I'm Jay, I use he/him pronouns, and I'm 20 years old. I'm a gay trans guy from Ireland who makes videos about transitioning, being trans, LGBT topics, and sometimes other stuff!
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Im a closeted trans guy with a big chest. My mom knows that my chest causes me problems with confidence so if I could somehow convince her I could be able to get a binder without her knowing I’m trans.
is 11 (almost 12) too young? My parents know I’m gender fluid but I’m still scared what they will think if I tell them I want a binder. Idk what size and I’m worried I’ll do it wrong. My chest is a bit big for my age but I’m still kinda young. what are some recommend brands for me?
What I did is ask for one for a cosplay. My mom always knew I cosplayed and I had a convention coming up and I found one on Amazon that was specifically marked as a “cosplay binder” (I do not recommend binding with anything that’s not from a good site, but it was my first one). This worked for me so maybe if you cosplay and your parents know you can get one that way, or around Halloween for a costume. Hope this helps!
I been telling my parents I want chest surgery because my chest feels to “heavy”(I’m a closeted TransMale) but I’m also cutting my hair soon, if I tell my parents I want a binder,my parents and sister might get suspicious with my decisions on what I’m doing with my body heh-
Oh you poor baby you got misgendered, while people like me suffer from REAL depression because we've seen people with their limbs blown off and people who have been shot in the face. YOU DON'T KNOW A REAL DEPRESSION OR A REAL HORRIBLE LIFE. SO STOP CRYING AND WHINING.
Im 13 and i came out as trans but my mom forgets i am and i dont know how to process human words so i dont know how to ask for a binder. So this video helps 👍
Eating someoone for dinner Is SICK
My Name is Anthony/Ant and I keep trying to ask my mom for a binder but she keeps saying "it's to dangerous and will cause cancer" she is pretty supportive but when it comes to binding it's a whole thing so if someone, anyone can help me by typing some reasons I should be able to bind I will copy and send it to my mom. Please someone help!! Please🙏
first off, (ik im 6 months late) binding does not cause any health problems unless you bind for too long. also, binding can help with gender dysphoria A LOT, which could lower anxiety levels tremendously (if you struggle with that). I also just wanna say that Ant is such a cute nickname
this videos been a huge help, big thanks man. hoping that this'll get me closer to getting testosterone sooner, especially with me already being 16 for a month exactly now :)
How can a non binary person be so transphobic. Thats unfortunate.
Transsexuals and transvestite are not interchangeable. I think that's why people think it's problematic. Also, the movie was remade, but I haven't seen it.
People under the age of 18 should not be able to get HRT or cosmetic surgery.
Is it transphobic, 😂. It's a celebration of transgenderism. 😂 transvestite was like negro, its just the older term.
I actually think the film is highly persceptive. Firstly Richard O'Brien IS a transwoman. Secondly the film is about what happens when white picket fence people visit LGBT spaces which views to experiment. Which is both the negative and positive experiences. The cast was FULL of LGBT actors.
The creator is literally a known transphobe (yes trans people can also be transphobic), and the whole white picket fence people seeing lgbt people for the first time would be an interesting premise IF the people writing the lgbt people didn't have the exact same views and biases regarding the lgbt pepole as the white picket fence people basically there's no nuance or lesson leard for the straight people because any bad ideas they had about gay people where confirmed when they met a band of murderous deviant rapists running around in drag! That is not highly perspective
richard o brien the creator is a trans woman not nonbinary. she is not transphobic many transwomen don't feel like they are women. IN fact some of them feel THAT Is transphobic to think they have to be women to be accepted as trans.
hey idk if this will get a response cuz im a little late to the party lol but i was wondering is this information still relevant? tysm=]
Just need to point out, Transexual is a planet, not a person.
Exactly. People don't know that.
I’m agender and I’m really uncomfortable with my chest because men stare at me creepily and I hate it. It makes me uncomfortable and self conscious. I don’t even like to send pictures to my partner because of this reason. Growing up I was always told to be more like my sister and I hated that being told that now is a trigger for me and now she won’t call me what I want to be call. She just calls me “Bug” “boo boo” and “buggie” I HATE it and she still does it. She won’t stop doing it either no matter how many times I correct her.
But I would like to have all the information that you have available on binding
I FINALLY have enough money to buy a binder, and now I just need to ask my mom 😅
l that way then you would understand that it was more about them and superficial reasons than anything. they’re not happy because of how their transition turned out because they felt like they turned away from religion or found religion because they felt they were a disappointment to their family friends and children because they were not comfortable living their truth in public because they wasn’t passable etc. some of these people do it as a trend some of them are also pure pressured into it I do believe some of them are mentally disturbed and there are even some that was experimenting and playing around with clothes and hair and they felt they looked at better as a female or a male and or enjoyed the attention and sexual opportunities they did not previously have before transitioning or trying to transition I don’t believe in most cases children should be able to transition and I also know that some parents Press and encourage their children to transition for multiple reasons they do a lot of programming and coaching etc.
Hello!! So I’m turning 13,and I want a binder Cuz I’m non-binary and I perfer to have a flat chest,I wanna feel more comfortable in my body,my mother knows I am non-binary I am also currently talking on my granny’s account so, But I just don’t like that I have a feminine chest,so I wanna change it
I love xenogenders
You don’t look like a boy, you look like a girl who is just butch! Like you said, you have breast and a vagina so a straight woman not wanting to date you should be for obvious reasons! If someone doesn’t feel comfortable dating someone who once was a man or a woman, that person shouldn’t be labeled as transphobic 🙄
Hi hope you're well, I think that as you are so invested in this issue that you are too close to see the bigger picture . All people apart from the desperate select dates . They tend to be less selective foe just sex dates but for serious relationships much more so. Just look at the data on swipes on dating sites . Short none good looking men with low status occupations are out on the cold . Why should trans people be exempt from this. The fact that you were born one sex and now identity as another is a prity big thing . How many people would want to buy into the baggage that brings .
You DO look like a BOY but unfortunately not a man and that seems to be the case for most FTM folks. 😞 It’s not to be offensive it’s just my observation as a pansexual lady. I do not agree that cis women don’t want to date trans men bc of any “sweeping statements” or assumptions like “they all have boobs/vaginas” it’s more that they prefer natural men, biological, cis men. Trans men ARE male but they are not nor will they ever be born as males and that happens to be the preference of most women who do not want to date trans men. It’s NOT transphobic, there’s no assumptions, there’s no irrational fear, there’s no prejudice or premature judgements. It is simply they want men who were BORN male.
I'm going to try my bday is coming up ^^
Well cisphobia do exist facts...!! Like transphobia exists facts...!!
I am cisphopic 😋😋😋
Neither exist
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My,my how you women hate yourselves That you'll do anything to "become" men
Not at all excluding trans women Ronaldo is ftm Sterling is ftm Kane is ftm Messi is ftm
And theres lots more
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS! I’m non-binary and have been feeling super uncomfortable about my body for a pretty long time now. After watching this, I’m hoping to work up the courage to ask my mom for a binder…I guess we’ll see how it goes. Again tho, thank you so much! <3
asked my mom for a binder and she started crying its over
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Yo, what don't you understand. What if a MAN, not a transwoman, put on a ton of makeup to the point where they looked very "feminine", a straight man might be attracted to certain qualities of them, doesn't mean they want to FUCK THEM, because they are not GAY! Not everything you are ATTRACTED TO, means you want to have SEX with them! If the knowledge of a trans person once being a man or a woman influences their choices on whether to have SEX or a RELATIONSHIP with someone, that is FINE Also a surgically made vagina is not the same as a real vagina, it's not transphobic to want to have to deal with it. As long as you are not hateful towards that person it is FINE! I'd also not want date or have sex with a natural born WOMAN who was not TRANS (they identified as a woman) getting a surgical PENIS... if they then turned said penis back INTO a surgical vagina, I'd still not want to have sex with them, ok?
my parents won't get me a binder how do I get one without them noticing
If u have money and u have Walmart around you. They can give u a visa card and then they'll not be able to keep track of your order
Hello! Small question, Is there an age-limit for a binder? I’m 12 almost 13 and i’m not sure if i’m too young to get a binder or not. But binding would make me so much happier, I have been so dysphoric because of my chest recently, to the point where i’m crying in the mirror every day. I Have a brother in-law that has fully transitioned already that I can talk to, but i’m scared to ask him as well, since i’m scared what he will say. So, does anyone know if there is a recommended age limit for a binder?
I don't think there is, actually! I know some 11 year olds who wear binders!
@@foreverdazed thank you! I actually have one coming in the mail now, so i’m really excited :)
@@Sleepyyy6 Omg!! I'm so happy for youu! <3 (I'm gonna talk to my mom about getting one soon! I hope it goes well :D)
@@foreverdazed ty! and good luck <33
@@Sleepyyy6 Tysm and np <3
Richard O'Brein identifies as trans, it should be important to point out
That still changes nothing about the fact, that he is/was transphobic.
@@korallenkopp no he isn't. A trans person Speaking on differences aren't transphobic. That's ridiculous
@@korallenkopp He has NEVER been transphobic and always been a keen supporter of LGBT
@silverkitty2503 he has openly said that he agrees with and has defended the phrase trans women aren't women, which whilst yes everyone knows trans women are not identical to biological women that doesn't mean you have to defend a term that constantly points it out, and only hurts trans women when you say it, so yes he is transphobic
@@crowing3886he has openly said that he agrees with and has defended the phrase trans women aren't women, which whilst yes everyone knows trans women are not identical to biological women that doesn't mean you have to defend a term that constantly points it out, and only hurts trans women when you say it, so yes he is transphobic
If trans people can choose who they date, why can't straight people?
O'Brian has publicly said multiple times that trans women are not women