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  • @jorgealves8578
    @jorgealves85782 күн бұрын

    Dating is an Anglo-Saxon concept it doesn't work elsewhere!

  • @jcarlos8864
    @jcarlos88644 күн бұрын

    And there comes another foreigner, trying to teach us with their huge and infinite wisdom how we should live, according to their values.

  • @lingo4048
    @lingo404815 күн бұрын

    No idea why all these expats live in Lisbon since they stick to themselves and don't integrate. Truly pathetic.

  • @migueloliveira2848
    @migueloliveira284815 күн бұрын

    try living in Lisbon with 1000 euros and then we will talk.

  • @johnnydynamite6460
    @johnnydynamite646029 күн бұрын

    I lived in Lisbon for 4 years. Most old people barely make ends meet with pensions too low for basic expenses for those lucky enough to already own their apartment/houses, the other struggle to make rent after a life of hard work. Their children are faced with insane real instate inflation, completely dicconnected from wages progression. The young ones can't afford their own place; and a lot of the elders couldn't make it withour the help of their stil-at-home child.. I worked wit several people who could've afforded to leave home, but if they did they couldn't afford their own own rent and to keep paying part of their parents rent, which their parents couldn't cover on their own. They're abit ashamed of still being at their parents place, and the parents are ashamed of not being able to cover rent rent but feel better that they're at least able to provide for their children, and the children would feel selfish to just leave and let their parents struggle, and feel like they're at least helping them out despte stil being at home. It's kind of embarassing for both, everyone still makes the best of it and focuses of the good side of being together while avoiding the painful side of being co-dependant, it's a bit more complex and subtle that what's portrayed in the video

  • @Noah-yz7yx
    @Noah-yz7yx29 күн бұрын

    This video makes it seem that young portuguese people choose to live with their parents despite being adults because they value their family and specially their relationship with their mother, barely talking about the main reasons why that actually happens - low wages and really expensive cost of life (and on that matter, crazy expensive housing) 😐

  • @harryhenry3053
    @harryhenry3053Ай бұрын

    Why mama's boys? Is the situation different for girls?

  • @dodoreact
    @dodoreactАй бұрын

    Nice video!

  • @isanike
    @isanikeАй бұрын

    thanks a lot!

  • @vascofiuza5661
    @vascofiuza5661Ай бұрын

    She are saying, the girls have oney, and money, and money to leave the parents house earlier, in Portugal? Is that sexist?

  • @navboi12
    @navboi12Ай бұрын

    Bishes are odd creatures. They take issue in selecting a bachelor who's diligently saving up and meanwhile 'lives at home', whilst disregarding economic uncertainty/inflation etc., yet have no issue pursuing/taking married men and resultantly breaking marriages and family dynamics.

  • @goncaloaraujo6644
    @goncaloaraujo6644Ай бұрын

    its not a choice. The rent for a 1 bedroom apartment is higher than a software engineer income

  • @felineboy1586
    @felineboy1586Ай бұрын

    Whats wrong with that

  • @fuxkag3908
    @fuxkag3908Ай бұрын

    American culture is vastly different You are expected to move out at 20 Then theres also the fact some people have good but very unhealthy relationships with their mothers

  • @user-do2nv4iz7e
    @user-do2nv4iz7eАй бұрын

    Egyptian men are mummy boys

  • @justagxrl
    @justagxrlАй бұрын

    💀

  • @rodrigolemos4832
    @rodrigolemos4832Ай бұрын

    Other than what has been said, which I think is totally correct (the socio-economic problem), I think portuguese people get to establish better and deeper relationships with their parents, and I see that as a really good thing, because a lot of emotional intelligence problems people have nowadays come from a distant relationship with their family. Parents here are often also seen as friends, they're not "distant" like in other countries. Speaking for myself, I want to have independence to live with my girlfriend, but I don't want to live far away from my parents. Not because of necessity (I don't like the term "mama's boy" because it implies emotional dependence, which is a sign of immaturity and I don't think that's fair for every case), but because I really care about them and I willingly WANT them to be a part of my adult life, they're my friends. Wouldn't you want your friends to be close? Tbh I've reached a phase where I see them more like my friends than my parents, and I think that transition is super important in order for you to become an adult. Parenting is super important, but sometimes, if parents are reduced to the "functional" part of being a parent, you lose a big opportunity of establishing a better background for yourself and for your own happiness, because these people are the ones who taught you almost everything in life, and they are supposed to understand you better than anyone (except maybe your partner). Even though I think it's sad that we don't have the economic capacity to live on our own by an early age, I think living with the parents shouldn't be seen as a sign of immaturity. It really depends on the case, some people are immature, sure, but many others aren't, it really depends on the way you carry your life living at home. You can be proactive, working, helping at home and living in community, or you can be really lazy and avoid doing anything that takes work and perseverance. It's all about context and specific cases. :)

  • @FooFightersNerd21
    @FooFightersNerd21Ай бұрын

    It's a cultural and social-economic problem, imo. Portugal does not have a "Finance First" type of mindset. People are not encouraging other people to start companies, projects, or to be educated on finances/money overall, because the reality is a lot of burocracy to get small things done, a lot of time wasted, a lot of money spent, and only slight to non-existent evolution/improvement. That creates de-motivation, because things take so long to be done, in such a fast paced world we're currently living on. So, it seems that it originated a wave of apathy towards making money, and the people that do want to make money end up going to other European, Asian, American Countries where they can fulfill their needs. This might correlate to what happened next to the Economy of the Country. Portugal has "high taxes" compared to what people have as an income and house prices are through the roof, making it hard for, in this case, young men, but also women, to get their own home and be more independent. Portugal has 30% of their young-adults out of the country. Portugal does not have the best public services, etc. Trust me, I could go on and on. All this to say the following, I agree that this phenomenon is real in Portugal and it saddens me. I would really like to see more hope on Portuguese people, more independence, more productivity and I think we should all take responsability for our own actions and thoughts. However, I cannot be blind to the history of the country and how that affected families and their mental stability during generations, culminating in young men being captivated by this phenomenon, being almost afraid of stepping out of their known "bubble", tending to stay in their family house much longer, so they can be more comfortable when moving out. Anyway, really like the vid, made me think, keep up the good work! :)

  • @isanike
    @isanikeАй бұрын

    That was super interesting to read; thanks for that and for your sweet words!

  • @annab3184
    @annab3184Ай бұрын

    What about the divorces and single moms? That's a great breeding ground for too-close relationships between son and mom.

  • @rallealyt
    @rallealytАй бұрын

    In those kind of street interview it's difficult to have a real picture because it's clear that almost everyone answears according to their biases.

  • @jocarlo810
    @jocarlo810Ай бұрын

    Great lisbonne..i love

  • @serodiob
    @serodiob2 ай бұрын

    Lx is the place to be :) it just feels good

  • @saragomes6242
    @saragomes62422 ай бұрын

    É um cavaquinho

  • @_lil_shi_
    @_lil_shi_2 ай бұрын

    Love the concept!

  • @miguelpmmoura
    @miguelpmmoura2 ай бұрын

    This is a great collection of interviews, para os manos tugas: SIGA PARA CIMA!!

  • @zonarecs
    @zonarecs2 ай бұрын

    Tamos juntos - farrusco

  • @claudgomez579
    @claudgomez5792 ай бұрын

    cool video..not alot of editing

  • @isanike
    @isanike2 ай бұрын

    thank you!

  • @outlawvsn
    @outlawvsn2 ай бұрын

    só escumalha

  • @bipalmusic9909
    @bipalmusic99092 ай бұрын

    Keep it going

  • @zonarecs
    @zonarecs2 ай бұрын

    we keep it going 🫶🏽

  • @FireChargeBlox_
    @FireChargeBlox_2 ай бұрын

    Maravilhoso

  • @FireChargeBlox_
    @FireChargeBlox_2 ай бұрын

    Gostei, mas odiei.

  • @FireChargeBlox_
    @FireChargeBlox_2 ай бұрын

    Que merda

  • @HellSkater19
    @HellSkater192 ай бұрын

    pena cada dia que passa há mais zukas dop que tugas... obrigado ao paneleiro do ex primeiro ministro e o president pedo

  • @echopanda9012
    @echopanda90122 ай бұрын

    nice

  • @succulent-chinnese-meal
    @succulent-chinnese-meal3 ай бұрын

    i skate and amit we look look like hipsters

  • @lxportugal9343
    @lxportugal93433 ай бұрын

    The end was strange... it had nothing to do with dating

  • @chrhadden
    @chrhadden3 ай бұрын

    why does this women feel the need to get feminist about things? i have been skating since 85. i have always wanted girls to be more into this. some people have to act like they arent wanted and they are coming in no matter what when the door was left open with the porch light on. they just dont get it.

  • @Throawei
    @Throawei3 ай бұрын

    Well you're not a woman so you have zero experience being one and trying to break into your local skate space. It's much harder to make the tight bonds with male skaters that they make amongst each other. It took a lot to get into a crew and get invited street skating. Even then I'm a little bit of an outsider due to being female. I get forgotten about sometimes and it's always about the boys. Which is fine but it'd be nice to be included in non skate stuff. Skater guys are weird about females honestly. Also there aren't any other women serious about skating in my area, and I live in a medium sized city. So it's not as roll out the red carpet as you claim. Very few women can even make what I've made happen, happen. I was very very persistent and had to show up for three years before I even got taken seriously. Which is most men's experience too, but you just don't quite get the social pay off the guys do from a lifelong friendship perspective. It can be hard to keep going and dedicating yourself to it when you're not getting everything out of it that the majority of skaters do. These girls on the coast are so lucky there are so many women skating at a higher level. I wish I could move but I'm rooted here.

  • @i-never-look-at-replies-lol
    @i-never-look-at-replies-lol3 ай бұрын

    @@Throawei "you're not a woman" and you're being sexist every time you say this. you're trying to tell an entire group of human beings that just because they're not the same gender, they don't understand what other human beings go through. so please tell me what i'm incapable of understanding just because i'm not a woman. tell me what i don't understand just because of my gender. tell me what men don't understand about being human just because they're men. stop being sexist with this "you're not a woman" crap, you're just regurgitating some bs you heard somewhere that you think is an argument, but it's not.

  • @underlarry8204
    @underlarry82042 ай бұрын

    the lady was saying that some brands don't sponsor many or any girls

  • @underlarry8204
    @underlarry82042 ай бұрын

    and it can make women not feel welcome or out of place when their the only girl skater they know

  • @Moon-qt3qh
    @Moon-qt3qh2 ай бұрын

    @@i-never-look-at-replies-lol​​⁠​⁠​⁠ shes saying this bc women experiences are very different from men experiences when it comes to a lot of things. When you are a man youre not gonna understand women experiences, the same way women dont understand men experiences. With a lot of sexism towards women in the past, and even today, men don’t face the discrimination women do, just based off their gender, and if you wanna argue w that u gotta catch up on some books. Im not saying men cant face discrimination because thats not true at all, but when it comes to gender, women are typically the ones being discriminated against.

  • @juliettegpz7855
    @juliettegpz78553 ай бұрын

    Niiice episod! ❤

  • @isanike
    @isanike3 ай бұрын

    Thank you! ❤

  • @elyeddy276
    @elyeddy2763 ай бұрын

    😳 'PromoSM'

  • @BeYourselfMan
    @BeYourselfMan3 ай бұрын

    Fado music originated from the struggle of life when Portugal was going through hard times. But everybody can relate because life is one big struggle.

  • @BeYourselfMan
    @BeYourselfMan3 ай бұрын

    Your channel is going to be BIG!!! God bless.

  • @BeYourselfMan
    @BeYourselfMan3 ай бұрын

    7:24 What a brilliant young man, great attitude.

  • @BeYourselfMan
    @BeYourselfMan3 ай бұрын

    Just subscribed, your channel is really good. Love it.

  • @isanike
    @isanike3 ай бұрын

    Thanks a lot!

  • @BeYourselfMan
    @BeYourselfMan3 ай бұрын

    Brazilian funk is good, I love it, especially when the ladies start robolando.

  • @6EBEN9890
    @6EBEN98903 ай бұрын

    Please if you can what is the venue seen at 1:17

  • @isanike
    @isanike3 ай бұрын

    It's called Antù :)

  • @jeanjacqueslundi3502
    @jeanjacqueslundi35023 ай бұрын

    It will never not be cringe to see people using the word "expat" when all over the world (probably even in their country) they'd use the word immigrant to describe someone from another country.

  • @cr8114
    @cr81143 ай бұрын

    isa you still with him...but why ?

  • @diogoveiga1093
    @diogoveiga10933 ай бұрын

    Another leftist propaganda?

  • @Joeyxyx
    @Joeyxyx3 ай бұрын

    Brazilians are very warm & life loving ppl, you'll ever meet. Thanks for this interview! 😊

  • @isanike
    @isanike3 ай бұрын

    Definitely! Thank youuuu! ☺

  • @YourMomaT
    @YourMomaT3 ай бұрын

    Lisbon is not a country, hun...

  • @isanike
    @isanike3 ай бұрын

    Thanks for letting me know!

  • @ash3rr
    @ash3rr4 ай бұрын

    You capture the energy of this place well, albeit something about the Swedish women made me cringe.

  • @isanike
    @isanike4 ай бұрын

    thank you!

  • @sleepsoundly4728
    @sleepsoundly47284 ай бұрын

    The image quality is perfect, what camera and lens was used here

  • @isanike
    @isanike4 ай бұрын

    thanks a lot! we're using the FX3 + 24-70mm GM lens from Sony

  • @sleepsoundly4728
    @sleepsoundly47284 ай бұрын

    @@isanike Thanks for the reply

  • @tyrawy
    @tyrawy4 ай бұрын

    Great interviews and videos! Hope to meet you two in Lisbon!

  • @isanike
    @isanike4 ай бұрын

    thanks a lot!

  • @user-mn6sq3is4t
    @user-mn6sq3is4t4 ай бұрын

    Love your videos from India keep making more of these

  • @isanike
    @isanike4 ай бұрын

    thanks a lot!!