In the past 45 years I've helped 1000's of people get their narcissistic dysfunctional family out of them and enjoy a life free of their toxic grip.
If you grew up in a narcissistic, toxic, or emotionally immature family, this channel is tailored for you.
Many of my clients say I’ve done more to help them in a single coaching session or in a workshop than in a full year with a traditional therapist.
If your family and close relationships have been a cause of pain in your life for a long time and you don’t know what to do, I believe my videos and programs would be of tremendous help to you in breaking free.
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www.jerrywiserelationshipsystems.com
No videos or advice are intended to be a replacement for any licensed psychotherapy or to be guidance for your life situation.
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Your videos are very informative. I know that I have the King of the Universe that fights all the lies my in-laws have said about me and my family. God isn’t going to mess around when they have to give an account for every word and action that was done against His daughter
are there any good books out there for us "golden Children"? Godling Children?
After I went no contact, my parents sent me a plain Christmas card with virtually nothing in it. I didn't respond. The next year, they sent an angry Christmas card. You heard that correctly. An angry one. Was that supposed to get a response? Would that get the rage and fighting they never got from me? Did they want a knock down brawl? Thankfully, it was the last time I ever heard from them. Years and years of very nasty and disturbed and ugly relationships were finally over for me. At last.
35 flavors 🍦😊
wow! turns out my parents following me and my family around wasn't normal
Scapegoats recognize other scapegoats so easily.
Thanks Jerry, Just took care of my mother for a year. Still recovering , the mean words are beginning to fade. Now it is time for me to emerge as myself (whoever she is ) . Great advice as usual. ✌
Great video. This really helps me change my focus.
I was expected to care for my grandmother with parkinson's 24/7 while they sat locked in their room doing what ever they wanted otherwise I got reported on
Ah, the ministers and priests at the churches I play for!
Wow, Jerry!! This IS new. It took my 'work' into a while new realm I had been unaware of...Great help granularizing some 'pockets of pain' ( Lisa A Romano teaches the POP=,pochet of pain 🌹btw: I really enjoyed the talk with you two 😘) and murkiness i've been trying to clear up but I guess I didn't know how to back into it and ask myself the right questions to move my mind. Thank you. Being stuck hurts so much. Awareness brings growth which relieves the pain... Ahhhhh!! Thank You...
I never told anybody that story. I studied in a private engineering school. One day I went back to my school to get a copy of my degree and the director told me that my fees were not paid in full. I was surprised and asked him how much was missing. It was huge, it was thousands upon thousands of euros. He said he never said anything to me and let me have a my degree because I had good grades. I thanked him but felt ashamed. He gave me the document I needed and we just agreed that I would start settling the debt as soon as I am able which I did in first priority. I am forever grateful to that man. After that whenever my mother says "I paid for your private school etc..." I am so resentful because she never said she didnt pay all of it and left a huge debt to me while still asking me more money from me....Sometimes I really wonder why people treat each other like that even in your own family
True! Narcissists mix personal with “work” all the time (enmeshment). They do this to keep the negativity going.
Mom never spoke to me like a caring person. Usually threats if we weren’t on our best behavior. Then in early adulthood I noticed she only wanted to talk trash about coworkers. Of course if I wasn’t interested she got mad. A kind word, encouragement, help with homework, never.
Great info here, thank you for sharing.
Glad it was helpful!
Wow SO MANY of this resonates with how my whole family behaved. It was truly awful to see so much toxicity and to be the only one who did 😔 💔
My mom read ever letter addressed to me, opened and examined my bank statements, and kistened in on all my phone calls while I was a teenager/young adult. I had no bedroom and no privacy. I slept on the floor for 5 years, no mattress. But, my mom kept up appearances, and to this day, her brothers-in-laws believe every lie she has told and continues to tell. I'm 51 and I went No Contact, and I'm living so much better now. The enmeshment is toxic.
OOoof, the way it hit when one of my parents hit almost all of those delusions, with the exact same words they used.
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What a sad, sad legacy the Narcissist mother leaves behind. 💔
As you see in narcissist helping the children that he molested manipulate a whole situation on giving things when you teach your kids responsibility and give him a job to do does not mean they own the company or restaurant or businesses as you can see their pedophile will groom children to feel obligated that their parents have to buy them a car or give him a house. They gave you a place to live. Manipulating and diverting what your narcissistic sexual offender has done onto your parents and abusing your way to get parents to give you things is a narcissist and groomed. As you can see identity fraud murder abuse sexual assaults while this person created a line of narcissistic predators straight out of deer trail Colorado goes by Michael and works as a therapist. As you can see the German Holocaust and his involvement. So researching actual facts behaviors mental health and actions prove pretty much everything I said
“Come right over emotionally” oh my gosh I think I do that too! I’m going to unpack that and WORK on it, once again thank you and bless you Jerry Wise.
just want to say, if anybody grew up in a narcissistic family and maybe didn’t even know it until recently and maybe even 60 some years later. … or have coworkers or any cycle that just sounds like it’s toxic and circular and crazy and does not make sense. Jerry is amazing and can help you learn how to respond. You will just love him. I just wanna tell you this is what I post on platforms because I believe your videos are very important for people to see. Not until a year ago did I ever even comprehend when I went to KZread the craziness I have been experiencing all my life. Now it all makes sense. God bless you Jerry and thank you and I just want to share share share your information. From JANESVILLE, WI
I wish I had known all this 10 years ago.