Thanks for your work❤️ I was looking for a Christian to learn etiquette from and God sent one of your videos my way. Not by chance! Now subscribed and looking forward to watching your content!😊
@Zanaabil8 күн бұрын
I trust my hands 😅😅
@StevenHughes-hr5hp10 күн бұрын
Americans do not switch hands. We sit the utebsil we are not using down. Why hold a knife while eating rice and beans? Is it to intimidate the waiter? The fork has a scoop. It is patently obvious why it was designed that way. How do you even use a held upside down one?
@favshowfan11 күн бұрын
I’m never going to learn, I typically eat with my knife and fork regularly.
@melaniesmith927612 күн бұрын
Just a few points to add. Avoid waving your knife and fork when having a conversation. Also, when putting food in your mouth, your hand goes to mouth, not head to fork. Lift your arm off the table, rather than diving at your food! Thanks for trying to bring classy back.
@melaniesmith927612 күн бұрын
Also, no, you don't use the fork that way, food falls off and you have to dive to catch it.. British etiquette is NOT European etiquette. Lol As a Canadian fine dining server, now I have seen it all.
@RollenND13 күн бұрын
So I been eating the British way the whole time..OMG!👈
@charlotteatuhaire480714 күн бұрын
I'm here after watching a certain movie when a poor girlfriend visited rich guy and he was teaching her how to use cutlery😂😂 I have always known this as ahotelier but wanted to confirm something
@davidabitbol429618 күн бұрын
I walked up to two people who I thought were part of our group and did this. They were confused but happy.
@TotallyFknAliens19 күн бұрын
Dude you forgot to put food on the plate
@kayeherrera382120 күн бұрын
The person can unzip your bag and take you're wallet not a good idea keep your bag on your body not 😊 good
@theresamahler195123 күн бұрын
I always do that. Been doing it forever.
@maryfincher481424 күн бұрын
Been doing that for years
@1709blondie25 күн бұрын
And keep your purse zipped up!
@dukbedukbe285425 күн бұрын
Thank you!!! Every time something awkward happens in public with my crazy family, I get stared at and it’s really annoying and scary. I don’t go out as often because I’m scared of people staring at my family or who ever I’m with. So I really appreciate you posting this advice!
@erindunn24526 күн бұрын
I never put my bag in the cart. I wear a crossbody or shoulder bag.
@virginiabumgarner880727 күн бұрын
Carry a gun😂😂❤❤❤
@rubettaearthely449728 күн бұрын
Put it on you body
@wisdompr12033Ай бұрын
It would nice if you had a plate with food in it: rice and saucy beans- Many Americans hold their forks and knives LIKE A DAGGER! UGH so embarrassing-
@Paulaschneed1113Ай бұрын
I do housekeeping as my side gig at night and honestly if someone in the office I took the garbage out for handed me $5 I would probably be insulted. A thank you would suffice.
@isabellelaval7294Ай бұрын
Great tip as I don't want to haul around disinfecting stuff. Thank you.
@isabellelaval7294Ай бұрын
I find it hard to believe that people have to be reminded of this responsibility! But...
@smellmyskunk2Ай бұрын
thank you for the fun little tips, my finger hurts though
@user-sj3ie4vp4jАй бұрын
I have been bee doing this FOREVER, like 20 years
@lizbolt8983Ай бұрын
Cuts off before you even get started on the actual applicatiin
@carlchroniclesАй бұрын
your voice sounds like Abby Lee to me lol
@lydialopez8990Ай бұрын
I do that all the time
@CookingwithReginaАй бұрын
So excited to know you’re on KZread!!! I watch your content on Facebook & IG too! Great tips! Learning so much! 😊
@brucejohnson7130Ай бұрын
Why would you learn to eat like a child? Pile all pieces on a fork? yeah not manners it’s just lazy
@cold48528 күн бұрын
Lazy or efficient? Why go the long way? Why not make it even harder and and hold the fork and knife on one hand.
@bluedemon8486Ай бұрын
Y’all believe in manners? Nah, i feel like eating is the most important time of the day. Don’t be told how to eat. I chose not to push my chair in
@reneet5858Ай бұрын
So then, somebody else, probably the person who clears the table, if you're not at home( at home you should clear your own dishes) will have to move all the chairs back into place before even clearing. Or, if someone else wants to leave the table they have to move your chair , AND their own chair, before they can get away from the table. How HARD is it to move your chair back in?
@catstreat9434Ай бұрын
You weren't told how to eat. You were told how to leave.
@pearlchainsАй бұрын
You tell em, Carla!
@alexmaines5513Ай бұрын
This is something we all need to hear. Honestly, we all probably agree on most things, it's just that the media outlets and politicians are trying their best to divide us. If you disagree with someone on something, that's perfectly fine; you're not going to agree with anyone on every single matter.
@TheMightyPALADINАй бұрын
I've lived in America all my life and I've never ever seen anyone hold their fork in their off hand while using the knife, then switch back. Everyone I've ever known used the knife in their off hand always, so that the fork would stay in their dominant hand the whole time.
@user-gl1tp2qr1vАй бұрын
Always bring a cross body bag that you can actually adjust the bag in front of your body breast level. No one is going into your bag let alone steal it from you. If you leave it in your cart a person can pretend to need something reach over the cart unzip your purse and grab your wallet and you'll probably not notice your wallet is gone until you get to check out....... Be smarter than the thief always be aware of your surroundings and who is around you. If your constantly looking around looking at and judging people a thief is going to walk away from you to look for easier prey. I was with my elderly mother when I saw a man leaning over her cart. I walk up behind him and holler in his ear WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOUR DOING! HE JUMP SPUN AROUND SWEATING HIS ASS OFF. I was standing less then a foot away from him with a 6" blade knife in my hand. He was about to steal my mother's wallet. I told her to check her bag it was unzipped and her wallet was laying on the top of her bag. As we were close to check out I told the cashier to call the cops. The guy I told to interlace his fingers on top of his head and if he moved before the cops got there I would stab him in the heart. I touch his chest on his left side just under his nipple I then said just feeling so I land the blade between your ribs we Don't Want Bones Slowing Us Down. He of course turn ghostly white! He didn't even breath until the cops got there. He was arrested my hunting knife was perfectly legal to own and carry. I bet this punk thought of this incident every time he got the urge to steal from a little old lady especially if her very pissed off daughter knows what time it is! Would I have stabed the creep? Hell yes and because I had my favorite coat on and it would have been ruined I probably would have gutted him. Yuppers cut him from groin to sternum the same as I do deer! 🦌
@J0hnP0rk-p6nАй бұрын
just put it on you not that hard😊
@kayeherrera382120 күн бұрын
Exactly 😊
@connieperrien7191Ай бұрын
I was doing that 40 years ago
@CarlaShellisАй бұрын
That’s awesome!!
@marlenefaison7385Ай бұрын
This is not a good idea people have started carrying razors to cut those straps so just keep your bag on your body
@bre5528Ай бұрын
I’ve been doing this for years. But now I just wear a Crossbody bag. I gotta say Im Shocked when I see Dozens of People walk away from there Carts with their Handbags 👜 Unprotected. Sometimes there even Wide Open. Totally Baffling.🤔
@Drammyof6Ай бұрын
Yes, yes been doing that for years!! Unfortunately our world has turned into some kind of free for all!!! SMH. BUT 100% you can never be to careful anymore ❤
@jamie9238Ай бұрын
My grandma taught me this 20 years ago, this is not a new thing 😂
@CarlaShellisАй бұрын
Love that!
@Eton-kx4dtАй бұрын
Instead they will.take the cart, genius 😅
@maggielascano9085Ай бұрын
Or you can wear your bag the whole time. It’s not groundbreaking. 😑
@CarlaShellisАй бұрын
Totally can! I just prefer not to have it on :)
@dawnanas9742Ай бұрын
I did that and someone tried to take my cart. He acted like it was a mistake
@CarlaShellisАй бұрын
Oh no!! Haha
@kandy3545Ай бұрын
But you got your bag back right ?
@cindygallagher5367Ай бұрын
Been doing that for years. Nothing new
@kareneli653Ай бұрын
Cool
@AxelJanzenАй бұрын
I like to eat in the bathroom😢
@julesniner17662 ай бұрын
Yup! An acquaintance mom is a travel agent. I asked her a question about travel, she knows we can purchase everything on military bases. She still hasn't answered me. 😕
@samdekker902 ай бұрын
33 years old having grown up in New Zealand and Australia, I only just learnt the 'correct' ways to eat, and they make no fkn sense to me. 1. American way - why would you swap the fork to the other hand? It seems annoying when you could just keep it in the same hand! 2. The British way - you're piling the food onto the fork while the concave is upsidedown. It's going to fall off. Turn it over! 3. Assuming she's right-handed and using the knife in her dominant hand. Why? Surely the fork is the primary utencil here. I am super uncoordinated using the fork in the other hand. IMO, the concave of the fork has the added benefit of spoon-like abilities, and the dominant hand should be using the primary utencil, the fork. All this proper ettiquette seems like nothing but pure wank.
@bendover26402 ай бұрын
As a Mexican idk, tortilla
@gymelln.chrichlow32242 ай бұрын
Just wanted to make sure I was doing it correct... thanks...❤💯🏆
@Kickflairee2 ай бұрын
Lol all these rules ! Just put the food in your mouth and be thankful
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Thanks for your work❤️ I was looking for a Christian to learn etiquette from and God sent one of your videos my way. Not by chance! Now subscribed and looking forward to watching your content!😊
I trust my hands 😅😅
Americans do not switch hands. We sit the utebsil we are not using down. Why hold a knife while eating rice and beans? Is it to intimidate the waiter? The fork has a scoop. It is patently obvious why it was designed that way. How do you even use a held upside down one?
I’m never going to learn, I typically eat with my knife and fork regularly.
Just a few points to add. Avoid waving your knife and fork when having a conversation. Also, when putting food in your mouth, your hand goes to mouth, not head to fork. Lift your arm off the table, rather than diving at your food! Thanks for trying to bring classy back.
Also, no, you don't use the fork that way, food falls off and you have to dive to catch it.. British etiquette is NOT European etiquette. Lol As a Canadian fine dining server, now I have seen it all.
So I been eating the British way the whole time..OMG!👈
I'm here after watching a certain movie when a poor girlfriend visited rich guy and he was teaching her how to use cutlery😂😂 I have always known this as ahotelier but wanted to confirm something
I walked up to two people who I thought were part of our group and did this. They were confused but happy.
Dude you forgot to put food on the plate
The person can unzip your bag and take you're wallet not a good idea keep your bag on your body not 😊 good
I always do that. Been doing it forever.
Been doing that for years
And keep your purse zipped up!
Thank you!!! Every time something awkward happens in public with my crazy family, I get stared at and it’s really annoying and scary. I don’t go out as often because I’m scared of people staring at my family or who ever I’m with. So I really appreciate you posting this advice!
I never put my bag in the cart. I wear a crossbody or shoulder bag.
Carry a gun😂😂❤❤❤
Put it on you body
It would nice if you had a plate with food in it: rice and saucy beans- Many Americans hold their forks and knives LIKE A DAGGER! UGH so embarrassing-
I do housekeeping as my side gig at night and honestly if someone in the office I took the garbage out for handed me $5 I would probably be insulted. A thank you would suffice.
Great tip as I don't want to haul around disinfecting stuff. Thank you.
I find it hard to believe that people have to be reminded of this responsibility! But...
thank you for the fun little tips, my finger hurts though
I have been bee doing this FOREVER, like 20 years
Cuts off before you even get started on the actual applicatiin
your voice sounds like Abby Lee to me lol
I do that all the time
So excited to know you’re on KZread!!! I watch your content on Facebook & IG too! Great tips! Learning so much! 😊
Why would you learn to eat like a child? Pile all pieces on a fork? yeah not manners it’s just lazy
Lazy or efficient? Why go the long way? Why not make it even harder and and hold the fork and knife on one hand.
Y’all believe in manners? Nah, i feel like eating is the most important time of the day. Don’t be told how to eat. I chose not to push my chair in
So then, somebody else, probably the person who clears the table, if you're not at home( at home you should clear your own dishes) will have to move all the chairs back into place before even clearing. Or, if someone else wants to leave the table they have to move your chair , AND their own chair, before they can get away from the table. How HARD is it to move your chair back in?
You weren't told how to eat. You were told how to leave.
You tell em, Carla!
This is something we all need to hear. Honestly, we all probably agree on most things, it's just that the media outlets and politicians are trying their best to divide us. If you disagree with someone on something, that's perfectly fine; you're not going to agree with anyone on every single matter.
I've lived in America all my life and I've never ever seen anyone hold their fork in their off hand while using the knife, then switch back. Everyone I've ever known used the knife in their off hand always, so that the fork would stay in their dominant hand the whole time.
Always bring a cross body bag that you can actually adjust the bag in front of your body breast level. No one is going into your bag let alone steal it from you. If you leave it in your cart a person can pretend to need something reach over the cart unzip your purse and grab your wallet and you'll probably not notice your wallet is gone until you get to check out....... Be smarter than the thief always be aware of your surroundings and who is around you. If your constantly looking around looking at and judging people a thief is going to walk away from you to look for easier prey. I was with my elderly mother when I saw a man leaning over her cart. I walk up behind him and holler in his ear WHAT THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOUR DOING! HE JUMP SPUN AROUND SWEATING HIS ASS OFF. I was standing less then a foot away from him with a 6" blade knife in my hand. He was about to steal my mother's wallet. I told her to check her bag it was unzipped and her wallet was laying on the top of her bag. As we were close to check out I told the cashier to call the cops. The guy I told to interlace his fingers on top of his head and if he moved before the cops got there I would stab him in the heart. I touch his chest on his left side just under his nipple I then said just feeling so I land the blade between your ribs we Don't Want Bones Slowing Us Down. He of course turn ghostly white! He didn't even breath until the cops got there. He was arrested my hunting knife was perfectly legal to own and carry. I bet this punk thought of this incident every time he got the urge to steal from a little old lady especially if her very pissed off daughter knows what time it is! Would I have stabed the creep? Hell yes and because I had my favorite coat on and it would have been ruined I probably would have gutted him. Yuppers cut him from groin to sternum the same as I do deer! 🦌
just put it on you not that hard😊
Exactly 😊
I was doing that 40 years ago
That’s awesome!!
This is not a good idea people have started carrying razors to cut those straps so just keep your bag on your body
I’ve been doing this for years. But now I just wear a Crossbody bag. I gotta say Im Shocked when I see Dozens of People walk away from there Carts with their Handbags 👜 Unprotected. Sometimes there even Wide Open. Totally Baffling.🤔
Yes, yes been doing that for years!! Unfortunately our world has turned into some kind of free for all!!! SMH. BUT 100% you can never be to careful anymore ❤
My grandma taught me this 20 years ago, this is not a new thing 😂
Love that!
Instead they will.take the cart, genius 😅
Or you can wear your bag the whole time. It’s not groundbreaking. 😑
Totally can! I just prefer not to have it on :)
I did that and someone tried to take my cart. He acted like it was a mistake
Oh no!! Haha
But you got your bag back right ?
Been doing that for years. Nothing new
Cool
I like to eat in the bathroom😢
Yup! An acquaintance mom is a travel agent. I asked her a question about travel, she knows we can purchase everything on military bases. She still hasn't answered me. 😕
33 years old having grown up in New Zealand and Australia, I only just learnt the 'correct' ways to eat, and they make no fkn sense to me. 1. American way - why would you swap the fork to the other hand? It seems annoying when you could just keep it in the same hand! 2. The British way - you're piling the food onto the fork while the concave is upsidedown. It's going to fall off. Turn it over! 3. Assuming she's right-handed and using the knife in her dominant hand. Why? Surely the fork is the primary utencil here. I am super uncoordinated using the fork in the other hand. IMO, the concave of the fork has the added benefit of spoon-like abilities, and the dominant hand should be using the primary utencil, the fork. All this proper ettiquette seems like nothing but pure wank.
As a Mexican idk, tortilla
Just wanted to make sure I was doing it correct... thanks...❤💯🏆
Lol all these rules ! Just put the food in your mouth and be thankful
what if you are right handed or left handed?