John Foubert

John Foubert

This channel includes videos featuring Dr. John Foubert, Dean and Professor in the College of Education at Union University and former Highly Qualified Expert for Sexual Assault Prevention with the U.S. Army. Television and website videos are included. Common topics are sexual assault prevention and the harms of pornography.

Alcohol and Sexual Assault.

Alcohol and Sexual Assault.

Police Rape Training Video

Police Rape Training Video

Overview of One in Four

Overview of One in Four

What is a One in Four Chapter?

What is a One in Four Chapter?

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  • @jessiedeg2822
    @jessiedeg2822Ай бұрын

    Ive never came to stage 4, with every individual situation from 2008 up to 2024

  • @michaelgarrow3239
    @michaelgarrow3239Ай бұрын

    A woman raped me. My life partner. She used false arrest and intimidation. The police officer laughed at me when I was giving a report. This was 19 years ago and I’m still messed up- nothing works very well. My career goals ended that day. I lost my ability to stand up for myself. Everyone walks over me. I have lost everything. It has only gotten worse. My psychiatrist won’t take me seriously about it. FTW

  • @elinaj3689
    @elinaj3689Ай бұрын

    I don’t know I want to kill myself i can’t deal with it. My family are awful and my parents are mentally ill they have no clue what they are even doing

  • @user-zk8tx5nj8p
    @user-zk8tx5nj8pАй бұрын

    The statute of limitations should not exist with rape/sexual assault case. I was raped when I was 13. I spent the rest of my teens trying to understand what happened. The next 15+ years taking lots of drugs to forget. And the following years trying to deal with the reality that I was raped, and that I wasn't at fault. And now, at 47, when I have decided to deal with the assault legally, I'm being told that I 'didn't pursue a case years ago when I should have'. However, I will endure to get this in front of a judge, because it has eaten away at my life for long enough now. And the statute of limitations isn't making the journey any easier

  • @cecilialove7339
    @cecilialove73393 ай бұрын

    Thank you forever, for this help ❤

  • @margaretlewis75
    @margaretlewis753 ай бұрын

    This was very helpful for me leaning the stages at 48 I feel like I have been through all the stages and now since my daughter and revealed to me what happened to her as a child from the same person I'm reliving it again and now married I dont know what to say to my husband. 😢😢😢 as I relive this horrible trama.

  • @waffensachverstandcom5505
    @waffensachverstandcom55053 ай бұрын

    No walk in the park 😮

  • @Sandyislove555-jj4zt
    @Sandyislove555-jj4zt5 ай бұрын

    My friend said to me that he didn’t believe I was raped Bcz everytime I told the story that I told a different story The police didn’t believe me Bcz i told them I was raped before when I was alot younger The judge understood me though and the rapist is now serving 10 years in jail for what he’s done to me 🙏🏻💜☘️✨🌸💛🎶

  • @elizabethpettigrew4382
    @elizabethpettigrew43825 ай бұрын

    I still hardly change my clothes in front of a mirror. If I do I don’t look until I’m fully clothed. I feel I can’t be seen I still feel uncomfortable. I keep clothes on until I absolutely have to wash a body part. I look like ur everyday girl. ..idk what else to say 😞 I hope one day my pain can contribute bc I’m an aunt and the best one (aunt humor..).. bc I’ll be extra protective of their childhoods and adult life. ❤

  • @beatrixkiddo5
    @beatrixkiddo55 ай бұрын

    Why would something happen years apart. Am I a creep magnet 🧲😭

  • @elizabethpettigrew4382
    @elizabethpettigrew43825 ай бұрын

    It happens more often than ppl talk about. You are amazing and they’re sociopaths. It’s NOT your fault.. but I feel you.. I am in the same boat 😢

  • @beatrixkiddo5
    @beatrixkiddo55 ай бұрын

    @@elizabethpettigrew4382 I appreciate you sharing. Im so sad and welp broken. I talk I cry, I am getting angry then guilty. I really thought I was safer, more aware and cautious. I narrowly escaped this last time. The cops did nothing and he hurt a 14yo child. The guilt I feel for her is crushing me. Her parents probably hate me for not stopping him. He's in jail now but I should have been louder warning my neighbor's (it was out local gas station attendant). My heart aches for you too, it altered my life. Please keep your worth, don't let them steal that too. Praying for you 🙏🕊️💕

  • @elizabethpettigrew4382
    @elizabethpettigrew43825 ай бұрын

    @@beatrixkiddo5 you’re so brave for sharing, it’s not easy especially after not being believed. It’s dangerous bc not being believed can make you feel so hopeless that you don’t come back from it. I too sometimes wish I had the tools and circumstances “if only this/that” to receive justice and support let alone the love and care we all so much deserve. But remember this, we were ALWAYS brave! And insanely resilient! Quiet/loud/successful/not successful in life afterwards, we have always been incredible, and many people can’t see it because they can’t possibly imagine. We shouldn’t have to work this hard, but I’m proud of us. Remember that, at least for today if you can ❤️

  • @elizabethpettigrew4382
    @elizabethpettigrew43825 ай бұрын

    @@beatrixkiddo5 That wasn’t your fault! I know the guilt feeling too well having not been able to rescue or follow up w a fellow trafficking victim and she worked w me at a firm in Houston at the time and years before that as a server. There were younger girls later rescued but not all. I’ll never know. And as for the parents, they have to blame someone, and it’s usually not fair in these situations. Doesn’t change how it hurts though I know. Im glad he’s in jail, I hope his time there around other prisoners, makes up a bit for our lacking justice system. So proud of you 🫶🏼

  • @Confessions089
    @Confessions0895 ай бұрын

    I felt this same way.

  • @scrimshark7844
    @scrimshark78447 ай бұрын

    if you’re reading this know it was not your fault and i feel your pain. you are not alone <3

  • @Pedrammotahari
    @Pedrammotahari3 ай бұрын

    Thank you

  • @Punisher1830
    @Punisher18302 ай бұрын

    My triggers are unsupportive family members whom act like they know everything when they dont.

  • @Pond-erer
    @Pond-erer10 ай бұрын

    Thanks for putting this out there I have survived a more horrible complex situation in a Covid pandemic situation

  • @user-rj5nd9jn2y
    @user-rj5nd9jn2y10 ай бұрын

    Thankyou! For explaining why I couldn’t protect myself.

  • @latenitetubing
    @latenitetubing10 ай бұрын

    When I have a PTSD episode I often can’t sleep until sunrise..

  • @crystalcollins3741
    @crystalcollins3741 Жыл бұрын

    I got RAPE ex boyfriend choked me

  • @gailmcleod8295
    @gailmcleod8295 Жыл бұрын

    sleeping fully clothed, playing a radio in the bedroom 24/7, panic when people get physically too close (feels like intimidatiion)

  • @barbarastrayhorn4667
    @barbarastrayhorn4667 Жыл бұрын

    Afraid to sleep in my apt. Bedroom. Always slept on the couch with t.v. on. Therapy helped. Finally living with people I feel safe with has helped me to sleep in my own bed. Good luck.

  • @kwantimeleaper
    @kwantimeleaper Жыл бұрын

    Wow. I got attacked in a bathroom

  • @kwantimeleaper
    @kwantimeleaper Жыл бұрын

    I got attacked for asking for food and drink after sitting 10 hours on a gurney with handcuffs. Didn't let me eat, drink or pee for reporting assault and asking for rape kit

  • @kwantimeleaper
    @kwantimeleaper Жыл бұрын

    In hospital

  • @jazmineworthy2010
    @jazmineworthy20107 ай бұрын

  • @AbianahAlmeida
    @AbianahAlmeida Жыл бұрын

    Used to take hot showers with all my clothes on

  • @Jess-kn8vl
    @Jess-kn8vl Жыл бұрын

    Thats why there has to be no statute of limitations.

  • @billynahmer578
    @billynahmer578 Жыл бұрын

    HE'S A TOTAL TOTAL IDIOT ! ALL THESE ""EXPERTS" ON RAPE ARE TOTAL TOTAL IDIOTS, I'M GLAD I DIDNT GO TO THE COPS TO BE RAPED A SECOND TIME.

  • @zahirasakhi
    @zahirasakhi Жыл бұрын

    Thank you

  • @johnnyjohn-johnson7738
    @johnnyjohn-johnson7738 Жыл бұрын

    I found out about this man from the movie "The Rape of Richard Beck", he is so much like the character played by Richard Crenna whom he is based on both in the way and looks and the way he talks, for that movie there couldn't have been a better casting.

  • @KimikoCat
    @KimikoCat Жыл бұрын

    Yes, I don't think it was a coincidence that Beck's first name was Richard.

  • @pueblodonna4775
    @pueblodonna4775 Жыл бұрын

    It was a big deal.

  • @THEORDEROFSTARS
    @THEORDEROFSTARS Жыл бұрын

    Merci.

  • @kkboy66
    @kkboy66 Жыл бұрын

    This one was tough

  • @ndidiamakacynthia4797
    @ndidiamakacynthia47972 жыл бұрын

    Can I ask a question

  • @arazimargas9045
    @arazimargas9045 Жыл бұрын

    Hey I’m not part of the video but I am someone who went through it maybe I can answer?

  • @Dkryptd
    @Dkryptd4 ай бұрын

    @@arazimargas9045 My girlfriend got violated and Idk what to do to help her. She's very depressed and isolating from everyone around her. Can I do anything to help or should I give her space to heal from her trauma. No offense, but since you went through getting sexually assaulted yourself, what goes on in the mind of a survivor and what can others do to help. Thanks for your response in advance :)

  • @fegarcia7
    @fegarcia72 жыл бұрын

    Can you upload a video and publish free documentation on how to overcome a porn addiction with a biblical foundation for born again Christians?, that is using the BIble as a basis and combining it with your practical experience and knowlwdge, and specially oriented for a long data addiction, not a recent one.Thank you

  • @margienottle6755
    @margienottle67552 жыл бұрын

    This is heartbreaking! I have no words :(

  • @Glimfeather72
    @Glimfeather722 жыл бұрын

    Thank you John! I read your book two years ago and will be talking on this topic this week. I wondered about the latest research and sure enough you have it! Your evidence based research is so helpful.

  • @mattkowal90
    @mattkowal903 жыл бұрын

    As a victim of sexual assault at the age of 15 over 15 years ago, I really didn't take into consideration what happened. My case was described as "Roughhousing that Crossed the Line." Mattress behind my apartment at a dumpster, taking an evening walk and I see some friends playing, join in some harmless fun until without warning I'm held down. Next thing you know they are telling me not to get off the mattress, but I know they are kidding around so I faked being scared. I get pinned on my stomach, and one boy cups in between my legs (thumb in my butt, palm on my perineum, and his fingers poking my jewels) but my pants never came off thank God even though an attempt was made. The other boy pulls down his pants and tries to put his bare butt on my face, and his left cheek hit my forehead. Not a single soul helped me. At that time in my life I was manic where my only focus was school, and having to cope with being a child abuse victim from my alcoholic Dad, Clinical Depression and Asperger's Syndrome. Girls gave me sympathy, guys were calling me homosexual slurs despite the fact they knew I was straight, went to school the very next day. I was chastised by faculty, making me think I did it to myself and that I was at fault, a self-made victim. No arrests were made because no one bothered to come forward, and I attempted suicide twice shortly after by trying to choke myself with a belt, and lived. All of that happened to a then 15 year old, 5'8", 110 pound teenager on the night of Thursday November 3rd, 2005. How I've recovered I honestly don't know, there was no handful of tricks to numb the senses.

  • @ixi3emo
    @ixi3emo2 жыл бұрын

    I’m so sorry this happened to you, from a sexual assault victim to another, I can relate a lot, i also tried to kill myself and nobody has been arrested, I’m glad you’re still on earth with us, send you a hug.

  • @DashPinkie
    @DashPinkie2 жыл бұрын

    Survivor *

  • @1josephzingg
    @1josephzingg4 жыл бұрын

    Help bring peace to our world; help end trafficking, traffickinghub.com. In addition to many other places in Scripture, for rape prevention, I believe laws in Deuteronomy 22 supported by Romans 13 and Luke 16 would help. Thank you God for people like Dr. John Foubert who are bringing healing to the broken hearted and working on prevention of future victims.

  • @Bot-xl1ix
    @Bot-xl1ix4 жыл бұрын

    Please link your sources in the description of your videos. That way, people can actually believe in you way more & I'm writing a scientific text on the book you wrote "brain on sex". The more I can trust you, the more I'll use your book as an example.

  • @annax9375
    @annax93754 жыл бұрын

    Very interesting. Can you link some of these studies?

  • @megankwisdom
    @megankwisdom6 жыл бұрын

    Great talk - will you also be posting the evening talk that you referenced?

  • @JohnFoubert
    @JohnFoubert6 жыл бұрын

    I wish -- I don't have a copy of the evening talk. Thank you for your interest!

  • @Mariogirl16
    @Mariogirl167 жыл бұрын

    Thank you!

  • @JohnFoubert
    @JohnFoubert10 жыл бұрын

    In 2006, the US Dept of Justice published a study called The Sexual Victimization of College Women. To see this study, enter “The Sexual Victimization of College Women” into Google. On page 11, you see 3.1% of undergraduate women reported surviving rape or attempted rape during an academic year. Page 18 states that 10.1% reported experiencing rape prior to entering college, 10.9% reported attempted rape prior to college. Add 3%, 10% and 11% and you get 24% or the proportion one in four.

  • @1973Washu
    @1973Washu10 жыл бұрын

    How did you arrive at the conclusion that 1 in 4 is an accurate number for a combined number of women who have a reported or unreported rape or attempted rape?

  • @JohnFoubert
    @JohnFoubert11 жыл бұрын

    All profits from DVD sales go straight to the nonprofit organization, One in Four. Prices were set to be lower than market rates for other DVDs, and are now controlled by the publisher. As for the books, my royalty is 10%, the publisher gets 90%. My annual gifts to charity have always exceeded this amount by 10 times or more. I also tell people I meet in person that if they buy my book, I'll buy them a cup of coffee, and they will make out ahead on the deal. Have a great 2013.