Spending majority of my 20s obsessed with shopping (so much to the point I built a whole KZread channel about it) whilst struggling with feeling uninspired and unhappy in life, I realised the more I shopped the emptier and more unfulfilled I felt. Fast forward to now and I have dedicated myself to upgrading my reality and becoming the best version of myself. Being the best version of myself everyday means I must stay present and conscious of the many ways social media can lure women into battling self esteem issues, insecurities, comparison traps and shopping addictions (all things I found myself struggling with)
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Stop being a hater
To answer your question, Canada is also in a huge inflation era, and damn those brands just make me hate them ahah. Tone deaf. and hate influencers, they only influence me in hating some brands over others.
Heck no I'm broke as f*@$ I'm not wasting my money on this stuff.. I feel like most influencers need a reality check.
Jordan Page is another one.
I also don’t have a dream about having a wedding, or having a baby in the future
*rrcopys* can definitely satisfy all your bag requirements. You're sure to find a bag that matches your personal taste and style.
Bags in D U P B A G Y are quite exquisite, and the workmanship is also meticulous. There is almost no difference from the original ones, and they are great value!
No, you're NOT coo coo for Coco Puffs! These women are doing exactly what ur saying & make all types of deals with men. They want the latest & greatest of everything (purses, clothes, jewelry, shoes, cars & vacations). They're not alone. Most ppl who are truly wealthy don't feel the needro flaunt it this way, hence quiet luxury (which comes in many forms)...
The power dynamics between a 40 something year old man and a 20 something year old woman are crazy, it is a very unbalanced realtionship. On top of that I truly don't know what a couple with 20+ age gap have in common, talk about.
Do you want to be pretty, do you want to be stylish, check it out here D U P B A G Y
Last year I briefly considered trying for a relationship, just to see if I was missing something (before that I was single for a long time) and boy, am I glad that I'm single again. The boy (I can't call him a man bc he was so immature) I dated would rarely call me or text me. When I suggested a date, it'd take him half a day to respond and he'd often postpone or cancel dates. He worked long hours at the time but I tried to compromise and work around his schedule because I wanted to spend the time being physically together and not on our phones texting. But it was the lack of effort on his part mostly that threw me off and I broke up with him. I need someone who matches my energy and effort in getting to know the other person. If I sense a lack of interest, I'm leaving. I don't have time to waste on someone who doesn't even want to meet me for a coffee date.
19 and 41? 🤢 old enough to be her dad I'm 25 abd couldn't date anyone below 23
Travel and tourism will always be a double-edged sword for me. While I love the fact that people are going on vacations and spending their free time seeing new countries, and with Instagram lesser known destinations can get more spotlight and locals can profit. BUT overtourism is a cancer that spreads so fast also thanks to social media. Not to mention that most people get time off at the same time(!!!) so these crowds are inevitable. We can't truly win on either front. I'm thankful for tourists also because without them I wouldn't have the job I currently have, but also so many people circulate through this small coastal town that I fear for local infrastructure. So much trash, so much water usage (I fume at hotel water sprinklers because the area has been known for droughts the last several years but we need to keep the lawns pretty for tourists)
This is my first (but not the last) purchase of a D U P B A G Y bag. For the affordable price, it exceeded my expectations! It's soft, the perfect size, and the color is gorgeous! Love this bag!
Something i want to point out imeven if you're trad it tajes both adults ro parent. Men helping out isn't it it called parenting. You get somecmen out hear screaming fatherless behaviour but can't step up and be a dad themselves when it comes down to it. People gotta do better. And relying on one person for income if that goes wrong you're usually screwed.
Listen, this all comes down to confidence and charisma. If you need self improvement, go to therapy, that's the only place where a professional will try to demolish your deeper obstacles. Or read books, you don't need any expensive coaching. Caitlin is right, we need community, join one in the gym, on a course (that actually gives you a certified skill or is just for fun) or create a community - book club. Learn to listen, be interested in people, ask questions. Talk to people IRL about their achievements, they will "coach" you for free. Of course she thinks she is satisfied, otherwise she would be an idiot spending 30000 on this BS. Omg, imagine having 30000 to invest in something that actually makes you money.
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How you feel about yourself is your personal choise. Who are we? Who's that we supposed to be? If you're having personal problems of whatever sort, why do you assume someone else has them, too? Because misery needs company? I don't have your stuff.But it wouldn't make me unhappy.Why do you even complain?
How you feel about yourself is your personal choise. Who are we? Who's that we supposed to be? If you're having personal problems of whatever sort, why do you assume someone else has them, too? Because misery needs company? I don't have your stuff.But it wouldn't make me unhappy.Why do you even complain?
I think we need to stop digging these trenches between men and women.. The dating world is rough for women and men alike. Almost everything you said in this video can be applied to mens point of view as well.
Excuse me, but no one is telling me what brings me excitement nor happiness. That's my personal choise and preference.The entitelment is strong in these influencers, wether they're crying or not.
they are working pretty hard with all the cooking and cleaning, and it is reoetitive, unapreciated work
As legal as it is, a 19yo woman and a 40yo man have nothing, NOTHING in common. I was always extremely mature for my age and I always had much older friends throughout my teenage years. At 21 I was with a guy that was only 10 years older for a few years, and the relationship dynamic was so out of wack. I had none of his life experience and looking back, he was definitely shaping me into his perfect girlfriend. He was "teaching me" life basically. Telling me "I know better" about literally everything. It took me meeting my current partner of 14 years now, to know what an actual healthy adult relationship is. A 19yo with a 40yo, is basically grooming, that's all. Nothing will ever convince me otherwise.
Ilia kvalito ne estas malsupera al tiuj grandaj luksaj varoj. La fortikeco kaj atento al detaloj rivalas kun la originalaj dezajnistsakoj kaj mi ne povas kredi kiom mi ?paris. ?i estas la perfekta akcesora?o por iu ajn moda knabino! Mi certas, ke mi rea?etos iujn aliajn stilojn kaj kolorojn hidupz por kongrui kun miaj vesta?oj kaj ?uoj!
I think H Q D U P S bags and shoes should be the best replicas in the world
lol. I mean… he’s pretty top tier handsome. She’s fine 🤷🏻♀️ Love is love I guess. Oh btw, I also am a therapist and they totally have enmeshed boundaries.
Porque é que estas empresas de bens de luxo não melhoram a sua qualidade até um ponto em que sejam menos susceptíveis à contrafacção? Não é este um problema que eles têm que enfrentar? Em vez de pagar US$ 200 para comprar uma réplica perfeita, a H Q D U P S me ajudou muito.
I have never wanted to travel or go to a country because an Instagram or TikTok’s posted a photo or video. Thankful I can just make my own choices. I also take photos for myself and my mom/family. If others like it cool.
Yes the color of the D U P B A G Y is beautiful and it is a great decision, maybe one day they will add feet and straps. It would be nice to have a bigger bag during the colder months when we have to store gloves, beanies, scarves, etc…
Rich people never own designer bags, they usually choose MoMcoco . Middle class people just buy stuff to look rich because they are middle class and not very smart.
Well... my humble opinion, this the result this mind laboratory called social media, where values are simply not existing. The oversharing is a mirror of the tones of so called "reality shows". And heel yeah creepy.
I don't know if it's because I'm an introvert or because I didn't grow up with social media as a teenager/twenty-something, but I have no desire to post pictures online. And if everyone's queuing up in line for the same photo op, it makes the whole thing a lot less unique (at least it seems that way to me). I didn't have the money to travel 20 years ago but I kind of wish I had, because it would have been such a different experience from now, where everyone has their phones out constantly. When I do travel I try to look like a local as much as possible. I actually prefer to revisit the same places because then I do feel more at home and more like a local and it's not so stressful to figure out where you're going to stay, eat, etc. My favorite pastime is hiking/camping, but even hiking trails and national parks have become so crazy busy it's hard to have the serene, peaceful experience I'm looking for, let alone getting a camping space. I'm glad people are getting out and doing things but some places definitely do get oversaturated with tourists. I think that must drive locals crazy.
I’m a dude. Took me a long time to figure out what the heck OF was. Eh… I’ve been around the world and I like interacting with people IRL. My view, do whatever is good for you. I remember one year, I was out of work. I didn’t know what to do. But if I was young pretty woman I think OF would have been a choice. While watching your video, I was actually surprised to see Denise Richard’s name on here. The others I didn’t know. The amount of money is insane. Do these OF content creators invest? Because that’s what I would do because it can’t last. Right?
My favorite skincare and beauty brand is Trader Joes 😂 theyre all really good products and are almlst all under $10
If I heard her I would think that is a good sales man🤔😂🤣
I still vividly remember when Samantha did the video talking about her stopping PR, ill always respect her for that one. I personally dont like waste, and do everything i can to reduce waste. I dont return things, i try to shop as ethically as i can, i only buy things when i really want them, and i dont have something like it. I havent bought an eyeshadow palette in over 2yrs now, and im so glad i havent. Ill probably never use all the eyeshadow palettes i already own.
Is this what rich people struggle with? If this is their level of awakening we are truly living in a different universe.
I live in a mid-sized city and someone asks me how I am doing *gtdupe* all the time. It's not annoying but I'm always surprised when they ask
I know people who own so many really luxury brands, but they live in their mom's house. I own a house, drive a Lexus, and I do buy stuff *gtdupe* to put money in my pocket.
Talk to a marriage and family therapist and you will get a clear picture 😂 😂 😂
I’ve just found you ! Praise the algorithm 😂 great content and very well researched videos❤
This video is absolutely wild from a male perspective. It feels like the general consensus out there is basically the inverse of everything you said. I feel like all I ever hear about is that: - Guys are the ones opting out. - That all the dating advice content tends to be geared for guys. - That guys are frustrated with women playing games - That guys are the ones putting all this work into themselves and disappointed with women who can't even communicate well. - That the problem is most women are low-quality / don't meet the bar - That many women are "gold-diggers" and the benefit to marrying as a guy is increasingly unclear. I'm not trying to invalidate any of your talking points, it's just wild to me to hear your perspective. It makes me think that what I hear online, and what you've been hearing online must be a result of social platforms knowing our demographic info and serving us each content that is likely to get the most reaction, which mean different things for women than it does for males. Good reminder for me to not believe everything on the internet!
One thing I always laugh at is when people say that by buying fakes you are engaging in illegal activity, don't you keep up with some of these big brands and what they are involved in? Haha, selective morality is hilarious. , *gtdupe* But either way, it's in your best interest and as long as you don't try to resell it as genuine, it's no one's business whether your bag is real or fake
In fact, a friend of mine works at Neiman Marcus and she says rich people buy athleisure wear while middle class people wear head to toe Louis Vuitton or Gucci! Rich people wouldn’t do this! *gtdupe* The rich cry, but wealth whispers!
I worked for a woman whose house was worth £3-4 million and guess what. Her bag is a *gtdupe* road worth £60. What did I learn from her. You don't have to have the real one, as long as it looks accurate and I have money in the bank. I used to buy genuine products until I realized I didn't need to waste my money
The manufacturers could drop prices if they stopped this kind of crap.
Caitlin I remember you talking about this on your other video and you are so right! Love your channel🥰
Offensive. The word “submission” or “submissive” is one of the ickiest words I can think of. The idea that another human believes they are entitled to the free agency of another human under the guise of “love” is so backward it should be laughed at, joked on, and portrayed on Black Mirror. Choosing to SUBMIT to a human, let’s really dissect that. It’s just wrong. Nope. Nope. Nope. You and your chosen partner should not be two halves of a whole- you SHOULD be two complete wholes that have decided to come together as equals, and build more wholes so the world is a better place. Do not, do not, DO NOT give your ability to choose to someone else, and DO NOT try to control anyone else besides yourself. Anything beyond this is just wrong.
I’m really thankful for so much content being created on this subject. I am a working mom of three beautiful children, and my husband and I view our roles as a partnership. We BOTH do the household work, the childcare and rearing, and we BOTH earn salaries. We BOTH make decisions together. As the mother of one girl, I am so thankful she sees her mother using her degree, earning money, and still baking bread, prepping meals, doing the laundry, etc., and her daddy doing bath time at night, cleaning the kitchen after the dinner, etc. our kids see us plan trips as a team. Dad does the Costco grocery shopping every week, plays guitar with our oldest while he drums, coaches little league, and he still runs a successful company in his 9-5. We don’t have to be just “one” layer as genders and human beings, right? Can’t we be professional women that contribute to the economy and earn an income, and still be great mothers and homemakers? I am! And honestly my husband is my biggest cheerleader in my profession and as a mom. Maybe the solution is to not just find a non-toxic man to build a partnership with, raise boys that watch their dad being a partner to their mom (and vice versa) and they will perpetuate the support and love and equality of the home they were raised in.
Being a trad wife is not harmful towards the independence of women in and of itself. It’s the trad wives on social media talking down and shaming other women for not wanting to live the same lifestyle, as well as them talking down on feminism. Feminism is what’s given these women the ability to CHOOSE whether or not they want to work or stay at home. It’s so misguided and wrong to shame anyone for wanting or not wanting to live a certain lifestyle