Women don't stay in unhappy marriages because they have options now. They aren't doomed to serve a life sentence anymore.
@sweetsarah22624 минут бұрын
Haha, guys like this that complain that women are divorced, unlike their mothers, are the same ones to say stuff like, "YOU'RE JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!" during arguments with their wives. 😂
@QueTran-xf3mf24 минут бұрын
Marriage is optional. Women don’t have to stay in shitty abusive marriages anymore. Men need to shut the fuck up and be better husbands if they want women to stay.
@journeywithjasmine_33 минут бұрын
Lmaoo
@deshunallen848635 минут бұрын
Those women had no choices. They had no rights to work, have income, own property, etc... So they HAD to stay. We don't have to so we don't.
@xkanyewestfanx200941 минут бұрын
Why do they keep asking this dumb question?? What they’re really asking is why don’t women stay and put up with men’s bs anymore like previous generations did? Because we don’t have to fool they’re really confused as to why women won’t allow them to just do whatever they want…just entitled and goofy as hell 😂😂
@1Skorpia50 минут бұрын
Religion. Organized religion brainwashed women into thinking their lives have no meaning if they arent married and dint want kids. That we arent being "subserviant" to men.
@1SkorpiaСағат бұрын
Did he really ask why arent we staying in BAD marriages? 😂
@etoillenoir6169Сағат бұрын
I feel really sorry for this woman 13:37 . She begged doctors for help and they didn’t care abd she suffered a lot through it. And I feel bad that her husband didn’t respect her mentally health and antagonized her.
@srwarner3346Сағат бұрын
Gen X and tried to do the "right " thing when my dying mother said " He'd make a great husband , I am not going to live to plan my daughters wedding " She died , I got pregnant and married shortly after ! Divorced him after 7 years. Had 2 kids with my " baby daddy" who didn't live up to the hype. Stayed home with them and moved to a place that was "kid friendly" Baby daddy went DV on me and ruined me financially , fighting over the kids he could not take for a day without help . He's in jail and talks to the kids regularly , but they do not talk to me . Gut punched , they hate me , they sided with the abusive Dad;s who talked shit about me to NO END ! Parental alieanation is a thing~ I spent all my time , energy , money to be the best MOm I thought I could be , and yah , it sucks like no other kind of pain. THey don't care if I live or die . ANd I still love them and wouldn't want anything else ! How FU is that ? And I had undiagnosed ASD and Trigyminal neuraglia ( the most painful thing in human existence )
@bisi1980Сағат бұрын
He needs to mind his damn business. Why is a random woman's decisions his business.
@Cantetinza17Сағат бұрын
Probably because divorcing and such was not an option for them. They had to suffer through it. We Do not.
@sammich-lp2qmСағат бұрын
Married women do everything alone. They can barely have friend and have a very hard time getting dude to even do anything with her. He’s either too lazy or just doesn’t want to deal with you.
@sylviaj270Сағат бұрын
Bring him my check. He sounds like her pimp.
@CFJames2 сағат бұрын
I would tell him to go do a qualitative study on it and report back.
@purplelaketafahdhali77532 сағат бұрын
He is wasting her time. He doesn't want to marry her, but gave her 3 children. Sad for her. I would eat all my shoes before I ever begged a man to marry me. Nothing can stop a man who wants to. You begging is lowering yourself and minimizing your self worth.
@alrakina_somarino2 сағат бұрын
Who else fought their mother tooth and nail in order to not repeat the generational abuse cycle? 🙋🏻♀️ my mother wanted me to marry my first boyfriend. (ABUSER) And my second. (PSYCHO ABUSER) by my third, she realized I'm not her, I will never be her. I screamed at my mother at these moments that she settled for the first moron who crossed her path and I would not make the same mistake. Morals and traditions be dammned. Hell to the nah!!!! WILD how the patriarchy is upheld by its victims.
@user-rn7sr9es1k2 сағат бұрын
So the message Today is to stay no matter what in marriage lmao 3 seconds later after he beats you… “ Choose Better”🎉 The abuse is unreal from these completion men slavery really did a number on them
@UseYourVoices2 сағат бұрын
PLEASE STOP WHISPERING IN YOUR VIDEOS. SPEAK LOUDLY AND CLEARLY. I HAVE TO TURN MY VOLUME UP SO MUCH JUST TO HEAR YOU.
@UseYourVoices2 сағат бұрын
These men are a big, fat joke. "Oooh, I have a tour bus!!!" So what, clown?! 🤡#Delusional
@downbad28742 сағат бұрын
Why would this bother me? It’s not my business too. Many y’all are in other peoples business in their lives and what you think their life should look like. Where are you about yourself you’re a life mind your business.
@user-rn7sr9es1k2 сағат бұрын
So the message Today is to stay no matter what in marriage lmao 3 seconds later after he beats you… “ Choose Better”🎉 The abuse is unreal from these completion men slavery really did a number on them
@len4520002 сағат бұрын
As an American woman I’d like to point out these are women from AFRICAN COUNTRIES. They are saying the same things about relationships/marriage as American women are saying. This issue is international.
@Keepreal832 сағат бұрын
Why women this that and the 3rd. It’s because men don’t have god their out here using there own philosophies to navigate life and failing miserably. So next time you ever seek to wonder about women think about if your trashy philosophies are really making you that happy.
@Rice101202 сағат бұрын
Why do they want women to be trapped in their marriages with them? It's creepy. They need to seek help.
@JahAmericanNY2 сағат бұрын
Be cause they would scream and beating into they daughters to have they own, don’t place yourself in a situation where you solely dependent on a man.
@debbyshark15963 сағат бұрын
I'm confused..he Didn't say I wish I loved her more..he said I wish I loved her less
@sheezbeez3 сағат бұрын
Period. All of the reasons provided were spot on 💯💯
@lemonlime22883 сағат бұрын
Because we have money and can leave
@PrettyBones-ho4rq3 сағат бұрын
He’s doesn’t realize that those women were stuck. They had no means to leave or nowhere to go. They were miserable and they were the ones that taught the younger generation of women not to go through what they went through, to have their own so that they can get their freedom if they need or want to, they did not have to stay with abusive men in unhealthy and unhappy marriages
@vickimerritt28322 сағат бұрын
They know, that is why there is such a push to withdrawl all the hard earn right of women, in sports, divorce and splitting assets or alimony for lost wages supporting a mans career, and so many more. they want "happy slaves".
@unanuevapecula3 сағат бұрын
Maybe he should ask the mothers how they feel about it.
@blackvelvet18453 сағат бұрын
No sir no it doesn’t bother us at all we are resting in our femininity enjoying our lives drama free..
@Dimples2163 сағат бұрын
I love how he went straight to her wanting a hoe phase....ummm no she probably wants her solitude and peace. But i will say if you made that commitment and made a family then there is a level of responsibility that comes with that. This is why i dont want to be married or have kids. Im just not gonna go there
@collettedaniels38843 сағат бұрын
It bothers me when ANYONE stays in a miserable, abusive relationship. Why stay? It is not a badge of honor to live a miserable life. Older generations literally didn’t have options. Times have changed. Tighten up or prepare to be a resident at the Mojo Dojo Casa House for “retired” people.
@mizkomunikation94783 сағат бұрын
Imagine a wht man asking black men why they don’t want to be owned by wht men again, given that most slaves didn’t complain(to wht men), or revolt, or try to escape as if that proves it wasn’t so bad. I mean, black men got “free” food and a place to sleep, just like many of these divorced wives, right? Why weren’t black men satisfied with their “traditional role” in society?
@user-br3ty9rt1m2 сағат бұрын
Ooh I love this question 👀 I’m sure they’d just come up with some more b.s. to justify their answer lol
@mine332way0693 сағат бұрын
Because we are not stupid or need to stay in abusive relationships because we are financially independent.
@MsRenaissance3 сағат бұрын
My sisters have kids and while they would d!e for them they admit that motherhood is difficult. One of them said she cannot accept happy mother's day wishes because its not a role she likes. Another one told me I got away with murd3r by not having kids myself.
@tracyjacksonjackson42213 сағат бұрын
Finish the question brother. You want to know why women don't stay in marriages with men who disrespect and use and abuse them? Once upon a time they did because their options were few and bad. Their best option was to tough it out in the bad marriage. Today's woman has options because she has an education, a certification, a job, her own money, car and credit. This gives her leverage. If you want a wife and you don't want to lose her then you're going to have to man up. Like her, love her, be in love with her, respect her and protect her. In short, give as good as you expect to get. It's all that simple.
@MsRenaissance3 сағат бұрын
I think the little Gyal in the bonnett should keep quiet. I don't think anyone came on the internet and said they hated their kids (well except for that father we heard on audio). Most people say they love their kids, would d!e for them but are admitting that being a parent is really hard. And I think it's a good thing that people are having these conversations because other people were always feeling that way and thought maybe they were alone or were bad people but to hear someone else admit is cathartic in a sense. Also 8f you say you dont enjoy parenthood but still take care of your child I don't think the child will be too devastated if they find this video later on. It will help them to appreciate that parenthood was tough but mom took care of me out of love.
@nix27473 сағат бұрын
"Why don't women stay married?" Because they don't have to. Simple as that.
@daebak_hana4 сағат бұрын
No because my mother stayed married to an abusive narcissistic man child until he dumped her for a younger woman. Thats not something I look to emulate.
@loriparks86574 сағат бұрын
Grandmother great-grandmothers mothers ect . ect. Went through TOTAL HELL !! Staying with abusive cheating habitual lying husbands they were trapped in living hell ! The females in this generation is not taking any more of their husbands or any Man . BS !! THEY have flipped the script on man's 🌎 staying single not having any babies increasing by the day and man can't handle it .
@theteleisewilliamsexperience4 сағат бұрын
My mom never told me 2 stay in a bad marriage.
@feliciajenkins50414 сағат бұрын
They're in uproar because they'll have to act right or be gone.
@Desirem564 сағат бұрын
Why won't you let me Make you miserable who do you think you are Energy lol😂. Sidenote alot of this man vs. Woman arguments if we ask if there Mother is married especially bm bc im not argue with a Man whos mother wasn't ever CHOSEN lol.
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Women don't stay in unhappy marriages because they have options now. They aren't doomed to serve a life sentence anymore.
Haha, guys like this that complain that women are divorced, unlike their mothers, are the same ones to say stuff like, "YOU'RE JUST LIKE YOUR MOTHER!" during arguments with their wives. 😂
Marriage is optional. Women don’t have to stay in shitty abusive marriages anymore. Men need to shut the fuck up and be better husbands if they want women to stay.
Lmaoo
Those women had no choices. They had no rights to work, have income, own property, etc... So they HAD to stay. We don't have to so we don't.
Why do they keep asking this dumb question?? What they’re really asking is why don’t women stay and put up with men’s bs anymore like previous generations did? Because we don’t have to fool they’re really confused as to why women won’t allow them to just do whatever they want…just entitled and goofy as hell 😂😂
Religion. Organized religion brainwashed women into thinking their lives have no meaning if they arent married and dint want kids. That we arent being "subserviant" to men.
Did he really ask why arent we staying in BAD marriages? 😂
I feel really sorry for this woman 13:37 . She begged doctors for help and they didn’t care abd she suffered a lot through it. And I feel bad that her husband didn’t respect her mentally health and antagonized her.
Gen X and tried to do the "right " thing when my dying mother said " He'd make a great husband , I am not going to live to plan my daughters wedding " She died , I got pregnant and married shortly after ! Divorced him after 7 years. Had 2 kids with my " baby daddy" who didn't live up to the hype. Stayed home with them and moved to a place that was "kid friendly" Baby daddy went DV on me and ruined me financially , fighting over the kids he could not take for a day without help . He's in jail and talks to the kids regularly , but they do not talk to me . Gut punched , they hate me , they sided with the abusive Dad;s who talked shit about me to NO END ! Parental alieanation is a thing~ I spent all my time , energy , money to be the best MOm I thought I could be , and yah , it sucks like no other kind of pain. THey don't care if I live or die . ANd I still love them and wouldn't want anything else ! How FU is that ? And I had undiagnosed ASD and Trigyminal neuraglia ( the most painful thing in human existence )
He needs to mind his damn business. Why is a random woman's decisions his business.
Probably because divorcing and such was not an option for them. They had to suffer through it. We Do not.
Married women do everything alone. They can barely have friend and have a very hard time getting dude to even do anything with her. He’s either too lazy or just doesn’t want to deal with you.
Bring him my check. He sounds like her pimp.
I would tell him to go do a qualitative study on it and report back.
He is wasting her time. He doesn't want to marry her, but gave her 3 children. Sad for her. I would eat all my shoes before I ever begged a man to marry me. Nothing can stop a man who wants to. You begging is lowering yourself and minimizing your self worth.
Who else fought their mother tooth and nail in order to not repeat the generational abuse cycle? 🙋🏻♀️ my mother wanted me to marry my first boyfriend. (ABUSER) And my second. (PSYCHO ABUSER) by my third, she realized I'm not her, I will never be her. I screamed at my mother at these moments that she settled for the first moron who crossed her path and I would not make the same mistake. Morals and traditions be dammned. Hell to the nah!!!! WILD how the patriarchy is upheld by its victims.
So the message Today is to stay no matter what in marriage lmao 3 seconds later after he beats you… “ Choose Better”🎉 The abuse is unreal from these completion men slavery really did a number on them
PLEASE STOP WHISPERING IN YOUR VIDEOS. SPEAK LOUDLY AND CLEARLY. I HAVE TO TURN MY VOLUME UP SO MUCH JUST TO HEAR YOU.
These men are a big, fat joke. "Oooh, I have a tour bus!!!" So what, clown?! 🤡#Delusional
Why would this bother me? It’s not my business too. Many y’all are in other peoples business in their lives and what you think their life should look like. Where are you about yourself you’re a life mind your business.
So the message Today is to stay no matter what in marriage lmao 3 seconds later after he beats you… “ Choose Better”🎉 The abuse is unreal from these completion men slavery really did a number on them
As an American woman I’d like to point out these are women from AFRICAN COUNTRIES. They are saying the same things about relationships/marriage as American women are saying. This issue is international.
Why women this that and the 3rd. It’s because men don’t have god their out here using there own philosophies to navigate life and failing miserably. So next time you ever seek to wonder about women think about if your trashy philosophies are really making you that happy.
Why do they want women to be trapped in their marriages with them? It's creepy. They need to seek help.
Be cause they would scream and beating into they daughters to have they own, don’t place yourself in a situation where you solely dependent on a man.
I'm confused..he Didn't say I wish I loved her more..he said I wish I loved her less
Period. All of the reasons provided were spot on 💯💯
Because we have money and can leave
He’s doesn’t realize that those women were stuck. They had no means to leave or nowhere to go. They were miserable and they were the ones that taught the younger generation of women not to go through what they went through, to have their own so that they can get their freedom if they need or want to, they did not have to stay with abusive men in unhealthy and unhappy marriages
They know, that is why there is such a push to withdrawl all the hard earn right of women, in sports, divorce and splitting assets or alimony for lost wages supporting a mans career, and so many more. they want "happy slaves".
Maybe he should ask the mothers how they feel about it.
No sir no it doesn’t bother us at all we are resting in our femininity enjoying our lives drama free..
I love how he went straight to her wanting a hoe phase....ummm no she probably wants her solitude and peace. But i will say if you made that commitment and made a family then there is a level of responsibility that comes with that. This is why i dont want to be married or have kids. Im just not gonna go there
It bothers me when ANYONE stays in a miserable, abusive relationship. Why stay? It is not a badge of honor to live a miserable life. Older generations literally didn’t have options. Times have changed. Tighten up or prepare to be a resident at the Mojo Dojo Casa House for “retired” people.
Imagine a wht man asking black men why they don’t want to be owned by wht men again, given that most slaves didn’t complain(to wht men), or revolt, or try to escape as if that proves it wasn’t so bad. I mean, black men got “free” food and a place to sleep, just like many of these divorced wives, right? Why weren’t black men satisfied with their “traditional role” in society?
Ooh I love this question 👀 I’m sure they’d just come up with some more b.s. to justify their answer lol
Because we are not stupid or need to stay in abusive relationships because we are financially independent.
My sisters have kids and while they would d!e for them they admit that motherhood is difficult. One of them said she cannot accept happy mother's day wishes because its not a role she likes. Another one told me I got away with murd3r by not having kids myself.
Finish the question brother. You want to know why women don't stay in marriages with men who disrespect and use and abuse them? Once upon a time they did because their options were few and bad. Their best option was to tough it out in the bad marriage. Today's woman has options because she has an education, a certification, a job, her own money, car and credit. This gives her leverage. If you want a wife and you don't want to lose her then you're going to have to man up. Like her, love her, be in love with her, respect her and protect her. In short, give as good as you expect to get. It's all that simple.
I think the little Gyal in the bonnett should keep quiet. I don't think anyone came on the internet and said they hated their kids (well except for that father we heard on audio). Most people say they love their kids, would d!e for them but are admitting that being a parent is really hard. And I think it's a good thing that people are having these conversations because other people were always feeling that way and thought maybe they were alone or were bad people but to hear someone else admit is cathartic in a sense. Also 8f you say you dont enjoy parenthood but still take care of your child I don't think the child will be too devastated if they find this video later on. It will help them to appreciate that parenthood was tough but mom took care of me out of love.
"Why don't women stay married?" Because they don't have to. Simple as that.
No because my mother stayed married to an abusive narcissistic man child until he dumped her for a younger woman. Thats not something I look to emulate.
Grandmother great-grandmothers mothers ect . ect. Went through TOTAL HELL !! Staying with abusive cheating habitual lying husbands they were trapped in living hell ! The females in this generation is not taking any more of their husbands or any Man . BS !! THEY have flipped the script on man's 🌎 staying single not having any babies increasing by the day and man can't handle it .
My mom never told me 2 stay in a bad marriage.
They're in uproar because they'll have to act right or be gone.
Why won't you let me Make you miserable who do you think you are Energy lol😂. Sidenote alot of this man vs. Woman arguments if we ask if there Mother is married especially bm bc im not argue with a Man whos mother wasn't ever CHOSEN lol.