The Helpmeet Journey

The Helpmeet Journey

Welcome! This channel is to help encourage how to embrace gender roles in marriage through tips, wisdom and DITL content. Learn how embracing gender roles in marriage can bring true satisfaction!

I've been joyfully married to my loving husband since October 2020. And yes...we married 4 months later after meeting! We live in a little small town in Northern Illinois.

Feel free to checkout my playlists on topics about homemaking, gender roles, DITL vlogs and my journey to motherhood.

I give all thanks to Christ who transformed my life for the better through Salvation.

Thanks for stopping by and thanks for subscribing! ❤

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xoxo
-Anne :)

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  • @cathybill7450
    @cathybill74503 күн бұрын

    How long did it take for you to be pregnant. Am on my second months of my period returning. Hopefully I get pregnant as soon as possible.

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourneyКүн бұрын

    I fell pregnant about 2 months after the lupron injection wore off. It will metabolize out of the body's system. I hope you fall pregnant soon! 😊

  • @diane2230
    @diane22305 күн бұрын

    What to do with gas in my abdomen? I still feel like bloated. I stop taking my pain reliever oxycodone after 4 days because they made me so drowsy and i got some hives and today is my 9 days after a laparascopic myoctomy.

  • @mattiadizard7431
    @mattiadizard74315 күн бұрын

    Im 34 bout to have fibroid surgery

  • @surival
    @surival5 күн бұрын

    You're not making more dryer sheets. Cutting them smaller only makes them work less

  • @BARTHLOMEWFAITH
    @BARTHLOMEWFAITH6 күн бұрын

    I had mine 11 days ago. Im 31, two days after surgery started pooping every morning buh for the past 4 days av not pooop. Pls can someone talk on this.

  • @ciao2315
    @ciao23155 күн бұрын

    Try dates or peppermint tea.

  • @diane2230
    @diane22305 күн бұрын

    Try laxatives. I got my 3 fibroids gone now after a surgery a week ago. I started to poop after 5 days. Just try to walk 5-10 minutes a day.

  • @2ndworldcountryusa583
    @2ndworldcountryusa5836 күн бұрын

    I use to do this but the laundry wasn’t smelling as fresh :(

  • @purple1cole
    @purple1cole7 күн бұрын

    Thanks

  • @joeytan9341
    @joeytan93418 күн бұрын

    Had mine last month ; my immune system was too low and it actually triggered Herpez. This is my fifth weeks now, still feeling a lilttle bit of pain whenever I sneeze or cough.

  • @ROSADIANA-DSB
    @ROSADIANA-DSB8 күн бұрын

    Had mine last week and posted about it also❤Thanks for sharing

  • @candycrumbs895
    @candycrumbs8959 күн бұрын

    Thank you Beautiful ❤, great content! God Bless🙏🏿🙌🏿

  • @CarlaQuattlebaum
    @CarlaQuattlebaum9 күн бұрын

    If I put a date on an item, it's usually the expiration / use by date of whatever I've opened. i do that with flour or sugar that I transfer to a canister. I just write it on the lid of the canister. I can understand how with a baby, you have to be more flexible with your cleaning schedule. Giving yourself a week to deep clean the kitchen sounds smart the way you break it up into sections.

  • @lesliejohnson8177
    @lesliejohnson817710 күн бұрын

    I so agree on doctors pushing antidepressants. I am anxious about normal things and my doctor ran with it and said I needed an antidepressant because I had anxiety and worried about things which is so normal emotion. Instead of telling me to take a bath drunk Chamomile tea or some magnesium or valerian root. So sad they push drugs so much instead of natural help for things. I wish more people would step back and wait a minute before jumping to I need a pill.

  • @DeeperPrayers
    @DeeperPrayers10 күн бұрын

    Black American women are more likely to develop fibroids compared to Caucasian women Why? said science. Fibroid are cause by spiritual husband - Religious Man. 🙏 But in the Name of Jesus Christ, what ever God has not planted in your body they melt out now in Jesus Name. @deeperPrayers

  • @DeeperPrayers
    @DeeperPrayers10 күн бұрын

    Black American women are more likely to develop fibroids compared to Caucasian women Why? said science. Fibroid are cause by spiritual husband - Religious Man. 🙏 But in the Name of Jesus Christ, what ever God has not planted in your body they melt out now in Jesus Name. @deeperPrayers

  • @BBGshop7
    @BBGshop711 күн бұрын

    This was sooo wholesome ❤ good job sis 😊

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney11 күн бұрын

    Aw thanks so much! 🥰

  • @athomewithtroy1690
    @athomewithtroy169012 күн бұрын

    I've started having groceries delivered, it's literally gives me back 2 hours out of my day and I don't have to hear my 1st grader beg for chips😂

  • @user-iz5bh8zx4j
    @user-iz5bh8zx4j12 күн бұрын

    Going into three weeks post surgery. Open myomectomy. I did not lose my memory after anesthesia.

  • @prettygirlswagg150
    @prettygirlswagg15012 күн бұрын

    I appreciate this video. I find myself as a bride-to-be trying to fit the social media aesthetics I see instead of being simple and authentic.

  • @summertime9224
    @summertime922412 күн бұрын

    Love your post. Realest videos of what it honestly looks like in a real homemakers life/day. Reality; right down to what is on normal people's grocery list. Not the glossy, pretty, and entirely fake stuff people often serve up in social media.

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney12 күн бұрын

    Which tip is beneficial to you? Will you try one of these new habits for your home? Let me know in the comments! 😘

  • @TheAwakenedMom
    @TheAwakenedMom12 күн бұрын

    Writing down on the white board as I noticed items going low so I don’t forget was the most beneficial because even though I make a shopping list, I always forget some items. Thank you!

  • @jenniferannfox2316
    @jenniferannfox231612 күн бұрын

    I find even at my age of 60 it helps a lot to feel better in a simple dress than being aware all the time my shape has changed with age. It helps me relax about dressing for the day.

  • @Anita-wx8xm
    @Anita-wx8xm14 күн бұрын

    My surgery is June 19th. I'm scared and worried.

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney14 күн бұрын

    I hope everything goes well! Wishing you a safe, healthy procedure. Take care! 🙏❤️

  • @suzannealexander4599
    @suzannealexander459917 күн бұрын

    I feel a sense of accomplishment and contentment when I wash and dry dishes and when I iron my clothes.

  • @PrincessPetch24
    @PrincessPetch2417 күн бұрын

    What’s old fashioned is the mindset that ALL women SHOULD be doing this. What else is old fashioned is that the wife should be solely responsible for these duties when the husband is more than capable of helping out with cleaning, raising children, shopping, etc.

  • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
    @doll.ov.poetrii468217 күн бұрын

    She never said all women should do this though... nor did she say husbands shouldn't help; these aren't her sentiments. Stop projecting.

  • @doll.ov.poetrii4682
    @doll.ov.poetrii468217 күн бұрын

    It is normal and necessary work! ❤🙏🏿

  • @christina8431
    @christina843117 күн бұрын

    I had my surgery on June 3 2024 it wasn’t that bad

  • @christina8431
    @christina843117 күн бұрын

    They found 2 fibroids

  • @canbuurguleed8857
    @canbuurguleed885717 күн бұрын

    I had surgery June 4 it was painful

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney17 күн бұрын

    Wishing you a speedy, healthy recovery! 🙏

  • @cananary
    @cananary18 күн бұрын

    youre amazing

  • @CountitallJoy-ju5on
    @CountitallJoy-ju5on21 күн бұрын

    Awe she’s always smiling. Such a happy and beautiful baby. Lovely family. Good bless. ❤

  • @ojeikhodionflorence8030
    @ojeikhodionflorence803021 күн бұрын

    Congratulations

  • @leannewheeler5351
    @leannewheeler535122 күн бұрын

    I can relate. I did co-sleeping with both of my children. It's so much easier if you're nursing because you really only have to get up for diaper change. I also do not believe children know how to soothe themselves. It's absurd to think that a baby would be able to meet their own emotional needs. I held and carried my children as much as I could.

  • @PawneeGoddess243
    @PawneeGoddess24322 күн бұрын

    I totally agree with you❤

  • @journeytothemosthigh5021
    @journeytothemosthigh502122 күн бұрын

    One baby is hard. Two is so much easier. With one, you have to be the playmate and everything else. With siblings close in age, they have each other. Don’t wait too long to have another. I’m sure you’ve heard this already😊

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney22 күн бұрын

    Yup, that's very true! 😊

  • @SoraNo-rg4st
    @SoraNo-rg4st22 күн бұрын

    You do you girl but I cane never imagin this life for me I can never stay at hole all day I love to work

  • @HabitsofaHomemaker
    @HabitsofaHomemaker23 күн бұрын

    Your videos are always so heartwarming 🥰💕. I definitely relate to your sentiments about co sleeping. I’m still nursing our youngest on demand (14 months), and all of our children were the same way and it worked for us. ❤ Most of all, it was natural for mama and baby 🥰. You look great sis, and baby Honor is too cute!🥰💛🌻

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney22 күн бұрын

    Hello Angel! Aw thanks so much for watching! I'm glad the family bed works for you, it's such a natural good feeling 🥰 I love your channel, keep up the good work sharing God's ways! 😘

  • @HabitsofaHomemaker
    @HabitsofaHomemaker22 күн бұрын

    @@TheHelpmeetJourney Aww, thank you so much my beautiful sister! That’s so sweet of you! I appreciate your encouragement and support. 🥰 I love your channel too! 🤗 May God continue to bless you and your family!❤️

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney23 күн бұрын

    There are a ton more lessons and topics to discuss, of course, I wish I could discuss everything! 🥰 If you'd like to join in the discussion, drop a comment below! 👇

  • @marineb9666
    @marineb966624 күн бұрын

    Thank you for your supportive videos on this topic! I've been slowly transitioning to wearing mostly dresses for about 4 years now. It's hard to find dresses that fit me, as I'm 5 foot tall, so I've started to learn sewing on my own, but that's so hard 😅 I believe the quarantine back in 2020 provoked huge changes when it comes to clothes. I had two summer dresses at the time, and I wore these during all summer. Literally nothing else. I've never felt so good. I can't keep doing that with my job (you know, you can't wear only two outfits for months, plus sometimes I have to wear formal trousers), but I have the feeling that it is becoming more and more exhausting to match a top and a bottom each day. A dress is already an outfit. You take it, you wear it, you hang it (you don't even need to fold it!). I'm not really a Christian, but I have similar values and I would like to implement some christian things into my life, if it makes sense. But it seems hard in today's society.

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney24 күн бұрын

    How wonderful! Instilling more Christian values would be so beneficial! Thanks for sharing your journey! 😊

  • @mrjunk7315
    @mrjunk731529 күн бұрын

    I had my miomectomy yesterday, they removed a 5 cms fibroid. The pain is minimal, I was able to walk the same day. I was able to get out of bed by pushing myself against a shelf next to my bed. My prescriptions were Gabepentin 300 mg, Oxicodone 5 mg, ibuprufen 500 mg cocusade sodium 50 mg, simethicone 250. The last two are a stool softener and gas reliever.

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourney29 күн бұрын

    I hope you have a speedy, healthy recovery! 🙏 Thanks for sharing 😊

  • @Anita-wx8xm
    @Anita-wx8xm14 күн бұрын

    I also will have Myomectomy surgery on the 19th. I have multiple fibroids, few of them are 9cm

  • @mrjunk7315
    @mrjunk731529 күн бұрын

    I had my miomectomy yesterday, they removed a 5 cms fibroid. The pain is minimal, I was able to walk the same day. I was able to get out of bed by pushing myself against a shelf next to my bed. My prescriptions were Gabepentin 300 mg, Oxicodone 5 mg, ibuprufen 500 mg cocusade sodium 50 mg, simethicone 250. The last two are a stool softener and gas reliever.

  • @beccaoboh3736
    @beccaoboh3736Ай бұрын

    I had my surgery 3 weeks ago but mines quite different though cause I had myomectomy, cystectomy and appendicitis removal done at the same time... it hasn't been easy but I can move around now and my appetite is back. Passing out gas and peeing was a struggle. I still feel pains here and there but its bearable But I don't know if its normal for my stomach area to be hard instead of soft

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourneyАй бұрын

    That's quite a surgery! I hope you heal quickly and healthily! 🙏

  • @beccaoboh3736
    @beccaoboh3736Ай бұрын

    @@TheHelpmeetJourney thank you and God bless you

  • @robertmoulds160
    @robertmoulds160Ай бұрын

    One way to get dresses is exchange them I have a neighbour I give her my pants and she gave some dresses. She feels empowered in pants while I find its natural to wear dresses we go out together playing pool and dancing.

  • @ManishaYadav-yf9zc
    @ManishaYadav-yf9zcАй бұрын

    When i will get my first period after myomectomy...it is already 2 months ..but did not happen my first period...

  • @piscesmoongoddess2020
    @piscesmoongoddess2020Ай бұрын

    Let’s be real. You only changed your vintage ways cause of your husband. God had nothing to do with your decision… we have free will hunni. STOP RUNNING TO THE BIBLE and trying to make sense of what you got going on. 😮‍💨

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourneyАй бұрын

    I'm no longer interested in vintage ways. I outgrew the trend as I got older. I asked my husband to help with the video. Correct, it's my "free will" to let go of trends as well. Thanks for watching!

  • @avguru9796
    @avguru9796Ай бұрын

    ❤❤❤

  • @ilijanaana4617
    @ilijanaana4617Ай бұрын

    I was able to get rid of my multiple fibroid totally without any surgery.all thanks to dr.ebedia natural herbs.i recommend you all to.#drebedia ++++++++

  • @blessedbythebest1003
    @blessedbythebest1003Ай бұрын

    I’m having two periods a month. Every two weeks.

  • @katie405
    @katie405Ай бұрын

    Can you do a video on dressing more modestly. I see other videos critiquing Christian women dressing wrong but it seems confusing what is OK and what is not.

  • @TheHelpmeetJourney
    @TheHelpmeetJourneyАй бұрын

    Yes, that's a good idea! Thanks! 😊

  • @katie405
    @katie405Ай бұрын

    Thank you Ann ❤️

  • @smp6441
    @smp6441Ай бұрын

    Dresses and skirts only for 5 years and love it

  • @ArtaxFalkor
    @ArtaxFalkorАй бұрын

    My daughter just informed me that the medication I bought for her from Dr Aluda on KZread worked that her multiple fibroids has be shrunk and I am so happy for her and I am thankful to Dr Aluda for his help..

  • @AvaHarper-pn5xp
    @AvaHarper-pn5xpАй бұрын

    Wow thanks, no matter if you’re 40 or whatever, after reading Dobbie Nerkstrol's guide, I ended up pleasantly surprised. Within 60 days anyone can get pregnant, feeling the changes in your body the first few weeks. After go’ogling her I understood it's not a miracle kind of thing like the title suggests, but you can bet you'll boost your chances.