This channel focuses on marriage advice for parents. It’s for parents and partners who are into growth and development. If you want to gain more self-awareness, have a better relationship with yourself, and have more fulfilling relationships with others, this channel is for you.
It’s my belief and experience that your life satisfaction, health, and longevity will be determined by how much confidence you have in your primary partnership and how well you can love yourself and another human being.
jaysongaddis.com
www.relationshipschool.com
Пікірлер
When this person goes silent and the other doesn’t immediately give them space because of an anxious attachment style is that just a need for compromise and understanding or is someone at fault?
It really really sucks to hear such a brilliant man misunderstand his own projections onto Trump while speaking about projecting lol. He doesn’t actually see Trump at all. Very sad.
Can this happen if they put up a wall?
You’ve got such great relationship insights👌
Brilliant analysis
But what do u say when they tell u to just get over it, it’s not a big deal or to stop being so selfish for thinking about urself?
Watching you made me more inspired to share the impact with as many people who are vulnerable enough to share the trials and tribulations within their relationships with me! Thank you, Jasyn for being so authentic and encouraging coaches everywhere to do the same!! What a difference the world and all relationships would be if everyone could be their true self and live their life authentically!
Thanks jamie
Makes perfect sense!
Thanks
As I was Watching this video I felt very inspiring I believe sharing an impact is a huge crucial element for Coaching and it’s definitely a tool that I want to be using for when I coach clients to be giving them feedback when it comes to to relationships and it also allows them to know that they are also connecting with another human and it show that you are not robotic and they get to see to feel safe seen soothed and support and challenged and understood when your sharing and impact with them and that they are interacting with a human being who can contribute to their growth and to their experience when sharing an impact . That is is tool I Definitely want to be using to also create vulnerability and to allow for exploration and openness . JUAN P
Thanks Juan
Thank you
Thank you Jayson🍁
Thanks for sharing your truth and how to do that.
for sure
That doesn’t work as women never learn
You always make an impact Jayson🍀
She left a year ago and came back. Only to ghost me 😢
This might be the most profound short on YT. Thanks, Jayson!
Glad you think so! it's a good one!
Can you please explain why you say to "integrate the two"? Seems like ideally you'd just integrate all the disowned parts (of your true self) such that you no longer have a strategic self.
you can't get rid of any part of yourself.
This.
Validation! I'm going to (try to) master this skill. Beth
Disagreements and ruptures are inevitable. Not bashing the laptop in and giving the silent treatment seems impossible!! Puting the relationship first & having the other persons back while under pressure seems even more impossible but I will initiate a quick chat with validations, owning up to myself, & being onboard with staying connected instead of disconnected! ~~****I am Natasha and "I WILL MASTER THIS SKILL"~~****!!
Hi! The entire presentation was helpful to see how it unfolds. It's one thing to read about this, but to watch it and how you broke it down made it all made sense. Thank you! - Terra
First thing that turns me off….is tone of voice….which I too can be guilty of…. I’m going to master this😊, gigi
kelli ownership I am going to master this skill
So, how to repair correctly?
That makes sense. Validation, often I hear my partner saying she just wants to know that she isn’t crazy. Validating her experience before defending myself right away is such a helpful path. -Shane
I’ll be there
OMG arguing about exactly what happened. Guilty! "That doesn't really matter" is so helpful! Will turn focus to validation and solution. Gayle
Asking questions to clarify rather than being defensive is great, I'm going to master that skill- Megan
So much Brilliance! Saying "I want to blame you" instead of just blaming her so things don't escalate and Validating instead of defending are the skills I'm going to master. - Jessica
thanks Jessica!
Validating instead of Defending. I'm going to master that skill - Oscar
amen
Wow.
Self confidence is a discovery from the inside… we have to go through the pain of not getting what we want to realize what it is that we want… yes, I love this… turning our pain into gratitude and being grateful the relationship ended…
Thanks Jayson, I went straight to searching for your support in my most recent breakup… your video helped when he first broke up with me two months ago and I’m listening to it again today as there’s been more waves of pain, additional movement apart and the final layers of my attachment to him are starting to release… breakups can be so painful. Today also marks the two year anniversary of my mom’s passing… I so appreciate you helping me connect with and feel a deep presence, resilience and support for myself. We are so blessed to have the support you are offering in the world. Bless you, man.
I always appreciate your shares & teachings; thank you!
sure
Thank You 😢❤
sure
The validating piece rather than becoming defensive was brilliant. Too many times, I jump to defending myself when as a member of a team, that should not be necessary. I am going to master this skill. Don
yes Don. I can relate
So what happens when your partner doesn’t react according to the prescription you role played?
you have to work together as a team to learn this
Multitasking!! Deflecting and proving I’m right!! That’s me
doh!
Validating instead of defending! So easy, don't need to be anything more complicated than "That makes sense." I'm going to master this skill - Oskar
yes
I will master this skill too! Brandon
Learning to ask instead of accuse, deflect, stonewall, project, get defensive. I'm going to master this skill - David
thanks David
I appreciate the role playing. It’s so helpful to see and hear in action…..what is wrong and why and a better example. If I read it in a book, it doesn’t always resonate.
thx
I am going to master this skillllll with my partner (Seulgi) see you tomorrow!
Great Seuligi
This is what my adult daughter and I deal with. Wow, this was So good!
thx heather
Great video, great strategies
thx
I’m going to master this skill - Queen
nice queen
This is very enriching when it comes to playing my role in relationships
yes
Curiosity rather than judgment ftw
boom
Jayson this is incredibly useful helpful advice….thank you! Will use for all my relationships 🍉🍉
great!
Wow…I see I commented one year ago. Hes seeing a counselor but nothing has changed. I’m living MY life & he will be the live in handyman. 🤷🏽♀️
tells me you are not growing if you are still with someone like this. what are YOU doing?
@@JaysonGaddis I am focusing on MY life. I’ve spent my life busy raising kids while immersed in my career, never really focusing on what makes me me. We’ve lived separately for the past 2 years (I had to retire, he cares for his mom). I’ve been free to pursue what’s important to me. I had my first child at 16 so i had some reconciliation to face.
I have a good question, when a man is already with a beautiful woman that he loves and adores. The sex is great. Myself being 56 I am a very sexually active woman. With that said. Why would a man view prognography to relieve himself when he already has a woman willing and able to do it for him?
i would ask him directly. only he knows.