some things I've been avoiding for a while now. I guess it's time to clean up the mess in my life, thank you obakie

@typlim

Жыл бұрын

u can do this dw!!

@hunnilola

Жыл бұрын

@@typlim you’re so nice!❤

@cut3bxtch__

Жыл бұрын

Same

@akosuaferkaakyeremeh9060

Жыл бұрын

Ikr

@bubblegumsubs3886

Жыл бұрын

You can to do it babe get that life u deserve

Obakie knows how to upload on the right time when people need to hear a positive message the most.

@bubblegumsubs3886

Жыл бұрын

so TRUEEEE

I just finished a K-drama called Reply 1988 and it happened to talk about the experiences of a group of teenage friends that grow up in the same neighborhood together. Their naive but passionate hearts, struggles, and their first love made me think a lot about my youth and now I came across this video of Obakie. I felt like we all have something we wish we did differently. I realized in those years, I had been affected by others' opinions and made my decision based on my parents' expectations and social convention so that somehow I missed to be an authentic me. I was trying to fit in, studying crazily so I could achieve what was considered "practical" and "stable" for the future. I wish I trusted my intuition and myself more. I was also afraid to confront or call out mean behaviors. I was an emotional person but always acted like I'm chill and indifferent. Now I have changed my mindset and actually be me. I feel like I could finally breathe and live my life...

@mafuzamita8422

Жыл бұрын

You go girl 💛

@tqanissk

Жыл бұрын

Reply 1988 is love my fav drama❤️

Best advice I could give: don’t care what other people think How they think about you has more to say about their own insecurities than it does you

The relationship ones hit me real hard. As a teenager that has captured feelings for someone, I could risk a lot to get their attention. I actually love what you post and do trust your advices so I guess it's time to make my attitude a bit healthier at least. Thank you for showing me this advice, I needed it!

@ot7saranghae124

Жыл бұрын

that's true girl, if he likes u too and asks u out or somethin, you can give him a go bc life is beautiful with a lover but know that you actually love him and don't loose ur respect for him , be yourself, sayin this cus i am just gonna be an adult next month, had a bunch of experiances with girls and Trust me on this one, have a best life my lady

To my teenager self: It will only be hard in the start, look at your fears and the responsibilities you dread straight in the eye; if you are overwhelmed, take a step back and process your emotions then get back out there. Your dreams and ideal life will only come true if you put yourself out there. You are worth it and you can do it. The world is vast and filled with indefinite opportunities so don't you fret so much about your future but just be aware that you are on the steering wheel of your life.

I'm almost 15 years old and I'm grateful that I stumbled upon this video. Thank you, OBAKIE!!

Thanks for your advice! Being a teenager is overwhelming at times, but I just have to remember to enjoy it and be myself.

@Obakiee

Жыл бұрын

you can do it! 🌷✨

Thank God I found this channel. I'm 13 (I'll be turning 14 in 2023) and you give such good advice. You are my comfort channel and I will use your advice a lot ❤

It's great to see your channel grow every day, you deserve it ♡

Okay, I'm 14 and I'm just 12 when I realized that rushing things won't do any good. Like relationship, some teenagers would focus on finding a boy/girl or even being in a relationship with the person you like. You can fall in-love, yes. Because after all, falling in-love can't ever be controlled. But actions can, like the word 'avoiding'. Not avoiding as in avoid that person all the time. It will hurt him/her esp if that person is your best friend. It was like, avoid flirting, stop forcing that person to love you back and stop pretending to be someone he/she likes to make that person like you back.. It's not worth it, I'm telling you. It's better to wait and just be friends without acting like you guys are a couple esp if you both are sure that you both share the same feelings. Focus on your dream but don't focus on it too much.. What I mean is, studying should be your top priority because others are being too obsessed with their dream and focusing on improving it. Forgetting to do their school activities, then your talents and all your improvements is useless. It's not that I'm belittling those who didn't graduate but I'm just telling to teenagers that you can't hold onto how people who didn't graduate can still find a good work. Because it's still different if you graduated and achieve your dreams with all your hard work.

Tha kyou for these advices! I really needed them especially the dress yourself and not following the crowd one :)) i have been trying to fit in the trend but then i dont feel so good as i feel when i wear my type of clothes :)

i am 16 and i really hope to enjoy and make the best out of my teenage years, thank you Obakie for being with me in my most precious years, i may not really be the best person out here but i try to be kind to people at my school and class. I try to never skip classes and take care of my studies i am also dancing, cooking, drawing, singing, reading I really like how i feel that i am doing my best, i also have a crush on someone like any teenager but i know i could never have that someone, and it's okay ! Because sometimes we meet people that teach us lessons to not make those mistakes again. To everyone here around my age, enjoy your years and be kind to your self, love your self the way you are cause we are all made by the same thing in the end of the day :)

Please never stop doing what you are doing Obakie! You're such an inspiration! :) I'm deeply humbled that I can watch these videos and absorb the wisdom that you share. :)

@Obakiee

Жыл бұрын

Thank you! Will do! 🌷✨

Omg your advises are always like THE BEST. Im going through some friendship betrayal and i feel lost and i felt like im not enough. Honestly, for the last couple of days, i have been feeling much better about my self and learned to let go off ppl who dont appreciate you. Im 12 and even tho i try to enjoy my life, somehow an obstacle always comes in the way. Your videos are literally the best and you should continue inspiring ppl like this obakie. Amazing video❤❤❤

thank you for sharing!! so inspirational ❤️✨

I love you and I love these tips. I was actually having I think one of the worst times with my friends. I am what others would consider sensitive. This video made me think a lot about myself and I thank you so much for it xx

Wow! These are actually really helpful advices!

Thank youuu. I was exactly thinking about how can I be a "better" teenager so, in future, I'll not regret what I done.

Being a teen , this will be really helpful to me ✨ thank you Obakie❤

My teenage phase is currently starting, and this video really helps. I also learn a lot from the comments.

I love your vids they are always so helpful and amazing and of cours ✨aesthetic

U are like our big sister!😭 Thanks soo much obakie! Luv u! Ur vidoes really changed my life! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

thank you obakie!!!!❤❤❤❤

Thanks obakie for this video

YASSSSS GURL-!!! THANKS SO MCUH. 🙏

This is so aesthetic and helpful 💙

such a helpful tips for uss thanxx

I love your vids and Tipps 💗💗☺️

I’m not a teen but I am starting my teen years next year. This was very exciting, thanks for the advice!

Your videos inspire me a lot.. thanks a lottt ❤️❤️❤️❤️

i love you obakie

im 11 im turning 12 in March and this advice really helped me with friends and life and stuff thank you love this video

YOU ARE BEST UNNIE~^^✨

Thanks for this! Helps alot

I am a teen and so far I do regreat some things I did in the past but I would not change anything because those mistakes made me a better person, the person that I am today.

Wow,I love ur tips!

Obakie, thank you for an awesome video. As always😍 Honestly it hurts a bit thinking about those years. It seems like so many mistakes were made and I should've done much better. A lot. But it's life. I guess we all get smarter and wiser and even kinder (sometimes) growing up.

this video is really something to think about for teens like me ,,,thank you

Thank you for the inspiration ❤❤

This is top g this is deep respect

Love you!

I like how u give us advice

love you sis and your tips is perfect I hope I will become the person I want to be love ya ❤️

I really love your videos

This is actually a good video for advice because I am a teenager and i was doing almost all the things wrong

one of the tips is something similar to what i keep in mind, “if the ice sinks, dont drink”

thanks it's helpful! :))

thanks for the tips, i’m turning 16 this february.. I’ll try to enjoy my teenage years. (even if it’s shit right now 😭)

rule no.1 never fall in love at this age. Its gonna hurt so bad if it ends and ruin your studies self experienced

you are the BESTTTT like all my "bsfs" turned out fake from ur tips

@rashidhejeejo4623

Жыл бұрын

bc when i was myslef my "bsfs" hated me for it

hey, recently i jus lost my friend group bc they thought i was weird, i have other friends to talk to but not hang out w so what can i do to get a good and solid friends group ( i dont wanna go back to my old friends)

It's 999views , then I clicked^^ thankyou for advice!

I'm 17 rn and I'll keep these in mind

Teens these days don’t realize how lucky they are to have such easy access to little things like this.

I am 15 rn and though studies have alot of pressure on me but I am still very happy

Thanks I really needed some clean up of my

You help a lot❤

I am 15. probably turn 16 this year but i had wasted 3 years of my teenage that why i am looking for this and want to enjoy my life.

Thankyou for sharing these are great advices, new friend here🥰

Lmaoo my teen years are just going to waste cuz I be babysitting and cleaning everyday for months, I haven't gotten time to myself to do anything fun I'm always home babysitting and cleaning

but i have a question what do i do if i feel lonely and want to talk help me out please 😉

hi, i'm still in my teenage yr & i just wanted to share my experience with y'all. To all the teenagers right here, pls don't do something stupid just because of the social media trends. I've been influenced by such trends that kinda made my life miserable. Trends are meant to set up to point out the insecurities of people, especially of the adolescents.

U said there will be job option in 16.. i wanna know what kind of jobs exist for a 16 y\o

But in my opinion I am enough I don't need anyone to protect myself what is your thoughts about this

Thanks I need this bc I just turned 13 5 months ago

Why would I need to bring a group of boys with me to go clubbing? I'm confused

I have a question about a part. What if you take a bit of criticism from a friend or two? I take advice from them sometimes

Hy.... Wonderful sis.... Hello back 💖

this is very useful!

Everyone cares especially in my life when my friend told my crush that i have crush on him it got spread in the whole class i was really mad at her idk why i wish i could change it....

I am 11 years old 🌻🌻

Don't try and fit in 👍

as a teenager I'm so glad I discovered you :))

@Obakiee

Жыл бұрын

ayie 🥹❤️

Can u tell me what are some jobs for 16yo

Hi I'm from Sri Lanka. We don't have that freedom to walk around with toxic people. So We are always inside the house. Otherwise we are going to classes and shopping with parents only for out side. And for our school our uniform is box pleat frock that should be passing the knee and do not wear make-up or any Jewelleries😭. And I've never gone to club or party with friends. But I like uniforms in Japan and Korea 🇰🇷 😍 .and this is how to me.and I'm gonna be 18 for this month 17.😁😇.And I specially Thanking to you ❤ for giving advices like our sister/mother 🥰❤.

Thx I just turned 13 a week ago ^-^

I live my whole life full of regrets, and it's because I'm shy and insecure I hate myself sm

Or if no one like me than also i dont change myself

I'm 10 years old am I a teenager.

Im gonna be 17 tomorrow and im seeing this...

i just turned 10

This video was made especially for me 😂😂

What kind of job

In one month am not teen, am adult

Idk why everyone thinks that all teenagers are introverted or like get easily influenced by ones word, or are like lonely bro I'm literally having a better life with my 6 friends (only 3 are close) they're so better

pls post someone relationship advice

@Obakiee

Жыл бұрын

will do! 🌷✨

I'm so worried I know how to be ahead top student in my classroom but not to feel comfortable with anything, not to be social. I just want to be old me someone Everyone respects and like. to make it clear I dont know why people hates me Because most of time they doesn't know what I am doing? Because sometimes they get jealous (I have lot of hobbies and talents) ? Because I have no humor in jokes? Because I dont talk in topics they do? After All I know everyone in my classroom but I dont have friends, I have my best friend I consider, but now im losing trust in her..

I just turned ten sum dayz ago.(no joke)...so I guess this is for me

hiii

Im 16, getting my drivers license, and im here smacking chips and watching tiktoks all night long. Let's make a change ill update everyday Day1) well.. l stopped eating too much unhealthy stuff and it looks like l need more sleep Bedtime 9:00

2:46 false, you actually can. trust me.

@IAmNot-Everywhere-

Жыл бұрын

true

I dont have any friends 😭💔

5:49 i wanna meet bts

Your videos doesn't really changes me, it's just makes me better everyday🤍

Hello sis ! 💘 Do you remember me ?? First comment yay 😊 Please pin me again sis 😂

Change the caption, 10-12 year olds are getting a little too excited

bro what

💀🔪