The Coffee Breakup

The Coffee Breakup

Not just any podcast but rather THE Relationship advice podcast. Hosted by Christian Viera and Marvin Scholz. Here we break down all the ins and outs of modern dating. No lies, no deception, just pure genuine discussions about dating as a whole. From mental health, jealousy, insecurities to heartbreak, we cover it all. Join us on this journey to become better individuals, not just for our partners, but also for ourselves.

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  • @CookieDoughVA
    @CookieDoughVA2 сағат бұрын

    i call cap on the Billionare part because germany has really high taxes

  • @janellbazile782
    @janellbazile78213 сағат бұрын

    You’re right Sis. Those girls are only thinking about tonight.

  • @yugtandel8670
    @yugtandel867017 сағат бұрын

    If you want open relationship than start a business, Don't Marry Anyone

  • @thefuckthehelloff
    @thefuckthehelloff21 сағат бұрын

    As a guy that has just read half the messages she sent to a guy for 6 years. It’s simple you tell her what she wants to hear and if she’s a 2 faced cheating whore she will bash her husband slightly at first but you gotta act like the nice guy the whole time and listen to her stupid story’s…. You will get in it’s just time then she will ruin her life and her child’s Congrats

  • @NathanStric
    @NathanStricКүн бұрын

    Im 33 an someone at my work is 46 an she thinks im cute but i feel that is to much for me i wont be 40 until seven years I just dont know about that

  • @parkservice6293
    @parkservice6293Күн бұрын

    Dont listen to this guys advice. He will be your drain.

  • @parkservice6293
    @parkservice6293Күн бұрын

    Rich cooper in unplugged alpha talks about this

  • @parkservice6293
    @parkservice6293Күн бұрын

    Being a man is all about providing.

  • @kristianhearn1905
    @kristianhearn1905Күн бұрын

    God Bless y’all

  • @Coloradical_
    @Coloradical_Күн бұрын

    It's half your age +7

  • @fairyqueen222
    @fairyqueen222Күн бұрын

    Excellent this greek guy❤

  • @Love-bo3df
    @Love-bo3dfКүн бұрын

    Exactly how it should be, a marriage is a team and each must play their part on the team. My husband never came through the door without me greeting him and giving him a kiss hello. Dinner was served every night at 5pm in the winter and 6pm in the summer (his preference). The house was kept immaculate. I handled the finances of the household and he handled the investments for the family. He was given 1/2 hour to himself when he got home from work to deflate from his day and 1 day every weekend to himself. We had company over and I handled everything we would need to ensure a good time was had by all. He handled the yard work not including the flowerbeds (that was my outside hobby). This balance was healthy and kept our passion for one another alive. He has now passed, God bless him

  • @JustMe54328
    @JustMe54328Күн бұрын

    Lack of self-control and commitment makes a human less desirable to a human who has values

  • @ricardocamarinha4897
    @ricardocamarinha48972 күн бұрын

    She is absolutly honest!

  • @GmAditya-gk3pf
    @GmAditya-gk3pf2 күн бұрын

    18÷2=9+10=19 ,girl will be 1 year bigger than me

  • @MelissaLona
    @MelissaLona2 күн бұрын

    I've never liked a guy that did less. Smh. This is just bad advice. I just ended things with a guy that did less because what would I want a man that seems less interested in me. The guy I'm talking to now text often, make plans, shows interest. Smh y'all gonna keep these men single.

  • @jahlilsmith1209
    @jahlilsmith12092 күн бұрын

    Thank you 👏👏👏 these women think that you gotta take them to an expensive restaurant on the first date

  • @everythingman798
    @everythingman7982 күн бұрын

    Kids humble men so we don't go off the deep end. I feel more sorry for people with no kids

  • @NatileNative
    @NatileNative2 күн бұрын

    It does affect your life span if <>2 yrs. Fact.

  • @Mickeyclausevr
    @Mickeyclausevr2 күн бұрын

    12 and 16

  • @JosephAdams93
    @JosephAdams932 күн бұрын

    “I don’t have much in common with 20 year old women “ Oh okay so 28 year old women are all talking philosophy and science then? Get real- they’re all 14 deep down!

  • @SS0895
    @SS0895Күн бұрын

    Most mature comment here. All these “nothing in common” guys are outing themselves as virgins. If you talk to a 30 or 40 year old woman any differently than an 18 year old woman you have zero game

  • @joycebuela937
    @joycebuela9372 күн бұрын

    People in my elementary school date when there grade 2-grade 4...

  • @shenronguimeli2044
    @shenronguimeli20443 күн бұрын

    How about fuck you're emotions fuck your instincts if you think Cheating is the only option you have leave the relationship with some fucking dignity

  • @sava898
    @sava8983 күн бұрын

    Cheating is cheating. Whether it be physical or otherwise. In my opinion, emotional cheating hurts worse. Because there's that connection there versus the situation being just a one and done (even though that's still bad on its own, I'm not dismissing that). Especially when it's an ex. So, it's important to set boundaries when talking to someone outside of a relationship so no one ends up cheating.

  • @timothyluna9725
    @timothyluna97253 күн бұрын

    What was her research

  • @jtuneddc5428
    @jtuneddc54283 күн бұрын

    It’s half your age plus 7. Not 10

  • @jvo3777
    @jvo37773 күн бұрын

    John 3:16-18 (KJV) For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life. For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.

  • @1brytol
    @1brytol3 күн бұрын

    The formula for the Argentinan guy doesn't work, because, surprise surprise, some men prefer older women

  • @konsyansnou8623
    @konsyansnou86234 күн бұрын

    I heard the formula is your age divided by 2 + 7 ...🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @quietboy4575
    @quietboy45754 күн бұрын

    🫵👊💌

  • @alexandereisen3486
    @alexandereisen34864 күн бұрын

    If a woman cheats, the first question a man asks is “did you F him?” When a man cheats the first question a woman asks is “do you love her?”

  • @dolorescdelgado3147
    @dolorescdelgado31474 күн бұрын

    👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

  • @ron1183
    @ron11834 күн бұрын

    No it's not weird.

  • @Micahishere13
    @Micahishere134 күн бұрын

    It’s the maturity gap. A 10 year old is not nearly as mature as a 20 year old. A 30 year old isn’t very much more immature then 40 year old so it’s less weird. They’ve got to know things that you learn at certain stages of life.

  • @benpeterson7530
    @benpeterson75304 күн бұрын

    I believe height is just the easiest thing to look at for how formidable a guy is. Thinking about what should a woman be instinctively attracted to, it comes down to who is the baddest MFer for every other mammal. Who wins the fight literally is who they mate with. The buck that defeats his his challengers has does in different area codes. Since at this point in human history, physical fights are fairly rare, how it appears the man would do in a fight becomes important. It just turns out on average taller men are actually more formidable in a fight, but it isn't the end all be all. Mike Tyson is 5'10", but looks like a scary MFer even if you didn't know he was a legendary boxer. I would guess he is seen as above average by women. As alluded to in the video, width is attractive to women (given it isn't just width from being fat). Width sends a strong message that the guy will do fairly well in combat, that that man is capable of defending her if need be.

  • @strivefor25
    @strivefor254 күн бұрын

    Agree!! Going through this and figuring out right now

  • @brandiwestmoreland1466
    @brandiwestmoreland14665 күн бұрын

    I am 50 and he is 38 we have been together for 3 years...best relationship i have ever been in

  • @bigtimenative4057
    @bigtimenative40575 күн бұрын

    If you got it like that, then you just got it like that. If you’re a 35-40 year old man and younger women (20-25) find you attractive, by all means do what you do king. Not everyone has that privilege.

  • @fuhyou3223
    @fuhyou32235 күн бұрын

    20 and 10 is an absolute RIDICULOUS statement. I don’t even know why he said that!! There’s talks of ten year age gaps and oh if they’re “consenting adults” it doesn’t matter. NONSENSE. LEGALLY someone in their 60’s should NOT have sexual access to 18 year olds. IDGAF what anyone says. I just think that’s wrong. Just as long as you’re 18 you’ve got free range to date or sleep with someone in their 70’s or OLDER. If you’re in your 50’s you can so the deed with someone that’s 20. I don’t know why the government allows it. They don’t mind sticking their nose in your business when it suits them but that’s ok. The same government that tells you, you can’t buy sex or narcotics. The same government that says you have to be 21 to smoke now. The same government that lets kids consume all the sugar they want and lets overweight people stuff their faces in buffets all day. America has been a joke for DECADES.👎🏾👎🏾

  • @draclejandro4574
    @draclejandro45745 күн бұрын

    WOMEN DON'T CHEAT THEY BETRAY!...

  • @holographic555
    @holographic5555 күн бұрын

    Maturity. Life experience too. My person is stoic for sure. I hit the jackpot. We are in our 30s/40s

  • @kingojugo
    @kingojugo5 күн бұрын

    She kept it real

  • @user-sw4yx6pd6p
    @user-sw4yx6pd6p5 күн бұрын

    Acceptable age gap is legal adult age in your local area + The number of years it takes this girl to not be an immature brat. Some girls that is 18, other girls it is 38.

  • @Lisa-mg5tk
    @Lisa-mg5tk6 күн бұрын

    Betrayal is the worst emotionally form of pain

  • @AlgebralienSix
    @AlgebralienSix6 күн бұрын

    My parents have a 10 year age gap too

  • @IsaiahKing-kx7jk
    @IsaiahKing-kx7jk6 күн бұрын

    Bernie Mac was racing kids that wasn't his stay woke watch the Bernie Mac sho

  • @TheMyroziah
    @TheMyroziah6 күн бұрын

    Is a 39 year old woman dating a 30 year old guy weird?

  • @milasyt
    @milasyt6 күн бұрын

    "Instinctual" By that logic a woman cheating with a "bigger stronger man who can protect her" is also just "instinctual" We are human beings who are not enslaved by "instincts" unless we're pathetic, weak or selfish people trying to legitimized abusing a partner as if biology makes it "reasonable". Fuck off with that shit.

  • @vlogswfay
    @vlogswfay7 күн бұрын

    Erm a boy I like is 19 so im just waiting till im 18 so its not that weird😭 hes gonna be 28

  • @tmo1196
    @tmo11967 күн бұрын

    28 divided by 2 =14 then add 10 is 24 that’s how old my dude is now and it’s not working so that’s some sucky advice 🤦🏾‍♀️