Hi - I'm Chase Jarvis, photographer, entrepreneur, and creator. On this channel I share highlights from my long-running podcast, the Chase Jarvis LIVE show and the occasional personal video on creativity, career, and behind the scenes of my creative projects.
Making waves in any career is an ever-evolving creative act. That's why I was drawn to learn from fellow creators, entrepreneurs and thought leaders to unpack actionable, valuable insights we can all apply in career, hobby, and in life.
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I'll Make it simple for you. Everything you want to have, has its own language on how to get it. If you don't know the language you can't use the Law of Attraction. It's like this. If a Japanese person speaks to you, if you don't speak Japanese, you can't understand what they are saying because you can't understand the language. Same thing for wealth/you can't attract wealth if you don't know the language or skills of wealth. Take this man is saying with a grain of salt. I've been healing from a Brain Injury for years and have studied the mind. Most of what all these science writers write about is pure non-sense. If it wasn't they could actually show you proof, instead of trying to get you to believe in theoretical concepts. He along with all the other science writers believe they can make a buck off their books and speaking engagements. Speaking of words, you should look up the word skepticism, there is a reason we have that word in the English language.
Learning about communication is a step by step process
I agree that it is hard to change if the underlying drivers are not known and resolved. But what I have discovered is that awareness or intent is not enough to change the outcome. I think in the case of the example of someone that keeps marrying an alcoholic, I am sure the person doesn't set out assuming the next person will be yet another alcoholic. When I have seen profound change it meant: 1. Becoming aware of what I keep doing. 2. Understanding the payoff of doing this or "the set point" of whatever it is I am comfortable with. 3. Before different action can be taken , for me it is important to heal the feeling associated with the belief. I would love to read a book addressing how to change the "set" point each person has, which becomes the real challenge to creating different outcomes.James Clear's "Atomic Habits" came close, but was incomplete in my opinion. I think just affirming a new belief does not work if there are core wounds that remain unhealed. No human being can take consistent action that is not in keeping with how they view themselves. Changing beliefs by repetition does not work unless some deeper healing accompanies it, especially if the belief/story has been with you all your life. If it is a belief that has no massive resistance attached to it, then I can claim from my own personal experience that repetition of a new belief works a treat. With the longer held beliefs like feeling worthy etc... emotional healing and and a change of narrative is the bare minimum required. Superb segment. I really enjoyed it.
You are correct. As long as the underlying problems ( which resides in your SM and we all know the SM is stronger than the CM as the SM the subjective part of us that controls the without our conscious) are not resolved, affirmations will not any effect or impact and in fact it will worsen an already troubled mind. The best way to clear those underlying problems with therapy and meditation. Once it’s cleared, then you come back to using affirmations to create these new beliefs.
Once again, you are on the right path but you cannot change the set point because a person is who they are from years of subconscious programming, environment, etc. The best way to at least address these so called underlying issues and not let them interrupt your is through therapy and meditation. Meditation will help you build self so that the underlying issues. If a person can get over past traumas but not letting these traumas affect them from an emotional standpoint ( as you’ve stated learned the emotional triggers) then you can come back in with affirmation or subconscious faith building to change these beliefs. Think about it- we can’t change the setpoint or even change the past but we are the sum of of beliefs. And if you can can change those beliefs, you can definitely change yourself.
@@xpaperxcutx4588 Of course you can change the set point, I know because I have done it with less entrenched beliefs. You cannot change the past but you can definitely change the setpoint because that is reference the subconscious mind beliefs is true. The more entrenched beliefs are harder but not impossible. It's called Neuroplasticity and it works. The trick for me is to find a way to be able to convince the subconscious mind of a new story, because when you put past traumas in the mix then emotions like shame, unworthiness, guilt etc... make it alot harder to affect change. And no, just deciding your past traumas will not affect your present DOES NOT WORK! I have tried therapy and for me that was a waste of time, because it just involved working with the intellectual mind and that is not what is running the show (the subconscious mind is) and is not where healing needs to happen. For me, meditation continues to be fantastic for helping with my self awareness but in and of itself did not bring the change I was after. I am glad therapy and meditation work for you, but for deeper more entrenched beliefs and traumas I don't think its as simple as trying one thing or two and it works. Human beings are complicated, and healing and change is a very individualized process, what works for one might work for another. I am thankful of you sharing what works for you....
@@lulusworld2703thank you for your reply. It’s not everyday I have such intellectual conversations with strangers online and I appreciate your detailed response to my answers. With that said, I do agree with you that human minds are complex and what may work for others may not work for all. Also the methods I have listed were taught to me and I have to also agree that they have not 100% work for me. They were helpful but sometimes I find myself falling off the wagon with certain routines. Regarding therapy, I have other mental disorders that I will not disclose but I was told it was the best for me as. Therapy is intellectual but mainly I used it to build awareness of my behavior. Meditation helps because it quiets the mind and also helps build awareness. I believe we both agree that awareness is important here Im curious to find out what methods have worked out for you? Especially concerning set point behaviors that we want to eliminate? I am a learner by heart and always want to improve myself.
Sadly, I can relate to this too well. It makes me worried about going for some of my goals because they're "unrealistic" or I'm afraid I'll fail/won't succeed enough and all that stress and hard work will result in nothing or worse than nothing. But, logically I know there are people out there who are doing amazing things even though they are not the best at them and succeeding.
I'm glad to hear this take because I have no idea what I'm passionate about and a lot of the advice out there says, "Follow your passion." I think it's because I'm so burned out from life due to stress. So, trying small things I want to do might be more doable for me. Thanks.
The secret to happiness is relative to your own race, gender, circumstance, physical ability, spiritual, political ideological belief system, environment, conditioning, ranking in society by your wealth, desireability, intelligence, mental stability etc. The idea that a state of "happiness" can be achieved universally the same way is myth sold only to the people that have to work the hardest achieve "it".
Spot on!
what a complete load of shit!
A good talker can spin anything but if you watch what they do and it doesn't match or they have different rule's for themselves walk away don't try to fix or help.
Wow everyone needs to hear this
Bingo 🎯
Great video! It's so true that the pursuit of what we're told will make us happy often leads to misery. I love how the video highlights the importance of reevaluating our beliefs and goals to find true happiness. Thanks for sharing this insightful perspective!
Thanks for helping me Chase! You did a solid for me when you wrote an article about my work!
I loved all of this. I have a new respect for this man and Whole Foods
Great insights on the spiritual journey of entrepreneurs and the intersection of business, spirituality, and self-discovery in the video! Really enjoyed listening to John Mackey's experiences and perspectives. Thanks for sharing this enlightening conversation!
God bless her❤
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Thank you Dr 🌺🌺🌺🌺
Great insights shared in this episode! Learning from past mistakes and embracing vulnerability are key to personal growth and success in entrepreneurship. It's refreshing to hear about the importance of mistakes in shaping who we become. Really enjoyed the conversation between Chase and John Mackey.
I finally lost hope on 2/19/23 that things would change in the 15 year marriage. After 367 days on 2/21/24, I was awarded 100% sole legal and physical custody of both teenage children. The court finally exposed the narcissism and the kids are with me full-time. The children are now thriving in school and in their interpersonal relationships. Stay strong 💪
I must accept that I will not have a loving, fulfilling relationship with my adult son or wife. They are both high on the spectrum. Trying to maintain contact with my grandkids is beyond painful Jesus is helping me to keep my sanity I know he led me to your videos
How did you convince the court about narcissistic abuse ? Did you get divorce and child Custody on the basis of mental insanity? I have to file for divorce mainly to protect my financial interests and would like to know my options
So happy for you and your family!
@@ArchAngel435 it's been a long family court battle, but it came down to lies, manipulation and verbal abuse by the mother. she lied to the social workers and therapists, and it came back to bite her. all of the allegations against me were false and the court realized it. her "ptsd" claim and "I'm the victim" mentality ran its course with the court rather quickly. she's a very immature woman who was abusing the children, and the best interests of the kids was served.
It is not A.I. it is I.F. -Intentional Ferrenghi. Make no mistake ever, manipulation, control, evasion of liability and profit are the only motivators who prevail in a society like the one we have. Considering this has been coming, envisioned by many for at least 70 years and every worse case scenario has played out as soon as its been possible we better slam some fkng brakes on this and re write anything which allows code to manipulate people. Years ago I heard Judges already have to let what s called a i determine prison sentencing. Human Judges may not override the a i code. Until extremely sound law disallowing ceding the human condition to software written by Oz this should all stop. They will try to make us robots and humans both soul and body will die, unable to be such. Why even let them try? Seriously.
Thank you so much ,trying to make a decision right now should stay or go,thank you for helping me make the right decision!I appreciate it!!!
Absolutely! I always said that narcissistic abuse needs to be taught at school 👏👏👏❤
Loved the episode! Waiting for future episodes as well. Thanks for sharing.
Love to hear it. Thanks for letting me know. Will try to get more on the schedule.
Great insights shared in the video! Understanding the key influencers in your network and building trust are crucial for product success. Thanks for highlighting these important strategies!
Am into car wash, do I need to buy a van, do a setup and start contacting people I know.
How do I start a business if I only have technical knowledge, don't know how to identify problems and how to acquire customers
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Thank you for sharing this insightful video on healing from narcissistic relationships. Dr. Ramani's emphasis on radical acceptance and understanding the unchanging nature of narcissistic personalities is truly eye-opening and empowering. It's a powerful reminder to make decisions based on reality and not on false hopes or illusions. #insightful #empowering #realitycheck
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I really don’t mean to be rude, but a millionaire waking up to his position in society and deciding to be a decent human being is, in my book, nothing spectacular. It is what should be the case.
@ 17mins you butt in to give a low input statement about your wife. This is a disrespectful error.
I respect you, and I hope this perspective adds insight. Be well
Appreciate the feedback 👊🏼
great interview thanks!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I binge watch / listen to many podcasts, and randomly came upon this one. The fact that it has 9 comments and 45 likes is criminal. Resuming this gem outside on smoke break here in a minute.....
Glad you found it!
Great insights shared by Guy Kawasaki on finding passion! It's so true that sometimes interests start as simple itches that can develop into passions over time. Definitely resonates with me. #insightful #appreciative
Don't use pornography, not all of us are into it❤
Non-ciolent communication by Marshall Rosenberg ❤
i think we need to look at minimum income for people. ai is exciting but eventually many us will not have enough to do. i think that if we don't have a minimum income we will have social break down
Yes, maybe we will. But frankly, it was invented to make alredy rich people even richer, so as long as we are not there yet with a total global collapse of entire human societies the truth is big business behind such things couldn't care less. It's all about profit margins and if protective or preventive measures are only an expense and not a net profit companies couldn't care less while national governments with budgets smaller than of those companies have very little or nothing to say in this regard.
Oh my gosh. I feel that way. I know commercial photography isn't new but it's new to me and the people in my world. I can literally see a clear path to it. I try to explain it to my family but they just don't see it. I have a plan to get to the level I want to work at and there is nothing to stand in my way. There is no competition because no one photographs MY vision. Not saying I'm the next Paolo Roversi or anything but I will be the first me. I really enjoy your channel. There is no one like you Chase! Such a gem!
Hey Tommy, appreciate that man. It's hard to be misunderstood. I love your resilience and tenacity. Cheering you on from this side of the internet! Keep going! 🚀
I love it Great interview I even got tips for a Waiting speech👌
Anyone interested in manifesting, study Neville Goddard.
I think the problem with Neville G's work is that unless a human being has terrific self belief his work becomes sticky to work with. Most of us struggle to believe something is already ours before we see it. And if that is the case, then working on tremendous self belief is the only way to go to be able to live in the end! Still I think his ideas are lovely but not always practical as there seems to be something missing that will make it do-able by the majority.
@@lulusworld2703you’re on the right track. There are better methods than NG law of assumption and living in the end.
Pretty lady, all manifesting requires belief. Doesn’t matter who’s teachings you follow. By practicing Neville’s teaching and taking inventory of cause and effect, you’re able to increase this belief. Start with small manifestations. Don’t sell yourself short and not believe in yourself, for that’s an illusion within itself. ❤
@@Mj0636 well thank you! What a lovely thing to say. Belief is one of those things that if you get it you REALLY get it, but many do not which is why so many people watch this type of content. I think if all change happened on the intellectual and intention level I would be sorted. But when emotions and feelings come into it then this is where I struggle to heal and integrate. Tell me if you have personally put NG's teachings into practice and how has it transformed your life? I am curious to know...
@@lulusworld2703 There’s a lot to say here. You’re right it’s not easy, but I promise it is possible. As for my experience, fear pushed me to this point. A point of high discipline. Where I had no choice but to make these teachings true and real. I relate it to becoming consistent with exercising, when you haven’t exercised in a long time. Or waking up at an early specific time, when you don’t want to. At first it’s a big struggle, but over time it becomes natural if you stay with it. Now NG talks about coming to the place of “you already being the person you want to be”, morning, noon, and night. This means you have to go back to this place at least 3 times a day. You do this via a relaxed state with your eyes closed with the vision and feeling of “already here” in your minds eye. So you do this 3 times a day. Now your belief has to be significant that this strategy is working. What I did and still do to increase this belief, is play NG lectures from when I go to bed to when I wake up. Non stop playing. This seems extreme, and it is, but remember we have to over power our underlying beliefs that have been playing ALL our life. After some months, whether consciously or subconsciously, our mind gives priority and truth to NGs teachings. So now at this point , when you focus on “the person you “already are”, morning, noon, and night, manifestations happen. Now… I’m sure this can happen with any teachings, if you’re this extreme towards it, but I can’t speak for the rest. Ultimately if you have a full glass of belief water, might as well get it to where it’s 50% or more in your favor. So it can tilt in the direction you want. Not easy, but possible. Hope this helps, pretty lady💜
Great video! Transforming doubt into belief is crucial for any entrepreneur. It's inspiring to hear about staying ahead of the curve and thriving amidst uncertainty. Thanks for sharing this insightful conversation with John, it really resonated with me. Looking forward to more content like this!
Mindset is key! I like how he starts with that.
yes!
But, come one, you just made an argument for firing more teachers, paying them less, and treating the remaining teachers as adjuncts to the AI. . . .
It was a great podcast with Matt, it is such high-quality frameworks, and ideas that helped and will help me soon for my career growth. Thanks, Chase Jarvis for this gem.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Very insightful. Thank you sir.
Where is the podcast? Is it his KZread channel?
This is the full episode. If you want the audio version, you can find it here: chasejarvis.lnk.to/MattAbrahams
@@ChaseJarvis thank you!
Carisma is also related to attitude in my openion
Elizabeth can clean out my closets and organize my kitchen any time.
Insightful. I think the video contains more than Small talk like how to make a Toast, how to demonstrate emotional intelligence, and communication structures, to mention but a few. Thank you.
True true!
Copilot in the last 2 weeks of use has opened up so much useful information that a regular search engine couldn't. If were responsible, this tech will make us so much smarter in a shorter period of time.
Ive been fooling around with Suno v3 to generate satire, ive been making music for 20 years, mostly electronic/experimental. I started viewing other users and started seeing how people structure lyrics, so yes i think if used creatively its good practice for lyric writing. The creative side of generating an instrumental for me has been mashing genres, not for the purpose of publishing, but to examine new ideas i may want to incorporate in my own work. A.i. just like a smart phone are extensions of our bodies. Were the first wave of primitive cyborgs lol.