Hi, I'm Myra :) I use my channel to basically document my life, lessons I've learned, and adventures I have. I talk about fighting anxiety, facing fear, gaining confidence and personal growth. I hope you'll stick around :)
Random guy: You got a haircut it, looks nice Myra: Why are you objectifying me!!! Pervert!
@tauka5 сағат бұрын
to me, marriage means nothing. but what gives me great "value" to marriage, if a woman chooses me to be her husband. because i know marriage means the world to her. so i would mean the world to her. you are a beautiful soul in an ugly world. don't keep on chasing dreams ina form of a husband. just live for the moment. and when someone can appricate the moment just like you do, you know, you arrived
@user-pl7pf8bb3n5 сағат бұрын
10:15 not true. I love women over 25! Matter fact i would rather go for 25+women because they are grown, still in good child bearing years and i can grow and evolve with her
@achimmenzel54017 сағат бұрын
Thank you, Myra!
@vytautasvasiliauskas17349 сағат бұрын
Come in UK 😂,no problem with that,we will enjoy 😅
@chaptervixo10 сағат бұрын
im in los angeles.. working on my first youtube video.. definitely thinking of my future wife..loving every moment of this video
@johnnynewt949810 сағат бұрын
If it makes you feel better, you can change your shirt in front of me whenever you want!😊
@JordanRose8810 сағат бұрын
It's not male privilege for God's sake. You have tits.
@honestlee355612 сағат бұрын
After listening to this I am starting to wonder if my other half/husband is actually me. Ive had a few big loves but they all broke my heart eventually. Cheating is a big pattern Ive noticed in men over my lifetime so far 😒 even when they are getting everything they ask for at home. The world now has more easy access to temptation than ever. Good men do exist tho so dont settle for 2nd best girl! 😁😀😇 Ps...I feel you will meet a guy Mark maybe at an animal rescue or shelter. Just popped into my head so Im passing it along as intuition as I would if you were my friend face to face 😁 Go find your love!
@honestlee355614 сағат бұрын
True. Ive always wondered why they can walk around in public shirtless and we cant 😒 I must say the shirt color looks great on you and make looks so pretty too. Have an awesome day!
@pretzelsmakemethirstyКүн бұрын
This inspired me to write a letter to my future wife.
@francescozzononsisa1078Күн бұрын
no offense, mistakes are human, but this is a flawed, non logical and indeed negative view on men and their sexuality. Example, You say men don't love women over 25 years of age. My father loves my mother to the core, yet they are 70 and 68 years old respectively. So what? As you see, you have uttered a series of illogical and slandering inferences against men, worthy of the worst modern anti-man feminist, and we have already enough of those politically correct but morally corrupt loud speakers in our western society, we don't need yet another such brick in the wall
@anthonytechКүн бұрын
Also I want to add there's a difference in "public" and public "Public" to me is anywhere but my home while public to me is a physical location or business in which people come and go
@anthonytechКүн бұрын
I would say its hecause women's breasts are intimate and sexualized while a mans chest is flat, compared to a womans. If a woman saw you changing she wouldn't care, because she has the same parts. If a man saw you he may stare because men like breasts. The unfortunate part is some men would look at you for a few seconds to admire your then go on about their day while the creeps would literally stare. Any man, like myself, might glance but we will look away out of respect
@ParticleLarryКүн бұрын
Getting scared and running away works for me
@jaminova_1969Күн бұрын
It's better to be single and alone than in a close relationship who treats you badly. I think you should take the time to figure yourself out and if you happen to meet someone along the way, so be it! And if not, that's ok too!
@RaptanaxКүн бұрын
Men can be friends with women whether they see them sexually or not, if they have some kind of activity that they both share and enjoy. If so, then they both like you and your body. Learn about post-nut clarity. If he likes you after that, then he likes you, whether he likes your body or not. But in either case, those two attractions are separate.
@francescozzononsisa1078Күн бұрын
Very true. If a man likes a woman even post-nut, then it's true love. But this girl thinks only women know how to real love, that's her bias and double standard, and indeed many women accuse men of that but in reality that's because such many women don't know how to be desirable and love-worthy
@lukers9819Күн бұрын
First off, not all of those things are accurate to what women are called to be Biblically. Especially not the way that you seem to understand some of the words. But second, the blatant mocking of Christianity is awful here. Saying that you are a born again Christian and then throwing that away for some gag really cuts like a knife.
@carbon1479Күн бұрын
This is what's really not fun about life. One level is getting lied to by society (both men and women get it but women get lied to a lot harder, sections of the economy revolve around that) and the other is realizing that nature does not care about our happiness. For women it's realizing that looks far and away trump achievement (although there's this - if a man can relate to you on a deep level, ie. you can 'see' him, you give him peace as well as play by Rappaport rules in disagreement, and he's more of an adult rather than a boy, you'll be indispensable to him just on how many women won't meet those criteria) and for men it's realizing that many women will just treat you like a warm wallet and being a warm wallet makes you completely fungible / disposable. A great book to read, it's short but it's challenging as far as your view of humanity, is Straw Dogs by John Gray and for a more focused essay read 'Meditations on Moloch' by Slate Star Codex / Scott Alexander. Once you see Darwinian game theory in human behavior and what kinds of problems it creates for both genders you can't unsee it.
@bluewave7120Күн бұрын
That is right.."somewhere in the world"..never limit by location your search for your lifetime "one and only" true love❤
@kurtwong8222Күн бұрын
Pizza
@cvg9142Күн бұрын
Yet yeah I can understand that to be anxious having to change shirt Many guys afraid to take shirt off too like shirts and skins some don't want to because they don't think their body is good. 😊
@cvg9142Күн бұрын
Agree and also women wear small bottoms on beach and men wear Bermuda surf shorts so it may be about projection. So if a man wears the small speedo to the beach it's also scandalous. Yet somehow the woman can and no big deal the guys can't get sun on their legs as the norm.
@myrawest16 сағат бұрын
In eurpope speedos are normal for men
@AuthentikoremusicКүн бұрын
Wow, that is so beautiful. Please don't ever stop being that sweet woman that you are and never settle for the wrong person. You really do deserve a husband that you makes you happy for a lifetime.
@AuthentikoremusicКүн бұрын
You're a beautiful women and although I do find you physically/sexually attractive I also really enjoy watching your video because you seem very authentic and interesting and there is such a thing as liking someone's energy. Your video really warms my heart and puts a smile on my face because you are so you. Guys do fall madly in love with women and develop strong feelings for them and want to take care of them for life but our society is kind of sick and broken right and dating is awful for both men and women these days.
@vanlee17002 күн бұрын
Same like you
@SyBernot2 күн бұрын
it's just you I see girls at the beach do it all the time, no one cares.
@davidsolomie1622 күн бұрын
Yeah, so much of this is relatable. Every day I keep searching for my special lady, but honestly it feels like I'm running out of time. Anyways, this was a truly lovely letter. I really hope you find him, Myra.
@AZMR240SX2 күн бұрын
This has been interesting. I am not familiar with your channel and this video came up as recommended based on some relationship videos I’ve been watching. Couple of thoughts… first about me. I’m married, almost 20 years now. My wife is beautiful and physically attractive but what I fell in love with was not those things. I didn’t find her particularly attractive when we first met(both of us pretty young), because I thought she was silly. She asked me out and on our first date I discovered she was a wonderful, sincere, deep person and fell in love. My physical attraction to her *then* began to grow. She was gorgeous then, of course, but I was not interested in her sexually until she became a full person in my life, if that makes sense. Now… I also grew up in a religious setting and had some mixed up ideas about relationships and sex from my family, church and general society. Nevertheless, I knew I wanted to be with a woman who was worth being with. That doesn’t mean I didn’t notice attractive girls, it doesn’t mean that I don’t notice attractive women now. I am a human and there’s nothing wrong with having attraction(it would become wrong if I acted on that attraction, or fantasized, or lingered). But it does mean that men exist who aren’t seeking or even open to casual sex. I’m not even here being the “not all men” guy, just speaking up because you seem to have had some bad turns and it’s sad to hear. There’s a good man out there for you - but I hope that you haven’t given in to cynicism by the time you meet him. Second, I worry for my son and daughters. Yes, some people are awful and will use and/or mistreat you. But I swear the internet and social media make things so much worse than they really are… at least, I hope so. I hope my kids don’t find themselves trying to find love in an environment where everything tells them that boys want nothing but sex and objectify all women all the time etc etc. That just won’t do any good for anyone. My son will be constantly fighting to prove himself against that preconception, my daughters will also have to guard against becoming jaded. Tough world :/
@AZMR240SX2 күн бұрын
Oh gosh, and I didn’t finish the video before commenting. You’ve suffered SA, I’m so sorry. It heightens your awareness and colors your perception of *everything*. Respectfully, please see a professional to work through that. So much about your video makes sense in the context of an SA history. There is kindness and love for you, but your hurt will make it hard for you to see it and trust it. All the best, thanks for your courage in sharing all of this.
@musicupmylife61162 күн бұрын
Pizza
@ParticleLarry2 күн бұрын
I have an out of shape hairy body , I feel very uncomfortable about even thinking of changing my shirt in public
@normanpaterson2 күн бұрын
Hope you find him I'm 62 and have not found a match, good luck!
@markfrantzen95762 күн бұрын
It can take a man a long time to truly appreciate the value of a woman. There are lots of reasons for this: upbringing, cultural beliefs, religious ideologies. Boys don't start off as 'bad', they learn prejudice and misogyny from some many places, most often home. Within the 'love-hate' relationship men have with women there's a secondary relationship - the one they have with their own meaning, purpose, 'value', 'belonging' in life. The cards of life aren't dealt out evenly, and many men (and women) who 'fall behind' make up for this perceived loss (or slight) in any number of destructive-behavior ways. My plea to women would be: try to keep an open heart 🩷 if at all possible. Without your love and nurture, humanity really has no hope. It's only through the love for and of my 17-year old daughter that I have finally understood the sadness men so often mete out again women. Thank you for your courage.
@Lightbulb9092 күн бұрын
Heh, I remembering thinking in high school that I’d only ever consider talking to a girl is if she approached me first. Then I experienced it like three times in college and realized I really just get in my own way. 🤦♂️
@MrGreyGames2 күн бұрын
It's a privilege to be apart of your journey
@TimGriggsgallery2 күн бұрын
Pizza
@TimGriggsgallery2 күн бұрын
If I were your age I would be glad to be your friend. You’re a nice girl. Unusual, complicated and tortured. You can’t help it, plus there’s really nothing wrong with it anyway. There’s nothing wrong with you.
@DatzCanny2 күн бұрын
As a guy who has to change his shirt in the car almost every day after work, I've often had this exact thought. I'll be the first to admit it is a privilege, and I truly wish women could feel comfortable enough to do the same without being judged for it
@BrandonOutside2 күн бұрын
This is beautiful! Something I’ve found myself meditating on recently is what kind of husband I’ll be, and if I’m living up to that already. (In this way, I do think the “universe waiting until I’m ready” part is somewhat true perhaps). I would kinda suggest the wife version of that if you haven’t already. Like make sure you’re also thinking about how you want to show up in the relationship and how you want the relationship to be (how you communicate with each other, common interests, activities, morals, goals, etc.)
@BrandonOutside2 күн бұрын
Also, what if every romantic connection is “the one” in some way? I think most people have a few different ‘soulmates’ for different phases of their life.
@bethventuresx82833 күн бұрын
Be brave Myra!! Say hello to people!! Let yourself be rejected. I did and it paid off i promise you. Be brave. What a beautiful letter. ❤ So many men are scared to make the first move these days..theyre overly concerned to scare us, and they are kind for that but it holds everyone back. Say hi. Please. They want us to say hi..
@bethventuresx82833 күн бұрын
I met my fiance when i moved to a new town, he was my next door neighbour! Everyones story is different, i didnt even need to leave my house. He helped me with my move in and supplied me a ladder so i could paint my room ect. And THEN I pursued HIM. He was so shy..he admitted he would have never tried anything to pursue me because he was intimated..now he has proposed. You never know.
@Artoriastempest77723 күн бұрын
Wow, your an amazing writer, I can feel the emotion in this letter, I’m sure you’ll find who your looking for
@trilithon1083 күн бұрын
As someone once said, 'Hope springs eternal.' ❤
@trilithon1083 күн бұрын
If you have a bra on, it shouldn't feel too stressful. I remember in the '80s women in Munich sunbathing topless by the Isar river. No-one seemed to care.
@celebishiny29122 күн бұрын
i seen a but naked man and there last summer and nobody still doesnt give a fk
@paulslee3413 күн бұрын
feel free to show us, noone will judge
@superluigikong3 күн бұрын
Myra you write so beautifully. I want to write letters like these to my future wife. If I ever find her
@delblackburn-dy2ex3 күн бұрын
In CA, state law allows anyone to walk around naked unless they are try to sexually arouse themselves or someone else. Local ordinances can prohibit nudity at all. At Univ. California Berkeley, there used to be a student who walked around with just shoes on. No one bothered him. He went to class like that
@thesilentknight45543 күн бұрын
I'll be at target, buying a cool action figure. *and then we'll bump heads.💥🤣*
@ParaplegicKeanuReeves3 күн бұрын
I've never understood why people forgive cheating.....anyway
@garywhite44113 күн бұрын
Really beautiful. I've always found it strange that my wife and I had separate but close lives before we met. Now it's like we've never been apart.
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Random guy: You got a haircut it, looks nice Myra: Why are you objectifying me!!! Pervert!
to me, marriage means nothing. but what gives me great "value" to marriage, if a woman chooses me to be her husband. because i know marriage means the world to her. so i would mean the world to her. you are a beautiful soul in an ugly world. don't keep on chasing dreams ina form of a husband. just live for the moment. and when someone can appricate the moment just like you do, you know, you arrived
10:15 not true. I love women over 25! Matter fact i would rather go for 25+women because they are grown, still in good child bearing years and i can grow and evolve with her
Thank you, Myra!
Come in UK 😂,no problem with that,we will enjoy 😅
im in los angeles.. working on my first youtube video.. definitely thinking of my future wife..loving every moment of this video
If it makes you feel better, you can change your shirt in front of me whenever you want!😊
It's not male privilege for God's sake. You have tits.
After listening to this I am starting to wonder if my other half/husband is actually me. Ive had a few big loves but they all broke my heart eventually. Cheating is a big pattern Ive noticed in men over my lifetime so far 😒 even when they are getting everything they ask for at home. The world now has more easy access to temptation than ever. Good men do exist tho so dont settle for 2nd best girl! 😁😀😇 Ps...I feel you will meet a guy Mark maybe at an animal rescue or shelter. Just popped into my head so Im passing it along as intuition as I would if you were my friend face to face 😁 Go find your love!
True. Ive always wondered why they can walk around in public shirtless and we cant 😒 I must say the shirt color looks great on you and make looks so pretty too. Have an awesome day!
This inspired me to write a letter to my future wife.
no offense, mistakes are human, but this is a flawed, non logical and indeed negative view on men and their sexuality. Example, You say men don't love women over 25 years of age. My father loves my mother to the core, yet they are 70 and 68 years old respectively. So what? As you see, you have uttered a series of illogical and slandering inferences against men, worthy of the worst modern anti-man feminist, and we have already enough of those politically correct but morally corrupt loud speakers in our western society, we don't need yet another such brick in the wall
Also I want to add there's a difference in "public" and public "Public" to me is anywhere but my home while public to me is a physical location or business in which people come and go
I would say its hecause women's breasts are intimate and sexualized while a mans chest is flat, compared to a womans. If a woman saw you changing she wouldn't care, because she has the same parts. If a man saw you he may stare because men like breasts. The unfortunate part is some men would look at you for a few seconds to admire your then go on about their day while the creeps would literally stare. Any man, like myself, might glance but we will look away out of respect
Getting scared and running away works for me
It's better to be single and alone than in a close relationship who treats you badly. I think you should take the time to figure yourself out and if you happen to meet someone along the way, so be it! And if not, that's ok too!
Men can be friends with women whether they see them sexually or not, if they have some kind of activity that they both share and enjoy. If so, then they both like you and your body. Learn about post-nut clarity. If he likes you after that, then he likes you, whether he likes your body or not. But in either case, those two attractions are separate.
Very true. If a man likes a woman even post-nut, then it's true love. But this girl thinks only women know how to real love, that's her bias and double standard, and indeed many women accuse men of that but in reality that's because such many women don't know how to be desirable and love-worthy
First off, not all of those things are accurate to what women are called to be Biblically. Especially not the way that you seem to understand some of the words. But second, the blatant mocking of Christianity is awful here. Saying that you are a born again Christian and then throwing that away for some gag really cuts like a knife.
This is what's really not fun about life. One level is getting lied to by society (both men and women get it but women get lied to a lot harder, sections of the economy revolve around that) and the other is realizing that nature does not care about our happiness. For women it's realizing that looks far and away trump achievement (although there's this - if a man can relate to you on a deep level, ie. you can 'see' him, you give him peace as well as play by Rappaport rules in disagreement, and he's more of an adult rather than a boy, you'll be indispensable to him just on how many women won't meet those criteria) and for men it's realizing that many women will just treat you like a warm wallet and being a warm wallet makes you completely fungible / disposable. A great book to read, it's short but it's challenging as far as your view of humanity, is Straw Dogs by John Gray and for a more focused essay read 'Meditations on Moloch' by Slate Star Codex / Scott Alexander. Once you see Darwinian game theory in human behavior and what kinds of problems it creates for both genders you can't unsee it.
That is right.."somewhere in the world"..never limit by location your search for your lifetime "one and only" true love❤
Pizza
Yet yeah I can understand that to be anxious having to change shirt Many guys afraid to take shirt off too like shirts and skins some don't want to because they don't think their body is good. 😊
Agree and also women wear small bottoms on beach and men wear Bermuda surf shorts so it may be about projection. So if a man wears the small speedo to the beach it's also scandalous. Yet somehow the woman can and no big deal the guys can't get sun on their legs as the norm.
In eurpope speedos are normal for men
Wow, that is so beautiful. Please don't ever stop being that sweet woman that you are and never settle for the wrong person. You really do deserve a husband that you makes you happy for a lifetime.
You're a beautiful women and although I do find you physically/sexually attractive I also really enjoy watching your video because you seem very authentic and interesting and there is such a thing as liking someone's energy. Your video really warms my heart and puts a smile on my face because you are so you. Guys do fall madly in love with women and develop strong feelings for them and want to take care of them for life but our society is kind of sick and broken right and dating is awful for both men and women these days.
Same like you
it's just you I see girls at the beach do it all the time, no one cares.
Yeah, so much of this is relatable. Every day I keep searching for my special lady, but honestly it feels like I'm running out of time. Anyways, this was a truly lovely letter. I really hope you find him, Myra.
This has been interesting. I am not familiar with your channel and this video came up as recommended based on some relationship videos I’ve been watching. Couple of thoughts… first about me. I’m married, almost 20 years now. My wife is beautiful and physically attractive but what I fell in love with was not those things. I didn’t find her particularly attractive when we first met(both of us pretty young), because I thought she was silly. She asked me out and on our first date I discovered she was a wonderful, sincere, deep person and fell in love. My physical attraction to her *then* began to grow. She was gorgeous then, of course, but I was not interested in her sexually until she became a full person in my life, if that makes sense. Now… I also grew up in a religious setting and had some mixed up ideas about relationships and sex from my family, church and general society. Nevertheless, I knew I wanted to be with a woman who was worth being with. That doesn’t mean I didn’t notice attractive girls, it doesn’t mean that I don’t notice attractive women now. I am a human and there’s nothing wrong with having attraction(it would become wrong if I acted on that attraction, or fantasized, or lingered). But it does mean that men exist who aren’t seeking or even open to casual sex. I’m not even here being the “not all men” guy, just speaking up because you seem to have had some bad turns and it’s sad to hear. There’s a good man out there for you - but I hope that you haven’t given in to cynicism by the time you meet him. Second, I worry for my son and daughters. Yes, some people are awful and will use and/or mistreat you. But I swear the internet and social media make things so much worse than they really are… at least, I hope so. I hope my kids don’t find themselves trying to find love in an environment where everything tells them that boys want nothing but sex and objectify all women all the time etc etc. That just won’t do any good for anyone. My son will be constantly fighting to prove himself against that preconception, my daughters will also have to guard against becoming jaded. Tough world :/
Oh gosh, and I didn’t finish the video before commenting. You’ve suffered SA, I’m so sorry. It heightens your awareness and colors your perception of *everything*. Respectfully, please see a professional to work through that. So much about your video makes sense in the context of an SA history. There is kindness and love for you, but your hurt will make it hard for you to see it and trust it. All the best, thanks for your courage in sharing all of this.
Pizza
I have an out of shape hairy body , I feel very uncomfortable about even thinking of changing my shirt in public
Hope you find him I'm 62 and have not found a match, good luck!
It can take a man a long time to truly appreciate the value of a woman. There are lots of reasons for this: upbringing, cultural beliefs, religious ideologies. Boys don't start off as 'bad', they learn prejudice and misogyny from some many places, most often home. Within the 'love-hate' relationship men have with women there's a secondary relationship - the one they have with their own meaning, purpose, 'value', 'belonging' in life. The cards of life aren't dealt out evenly, and many men (and women) who 'fall behind' make up for this perceived loss (or slight) in any number of destructive-behavior ways. My plea to women would be: try to keep an open heart 🩷 if at all possible. Without your love and nurture, humanity really has no hope. It's only through the love for and of my 17-year old daughter that I have finally understood the sadness men so often mete out again women. Thank you for your courage.
Heh, I remembering thinking in high school that I’d only ever consider talking to a girl is if she approached me first. Then I experienced it like three times in college and realized I really just get in my own way. 🤦♂️
It's a privilege to be apart of your journey
Pizza
If I were your age I would be glad to be your friend. You’re a nice girl. Unusual, complicated and tortured. You can’t help it, plus there’s really nothing wrong with it anyway. There’s nothing wrong with you.
As a guy who has to change his shirt in the car almost every day after work, I've often had this exact thought. I'll be the first to admit it is a privilege, and I truly wish women could feel comfortable enough to do the same without being judged for it
This is beautiful! Something I’ve found myself meditating on recently is what kind of husband I’ll be, and if I’m living up to that already. (In this way, I do think the “universe waiting until I’m ready” part is somewhat true perhaps). I would kinda suggest the wife version of that if you haven’t already. Like make sure you’re also thinking about how you want to show up in the relationship and how you want the relationship to be (how you communicate with each other, common interests, activities, morals, goals, etc.)
Also, what if every romantic connection is “the one” in some way? I think most people have a few different ‘soulmates’ for different phases of their life.
Be brave Myra!! Say hello to people!! Let yourself be rejected. I did and it paid off i promise you. Be brave. What a beautiful letter. ❤ So many men are scared to make the first move these days..theyre overly concerned to scare us, and they are kind for that but it holds everyone back. Say hi. Please. They want us to say hi..
I met my fiance when i moved to a new town, he was my next door neighbour! Everyones story is different, i didnt even need to leave my house. He helped me with my move in and supplied me a ladder so i could paint my room ect. And THEN I pursued HIM. He was so shy..he admitted he would have never tried anything to pursue me because he was intimated..now he has proposed. You never know.
Wow, your an amazing writer, I can feel the emotion in this letter, I’m sure you’ll find who your looking for
As someone once said, 'Hope springs eternal.' ❤
If you have a bra on, it shouldn't feel too stressful. I remember in the '80s women in Munich sunbathing topless by the Isar river. No-one seemed to care.
i seen a but naked man and there last summer and nobody still doesnt give a fk
feel free to show us, noone will judge
Myra you write so beautifully. I want to write letters like these to my future wife. If I ever find her
In CA, state law allows anyone to walk around naked unless they are try to sexually arouse themselves or someone else. Local ordinances can prohibit nudity at all. At Univ. California Berkeley, there used to be a student who walked around with just shoes on. No one bothered him. He went to class like that
I'll be at target, buying a cool action figure. *and then we'll bump heads.💥🤣*
I've never understood why people forgive cheating.....anyway
Really beautiful. I've always found it strange that my wife and I had separate but close lives before we met. Now it's like we've never been apart.