Ironically, they wanted to vote because they were the caretakers of babies. They started valuing work over their babies, then promiscuity, which led to more unstable marriages, then more birth control, until abortion became a form of birth control for these “caretakers.” Are they the same women who wanted a say in voting as caretakers of babies?
@AyDotHam8 ай бұрын
Over the past few days, I've been captivated by Alice Paul, while I have been studying Women's Suffrage. I'm a teen who loves history. Her work and just simply her as a human being, takes my breath away.
@s.e.wigget8144 Жыл бұрын
As a left-hander, seeing Alice Paul's handwriting makes me think she was left-handed, too.
@mabeljean41 Жыл бұрын
Very nice!!
@eltonmacdonald3114 Жыл бұрын
😚 p̲r̲o̲m̲o̲s̲m̲
@michaelsmith9462 жыл бұрын
All this white generational wealth that has been built and still building, the question of reparations and study is another hurdle of bull and shows the mentality of the poeple in power and the government
@eprohoda2 жыл бұрын
good mroning~ mr. like,that's great picture. see ya!.
@allenholliday6762 жыл бұрын
ADOS American descendants of slavery are the only ones That should be receiving reparations of this kind
@allenholliday6762 жыл бұрын
ADOS American descendants of slavery are the only ones who should be eligible for the reparations this is not a feminist movement or an immigrant movement and there were not any white slaves let’s make that clear
@michaelgilmore30382 жыл бұрын
This Whole Title is SUSPECT
@jaybrown33412 жыл бұрын
Hell no, this is not about the suffering of Melanated women in America. This is about the suffering of melanated people in America. Stay focused and get this Caucasian woman out of the convo.
@vgoodson91632 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agreed! This movement cannot be compromised or infiltrated by any other groups!
@jaybrown33412 жыл бұрын
@@vgoodson9163 they’re trying
@couponnation2 жыл бұрын
Why do we always have to bring feminism into the mix.
@garyjohnson6912 жыл бұрын
Agreed, I'm tired everybody trying to include themselves in our mix, Reparations is for FBA only.
@michaelgilmore30382 жыл бұрын
Because someone invited a whole white woman to the COOKOUT
@trusaunders53312 жыл бұрын
Y'all can have that reparation stuff. The decedent's of the African Enslaved against their will want and deserve the Inheritance of 250 years from Grandparents to Grandparents. The stuff y'all talking is but pennies to the dollar that is truly owed the decedent's of the African Enslaved. Every penny I earned went to the massas and inherited to their children and grandchildren. That money belong to the Enslaved and their families. The decendents of the African Enslaved are actually working to earn money that already belong to them in most cases. If the company owners money came by way of Enslaved Africans, that money and companies are the decendents of those that were enslaved back then. Y'all talking about reparations concerning the decendents of the African Enslaved is so under evaluated. The reparations belonged to the ones that was Enslaved to start their lives. They didn't get it so to me, that is an issue no one can touch. However the INHERITANCE is a different story. The Enslaved worked endlessly 7days a week plus the massas and their wives and friends did what every they chose to do to them. The way I see it, is if the FORCED ENSLAVED had been paid for services rendered, their offsprings would have an INHERITANCE! I WANT MY INHERITANCE! Y'all can have the pennies but I'm looking for those that know and understand the value of their Ancestors and their work. Y'all keep the pennies I want the dollars from 250 years of Inheritance.🤨🤔
@knockerball30682 жыл бұрын
#CutTheCheck to "Skunk Hollow" New Jersey and Foundational Black Americans Only
@lwvddh2 жыл бұрын
I learned so much about this amazing and influential woman. Thank you!! I ordered the book!!
@jaredstevens53823 жыл бұрын
It's sad how the arguments of the anti suffragists all came true. They knew it was wrong and history has proved them right
@chicchi197713 жыл бұрын
This was fantastic. Thank you!!!
@kiykiysky45113 жыл бұрын
Wow this is a great video I learned a lot! My teacher said for us to learn about a famous person and write about her/him. She is a great person so I chose her.
@invenorofstaw75703 жыл бұрын
Amogus sus
@kiykiysky45113 жыл бұрын
what does ANYTHING have to do with among us.
@Etande3 жыл бұрын
I was watching another video and, the right to vote for women came up, the one person said that basically the reason women didn't get the right to vote sooner was because, majority of women didn't want it, due to military duties and other things like that, to be honest I just wanted to see what whoever is running this channel or video thinks about that
@lanagarris-sha1484 жыл бұрын
I miss the 8th grade girls doing the Alice Paul program
You THINK you’re an entitled person. What you are is a little bitch that doesn’t know what BOY scouts means!!!
@tiladmohd43567 жыл бұрын
i like your book.i just read it.you are doing very great thing by teaching people this..thank you
@dawnconti29649 жыл бұрын
We need many more venues to promote young women and the accomplishments of women all throughout history (Her-story) We need to teach more women`s history in grade school. so young women can look up to ,,,OUR,,, hero`s. We promote only men, as though women do not exist. No wonder women do not have the drive to suceed. We need to know there were many women who came before us. Those who sacrificed so much, even their lives, so that women today can have a better life.
@JulesBartow12 жыл бұрын
Snookie? Nah. Way too smart, good looking, and classy --despite Jersey roots.
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Ironically, they wanted to vote because they were the caretakers of babies. They started valuing work over their babies, then promiscuity, which led to more unstable marriages, then more birth control, until abortion became a form of birth control for these “caretakers.” Are they the same women who wanted a say in voting as caretakers of babies?
Over the past few days, I've been captivated by Alice Paul, while I have been studying Women's Suffrage. I'm a teen who loves history. Her work and just simply her as a human being, takes my breath away.
As a left-hander, seeing Alice Paul's handwriting makes me think she was left-handed, too.
Very nice!!
😚 p̲r̲o̲m̲o̲s̲m̲
All this white generational wealth that has been built and still building, the question of reparations and study is another hurdle of bull and shows the mentality of the poeple in power and the government
good mroning~ mr. like,that's great picture. see ya!.
ADOS American descendants of slavery are the only ones That should be receiving reparations of this kind
ADOS American descendants of slavery are the only ones who should be eligible for the reparations this is not a feminist movement or an immigrant movement and there were not any white slaves let’s make that clear
This Whole Title is SUSPECT
Hell no, this is not about the suffering of Melanated women in America. This is about the suffering of melanated people in America. Stay focused and get this Caucasian woman out of the convo.
Absolutely agreed! This movement cannot be compromised or infiltrated by any other groups!
@@vgoodson9163 they’re trying
Why do we always have to bring feminism into the mix.
Agreed, I'm tired everybody trying to include themselves in our mix, Reparations is for FBA only.
Because someone invited a whole white woman to the COOKOUT
Y'all can have that reparation stuff. The decedent's of the African Enslaved against their will want and deserve the Inheritance of 250 years from Grandparents to Grandparents. The stuff y'all talking is but pennies to the dollar that is truly owed the decedent's of the African Enslaved. Every penny I earned went to the massas and inherited to their children and grandchildren. That money belong to the Enslaved and their families. The decendents of the African Enslaved are actually working to earn money that already belong to them in most cases. If the company owners money came by way of Enslaved Africans, that money and companies are the decendents of those that were enslaved back then. Y'all talking about reparations concerning the decendents of the African Enslaved is so under evaluated. The reparations belonged to the ones that was Enslaved to start their lives. They didn't get it so to me, that is an issue no one can touch. However the INHERITANCE is a different story. The Enslaved worked endlessly 7days a week plus the massas and their wives and friends did what every they chose to do to them. The way I see it, is if the FORCED ENSLAVED had been paid for services rendered, their offsprings would have an INHERITANCE! I WANT MY INHERITANCE! Y'all can have the pennies but I'm looking for those that know and understand the value of their Ancestors and their work. Y'all keep the pennies I want the dollars from 250 years of Inheritance.🤨🤔
#CutTheCheck to "Skunk Hollow" New Jersey and Foundational Black Americans Only
I learned so much about this amazing and influential woman. Thank you!! I ordered the book!!
It's sad how the arguments of the anti suffragists all came true. They knew it was wrong and history has proved them right
This was fantastic. Thank you!!!
Wow this is a great video I learned a lot! My teacher said for us to learn about a famous person and write about her/him. She is a great person so I chose her.
Amogus sus
what does ANYTHING have to do with among us.
I was watching another video and, the right to vote for women came up, the one person said that basically the reason women didn't get the right to vote sooner was because, majority of women didn't want it, due to military duties and other things like that, to be honest I just wanted to see what whoever is running this channel or video thinks about that
I miss the 8th grade girls doing the Alice Paul program
Dude didn’t this suck I did the same thing
最后的寄语 1.学习本书后，不要立即与人理论一番，可以由小及大，逐步努力，最终应对那些困难的问题。 2.以下十一条，可以帮助你开始行动：自我评价、改掉不当的沟通习惯、沟通前判断对方是否是蠢人、相信自己能够进行正向沟通、沟通不利就要退出、在困难沟通前使用WAC卡、总结过去的行为想想未来如何改进、理解你所处的状况、用正向沟通减少生活中的冲突、享受正向沟通带来的好处。
第15章当你成为冲突的一方时 1.我们需要获得别人的反馈才能成长。宁愿知道自己做了什么招别人厌烦的事情，也总好过对此一无所知。 2.如果当众出丑，别在意，保持微笑。 3.在接受批评时，有以下原则：不要充满戒心、弄清批评来源于专家还是蠢人、分析此批评是否孤立、让攻击性强的人平静下来再沟通、让消极的人直接说重点、对弄不清W和A的人要求澄清。 4.接收到反馈后的反应，如下：如果你错了就道歉、试着满足对方的要求、讨论一下这个事、要求别人改变一下处理问题的方法、对方权力大就只能照做、保持积极的非语言行为、聆听、振作精神。
第13章如何处理网络冲突 1.诱发网络冲突的原因：缺乏肢体语言、巨大的社区人数、缺乏约束、每一个人都觉得有权发言、网上的“静默”让人紧张不安、立刻的反应、没有鼓励礼貌发言的机制、24小时在线、不同人有不同隐私观念。 2.在线交流，避免犯错的方式：谨慎发言、检查自己发言动机、措辞要有礼貌。 3.网络发言缺乏积极意义，发展迅速，没有秘密性，波及家人，容易失控，没有终止的信号。 4.处理网络冲突，最好的方式是随它去。一旦讨论过激，需要终止交流。终止网络交流后，可以：不做任何事、屏蔽或取消关注、线下解决冲突。 5.只有比较严重的是非问题，比如种族歧视，可以有礼有力的回应。 6.避免网络冲突的技巧：不要轻易做负面评价、不要对自己公司或组织做负面评价、将职业领域和私人领域的线上活动分开、不参与其他人的网络论战、不要用短信结束恋爱、尊重别人的隐私、反省自己是否“蠢”。 7.如果网络让你愤怒，需要清理自己的网络空间。
第12章电话沟通的技巧 1.电话沟通不好的地方是：无法使用肢体语言、其实有很多机会接触别人、无法确定打电话的时间是否合适、对方可以编造借口回避对话、环境噪音导致听不清楚、可能会挂电话。 2.电话沟通的技巧：询问对方说话是否方便、询问对方是否想换用座机、预约通话时间、留意语音和音量。 3.语音留言，不好的地方：可能会被其他人听到，转发容易，直到对方辩解，对方会一直很沮丧。 4.语音留言的技巧：内容简明直接、对方可能没听见。
第11章书面沟通的技巧 1.面对面沟通有四个优势：你知道对方正在跟你沟通、肢体语言能传达更多信息、即刻反馈、正在努力成为有礼有力的人。 2.采用书面沟通的原因：对方有很强攻击性、问题复杂而严重、不受环境干扰、相隔距离太远。 3.电子邮件，发送容易，会误发，转发群发也容易，留下永久证据，需要格外小心。 4.撰写沟通信件，作者建议：应用恰当WAC语言，谨慎选择用词，按说话的方式书写，选择可清晰阅读的字体，谨慎使用黑体和感叹号，使用致敬语和结束语，写一份草稿，校对并读出来，留出一段冷静期。
第10章正向沟通的11个关键 1.明智地判断冲突。判断这件事是否对你真的有影响，有责任说出自己的观点，是否是持续状况，对方是否能改变结果，环境是否安全。 2.从小事做起。学习本书后，不要急着与坏脾气的主管、岳母等人沟通。 3.练习。练习越多，越舒服、越自信。 4.缓解紧张情绪。假装自己不紧张，可以做几次深呼吸。 5.在脑海中勾勒自己的样子。想象自己是有礼有力的人，再进行WAC沟通。 6.使用肯定的话语。用肯定的话语鼓励自己。 7.选择正确的时间和地点。会议刚结束，并不适合WAC沟通。偶然遇到，可以提前询问对方是否有时间。 8.会面的时候不要喝酒。喝了酒后，虽然能放松，但是会说后悔的话。 9.保持简短、简单的语言。使用“退出语句”，比如：谢谢你，以后再聊。每次谈话，限定在一件事情。 10.后续跟进。恰当的时机，进行再次的沟通，如果对方有改变，记得感谢对方。 11.从经验中不断学习。首先，要自我感觉良好，其次，要对这次沟通评估，学到什么，如何改进。可以记录WAC日志，帮助自己提高。
第9章直面那些困扰你的沟通问题 1.采用WAC沟通，有时能快速解决问题，因为对方没有意识到，他的行为怎样影响你的。 2.不能得到自己想要的结果时，最好找出一个双方都能接受的解决方案。创造一个包容性的环境，一个诚实开放的讨论才能发生。 3.对方给防御性回应，比如顽固坚持自己的观点。你不要道歉，或者证明自己的观点，要努力让对方进入协商讨论中。有三种方式：要求澄清；延续性陈述，让对方明白你已经知道他的说的；承认对方的意见，这样就没有精神上的压力了。 4.对方给以咄咄逼人的回应，你需要：保持冷静、不要回击、保持有礼有力的态度、主动结束对话。面对陌生人，也可以采用有礼有力的沟通，无论结果如何，自我感觉会更好。如果环境不安全，或者碰见路怒症，尽量回避。 5.对方反应消极，比如默不作声，或者不在乎你。你可以强调对方的意见对你很重要，认可对方的情绪。 6.如果对方说“不”，而且是你的上司，沟通让你了解自己的真实处境，总好于在原处受打压、受误解、生闷气。 7.不要请人代替你去沟通，让对方有不佳的感受。直接沟通，长远来看，他们之间会相处得更好。 8.你无法控制他人，你能控制的只有你自己。
第7章避开那些“有害的语言” 1.避免使用自我贬损式的语言，以下是一些技巧。避开软弱无力的语言，比如：我想、我希望、可能、有一点、可以、也许。如果真的知道，就避开“我认为”、“我不知道”。不需要道歉的时候，不要说“对不起”。WAC中的C，虽然是疑问句，但是能确认对方的意愿。 2.使用语言，还需注意：避免责骂性语言、无意义的语言、“我”代替“你”、避免性别歧视的语言、提高语法和措辞能力、避免口齿不清、避免地域性的语言、避免深奥的词语、坚持使用礼貌用语。
第5章蠢人测试 1.人们做出某种行为的原因有很多，除了“蠢”以外，还有各种差异，包括：文化、性别、个人经历、阶级、年龄、语言、宗教等。 2.认定某人是蠢人之前，先问自己以下问题。对方是否意识到其非语言行为产生的影响？网络互动是否准确表达了含义？对方的文化背景是什么？那个人真的是有意伤害你吗？是个人原因还是坚守制度所致？那个人和你一样适应高科技产品吗？那个人是否获得了相同的或足够的信息？ 3.对待蠢人不应该：以牙还牙、行为粗鲁、斤斤计较。应该：忽视让你不愉快的人、采取正面的有效的沟通。
第4章不同的选择与不同的沟通者 1.消极行为指：抱怨、回避、心口不一。后果是：不会有改变、感觉自己很糟糕、关系在不知不觉中受到损害、给人留下消极印象。 2.有时，接受可能是最好的选择。比如：好朋友之间互相包容，对方经历重大事件暂时行为不当，当下的自己心情不好，对方是程序员。 3.有些人害怕伤害他人，沟通的时候，不断贬低自己，真正的态度却未表现出来，使事情朝不可控的局面发展。 4.当你通过怒吼、尖叫、谩骂、贬低、呵斥、侮辱的方式回击对方时，其行为未必会停止，你感觉自己很糟糕，你们的关系受到损害，其他人对你有负面印象。 5.有些时候，主动回击是正确的选择，尤其是受到威胁的时候。 6.有礼有力的沟通，意味着：你知道是什么困扰了你，你知道你想让对方做什么，你明白自己的立场以及对方的观点，讲话的时候使用了敬语。 7.有礼有力的沟通，结果是：困扰他人的行为可能会停止，自己感觉很好，双方的关系会更融洽，其他人对你有一个正面印象，和各类人在一起融洽地工作。
第2章告别曾经的自己 1.作者性格懦弱。在一个会议中，某企业高管批评作者应该像其他妇女一样，回家带孩子。作者以往会到处抱怨，唯独不和冒犯的人抱怨。作者的主管建议作者直接找冒犯者沟通。 2.作者观察主管的言行，她始终保持冷静的头脑。在紧张的情况下，她的肢体语言很鲜明，却不会太强势。而且，她的遣词造句总是不卑不亢，有礼、有力。 3.作者认为，始终隐忍，未来将一事无成。必须克服为自己发声的恐惧，而且必须在不冒犯他人的前提下做到这一点。作者在主管的帮助下，直接找冒犯者沟通，效果不错。此外，言行一致，也有助于维持良好的婚姻和亲戚关系。
第1章冲突，无所不在的冲突 1.没有人存心要成为一个讨人厌的家伙、一个暴脾气或一个胆小鬼。人际冲突造成的困境，会让人在工作机遇前退缩，在和朋友或爱人营造和谐关系面前退缩。 2.本书无法解决政治冲突、真人秀冲突、网络骂战。本书讲的是如何应对、处理小范围冲突，每天碰到的冲突。 3.常见的冲突：空间侵占、数码狂人、无信用的人、喋喋不休的抱怨者、插话达人、冷面批评者、偷懒者、漠视请求者、烦人的提要求者、社交媒体狂热分子、假期搅扰者、不修边幅者。 4.回避一次不愉快的交谈会导致更多的问题。你感到被利用了、病了、疲惫了，或者失控，常常感到无力或愤怒。 5.礼仪的核心是恰当的方式对待他人，不仅是说什么以及如何说，还在于以善意对待他人。 6.有些不可思议的事，每天都有人做。每个人或多或少都有一些坏习惯。 7.不再懦弱总比维持懦弱要好多了。 8.WAC模型，鼓励你做四件事情：思考自己以前为人处事风格，不对其他人的行为预先做假设，选择有礼有节地正面解决冲突，学会如何减少你生活中的冲突。
前言 1.作者是一名有二十年资历的商务沟通培训师，专门从事人际沟通和礼节训练、指导等工作。 2.人们遇到挫折后，放弃交谈、倾诉抱怨、说一些未经考虑的话，最后，情况变得更糟。 3.掌握正向沟通技巧后，你感觉会更好，不再像一个胆小鬼、凶神恶煞，无意习得不良习惯无法左右你，直接而自信地面对困难，不再说丧气话。
《正向沟通：非暴力人际沟通技巧》 （美）芭芭拉·派崔特著 张琨译 古吴轩出版社 2017年出版
thank you
Girl power
You helped fuck the boys outs,fuck you
You THINK you’re an entitled person. What you are is a little bitch that doesn’t know what BOY scouts means!!!
i like your book.i just read it.you are doing very great thing by teaching people this..thank you
We need many more venues to promote young women and the accomplishments of women all throughout history (Her-story) We need to teach more women`s history in grade school. so young women can look up to ,,,OUR,,, hero`s. We promote only men, as though women do not exist. No wonder women do not have the drive to suceed. We need to know there were many women who came before us. Those who sacrificed so much, even their lives, so that women today can have a better life.
Snookie? Nah. Way too smart, good looking, and classy --despite Jersey roots.
hi kris its your brother congrats