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Bullying has ruined my life.
Does it have a cure?
It's like my brain's been dunked into golden syrup. P.S. What a brilliantly worded video. Thanks very much for this!
You can't say this when you're the blackest of the blackest sheep in the community and everybody can't stand you and you have nobody there because they are afraid they'll be seen with you.
Imagine being made fun of in and outside ur house
Thanks for this advice
thank you so much for this video. I plan on watching it with my son as he heads into middle school for good tips. thank you!
Dad's a bully and always has been. I am done with his b.s.
one words violent, violent, violent
What bullies always does is just to guilty trip you in whatever things you do they are bitter in the heart not a healthy person after all they are weird and they are the monster themselves
this was one of the best videos I have ever seen on essay planning, thank you so much
Thank you for this!
My neighbours aren’t giving up they’ve bullied harassed threatened me for three years and the police haven’t done anything at all. On 12 May this year threatened to smash my face in
I am a straight person and I survived bullying at an early school age and had many not-so-honest friends, they used my kindness as much as they had the opportunity. I have a normal good short-term memory. And I have been burned out.
0:49 Exactly. This is what became clear to me only last year at the age of 33. My bullies worked really hard on me for 5 years to make me hate myself because I was very talented, skilled, popular as a singer and speaker, and loved by all teachers for my intellectual ability. These gorgeous-looking girls couldn't tolerate that and worked harder and harder on making my mind focus on ONE thing i didn't have and that is "looks". And sure indeed, after sufficient efforts, they succeeded completely! I am 33+ living like a Corpse, totally dysfunctional in the world, shut inside my room for years now. And they are thriving. 😂
Healthy mature , EVOLVED
Thank you so much for this video. It really helps me to break things down about my particular situation. As you said, bullying does leave scars, and it is hard to move on. I almost declined a very good job offer knowing the bully also applied to it. Even though we are in different departments, the bully and I will still be seeing each other in general meetings. I will try my best to stand up for myself if she ever tries to start something again.
This is one of the best videos I've ever seen. I went from being a popular kid/ woman at school and university to being adult bullied alot starting off with jealous and envious relatives. If you dont stand up to it or apply coping mechanisms it can very quickly and easily take over your life even as an adult. Thanks for the video.
Questions for myself anther. I'm being cyber bullying for longest 5-6 Bye the same group people. They aren't stopping. Yes tried. No results From my local poice department . Made phone calls an writer letters. Some reason I'm don't want anybody what I'm want throwh experience . Most people don't last too long special they have had. enough. . The sad part is a person who had enough theywill taken own life by Suicide. Yes you right. About the bully's they are no't health . Yes you are right about a healthy person don't bullying a person. Does a bully's get got by their local police department ? Thanks you
I love this video, as an adult who was bullied by my mum as a child, that wound is very much on show to everyone. I have difficulties with social cues and impulsivity and also a keen sense of right and wrong ...🎯... Keeping yourself big and resisting the urge to make yourself smaller, definitely works. Unfortunately a narcissist doesn't give up so easily. The trick is to take great care in analysing people before getting involved with them.
I'm sick of being bullied. Just tired of other people's issues with themselves being mine. What's dumb about a bully is that they don't realize that the consequences of their behavior eventually catch up to them.
Wow❤
Very informative. Thank you so much
Nice explanation ! I had been bullied in a human design service online courses that I paid for. Even I am not a child anymore, I had been bullied and thus after I had paid my money for the so called service. I had been bullied in there for almost one year. It started very little and subtle and it was mainly the covert, social bullying, however it turned at the end into verbal attacking of myself and my integrity in front of many people and these bullying attacks had been recorded, being posted online and possibly this online courses could be sold further. I did not get any resolution nor any repair from the owner of the company. I paid 3500 USD for two online courses on Human Design and for one reading with Baeth Davis. In the Human Design courses Baeth Davis should have been the one teaching it. It was after all not true. Instead of that it was somebody called Melissa Kirk. Melissa Kirk was presented as an expert with an certification in HD. However, it showed up that she was not very skillful in human design as she was starting to do a course by IHD for beginners after the two online courses ended. My experience with Melissa Kirk in the course by Baeth Davis was that Melissa Kirk did not undertand the basic concepts of Human Design and was sharing information that were contrary to those in the official books by RA URU HU. I kept asking after this and Melissa Kirk started to publicly shame me and make a person with lower intelligence of me because " I CANNOT UNDERSTAND HOW THIS WORKS". Meanwhile Melissa Kirk was probably told that she was completely wrong what she was teaching. Anyway, Melissa Kirk already kept an eye on me. She started use the social bullying, a skillful way emotionally unstable women and generally people with characteristics of bullies are using. Melissa Kirk started to deflect every question that I had, she referred to some simple explanation that one does not need to pay a course for 3000 USD . I live in another than Melissa Kirk and it seems that Melissa Kirk being wanted to punish me and show me the lesson and she had decided to bully me throughout the online course and having a nice paycheck of 3000 USD for the bullying. Baeth Davis made it clear, there are no money refunds. Melissa Kirk then knew that she can psychologically mistreat however she wanted. Further Melissa started to use psychological gaslight onto me - she shared wrong information about Human Design whenever I asked about something and these information had the intention to depict me as a bad person, basically to harm me. E.g the gate 25 in Human Design is a gate of very kind, gullible, sweet people. I asked after this gate because it is central gate in my Human Design. Melissa Kirk knew that it was my important gate and she was very quick to answer that these are people who are very sarcastic, very aggressive and that "they had suffered a trauma". Well, interesting information. I am curious where did Melissa Kirk, the one that was apparently certifified and confirmed teacher of Human Design had this information from. Couple of minutes later, another person ask after the gate 25. Melissa Kirks tells them: these people and you, if you have this gate, are so kind, so gullible, so sweet, so innocent... Wow. So, when it is me, I am aggressive, sarcastic, maybe even mentally ill what Melissa Kirk tried to publicly represent me and anybody else would be this kind, sweet, nice person. There are many many other even worse things how Melissa Kirk was applying spiritual gaslight for my 3000 USD. Finally, Melissa Kirk felt so secure that she can go full blown on bullying and that she does not need to hide it anymore, Melissa Kirk started to attack publicly and making fun of me that I ASK WRONG QUESTIONS. Melissa Kirk became openly aggressive towards me. A classical bully. Melissa Kirk was never able to explain what does she mean by these "WRONG QUESTIONS". I asked her many times in the live recorden when Melissa Kirk was bullying. Melissa Kirk used some deflection response and simply cut me off from my speach and kept on going to be extra nice to somebody else. Bullies usually psychologically abuse their victim and when they do it publicly, they want to show to the public how kind and great they are to others. Melissa Kirk had received 3000 USD and was able to live her emotionally instability on me, had a good time bullying. So far I had not received my money back. I was so wondering when I saw Melisa Kirk doing the course for complete beginner on International Human Design School. Wow. Was Baeth Davis lying about the qualification of Melissa Kirk ? Baeth Davis advertised the online course and all of her programs past 10 years back I have evidence about them as programs who are aimed at highly gifted people. Programs where your questions will be answered, because Baeth Davis is herself highly gifted, she has many gifts in her hands and thus, she is able to give a very concise good assessment of personality. Baeth Davis calls herself the Dr. Purpose. Well, the online courses were exactly the opposite. I was lured in to pay the money, then I was abused and I was not allowed to ask for money refund, because there is no money refund being given after payes. However, the bullying by some incompetent person Melissa Kirk was ok.
3/10 got em mad, got desth threats andd attempt to follow me home. Unfortunately home to school is 4,5 kilometres and they gave up on the first
Very helpful! Thank you very much.
Ask them, what did you say? What do you mean? They will recognize your confronting them, not making yourself an easy target.
This is gold. Thank you so much.
I have many haters bullying me and the bullies don’t understand that they are bullies
When the bullying is family, as adults! It’s very sad.
Thank you is very helpul ✌️🌎
Thank you!
You can also name the game: like "wow, this must make you feel really strong" "you must feel soooo insecure and shitty about your life that you run around being weird".
Sounds quite good, does it work? I’m mentally exhausted from this bs and at this point I struggle to say these words confidently
We are an older couple of native Californians. Husband an attorney in perfect standing since 1988 and a former pilot who had a plane with his dad at the John Wayne Airport in Santa Ana, Orange County, CA. I worked for two of the best DA’s in Orange County, when they were in private practice. They came to our wedding. We have been together since 1987. Very important facts: We live in Mission Viejo. There is not one flight path over Mission Viejo from anywhere at any time. There are no international flights in Orange County and our airport is closed at night between 10pm and 7am. We have one flight path North, one flight path South. That’s it. We live over 20 miles due East of the John Wayne Airport but we’ve had more flights over our home every day and night for 15 years than the airport itself. In 2009, my wife was visiting with our neighbor in our driveway. Student pilots were doing stall maneuvers over our homes, which was a regular event. Our neighbor was distressed over this taking place many times a day. My wife will help anyone and said “lets call them. Im sure they’ll stop”. When my wife called the airport, she wasn’t aware that it’s illegal to do any maneuvers over residential areas. When I came home that night, she told me the story and I told her (I use to fly and had a plane at JWA) it’s illegal to do maneuvers over any residential area for good reason, its dangerous. She made a very polite call to noise complaint and asked if the stall maneuvers could stop. Maria in noise complaint lied to her and told her “you live in a designated area for student pilots to practice these maneuvers”. Within 15 minutes of her polite call, the then director of the John Wayne Airport, Alan L. Murphy, was over her and our neighbor still standing in our driveway, doing figure eights feet above them over and over and over until they both ran inside. Alan L. Murphy recruited Barry Rondinella who until 2015, worked at LAX and flew jets over our home all night long every night for Alan L. Murphy. Then Rondinella came here to Orange County. And my god, he is the sickest human being on earth. Wait until the world see the footage from just his first week here after starting in the paper (I won’t call it a news paper because in orange county, they don’t report the news if its against a government employee) that he would respect the curfews in Orange County. He didn’t respect our curfew for one day or night. He couldn’t wait to destroy citizens with Murphy. Youll see that so clearly. One month without sleep is devastating, 15 years is murder. The directors of the John Wayne Airport Alan L. Murphy and Barry Rondinella recruited every government employee to maliciously harass us as a favor. We have been stalked from San Diego to Lake Pilsbury by sheriff, police, fire, calfire, coast guards, military and of course, the FAA. Fire trucks pull up to restaurants, stores, bank and when we come out, turn on their sirens and horns. We have so many clips on tape and in every one of those clips, every one of the firemen in the fire trucks are all looking at us just to drive it home that we are being stalked and preyed on. They’ve stalked us into restaurants, grocery stores and shaken our home so many times for intimidation. They park fire (just yesterday) and airport vehicles across the street from our front window so we can’t have our drapes open without seeing it. When we began wearing earplugs or headphones, they went to chem trails and fire and camp pendleton went to shaking our home so we would feel the sickness. There should never be chem trails over Orange County. Big Xs over our home, over restaurants, beach. We have been dive bombed by military helicopters on the beach so many times, we stopped going. They have had our electricity shut off during the hottest weeks of the year, our mail diverted, our street dug up at 1:30am several times, our emails erased, our home is dive bombed all day every day and we are kept from sleeping every night, stalked every single place we go. THE FIRE DEPT AFTER 14 YEARS OF SICK ILLEGAL PREDATORY ABUSE, RENTED THE HOME ONE DOOR FROM OURS AND HAD KIDS RUN AT OUR VEHICLES, WORK OUT IN FRONT OF OUR DRIVEWAY. Park fire vehicles in front of our home for intimidation. Can you even imagine your predators moving in one door from you. They loved this so much. Breaking every law, stalking and preying on women as a favor to Murphy and Rondinella. Our ex chief of police, former Lt. Binning, uploaded porn to our computer, left messages on our phone machine repeating the sounds we just made in our home so we would fully understand that they are spying on us. Dive bombed us hundreds of times with police helicopters. Called our home at night to keep us from sleeping. He was only demoted and still came after me. We are 11 months into the 15th year. My wife has attempted suicide while begging Newsom for help. Not one day or night off in this the 7th year of Gavin and Jennifer Newsom knowing fully about every detail. The FAA has infiltrated our lives so fully, we get grocery bags from Amazon (Bristol Farms) that have TANGO, FOXTROT, CHARLIE written in big black letters on them. If that’s not scarey to you, I wouldn’t know what is. This is not hyperbole. This is true Nazi Germany stuff and thats not hate speech. One of the women they have ruined the life of is Lisa Beerli was raised in Nazi Germany until 22 years old and says “this is exactly how it started. The government employees turned on the citizens and then started using the military”. We have written everyone we can think of, filed complaints (which we have learned they don’t take complaints in OC) with the DA, FAA, CIA, FBI, DOT. DOJ... with every politician in this state and many others in this country. The former mayor of Mission Viejo took us to court for restraining orders because we threatened to recall him in an election year and he was going to make sure we couldn’t. Now our current mayor Brian Goodell, a two time gold medalist, has threatened us with restraining orders if we beg him for help anymore. Thats how they do law here. There is no law and order in California. Just look at GPS over our home since 2009, and remember, we are not under any flight path from anywhere. Via Santiago, Mission Viejo, CA. We tried to move to another county for 8 months. Mr. Alan L. Murphy sent military jets screaming over every home we looked at basically telling us he’ll kill us wherever we go. There are four other women that we know of that are suffering this same fate here. Keri Berriga, another victim Murphy, Rondinella, Newsom, Biden has written articles in a local Laguna Beach newspaper about this insanity Our mayor now has threatened us with a lawsuit if we beg him again. I guess he wants us to shut up and die. Thats how they do things here in Orange County. YOU HAVE NO RIGHTS IF NO ONE WILL FIGHT FOR THEM. NO ONE SANE AND SOBER DOES THIS TO ANYONE FOR ANY REASON. AND NO GOOD LEADER WOULD ALLOW THIS TO CONTINUE. THE NEWSOMS HAVE KNOWN EVERY GORY DETAIL FOR THIS THE 7TH YEAR. Not one day or night off in a city where this is not one flight path and a county where the airport is closed at night.
How to deal with people who are already in the position of power and use it to ruin my life, to bring me to the bottom, say that I should stop eat to make me weaker and more dependent, less confident because they spread some negative information on the internet. They detect my vulnerabilities i acquired in my childhood from my parents who were pushing me and using physical force to teach a lesson. Since then i hate family values and never wanted to set a family.So many people know my issues and attack me immediately to raise their self esteem and satisfy the people in power who are doing this on me now .
I have real troubles with my job tha i have to change quite often, and in many other aspects of life the same shit's happening.
They say that sex can help to resolve a situation and suggest me to find a partner to feel better.After all this humiliation they think i am supposed to do things like this. I just want to find a better place where i will be treated with respect and tolerance because in this sosciety i can hardly find a good person who has never been involved in this humiliating situation and can adopt a different mindset. They use IT to control people and their minds completely, games are a regular approach at work and in many homes, regulating the relationships to meet the needs of the third party.
Non of these work with a women gaslighting you at work that is almost all women these days.
I’m a high school student. I’m new in this school and realized that there are some manipulators bullies. They’re so unfair. No one in the class goes against them(a girl and her friends) . They’re afraid of her.But I don’t want to be manipulated. She says things like: you’re a new girl here Where did the hell did you come? Go away. Can anyone tell me how can I defend myself how should I behave?
Right on!!!!!!!!!
Help me lots
I've been bullied for 3 years now it started in y7 and I'm in y9 now and there is a massive group that bullies me but because the group is so big I get really scared and run away and then when I get home I run to my room and lock my door and don't come out till the morning I hate my life soo much 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I also have self harm scars on me because of the bullies
Are you a male?
Deep breath. Keep calm. Look in their eyes. Say your a bully and bully's are horrible, because Bullys like you want to hurt other people And because your a bully what you say means nothing to me. Keep reinforcing the word bully . Call them out for their behaviour Especially in a group setting this will be very powerful. Afterwards get some self care, and talk to a trusted adult. Be proud of your actions and remember how strong and brave you truelly are
Thank you. Great vid. As a child my parents told me not to fight. I think it has helped me be a victim too often in my life. I need to turn this around.
Brilliant video ❤. I was told to just ignore it, and it didn't stop. I was bullied as a child all my life and as an adult. I have been standing up for myself, and some of the people who were doing it have stopped . Xxx 💕
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How to tackle bullying from a child to therapist intervention suggestions?
You can't use words like weird they may have a disability that is not good advice.
I have autism and was recently promoted to a technical role. All i have received is "who do you think you are?" For simply doing my new job, which is to make THEIR lives better 😂.
I’m on the receiving end of misogynistic bullying in the workplace which in my field is rather hard to prove to hr and it feels like being stuck between a rock and a hard place
Bullies are bullied…. It starts at home….. I’ve been on both ends of the isle. I was bullied for being a ginger, so I bullied. Past tense of course. Stay strong and don’t become a bully. It’s not fun on either side.
I’ve been bullied so many million times but I don’t want to be the victim anymore ! I’ve learned strategies to counter act their behaviors by mirroring them.And I told them , “ Hey I noticed you don’t like me,but guess what? I don’t like you either! “ 😆😆😆
if its a man it's hands, if it's a woman spread fake rumours hahaha