Talks With TJ

Talks With TJ

Let's talk personal financial and consumer behavior, centered around sneakers, how I choose to style them and our shared passion for them.

On the channel I unbox kicks (fewer than I have in the past as I've slowed down in buying), style some fits and still keep the future in mind. A budget can help you Save money, make Extra debt payments and Treat yourself to sneakers, clothes or whatever you love.

If you would like a copy of my free eBook, How to Build a SET Budget: Living for Today and Planning for Tomorrow, While Enjoying the Little Things, email me at [email protected]

Thanks for tuning in and talking with TJ.

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  • @premium7182
    @premium71824 минут бұрын

    I buy maybe 3-5 pairs a year... so far ive gotten 3 pairs this year and will grab a pair this weekend ... 😂 might end up at 6 or 7.... next year im not buying anything

  • @brandondesean
    @brandondeseanСағат бұрын

    Proud to have no self control. I worked for it first. 😬😂 ima dunk low/Jordan 4 ADDICT and i wont stop. Im on these shoes like Diddy on an up and coming entertainer. Cant stop wont stop 😂😂😂 im jk jk

  • @bostonfromthebronx9206
    @bostonfromthebronx92063 сағат бұрын

    Those pants are dope....

  • @postman8379
    @postman83793 сағат бұрын

    The TJ interventions hit different 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @BTNH_NiNJA
    @BTNH_NiNJA11 сағат бұрын

    Dope review, just ordered mine online as they're still sitting on sale #Subscribed 💜💛

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Thanks for the sub!

  • @HarshToorPB10
    @HarshToorPB1011 сағат бұрын

    I have white green 🤞🏻

  • @Paulettesgrandson
    @Paulettesgrandson13 сағат бұрын

    Are the cargoes for men too? If so, link plz? 😎🤝

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    The cargos are men's/unisex. They are sold out I believe buy the brand is Richie Le Collection

  • @ClearSmoke100
    @ClearSmoke10016 сағат бұрын

    It's made for me 6'2"and 220+ lbs bodybuilder. i love the fit of these items 😍. 90% of luxury brands i can't fit in. So i love these items.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Enjoy!!

  • @pancakesforresell
    @pancakesforresell16 сағат бұрын

    I went a half size down and the heel slippage is just terrible honestly. The tongue being so loose is actually a problem for me. Shoe is so fire tho, unfortunate. Great review

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Sorry to hear

  • @kevinbee3570
    @kevinbee357016 сағат бұрын

    Legendary as usual

  • @SonGoku-rc9hb
    @SonGoku-rc9hb18 сағат бұрын

    Damn TJ is Fine Fine!! 😩

  • @oneildanvel4846
    @oneildanvel484622 сағат бұрын

    Good content need more content with dressing with what you got

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    I'm happy with the level of content that's released in fits 🤙🏽 appreciate you watching

  • @flameshot12021
    @flameshot1202123 сағат бұрын

    Im just glad i'm not paying ridiculous resell prices anymore. But I do wish JB would slow down on the releases but I get it. I honestly think JB wants everybody to have a pair but sheesh.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    They're just looking to increase their top like revenue, just business, I think

  • @MrKGizzle51
    @MrKGizzle51Күн бұрын

    COVID is the cause behind this because everything shut down and resellers were stealing all the GRs and people were desperate just to get that Got Em message.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    Which is still on consumers to address why they can't live without that screen

  • @MrKGizzle51
    @MrKGizzle5122 сағат бұрын

    @TalksWithTJ they needed that quick hit of dopamine ☠️☠️☠️ I guess they wanted to be a part of the culture 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Mekonnect
    @MekonnectКүн бұрын

    Have you still been buying NKE Stock?

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    I shifted to buying more index funds most of last year before their stock even dipped. Individual stocks are a small part of my portfolio, partly for this reason. My adidas is outperforming Nike naturally because I bought in at $55/share before they even parted with Ye.

  • @Mekonnect
    @Mekonnect2 сағат бұрын

    @@TalksWithTJthat’s a bet, I was just wondering since you mentioned you bought them awhile ago. I always invested in the ETFs and Indexes.

  • @bren70403
    @bren70403Күн бұрын

    You are correct on so many level’s

  • @walkman6150
    @walkman6150Күн бұрын

    Bring everything back that people want. Let them enjoy the things you enjoy. Hoarding a collection and then getting angry that peasants who actually use the product are driving down your trophies value, is bizarre elitist behavior.

  • @vic_scott7087
    @vic_scott7087Күн бұрын

    The reality check for me earlier this year was real. Coming to the realization that no one at work really cares what “heat” I’m wearing with my suit. And also, I only go into the office twice a week and the rest of the time I keep the same 3-4 pairs in my daily rotation. I can love the artistry from afar without getting caught up in hype. And I agree, the fear of not having content that will reach the mass audience is scary for some. Much appreciation to you for taking extra steps to make meaningful content.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    That realization makes all the sense for you and I would have come to the same conclusion. I appreciate the positive feedback as well.

  • @rabarberellum1017
    @rabarberellum1017Күн бұрын

    The whole glue-stain seems to me nitpicking by people who can’t stand it that it isn’t a Jordan/Nike shoe. All of a sudden you here this echo everywhere on KZread. Quite remarkable. Let’s remind this is a shoe of 110 dollar, not a Lebron of 180. And it’s equally good in performing and better looking.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    There are entire videos of me returning Jordans because of poor quality on my channel. Both Jordan 12s.

  • @playingindies6730
    @playingindies6730Күн бұрын

    This year I even went as far as returning shoes for not looking or fitting as expected. Like one where the leather was all wrinkled and the shoe hadnt even left the box yet And less orders as a whole. Like for the 990v6, I want a pair. I have seen some colorways I would want. But I have also seen them go on sale in a few stores here. So hopefully one of the colorways I wishlisted will appear in one of those sales soon. They go from 250 to 160 euros and it seems to happen to most colorways. For now I haven't bought any pair in 2 months or so But some pairs I bought during winter and spring were really not meant for the weather we had then and are excellent now. I tried to get a pair of Vomero 5 in a certain colorway, couldn't find it for retail in my size. Couldn't find any other colorway that was nice enough and therefor didn't order them. I have a friend that has a slightly smaller foot than me. I had some pairs of Forums that were unwearable for me, I dont even know why but they fit me terrible. He was very happy to have them 💪🏻

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    I hope the 990v6 you want goes on sale for sure, wearing a pair right now. And paying it forward with your sneakers to friends is always a good move.

  • @playingindies6730
    @playingindies67305 сағат бұрын

    @@TalksWithTJ it will all be good 💪🏻

  • @KevinChinn88
    @KevinChinn88Күн бұрын

    I LOVE this type of sneaker content. TJ you’re becoming one of my favorite sneaker KZreadrs. Please keep this up. It will change some of the buying madness for those that watch. I only buy what I love, and I plan to get many wears out of everything I buy. Internet Hype means nothing to me. I personally was hyped about the Nike Air Max Sunder returning. I’m so glad I got my canyon gold pair. I look at them every other day and it still puts a smile on my face. They are hitting the pavement this week! No I don’t need every color. I’m happy with just one. I wonder, do any of you guys have “sneaker time” at home? lol because I love footwear so much, at times I’ll go into my collection, pull out a few pairs, and just admire the craftsmanship, colorway, details, etc. I don’t need new pairs to do this and keep me appreciative. Thank you Jesus for all that I have (and don’t have)! God bless anyone reading this “essay” and God bless your channel TJ! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    Thank you so much for the kind words. Truly appreciate it. I'm never sure if it will change anyone's mind but if it's helpful for people to get to a place where they're buying less so they can enjoy what they have and use those funds for other things, that's a good outcome. I can't say that I have sneaker time at home but I think it's important to enjoy more of what we have and if we get in something new, be mindful of how large that collection may be growing. God bless!!!

  • @KevinChinn88
    @KevinChinn888 сағат бұрын

    @@TalksWithTJ Amen. I’ve had to let a few pairs go too (I do wish I had the strength to let more of them go, honestly lol) but younger me wanted to keep EVERYTHING; and I used to buy certain pairs just because. Not anymore. A shoe has to “speak to me” as you can say lol 😂 Thanks for your reply and have a great, blessed day!

  • @imdoinbttrthnu
    @imdoinbttrthnuКүн бұрын

    Sea Salt doesn’t look like the sea salt I’ve been seeing 🤔

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    There's an actual Sea Salt and a newer Off White/Sea Salt. Not the same colorways but similar names and different release dates

  • @danielherrera3104
    @danielherrera3104Күн бұрын

    I really love to hear you. You always have something clever to say. Big fan, T.J.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @IWantMyVisionBack
    @IWantMyVisionBackКүн бұрын

    3-5 pairs a month?! How can people afford Rent/mortgage on that type of budget???

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    I can see it two ways. Yes this is a great question. If someone's fixed expenses are low relative to their income, then they may be able to do this, as I would buy 2-3 pairs a month in the past. Now people could also not have a lot of disposable income and still buy a lot by putting it on a CC, letting interest build which isn't smart. And some don't care, they just want what they want. I'll say this, not everyone is struggling right now and that's awesome to know. But some could be because of their sneaker buying habits.

  • @Lance4123
    @Lance4123Күн бұрын

    That hoodie 🔥

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ22 сағат бұрын

    🙏🏽🇺🇲🏀

  • @SuperRellman
    @SuperRellmanКүн бұрын

    LOVE THE BRAIDS ❤

  • @timscott5581
    @timscott5581Күн бұрын

    Nicely done . Nice knees & legs.. Sexy TJ. 🎉

  • @Bruhda1
    @Bruhda1Күн бұрын

    Nice review but what do you think about the new Air Jordan 39 they look nice also.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    I think they look OK, I'm not crazy over them

  • @Bruhda1
    @Bruhda13 сағат бұрын

    @@TalksWithTJ My exact thoughts on them also🤷🏿‍♂️

  • @pkamvp
    @pkamvpКүн бұрын

    Hope it stays dry and scares people off. Haven’t paid resale for a sneaker this year and it’s nice. I’m only going to try and buy only two more sneakers this year; mocha low and bc3 (maybe)

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Good luck with the 2 more pairs, hope you secure them and buying retail is always a win

  • @jimy0803
    @jimy0803Күн бұрын

    TJ, with her smile and well-thought out fits, is certainly photogenic! 😉

  • @supervillain2674
    @supervillain2674Күн бұрын

    I’m still faded off my AE 1 low 🤤🤤🤤 still .. next fix will be Mocha lows 💉🤤🤤

  • @mikejawoski5904
    @mikejawoski5904Күн бұрын

    Buying BTC instead of every release is the way

  • @ShortChizel31
    @ShortChizel31Күн бұрын

    When I do cut down. Which I have slightly and also sold some pairs. But I’m not selling no OG models. To me that’s the point of collecting and why I started collecting.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJКүн бұрын

    Do what makes sense to you, for some OGs aren't the end all be all

  • @cutup1
    @cutup1Күн бұрын

    Less is More TJ. You have to have a certain mindset to comprehend that statement, and appreciate the wisdom within applying it to your everyday life. ✨️

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    I agree and it takes some of us a while to get there but once we do I think it does wonders.

  • @AP32
    @AP32Күн бұрын

    This is spot on. I took a challenge with a friend and went 6 months without buying a pair of sneakers. I learned a valuable lesson about unnecessary spending. I'm typing this with a big wall of sneakers behind me of which some have never hit pavement. We've got to do better.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    We have GOT to better. I felt so guilty deciding to wear certain shoes and realizing I hadn't really worn them since I did an unboxing at pickup because I have so many, working them into rotation felt next to impossible. I'm committing to getting rid of even more pairs this year.

  • @premium7182
    @premium71828 минут бұрын

    😂😂😂

  • @SpiritualShoesReviews
    @SpiritualShoesReviewsКүн бұрын

    You’re delivering us TJ‼️

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Lol I appreciate you!

  • @ddtvhenderson3285
    @ddtvhenderson3285Күн бұрын

    I went to Europe and Africa this year from buying less sneakers

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    LIFE experiences and memories!

  • @airsakuragi2542
    @airsakuragi2542Күн бұрын

    Sneakers are not “dry”, the reason some individuals are into sneakers (resale and chasing exclusivity) is “dry”. I’m really excited for the later half of 2024 and 2025 because of the releases that have been rumored. I don’t care about resale or the exclusivity; I just want to wear nice shoes and look amazing while doing it!

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Facts! There are so many options, and many of them aren't at $200 either so it's easier on pickets. Enjoy your pairs and wishing you luck on those pickups.

  • @ItsVictoriaG
    @ItsVictoriaGКүн бұрын

    Needed this because I love my Jordan 34 Jason Tatum Zoo but I always feel like such a dork trying to wear them with anything.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Don't feel that way, rock them and make it your own, or hell, use this as a template.

  • @keithwarren2226
    @keithwarren2226Күн бұрын

    Dope video TJ stealing that hoodie big time 😮😊😂

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Get your own lol it's steal his hoodie

  • @keithwarren2226
    @keithwarren22262 сағат бұрын

    @@TalksWithTJ I don’t know but turn about is fair play 😂🤣😂

  • @marvinpoindexter6578
    @marvinpoindexter6578Күн бұрын

    In the process of trying to cut down to 20 pairs. Daunting but much needed for me🥴😅🤣. Meanwhile that “need” of wanting to cop something keeps kicking in. Pairs like the Vans Knu Skool or the ASICS gel nimbus 9 keep coming to mind even though they’re sitting. It’s the urge. Trying to remain disciplined is hard but yet weird especially when they are pairs I haven’t gotten to yet.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    I totally get the pull for the Vans Knu Skool. Many people know how much I love that shoe. What if you got down to 19 pairs, and once you did, the Knu Skool was added to the collection as the 20th pair?

  • @bdove2007
    @bdove2007Күн бұрын

    I just have to say how incredibly beautiful you look with the braids ma’am. Puts your face in the perfect frame

  • @speaker_vibes
    @speaker_vibesКүн бұрын

    This is why I’m just purchasing shoes I really want now. There are a couple of sneaker I got this year that I literally will just give away because I know I’m just not going to wear them. Why did I buy them in the first place??? The pictures and commentary got me hype 😅

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    JOIN THE CLUB!!!! I have sneakers I purchased last year, over the last few and even had only for projects, just to realize, I am NOT wearing these shoes like that. So close friends and their kids are having an early Christmas. A lot of them will be donated before the year ends as well but it's time to let these things go.

  • @johnsmith-ff4zu
    @johnsmith-ff4zuКүн бұрын

    This is facts. Now a days, I just look at like, the releases don’t hit like they used to. But it’s others types of shoes like new balance, ASICS, Nike venenos. Have all had fire releases.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    OPTIONS!

  • @bhill005
    @bhill005Күн бұрын

    Meanwhile, I got a “Got ‘em” screen for the first time ever this past Saturday. I guess it’s because things are kinda dry now. I’m happy, though😂

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    LOL enjoy your pair

  • @budgetsneakerh3ad
    @budgetsneakerh3adКүн бұрын

    Another W content! 👏🏾 I've been thinking about expanding the Adidas pairs in the collection. Thanks!

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Thank you! I think adidas has been doing some great things.

  • @SouthsideJOjo
    @SouthsideJOjo2 күн бұрын

    This is a real vid. We need more convos like this. Social media blurs the line of reality and fantasy.

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ3 сағат бұрын

    Thank you! And I think we need FAR more convos like this in sneakers.

  • @chitown702
    @chitown7022 күн бұрын

    From 1985-'2224' imo makes a "gym shoe" lol 😅 a hit is materials, shape, comfort, and price point. For me...🤷🏿‍♂️✊🏿✊🏿💯

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ2 сағат бұрын

    Lol we definitely called them gym shoes growing up

  • @chitown702
    @chitown7022 сағат бұрын

    @@TalksWithTJ tell em bout it 😅 and how about this one. Do you remember walking in the mall with your parents or very early teens with your first check and copping gym shoes and either leaving the whole box or putting the old gym shoes on feet in the box and walking out the mall fresh 2 Def with the latest J's on or whatever your new gym shoe choice was

  • @day8day
    @day8day2 күн бұрын

    there are pros and cons compared to the mids… much better fit than the mids but the tongue easily moves to the sides

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ2 сағат бұрын

    That's true on the tongue, I think a lot of people have an issue with that

  • @peuterovando2948
    @peuterovando29482 күн бұрын

    almost looks like camo wondering how Orange laces would look with these

  • @TalksWithTJ
    @TalksWithTJ2 сағат бұрын

    Might work, or maybe a coral lace