Feminism has more to do with the decline of chivalry than simping. According to it, there's no difference between man and woman, so why would one treat the other chivalrously? Simps are just men who are a victim of hypergamy. In fact, they are the ones who believe most in chivalry. They aren't the ones who killed it.
@weirdo260310 күн бұрын
In a lot of ways, relationships nowadays have become so needlessly complicated to the point where the "Couple" questions whether or not they are even dating. The whole mockery around the simp is definitely one of the reasons why dating has become so complicated.
@ange415410 күн бұрын
A simp (deriving from the word simpleton) started as an insult towards men who allowed their feelings to delude themselves into expressing obsessive behaviors towards their crushes or on their crushes' behalves. Whiteknights, for example, are a subcategory of simps because they allow their feelings for their crush to delude them into thinking if they "save" her enough from backlash (deserved or not), she'll date them. Calling someone a simp used to be a wakeup call to get them to start using their head again ("You're such a simp. You're broke and she knows you're broke yet she keeps coming to you for money. Has she paid you back yet? Does she call you for anything other than money?") and recognize when their either being played or just won't get those feelings reciprocated from their crush. Because of it being so widespread and how easy it is to manipulate people, it's both understandable yet upsetting that it got misconstrued to this degree. What used to be a tough love way to tell your friend to be more realistic with their feelings became another way to shame men into withholding affection from women
@SorrowHead11 күн бұрын
"Chivalry is dead, and women killed it" - Dave Chapelle Honestly its a woman's fault. I've seen this shit all my life: how 1 guy in university bought flowers and reservations for the date, the girl just stood him up and mocked him to me; how the guy wanted to impress the girl so he drove her to work all the time (was very inconvenient for him ) and gift her flowers, while she hanged out with me all the time and even used him as a cab to drive away from my place. Meanwhile the more i don't care about being cordial with a women, the more success i have. With current age of media, battle of the sexes and women snitching on themselves, its only gonna get worse. I guess the only difference is what men are concerned with suicide rates going up and loss of purpose, while women complain about lack of romance in their lives.
@omnissiah724711 күн бұрын
I'd say "simping" within the bounds of a committed relationship should not only be encouraged but be considered the norm, whether talking about a man or a woman. We simply should show and do acts of kindness and love towards our romantic partner, that's about that. But in dating culture it's a bit different. What is considered simping today used to be traditional treatment, but we are no longer traditional. Women are upset men are no longer traditional, but women themselves are not traditional either. This is just what the modern age is. Equality is here, and young boys are taught at a very young age that men and women are to be treated equal in any and all aspects of life. Later on we are then surprised those boys don't give special treatment to women in dating and instead view them as equals. The dynamic has changed, whether it is for better or worse is another discussion in and of itself but that's just the reality of it, lack of simping and equal treatment in dating is the new norm.
@masteryoda493612 күн бұрын
Yes and no social media destroyed men, women, and people of all walks of life
@rhuonaChanel12 күн бұрын
I think simping was coined for men in parasocoal relationships with celebs or influencers who showed extreme dedication as if they were in a real-life romantic relationship with the peeson....even though it is coear to others that the admired person is dimply selling the attention or peesona to get benefits. Generalising it to men with any type of romantic interest is painfully overreaching.
@oreodumplings601912 күн бұрын
❤❤❤funny and factual! It's not simping!!
@PseudoAokoАй бұрын
finallllllyy a kenyan video essay channel!!!
@LimitedonathiosАй бұрын
They aren’t mutually exclusive. You can engage in overconsumption and conspicuous consumption simultaneously. But it is over consumption, I had this issue, you can’t use 1/2 of the products before they expire or go out of fashion or you just want something new. As for the economics of it all, it is wasteful and detrimental to many economies outside of the like big 20 countries. Not only that, it targets middle class/working class individuals, especially younger ones, flooding the market with low quality-cute packaging-high price products that there is very limited need for
@eliasflores5087Ай бұрын
There's something to be said for rich people buying expensive stuff they don't need in excess. However, I don't think that necessarily means you can't critique lower-earning people for doing the same thing. Nice video though I like your hair <3
@bbeyezАй бұрын
I believe I need to stay out of other's wallets. If they xhoose to buy containers and other things, as long as they are happy, so am I.
@LimitedonathiosАй бұрын
You are not pocket watching if they are displaying these wares with the exclusive intention of being seen or inspiring envy/a desire to own the items. You are falling for good marketing which was designed to make you covet an item, and when you do want the item you blame yourself for desiring it, falling for the psychological tactic of the marketing: self blame and ‘self driven’ consumer behavior….which is actually highly researched and devised with the singular and explicit purpose of making you want that thing. Can’t turn around and blame yourself that the marketing designed to market to you successfully, marketed to you successfully
@benkipkolum5771Ай бұрын
I'm first here🎉🎉Kescy I want to tell you that you are wonderful and I love your content
@stephenkioko4205Ай бұрын
Si Nairobi alone hii sponsor pandemic iko everywhere in the world ,solution ,work with your hands ,its that simple .
@gathoni_20232 ай бұрын
Kescy...I applaud your courage in talking about this social issue. That said I would prefer that you refrain from using pictures or articles about women who have survived, suffered, or succumbed to sexual & physical violence from their male intimate partners. When there is mental, physical, or sexual harm the blame, shame, & ultimate accountability should lie with the perpetrator not the victim. Those women didn't deserve to be abused & their perpetrators are vile & despicable people who should face the full strength of the law.
@rebeccamwose2 ай бұрын
I feel that this topic is pertinent in the society right now because of the links with unemployment, absent role models, crisis in the funding of public universities, higher rates of suicide among Gen Z's and need of adequate support systems for the youth.
@merricklarry45952 ай бұрын
Loved this. Been struggling with alcoholism for years and am trying to recover . WeNeed more informative content like this for us youths .keep up the good work
@calebtarus30222 ай бұрын
These ladies suffer in silence, selling you soul for easy and fast money isn't worth it at all. What shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul. Great video
@AsenathKiprotich2 ай бұрын
Don't be afraid of making a longer video. There's a lot you left out that would have been awesome to hear. You have a solid future in social essays. Don't be afraid to make it longer- we'll listen all the way!
@pip_rake2 ай бұрын
Poverty is the enemy
@theafricandude53952 ай бұрын
New subscriber here
@wrongchannel21932 ай бұрын
Clocks iko😂😂😂😂😂
@user-nn6pv9gc7y2 ай бұрын
Good job. Umewacha part ya they are constantly being asked for Anal sex. They freely give it coz of what they are about to loose if they refuse, (upkeep, Car, vacations, rent etc ). The kind of trauma these ladies come with in a relationship after this sponyo life is on another level. They cant keep a good godly relationship going. Its very sad.
@nicoldengenyakeye69052 ай бұрын
Eh 70k ku kula kitu eh kweli inataga dhahabu. I pray for this country manze.
@ABBAHDISOLDIER2 ай бұрын
🤜🤜
@sacha74402 ай бұрын
Very informative thanks for sharing
@ogolarickie29712 ай бұрын
Thanks for this.. good job. Good to know someone is against this nonsense..
@thehalo_effect2 ай бұрын
This thumbnail is so SOLID and gorgeous! Just wish the video was longer.
@dovaro23772 ай бұрын
The country is suffering from Daddy Issues. At my uni, every single known sugar babies have had or are still in dysfunctional homes, abandoned by their deadbeat fathers, in conflict with their fathers at home, etc. It is so very sad.
@collinslagat34582 ай бұрын
Even girls from healthy backgrounds do this. I think it's just that certain girls or "sponsors" are more reckless than others.
@theblend15562 ай бұрын
Great video🔥
@TumainiWekesa2 ай бұрын
Please answer. Do they allow polo shirts?
@dennisnderitutv2 ай бұрын
What these Women Want is More Money, Coming From a Place of Greed, and are Willing to Live with the COst of Contracting HIV, and Because they are Frustrated, THey Want To Infect as Many People as They Can.
@Chefandsteward2 ай бұрын
I want to encourage your efforts as a young student making videos. I was like you 20 years ago in Jamaica and I just want you to know your voice is valid and you can talk about topics that affect your society and you will grow in your craft. God bless you.
@sautiadvocacy60522 ай бұрын
Great video Kescy ❤
@ameilssbeanss84323 ай бұрын
Hey girlie, are you allowed to wear white sneakers or such?
@myles.got.this.5 ай бұрын
Thanks this really helped me enter
@symoncanary17626 ай бұрын
Statistically speaking Kiyuks are alot though to be fair
@KayoBlessing6 ай бұрын
I actually did my interview it was not that bad
@thatgirlfayth59147 ай бұрын
Does it offer medicine nowadays?
@khalidalzaidy37267 ай бұрын
A very nice report, miss. I wish you success for the wonderful effort. Greetings to you again
@khalidalzaidy372610 ай бұрын
Hello, greetings to you, miss. Nice topic. These people want to violate the common sense of humans
@ciruAgneskamande901111 ай бұрын
Many Kenyans have much interest on Agikuyu community, I don't know why, I had a lover from Ukambani and let me tell you that alcoholism, single motherhood you talk about is also a very big problem there, I've lived closely with people from western Kenya, coast and I learnt that they have more challenges that we have in central, growing up in those polygamous families where bitterness, hatred and witchcraft is the order of the day but all eyes are always on Mt Kenya, what do expect from the largest community????our numbers are large everywhere, mention also the owners of those big businesses and companies
@kim157010 ай бұрын
Because the Agikuyu community has been Kenya's scapegoat since independence.
@marymaina83911 ай бұрын
Makes alot if sense..Father figure is important to a childs life particularly the boy. To add to it lack of fear of God adds to the crisis
@sonyia752111 ай бұрын
Aiii, wacheni za ovyo, almost all tribes have gays, in kisii kwanza ni wengi sana
@faithsidi190911 ай бұрын
I Never actually looked at it this way, but all this makes so much sense now
@user-us8ql3hm5h11 ай бұрын
hello kindly help am ,how much does it cost for bachelor of commerce evening classes . Am currently far from nairobi and I cant find the fees structure
@Kescy.11 ай бұрын
Hi Approximately 110,000 - 130,000 per semester.
@shirleymelody Жыл бұрын
Hi, so about the math being from high school education, what about if you didn't do the 844 system and haven't done math for 2 years 💀💀. Is it that hard?
@Kescy.11 ай бұрын
Mathematics is generally similar and doesn’t generally change across different education systems; formulas stay the same for example 1 + 1 = 2 whatever education system you learnt the formulas stay the same in addition, subtraction, multiplication, geometry, statistics, currency etc. If you haven't done math in 2yrs that means you've become abit rusty. Yes, it may be challenging for you since you haven't practiced in a while.
@briannyoike Жыл бұрын
Are puff jackets and hoodies allowed?
@Kescy. Жыл бұрын
Yes they are.
@briannyoike Жыл бұрын
@@Kescy. Ooh naanza kesho computer science huko😂😂
@Kescy. Жыл бұрын
All the best
@jerrysamuels1113 Жыл бұрын
You would think women would have figured this out by now. But i guess not.
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Feminism has more to do with the decline of chivalry than simping. According to it, there's no difference between man and woman, so why would one treat the other chivalrously? Simps are just men who are a victim of hypergamy. In fact, they are the ones who believe most in chivalry. They aren't the ones who killed it.
In a lot of ways, relationships nowadays have become so needlessly complicated to the point where the "Couple" questions whether or not they are even dating. The whole mockery around the simp is definitely one of the reasons why dating has become so complicated.
A simp (deriving from the word simpleton) started as an insult towards men who allowed their feelings to delude themselves into expressing obsessive behaviors towards their crushes or on their crushes' behalves. Whiteknights, for example, are a subcategory of simps because they allow their feelings for their crush to delude them into thinking if they "save" her enough from backlash (deserved or not), she'll date them. Calling someone a simp used to be a wakeup call to get them to start using their head again ("You're such a simp. You're broke and she knows you're broke yet she keeps coming to you for money. Has she paid you back yet? Does she call you for anything other than money?") and recognize when their either being played or just won't get those feelings reciprocated from their crush. Because of it being so widespread and how easy it is to manipulate people, it's both understandable yet upsetting that it got misconstrued to this degree. What used to be a tough love way to tell your friend to be more realistic with their feelings became another way to shame men into withholding affection from women
"Chivalry is dead, and women killed it" - Dave Chapelle Honestly its a woman's fault. I've seen this shit all my life: how 1 guy in university bought flowers and reservations for the date, the girl just stood him up and mocked him to me; how the guy wanted to impress the girl so he drove her to work all the time (was very inconvenient for him ) and gift her flowers, while she hanged out with me all the time and even used him as a cab to drive away from my place. Meanwhile the more i don't care about being cordial with a women, the more success i have. With current age of media, battle of the sexes and women snitching on themselves, its only gonna get worse. I guess the only difference is what men are concerned with suicide rates going up and loss of purpose, while women complain about lack of romance in their lives.
I'd say "simping" within the bounds of a committed relationship should not only be encouraged but be considered the norm, whether talking about a man or a woman. We simply should show and do acts of kindness and love towards our romantic partner, that's about that. But in dating culture it's a bit different. What is considered simping today used to be traditional treatment, but we are no longer traditional. Women are upset men are no longer traditional, but women themselves are not traditional either. This is just what the modern age is. Equality is here, and young boys are taught at a very young age that men and women are to be treated equal in any and all aspects of life. Later on we are then surprised those boys don't give special treatment to women in dating and instead view them as equals. The dynamic has changed, whether it is for better or worse is another discussion in and of itself but that's just the reality of it, lack of simping and equal treatment in dating is the new norm.
Yes and no social media destroyed men, women, and people of all walks of life
I think simping was coined for men in parasocoal relationships with celebs or influencers who showed extreme dedication as if they were in a real-life romantic relationship with the peeson....even though it is coear to others that the admired person is dimply selling the attention or peesona to get benefits. Generalising it to men with any type of romantic interest is painfully overreaching.
❤❤❤funny and factual! It's not simping!!
finallllllyy a kenyan video essay channel!!!
They aren’t mutually exclusive. You can engage in overconsumption and conspicuous consumption simultaneously. But it is over consumption, I had this issue, you can’t use 1/2 of the products before they expire or go out of fashion or you just want something new. As for the economics of it all, it is wasteful and detrimental to many economies outside of the like big 20 countries. Not only that, it targets middle class/working class individuals, especially younger ones, flooding the market with low quality-cute packaging-high price products that there is very limited need for
There's something to be said for rich people buying expensive stuff they don't need in excess. However, I don't think that necessarily means you can't critique lower-earning people for doing the same thing. Nice video though I like your hair <3
I believe I need to stay out of other's wallets. If they xhoose to buy containers and other things, as long as they are happy, so am I.
You are not pocket watching if they are displaying these wares with the exclusive intention of being seen or inspiring envy/a desire to own the items. You are falling for good marketing which was designed to make you covet an item, and when you do want the item you blame yourself for desiring it, falling for the psychological tactic of the marketing: self blame and ‘self driven’ consumer behavior….which is actually highly researched and devised with the singular and explicit purpose of making you want that thing. Can’t turn around and blame yourself that the marketing designed to market to you successfully, marketed to you successfully
I'm first here🎉🎉Kescy I want to tell you that you are wonderful and I love your content
Si Nairobi alone hii sponsor pandemic iko everywhere in the world ,solution ,work with your hands ,its that simple .
Kescy...I applaud your courage in talking about this social issue. That said I would prefer that you refrain from using pictures or articles about women who have survived, suffered, or succumbed to sexual & physical violence from their male intimate partners. When there is mental, physical, or sexual harm the blame, shame, & ultimate accountability should lie with the perpetrator not the victim. Those women didn't deserve to be abused & their perpetrators are vile & despicable people who should face the full strength of the law.
I feel that this topic is pertinent in the society right now because of the links with unemployment, absent role models, crisis in the funding of public universities, higher rates of suicide among Gen Z's and need of adequate support systems for the youth.
Loved this. Been struggling with alcoholism for years and am trying to recover . WeNeed more informative content like this for us youths .keep up the good work
These ladies suffer in silence, selling you soul for easy and fast money isn't worth it at all. What shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul. Great video
Don't be afraid of making a longer video. There's a lot you left out that would have been awesome to hear. You have a solid future in social essays. Don't be afraid to make it longer- we'll listen all the way!
Poverty is the enemy
New subscriber here
Clocks iko😂😂😂😂😂
Good job. Umewacha part ya they are constantly being asked for Anal sex. They freely give it coz of what they are about to loose if they refuse, (upkeep, Car, vacations, rent etc ). The kind of trauma these ladies come with in a relationship after this sponyo life is on another level. They cant keep a good godly relationship going. Its very sad.
Eh 70k ku kula kitu eh kweli inataga dhahabu. I pray for this country manze.
🤜🤜
Very informative thanks for sharing
Thanks for this.. good job. Good to know someone is against this nonsense..
This thumbnail is so SOLID and gorgeous! Just wish the video was longer.
The country is suffering from Daddy Issues. At my uni, every single known sugar babies have had or are still in dysfunctional homes, abandoned by their deadbeat fathers, in conflict with their fathers at home, etc. It is so very sad.
Even girls from healthy backgrounds do this. I think it's just that certain girls or "sponsors" are more reckless than others.
Great video🔥
Please answer. Do they allow polo shirts?
What these Women Want is More Money, Coming From a Place of Greed, and are Willing to Live with the COst of Contracting HIV, and Because they are Frustrated, THey Want To Infect as Many People as They Can.
I want to encourage your efforts as a young student making videos. I was like you 20 years ago in Jamaica and I just want you to know your voice is valid and you can talk about topics that affect your society and you will grow in your craft. God bless you.
Great video Kescy ❤
Hey girlie, are you allowed to wear white sneakers or such?
Thanks this really helped me enter
Statistically speaking Kiyuks are alot though to be fair
I actually did my interview it was not that bad
Does it offer medicine nowadays?
A very nice report, miss. I wish you success for the wonderful effort. Greetings to you again
Hello, greetings to you, miss. Nice topic. These people want to violate the common sense of humans
Many Kenyans have much interest on Agikuyu community, I don't know why, I had a lover from Ukambani and let me tell you that alcoholism, single motherhood you talk about is also a very big problem there, I've lived closely with people from western Kenya, coast and I learnt that they have more challenges that we have in central, growing up in those polygamous families where bitterness, hatred and witchcraft is the order of the day but all eyes are always on Mt Kenya, what do expect from the largest community????our numbers are large everywhere, mention also the owners of those big businesses and companies
Because the Agikuyu community has been Kenya's scapegoat since independence.
Makes alot if sense..Father figure is important to a childs life particularly the boy. To add to it lack of fear of God adds to the crisis
Aiii, wacheni za ovyo, almost all tribes have gays, in kisii kwanza ni wengi sana
I Never actually looked at it this way, but all this makes so much sense now
hello kindly help am ,how much does it cost for bachelor of commerce evening classes . Am currently far from nairobi and I cant find the fees structure
Hi Approximately 110,000 - 130,000 per semester.
Hi, so about the math being from high school education, what about if you didn't do the 844 system and haven't done math for 2 years 💀💀. Is it that hard?
Mathematics is generally similar and doesn’t generally change across different education systems; formulas stay the same for example 1 + 1 = 2 whatever education system you learnt the formulas stay the same in addition, subtraction, multiplication, geometry, statistics, currency etc. If you haven't done math in 2yrs that means you've become abit rusty. Yes, it may be challenging for you since you haven't practiced in a while.
Are puff jackets and hoodies allowed?
Yes they are.
@@Kescy. Ooh naanza kesho computer science huko😂😂
All the best
You would think women would have figured this out by now. But i guess not.