Turn to Jesus and beg for forgiveness you have committed a abomination to Jesus Christ the man who died for you to live
@TransparentCLove10 сағат бұрын
@dani434E said Jesus loves us so we are good 😄🤍
@FrogBoyYT25411 сағат бұрын
Jesus loves you
@mitchyrosaАй бұрын
Love the video and you two! But can I ask why you refer to your wife as drew prior to transitioning with her dead name? I’m not trying to be mean or start anything just genuinely curious. I’m a a gay sociologist who took a lot of gender and queer studies classes. ❤️❤️ HAPPY PRIDE
@TransparentCLoveАй бұрын
Heyyyyy mitchyrosa!!! Thank you so much for the love! We truly def don’t ever mind answering questions! Trust when I say with yt and tt I can totally tell when someone is genuinely asking and when someone is truly just being a jerk. So when Drew came out to me we discussed what name she would like to be called and she decided Drew works for me. Her legal name is def not Drew. I hope this helps but if not feel free to reach out ✨❤️
@brookekline75132 ай бұрын
your poor children. i’ll pray for those kids and hope they find it in life. they need a father figure in their life not a mom and a half. your family should speak to God
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Do you live with us lol if you do PAY RENT babe lol you know nothing about our children. If you met them they are actually the greatest humans on earth 💋 but thanks for the comment helps push out our videos 😂
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
I know PLENTY OF PEOPLE WHO GO TO “ CHURCH” and believe in GOD and are just about the worst people on this earth 😅 so pls don’t tell us what to do with our lives 😛
@Kur10usity2 ай бұрын
😂 LMAO Saying "I'll pray for you" is so insulting and cringe. Get a different hobby, sis.
@brookekline7513Ай бұрын
@@Kur10usity The problem is, is that praying is not YOUR hobby.
@brookekline7513Ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove There are many people who believe in God and are horrible, but it’s not God inside of them that is the horrible part. Those people have choices to be good or evil. You’re right i know nothing about your children, but it must be horrible to be raised without a real mother and real father.
@Ellenslife8512 ай бұрын
Celebrate Mother’s Day for both of you because y’all are both mother figures in your kids life
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Hi Ellen! It’s Jackie and just wanted to say thank you for the comment. Drew and I have discussed this and thought about it however Mother’s Day for the both of us just wouldn’t feel as special. We kinda both selfishly want our own day so we prefer to celebrate on different days.
@BlackberryTitties2 ай бұрын
🤔😳
@Ellenslife8512 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove I totally understand that I think it would be good for her to have her own special day then
@Earthtones__2 ай бұрын
Let me share a tip with you guys how the vacuum was cheaper online. So if you buy it regular price then take it to customer service they will price match it for the online price we do that all the time for pricey things ! It’s so worth it !!!
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Next time I’m DMing you lol I was so sad! I’m like cut the mic babe I’m bout to call a manager ahahaha
@Zenithxblack2 ай бұрын
I love how wholesome this channel is. ♡
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Zenith 🥹🫂 you’re shoo sweet! Thank you so much! We will def have more content coming up ✨❤️
@cookiemonster402 ай бұрын
I like that other mothers day idea
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
I kind of like it to☺️ whatever we decide on, we’ll def make a video to let everyone know🫶🏼
@wepdiggy2 ай бұрын
i have thought about this myself, too, as a trans woman who is a parent, and while after my transition started i have not had a co-parent who is interested in having these conversations, if we did, my idea/ideal for it would be to celebrate "my" day on the british mother's day (4th sunday of lent) and call it "other mother's day" OR maybe celebrate it on american father's day and call it "other mother's day" idk, maybe one day will find smth that works
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Aww I’m sorry you’re not able to have these convos.. i totally get it tho. Being trans def comes with restrictions😔 and i love your idea!! British Mother’s Day?! That’s sooo cute, you could even do like a tea party theme🫖 ✨ march is packed with our kiddos bdays tho so I think that day wouldn’t work for me. Buuut I love that idea for you! You can always talk to me about these things☺️ glad to listen. Have a great day!!💖
@Deezcutz20242 ай бұрын
Men aren't women
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
No one said they were 😂 so……. Why you here lol you have a thing for trans women?
@ameliab3242 ай бұрын
My dad's birthday is one day after the Father's Day, and the night in between that days used to be celebrated in Slavic culture as Saint John's Night, right after the Kupala Night, and that gave me an idea. The night *before* the 23rd of June is Kupala Night - it's a celebration of the summer solstice, which one could say is a time of transformation (of spring into summer) and also the time of the year when sun is out for the longest which may represent a lot of positive things such as love, light, hope. So maybe you could use the 22nd of June as Addie's Day? It would be close to the 'actual' Father's Day and would have symbolic meaning at the same time. You could also just Google every day in June and check what is\used to be celebrated on that day and see if any of these resonate with you.
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Omg the Kulpala Night, it sounds so beautiful and has an amazing meaning!! Thank you for educating us on this topic. I think we will be considering June 22 now☺️💖
@Zenithxblack2 ай бұрын
This is such a great channel. ♡♡
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Hiiii Zenith 🥰 truly from the bottom of both of our hearts thank you so much for this comment 🫂❤️
@wildwisewitch2 ай бұрын
As a transwoman without kids, i don't exactly know how I'd handle that situation. I'm maternal in nature with my friends (their kids), family members, nieces, nephews, and even complete strangers...so anything related to fatherhood or paternal vibes would feel very uncomfortable and antithetical to my being. My biological father was emotionally/psychologically abusive with me and i experienced trauma during the time that i knew him. I haven't spoken to him in 18 years. The two stepdads i had in my upbringing were also monsters in their own ways. One was a liar, thief, and cheater...the other was emotionally/psychologically abusive with my mother and the family. So needless to say father's day isn't a holiday i really invest in or pay any attention to anymore. I think you two beautiful souls will find a different way of celebrating both parents 💜.
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
I am so sorry your father was emotionally and psychologically abusive to you😭 and it is very tragic when family members are harmful to you mentally and physically.. thank you for sharing your life with us!!🥹🫶🏼✨ and thank you for the love and support💖We love you!
@BlackberryTitties2 ай бұрын
Sir
@yellowjello75012 ай бұрын
First off I wanna say I'm sorry about your dad leaving you. That's horrible and really wish parents abandoning their children never happened. Secondly I wanna say I think drew needs to celebrate father's day. I understand you transitioned but you are those children's father. The word father shouldn't be scary to you. You aren't their mother bc they already have one. I think it's pretty selfish you are taking their father away. That doesn't mean I don't think you shouldn't have transitioned but you should still be those kids father. Regardless of being a trans woman or not. You both seem like great people and I hope you both find what you want out of life and live a long and happy one.
@bigfishmakki2 ай бұрын
Why can’t the children have two mothers?
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Hey! It’s Jackie! Being a parent yes I could absolutely never understand how you could just abandon a child that will never make any sense to me. As for Drew and her being a dad. You are correct she will always be their dad. However as a family we have collectively all sat down numerous times and spoken on the topic of Father’s Day. To us it’s just not a holiday we would like to participate in. Drew is at the end of the day a parent and so we decided collectively as a family to celebrate her on another day. Just kinda how we want to live our lives and makes us happy :) Thank you for watching!!!
@yellowjello75012 ай бұрын
@@bigfishmakki I didn't say that. Read what I said again. I'm a gay dude who plans on having/adopting kids one day. So I don't have an issue with same sex parents. This isn't a case of same sex parents.
@yellowjello75012 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove that's fair. I did watch the whole video and thoroughly enjoyed it! Will try to catch a few more to get a better insight!
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Awhhh truly we can’t thank you enough for watching and just hearing our story out. Trust me when I say I know it’s not your normal typical mom and dad family dynamic who celebrates things so traditional but we are def trying our best to raise our kids in a household that feels semi normal with lots of love. 🤍
@KelseyCastro-cg5te2 ай бұрын
You both look like BEAUTIFUL MERMAIDS!
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
🥹 wish I could hug you!
@420GirlForever2 ай бұрын
Omg I have major social anxiety to the point my voice shakes sometimes when I speak during phone calls. You did a perfect job!! I really struggle and usually avoid talking on the phone no matter what.
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Omg I totally get what you mean by the shaky voice! The more you talk with your femme voice the stronger the muscles get! Keep it up!! I even get nervous talking on the phone. I’m scared I don’t sound femme but sometimes we just have to not care and keep trying🏳️⚧️🗣️
@kimbo5002 ай бұрын
I know I'm late getting to this video and your channel, and I'm viewing from the beginning. First - you did a great job Drew. (Kudos also to your wife on the previous video)! I know it was very difficult for you, but you really did do a great job. Very authentic sentiments regarding your journey, and I'm sure your words will resonate with many!! I have a question that I don't have an answer for and feel I can ask it here for anyone's input. I have been blessed being raised in a family of acceptance. Acceptance of others different cultures/races, economic classes, political stances, genders.....etc. I have had plenty of exposure with the LGBTQ community both professionally and personally. I'm not eloquent with my words, and sometimes don't find the right ones - so be patient with me please. I still don't understand why many people have to be so 'flamboyant' (don't know if that is the right word - doesn't feel like it is), with their gender or sexual orientation. For ex: I don't understand the need to have rainbows everywhere, or have a separate parade. I don't understand why sexual identity, or gender identity have to be so 'advertised'. I am straight, and I don't feel I need to let everyone know I'm straight. I identify as female - and I don't feel I have to visually show that to people. I understand that is just me. On the receiving end .... why would I need to know these things about others who I pass on the street, or come across in the store? Just having Drew's rainbow fan shoved in front of the camera, rubs me the wrong way, just like gay pride t-shirts, flags, or car stickers. Why can't I get to know people for who they are, and not have it crammed in my face? My friend in H.S. (decades ago) was a star male athlete in our school, and active in my youth group at church. After we graduated he moved to N.Y. and his work as an artisan became very well known. Some friends/family told me a return visit to our hometown was scheduled in a few days, and that he had transitioned to female. I was shocked, but ok. I was pleased to see her in church (a week before my wedding). We hugged and I said I hoped she would come to our wedding. She did come, and was so thankful (I think to be included). Not once did she exaggerate her feminism. She blended in as any other female, and if you passed her in the street - you would not know she was part of the LGBTQ community. She doesn't need that. She has what she needs. She has the body of a female, treated as such, and that was her goal - both personally and professionally. I'm confused with why others in the community feel the need to be so 'expressive'....'flamboyant'.....'in my face'.....(I also need some help finding a better word/phrase please!) 🙄. Thanks in advance for any input from anyone. It's appreciated - more than you know.
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Hi kimbo thank you for reaching out☺️ AND taking time out of your day to watch our videos. I’m sorry I made you feel any type of way about the rainbow fan.. I didn’t mean to come across like I’m cramming it in your face. I don’t walk around waving it everywhere. I can see where you’re coming from about pride parades and some people being EXTRA expressive. I can’t speak for ALL but that’s just the way some people are, they are very proud of being part of the LGBTQIA community. Just like anyone decked out in patriotic outfit(hat,shirt,shorts,socks, prob boxers to), they’re proud to be an American, someone wearing all sports team gear, they’re passionate about sports, someone wearing an excessive amount of black with metal spikes/pins and heavy make up, they love metal/goth/rock etc music. I think some choose to express 🏳️🌈more than others. So happy for your friend. I wonder how many years they have been transitioning from male to female. Some people are early on in their transition and don’t feel as pretty, feminine, for all the ftm out there, they don’t feel masc enough so wear a trans flag symbol or rainbow is just a little comfort for some people. Maybe after a certain amount of time some trans people will eventually be at the point where your friend is, blending in with the gender you feel closest to😊
@kimbo5002 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove Thanks for your quick reply. It seems very different to me than simply expressing being an American, being Goth, being Irish or liking a specific sports team - especially if the rainbows provide comfort due to insecurities. In those cases it's almost a reminder of how extremely sad, insecure, or uncomfortable one is with themselves. Almost an advertisement because it's done to such extreme. I cringe when I even say that - but that is how it comes off to some. If it provides someone such confidence/comfort...that is far more important to me than the discomfort it provides me. I have gay friends & acquaintances who are simply embarrassed and cringe when they think about gay pride parades now. One minute we are emphatically told it's not about 'sex' (which I truly get)..... but then they themselves sexualize the parade....by wearing very revealing apparel and whipping each other in front of our children. 🤦♀I will never see that as acceptable, but damaging. I've digressed.... I want to thank you for trying to help me understand. Hopefully others may share some input as well. I saw your Bath & Body video after I left my comment/question. I want to say how lovely I think Jackie and you were for thinking of your daughter in such a loving and caring way during this time of her life. Jackie is such an amazing woman, thinking of your daughter during what can be a tricky time in her life. I could see what she was saying when she was relating the similarities with that time of your life as well. Her sentiments didn't seem to resonate as much for you though. When you said you are a 'sucker for the pride collection', I thought to myself 'Oh dear, I hope I didn't offend Drew with my question!!'. 😳 I sure wish I understood better. I do understand your point about a symbol providing a little comfort...I really do. This is different than that. I wish I could understand how people want to blend in and be accepted for who they are, but at the same time are actually drawing more attention to themselves in a massive way. I understand receiving comfort from the community as well. I truly do!! Everyone needs support in varying degrees, in different areas of our lives. I do get that. I don't understand having such pride that it has to be shown with t-shirts, scarves, jewelry, accessories, hats, coffee mugs....all being used at the same time. It's SO much! I would feel a similar way if someone who is Irish let's say, & wears green shamrocks everyday on their tennis shoes, socks, scarves, hats, & t-shirt while drinking out of a coffee mug with green shamrocks. Thanks again for being a safe place for me to ask my question. I appreciate it!
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Awwww thank you for questions and understanding! At the end of the day topics like this should be talked about since there are so many walks of life here on earth. Thank you again for giving out videos a watch and we hope you have a great Memorial Day!!✨🫶🏼☀️🕶️
@kimbo5002 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove Same to you!
@loveinfla2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience with planned parenthood.
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Of course! So glad I can help 🫂
@jensor062 ай бұрын
What did they prescribe for your HRT?
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
So since I am trans (mtf) they did prescribe me estrogen, along with needles and syringes😉
@jensor062 ай бұрын
Ahhh….my daughter does estrogen patches
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
It’s so heart warming to hear your daughter have such a supportive mom like you… I don’t think my parents will ever call me their daughter😞 how does she like the patch?? I preferred injections
@nonya65222 ай бұрын
No need to stress your voice so much to sound feminine...be yourself
@TransparentCLove2 ай бұрын
Awwe thank you🫶🏼 I try to not worry about my voice so much but the gender dysphoria starts to kick in. I’m trying not to care but it is hard😞
@Zenithxblack3 ай бұрын
♡♡♡♡
@TransparentCLove3 ай бұрын
Thank you for the love and support 🫶🏼🫂
@daniv69183 ай бұрын
It’s totally understandable what your feeling so many changes in your life and things you weren’t expecting to happen ended up happening . Also you felt abandoned by Drew because of the transition she is going through now you are getting to know a different side of Drew that you never knew and also all the backlash that you might get from other people. You are doing amazing by trying to understand this situation ❤ don’t be too hard on yourself 🫤 .. it’s going to take time for you both to understand each other and love each other in a new way 🥰
@TransparentCLove3 ай бұрын
🥹🫂 this!!!! Thank you!
@daniv69183 ай бұрын
Love seeing you guys content , I need to catch up 😊
@TransparentCLove3 ай бұрын
We appreciate the love 🫂🫶✨
@chefalex33 ай бұрын
Jackie you’ve stolen my heart , I hope to find a partner like you in my life ❤
@TransparentCLove3 ай бұрын
Hiiiii Alex!!!! 😭😭😭😭 you are soooo sweet! Thank you so much for your sweet message 🫂 just be you and I’m sure someone crazy like me will come along 🤍
@piggychops12354 ай бұрын
I am girl... I shave my face like you... Beacause i have beard.... Do you have beard??
@TransparentCLove4 ай бұрын
Sorry you have to shave constantly:( I grow facial hair but I do not have a beard. I’m not able to grow that much hair.
@piggychops12354 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove that's good... I have chin and neck beard hard hairs due to pcos😢😢😢
@user-ys7hz1ov1i5 ай бұрын
Girl! Tell me your shampoo/conditioner cause your hair looks INCREDIBLE! 😍😍
@Ilovecats123795 ай бұрын
This is really helpful!!! tysm <33 goodluck on your journey!
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Glad this was helpful to you☺️ thank youuuu💖💫
@Logic7565 ай бұрын
You are a biological male, you cant deny that. Btw, it's impossible to transition to a new gender.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Omg logic we had no idea 😅🤡 Lol thank you for stating the obvious lol now go away before we think you like and support trans people lol
@stevegonzales5275 ай бұрын
Bro why you playing dress up?
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Bro why you watching lol 🤡
@user-jj6yi6pj1h5 ай бұрын
Girl face shaving full video chhaiyyan
@Chilsy4495 ай бұрын
You deserve so much more. You deserve to be happy and you don’t have to settle for the lifestyle your spouse is choosing.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
I understand what you’re saying, however I’m not settling. I’m also doing a lot of things that make me happy. I’ve made a significant amount of growth and still am. But truly appreciate the love and support. 🫶
@jamievirginia5 ай бұрын
Hey girl! I love watching your videos, you both seem like such lovely and hardworking people. Also this is weird but I love your voice 😂 keep it up, you’re doing amazing 💕
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
🥹🥹🥹 you are so cute! Thank you so much! Not weird at all! Recording is so hard and I hate listening to my voice so comments like this mean everything to me! Thank you so much for all the love 😭😭😭😭😭🫂 hugs from me to you xoxoxoxox
@clarissamaldonado69445 ай бұрын
❤
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Love you so much 🥹🫂🥰
@daniv69185 ай бұрын
You both are soo adorable making videos ☺️
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
You are so sweet thank you 🩷🫂
@SavageScientist5 ай бұрын
I just started the shot, my goal is Non binary. Im getting more breast growth when i wanted bigger legs. I been laughed at for doing this experiment. But this experiment is making me act more fem.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@robind85265 ай бұрын
I'm happy for you!
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Omggg thank you so much!!🥹✨💖
@user-jc8cc4ch6w5 ай бұрын
Do you no why HRT estrogen causes fluid retention i also have to take painkillers from an accident that happened in the early 80s
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Hiii I wish I could give you a perfect, scientific answer but the truth is, I’m still relatively new to this😅 I’m not sure what causes the fluid retention but I do know that HRT can cause weight gain, swollen feet, poofy face. But not sure what exactly causes it. That’s a great question😊 and I’m so sorry to hear about your accident! I’m sure it’s a pain to have to take painkillers😥
@AutoAli5 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove The weight gain is usually contributed to Spiro and/or hormonal imbalance. Everyone reacts different but I personally struggled immensely with weight for years and just recently we found out that my estrogen went through the rood and I needed to reduce my injection dose. Since then I have had a bit more sucess losing the weight I have been fighting for years from starting HRT and quitting smoking. Just where I landed at least. YMMV
@agirlthatstrans78156 ай бұрын
Hi ! In a prior video u said that u had kaiser and went on hrt but then stopped because kaiser ? What happened ? with u and ur insurance. Y did you stop taking hrt ? I heard Kaiser was a transphobic insurance , and they made it hard for someone who is trans to get on hrt girl . I'm taking hrt through medi cal .
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
We made a video on this. It’s our Christmas ginger bread video. Explains all details. But I’m back on it now so thankfully everything is good 🙏🥰
@agirlthatstrans78156 ай бұрын
Whattahell . I have medi cal . And my primary doctor, prescribed me hrt the same day i told them I wanted to get on hormones and spyronolactone testosterone blockers . But they really did see me that I was really depressed. I told them everything that I felt . That I didn't eat , was depressed ND a whole a lotta more stuff. I was literally very skinny . Cus eating made me put on weight ND that caused me gender dysphoria. I'm on my 6th day of hrt . And I live in California. It's so easy here to get on hrt thank god . Now I think I'd rather get on injections in form of estrogen.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
I’m so happy for you! Medical is truly amazing! Thank you for sharing 😌🫂
@smileyfacewithsunglasses76136 ай бұрын
It's your life, do what makes you happy. Not everyone is going to understand or accept your choices but they're not paying your bills, so who cares! You just know that everything we do has consequences, good and bad, so just prepare yourself to face them head on. If your mom accepts it and supports you, great! If not, oh well! It is what it is.
@TransparentCLove6 ай бұрын
I love everything about this comment 🥲🫶 thank youuuuu
@smileyfacewithsunglasses76136 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove you're welcome, I wish you and your family the best!
@CS-yq8hp6 ай бұрын
Let me see if I can explain this differently. You know those girls that talk about their boyfriends none stop? They make their relationship with their boyfriend their whole personality. To the point that they can’t have a conversation with their friends without mentioning him during every other topic. Just sounds like love right? But it’s important to have a complete identity outside of your partner. This behavior is equally annoying with lgbt couples as it is with hetero couples. And for legitimate reason. Don’t let your partner guilt you into feeling like you have to tell everyone about their sexual orientation or else it must mean you’re ashamed of them. Cuz let me promise you that is a load of bs whether they realize that themselves or not. It is literally no one else business. That’s the honest truth.
@TransparentCLove6 ай бұрын
I don’t believe someone who is transgender is the same as referring to someone’s sexuality. Drew is MtF so pronouns are different and goes by a different name. So speaking with my mom is important to be for both my partner and myself to fully live our lives how we want to.
@CS-yq8hp6 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove if that’s how you feel then that’s how you feel. Not sure why your partner can’t just move on with their lives as a female if that was supposed to be the intention. Why they must remind everyone of their dead-self doesn’t make much sense by the very concept of it.
@donpeace8946 ай бұрын
Trans is gross
@pumpkensdiapers14176 ай бұрын
Cute video. ❤👏🏻💐 I saw the titanic exhibit at the Luxor in Vegas years ago. I would imagine it’s similar to this one? Anyways, glad you both enjoyed yourselves, and thank you for sharing! 🙏🏻❤️
@TransparentCLove6 ай бұрын
Omggg we’ve never seen the one at Luxor but I def would suppose so. Thank you so much for watching def a core memory of an experience 🫶🥰
@pumpkensdiapers14175 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove 🥰🙏🏻❤️
@daniv69186 ай бұрын
Girly you talk about disappointing her but this is out of your control, you didn’t choose you who feel in love with it just happened . ❤ Your an amazing mom to your kids your not a drug addict leaving your kids in the streets or always going to jail that would disappoint your mom , what ever you guys have is because YOU both worked for . We are not perfect no one is❤
@TransparentCLove6 ай бұрын
🫂🫶🫶🫶
@sarlandobriseno38946 ай бұрын
I know this is hurting you and I don’t blame you. This is a very confusing time for you, and your mom. Do not worry about what the future holds, especially if you have God in your life. Listen to your song, you know the one, listen to the lyrics and find peace (I heard God tell me that.) Come to God, lay your life down to Him and He will help you. Learn to lean on God.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
🙏
@daniv69186 ай бұрын
❤
@katinthehat_816 ай бұрын
If ppl dont agree with how you live, hand them the scissors and know it wasn't you. Cut the iffy ones off. Its sad its your mom, but over the years, you will come to accept it and realize that its not you, its them. Thats the day you get to feel relief. It takes many years.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Just taking everything one day at a time 🙏
@barbarianhub6 ай бұрын
Yeah. Don't.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Just taking everything one day at a time
@franny52956 ай бұрын
I would say that if you have to ask that, don't. Don't say anything. Now, I've never dealt with this but it took me too long to learn that honesty is over rated. If telling her the truth is just gonna upset both of your lives, don't. Keep your mouth shut.
@TransparentCLove5 ай бұрын
Just taking everything one day at a time
@CS-yq8hp6 ай бұрын
Don’t. It’s none of her business. You know it’s gonna cause a reaction. And for what? Your relationship with your partner is nobody else’s business. And yes that includes your immediate relatives.
@TransparentCLove6 ай бұрын
🥹🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶 I just feel like I can’t be my complete self around her. But I def get this a lot and I’m trying to not let it bother me
@CS-yq8hp6 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove no one needs to know about your sex life or your relationship with your partner in order to accept you. That part of you should be between you and your partner only. As it rightfully should remain. Maybe you feel confused which is no surprise with the type of information that gets thrown around in the media. Honestly tho it’s healthy to have these kinds of boundaries. If your relationship with your mom is lacking then it’s better to try a different angle. But it’s healthy to have some things remain private.
@CS-yq8hp6 ай бұрын
@@TransparentCLove I wish you the very best. God bless
@AtheosATFive6 ай бұрын
You're just playing wrong. Everything you do will affect your immediate relatives whether you wanted to or not. And it will affect your co-workers and close friends as well. You don't get to pretend like you're alone in this world and all consequences you face fall solely on you because they affect others around you as well. That selfish mindset is what's killing the world.
@CS-yq8hp6 ай бұрын
@@AtheosATFive my coworkers sex life has never once affected me. Idk what kind of work environment you’re in but it’s sounds super weird
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Jesus loves you.
Turn to Jesus and beg for forgiveness you have committed a abomination to Jesus Christ the man who died for you to live
@dani434E said Jesus loves us so we are good 😄🤍
Jesus loves you
Love the video and you two! But can I ask why you refer to your wife as drew prior to transitioning with her dead name? I’m not trying to be mean or start anything just genuinely curious. I’m a a gay sociologist who took a lot of gender and queer studies classes. ❤️❤️ HAPPY PRIDE
Heyyyyy mitchyrosa!!! Thank you so much for the love! We truly def don’t ever mind answering questions! Trust when I say with yt and tt I can totally tell when someone is genuinely asking and when someone is truly just being a jerk. So when Drew came out to me we discussed what name she would like to be called and she decided Drew works for me. Her legal name is def not Drew. I hope this helps but if not feel free to reach out ✨❤️
your poor children. i’ll pray for those kids and hope they find it in life. they need a father figure in their life not a mom and a half. your family should speak to God
Do you live with us lol if you do PAY RENT babe lol you know nothing about our children. If you met them they are actually the greatest humans on earth 💋 but thanks for the comment helps push out our videos 😂
I know PLENTY OF PEOPLE WHO GO TO “ CHURCH” and believe in GOD and are just about the worst people on this earth 😅 so pls don’t tell us what to do with our lives 😛
😂 LMAO Saying "I'll pray for you" is so insulting and cringe. Get a different hobby, sis.
@@Kur10usity The problem is, is that praying is not YOUR hobby.
@@TransparentCLove There are many people who believe in God and are horrible, but it’s not God inside of them that is the horrible part. Those people have choices to be good or evil. You’re right i know nothing about your children, but it must be horrible to be raised without a real mother and real father.
Celebrate Mother’s Day for both of you because y’all are both mother figures in your kids life
Hi Ellen! It’s Jackie and just wanted to say thank you for the comment. Drew and I have discussed this and thought about it however Mother’s Day for the both of us just wouldn’t feel as special. We kinda both selfishly want our own day so we prefer to celebrate on different days.
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@@TransparentCLove I totally understand that I think it would be good for her to have her own special day then
Let me share a tip with you guys how the vacuum was cheaper online. So if you buy it regular price then take it to customer service they will price match it for the online price we do that all the time for pricey things ! It’s so worth it !!!
Next time I’m DMing you lol I was so sad! I’m like cut the mic babe I’m bout to call a manager ahahaha
I love how wholesome this channel is. ♡
Zenith 🥹🫂 you’re shoo sweet! Thank you so much! We will def have more content coming up ✨❤️
I like that other mothers day idea
I kind of like it to☺️ whatever we decide on, we’ll def make a video to let everyone know🫶🏼
i have thought about this myself, too, as a trans woman who is a parent, and while after my transition started i have not had a co-parent who is interested in having these conversations, if we did, my idea/ideal for it would be to celebrate "my" day on the british mother's day (4th sunday of lent) and call it "other mother's day" OR maybe celebrate it on american father's day and call it "other mother's day" idk, maybe one day will find smth that works
Aww I’m sorry you’re not able to have these convos.. i totally get it tho. Being trans def comes with restrictions😔 and i love your idea!! British Mother’s Day?! That’s sooo cute, you could even do like a tea party theme🫖 ✨ march is packed with our kiddos bdays tho so I think that day wouldn’t work for me. Buuut I love that idea for you! You can always talk to me about these things☺️ glad to listen. Have a great day!!💖
Men aren't women
No one said they were 😂 so……. Why you here lol you have a thing for trans women?
My dad's birthday is one day after the Father's Day, and the night in between that days used to be celebrated in Slavic culture as Saint John's Night, right after the Kupala Night, and that gave me an idea. The night *before* the 23rd of June is Kupala Night - it's a celebration of the summer solstice, which one could say is a time of transformation (of spring into summer) and also the time of the year when sun is out for the longest which may represent a lot of positive things such as love, light, hope. So maybe you could use the 22nd of June as Addie's Day? It would be close to the 'actual' Father's Day and would have symbolic meaning at the same time. You could also just Google every day in June and check what is\used to be celebrated on that day and see if any of these resonate with you.
Omg the Kulpala Night, it sounds so beautiful and has an amazing meaning!! Thank you for educating us on this topic. I think we will be considering June 22 now☺️💖
This is such a great channel. ♡♡
Hiiii Zenith 🥰 truly from the bottom of both of our hearts thank you so much for this comment 🫂❤️
As a transwoman without kids, i don't exactly know how I'd handle that situation. I'm maternal in nature with my friends (their kids), family members, nieces, nephews, and even complete strangers...so anything related to fatherhood or paternal vibes would feel very uncomfortable and antithetical to my being. My biological father was emotionally/psychologically abusive with me and i experienced trauma during the time that i knew him. I haven't spoken to him in 18 years. The two stepdads i had in my upbringing were also monsters in their own ways. One was a liar, thief, and cheater...the other was emotionally/psychologically abusive with my mother and the family. So needless to say father's day isn't a holiday i really invest in or pay any attention to anymore. I think you two beautiful souls will find a different way of celebrating both parents 💜.
I am so sorry your father was emotionally and psychologically abusive to you😭 and it is very tragic when family members are harmful to you mentally and physically.. thank you for sharing your life with us!!🥹🫶🏼✨ and thank you for the love and support💖We love you!
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First off I wanna say I'm sorry about your dad leaving you. That's horrible and really wish parents abandoning their children never happened. Secondly I wanna say I think drew needs to celebrate father's day. I understand you transitioned but you are those children's father. The word father shouldn't be scary to you. You aren't their mother bc they already have one. I think it's pretty selfish you are taking their father away. That doesn't mean I don't think you shouldn't have transitioned but you should still be those kids father. Regardless of being a trans woman or not. You both seem like great people and I hope you both find what you want out of life and live a long and happy one.
Why can’t the children have two mothers?
Hey! It’s Jackie! Being a parent yes I could absolutely never understand how you could just abandon a child that will never make any sense to me. As for Drew and her being a dad. You are correct she will always be their dad. However as a family we have collectively all sat down numerous times and spoken on the topic of Father’s Day. To us it’s just not a holiday we would like to participate in. Drew is at the end of the day a parent and so we decided collectively as a family to celebrate her on another day. Just kinda how we want to live our lives and makes us happy :) Thank you for watching!!!
@@bigfishmakki I didn't say that. Read what I said again. I'm a gay dude who plans on having/adopting kids one day. So I don't have an issue with same sex parents. This isn't a case of same sex parents.
@@TransparentCLove that's fair. I did watch the whole video and thoroughly enjoyed it! Will try to catch a few more to get a better insight!
Awhhh truly we can’t thank you enough for watching and just hearing our story out. Trust me when I say I know it’s not your normal typical mom and dad family dynamic who celebrates things so traditional but we are def trying our best to raise our kids in a household that feels semi normal with lots of love. 🤍
You both look like BEAUTIFUL MERMAIDS!
🥹 wish I could hug you!
Omg I have major social anxiety to the point my voice shakes sometimes when I speak during phone calls. You did a perfect job!! I really struggle and usually avoid talking on the phone no matter what.
Omg I totally get what you mean by the shaky voice! The more you talk with your femme voice the stronger the muscles get! Keep it up!! I even get nervous talking on the phone. I’m scared I don’t sound femme but sometimes we just have to not care and keep trying🏳️⚧️🗣️
I know I'm late getting to this video and your channel, and I'm viewing from the beginning. First - you did a great job Drew. (Kudos also to your wife on the previous video)! I know it was very difficult for you, but you really did do a great job. Very authentic sentiments regarding your journey, and I'm sure your words will resonate with many!! I have a question that I don't have an answer for and feel I can ask it here for anyone's input. I have been blessed being raised in a family of acceptance. Acceptance of others different cultures/races, economic classes, political stances, genders.....etc. I have had plenty of exposure with the LGBTQ community both professionally and personally. I'm not eloquent with my words, and sometimes don't find the right ones - so be patient with me please. I still don't understand why many people have to be so 'flamboyant' (don't know if that is the right word - doesn't feel like it is), with their gender or sexual orientation. For ex: I don't understand the need to have rainbows everywhere, or have a separate parade. I don't understand why sexual identity, or gender identity have to be so 'advertised'. I am straight, and I don't feel I need to let everyone know I'm straight. I identify as female - and I don't feel I have to visually show that to people. I understand that is just me. On the receiving end .... why would I need to know these things about others who I pass on the street, or come across in the store? Just having Drew's rainbow fan shoved in front of the camera, rubs me the wrong way, just like gay pride t-shirts, flags, or car stickers. Why can't I get to know people for who they are, and not have it crammed in my face? My friend in H.S. (decades ago) was a star male athlete in our school, and active in my youth group at church. After we graduated he moved to N.Y. and his work as an artisan became very well known. Some friends/family told me a return visit to our hometown was scheduled in a few days, and that he had transitioned to female. I was shocked, but ok. I was pleased to see her in church (a week before my wedding). We hugged and I said I hoped she would come to our wedding. She did come, and was so thankful (I think to be included). Not once did she exaggerate her feminism. She blended in as any other female, and if you passed her in the street - you would not know she was part of the LGBTQ community. She doesn't need that. She has what she needs. She has the body of a female, treated as such, and that was her goal - both personally and professionally. I'm confused with why others in the community feel the need to be so 'expressive'....'flamboyant'.....'in my face'.....(I also need some help finding a better word/phrase please!) 🙄. Thanks in advance for any input from anyone. It's appreciated - more than you know.
Hi kimbo thank you for reaching out☺️ AND taking time out of your day to watch our videos. I’m sorry I made you feel any type of way about the rainbow fan.. I didn’t mean to come across like I’m cramming it in your face. I don’t walk around waving it everywhere. I can see where you’re coming from about pride parades and some people being EXTRA expressive. I can’t speak for ALL but that’s just the way some people are, they are very proud of being part of the LGBTQIA community. Just like anyone decked out in patriotic outfit(hat,shirt,shorts,socks, prob boxers to), they’re proud to be an American, someone wearing all sports team gear, they’re passionate about sports, someone wearing an excessive amount of black with metal spikes/pins and heavy make up, they love metal/goth/rock etc music. I think some choose to express 🏳️🌈more than others. So happy for your friend. I wonder how many years they have been transitioning from male to female. Some people are early on in their transition and don’t feel as pretty, feminine, for all the ftm out there, they don’t feel masc enough so wear a trans flag symbol or rainbow is just a little comfort for some people. Maybe after a certain amount of time some trans people will eventually be at the point where your friend is, blending in with the gender you feel closest to😊
@@TransparentCLove Thanks for your quick reply. It seems very different to me than simply expressing being an American, being Goth, being Irish or liking a specific sports team - especially if the rainbows provide comfort due to insecurities. In those cases it's almost a reminder of how extremely sad, insecure, or uncomfortable one is with themselves. Almost an advertisement because it's done to such extreme. I cringe when I even say that - but that is how it comes off to some. If it provides someone such confidence/comfort...that is far more important to me than the discomfort it provides me. I have gay friends & acquaintances who are simply embarrassed and cringe when they think about gay pride parades now. One minute we are emphatically told it's not about 'sex' (which I truly get)..... but then they themselves sexualize the parade....by wearing very revealing apparel and whipping each other in front of our children. 🤦♀I will never see that as acceptable, but damaging. I've digressed.... I want to thank you for trying to help me understand. Hopefully others may share some input as well. I saw your Bath & Body video after I left my comment/question. I want to say how lovely I think Jackie and you were for thinking of your daughter in such a loving and caring way during this time of her life. Jackie is such an amazing woman, thinking of your daughter during what can be a tricky time in her life. I could see what she was saying when she was relating the similarities with that time of your life as well. Her sentiments didn't seem to resonate as much for you though. When you said you are a 'sucker for the pride collection', I thought to myself 'Oh dear, I hope I didn't offend Drew with my question!!'. 😳 I sure wish I understood better. I do understand your point about a symbol providing a little comfort...I really do. This is different than that. I wish I could understand how people want to blend in and be accepted for who they are, but at the same time are actually drawing more attention to themselves in a massive way. I understand receiving comfort from the community as well. I truly do!! Everyone needs support in varying degrees, in different areas of our lives. I do get that. I don't understand having such pride that it has to be shown with t-shirts, scarves, jewelry, accessories, hats, coffee mugs....all being used at the same time. It's SO much! I would feel a similar way if someone who is Irish let's say, & wears green shamrocks everyday on their tennis shoes, socks, scarves, hats, & t-shirt while drinking out of a coffee mug with green shamrocks. Thanks again for being a safe place for me to ask my question. I appreciate it!
Awwww thank you for questions and understanding! At the end of the day topics like this should be talked about since there are so many walks of life here on earth. Thank you again for giving out videos a watch and we hope you have a great Memorial Day!!✨🫶🏼☀️🕶️
@@TransparentCLove Same to you!
Thanks for sharing your experience with planned parenthood.
Of course! So glad I can help 🫂
What did they prescribe for your HRT?
So since I am trans (mtf) they did prescribe me estrogen, along with needles and syringes😉
Ahhh….my daughter does estrogen patches
It’s so heart warming to hear your daughter have such a supportive mom like you… I don’t think my parents will ever call me their daughter😞 how does she like the patch?? I preferred injections
No need to stress your voice so much to sound feminine...be yourself
Awwe thank you🫶🏼 I try to not worry about my voice so much but the gender dysphoria starts to kick in. I’m trying not to care but it is hard😞
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Thank you for the love and support 🫶🏼🫂
It’s totally understandable what your feeling so many changes in your life and things you weren’t expecting to happen ended up happening . Also you felt abandoned by Drew because of the transition she is going through now you are getting to know a different side of Drew that you never knew and also all the backlash that you might get from other people. You are doing amazing by trying to understand this situation ❤ don’t be too hard on yourself 🫤 .. it’s going to take time for you both to understand each other and love each other in a new way 🥰
🥹🫂 this!!!! Thank you!
Love seeing you guys content , I need to catch up 😊
We appreciate the love 🫂🫶✨
Jackie you’ve stolen my heart , I hope to find a partner like you in my life ❤
Hiiiii Alex!!!! 😭😭😭😭 you are soooo sweet! Thank you so much for your sweet message 🫂 just be you and I’m sure someone crazy like me will come along 🤍
I am girl... I shave my face like you... Beacause i have beard.... Do you have beard??
Sorry you have to shave constantly:( I grow facial hair but I do not have a beard. I’m not able to grow that much hair.
@@TransparentCLove that's good... I have chin and neck beard hard hairs due to pcos😢😢😢
Girl! Tell me your shampoo/conditioner cause your hair looks INCREDIBLE! 😍😍
This is really helpful!!! tysm <33 goodluck on your journey!
Glad this was helpful to you☺️ thank youuuu💖💫
You are a biological male, you cant deny that. Btw, it's impossible to transition to a new gender.
Omg logic we had no idea 😅🤡 Lol thank you for stating the obvious lol now go away before we think you like and support trans people lol
Bro why you playing dress up?
Bro why you watching lol 🤡
Girl face shaving full video chhaiyyan
You deserve so much more. You deserve to be happy and you don’t have to settle for the lifestyle your spouse is choosing.
I understand what you’re saying, however I’m not settling. I’m also doing a lot of things that make me happy. I’ve made a significant amount of growth and still am. But truly appreciate the love and support. 🫶
Hey girl! I love watching your videos, you both seem like such lovely and hardworking people. Also this is weird but I love your voice 😂 keep it up, you’re doing amazing 💕
🥹🥹🥹 you are so cute! Thank you so much! Not weird at all! Recording is so hard and I hate listening to my voice so comments like this mean everything to me! Thank you so much for all the love 😭😭😭😭😭🫂 hugs from me to you xoxoxoxox
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Love you so much 🥹🫂🥰
You both are soo adorable making videos ☺️
You are so sweet thank you 🩷🫂
I just started the shot, my goal is Non binary. Im getting more breast growth when i wanted bigger legs. I been laughed at for doing this experiment. But this experiment is making me act more fem.
Thank you for sharing
I'm happy for you!
Omggg thank you so much!!🥹✨💖
Do you no why HRT estrogen causes fluid retention i also have to take painkillers from an accident that happened in the early 80s
Hiii I wish I could give you a perfect, scientific answer but the truth is, I’m still relatively new to this😅 I’m not sure what causes the fluid retention but I do know that HRT can cause weight gain, swollen feet, poofy face. But not sure what exactly causes it. That’s a great question😊 and I’m so sorry to hear about your accident! I’m sure it’s a pain to have to take painkillers😥
@@TransparentCLove The weight gain is usually contributed to Spiro and/or hormonal imbalance. Everyone reacts different but I personally struggled immensely with weight for years and just recently we found out that my estrogen went through the rood and I needed to reduce my injection dose. Since then I have had a bit more sucess losing the weight I have been fighting for years from starting HRT and quitting smoking. Just where I landed at least. YMMV
Hi ! In a prior video u said that u had kaiser and went on hrt but then stopped because kaiser ? What happened ? with u and ur insurance. Y did you stop taking hrt ? I heard Kaiser was a transphobic insurance , and they made it hard for someone who is trans to get on hrt girl . I'm taking hrt through medi cal .
We made a video on this. It’s our Christmas ginger bread video. Explains all details. But I’m back on it now so thankfully everything is good 🙏🥰
Whattahell . I have medi cal . And my primary doctor, prescribed me hrt the same day i told them I wanted to get on hormones and spyronolactone testosterone blockers . But they really did see me that I was really depressed. I told them everything that I felt . That I didn't eat , was depressed ND a whole a lotta more stuff. I was literally very skinny . Cus eating made me put on weight ND that caused me gender dysphoria. I'm on my 6th day of hrt . And I live in California. It's so easy here to get on hrt thank god . Now I think I'd rather get on injections in form of estrogen.
I’m so happy for you! Medical is truly amazing! Thank you for sharing 😌🫂
It's your life, do what makes you happy. Not everyone is going to understand or accept your choices but they're not paying your bills, so who cares! You just know that everything we do has consequences, good and bad, so just prepare yourself to face them head on. If your mom accepts it and supports you, great! If not, oh well! It is what it is.
I love everything about this comment 🥲🫶 thank youuuuu
@@TransparentCLove you're welcome, I wish you and your family the best!
Let me see if I can explain this differently. You know those girls that talk about their boyfriends none stop? They make their relationship with their boyfriend their whole personality. To the point that they can’t have a conversation with their friends without mentioning him during every other topic. Just sounds like love right? But it’s important to have a complete identity outside of your partner. This behavior is equally annoying with lgbt couples as it is with hetero couples. And for legitimate reason. Don’t let your partner guilt you into feeling like you have to tell everyone about their sexual orientation or else it must mean you’re ashamed of them. Cuz let me promise you that is a load of bs whether they realize that themselves or not. It is literally no one else business. That’s the honest truth.
I don’t believe someone who is transgender is the same as referring to someone’s sexuality. Drew is MtF so pronouns are different and goes by a different name. So speaking with my mom is important to be for both my partner and myself to fully live our lives how we want to.
@@TransparentCLove if that’s how you feel then that’s how you feel. Not sure why your partner can’t just move on with their lives as a female if that was supposed to be the intention. Why they must remind everyone of their dead-self doesn’t make much sense by the very concept of it.
Trans is gross
Cute video. ❤👏🏻💐 I saw the titanic exhibit at the Luxor in Vegas years ago. I would imagine it’s similar to this one? Anyways, glad you both enjoyed yourselves, and thank you for sharing! 🙏🏻❤️
Omggg we’ve never seen the one at Luxor but I def would suppose so. Thank you so much for watching def a core memory of an experience 🫶🥰
@@TransparentCLove 🥰🙏🏻❤️
Girly you talk about disappointing her but this is out of your control, you didn’t choose you who feel in love with it just happened . ❤ Your an amazing mom to your kids your not a drug addict leaving your kids in the streets or always going to jail that would disappoint your mom , what ever you guys have is because YOU both worked for . We are not perfect no one is❤
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I know this is hurting you and I don’t blame you. This is a very confusing time for you, and your mom. Do not worry about what the future holds, especially if you have God in your life. Listen to your song, you know the one, listen to the lyrics and find peace (I heard God tell me that.) Come to God, lay your life down to Him and He will help you. Learn to lean on God.
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If ppl dont agree with how you live, hand them the scissors and know it wasn't you. Cut the iffy ones off. Its sad its your mom, but over the years, you will come to accept it and realize that its not you, its them. Thats the day you get to feel relief. It takes many years.
Just taking everything one day at a time 🙏
Yeah. Don't.
Just taking everything one day at a time
I would say that if you have to ask that, don't. Don't say anything. Now, I've never dealt with this but it took me too long to learn that honesty is over rated. If telling her the truth is just gonna upset both of your lives, don't. Keep your mouth shut.
Just taking everything one day at a time
Don’t. It’s none of her business. You know it’s gonna cause a reaction. And for what? Your relationship with your partner is nobody else’s business. And yes that includes your immediate relatives.
🥹🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶 I just feel like I can’t be my complete self around her. But I def get this a lot and I’m trying to not let it bother me
@@TransparentCLove no one needs to know about your sex life or your relationship with your partner in order to accept you. That part of you should be between you and your partner only. As it rightfully should remain. Maybe you feel confused which is no surprise with the type of information that gets thrown around in the media. Honestly tho it’s healthy to have these kinds of boundaries. If your relationship with your mom is lacking then it’s better to try a different angle. But it’s healthy to have some things remain private.
@@TransparentCLove I wish you the very best. God bless
You're just playing wrong. Everything you do will affect your immediate relatives whether you wanted to or not. And it will affect your co-workers and close friends as well. You don't get to pretend like you're alone in this world and all consequences you face fall solely on you because they affect others around you as well. That selfish mindset is what's killing the world.
@@AtheosATFive my coworkers sex life has never once affected me. Idk what kind of work environment you’re in but it’s sounds super weird