Sounds like the man who you thought was your dad, knew. And your mother lied to you and put you in a terrible position. Hang in there! Welcome to the Arab world...
@ramjet40254 күн бұрын
You were born to a mother who decided to alienate you from your father and then alienate you from her second partner. She has kept a huge amount of information from you. Your mother probably knows enough for your to track him down very quickly but thinks she can prevent you from finding your dad. Your mother' is in denial and will remain toxic towards your father and your sister's father permanently. Its tragic and disturbing that your mother will not lift her little finger and give you the key info about your fathers.
@ramjet40254 күн бұрын
Hi Jane, its now 5 years since you posted these videos. As you have not posted how you found your dad, I'll assume you have not. Please check your email as I sent you a checklist on how to use your DNA matches and resources to make your search more effective. I'm struck by the fact that most probably your father is a phone call from a phone call away from you. Your dad is most probably suffering extreme distress every day not having a relationship with you. I've got a 27 year old daughter whose mother is schizophrenic and malicious determined to prevent her from ever having a daughter father relationship. I suffer that distress every day. Your dad most likely went to an orthodox coptic church and purchased food at the local Egyptian grocery store and odds are there is only one such store and it probably exists with the same owners. That store and the church most probably know your dad. Get determined, raised your goals, use your gut instinct as to who and where you should call. Sleep on it, let your subconscious brain do the work and then use your instincts as to who to call. It's really important to remember your dad is intimidated by your mother and is probably praying that the phone will ring and it will be you calling him. Make it happen.
@RainWalking4 күн бұрын
A lot of the time, they never had a chance to be a part of the life. Seeing the mother never tells the man, unless she wants money.
@gaynor17215 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry that you learnt your mother had lied to you about your paternity and that the man you thought was your bio father was horrid to you. No innocent child should have to put up with that, but perhaps you should be relieved that he's not your bio father after all and he probably knew it (step fathers can often be abusive to children that are not their own). Know that you are a beautiful woman and you've done nothing to deserve the pain you have gone through to find out the truth.
@PatriciaPKHeffernan7 күн бұрын
Congratulations to you for proceeding with your family search. (I listened when you described your mother's response.) You have every right to your own story! It's your life. And, you sound like you are processing your feelings well. Well done. I know the search is worth any feelings you may have. You will be more 'whole' and in a better place. I know from experience. ❤
@ramjet40259 күн бұрын
23andme are FRAUDS, its a cheap nasty test from an unethical corporation who have one of the smallest DNA data bases. 23andme Are FRAUD, they can scrap your test from a deceasd person because you purchased the test from the wrong place. Thse creeps have been sued many times. I've got several tests with them and NONE of them get any significant matches. 23andme Spam me all the time and I hate these SOBs. AncestryDNA are the largest data base but are also fraudulent , unethical and are increasingly charging for information that was previously free. You will hate both companies. Do NOT pay either Monthy subscriptions. Wait till you get free acces or cheap access to try it out. Get your information and do NOT RENEW. The "mother" of this woman is a realy nasty piece of works, she says her daugher has no right to look to her father who was never in her life... only because she was a nasty vindictive malicious bitch from hell.
@superr.298011 күн бұрын
Damn your mom a hoe she the town bike 💀💀💀 every dude your daddy 😂😂😂
@sel889214 күн бұрын
Currently going through this rn
@lindaolson800915 күн бұрын
First of all, you are a daughter of the one who created all things including you - God. Your Father in Heaven knows you and loves you and has a plan for your life. You are no accident, God knows what he is doing. My mother had mental health issues and I know it can be hard to deal with someone like that. But, your mother can’t help that her genes gave her mental health challenges, and she apparently really did the best she could under her circumstances. I have been to Egypt and nearly married an Egyptian man who spoke six languages and was wonderful. Egypt is a beautiful place with one of if not the most incredible civilizations in the world. I love all things Egyptian, and that includes you. Hugs to you and all the best to you in your wonderful journey of discovery. It’s exciting! ❤
@Brandon-eo6mx26 күн бұрын
This is wayy more common than people think
@ruthtirado2750Ай бұрын
Like are you being over dramatic? If you loved him with all your heart and he was great to you and you were daddy’s little girl, I could understand it.
@byronmcgee4118Ай бұрын
Without abortions, these incidents will occur at much higher frequencies. More paternity fraud, leading to more DNA tests, leading to more broken hearts.
@Freedomlives33Ай бұрын
There are so many forms of birth control and a little responsibility goes a long way according to the data 97 percent of abortions were preventable if they just took precautions. Irresponsible overly horny morons tbh.
@Freedomlives33Ай бұрын
730,000 babies deleted in 2022 due to idiots
@lareyyy4100Ай бұрын
It's been 4 years i hope you are okay
@Fikri_Hisyam_JafarАй бұрын
I think somehow there might be a line connecting to the prophet muhammad peace and blessings upon him..somewhere from someone….u might want to check your paternal genes and your haplogroups…and u can also check if your DNA is related or not to sheikh Abdul Qadir Al-jailani and many more sheikh that is conmected to the prophet lineage…because my grandmother from my mom’s side also have a family member that is lost at UK that is in the name of muhammad ali…it was during the building of chinese wall and when a war happen with japanese if im not mistaken, the british took him (muhammad ali) with them and now his lineage is somewhere at UK….during the war, the descendens of prophet muhammad hide their identity for some reasons…i had seen your genes that were from saudi arabia…maybe the lineage of prophet is from there….im from malaysia, and i hope u strengthen your heart for any possibilities❤❤❤
@codemang3635Ай бұрын
Sucks getting hurt by your own mother like this.
@jbo1588Ай бұрын
Your ma is a slag.
@zackgro8440Ай бұрын
seems like your mom got ran through at the time brutal
@SusanShaffer-iv8ehАй бұрын
I'm sorry you are hurting. Eventually this won't hurt so much. You are just lovely with your creamy skin and black hair and eyes. I am fair like your mother and I married a Pakistani and my daughter is very much like you. You have a very interesting culture. Investigate it.
@greeklow71Ай бұрын
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@Itallnew2 ай бұрын
This type of discovery is so so incredibly painful, and no one understands unless they go through it. It’s not right to keep this information from your child. It causes immense pain and confusion.
@susannakriz7462 ай бұрын
Racism within the family is racism as well. Even if you don't experience racism from strangers on an everyday basis: Has it ever occured to you that your sensitivity for the situation of marginalised minorities might stem from your own experience? There are many white-passing people of mixed heritage who do not consider themselves white. The only difference to your situation is that they haven't been lied to and that their family is safe for them.
@susannakriz7462 ай бұрын
My mother was German (not Jewish) and my father may or may not be a Sephardic Jewish Israeli whose father erased the fact that his family was from the Ottoman empire. My alleged father's paternal grandfather served in the Ottoman army, then settled and got naturalized in Bulgaria. He looks Middle Eastern (so do I somewhat; I inherited a lot of my blonde mother's colour), but he and his sister insist that this is not because their father's parents were from the Middle East but because of their ancestry dating back to ancient Israel in a straight, uninterrupted line. A story which is beloved by nazis and Jews alike, but only he and his family got to enjoy the benefits of it, wheras I, whose ancestral line is spoiled both from the German and the Jewish point of view, was everyone's "non-Aryan" and fair game (I was born in Munich 25 years after the end of WW2, and the old nazis were everywhere when I was growing up). My alleged father has been exactly as [*edited*] to me as yours was to you, but unfortunately, my DNA test does not exclude the possibility that he is my sperm donor. Congratulations to you for finding out the truth about your heritage! I wish you all the best with finding and bonding with your Egyptian family. Frankly, I wish my DNA test had yielded such a surprise for me as well. As it is, I can't even find out from my DNA test results where my paternal family is originally from.
@VulgarTruth2 ай бұрын
Crying and filming yourself.. wtf
@mariansheilamansilla64312 ай бұрын
I had a shock in 2016 at the age of 67 when i did an Ancestry test and found out my dad was not my dad. It was such a shock i vomited all over the floor. The following year i was diagnosed with breast cancer. I am convinced it was brought on by the shock. Unfortunately my mother is not around so i cant ask her any questions. I am still trying to find out who my father was, probably dead by now.
@Sojogososlow2 ай бұрын
Habibti
@Twirleefeather2 ай бұрын
I know this was years ago! But I’m in a situation due to 23&me. My sister as I’ve known her to be my FULL sister, had came up as my HALF sister. What percentage of DNA did you share between you and your half sister ??
@Sojogososlow2 ай бұрын
Ayyyyyy welcome my Egyptian sister hahaha
@dinasun32 ай бұрын
Im a little confused about her. Is she disappointed that she isn’t half Jewish or Eastern European but half Christian Egyptian instead ? She didn’t have much of a bond with this other man she thought was her father. At the same time her mother should not have kept it a secret from her. It wasn’t fair to her.
@saraschneider67813 ай бұрын
1:22 and 2:01- Where's the video you speak of?
@youfu-qm3hx3 ай бұрын
🙄🙄🙄🙄😴😴😴😴🥱🥱🥱🥱
@iprospectiprospect14313 ай бұрын
You look like u could be half native American straight hair brown eyes brown skin. Because I have some kids that are half white half native American. They are darker skin than their mom.
@srenjensen38173 ай бұрын
kzread.info/dash/bejne/dapq1tezeLjbpc4.html The Bangles - Walk Like an Egyptian
@Jermaralovesbeauty3 ай бұрын
Yes you’re Egyptian baby! Look in the mirror 😍😍😍
@user-xr1li9su1j3 ай бұрын
Chicken shit!
@floydestelle62423 ай бұрын
Where is the mother to ask her questions
@floydestelle62423 ай бұрын
Sounds like a lot of women opening their legs to about anyone with a penis
@CorrectDefenseSC3 ай бұрын
This is the cliffhanger of the century
@nardeenmourad42723 ай бұрын
i’m Coptic, and i’m telling you you are a 100% welcome in the community, never feel reluctant to say that you are indeed half Coptic 🫶🏽
@ulrichlachman12163 ай бұрын
Egypt was not an Arabic of moslim country in the pas. Real Egyptians a black Negroes, just like all in Africa.
@ulrichlachman12163 ай бұрын
Hope you find your father. Follow the history, time back where your mother lived in your childhood. The years and places.
@ulrichlachman12163 ай бұрын
People that call themself Egyptians, with moslims roots, look like Arabic now are not the real Egyptians. The real Egyptians of the old time of the first Pharaohs were black negro people. Herodotus the the Greece, father of history said that the Egyptians he met in that time were negroes, just as all over Africa these days.
@muhamadabdillah48394 ай бұрын
Assalamualaikum warohmatulloh wabarokatullloh 'alaaikum You still had lots for you to be grateful You alright Focus yourself to every good words then focus yourself to be able to make good choices See the future,,,get yourself ready for the future Make yourself wise Get yourself knowing the creator of universe,it definitely make you knowing yourself don't waste your time thinking about your mother reaction Say good words to her if you can And Do something good with her if you can What's The most important thing for you ,, knowing your father or knowing The one and only GOD that made you alive
@magnuscorbin50404 ай бұрын
Wow your mother is a shameless hoe.
@tommiii45424 ай бұрын
8:40 you could definitely pass as Middle Eastern. Many Syrians, Turks, Lebanese, Persians, and Egyptian people have the same racial characteristics as you.
@JuliaFrancisEmilyLouise4 ай бұрын
You are a sweetie 💗🌸
@syro-sk2xv4 ай бұрын
Mine is worse, i have 2 genes two different fathers, and the first one is the name that they put me and the second, and they never change it when i was young, they should change my name. yours i think its not that a really big problem you can still bare with that, but me? am not sure. respect!
@wandalevy37144 ай бұрын
Finding out your truth doesn't really change who you are. The past is the past. Please don't waste too much time on what could have/should have been ________! Best of luck in embracing all the new things about yourself. Don't put all your future hope I your father's basket - he may disappoint. I know I am late to the story.
@debrap.72594 ай бұрын
Sounds like your mom is still grappling with her choices and just never expected her children to learn about it without her "selective" tales. Don't get upset at some point you will get the truth from her.
@bububoudi4 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry, from what you just spoke about you have a horrible mother, but, it’s very obvious that you are nothing like her, hope the best for you…
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Sounds like the man who you thought was your dad, knew. And your mother lied to you and put you in a terrible position. Hang in there! Welcome to the Arab world...
You were born to a mother who decided to alienate you from your father and then alienate you from her second partner. She has kept a huge amount of information from you. Your mother probably knows enough for your to track him down very quickly but thinks she can prevent you from finding your dad. Your mother' is in denial and will remain toxic towards your father and your sister's father permanently. Its tragic and disturbing that your mother will not lift her little finger and give you the key info about your fathers.
Hi Jane, its now 5 years since you posted these videos. As you have not posted how you found your dad, I'll assume you have not. Please check your email as I sent you a checklist on how to use your DNA matches and resources to make your search more effective. I'm struck by the fact that most probably your father is a phone call from a phone call away from you. Your dad is most probably suffering extreme distress every day not having a relationship with you. I've got a 27 year old daughter whose mother is schizophrenic and malicious determined to prevent her from ever having a daughter father relationship. I suffer that distress every day. Your dad most likely went to an orthodox coptic church and purchased food at the local Egyptian grocery store and odds are there is only one such store and it probably exists with the same owners. That store and the church most probably know your dad. Get determined, raised your goals, use your gut instinct as to who and where you should call. Sleep on it, let your subconscious brain do the work and then use your instincts as to who to call. It's really important to remember your dad is intimidated by your mother and is probably praying that the phone will ring and it will be you calling him. Make it happen.
A lot of the time, they never had a chance to be a part of the life. Seeing the mother never tells the man, unless she wants money.
I'm so sorry that you learnt your mother had lied to you about your paternity and that the man you thought was your bio father was horrid to you. No innocent child should have to put up with that, but perhaps you should be relieved that he's not your bio father after all and he probably knew it (step fathers can often be abusive to children that are not their own). Know that you are a beautiful woman and you've done nothing to deserve the pain you have gone through to find out the truth.
Congratulations to you for proceeding with your family search. (I listened when you described your mother's response.) You have every right to your own story! It's your life. And, you sound like you are processing your feelings well. Well done. I know the search is worth any feelings you may have. You will be more 'whole' and in a better place. I know from experience. ❤
23andme are FRAUDS, its a cheap nasty test from an unethical corporation who have one of the smallest DNA data bases. 23andme Are FRAUD, they can scrap your test from a deceasd person because you purchased the test from the wrong place. Thse creeps have been sued many times. I've got several tests with them and NONE of them get any significant matches. 23andme Spam me all the time and I hate these SOBs. AncestryDNA are the largest data base but are also fraudulent , unethical and are increasingly charging for information that was previously free. You will hate both companies. Do NOT pay either Monthy subscriptions. Wait till you get free acces or cheap access to try it out. Get your information and do NOT RENEW. The "mother" of this woman is a realy nasty piece of works, she says her daugher has no right to look to her father who was never in her life... only because she was a nasty vindictive malicious bitch from hell.
Damn your mom a hoe she the town bike 💀💀💀 every dude your daddy 😂😂😂
Currently going through this rn
First of all, you are a daughter of the one who created all things including you - God. Your Father in Heaven knows you and loves you and has a plan for your life. You are no accident, God knows what he is doing. My mother had mental health issues and I know it can be hard to deal with someone like that. But, your mother can’t help that her genes gave her mental health challenges, and she apparently really did the best she could under her circumstances. I have been to Egypt and nearly married an Egyptian man who spoke six languages and was wonderful. Egypt is a beautiful place with one of if not the most incredible civilizations in the world. I love all things Egyptian, and that includes you. Hugs to you and all the best to you in your wonderful journey of discovery. It’s exciting! ❤
This is wayy more common than people think
Like are you being over dramatic? If you loved him with all your heart and he was great to you and you were daddy’s little girl, I could understand it.
Without abortions, these incidents will occur at much higher frequencies. More paternity fraud, leading to more DNA tests, leading to more broken hearts.
There are so many forms of birth control and a little responsibility goes a long way according to the data 97 percent of abortions were preventable if they just took precautions. Irresponsible overly horny morons tbh.
730,000 babies deleted in 2022 due to idiots
It's been 4 years i hope you are okay
I think somehow there might be a line connecting to the prophet muhammad peace and blessings upon him..somewhere from someone….u might want to check your paternal genes and your haplogroups…and u can also check if your DNA is related or not to sheikh Abdul Qadir Al-jailani and many more sheikh that is conmected to the prophet lineage…because my grandmother from my mom’s side also have a family member that is lost at UK that is in the name of muhammad ali…it was during the building of chinese wall and when a war happen with japanese if im not mistaken, the british took him (muhammad ali) with them and now his lineage is somewhere at UK….during the war, the descendens of prophet muhammad hide their identity for some reasons…i had seen your genes that were from saudi arabia…maybe the lineage of prophet is from there….im from malaysia, and i hope u strengthen your heart for any possibilities❤❤❤
Sucks getting hurt by your own mother like this.
Your ma is a slag.
seems like your mom got ran through at the time brutal
I'm sorry you are hurting. Eventually this won't hurt so much. You are just lovely with your creamy skin and black hair and eyes. I am fair like your mother and I married a Pakistani and my daughter is very much like you. You have a very interesting culture. Investigate it.
5:00
This type of discovery is so so incredibly painful, and no one understands unless they go through it. It’s not right to keep this information from your child. It causes immense pain and confusion.
Racism within the family is racism as well. Even if you don't experience racism from strangers on an everyday basis: Has it ever occured to you that your sensitivity for the situation of marginalised minorities might stem from your own experience? There are many white-passing people of mixed heritage who do not consider themselves white. The only difference to your situation is that they haven't been lied to and that their family is safe for them.
My mother was German (not Jewish) and my father may or may not be a Sephardic Jewish Israeli whose father erased the fact that his family was from the Ottoman empire. My alleged father's paternal grandfather served in the Ottoman army, then settled and got naturalized in Bulgaria. He looks Middle Eastern (so do I somewhat; I inherited a lot of my blonde mother's colour), but he and his sister insist that this is not because their father's parents were from the Middle East but because of their ancestry dating back to ancient Israel in a straight, uninterrupted line. A story which is beloved by nazis and Jews alike, but only he and his family got to enjoy the benefits of it, wheras I, whose ancestral line is spoiled both from the German and the Jewish point of view, was everyone's "non-Aryan" and fair game (I was born in Munich 25 years after the end of WW2, and the old nazis were everywhere when I was growing up). My alleged father has been exactly as [*edited*] to me as yours was to you, but unfortunately, my DNA test does not exclude the possibility that he is my sperm donor. Congratulations to you for finding out the truth about your heritage! I wish you all the best with finding and bonding with your Egyptian family. Frankly, I wish my DNA test had yielded such a surprise for me as well. As it is, I can't even find out from my DNA test results where my paternal family is originally from.
Crying and filming yourself.. wtf
I had a shock in 2016 at the age of 67 when i did an Ancestry test and found out my dad was not my dad. It was such a shock i vomited all over the floor. The following year i was diagnosed with breast cancer. I am convinced it was brought on by the shock. Unfortunately my mother is not around so i cant ask her any questions. I am still trying to find out who my father was, probably dead by now.
Habibti
I know this was years ago! But I’m in a situation due to 23&me. My sister as I’ve known her to be my FULL sister, had came up as my HALF sister. What percentage of DNA did you share between you and your half sister ??
Ayyyyyy welcome my Egyptian sister hahaha
Im a little confused about her. Is she disappointed that she isn’t half Jewish or Eastern European but half Christian Egyptian instead ? She didn’t have much of a bond with this other man she thought was her father. At the same time her mother should not have kept it a secret from her. It wasn’t fair to her.
1:22 and 2:01- Where's the video you speak of?
🙄🙄🙄🙄😴😴😴😴🥱🥱🥱🥱
You look like u could be half native American straight hair brown eyes brown skin. Because I have some kids that are half white half native American. They are darker skin than their mom.
kzread.info/dash/bejne/dapq1tezeLjbpc4.html The Bangles - Walk Like an Egyptian
Yes you’re Egyptian baby! Look in the mirror 😍😍😍
Chicken shit!
Where is the mother to ask her questions
Sounds like a lot of women opening their legs to about anyone with a penis
This is the cliffhanger of the century
i’m Coptic, and i’m telling you you are a 100% welcome in the community, never feel reluctant to say that you are indeed half Coptic 🫶🏽
Egypt was not an Arabic of moslim country in the pas. Real Egyptians a black Negroes, just like all in Africa.
Hope you find your father. Follow the history, time back where your mother lived in your childhood. The years and places.
People that call themself Egyptians, with moslims roots, look like Arabic now are not the real Egyptians. The real Egyptians of the old time of the first Pharaohs were black negro people. Herodotus the the Greece, father of history said that the Egyptians he met in that time were negroes, just as all over Africa these days.
Assalamualaikum warohmatulloh wabarokatullloh 'alaaikum You still had lots for you to be grateful You alright Focus yourself to every good words then focus yourself to be able to make good choices See the future,,,get yourself ready for the future Make yourself wise Get yourself knowing the creator of universe,it definitely make you knowing yourself don't waste your time thinking about your mother reaction Say good words to her if you can And Do something good with her if you can What's The most important thing for you ,, knowing your father or knowing The one and only GOD that made you alive
Wow your mother is a shameless hoe.
8:40 you could definitely pass as Middle Eastern. Many Syrians, Turks, Lebanese, Persians, and Egyptian people have the same racial characteristics as you.
You are a sweetie 💗🌸
Mine is worse, i have 2 genes two different fathers, and the first one is the name that they put me and the second, and they never change it when i was young, they should change my name. yours i think its not that a really big problem you can still bare with that, but me? am not sure. respect!
Finding out your truth doesn't really change who you are. The past is the past. Please don't waste too much time on what could have/should have been ________! Best of luck in embracing all the new things about yourself. Don't put all your future hope I your father's basket - he may disappoint. I know I am late to the story.
Sounds like your mom is still grappling with her choices and just never expected her children to learn about it without her "selective" tales. Don't get upset at some point you will get the truth from her.
I’m so sorry, from what you just spoke about you have a horrible mother, but, it’s very obvious that you are nothing like her, hope the best for you…