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Conquer the fear of failure
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I'm confused. What do u mean by move😂, clarification, please 😌🙏
What happens when a sigma gets beaten into a shape by a society that doesn't understand them. I spent years thinking I was not your a or you elbow until I found out this was all that was wrong. I have a 16yr old son who I think is even more Sigma than myself. We nicknamed him murphy, he is so left field we were sure he was a through back to Irish blood. But no he's just another Sigma. A word of advice to parents of a sigma child. Never try to bluff a Sigma.
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Salmon. I make it with ritz crackers and eggs with a little garlic. Make into pastors and fry it like a hamburger
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Melanie I'm new to Christianity I've been asked a question buy a friend of mine that I could not answer. He asked me is masturbation a sin because I'm new to Christianity what's your thought process on this issue
but what if she has a bf but were always alone together on our work. and whenever i ask her if she's ok i can see that she's thinking deep and quiet.
I've been a "Sigma" my whole life. It was extremely hard for me in my earlier years, but as the understanding of archetypes developed into a more coherent, categorized system, I was finally able to feel truly accepted as a certain "type" of personality. Of course not EVERY aspect applies to me but generally speaking, I've found a certain degree of understanding and comfort. Bottom line for me is: I'm doing my own thing. If you like it, you'll let me know. If it works out, great! if not, it was nice knowing you. Good luck, and thanks for a great time. (I'll cry in the shower later)
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Just be yourself you don’t need a class omg
This pisses me off this chick is all about buying something like your stupid , you all know when a chick likes you or not and stop thinking she might or might not because you already know and you don’t take classes omg what is wrong with the world
I really like your hair color, it’s so pretty
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Good video Melannie. I would like to point out a detail here. While I understand what you mean...leading and chasing are two different things. Authentic men LEAD. Weak minded simpletons chase the girl. If a man is chasing a woman that means that SHE holds all of the control in the power dynamic and that is not authentic masculinity. When a man leads, he sets the stage, the boundaries, the frame and then asks the woman if she would like to join him on HIS journey together. This is not a one time thing but, becomes a standard, integral part of the relationship as both parties make decisions, mature and grow with each other. This may sound like splitting hairs but, words matter and in real life there is a big difference in how things play out. Thank you. Jeffrey Z. in SC
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Can you please send a link to where I can un subscribe?
You helped me find my wife with your methods, and I have found great pleasure in pursuing her! I still pursue her and it works to help our marriage. No it's not perfect, we have our up's and downs, but we make it a point to appreciate something about each other every single day! Praying together also works wonders in our daily life, and every day I pray aloud in gratitude thanking God for sending her into my life! Great work you do Melannie, you help so many people do what works in relationships!
I'm too hot always unless the air is being circulated. See if ya can find a fan to circulate the air in the room! Nothing large, the temps will fall when the circulation is moving!
Hi Coach Melanie, this is Rick in Chicago. How are you? I haven’t seen your video a year but I’m still here trying to listen. I hope you’re doing OK. I just came out of church today. I live in Chicago like I said. Hope I see you again in the video I will listen to you bye-bye have a blessed day.❤😊
The best moments in my life came when I stopped taking all women seriously🙂
Too hot🙂 I best like to part about being the best version of your authentic self. I realize I am a codependent person and I'm actively working to be healthier and make better decisions in that area. Seeing my worth and fighting for my value when necessary , but still remain being open gentle and empathetic when it's right. Because of this area of my life that's needed attention, I have attracted anxious and controlling weman and sacred of the healthy. So this hits home. Thank you Melony!
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My little sister Christina is 8 years younger than me, but she's 4 inches taller. I'm only 5/7 and she's 5/11, what aggravates and humiliates me. I'm the big brother, why her and not me? And then she complains about the flack she gets about, how tall are you, modeling, the weather, and of course, basketball. I wish I had her problems. We don't know where her height comes from, we are a short family, our dad is only 5/7 and our mom 5/3. Christina in grade school was a little girl, but around age 11 she started to shoot up an inch a month. Mom couldn't keep her in clothes. At 13 she was an inch taller than me at 21, and I've hated this, ever since. At age 17, I had a girlfriend at church camp, Connie, who was 5/8, especially like me, but this annoyed and irritated me, because I was being constantly reminded in how I was shorter than she was.
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All this works only if the guy is handsome and if the woman is attracted to him
Chase. I appreciate it. Thumbs up! Do not stop!
Hi Coach Melannie!!! I really like the last one: Invest in yourself. I think this one opens a lot of doors, and confidence is one of them. ---------- It is hard to choose a DONUT, I mean; they have a lot of toppings, like sugar, chocolate, strawberry, coconut, sprinkles, and many more. ---------- Have a nice day. May God bless you.
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@ Melannie - I really admire your positive attitude. You have a mindset that's optimistic and focuses on the positive aspects of life, even in difficult situations.
This doesnt work if the guy is ugly. Pretty women are not looking for ugly guys.
You would be surprised... Look is overrated in men from women perspective. But you can keep living in la-la-land, your thing.
Too hot. The two traits I'm glad you mentioned are confidence and leadership. I believe they both go together, and a lady would certainly be appreciative towards a man for having those traits. It reached into the high 90's here in North Carolina over the past two weeks and we've had a drought. It did begin raining today and temperatures will be cooler next week with rain. Please stay hydrated. Have a great weekend and a safe week ahead. May God richly bless you. 🙏
I've been focusing on machoing up since the lockdwons. One of the best choices I ever made.
"When you pursue, you're demonstrating good qualities..." Meanwhile, she's dating lesser men who have almost none of them.... I'm confident, strong, a genuinely fun person to be with, and also not a Niceguy. And the fact is, I went on 0 dates in the year 2023. It's not because I "didn't pursue" any women, it's not because I was "too scared" to ask them out. I literally go out of my way to meet people, and by extension meet more women, but the majority of them just don't take me seriously. And the ones that do, are already in a relationship or married, and thereby they're my friends because they're taken. Those female friends consistently make remarks like, "You'd make such a good protector, a hard worker" etc, yet the ones that are actually single just... don't seem to care. I'm not trying to imply that being a good person isn't worth it, that's not what I'm saying at all, but what I do want to express, is that "just be confident" rhetoric, in a vacuum, is not helpful. I had 911 called on me in spring 2023 for cold approaching girls on a college campus. I had a coworker not take me seriously and I lost her forever. And between those two things, I'm able to say that I'm still able to walk up to new women, but those things, whether I like them or not, happened, and I had no control over the situation. So yeah, we can hear from a coach that we can just go for it, and we can pursue, but she, as the lady, actually has to follow my lead if we're gonna get anywhere. So if you're gonna tell us to pursue, teach us also how to inspire compliance, in ethical ways of course, otherwise what's the point.
Awesome video Melannie! One question I do have is, is it possible to be masculine and be your authentic self as an introvert? If so, how? Appreciate you and your channel!
It’s about making decisions not being indecisive, doing your grind to what motivates you to succeed in your goals. It’s about being physically fit, women don’t want a man without self discipline. Dress well and have female friends, not girlfriends. Be kind.
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This video should have been called "17 Traits I Look For In A Man"
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All I would say is don't worry too much about the hierarchy. Don't try to be an Alpha male if it doesn't come naturally to you. Just be yourself and strive to do the best you can. Most men who are themselves and are confident with it give off tons of masculinity without even realising it
Thank you, Melannie.. I am not a Christian and I am not single.. three years ago I started listening to and you helped me with my self confidence and how to dress .. You also helped me handle my wife of 22 years...