I’ve been in two abusive relationships. The first was a boyfriend in HS. He only hit me once. The 2nd was in college. He tried to choke me & I went ham and almost got arrested for beating on him. WTF.
@user-dn5bi4si5wКүн бұрын
They sure make them big in PA. It must be all those Philly steak and cheese subs.
@teresasanchezvalle84472 күн бұрын
The community can and does not have anything to do. A woman knowingly gets involved with a violent man, has a child with him and... history repeats itself in an eternal recurrence.
@christopherbako2 күн бұрын
Never forget Andrew Basiago
@danacordice9323 күн бұрын
Well done. Ty.
@ageeibc60293 күн бұрын
Beware 1, Narsissistic marriage in ever 3 couples today. Control is their sign.
@auntbeberbly3 күн бұрын
I do not understand why CYS wasn’t called for the kids or when he fired gun in moving car with the children in the car- that’s child endangerment!!! The judges & police need to have mandatory training on domestic violence!! Amy is not the only victim here… each & every one of us! How do any of us feel safe? My God the first judge that gave him time served after violating PFA . That judge could have changed this from the beginning with appropriate accountability!
@stephaniesanchez6673 күн бұрын
Just look at comments on social media! Many actually still ask "Why did you take so long to tell?" "You just want a min of fame/a payday..." -- they DO NOT get that control is real and bc of their mommy issues, kids like Amy's don't have a mommy.
@jhonwask3 күн бұрын
I was there in 2000. A friend and I walked across it and back. It was truly an engineering feat. What an amazing view. Sad it was destroyed. Why can't they just rebuild it?
@SurvivorOfChildhoodTrauma4 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry for this poor woman, what she went through... it's so tragic. And, these stories need to be told, to help others out there going through these things, so they can get out, they can see what their future holds.... Sadly... If they stay! I wish my story could be heard. But over the last 2 years of contacting every organization I could possibly think of, and researched... Including reaching out to Mariska, I've just been shown time and again... My story, my voice, my survival... isn't important. After being ignored, gaslit and lied to for years, I've now given up ever having the ability to share the nightmare I survived, from just the innocent age of 2, the story of the amazingly smart, strong and brave child that survived what my therapist referrers to as "absolute living hell" and "a war for survival that no child should ever have to endure, and no adult would be able to handle" doesn't matter, and she'll remain trapped in silence forever. Yeah, I have a KZread channel where I hope to share my story and help other abuse victims and survivors... But, most of my subscribers are there for my "shorts" which are less than a minute quotes from other people. No one is there for the real purpose, which was to finally get to share my story, be heard AND help others... sadly. Not that it matters, but if anyone cares, the beginning of my story is in my playlist, under "My True Story" ... I stopped telling it after 3, maybe 4 videos, because no one is interested in anything over a minute long, or maybe that's just my misfortune. My story can't be told in a "short" video of a minute or less, there's years of horrific and detailed trauma, but it's just what it is. I know I'm invisible.... I know, I'll never be heard... But, I'm still fighting for the right to be heard, for the strong little girl that fought daily to survive, that still suffers inside me, to get to share her story of amazing survival.... I can't let her down, like every other person in our life has ... I know this will probably be deleted and no one will even see this. Especially not Mariska... Which would mean the world to me, if she would see me, hear me, share my voice, my story... Anyone for that matter, would make my dream come true, to allow the innocent and terrified child inside me, get to share her story of how she not only survived, but also outsmarted her abusers, to stay alive and how now, she made it so I'm here today, although all I'm doing is letting her down, because I can't find someone to care... I know I said that above too, but it's so critically important to me... to her. But, if you happen to go check out my true story in my playlist, please leave me a message, so I know SOMEONE cared enough to hear me... I really wish I could help others, and be heard too. I really wish I mattered. I honestly don't. I know this. It's been proven to me, my whole meaningless life. Be blessed everyone. ❤
@unravel20535 күн бұрын
I was so lucky, a close friend and family member LISTENED, they never once told me to leave, as I told them not to tell me that, just to listen and they did. They allowed me to take my time BUT I was so lucky that someone reported him to police. I was so conflicted to the point of wanting to unlive myself. The police arrested him based on one piece of evidence i gave. I had a go at the police officer believe it or not, within an hour I got a lightning bolt of clarity, NOW, go now. I then thanked the police when they called me next. 6 people potentially saved my life
@alisonkotze97235 күн бұрын
Wow!!! Dect. Deirdri does a phenomenal job at telling Amy's story....
@diannegrizzle29275 күн бұрын
😢😢 hope women try to get help
@alexandracyr56475 күн бұрын
So many people have stories, I remember after one violent night, him being transported to the police station and me at his mother's home. We stayed up all night discussing how he needed to be held, if not at a police station-be held in a mentally ill ward. Sitting in the morning light of his mother's kitchen she noticed that all over my face were not just the new bruises but old yellow and greenish bruising. She was horrified and was on board having him held. Yet by the end of that day she had changed her tune and felt she could not allow her boy to be held. This is what the 1980's were like.
@alexandracyr56475 күн бұрын
Wow keep up the good work. Thank you for being our voices.
@carolynkline33126 күн бұрын
These are versions that I have never heard of! I always heard it was a carriage ride that went over Wopsy. Interesting!
@chipmunkhunt6 күн бұрын
Survived not being radiated on by TMI, but got radiated on by Chernobyl in 1986 while stationed in West Berln, Germany. All the hunting camps in north central PA were full from people leaving the TMI area.
@bradsanders4075 күн бұрын
Well id say you survived that as well since it was nearly 40 years ago.
@annikin836 күн бұрын
I would really love to listen to this entire story but I feel like I'm being shouted at 😢
@newbeginnings20567 күн бұрын
This documentary is about Amy R.I.P & domestic abuse. IF / BEFORE people comment on this post - this is JUST A QUESTION. VIOLENCE DOES NOT solve anything. Regarding the man who slammed his partner's head into the dresser so she listens to him & doesn't answer back - would he feel different about it if it was his head?. As he said "there are no consequences for his actions". As stated by the hosts men are abused as well but not as much as women. But men don't speak out about the issue as much due to pride as it would have never happened in the past. And there are fewer services & shelters for men. It was a good documentary for people in general like yhe co-workers who knew what was happening but didn't know how to help. Children who suffer abuse (& sometimes feel its their fault) because they don't know any different often end up been abusive themselves. What the husband got away with is beyond belief. Despite his history - he even got his guns back. To Amy's family, friends & co-workers who made this tribute & documentary - thank you - it must have been so hard. Hopefully it will help one person somewhere in the world today. In our country thankfully the law about abuse within a marriage has been recognised & cases are going to court. R.I.P. Amy. 🙏🕯️to everyone suffering abuse.
@therealmorningstarkeke68427 күн бұрын
This is gonna sound stupid but the statistics regarding homicide involving corollary victims are 20%,37%, and higher. Depending on where you are, every country sees abuse and their victims differently. It's disturbing. But, would I interfere? Involving children? Yes. 100%. 2 adults, the victim being one? No. I can't fight a man or the woman who may stick up for him, with words. The only way I could interfere is with a call to police. This story tells you how this turns out. But I would try my best until that victim knew someone thought she mattered. I was a abuse victim with 3 children. I would tell bystanders to, go please, because he would attack them and then me. He stabbed a man, who survived, and it was thrown out. It was thrown out because of the letter I wrote. Now, that I'm strong and free, I regret the what ifs. What if I didn't listen to his threats and walked out without writing that letter? What if I had left my sons behind because he wouldn't let me have them until I wrote that letter? All you can do is listen. And act. Have a safe exit. And never ever go back for your stuff or your kids stuff alone. I had a counselor who was like a pit bull who wouldn't let go until I had backup. I had her and a cop... the cop was too weary. He didn't go up with us. My safe exit was made the day of and people I barely knew had my back. I hope this helps, even if it's a tad rough around the edges. Maybe one day I'll upload the full story.
@Tomtaylor73377 күн бұрын
29:52 this lady is trying way too hard 😂 I don’t like her at all …. She thinks this is a acting gig 😂
@Tomtaylor73377 күн бұрын
It’s very obvious she didn’t want any help , how can you drop his charges ? And go back ? I don’t want to be mean but she was asking for it bc she dropped the charges …. She knew what he was capable of…..
@777ALCHEMY7 күн бұрын
My oldest boys remember me being abused, crying. They are very protective now that they’re older. I remember wondering why no one believed me. I had black eyes, I was bruised everywhere. 10 years later, many people came out to say he told people I was “abusing him in many ways. That’s why I didn’t like going around others” I finally told my story. It had a lot of support, and I didn’t realize I was experiencing CPTSD since I was 15. I’m 33 this year. I have yet to find peace with myself or anyone else.
@lydiawaffleman14977 күн бұрын
Parents, friends need to be more pro active and push the abused into seeking harsher decisions. Show them actual statistics of other cases.
@lydiawaffleman14977 күн бұрын
Abusers are selfish ,self centered cowards they do not have the capability to love anyone other than themselves.
@lydiawaffleman14977 күн бұрын
If I didn't stay in the situation then I wouldn't have gotten abused. I didn't realize my ex had been telling his family I was the abusive one till I over heard him telling his dad. He attacked his own mother and I tried to pull him off her. Through all the lies and abuse I finally left. He ended up over dosing later on.
@Adamaeus887 күн бұрын
In 2010 people reported graffiti to the city. 14 years later and used syringes litter the sidewalks.
@supervidere78 күн бұрын
Mariska Hargitay,, what an amazing woman/actress.
@lisao69288 күн бұрын
Why didn't her parents go in with her?!!! Not their fault, but hell no! Also, there need to be stricter laws on dv. You beat up your significant other, automatic jail time and enough for the person to get away. They need to be able to move and change their identity too.
@kweenzwalters39168 күн бұрын
Those poor kids loosing their mother like that😢
@Crimeculture8 күн бұрын
Employer should have been fired Amy. Employees shouldn’t have to deal with that.
@FmlyRat8 күн бұрын
I'd like to share my experience with child abuse and sexual abuse. As a 2 year old, my father's sister was living with our family. My Adult Aunt would take on the duties of bathing my older sisters, me and younger brother . After our baths my Aunt would perform sexual acts acts on us. It wasn't until my mid 50's that my sister and I were sharing our childhood that I remembered a deep seeded memory of the abuse of my Aunt and how badly the physical pain I was experiencing at that age. Also when I was in High School, I noticed how sexually aggressive most of the girls were. I was shy and found it difficult to be social. After high school, I married my sweetheart whom I was so in love with. After 3 years of marriage, I discovered my spouse was having affairs. I put up with this for 7 year. After being married for just over 11 years, I agreed to a divorce. We had 2 children. The oldest was born 10 months after our marriage. My Son was born 7 years later. I was the Husband of this marriage. At the time my wife got pregnant with my son, while she was having a 7 year affair with my best friend. To this day I don't knoe if he's gentically mine. I sought divorce from my wife in 1980. I've dated many women over the years since 1980. Everyone of them have extra men on the side. I know a large amount of married couples and the wife's have had affairs or are actively involved in affairs. I don't say anything to the couples because I don't want to be the bad guy. It's sad that the public only hears and accepts Men as the nonloyal side of a relationship. Just a MAN'S life experience.
@buffyking58808 күн бұрын
A close family member of mine works for the hotline. The member took psychology classes and the college arranged this job for the member. The member has commented in my presence while laughing; “ noone will believe I am the abuser when I work for an abuse hotline “. It seems to me that “ mentally aggressive “ people are choosing fields like; psychology, animal care, law enforcement, and counseling etc, to help them stay off the radar. We have to be extremely careful now as to whom we confide in. If you call a hotline and a college kid or graduate answers that secretly approves of abuse they are going to make things worse. We need seasoned people with thorough background checks on the abuse hotline, suicide hotline, and veteran hotline. Get references from family members, neighbors, and or peers.
@taherehvahid-olivier45458 күн бұрын
😢😢😢😢😢😢
@masonsteele62489 күн бұрын
my favorite spot
@SmartMoneyBro9 күн бұрын
Why is there a disparity between middle-class blacks and middle-class whites even present when the distinguishment is not race but instead is socioeconomic status / class?
@dreamcrone9 күн бұрын
18 years, so glad it’s behind me!
@BlastinRope10 күн бұрын
whoa he just creampied that pumpkin flower
@user-ki1ey2te7l10 күн бұрын
so they needed proof that amy was in immediate danger to get her a police escort to pick up the babies' stuff at her house?........how would anyone prove he would kill her?
@spaceengineer145211 күн бұрын
Interesting, respectful interview/ interviewer.
@jacklynmankowski11 күн бұрын
Why does everyone tell their stories in the chat😥 Why don't y'all speak your voice on camera? Why hide in chat? I don't understand...your story live is more of an inspiration. 😥 Chat is not therapy
@Flick2469911 күн бұрын
Future pediatric neurosurgeon here! Thank you for inspiring me Dr. Carson😊🎉💯
@cindypozen659511 күн бұрын
Choose the bear.
@teresamyers819512 күн бұрын
I worked with a woman who was killed with her unborn child and protecting her 8 yr old son who was underneath his mom and perished instantly. I’m still haunted from the memories of her not coming to work that day and all the chaos that took place. He killed himself after he killed her.
@psychopomp88812 күн бұрын
In here Mariska asked a very important question "Why does the abuser abuse?" .A book that helped me ,an saved my sanity is Why does He do that by Lundy Bancroft I recieved it when I finally had enough of my abuse ,an listen to my VA Rep to go to my local Victims center ,an I still have my case opened just in case. I think alot of us think the dust is settled when our abuser to our knowledge not around but they are because Control is a worse addiction than Alcohol, an Drugs
@mariacafetherapy13 күн бұрын
When I was in a dv situation, 2 times I tried the police & once left w ems & those 3 times those “1st responders ” listened to him & shared info w him so when I had to go back home , he was waiting & had been stewing on what they told him I said. A lot of 1st responders need more training. I will never forget how they failed me & made things so much worse.
@helenbuford903013 күн бұрын
I will not vote for President Biden he stated on the news live months ago that he will not help African-Americans economically and that blacks will have to get help with economics or financially from the Mexicans. Quote he stated stated you all have to deal with the Mexicans
@mrsplashventures13 күн бұрын
Irritating background music
@Tattooedperson2314 күн бұрын
🙏
@Pluralofvinylisvinyls14 күн бұрын
The only domestic violence I’ve experienced is from women hitting me
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I’ve been in two abusive relationships. The first was a boyfriend in HS. He only hit me once. The 2nd was in college. He tried to choke me & I went ham and almost got arrested for beating on him. WTF.
They sure make them big in PA. It must be all those Philly steak and cheese subs.
The community can and does not have anything to do. A woman knowingly gets involved with a violent man, has a child with him and... history repeats itself in an eternal recurrence.
Never forget Andrew Basiago
Well done. Ty.
Beware 1, Narsissistic marriage in ever 3 couples today. Control is their sign.
I do not understand why CYS wasn’t called for the kids or when he fired gun in moving car with the children in the car- that’s child endangerment!!! The judges & police need to have mandatory training on domestic violence!! Amy is not the only victim here… each & every one of us! How do any of us feel safe? My God the first judge that gave him time served after violating PFA . That judge could have changed this from the beginning with appropriate accountability!
Just look at comments on social media! Many actually still ask "Why did you take so long to tell?" "You just want a min of fame/a payday..." -- they DO NOT get that control is real and bc of their mommy issues, kids like Amy's don't have a mommy.
I was there in 2000. A friend and I walked across it and back. It was truly an engineering feat. What an amazing view. Sad it was destroyed. Why can't they just rebuild it?
I'm so sorry for this poor woman, what she went through... it's so tragic. And, these stories need to be told, to help others out there going through these things, so they can get out, they can see what their future holds.... Sadly... If they stay! I wish my story could be heard. But over the last 2 years of contacting every organization I could possibly think of, and researched... Including reaching out to Mariska, I've just been shown time and again... My story, my voice, my survival... isn't important. After being ignored, gaslit and lied to for years, I've now given up ever having the ability to share the nightmare I survived, from just the innocent age of 2, the story of the amazingly smart, strong and brave child that survived what my therapist referrers to as "absolute living hell" and "a war for survival that no child should ever have to endure, and no adult would be able to handle" doesn't matter, and she'll remain trapped in silence forever. Yeah, I have a KZread channel where I hope to share my story and help other abuse victims and survivors... But, most of my subscribers are there for my "shorts" which are less than a minute quotes from other people. No one is there for the real purpose, which was to finally get to share my story, be heard AND help others... sadly. Not that it matters, but if anyone cares, the beginning of my story is in my playlist, under "My True Story" ... I stopped telling it after 3, maybe 4 videos, because no one is interested in anything over a minute long, or maybe that's just my misfortune. My story can't be told in a "short" video of a minute or less, there's years of horrific and detailed trauma, but it's just what it is. I know I'm invisible.... I know, I'll never be heard... But, I'm still fighting for the right to be heard, for the strong little girl that fought daily to survive, that still suffers inside me, to get to share her story of amazing survival.... I can't let her down, like every other person in our life has ... I know this will probably be deleted and no one will even see this. Especially not Mariska... Which would mean the world to me, if she would see me, hear me, share my voice, my story... Anyone for that matter, would make my dream come true, to allow the innocent and terrified child inside me, get to share her story of how she not only survived, but also outsmarted her abusers, to stay alive and how now, she made it so I'm here today, although all I'm doing is letting her down, because I can't find someone to care... I know I said that above too, but it's so critically important to me... to her. But, if you happen to go check out my true story in my playlist, please leave me a message, so I know SOMEONE cared enough to hear me... I really wish I could help others, and be heard too. I really wish I mattered. I honestly don't. I know this. It's been proven to me, my whole meaningless life. Be blessed everyone. ❤
I was so lucky, a close friend and family member LISTENED, they never once told me to leave, as I told them not to tell me that, just to listen and they did. They allowed me to take my time BUT I was so lucky that someone reported him to police. I was so conflicted to the point of wanting to unlive myself. The police arrested him based on one piece of evidence i gave. I had a go at the police officer believe it or not, within an hour I got a lightning bolt of clarity, NOW, go now. I then thanked the police when they called me next. 6 people potentially saved my life
Wow!!! Dect. Deirdri does a phenomenal job at telling Amy's story....
😢😢 hope women try to get help
So many people have stories, I remember after one violent night, him being transported to the police station and me at his mother's home. We stayed up all night discussing how he needed to be held, if not at a police station-be held in a mentally ill ward. Sitting in the morning light of his mother's kitchen she noticed that all over my face were not just the new bruises but old yellow and greenish bruising. She was horrified and was on board having him held. Yet by the end of that day she had changed her tune and felt she could not allow her boy to be held. This is what the 1980's were like.
Wow keep up the good work. Thank you for being our voices.
These are versions that I have never heard of! I always heard it was a carriage ride that went over Wopsy. Interesting!
Survived not being radiated on by TMI, but got radiated on by Chernobyl in 1986 while stationed in West Berln, Germany. All the hunting camps in north central PA were full from people leaving the TMI area.
Well id say you survived that as well since it was nearly 40 years ago.
I would really love to listen to this entire story but I feel like I'm being shouted at 😢
This documentary is about Amy R.I.P & domestic abuse. IF / BEFORE people comment on this post - this is JUST A QUESTION. VIOLENCE DOES NOT solve anything. Regarding the man who slammed his partner's head into the dresser so she listens to him & doesn't answer back - would he feel different about it if it was his head?. As he said "there are no consequences for his actions". As stated by the hosts men are abused as well but not as much as women. But men don't speak out about the issue as much due to pride as it would have never happened in the past. And there are fewer services & shelters for men. It was a good documentary for people in general like yhe co-workers who knew what was happening but didn't know how to help. Children who suffer abuse (& sometimes feel its their fault) because they don't know any different often end up been abusive themselves. What the husband got away with is beyond belief. Despite his history - he even got his guns back. To Amy's family, friends & co-workers who made this tribute & documentary - thank you - it must have been so hard. Hopefully it will help one person somewhere in the world today. In our country thankfully the law about abuse within a marriage has been recognised & cases are going to court. R.I.P. Amy. 🙏🕯️to everyone suffering abuse.
This is gonna sound stupid but the statistics regarding homicide involving corollary victims are 20%,37%, and higher. Depending on where you are, every country sees abuse and their victims differently. It's disturbing. But, would I interfere? Involving children? Yes. 100%. 2 adults, the victim being one? No. I can't fight a man or the woman who may stick up for him, with words. The only way I could interfere is with a call to police. This story tells you how this turns out. But I would try my best until that victim knew someone thought she mattered. I was a abuse victim with 3 children. I would tell bystanders to, go please, because he would attack them and then me. He stabbed a man, who survived, and it was thrown out. It was thrown out because of the letter I wrote. Now, that I'm strong and free, I regret the what ifs. What if I didn't listen to his threats and walked out without writing that letter? What if I had left my sons behind because he wouldn't let me have them until I wrote that letter? All you can do is listen. And act. Have a safe exit. And never ever go back for your stuff or your kids stuff alone. I had a counselor who was like a pit bull who wouldn't let go until I had backup. I had her and a cop... the cop was too weary. He didn't go up with us. My safe exit was made the day of and people I barely knew had my back. I hope this helps, even if it's a tad rough around the edges. Maybe one day I'll upload the full story.
29:52 this lady is trying way too hard 😂 I don’t like her at all …. She thinks this is a acting gig 😂
It’s very obvious she didn’t want any help , how can you drop his charges ? And go back ? I don’t want to be mean but she was asking for it bc she dropped the charges …. She knew what he was capable of…..
My oldest boys remember me being abused, crying. They are very protective now that they’re older. I remember wondering why no one believed me. I had black eyes, I was bruised everywhere. 10 years later, many people came out to say he told people I was “abusing him in many ways. That’s why I didn’t like going around others” I finally told my story. It had a lot of support, and I didn’t realize I was experiencing CPTSD since I was 15. I’m 33 this year. I have yet to find peace with myself or anyone else.
Parents, friends need to be more pro active and push the abused into seeking harsher decisions. Show them actual statistics of other cases.
Abusers are selfish ,self centered cowards they do not have the capability to love anyone other than themselves.
If I didn't stay in the situation then I wouldn't have gotten abused. I didn't realize my ex had been telling his family I was the abusive one till I over heard him telling his dad. He attacked his own mother and I tried to pull him off her. Through all the lies and abuse I finally left. He ended up over dosing later on.
In 2010 people reported graffiti to the city. 14 years later and used syringes litter the sidewalks.
Mariska Hargitay,, what an amazing woman/actress.
Why didn't her parents go in with her?!!! Not their fault, but hell no! Also, there need to be stricter laws on dv. You beat up your significant other, automatic jail time and enough for the person to get away. They need to be able to move and change their identity too.
Those poor kids loosing their mother like that😢
Employer should have been fired Amy. Employees shouldn’t have to deal with that.
I'd like to share my experience with child abuse and sexual abuse. As a 2 year old, my father's sister was living with our family. My Adult Aunt would take on the duties of bathing my older sisters, me and younger brother . After our baths my Aunt would perform sexual acts acts on us. It wasn't until my mid 50's that my sister and I were sharing our childhood that I remembered a deep seeded memory of the abuse of my Aunt and how badly the physical pain I was experiencing at that age. Also when I was in High School, I noticed how sexually aggressive most of the girls were. I was shy and found it difficult to be social. After high school, I married my sweetheart whom I was so in love with. After 3 years of marriage, I discovered my spouse was having affairs. I put up with this for 7 year. After being married for just over 11 years, I agreed to a divorce. We had 2 children. The oldest was born 10 months after our marriage. My Son was born 7 years later. I was the Husband of this marriage. At the time my wife got pregnant with my son, while she was having a 7 year affair with my best friend. To this day I don't knoe if he's gentically mine. I sought divorce from my wife in 1980. I've dated many women over the years since 1980. Everyone of them have extra men on the side. I know a large amount of married couples and the wife's have had affairs or are actively involved in affairs. I don't say anything to the couples because I don't want to be the bad guy. It's sad that the public only hears and accepts Men as the nonloyal side of a relationship. Just a MAN'S life experience.
A close family member of mine works for the hotline. The member took psychology classes and the college arranged this job for the member. The member has commented in my presence while laughing; “ noone will believe I am the abuser when I work for an abuse hotline “. It seems to me that “ mentally aggressive “ people are choosing fields like; psychology, animal care, law enforcement, and counseling etc, to help them stay off the radar. We have to be extremely careful now as to whom we confide in. If you call a hotline and a college kid or graduate answers that secretly approves of abuse they are going to make things worse. We need seasoned people with thorough background checks on the abuse hotline, suicide hotline, and veteran hotline. Get references from family members, neighbors, and or peers.
😢😢😢😢😢😢
my favorite spot
Why is there a disparity between middle-class blacks and middle-class whites even present when the distinguishment is not race but instead is socioeconomic status / class?
18 years, so glad it’s behind me!
whoa he just creampied that pumpkin flower
so they needed proof that amy was in immediate danger to get her a police escort to pick up the babies' stuff at her house?........how would anyone prove he would kill her?
Interesting, respectful interview/ interviewer.
Why does everyone tell their stories in the chat😥 Why don't y'all speak your voice on camera? Why hide in chat? I don't understand...your story live is more of an inspiration. 😥 Chat is not therapy
Future pediatric neurosurgeon here! Thank you for inspiring me Dr. Carson😊🎉💯
Choose the bear.
I worked with a woman who was killed with her unborn child and protecting her 8 yr old son who was underneath his mom and perished instantly. I’m still haunted from the memories of her not coming to work that day and all the chaos that took place. He killed himself after he killed her.
In here Mariska asked a very important question "Why does the abuser abuse?" .A book that helped me ,an saved my sanity is Why does He do that by Lundy Bancroft I recieved it when I finally had enough of my abuse ,an listen to my VA Rep to go to my local Victims center ,an I still have my case opened just in case. I think alot of us think the dust is settled when our abuser to our knowledge not around but they are because Control is a worse addiction than Alcohol, an Drugs
When I was in a dv situation, 2 times I tried the police & once left w ems & those 3 times those “1st responders ” listened to him & shared info w him so when I had to go back home , he was waiting & had been stewing on what they told him I said. A lot of 1st responders need more training. I will never forget how they failed me & made things so much worse.
I will not vote for President Biden he stated on the news live months ago that he will not help African-Americans economically and that blacks will have to get help with economics or financially from the Mexicans. Quote he stated stated you all have to deal with the Mexicans
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The only domestic violence I’ve experienced is from women hitting me