Being cool is a vibe, it´s not about what you wear but how you wear it. I am sick of seeing the same outfits every day, I rarely see women wearing something original. I hate fast fashion. Second hands and small brand stores are the best. Homemade items take the cake. What is interesting is that being on a low budget actually makes you look more original because the cheapest way to get clothes you want is to make it or buy from a second hand. I like simple fashion, but focus on colours that match my season, skin undertone and flatter my body shape. Too many women just wear whatever is "trendy", but don´t consider if the colour, print or cut really fits them. Styling yourself into a one style like "clean girl" or "mob wife" also suggest lack of personality or originality. It´s not interesting and most of these trends are literally just about owning every single item that goes with that style. Why can´t you just wear different styles ever day? Why do you have to keep to your aesthetic? I noticed this pattern in our society that people just want to be categorized into boxes, whenever it´s social, political or even about your sexuality, people cannot phantom the concept of just being yourself, not belonging to any specific group. It´s uncommon to see people who are not inclined to put themselves in a box and I really dislike this loss of creativity, individualism and rebellion against the norms. Norms seem to be what everyone wants these days.
@staeriixСағат бұрын
tbh i rarely care about what other people wear, wear, what you want, trendy or not. but these trends very much feel like their forcing young minds to stick with one style and aesthetic. which is just unrealistic in many ways, people want to grow and change and be unique but feel like these trends are stopping them. sure you can like a trend, but dont ever feel like you can't do something else.
@nightmarecastni8 сағат бұрын
I remember when glowing up meant looking after your mental health, working on yourself such as working out and eating better, using products that ACTUALLY work for your skin, keeping your ownership to minimum (not living minimistically, but, living within your means and decluttering what is stressing you/etc), basically being a you you love and adore - it was a way to find *yourself*, learn who you are, and enhance that whilst also working on things you weren't happy with and now it's some trend used to make people feel inferior... I'm at the point I've deleted all social media other than like one app to talk to my piercer/tattooist and that's it now. It's so sad to see what the internet has become in the past years.
@highs_lows9 сағат бұрын
You are so true Being you is a flex🎉❤ Just love yourself the way you're 💜
@Monika-jj9us10 сағат бұрын
Thank You for this very valuable video! Inspiring
@nv.ember.11 сағат бұрын
My 2nd year of Uni's gonna start in a few days and the whole last month I was hyperfixated on buying new clothes and wear according to my "personal style". I bought a few stuff like tops, jewellery and shoes. For a long time I have been obsessed with mary janes so I decided to buy a pair of dupes, and after I did I tried wearing it and I got hit by reality so bad. I didn't like how it looked on me and wasn't going with my overall "style". Thats when I realised how much hyperfixated I was in getting a glow up and leveling up my style while I completely ignored my "personal style". I love baggy jeans because it doesn't touch my skin and I have sensory disorder but what I was trying to buy were "skin tight" flared jeans. That is why it hit me that I was just following trends instead of what makes me feel good and myself. Now I am returning the stuff that I bought and trying to not force a "glow up" on me when I don't even need it. :)
@sylcats12 сағат бұрын
the way the video that was suggested right next to this one was a “how to glow up” one 🥲
@velvettehayes943418 сағат бұрын
its kinda crazy because literally all the movies gen z grew up with like only talked about “be yourself” and they just dropped that lol
@meowsophxo18 сағат бұрын
this is so real... im 13 and too skinny to fit into a lot of the trending clothes but this has brought me back to reality like girl you are not a stockholm clean girl pinterest it girl you are literally just a 13 year old girl
@iitsgi18 сағат бұрын
yes! it's cruel forcing standards even on such young girls so pls don't listen 😭 stay true to yourself <3
@ritaevergreen723420 сағат бұрын
I’m not sure if this could also be expanded into one’s heritage. I’ve seen a lot of bashing towards those who prefer fashion outside of their own heritage. People making them feel they aren’t worthy to have their own taste in clothes that isn’t always centered around the validation from others from their cultural background. Or the superiority complex that gets attached to it.
@wizzardiishlexКүн бұрын
the REAL way to glow up is to like yourself. that's it.
@user-tb7dt1nn8nКүн бұрын
omg you are so true. why i’ve never realize before?
@gaeteolsКүн бұрын
YOU SPILLED, i hope that more girls would hear this bc everything you said is so true
@mango000mvyКүн бұрын
Love the tips and insights you shared in this video ! Fast fashion was always the cheap version of personal style and identity
@Lilacs-Күн бұрын
3:14 How does a person find his own style?
@meryemgreenleafКүн бұрын
girl just the perspective i’ve been supportin, lysm❤️
@noor____9Күн бұрын
Exactly girl .. that’s what I really want everybody to listen for , I’m really sick of those new trends and it’s just make me unsure about really what I love and what I don’t cause I’m a person who don’t have a specific style it just depends on my mood,so when I see the influencers and Pinterest I just feel uncomfortable, also it’s not about that only I lost my touch of styling I cannot wear something if I don’t scroll on Pinterest .. everything should be perfect and in aesthetically way in the world of social media and trends , so that’s really makes me take a step to delete ig and Pinterest . i hope everyone listen for that cause it’s really true .
@rosanlillolКүн бұрын
This is really what i needed after a year full of inscurity! Tysmm
@iitsgiКүн бұрын
no thank YOU! 🥰
@ericasinclair3998Күн бұрын
The timing is crazyyy❤
@yunweeКүн бұрын
I would also add that people tends to believe some aesthetics are combine with a certain personnality. For exemple, a grunge person would have to be badass, mean, and stuff like that.. It sucks so much
@sidraaahshaikhКүн бұрын
omgg yes!! someone had to say this. im just so fed up of these "trends" that just make us victims of capitalism just to fit in and look or seem "cool" so glad you said this!
@uniqueusername69Күн бұрын
Best thing I did for my mental health was deleting my IG. Deleted my Twitter too during the pandemic because I was doomscrolling for hours. I refuse to download Tiktok or Threads. Social media used to be good when it was just a tool for communication. Now it's a giant marketplace where the sellers try to hit your weak points and make you spend your money so you can "feel good".
@Datorelevante00Күн бұрын
Just live !!!
@marrrie24902 күн бұрын
I agree. As for cheetah print, I have always loved it because my classmate’s mom who I always thought was so cool used to wear it all the time. I will love it no matter how overused and tacky it becomes. ❤
@urszulaaaa78962 күн бұрын
Thank you!!! I'm so happy that im not the only one who think that way. Trends are destroying us. Overcomsuption now is crazy☠️ We lost our identity, common sense and individual way of thinking and that's concerning. And I'm saying this as 19 year old. Period. Dont stop doing your job girl!! Greetings from Poland<33
@iitsgi2 күн бұрын
thank you so much!! 💗💗
@strawberry04192 күн бұрын
Omg thank you!!! Great video
@poisonivy96682 күн бұрын
i may seem dumb but i needed this video to realize that i was looking for myself everywhere but not in me 😭😭
@iitsgi2 күн бұрын
it's not dumb, but a beautiful realization <3
@TokieMPage45182 күн бұрын
I keep worrying that I don't have one aesthetic. Tbh I like a bit of everything, I am not one thing and for me that just made me feel like I was a freak who didn't have any stability and when I would see girls online have their one thing, like that's their main thing, I would get instantly depressed and felt like something was wrong with me. I consulted with my parents about this and my mom assured me that there was nothing wrong (altho I do have to say I have been through things that have made me a little unstable in my head), that I needed to get my head out of the internet and stop worrying about what other people think or what others are doing. She told me I needed to detox and take time for myself to figure out who I am and that even if who I am is a little bit of everything, then that's just the person that I am and that I need to love it.
@cash.ew.2 күн бұрын
whatever you say gorgeous!!!
@iitsgi2 күн бұрын
hdjdkd thank you
@ciara-bm2dw2 күн бұрын
Thank you. Seriously thank you so much
@iitsgi2 күн бұрын
thank YOU! 💗
@yowassupitsjenny46892 күн бұрын
ur so right i've been feeling this lately I don't like going on tik tok anymore all trends are made to make women become insecure the eyebrow blindness blush blindness hairline blindness omg who caresssss these trends are leading women and young girls to over analyze their features and compare them to others
@RinaRina-sm5zc2 күн бұрын
This is so true. Especially the "wonyoungism" girlies in tiktok they be like "oh im getting a glowup" while in reality there just trying to stick to the trends going acting like I'm so coquette or whatever I'm sick of the internet honestly
@suzannaraes2 күн бұрын
this video needs to be seen by everyone ❤
@user-px6zo4sl3p2 күн бұрын
SOO TRUEE
@user-ik2jz9mg8m2 күн бұрын
I'm not English speakers, so sorry for my mistakes. I'm so glad that someone begin talk about it cause when some thing became trends it captures all of stores and you just don't have a choice. And if you belong to "core" you should behave in certian way for match image. And thank you fot sub it's really useful for me❤
@saffwa.2 күн бұрын
thank you for this, honestly internet is something which I don’t trust, yesterday I saw a reel saying “how thin eyebrows make your face better” bro, I was about to make my eyebrows like that and then I realised ITS NOT IT.
@rikasoft3 күн бұрын
also the whole classifications of “cores” and “aesthetics” lead a lot of young teen girls (like myself) to believe sticking to one aesthetic and conforming yourself to that is the only option. I’ve seen so many people comment “What aesthetic is this?” like bro it’s just cool clothes or the original posters personal style no need to add a label for everything
@rikasoft3 күн бұрын
i’m glad i don’t use tiktok that much anymore and explore my own interests and not something thats on the for you page and trendy
@cloudlet54873 күн бұрын
Спасибо за это видео🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Иногда ты попадаешь в этот водоворот трендов и быстрой моды и нужен какой-то толчок, чтобы напомнить себе о том, что действительно важно🌷 Мне бы хотелось научиться определять, что из новых трендов станет классикой, а что уже через сезон будет "антитрендом".
@eunicealtalo54083 күн бұрын
I see a comment on a tt, someone are asking for an style "like coquette but in blue" (?????) omg I felt like I wanna die reading that
@imcamille123 күн бұрын
stunner
@iitsgi3 күн бұрын
mwahhh 💞
@imcamille123 күн бұрын
i love your accent btw just watched your most recent video❤ you're from spain?
@yuryy.y223 күн бұрын
Beautiful smart young girl , which is so rare bcuz everyone has been influenced by social media and they don't know that they are brainwashed , they making people think if they follow new trends and being tiktok pretty makes you cool and let you be that girl, wtf is " that girl" , and plus that we're not just having fast fashion we have also tiktok beauty standards like if u don't have button nose big eyes with long lashes and plumpy lips and and a silk hair you are not Beautiful like ughh I'm really tired i have tiktok just becuz some times i need new recipes or some tips on something , I'm being myself becuz i realized that all of that shit they do it for marketing to keep up w everything every year and don't mess any trend to buy all the items that you're buy in ut becuz u think u gonna look cool becuz it's trendy , thank u for talking about this subject, keep doing a great content like this and we'll gonna support you ❤❤❤
@iitsgi3 күн бұрын
100%! thank you so so much 💗
@333o33 күн бұрын
yes bring back tumblrr
@viragvaczi24803 күн бұрын
You kinda look like Jenna Ortega
@Villtgh3 күн бұрын
tik tok has really became a very toxic app, 6 months ago i developed an ed thanks to all the things i used to watch in that app. i had to delete it in order to recover, probably the best choice i've made for my own health
@franz38103 күн бұрын
Finally
@winnieulatejimenez3 күн бұрын
I’m an eyeliner, 2016 eyebrows and red lipstick girl. I’m high school it was forbidden to wear makeup. When finally I was able to wear makeup I did it and I’m not gonna do: clean girl makeup… I don’t like now I look, I can’t do it. Just wear and use what you like.
@Larissa-ps6kh3 күн бұрын
Totally agree! Great video
@Cauldron63 күн бұрын
Divesting yourself from trends first involves you removing the voices around you from influencing your inner voice. When I quit Instagram, I could finally LISTEN to myself and what I WANTED. It’s been fun to figure out who I am without the need to chase trends or the idea of being a part of The Moment- live IN the moment, instead. 😊
@ZhuhliyMandarin3 күн бұрын
Do you know russian?
@lushinasmr3 күн бұрын
great video! the way our society currently works depends on our insecurities so they can sell us the supposed cure, but defining your self worth through outside validation is a never-ending cycle, you cannot possibly keep up with all the new demands and trends. find what you really genuinely like and you will be much happier, even if it does not match up with anyone else's idea of "cool"
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Being cool is a vibe, it´s not about what you wear but how you wear it. I am sick of seeing the same outfits every day, I rarely see women wearing something original. I hate fast fashion. Second hands and small brand stores are the best. Homemade items take the cake. What is interesting is that being on a low budget actually makes you look more original because the cheapest way to get clothes you want is to make it or buy from a second hand. I like simple fashion, but focus on colours that match my season, skin undertone and flatter my body shape. Too many women just wear whatever is "trendy", but don´t consider if the colour, print or cut really fits them. Styling yourself into a one style like "clean girl" or "mob wife" also suggest lack of personality or originality. It´s not interesting and most of these trends are literally just about owning every single item that goes with that style. Why can´t you just wear different styles ever day? Why do you have to keep to your aesthetic? I noticed this pattern in our society that people just want to be categorized into boxes, whenever it´s social, political or even about your sexuality, people cannot phantom the concept of just being yourself, not belonging to any specific group. It´s uncommon to see people who are not inclined to put themselves in a box and I really dislike this loss of creativity, individualism and rebellion against the norms. Norms seem to be what everyone wants these days.
tbh i rarely care about what other people wear, wear, what you want, trendy or not. but these trends very much feel like their forcing young minds to stick with one style and aesthetic. which is just unrealistic in many ways, people want to grow and change and be unique but feel like these trends are stopping them. sure you can like a trend, but dont ever feel like you can't do something else.
I remember when glowing up meant looking after your mental health, working on yourself such as working out and eating better, using products that ACTUALLY work for your skin, keeping your ownership to minimum (not living minimistically, but, living within your means and decluttering what is stressing you/etc), basically being a you you love and adore - it was a way to find *yourself*, learn who you are, and enhance that whilst also working on things you weren't happy with and now it's some trend used to make people feel inferior... I'm at the point I've deleted all social media other than like one app to talk to my piercer/tattooist and that's it now. It's so sad to see what the internet has become in the past years.
You are so true Being you is a flex🎉❤ Just love yourself the way you're 💜
Thank You for this very valuable video! Inspiring
My 2nd year of Uni's gonna start in a few days and the whole last month I was hyperfixated on buying new clothes and wear according to my "personal style". I bought a few stuff like tops, jewellery and shoes. For a long time I have been obsessed with mary janes so I decided to buy a pair of dupes, and after I did I tried wearing it and I got hit by reality so bad. I didn't like how it looked on me and wasn't going with my overall "style". Thats when I realised how much hyperfixated I was in getting a glow up and leveling up my style while I completely ignored my "personal style". I love baggy jeans because it doesn't touch my skin and I have sensory disorder but what I was trying to buy were "skin tight" flared jeans. That is why it hit me that I was just following trends instead of what makes me feel good and myself. Now I am returning the stuff that I bought and trying to not force a "glow up" on me when I don't even need it. :)
the way the video that was suggested right next to this one was a “how to glow up” one 🥲
its kinda crazy because literally all the movies gen z grew up with like only talked about “be yourself” and they just dropped that lol
this is so real... im 13 and too skinny to fit into a lot of the trending clothes but this has brought me back to reality like girl you are not a stockholm clean girl pinterest it girl you are literally just a 13 year old girl
yes! it's cruel forcing standards even on such young girls so pls don't listen 😭 stay true to yourself <3
I’m not sure if this could also be expanded into one’s heritage. I’ve seen a lot of bashing towards those who prefer fashion outside of their own heritage. People making them feel they aren’t worthy to have their own taste in clothes that isn’t always centered around the validation from others from their cultural background. Or the superiority complex that gets attached to it.
the REAL way to glow up is to like yourself. that's it.
omg you are so true. why i’ve never realize before?
YOU SPILLED, i hope that more girls would hear this bc everything you said is so true
Love the tips and insights you shared in this video ! Fast fashion was always the cheap version of personal style and identity
3:14 How does a person find his own style?
girl just the perspective i’ve been supportin, lysm❤️
Exactly girl .. that’s what I really want everybody to listen for , I’m really sick of those new trends and it’s just make me unsure about really what I love and what I don’t cause I’m a person who don’t have a specific style it just depends on my mood,so when I see the influencers and Pinterest I just feel uncomfortable, also it’s not about that only I lost my touch of styling I cannot wear something if I don’t scroll on Pinterest .. everything should be perfect and in aesthetically way in the world of social media and trends , so that’s really makes me take a step to delete ig and Pinterest . i hope everyone listen for that cause it’s really true .
This is really what i needed after a year full of inscurity! Tysmm
no thank YOU! 🥰
The timing is crazyyy❤
I would also add that people tends to believe some aesthetics are combine with a certain personnality. For exemple, a grunge person would have to be badass, mean, and stuff like that.. It sucks so much
omgg yes!! someone had to say this. im just so fed up of these "trends" that just make us victims of capitalism just to fit in and look or seem "cool" so glad you said this!
Best thing I did for my mental health was deleting my IG. Deleted my Twitter too during the pandemic because I was doomscrolling for hours. I refuse to download Tiktok or Threads. Social media used to be good when it was just a tool for communication. Now it's a giant marketplace where the sellers try to hit your weak points and make you spend your money so you can "feel good".
Just live !!!
I agree. As for cheetah print, I have always loved it because my classmate’s mom who I always thought was so cool used to wear it all the time. I will love it no matter how overused and tacky it becomes. ❤
Thank you!!! I'm so happy that im not the only one who think that way. Trends are destroying us. Overcomsuption now is crazy☠️ We lost our identity, common sense and individual way of thinking and that's concerning. And I'm saying this as 19 year old. Period. Dont stop doing your job girl!! Greetings from Poland<33
thank you so much!! 💗💗
Omg thank you!!! Great video
i may seem dumb but i needed this video to realize that i was looking for myself everywhere but not in me 😭😭
it's not dumb, but a beautiful realization <3
I keep worrying that I don't have one aesthetic. Tbh I like a bit of everything, I am not one thing and for me that just made me feel like I was a freak who didn't have any stability and when I would see girls online have their one thing, like that's their main thing, I would get instantly depressed and felt like something was wrong with me. I consulted with my parents about this and my mom assured me that there was nothing wrong (altho I do have to say I have been through things that have made me a little unstable in my head), that I needed to get my head out of the internet and stop worrying about what other people think or what others are doing. She told me I needed to detox and take time for myself to figure out who I am and that even if who I am is a little bit of everything, then that's just the person that I am and that I need to love it.
whatever you say gorgeous!!!
hdjdkd thank you
Thank you. Seriously thank you so much
thank YOU! 💗
ur so right i've been feeling this lately I don't like going on tik tok anymore all trends are made to make women become insecure the eyebrow blindness blush blindness hairline blindness omg who caresssss these trends are leading women and young girls to over analyze their features and compare them to others
This is so true. Especially the "wonyoungism" girlies in tiktok they be like "oh im getting a glowup" while in reality there just trying to stick to the trends going acting like I'm so coquette or whatever I'm sick of the internet honestly
this video needs to be seen by everyone ❤
SOO TRUEE
I'm not English speakers, so sorry for my mistakes. I'm so glad that someone begin talk about it cause when some thing became trends it captures all of stores and you just don't have a choice. And if you belong to "core" you should behave in certian way for match image. And thank you fot sub it's really useful for me❤
thank you for this, honestly internet is something which I don’t trust, yesterday I saw a reel saying “how thin eyebrows make your face better” bro, I was about to make my eyebrows like that and then I realised ITS NOT IT.
also the whole classifications of “cores” and “aesthetics” lead a lot of young teen girls (like myself) to believe sticking to one aesthetic and conforming yourself to that is the only option. I’ve seen so many people comment “What aesthetic is this?” like bro it’s just cool clothes or the original posters personal style no need to add a label for everything
i’m glad i don’t use tiktok that much anymore and explore my own interests and not something thats on the for you page and trendy
Спасибо за это видео🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Иногда ты попадаешь в этот водоворот трендов и быстрой моды и нужен какой-то толчок, чтобы напомнить себе о том, что действительно важно🌷 Мне бы хотелось научиться определять, что из новых трендов станет классикой, а что уже через сезон будет "антитрендом".
I see a comment on a tt, someone are asking for an style "like coquette but in blue" (?????) omg I felt like I wanna die reading that
stunner
mwahhh 💞
i love your accent btw just watched your most recent video❤ you're from spain?
Beautiful smart young girl , which is so rare bcuz everyone has been influenced by social media and they don't know that they are brainwashed , they making people think if they follow new trends and being tiktok pretty makes you cool and let you be that girl, wtf is " that girl" , and plus that we're not just having fast fashion we have also tiktok beauty standards like if u don't have button nose big eyes with long lashes and plumpy lips and and a silk hair you are not Beautiful like ughh I'm really tired i have tiktok just becuz some times i need new recipes or some tips on something , I'm being myself becuz i realized that all of that shit they do it for marketing to keep up w everything every year and don't mess any trend to buy all the items that you're buy in ut becuz u think u gonna look cool becuz it's trendy , thank u for talking about this subject, keep doing a great content like this and we'll gonna support you ❤❤❤
100%! thank you so so much 💗
yes bring back tumblrr
You kinda look like Jenna Ortega
tik tok has really became a very toxic app, 6 months ago i developed an ed thanks to all the things i used to watch in that app. i had to delete it in order to recover, probably the best choice i've made for my own health
Finally
I’m an eyeliner, 2016 eyebrows and red lipstick girl. I’m high school it was forbidden to wear makeup. When finally I was able to wear makeup I did it and I’m not gonna do: clean girl makeup… I don’t like now I look, I can’t do it. Just wear and use what you like.
Totally agree! Great video
Divesting yourself from trends first involves you removing the voices around you from influencing your inner voice. When I quit Instagram, I could finally LISTEN to myself and what I WANTED. It’s been fun to figure out who I am without the need to chase trends or the idea of being a part of The Moment- live IN the moment, instead. 😊
Do you know russian?
great video! the way our society currently works depends on our insecurities so they can sell us the supposed cure, but defining your self worth through outside validation is a never-ending cycle, you cannot possibly keep up with all the new demands and trends. find what you really genuinely like and you will be much happier, even if it does not match up with anyone else's idea of "cool"