This is possibly the most valuable video on the whole of KZread and yet not even 300 people have seen it. Thank you for uploading! I just read the book and it makes everything written in there more alive for me.
@nonviolentcommunicationpro160213 күн бұрын
Thank you for the comment. I also see huge value in this video - it's packed with new perspectives, content and practical suggestions.
@TigerspencerstrawberryАй бұрын
This was a brilliant man. Worthy of listening to again and again.
@Heart_Central2 ай бұрын
We've been trained, taught and told that other people can hurt us by what they say. If we believe that, we give our power away. So, I hear Marshall saying to listen for needs that impel others to say what they say, no matter what they tell us about what they think we "are". Instead of that static jackal language, we can get curious about what might be going on for them. The self empathy in that moment? We remember that we are not defined by what other people think about us. We are human beings doing the best we can each moment to act in alignment with our Life Energy (needs). Hope this is clarifying?!
@nonviolentcommunicationpro16022 ай бұрын
Thank you for your comment! I would just add a component of "giving yourself" understanding and compassion that we can feel pain hearing words of other ppl. Yes, I am not defined by what other think of me, yet I care about it. I'm affected by it Irrespectively whether it's "normal" or "pathology". Just giving space to the reality of emotional reaction to what other people say.
@richardh80823 ай бұрын
Sonds like Socratic dialogue. Beautiful and practical. Thank you
@Hest4Ай бұрын
I think SD is more mental and NVC more emotional and empathetic
@spiritualityandscience9 ай бұрын
Great video, thanks
@apteryx01 Жыл бұрын
This video doesn't talk about how to give yourself empathy.
@nonviolentcommunicationpro1602 Жыл бұрын
At beginning he talks some time about it - being worried about how we react to what people do. He didn't go there in great detail though. Maybe because it's so deceptively simple and in practice there are not many steps "to do". "Just" giving space and time to what I feel, think, sense in relationship to given person/situation. It's much easier to list what not to do: advise, change, explain, judge, question etc. (so in general anything that takes me away from feeling the impact). Hope it helps a bit.
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This is possibly the most valuable video on the whole of KZread and yet not even 300 people have seen it. Thank you for uploading! I just read the book and it makes everything written in there more alive for me.
Thank you for the comment. I also see huge value in this video - it's packed with new perspectives, content and practical suggestions.
This was a brilliant man. Worthy of listening to again and again.
We've been trained, taught and told that other people can hurt us by what they say. If we believe that, we give our power away. So, I hear Marshall saying to listen for needs that impel others to say what they say, no matter what they tell us about what they think we "are". Instead of that static jackal language, we can get curious about what might be going on for them. The self empathy in that moment? We remember that we are not defined by what other people think about us. We are human beings doing the best we can each moment to act in alignment with our Life Energy (needs). Hope this is clarifying?!
Thank you for your comment! I would just add a component of "giving yourself" understanding and compassion that we can feel pain hearing words of other ppl. Yes, I am not defined by what other think of me, yet I care about it. I'm affected by it Irrespectively whether it's "normal" or "pathology". Just giving space to the reality of emotional reaction to what other people say.
Sonds like Socratic dialogue. Beautiful and practical. Thank you
I think SD is more mental and NVC more emotional and empathetic
Great video, thanks
This video doesn't talk about how to give yourself empathy.
At beginning he talks some time about it - being worried about how we react to what people do. He didn't go there in great detail though. Maybe because it's so deceptively simple and in practice there are not many steps "to do". "Just" giving space and time to what I feel, think, sense in relationship to given person/situation. It's much easier to list what not to do: advise, change, explain, judge, question etc. (so in general anything that takes me away from feeling the impact). Hope it helps a bit.
Where is episode 1