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Final Judgement?!??!?!?!?! That is just too large a price to pay for community service and sisterly relations. Besides the bible warns us take no oath.. “But I tell you, do not swear an oath at all: either by heaven, for it is God’s throne; 35 or by the earth, for it is his footstool; or by Jerusalem, for it is the city of the Great King. 36 And do not swear by your head, for you cannot make even one hair white or black. 37 All you need to say is simply ‘Yes’ or ‘No’; anything beyond this comes from the evil one Matthew 5:34-37 NIV But the final straw, the one that really broke the camels back for me was when I was reading my bible one day and found almost the exact words of the AKA pledge in the bible. Except AKA remixed it up, took out the word God and replaced it with their name, AKA. Girl I nearly dropped my bible! I’ve been reading the bible regularly for years at that point and had never saw that scripture before IN MY LIFE. “And thou shalt love the Lord thy God, with all thine heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy might. Deuteronomy 6:5 KJV 25 And behold, a lawyer stood up to put him to the test, saying, “Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?” 26 He said to him, “What is written in the Law? How do you read it?” 27 And he answered, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.” 28 And he said to him, “You have answered correctly; do this, and you will live.” Luke 10:25-28 Why were these scriptures so jaw dropping? Because the pledge for AKA asks you to pledge those exact things to their org. Yet there it was in black and white in two locations a literal demonstration of AKA taking God’s glory for themselves. The holy spirit leading me to two different scriptures in two different books was significant also because He was dividing and proving the word to me by the word itself. How can I give my heart, mind and strength to two different askers? Simply, I cannot. I had to choose and in that very moment I knew my salvation was in jeopardy by continuing to be affiliated and I chose Jesus over AKA. It was painstaking to believe that AKA was potentially blocking me from eternal life and wanting to cheerfully escort me into eternal death, but I couldn’t deny in any way shape or form from God what was rightly His. The other things revealed I spent moments still trying to justify or exempt myself from while still staying a member, ok I won’t attend initiation but still stay a member. But once I found this scripture I surrendered all protest. It was an absolute direct conflict with God and what He desires from me! I was filled with holy fear at that point and immediately started the renouncement process. I burned my membership certificate, cut up all my para, and mailed back my pin, documents, financial cards, with a notarized renouncement statement. Even after sharing this testimony with others I have still heard the claim of individual mission…”Well I’m doing good works that are pleasing to God, like community service and helping children and have never put my membership before God”… To that I have warned friends, if you took that oath or repeat that pledge then you have already placed the org before God. Second you have to be careful about this thought process about good works. The bible is pretty clear on this subject. Good works performed apart from God and his will are not considered good at all. They profess to know God but they deny him by their works. They are detestable, disobedience, unfit for any good work. Titus 1: 16 ESV What makes us believe these orgs do works that are pleasing in God’s sight? The bible tells us that if the foundation of anything is rotten so is the fruit it produces no matter how “good” it appears to our natural eye. And if you are a Christian you are challenged to examine the source of everything. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Matthew 7:18 ESV The bible also says to test every spirit to see from where it came and not to be deceived because evil can present itself as good, and good can be misconstrued to appear evil. Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world. 1 John 4:1 NIV So if these orgs are essentially idol worship, (which they are) and the bible strictly forbids idol worship (which it does) then the good works are no longer good in His sight… they are “good works” to the natural eye but contributing to the continuum of idolatry, which is not good by Gods standards at all. Think about those good works as a marketing tool for recruitment. It misguides those who only tread the surface and don’t examine the foundation of orgs deeper like I didn’t.. the works had me sold too.. I believed what I was joining was good because the output appeared good, but after closer examination I realized 2 things, one I discovered my first year after crossing, which is that I could have broader impact on my community BY MYSELF than with my org, because of the politics alone. And two in 2016 God revealed that those works were just smoke and mirrors in the collection of souls. I will leave you with this last thing to think about as well. Through the pledge process these orgs attempt to mimic the process of being born again… they take you through a process of going from darkness into light and when you resurface it is in their name and under their authority. (You wear black all throughout your process and then wear white the day you cross) They rename you, and number you according to the orgs standards. You strut around proudly, glorifying that org wherever you go… in fact people often know your org affiliation before they know your name, because its on your jacket, keychain, umbrella, license plate, tote bag, hat. When you really start to dig into that idea beyond what it appears to be on the surface, what you are actually doing is performing worship and what you are bonding yourself into is not upstanding or righteous at all. Its scary and spiritually dangerous. The only guiding light I want to follow and be brought into is carried by Jesus, praying you feel the same. Praying for your freedom in Christ as well.
Today i have got t loop and its paining like hell ;*(
I remember those days for sure! So glad to be out of those shackles LOL
The outfits are beautiful especially your white top with scarf. Classy.
Thank you!
Hey I was wondering where you got the picture with your face on it at?
Hello, it was made by a family member.
@@iAmHerMsDAw ok thanks so much miss your vlogs keep them coming
You are one of the videos I watched while I prepared myself. For me, it has been a long time coming. Finally my time came Spring 23! 💕💚 Delayed not Denied!
Your Pearl dress was everything Soror. I am in the wonderful South Atlantic region!! I’m attending leadership this year and hopefully Boule next year
I love your ivy what size is it ? Medium or large size ivy want to get one for my cousin
*What a smart idea! Just to stand up on the second floor and watch the waves and waves and waves and waver and waves of AKAs coming down that hallway...* That was amazing! 💚💚💖💖💚💚
Hey Sis!! 💗💚💗💚 Loving the videos. Loved the outfits!! Where did you get the cape blazer? Love it!
Hey Soror! Thank you for the compliments :) the link for the cape blazer is below pinkandunique.com/products/cape-blazer
@@iAmHerMsD Thank you much!!
You’re hilarious 💓💓💗Sweetiepie👍🏽I loved your luggage-makeup bag in pink and green & your “this is a serious matter” pin & your black bag with the crest.
I love it here! Thanks for tuning in 😇😊
we were at the same regional dinner! Awww. I'm glad you had fun Soror !
Nice recap and photos, Soror! I am in the Confident, Charismatic and Charmed Central Region. Congrats on your first Boule! I attended Boule virtually but looking forward to Dallas in 2024!
Thanks for tuning in Soror. It was indeed an exceptional experience! Looking forward to Boule 24 as well!!!
Hey Soror! I too am in the South Atlantic Region (Sigma Omega Omega Chapter)! Your recap of Boule was wonderful! Your outfits were super cute. So glad you enjoyed your first Boule! See you in Dallas!!!
Yaasss, see you in Dallas!!! Thanks for tuning in Soror 🤗😇 💞💚
Hey Soror!💚💗 I'm from the MidAtlantic region & didnt go to Boule this year , so this video was everything! Which vender did you get the line jacket from ?
Wow. Where is the Mid-Atlantic Region located?
@@esaulolis3383 VA & NC
i stumbled across this...the GLOW.UP is noticed...
Thank you for tuning in :)
The blazer was my favorite. You don’t see blazers all the time . Very unique piece
Love the necklace
Thank you 😇
North Atlantic, wish I was there in person but did virtual. Thank you
#green
Thank you for sharing your experience, soror.
Skee Wee Soror, from Central Region. You got some great gifts from your regional luncheon. I’m digging that top you have on, where did you get it?
Hey Soror 🤗 Thanks for tuning in! The shirt is from the Ivy Storehouse 💞💚
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Hi Dee! Thanks for tuning in 😇❣️
Skee wee soror
YOU MUST BE NEW - ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY ISN'T FOR THE STREETS!! STOP PUTTING OUR BUSINESS OUT LIKE YOU ARE!!
Hi. I am a fairly new member and I do not recall violating or exposing the sorority’s business in any form or fashion. I have seen plenty videos of members sharing more in-depth content than you have witness here on my channel! Nonetheless, thank you for tuning in :) AS ALWAYS, I TRY NOT & WILL NOT EXPOSE OR SHARE THE BUSINESS OF ALPHA KAPPA ALPHA SORORITY, Inc. The intent of AKA content on this channel is to share products and paraphernalia along with any experiences that are deemed appropriate. Submitted Respectfully 😌
Beautiful
Thank you 😊
Mid-Atlantic Region Soror here 😊💗 💚hey Sis hey! Loved your recap of the Boule and that backpack is the truth!
I absolutely love the backpack! Thanks for tuning in, sis 💞💚 much love !
Hi Mariah, I checked out your station. I really like it.
Hi Soror! Greetings from the North Atlantic region!
Hi Soror! Thanks for tuning in 💕💚
Hey Soror!! Thanks for sharing. I'm from the South Eastern Region!💕💚
Awesome video Soror! Great Lakes Region checking in! Excellent price on the jacket! 🍏💕
Thank you for sharing Soror! Your outfits were beautiful. It looks like you had fun. 💕💚
Hi Soror 🤗 thank you 💗💚
Thank for the share. I just received my bag because I attended Boule virtually. I thought they'd cheated me. Lol. It is right on time because I'm heading out to celebrate our sorority's sister's birthday.(Not yours personally, but you know why I use "sorority" instead of the other word.) Thanks again. 💕💚💕
Oooh! That back pack!! 💞💚💞
I love it 🥰
Great video soror! I’m in the south Atlantic region too! Love the gifts you purchased! May I ask where your AKA cape pink blazer is from? Very PRETTY! 😍 Hate I missed my 1st boule but will be at the next one in TX!
Hi Soror! Thank you for tuning in. Boule was an exceptional experience! We ordered the blazers from pink and unique. 😊💞💚
@@iAmHerMsD Glad you enjoyed boule! 🤗 Thank you about the blazer too soror! “We help each other” Have a great rest of your weekend! 💕💚
Great recap LS, so glad you enjoyed your first Boule 💕💚
Thanks LS! See you soon 😇🥰
Hi Soror! I was at Boule also and I’m in the South Atlantic region. Psi Pi Omega chapter. Your outfits were cute! 💚💗
Thanks Soror! I’m apart of the Tau Theta Omega Chapter. SPR 21 💗💚
Yaaasss Soror, South Atlantic represent!
SsskkkeeeWeeeee!!!! Much Love Soror 💞💚
Your gifts look great!
Thank you 😊
Hey Soror!! Thank you for sharing!!! Love your fits girl! Central Region 💗💚
Thank You Soror 💞💚 Much Love !
You're so funny 🥰🥰🥰 and cute💐💐💐
lol thank you 😇
@@iAmHerMsD you're welcome love 🙏💛🙏
Hi Soror. Thank you for sharing this wonderful vlog from the 70th Boule. I’m in the North Atlantic Region, but I love me some SARC. Where will the SARC be next year? Thank you 💗💚.
Hi Soror! Thank you for tuning in. From my understanding the SARC will be in Orlando. 💞💚
@@iAmHerMsD thank you soror 💗💚
I'm looking for that Ivy necklace, which vendor?
Here’s the link for the Ivy necklace… it’s under the Boule collection www.pinkcocoagifts.com/
Thanks so much Soror 💗💚💗💚
@@kizziesmall1 my pleasure 😇
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Hey Traydan 💙
Love this Soror! So excited for Boule 💗💚
Love this Soror! So excited for Boule 💕
Super excited !!! Looking forward to such an event! 💞💚
Soror I need the link to the pink and green bags 😩💕💚
Hey Soror! I ordered them from SHEIN. It’s the minimalist ruched detail clutch 😊
It is a luggage bag
Congratulations young lady God bless you on your Journey🥰🥰🥰
Thank you :)
Welcome Soror. 💗💚 Happy Founders' Day!
Wow! Amazing!
I love how you keep moving. A lot of people don't tell everything they just show the final results. Congrats
Thank You :)
@@iAmHerMsD you're welcome 😊