After traveling the world, breaking barriers and securing several "firsts" as an executive in the grain trading industry, Heidi turned her passion for etiquette into a series of helpful workshops, columns, and crowd-pleasing speaking engagements.
Fascinated by the cultural history behind traditional etiquette rules, Heidi has devoted her career to empowering leaders with a modern-day version of those same wonderful rules. A highly certified expert on modern etiquette for the digital age, she is dedicated to sharing all she knows to help others live their best personal and professional lives.
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Of course not. No one wants to smell a visitor's socks. Why would I take my shoes off in my own house anyway? They end up beside the bedm
Ah I'm glad you showed me how to eat soup, I've been using a fork all this time 🤷♂️
great room
What's the difference when you scoop inward and outward? It dont make sense to me.
NO SPOON. Did you get that, New jersey & New York pseudo- connoisseurs?
Thank you a lot ❤.
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Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us
So helpful. Thank you.
It’s great pleasure, Ann! Thank you!!💕💕
With or without fork and spoon? With a spoon you can control better the quantity AND BETTER CONTROL THE TOMATO SAUCE, SO THAT THIS SAUCE DONT WASTE THE CLOTHS. So we will learn the grandchildren to use fork and spoon. So both hands are above the table.
Sorry this video is useless. Ive learned 2 hands above the table is the basic. When I see you here, what the hell are you doing with your hand under the 0:06 table. We cannot show this video to our grandchildren to learn them etiquette.
Я восхищаюсь Вами И с удавольствием выпью с вами чай!Люблю пить чай!
Thank you!!💕🫖
Thank you !!
It’s my pleasure! 💕💕
I usually pick up the whole piece of cake and put half of it in my mouth
Ha!!💕
Did she just swallow it😮
Did you just swallow it by accident 😂
i never have this much of time to think over eating by applying butter over bread chunks one at a time 🤣🤣. Try out vada pav , sane dish but you can eat it much faster ❤️
Thank you I’ll look into it!
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Yes thank you for this information I was eating the pod to .lol
In our home during the finctions it's must to take off shoes. But not mandatory to remove socks. We use deodorant spray to get rid of bad smell coming from those shoes or socks.
Do you think a knee length straight waist black background with many different colors embroidery flowers is appropriate to dress for a considered formal wedding?
Hello! Without seeing the dress, it’s hard to tell, but from your description, it sounds like it might be a little more informal of a garment,. But without seeing it, it’s hard to tell. However, you see it and if you have any doubt, go with doubt, and choose something else to wear. Always go with that gut feel, if you suspect something is not right, it probably is not right. Thank you so much for watching! I really appreciate the comment 💕💕💕💃
Love your wine red dress! So beautiful!
Thank you you’re very kind! It has a very nice wrap to coordinate with this dress. That makes quite a striking ensemble. But, you have to have a really special occasion to wear it. Thanks for watching and leaving a lovely compliment!💕💕💕💃
'You don't eat the pods'.. I think we could have guessed that.
Hello! Well, actually, you might be surprised, not everybody has had the luxury of an etiquette education. So, these videos are geared to help everyone have wonderful opportunities in life, and to have an etiquette foundation. Thanks 1 million for watching.💕💕
Heidi, you're the best. I'm so glad after the hours of intro (just kidding, your intro was great) your method is exactly how I do it. It drives me crazy when everyone sucks on the pods at restaurants and I instruct everyone how to do it right so I don't have to look at a bowl of discarded slobbery pea pods for the rest of the meal but no one will listen! I'm going to show your video as mandatory viewing before we order from now on!
Hello! I absolutely love your handle Holden Caulfield -that’s great! Yes, you’re right, I’m working on it, my intros are too long. 🥱So, let me get right to the point, Lol, I am thrilled you will share this video, and by the way, I think you’re awesome!!💕💕💕
Thank you for these videos. I am autistic and it helps me a lot to have instructions for all these things, big and small.
What a great conversation, I will be sharing it with people in my organization.
Thank you!! 💕💕
I'm left-handed, so I've always used the Continental method.
Thanks for sharing good tastes. The snack looks very appetizing.
One day whenever I own a gigantic home like this, I will host afternoon tea, wine tasting, holiday get together. As a host, I will make sure to ask guests if there are any allergies to avoid any medical issues. I will make sure to hold my utensils properly, European or American way. If I serve cheese, to cut it properly and include the heart in each slice. When pouring wine, know how to pop the cork with slight twist from the bottle until it hiss with a small pop. Pour it from the right side of the guest and remember to pour 6oz then twist the bottle so it does not drip.. Once everything is all and done, remember to send a hand written “Thank you” note to the guests for attending. I will make sure to sit up straight and when I walk down the stairs to walk slowly. Does all this sound like tips from all your videos? LOL …I’m your Biggest Fan. Thanks Ms. Heidi for all your teachings..
These are all really great points. It’s something I’m becoming more conscious of. I’m going to a friend’s apartment in a couple of weeks and I already am planning to take my shoes off at the entrance. I’ll probably be barefoot because I definitely don’t wear socks in the summer 😂
Well, thank you for watching, and you are already ahead of the game! Just thinking about this, sets you apart. Thank you very much for being so conscientious and thoughtful about your friend’s home. Ask them if they’d like to remove your shoes; you can easily leave your shoes at the door. One of closest friends would never ask us to leave our shoes at the door, however, as a very gentle hint, she has a basket of slippers at the door. One day, I actually glanced at the basket of slippers and took the hint lol. Sometimes, we need to look around, read the room, and act accordingly. We all just want to be respectful. It’s such a privilege to be in someone else’s home, their intimate space, and we just want to make sure we’re on our best behavior. Please let me know how it goes, I’m sure you’re going to be the perfect guest!💕💕💕👠👠
Ms. Heidi, if I have you as a boss, oh my goodness, I would work for free. 😊
Ahhhhh, Jupe, you warm my heart!!💕💕💕
My sister thinks I should wear hats as she likes them, but then makes fun of my choices. She’s lives on the east coast and I’m from the Midwest.
Hello! Well, wear the hats that you like! I’m from the Midwest, and I love wearing berets. I’ve worn beret since I was a little girl, and I still wear them! Don’t worry about what anyone else thinks, even your family members, you do you -wear hats, appropriately, And strut your stuff!!🧢👒🎩🎓 you sound awesome! Thank you so much for watching and leaving this comment💕💕
Can you plz teach me online plz plz mam
Hello! We do lots of private one on one coaching if that’s something you’re interested in you can reach out to me or DMV and my team will get back to you. Thank you so much for your interest! I’m flattered!💕💕
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Plz bring mix video of everything plz mam
I love handwritten notes.... I wish we go back to the way life used to be. Classic and classy. You are a great dresser by the way. Thank you!
You sweet thing!!💕💕💕💕
Ms. Heidi. Here's to you, Sante' !, Ahhhh, so good.
I thought red was a no no
Thanks for watching! And my opinion, red is fine, especially for an evening wedding, and something formal. Or at least semi formal! Long gone, Reed was considered maybe somewhat racing. I think we’ve moved past those days! You can wear anything but white as far as I’m concerned 💕💕💕💃
Thank Youuuu!
My pleasure!💕
Thank you for education us! I have been looking for this type of information as I didn't grow up in the States. I assume that this formula would also work when I introduce my own family to my house guest. Right?
Hello, thank you so much for watching! I’m so glad I could be helpful. Yes this formula works well and nearly any situation. Get in the habit of doing this, and you’ll never make a misstep when introducing people.💕💕
I cut my spaghetti with the side of my fork, then scoop it up. Is it blasphemy? Yes. But it is superior if you value efficiency over tradition and fun. Do people who use knives twirl before cutting? Or do they cut, then scoop? If the latter, why use the knife at all? That's my controversial method.
The bottom line is, you do you! The most important part of etiquette is being a kind, caring, and respectful person no matter how you eat your spaghetti💕
I have brought movie night treats in a basket, especially if the new neighbors have children. Great ideas in this basket! I love you the idea of a small plant!
Thank you so much for watching and I love your idea about movie night! You sound like a marvelous neighbor!💕💕
Is that blue and white not too much white?
Hello! Yes, something blue and white sounds great. It’s just a pure white is really in poor taste, it’s all about being respectful. Thanks for watching! Love your comment.💕💕
I bought a gold dress but decided to return it, due to it being an older bride and just a reception. I have no idea what she'll wear and many older brides opt out of pure white/ivory
Hello! Thank you so much for watching terrific comment! Today’s brides can really wear what they are comfortable in! And forguests,, a lot depends on the time of day, and the level of formality, or informality of the wedding festivities.💕💕
Btw i just discovered your channel and can't wait to binge your videos! We need more people like you on KZread.
Hello! God, love you! You absolutely made my day! Thank you so much and please be so kind as to leave me some comments. I’d love to hear what you think about some of the other videos! Thank you!💕💕💕
What do restaurants serve bread? Yeah, they don't anymore 😭 and its depressing.
I prefer to eat with my hands like Indians
Respect common sense
Well said!💕
I would be super hungry would require discipline to eat peace by peace
If it's a casual affair I will ask. But if you're invited to a semi-formal dinner at someone's house no one is taking their shoes off. And if you ask someone to take their shoes off. Most of the Americans are going to be insulted because they dressed up to look nice at your party.
Hello! Thank you so much for watching and I appreciate your comments! I agree, I would hate to take off my fancy shoes at a fancy dinner, but I have been asked to do that in certain situations. So, you just never really know, but just be respectful of the host’s wishes.💕💕💕👠
Great video I’d like to discuss discuss in depth
Hello! Thank you so much for watching and anytime. I’d love to discuss this further! It’s very near and dear to me because it’s all about being respectful.💕💕💕